How to Stop Feeling Insecure

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  • Опубликовано: 10 сен 2024

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  • @TimKoa
    @TimKoa  2 года назад +32

    Thanks for watching! Hope you all have a really great holiday :)

    • @alohadeslynn
      @alohadeslynn 2 года назад

      I appreciate your realness. Very helpful. You are amazing. Keep sharing your wisdom.

    • @BringOnTheZombies7
      @BringOnTheZombies7 2 года назад +1

      Really enjoying your videos Tim as I attempt to embark on a new journey! I watch Ali Abdaal as well but honestly, he's just *too* damn productive and efficient lol. I find you are much closer to where I am and where I hope to see myself in a year or 2.

    • @cherylc.7905
      @cherylc.7905 Год назад

      So glad I came across your videos. You are so encouraging and awesome to listen to. Please keep the videos coming!

  • @ocelotcat
    @ocelotcat 2 года назад +50

    Here's some "judgment" for you: I think you're amazing! The first time I saw your video, I was hooked. I admired everything about you. You have one of THE BEST channels on RUclips, your presentation is perfect, your have great insights and style.... you make me feel that I can do this..... I appreciate all the hard work you share with the world..... you're my inspiration. Keep sharing your amazing talents with us, you're a gift to us all. Thank you.
    Blessings to you and yours. 💜🙏🕊️

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад +3

      Thanks for the kind comment! I appreciate you 💙

    • @maryol8852
      @maryol8852 2 года назад +1

      So nice of you to share this, ocelotcat. I agree with you. Tim is so insightful!

    • @remusyee
      @remusyee 2 года назад

      @@TimKoa i have the same judgment that you are really amazing.

    • @estherli5984
      @estherli5984 2 года назад

      I completely agree with you. 100% thank you TIM!

  • @ChristineCanClean
    @ChristineCanClean 2 года назад +34

    I stumbled upon your channel looking for Etsy videos. Your channel has been one of the best I’ve found so far, your so honest and helpful. Thanks Tim!

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching Christine :)

  • @cattelia
    @cattelia 2 года назад +3

    Wow... I have never had a video make me actually believe you were talking to ME and not the 1000 other "me"s
    Im listening!

  • @walklittlelady
    @walklittlelady 2 года назад +9

    Wow, I am a female version of you. Only difference is that I am still struggling, but have started on my journey. Its not as bad as it use to be. I enjoy your videos. It makes me happy seeing people overcome inner struggles. 😊

  • @kimnyuk66
    @kimnyuk66 2 года назад +3

    I can't imagine a person like you on RUclips, has these kind of insecure thoughts like I do. I always feel like I gotta work REALLLLY HARD to be like where everyone else is.

  • @my2946
    @my2946 2 года назад +10

    Hey Tim, can't stop binge watching your videos. you have a very nice humble positive vibe and super relatable content. Your presentation is perfect and almost feels like you are having a one to one conversation with your viewer. Wish you all the best and hope your channel keeps growing.

  • @tedsmith7991
    @tedsmith7991 2 года назад

    Feeling insecure happen in childhood, adulthood, it's non-stop. When I try something new, as I am doing now with an online shop, I feel insure and the fear of failure is present, but I still go on hoping for the best. For many years I have read about very successful people in business, sports, politics, and many other areas of life, despite showing a lot of confidence, they were very insecure inside, it's a learning process, never ending. Thanks for the videos.

  • @user-jm2gm1jo3q
    @user-jm2gm1jo3q 2 года назад +3

    Going through one the harshest two years of my life. I needed to see this so thank you for the yours words of transparency when I needed it the most. Continue your journey as it fulfills every part of you. Thank you for sharing your confidence.🙏🏽

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад +2

      Hope things turn around for you, friend!

  • @rubenantonio
    @rubenantonio Месяц назад

    Your personal growth and success on all levels is the biggest gift you have given to your parents. Bravo!

  • @mrs.quills7061
    @mrs.quills7061 Год назад

    It’s so easy to focus on the negative and what one doesn’t have, but therapy can really help change your mindset especially when you’re anxious.
    You have to trick your brain into being grateful for what you’ve accomplished and what you’ve done and even yesterday I was feeling frustrated by the stress of work and the burn out from the the holidays, but then I was like you know at least im trapped in the snow like in Buffalo, I’m not stuck at the airports for days in parts of the country and I’m not being shelled by Russia right now. I used to feel so guilty, but now it’s like oh well this stress is less significant and I’ll get over it it/it won’t be here in the future.

  • @themissionslayer
    @themissionslayer Год назад

    For me, I am naturally really observant. I pick up on the little things about other people and I can pick up in context easily. Because of this, I get caught in the trap of thinking that everyone is like that, which is not the case. I feel like people can see all my flaws and it’s uncomfortable when people compliment me. I guess I am able to show outward confidence but I completely lack it on the inside. I started journaling to help myself gain more inward confidence.

  • @eveFlower101
    @eveFlower101 2 года назад +2

    “Comparison is the thief of joy”.

  • @jadedkoi4196
    @jadedkoi4196 2 года назад +3

    I actually subscribed easily because I like your face 😭😭. But I’m watching all of your videos because I need to hear them. Thank you for sharing valuable information! I deal with the same thoughts when it comes to myself. Constant battle trying to get through it but it’s great that you didn’t let it stop you! It’s very helpful for the rest of us!!

  • @thomasfrench2012
    @thomasfrench2012 Год назад

    It is very difficult to realize how lucky one is. But it helps to look at the old time photos of children falling asleep at their desks because in addition to going to school they were also working full time, and in many case overtime, factory jobs while going to school too.

  • @wrightselections
    @wrightselections 2 года назад +2

    Thank you for posting this. I relate to so much of this. Though I'm still stuck in the "before" phase lol.
    I just found your channel a few days ago and I'm glad I did. You seem genuine and just, real. That's what many channels are lacking. ❤️

  • @lacklukester
    @lacklukester 2 года назад +2

    Hey Tim, just wanted to let you know this video got my day started on such a positive note. Been trying to overcome lots of self doubt (always) but especially lately as I’ve been wrestling with insecurities in starting my own youtube channel as well. It’s been a long time goal of mine and watching your videos has brought me a lot of inspiration and comfort. You rock!

  • @timmyhuynh3859
    @timmyhuynh3859 11 месяцев назад

    You just need to just start, and the confidence will come after. Well said Tim

  • @RailinX
    @RailinX 2 года назад +3

    I love your personality and honesty and the super chill vibe of your channel! Gratitude is such a powerful mental tool. I try to be grateful every day for having been able to work from home since 10 years and make a good living for my family, and raise my children without having to miss important events due to someone else’s orders. I grew up believing that everyone needs to get a 9-5 job to make a living. Discovering Etsy was the pivotal moment of me realizing I could make money online back in 2011 and that “getting a job” was by far NOT the only way.

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад

      Sounds like you have a really good thing going! Keep it up :) And I totally agree! I'm so grateful to be able to live in time where it's possible to make a living on the internet. So many people focus on what's wrong/bad these days, they completely miss how good we really have it. Thanks for the comment :)

  • @AsifKhan6654
    @AsifKhan6654 2 года назад +8

    You are an inspiration, Tim. Thank you for making this video.

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад +1

      Thanks for watching Asif :)

  • @mouseich9576
    @mouseich9576 2 года назад +1

    This video resonates with me a lot. I'm currently going through stages of building up my confidence, and to stop minding what others think of me. Thank you for making this video available!

  • @annaimperial958
    @annaimperial958 2 года назад +2

    all your contents are worth watching. you talk clearly and i really understand all the words you said without reading any caption at all. i struggle upon comprehending someone who talks in english because i barely understand their accent but with you is a different story. keep it up. ⭐️

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад

      I really appreciate your comment Anna! Thanks for watching :)

  • @rileytitshaw814
    @rileytitshaw814 2 года назад +2

    Great video! Sooo helpful. I love your channel. It’s very positive and inspirational. Keep up the great work! 😊👍

  • @Lisa-uq4st
    @Lisa-uq4st 2 года назад +2

    I’m so glad that I found your channel! This video is priceless. It’s what I needed to hear and I’m sure a lot of other viewers feel the same. Thanks so much for putting yourself out there and being real!

  • @MelissaRodriguez-ut2mb
    @MelissaRodriguez-ut2mb 11 месяцев назад

    Love your videos. I usually listen to audio books when I drive, but lately I've just been listening to your voice as I drive! Love your vibe, humility, transparency...the list goes on. I feel so motivated when I listen to/watch your videos. Thank you for taking the time to share all your knowledge! I wish you much success in everything you do and look forward to your content❤.

  • @KimberleyTaylorDuncan
    @KimberleyTaylorDuncan 2 года назад +2

    This is so good Tim! This is my 4th video I’ve watched from you and enjoyed every single one. You’re doing great! Stay humble 🌻

  • @Lily-bui
    @Lily-bui 2 года назад +1

    Thanks for all the quality content you put out there for others! I really appreciate all your tips for Etsy shop owners :) and I love how genuine you and your videos are too. Keep up the great work!

  • @bridgetteswenson52
    @bridgetteswenson52 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Tim! I am so grateful I found your channel!

  • @roxylovestopray
    @roxylovestopray 2 года назад +1

    This is so beautiful I loved everything you said, I couldn’t agree more. I’ve saved about six of your videos you’re definitely making an impact, ty!

  • @Jumarylicious
    @Jumarylicious 2 года назад +1

    Hi, Tim! I was looking for Etsy videos and I found your channel. This video is FANTASTIC, as it's something I needed to hear. I love how you are, how you talk about your ups and downs, and the way you overcome obstacles in your life. It means you're an authentic person and it's very motivational.♥ New sub here! 👐

  • @pinkdolphinllc4737
    @pinkdolphinllc4737 2 года назад

    You are such a brave kid. I showed your videos to my teenage kids. It’s inspirational. Thank you

  • @tramnguyen0000
    @tramnguyen0000 2 года назад +1

    Omggg im sooo glad youtube led me to your channel! Your content is sooo helpful and inspirational. Also your voice is very soothing and therapeutic. Literally don't worry you're 1000x more charming than Tom Holland 😂.
    I watch a lot of your videos and it feels like youre a big brother guiding me through life because I feel the things you say on a personal level.
    Then guess what... I learned youre Vietnamese today 😆👌 me tooooo
    Please keep making videos. They're really amazing quality content and visuals wise.

  • @sylviayuanna9189
    @sylviayuanna9189 2 года назад +1

    you are humble and wise. love watching your videos. keep your good works going

  • @toph7
    @toph7 2 года назад +2

    Thank you Tim! I found your channel at the perfect time. I look forward to continuing learn from you and follow your journey.

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching :)

  • @wongngai4920
    @wongngai4920 2 года назад

    I like the way you talk, I like what you are saying, I like your energy. I appreciate you doing that and sharing it with all of us.

  • @truetothecraft5725
    @truetothecraft5725 2 года назад +1

    Got a subscriber here! Takes guts to open up and let loose. I totally understand a lot of your points as I consider myself an introvert who doesn’t like speaking much but I am very creative. I did a few videos a few years back but stopped when certain friends started seeing them. I know …smh. Now pivoting it into something else along with my art but chipping away at it little by little and caring less of what others think, one day at a time.

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад +1

      If you liked doing videos get back on it! The opinions of those certain friends are going to mean nothing to you as you get older. Seriously!

  • @Eaglehawkx
    @Eaglehawkx 2 года назад +1

    I bet that video took some courage to make. You rock. Great video!

  • @GondoKellen
    @GondoKellen 2 года назад

    I’ve watched some of your videos. I feel so glad to have found you. Thank you for your content, your thoughts and tips. You’re such an amazing guys, adorable and incredibly intelligent! God bless you! Remember you have a fan here!

  • @DebsSweetCakess
    @DebsSweetCakess 2 года назад +1

    I just found your channel and i really enjoy it! You are very humble, and genuine and have really encouraged me in my etsy shop..and now im thinking about starting a utube channel! :)

  • @dianaiulias
    @dianaiulias Год назад

    Thank you for sharing all these things on your RUclips channel, Tim! It is inspiring and encouraging for likeminded introverts and wannabe entrepreneurs, like myself. Love your content and way of being in front of the camera - relatable, friendly and humble :)

  • @MarthaLopez-pf9sr
    @MarthaLopez-pf9sr 2 года назад +1

    Thank you Tim!

  • @Robinsnest219
    @Robinsnest219 2 года назад +1

    Love this video, it popped up at the right time for me. It was very helpful, thank you.

  • @dogsploot2621
    @dogsploot2621 2 года назад +2

    Wow, I've binged watched all your videos! You sound so genuine and I love listening to you! Cheers to 2022 and will wait for more videos from you. ☺

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад

      Thanks for the comment! All the best to you in 2022 :)

  • @adrianthibodeau9421
    @adrianthibodeau9421 2 года назад +1

    Hi Tim, Thanks very much for all the videos. I really like your personality and the way you express yourself.

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад

      You’re very welcome, Adrian. Really appreciate you watching :)

  • @sunflower7089
    @sunflower7089 Год назад

    Wow. I am so glad I clicked on your video when RUclips suggested it to me. You’re an amazing person. I wish more people were like you. Best wishes on all of your endeavors. I’m a new subscriber now. :)

  • @jamiele2809
    @jamiele2809 2 года назад +1

    Chúc mừng năm mới! You inspire me a lot, keep it up Tim!

  • @abbyanderbard
    @abbyanderbard 2 года назад +1

    Aww, I love your videos. ^_^ They always make me feel great.

  • @9122mint
    @9122mint 2 года назад

    There’s just something about you that feels so warm and familiar, it makes me feel seen and heard! (Even though you have no idea who I am) thank you for sharing your story and viewpoints. You’re making a difference in my life and many more for sure :)

  • @davideincagli
    @davideincagli 2 года назад +1

    Maybe you are not as good looking or charismatic as Tom Holland but you are giving more value to us than him in all the film where he appears

  • @Sheryl777
    @Sheryl777 Год назад

    I know it doesn't really matter what I think about you, but I just want to say that since I've watched several of your videos by now, I've always gotten the impression that you are a really good person, and very courteous too. Nothing could be bad about that in my opinion.

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  Год назад +1

      That’s super kind of you to say, Sheryl. Thank you :)

    • @Sheryl777
      @Sheryl777 Год назад

      @@TimKoa 👍

  • @katiemason9727
    @katiemason9727 2 года назад

    You have a great face, a great voice and I like the way you talk. You’re very relatable. 😊

  • @riaancoetzee3451
    @riaancoetzee3451 10 месяцев назад

    Thank you for sharing and being sincere.

  • @TheSunRiseKid
    @TheSunRiseKid 2 года назад

    Great video! I just found you today and SUBSCRIBED! I watched a few of your other videos so far…great content!😊

  • @karinhart1778
    @karinhart1778 2 года назад

    I absolutely love your videos! I have learned so much and am on my to eventually open an etsy shop!

  • @anniewu927
    @anniewu927 Год назад

    Ur great! Love ur content on Etsy too! It’s straight forward and not full of shit like some other RUclipsrs who always try to inflate things

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  Год назад

      Thanks Annie :)

  • @tanyabarraza2227
    @tanyabarraza2227 2 года назад

    So happy you came up on my suggestions!! And you’re growing so quick! I hope i can grow my channel soon! You give me so much motivation 🥰💯

  • @brendamorales3366
    @brendamorales3366 2 года назад

    I love your minimalist rooms. In Mexico in general we accumulate so much. So your rooms look so clean. So I work my etsy in my stairs, kitchen, floor..I don't have any studio because there is not space

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад +1

      Hey! Whatever works Brenda! Keep on grinding :)

  • @victoriouskitten
    @victoriouskitten Год назад

    I just wanted to let you know I enjoy your content. Keep up the great work. ^_^

  • @lenellscreations6484
    @lenellscreations6484 Год назад

    THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!❤

  • @sharonrinarose2515
    @sharonrinarose2515 2 года назад

    You are so lovely :) Thank you for this, x

  • @VektorVirus
    @VektorVirus Год назад

    Thank you 🙏

  • @lenellscreations6484
    @lenellscreations6484 Год назад

    Educate me!!!! Love this!!!!❤❤❤❤

  • @nucleicnoodles9862
    @nucleicnoodles9862 2 года назад

    This channel is such a gem!

  • @californiapattycakes4417
    @californiapattycakes4417 2 года назад

    Just came across your channel. New sub. Great content!

  • @matthewgoetzka8855
    @matthewgoetzka8855 2 года назад

    You're great Tim! Thanks for this video 🙏🏼

  • @trevorfranks69
    @trevorfranks69 2 года назад

    Aw thanks

  • @kathryn3293
    @kathryn3293 4 месяца назад

    Fabulous advice❤

  • @zbruh7132
    @zbruh7132 2 года назад

    Thanks for sharing this video ❤️✨ this is what I needed to be reminded of before I start my journey into the Etsy world and RUclips world of creativity and I’ve been comparing myself even before I’ve released anything and this video helped me to not think negatively about my self or my art or what my skills are compared to someone else. Thanks Tim this was a blessing and merry Christmas 🎄🎁 to you and your family ( I keep watching this over and over to get this stuck in my head lol)

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад

      Merry Christmas! Wish you the best :)

  • @lvlup.living
    @lvlup.living 2 года назад

    You are super relatable and I feel like we could be instant friends 😎

  • @natalyabickell5349
    @natalyabickell5349 Год назад

    Thank you

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  Год назад

      Thanks for watching :)

  • @makduong
    @makduong 2 года назад

    Nice haircut! And I am loving all of these motivational videos 🙂 Happy holidays, Tim!

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching Makaravine :)

  • @jimjamjerry
    @jimjamjerry 2 года назад

    Great video man :)

  • @WowThingsThrift
    @WowThingsThrift 2 года назад

    You are awesome 🎉

  • @playboigilbert1
    @playboigilbert1 2 года назад

    Thanks I needed this Tim.

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching Gilbert!

  • @tammys1696
    @tammys1696 2 года назад

    Thanks for this positive and motivating video. Merry Christmas!

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад

      Happy holidays! :D

  • @dilansasanka1979
    @dilansasanka1979 2 года назад

    Tim,yesterday i got etsy announcement "etsy shop has been currently suspended" how i request reopen my shop.my shop opened february 9th.yesterday i got monthly bill email.after one hour i got suspended.how ever i settled my bill yesterday. I want to know reason why i suspended.?is it permanent suspended? Can i take my shop back?

  • @Ron-gm3zj
    @Ron-gm3zj 2 года назад

    This past weekend was rough. Thanks for the pep talk :)

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад +1

      Hope things get better friend!

  • @krista3978
    @krista3978 2 года назад

    Just started watching your videos! Been great

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад

      Thanks for watching Krista :)

  • @PepperAnnT
    @PepperAnnT 2 года назад

    Love your videos!

    • @TimKoa
      @TimKoa  2 года назад

      I appreciate you! :)

  • @WynterNash
    @WynterNash 2 года назад +1

    I never heard of Tom Holland but I think you are better looking than him.

  • @DJMeCa
    @DJMeCa 2 года назад +2

    Tom Holland? You got him beat Tim…just sayin’…

  • @mumuonthego
    @mumuonthego Год назад

    Hi Tim, how do you make your teeth look so white?

  • @jennyjumpjump
    @jennyjumpjump 2 года назад

    Comparison! That's difficult when you have a business and you have to walk a fine line. You have to follow what people are doing so you can learn but not so much that you obsess over comparing yourself to others

  • @balford2112
    @balford2112 Год назад

    Who is Tom Holland? Bland looking
    🙌🏽 to your parents

  • @HotHeadCringe
    @HotHeadCringe Год назад

    0:09 how dare you