Exactly, I feel this when you do or say that. When someone doesn’t know how to talk or communicate effectively or listen, especially if they have ADHD it causes anxiety and frustration. Especially when you confront them when you have proof of their lies and Deception
The wife is NOT a narcissist. Not even close. Sounds like a trauma response. AVOIDANCE. She is keeping busy to avoid all of the things that she needs to process (emotions). She is avoiding depression by a full schedule, physically staying busy and moving, and she’s trying to project an image of herself she needs others to see and believe (hence the pointless move to NC). Hubby ought to try and talk to her about her past and find things that have caused her to cope in such a manner. It’s a trauma response. 💯
All of this is very familiar. Narcissists can be very confusing because they are manipulative and use acting to keep us unsure of our own observations. This has been true in my family all my life, even at family gatherings when they invited me only so that I could see them ignoring me. They never contact me just to talk or see how I am ever and when I contacted them they acted uninterested in talking. They also take up all the visiting time with their own stuff changing the subject if I begin to talk about anything about me. Then they can't believe it when I no longer come to their functions.
I've dealt with that behavior from my husband's side of the family for 49 years. I quit going to any family get together except funerals. No need to subject ourselves to abuse!
Thank you for this video. New subscriber now. Btw, Katie Buckley is such a beautiful young lady with a very bright mind. She seems to have more emotional maturity than many young adults nowdays. Keep growing Katy & one day youll be hosting your own show!
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Exactly, I feel this when you do or say that. When someone doesn’t know how to talk or communicate effectively or listen, especially if they have ADHD it causes anxiety and frustration. Especially when you confront them when you have proof of their lies and Deception
Adhd is what most narcissists use as their EXCUSE, don’t fall for it
The wife is NOT a narcissist. Not even close. Sounds like a trauma response. AVOIDANCE. She is keeping busy to avoid all of the things that she needs to process (emotions). She is avoiding depression by a full schedule, physically staying busy and moving, and she’s trying to project an image of herself she needs others to see and believe (hence the pointless move to NC). Hubby ought to try and talk to her about her past and find things that have caused her to cope in such a manner.
It’s a trauma response. 💯
All of this is very familiar. Narcissists can be very confusing because they are manipulative and use acting to keep us unsure of our own observations. This has been true in my family all my life, even at family gatherings when they invited me only so that I could see them ignoring me. They never contact me just to talk or see how I am ever and when I contacted them they acted uninterested in talking. They also take up all the visiting time with their own stuff changing the subject if I begin to talk about anything about me. Then they can't believe it when I no longer come to their functions.
I had to cut up of one and I finally just walked out s*** on this
The wife isn’t a narcissist. Not even close. It’s a trauma response she’s having
I've dealt with that behavior from my husband's side of the family for 49 years. I quit going to any family get together except funerals. No need to subject ourselves to abuse!
Great video Dr. Hawkins!
Thank you for this video. New subscriber now. Btw, Katie Buckley is such a beautiful young lady with a very bright mind. She seems to have more emotional maturity than many young adults nowdays. Keep growing Katy & one day youll be hosting your own show!
What are we fighter for…love it
WOW 👍👍👍 Great Video! NEW SUBSCRIBER! 😉
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