This is probably the most accurate description of what happened between a Gemini woman and myself. She went through a very tremulous year, and I did my best to be there to offer love and support whenever I could. And there was a time where I felt that she and I were on the same page and were developing a stronger connection. But at some point she pulled back and became very distant and non-communicative. I was very much under the impression that we are soulmates. And as an EFT practitioner and someone who works with childhood trauma with clients, I knew that she had unresolved trauma and had issues from her childhood and from her previous relationships with men that were getting in the way of us moving forward. And I did my best to encourage her to look into working on healing her trauma (but not with me). However it seemed that she either lacked the interest, the motivation or perhaps the finances or the health insurance she needed to pursue finding a therapist who is trauma informed. In any case, your point is well taken in that we can’t heal others or be their savior, and that a person must decide to work on healing themselves in their own timeframe. It’s just frustrating because I know that this woman deep inside is a good person and that if she just allowed herself to open up to the love, stability and loyalty I offered her, she could have finally been happy. But her self-destructive ego is fully in control and sabotaged our connection just like you said. It broke my heart to have to walk away from her and focus on myself. Hopefully I will meet someone new who has done the inner work and is more open and willing to accept love from a man who will be there for her long term. And I also learned that I need to not self-abandon for someone, and that healthy connections must have equal give and take. Thank you for this reading, Gabrielle. 🙏💕
Also you should know you can never save a woman and women with trauma like that always break the guys heart that wants to be there and be stable for them. They aren’t drawn to that and they don’t recognize stability and consistency as a place they belong. Also I know women say they want a man to be super in touch with their emotions but they don’t really. Broken women absolutely don’t. I don’t know your situation but I know that as a general rule.
I have a bad habit of pouring everything into relationships. The last couple of months I've started focusing on myself and my goals. It feels great. My partner is supportive but I also feel a strange distance between us now. He's there, but not really if that makes sense. He's got his own things to worry about but I don't want to lose him.
I resonated a lot with this reading except all the stuff about saving them or no space for me. I do feel I wasn’t taking care of myself because I was taking care of others but this person got me back in gear to take care of myself. They had someone come back in retrograde that they felt compelled toward. I think that’s what was confusing you. I’m curious about the extended but it got so far off from my situation toward the end.
I never comment on posts but girl 🤦🏽♀️ this was painfully accurate & I didn’t want it to be. I’ve spent 3 years with a man I thought I was going to marry. Then this year June he randomly ghosted me. The last text said a bunch of bs & ended with “I love you” and he hasn’t spoke to me since. I reached out & he didn’t respond. Reached out again and he blocked me. We were long distance for those 3 yrs texting every day all day. Seeing each other & FaceTiming all the time & I fully trusted him. We would sometimes cry when it was time for one of us to go back home. But obviously he was cheating or doing something sketchy. Anyways. Thank you for this reading. I’ve been trying my absolute hardest to get over him. I’ve had a few rebounds & I still haven’t caught any real feelings for anyone else b/c he’s still on my mind. It makes me feel a little crazy b/c I’m not trying to be “that girl” but it does feel karmic & fated to me in a way. Our bond was very special. I was hoping this wouldn’t resonate with me so I could just wait for my regular reading & tune out the love stuff, but spirit was like sit down and listen lol
she has tried to get me fired twice, we went from coworkers to friends to no contact, but we still work together, but now our manager is separating us because he knows we fight, mostly her and not me though but I’m sad because I tried to work it out with her and all she does is yell and doesn’t know how to talk without getting angry or yelling
This is probably the most accurate description of what happened between a Gemini woman and myself.
She went through a very tremulous year, and I did my best to be there to offer love and support whenever I could.
And there was a time where I felt that she and I were on the same page and were developing a stronger connection. But at some point she pulled back and became very distant and non-communicative.
I was very much under the impression that we are soulmates. And as an EFT practitioner and someone who works with childhood trauma with clients, I knew that she had unresolved trauma and had issues from her childhood and from her previous relationships with men that were getting in the way of us moving forward.
And I did my best to encourage her to look into working on healing her trauma (but not with me).
However it seemed that she either lacked the interest, the motivation or perhaps the finances or the health insurance she needed to pursue finding a therapist who is trauma informed.
In any case, your point is well taken in that we can’t heal others or be their savior, and that a person must decide to work on healing themselves in their own timeframe.
It’s just frustrating because I know that this woman deep inside is a good person and that if she just allowed herself to open up to the love, stability and loyalty I offered her, she could have finally been happy.
But her self-destructive ego is fully in control and sabotaged our connection just like you said.
It broke my heart to have to walk away from her and focus on myself.
Hopefully I will meet someone new who has done the inner work and is more open and willing to accept love from a man who will be there for her long term.
And I also learned that I need to not self-abandon for someone, and that healthy connections must have equal give and take.
Thank you for this reading, Gabrielle. 🙏💕
As a Scorpio you should really think twice about air signs and as a rule leave Gemini’s alone in personal relationships.
Also you should know you can never save a woman and women with trauma like that always break the guys heart that wants to be there and be stable for them. They aren’t drawn to that and they don’t recognize stability and consistency as a place they belong.
Also I know women say they want a man to be super in touch with their emotions but they don’t really. Broken women absolutely don’t. I don’t know your situation but I know that as a general rule.
Yes, I’ve learned since that time the importance of “filling and maintaining my own cup” of wellness and joy! Good to see you again and thank you!❤
Your very intuitive. Thank You
Wow, you nailed this reading. Thank you, queen ❤
Wow, thankyou. I was just reading my north node in Taurus. And this resonates so much. Blessings and merry Christmas to you and yours. 🙏🎄💖
You are a wonderful reader .. thank you it resonates a lot
This is so true for me.
Thank you for your great readings ❤️
I have a bad habit of pouring everything into relationships. The last couple of months I've started focusing on myself and my goals. It feels great. My partner is supportive but I also feel a strange distance between us now. He's there, but not really if that makes sense. He's got his own things to worry about but I don't want to lose him.
This really resonated with me … thank you 💜
Have the best holiday season♥️♥️♥️Thank you♥️
So accurate
Spot on! TY ❤
This reading was spot on. I have given a lot to the relationship but he blows hot of cold, frightened in case I want commitment.
I resonated a lot with this reading except all the stuff about saving them or no space for me. I do feel I wasn’t taking care of myself because I was taking care of others but this person got me back in gear to take care of myself.
They had someone come back in retrograde that they felt compelled toward. I think that’s what was confusing you. I’m curious about the extended but it got so far off from my situation toward the end.
I never comment on posts but girl 🤦🏽♀️ this was painfully accurate & I didn’t want it to be. I’ve spent 3 years with a man I thought I was going to marry. Then this year June he randomly ghosted me. The last text said a bunch of bs & ended with “I love you” and he hasn’t spoke to me since.
I reached out & he didn’t respond. Reached out again and he blocked me. We were long distance for those 3 yrs texting every day all day. Seeing each other & FaceTiming all the time & I fully trusted him. We would sometimes cry when it was time for one of us to go back home.
But obviously he was cheating or doing something sketchy. Anyways. Thank you for this reading. I’ve been trying my absolute hardest to get over him. I’ve had a few rebounds & I still haven’t caught any real feelings for anyone else b/c he’s still on my mind. It makes me feel a little crazy b/c I’m not trying to be “that girl” but it does feel karmic & fated to me in a way. Our bond was very special.
I was hoping this wouldn’t resonate with me so I could just wait for my regular reading & tune out the love stuff, but spirit was like sit down and listen lol
Bruh this sounds like something I went thru too. 😢 sorry that person did that to u. I guarantee u deserved way better.
she has tried to get me fired twice, we went from coworkers to friends to no contact, but we still work together, but now our manager is separating us because he knows we fight, mostly her and not me though but I’m sad because I tried to work it out with her and all she does is yell and doesn’t know how to talk without getting angry or yelling
Girlfriend you are very very good at this ❤
👍