Why Black Men Are Leaving Black Women Alone

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  • Опубликовано: 18 сен 2024
  • Black men are choosing not to marry or seriously date black women in growing numbers. From movements like MGTOW, SYSBM, to the passport bros, black men are beginning to vote with their feet. Black women still aren't getting the message despite it being loud and clear. Let's talk!
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  • @jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71
    @jjdieselcowboytraveler79sm71 Год назад +105

    I'm 43 years old with no kids. I never been married because I never found a truly virtuous woman.
    I never had any STDs nor felonies. I'm single now and very thankful.
    I live alone and I like my solitude just fine. I have serious trust issues. I've been in Monk Mode since 2019
    My trust is in God's hands these days. I get choosing signals from time to time but I don't dare let it go to my head or heart anymore.
    This is a very powerful video.
    Much appreciated and respect your content. Keep it going sis.

    • @Logos_Black
      @Logos_Black Год назад +17

      Come to Africa bro... Wast or South... best decision you'll ever make trust me.

    • @mercermercepanama6334
      @mercermercepanama6334 Год назад +23

      Same here. I am 46 years of age and I have never been married and I have no children. I have not found a woman that I feel is worthy of settling down with or marrying. Most women out here have multiple children by multiple men, are promiscuous, have STDs, have no femininity and are overly aggressive, have nasty attitudes, have mental health issues and emotional baggage from their childhoods and past relationships. I do not have the time nor the energy to deal with it so I just threw in the towel. I refuse to be stressed out, so I just moved on with my own life. Peace of mind is what I value more than anything else.

    • @eQuariuz
      @eQuariuz Год назад +1

      @@mercermercepanama6334 I'm seeing a lot of this. At your guys ages though, what you will get are the choosing sigs from women over maybe 28 and yes, they have probably not been "virtuous" and likely have had a kid or two or a couple of abortions. Maybe even a divorce, if they made it that far with their BabyDady. Not claiming all men are upstanding citizens, but overall it's a shytshow.
      P.S. ... My passport just arrived in the mail. Book and card.

    • @bensun-ra9956
      @bensun-ra9956 Год назад

      ain't nothing in Africa... niggas in Africa don't even wanna be in africa.

    • @kevinshepherd3907
      @kevinshepherd3907 Год назад

      How do you know that the woman that are giving you choosing signals are not that virtuous woman you are looking for?.. maybe you have not found a woman with the same morals that you have but to use the word virtuous is very ambiguous.. because are you as virtuous as the women that you are seeking number one.. and number two .. today's social media atmosphere and women being very impressionable with what they see around them you may not get exactly what you're looking for !but you may have to polish her up a little bit ,to be the kind of woman that you want!! Screen your woman very thoroughly but don't expect her to be like the women of old and don't expect her not to be tainted with modern influences! Sometimes you have to give a little to get what you want!! It's definitely somebody out there for you! You might have to look outside of your race or your geographical area!😉

  • @jaytee5150
    @jaytee5150 Год назад +132

    I tried soo hard for my son, but I was losing myself, she had to go

    • @lavark9746
      @lavark9746 Год назад +17

      accountability are these 304's kryptonite

    • @Mr.DeeJay954
      @Mr.DeeJay954 Год назад +11

      I feel you brother, sometimes it’s necessary to drown the hippo in order to prosper. When you figure out what the hippo represents you’ll figure out why your decision was sound. Peace be with you.

    • @GuttaGang2GGuttaGang
      @GuttaGang2GGuttaGang Год назад +8

      Wow, how all of us experience this shit. Like we with the same woman

    • @jaytee5150
      @jaytee5150 Год назад +13

      @@GuttaGang2GGuttaGang man I swear, I can’t wrap my head around how black women who don’t know each other nor ever been around one another can have the same exact mentality. It’s puzzling to me, sometimes I think that they’re receiving some type of compensation to destroy families, but that’s just me🤷🏾‍♂️

    • @GuttaGang2GGuttaGang
      @GuttaGang2GGuttaGang Год назад

      @@jaytee5150 they are, the government give to them all the time, even when they don’t ask for it. It’s all programming too, that tel lie vision is a bad mfer. And that cell phone.

  • @PharaohIshmail
    @PharaohIshmail Год назад +78

    You know African American or FBA relationships have gotten bad if you got Pro Black, Pan-African, and Nation of Islam brothers going to Asia, Africa, and South America for wives.
    These hyenas have gone to a point of no retun.
    I'm very anxious in what the Relationship Demographics will look like for the Black Community in 2022

    • @bensun-ra9956
      @bensun-ra9956 Год назад

      those are simps... passport perverts

    • @kingalton10
      @kingalton10 Год назад

      Blacks in urban areas are being aborted almost as fast as they’re being born.
      40% of abortions are from BW.
      That’s not even including the fact that a decent amount of black men are marrying with other races more
      So the black population might be over with in less then 100 years.
      That’s just my theory on it

    • @youreagoddamngenius9099
      @youreagoddamngenius9099 Год назад +4

      Just look at commercials and film. Nothing but BM with other groups of women to the point where the media can't ignore it!

    • @maxxastro
      @maxxastro Год назад +1

      @@youreagoddamngenius9099 who do you think is doing it?

    • @derwinmitchell9947
      @derwinmitchell9947 10 месяцев назад

      Their are more black women in south America than the US they are Afro-Latina. These women don't have a western mindset and are feminine and traditional.

  • @BronxBombers_726
    @BronxBombers_726 Год назад +59

    I am a single black male in my mid sixties and I often think why I didn’t get married and have children? I just didn’t want to involve myself in all this drama and personal issues women expect you to correct it. Today I don’t see any wife material that would make me change my decision about marriage.

    • @Aberamentho2010
      @Aberamentho2010 Год назад +4

      Sad, but true.

    • @javaseiland5310
      @javaseiland5310 Год назад +5

      Get your Passport Brother you can still Travel and find a Wife, I'm going to Brazil soon.

    • @BronxBombers_726
      @BronxBombers_726 Год назад +4

      @@javaseiland5310 Br careful young Jedi..They know your coming. Make good decisions and not depend on your feelings. And yes I have my passport.

    • @pinkford2
      @pinkford2 Год назад +6

      I've been married twice and I wish I never had.

    • @TheTruthcometh
      @TheTruthcometh Год назад +6

      Sad that a man of your age would have to think this way, but this is the world we live in when it comes to black women.

  • @theresidentteacher2438
    @theresidentteacher2438 Год назад +32

    Lol you got Black Men who would rather vote for Trump they so TIRED of the BS...LET THAT SINK IN🤦🏾‍♂️. We tired of being TREATED like this. I'm 44. Been going on for DECADES.

    • @seanmyles3134
      @seanmyles3134 Год назад

      I am one of them..I will NEVER ever vote democrat again..they are the racist party against black men..during slavery times democrats wanted to keep black men in slavery and Malcolm X warned black people to stop voting for these liberal racist democrats back in the 1950s and 1960s. Democrats have never in U.S. history helped black men. Black men need their own independent party to represent black men and their interests. Democrats only support black women. BW support the vision of white supremacy in this country and have become racist towards black men. Time to walk tf away from black women and only support black women who luv us back in return like Kendra.

  • @BH-qf2pw
    @BH-qf2pw Год назад +132

    You always hit the nail on the head. There are so many black women who say they want a good man or they can't find a good man. But a lot of them are out of control and stay out of pocket. I know men who will sit back and observe a woman and say no, based on her bad behavior and she didn't know a good man was looking at her. So to a lot of these women, you can't find a good man because he is avoiding you.

    • @utubewatcher1
      @utubewatcher1 Год назад +5

      For me..I'm over it....keep them

    • @takeoutthetrash6235
      @takeoutthetrash6235 Год назад +2

      When y’all gone get them passports and stop crying about AA BW we not going to submit to men who are submitting to WM.

    • @TheTruthcometh
      @TheTruthcometh Год назад +5

      Nation of Islam brothers are leaving the country looking for wives!
      Man, I thought those Sisters were pretty hard-core when it came to respecting those black men, back in the day you never saw those women disrespecting any black man...Anywhere!

    • @odog76543
      @odog76543 Год назад +13

      @@takeoutthetrash6235 that's a lie. You not gonna submit to any men. So run along, be strong and independent and all that. Just don't cry to us for protection and provision, because you can't pay the cost.

    • @BH-qf2pw
      @BH-qf2pw Год назад +4

      @MizzCee Cee Sitting back and looking too? So black women are picking pookie, rayray and Tyrone on purpose? One black serial killer doesn't do anything. The vast majority of serial killers are always white men. I know that's probably painful to hear.

  • @idomalion6167
    @idomalion6167 Год назад +78

    SYSBM is growing to reflect the reality. BW have beefed BM for far too long and sincere brothers don't want to get involved in gender wars. So they are going elsewhere.

    • @busyrand
      @busyrand Год назад +17

      Indeed... Also, once you leave the plantation, you see how much other cohorts of women actually value, secure, and compete for their men. Ultimately, brothers arrive to the point were you're too old for yet another bad job... And, you're too old for yet another relationship where you can't tell if the woman really likes you.

    • @idomalion6167
      @idomalion6167 Год назад +9

      @@busyrand wise analogy, hopefully younger men get on their purpose to build legacies. This wisdom is an essential message.

    • @tshaolin971
      @tshaolin971 Год назад +10

      Peace worth more than P🍑.

  • @mrphyl3041
    @mrphyl3041 Год назад +69

    Wow!!! The level of understanding that is coming out of this Sister is amazing!!!

    • @firstghost3038
      @firstghost3038 Год назад +4

      She's a genius

    • @lilbfrom094princeton8
      @lilbfrom094princeton8 Год назад +2

      Just another woman that happens to have some knowledge… I hope y’all find wives.

    • @SCoal-hm7ub
      @SCoal-hm7ub Год назад +1

      You said it Bruh!👏🏾👏🏾👍🏾

  • @theharshtruth8563
    @theharshtruth8563 Год назад +15

    The last BW I dated back in 2018 tried to hide the fact that she had her kids taken away from her through child protective services because she cheated on the father of her kids in front of them and she had video of it that got confiscated when the cops took her phone away. I found this out by accident and she hid it very well from me so when I found out, I ghosted her and decided that this kind of disappointment in BW's lies and deceit was bringing me down and I just dropped out of dating altogether.
    I'm enjoying my peace and quiet up north now and I've found happiness in my new home far away from the drama and rat race. I've accepted that BW are not going to change and that being alone really isnt that lonely at all. Silence is golden.

  • @KevinJohnson-sd3vv
    @KevinJohnson-sd3vv Год назад +9

    Usually when black men go to other races of women, its not because they are better, its usually because what these other races of women are doing, they wish black women would be this way..(cordial, kindness, loving etc.)

  • @24jamkid
    @24jamkid Год назад +125

    Miss Crimson. You hit the nail right on the head with black women wanting to take your sanity and spirit. I went through a difficult breakup with my children's mother in 2020 after being together for 6 years. We still lived together until the beginning of 2021. I pretty much moved out a few months before the lease ended and moved back in with my mother just to salvage my sanity and spirit. Even though I was the only one working, paying the rent and all the bills due to her being furloughed from her job. I felt like I was dying spirituality and literally being in the some home with that woman. I can completely relate to what you are saying ma'am. I would've rather slept on the streets or a park bench than stay in the same home with her. She was verbally, emotionally, and physically violent. Completely intolerable and insufferable.

    • @aeubanks0
      @aeubanks0 Год назад +19

      You did the RIGHT thing Brother. ABSOLUTELY!! I've been there as well. Your children will understand, and appreciate you for doing what you needed to DO. Be a GOOD father, and they'll SEE why you did what you did. SALUTE. 💯

    • @24jamkid
      @24jamkid Год назад +12

      @@aeubanks0 I appreciate the kind words brother. Oh I'm definitely a father of my children, a damn good one.

    • @vante2129
      @vante2129 Год назад +16

      You were supposed to stay and take the abuse because "datz yo baby mama" wanting better for yourself how dar you 🙄🤓

    • @HumbleLionProductions
      @HumbleLionProductions Год назад

      Modern women in the west lack discipline and exist in a social and political space where they can be way out of line and there is nothing you can do other than leave to change the situation. It's basically set up to fail.

    • @D13vest
      @D13vest Год назад +3

      @@vante2129 He cant take an apartment. If BP were smarter, they would have an easier way out but this is clearly not the case

  • @Buckshott_54
    @Buckshott_54 Год назад +24

    The opposite of love is not hate 😮the opposite of love in indifference. Indifference is how BM have come to feel about hyena BW.

    • @carecc7191
      @carecc7191 Год назад +3

      Excellent point that most people do not realize.

  • @andrep7120
    @andrep7120 Год назад +37

    We absolutely love you sister. Watch you everyday. Love from your fellow Chicago native.

    • @oic_spazzout2828
      @oic_spazzout2828 Год назад +1

      Wow and she from Chicago lol. She better go find a better way to guide and highlight the problems with the youth in y'all chicago

    • @michaelbrantley.8628
      @michaelbrantley.8628 Год назад +1

      I'm a Chicago man myself always my hometown i was born and raised here I'm a Chicago native.

  • @SCO23
    @SCO23 Год назад +32

    Black Women, if you have a problem with Black Men looking elsewhere, then maybe in the future you should be careful what you wish for!

  • @FireBrandWilliams
    @FireBrandWilliams Год назад +64

    I'm a black man happily married to a black woman thank God she dwells among the lionesses .....we completely agree with the brothers walking away, getting passports, etc...we stand with them...and understand what's going on...BW are on a downward spiral and don't even realize it from the lack of self awareness and accountability and belief in feminism....they don't know when they're being made fun of...they don't know when ppl are trying to help them...they're in a world all their own and that world is about to collapse on them

    • @thechartmaverick
      @thechartmaverick Год назад +13

      They're already in a frenzy making videos lying about wanting a man and willing to do right but the reality is, they can't handle the rising cost of everything on their own and they want a sucker to alleviate that.

    • @FireBrandWilliams
      @FireBrandWilliams Год назад

      @@thechartmaverick exactly, that's all it is...and we know this to be true since it wasn't til things got difficult that they want to pretend they ready to act right...all they looking for is alleviation...they're so empty headed they forget that they literally tell all their secrets on TikTok, now men know exactly who these modern women really are and how they get down... treacherous

    • @jasongibbs3713
      @jasongibbs3713 Год назад +4

      @@thechartmaverick don't fall for it!

    • @BernardBethea6339
      @BernardBethea6339 Год назад +1

      It's already collapse they wanna ride the CC until they are ran through and with pookie kids then they expect a man who been on him grind to wife them up and play step daddy or the ones with their education pass up all the good men they come across calling them dusty not up to their standards then believe what their white zaddy tell them to divest they will accept them they are the joke of the world

    • @anthonybates7307
      @anthonybates7307 Год назад

      That sizes it up perfectly.

  • @blackstars5642
    @blackstars5642 Год назад +16

    And then on top of that just the other day this AA female who is like 4 or 5 years younger than me at another store was talking to me like I was 10 years old when I'm 30. They are changing and becoming more aggressive and demanding.

    • @maxxastro
      @maxxastro Год назад

      Don't take that shit

  • @blackmanone298
    @blackmanone298 Год назад +8

    BW LOVE DRAMA POINT BLANK PERIOD THAT WHY BM ARE WALKING AWAY

  • @oligarchytheatre777
    @oligarchytheatre777 Год назад +13

    Children in grown physical bodies...

    • @JusTheKing.
      @JusTheKing. Год назад

      @@shayemoore Oh please. Push your BS agenda elsewhere.

  • @Chitownsfinesthoops
    @Chitownsfinesthoops Год назад +16

    Wow I'm 51 and the message at the end about legacy because I don't have any kids and I really wanted a black 👑 to build with but constantly ran into hyenas.

    • @Logos_Black
      @Logos_Black Год назад +4

      come to africa... trust me

    • @harrydaloc9112
      @harrydaloc9112 Год назад +4

      @@Logos_Black Brazil

    • @kelis8883
      @kelis8883 Год назад

      ​​@@harrydaloc9112 They have the highest rate of single mother's look it up...more then BW

    • @harrydaloc9112
      @harrydaloc9112 Год назад +1

      @@kelis8883 still better than bw in the states

  • @m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997
    @m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997 Год назад +50

    This discussion brought tears to my eyes because it helped me to see that all though I have been working on myself as a black woman I still have a lot of cleaning up to do as far as self improvement. Honestly some of the things that were said in this video hurted my feelings but at the same time what was said needed to be said so that I personally can improve and become a better woman in general but especially for a black man that is respectable. Thank you Ms. Kendra. I really needed this.

    • @greatestever80sbaby
      @greatestever80sbaby Год назад +7

      It hurted your feelings?

    • @m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997
      @m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997 Год назад +5

      @@greatestever80sbaby Meaning that what she was saying hit me hard and made me get very emotional because she's right.

    • @greatestever80sbaby
      @greatestever80sbaby Год назад +3

      @@m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997 sweetheart.... hurted isn't a word. You mean hurt?

    • @m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997
      @m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997 Год назад

      @@greatestever80sbaby I appreciate the correction

    • @greatestever80sbaby
      @greatestever80sbaby Год назад +5

      @@m.i.k.a.l.i.a.h1997 no doubt... I'm actually surprised that you didn't get offended. Good job sis...

  • @mccord8923
    @mccord8923 Год назад +51

    I know of a situation where a BW was given the book "Hebrews to Negros". I believe she just skimmed through the book, might have read a few chapters, then put the book on her closet shelf. She then proceeded to purchase a book from Amazon with a WW on the cover. The book was dealing with stress, mental health, etc. She sees her struggles as equal with the WW. True story.

    • @vante2129
      @vante2129 Год назад +15

      That's because they actually believe their competition for white women when going after white men and she feels like if she's able to relate then they'll be more accepting of her....

    • @vante2129
      @vante2129 Год назад +1

      Those types of black women do all that capping on white women but be quick as hell to follow their influence 💀Like you have a bunch of them praising Margret Thrasher talking about "she's a pioneer for women rights" yes doofus for white women she was telling black women to get abortions and preaching sterilization

    • @TheTruthcometh
      @TheTruthcometh Год назад +6

      I gave the book Sister Shahrazad put out in 1991 to an older black woman, she was about 70 she read the first page and told me, she didn't want to hear that SMH🤣 Then she threw the book in my lap and laughed.

    • @samueljenkins6288
      @samueljenkins6288 Год назад

      Sadly this is a very common ordeal. However, the Whyte women have no problem with bws getting with their men most. Their agendas are to be the head of a large corporation making mad money. I've heard too many of them say this.

    • @brucebanner6786
      @brucebanner6786 Год назад

      Black women want to be like men and white women so bad its pathetic

  • @ziyadshabazz7422
    @ziyadshabazz7422 Год назад +13

    I am a witness to what you are saying here, I have been trying to be better than those other men who abuse and disrespect black women. And the ones that I experience were combative, none cooking, cleaning, or support. Peace

    • @TheTruthcometh
      @TheTruthcometh Год назад +1

      Cardi B says...I don't cook...I don't clean!
      So there you have it, sir!.. That's the state of today's black women.
      Take it or leave it!

  • @clifftoonferares6688
    @clifftoonferares6688 Год назад +8

    Nothing but facts!!!! I'm ending a twenty year marriage because of disrespect, and then I'm going to find what I need from a black woman in another country.

  • @Kingkongthugpassion2667
    @Kingkongthugpassion2667 Год назад +17

    Truly hope that Russell Wilson was watching this video

  • @solomon011
    @solomon011 Год назад +24

    another great and informative podcast today Crimson Cure. The switch will flicker on for those who has ears to hear and eyes to see.

  • @calviahill6864
    @calviahill6864 Год назад +8

    You are talking about me, no Legacy to leave behind because of the black woman she posed too many threats and don't even realize it but if she do realize it she deliberately ignores it like it doesn't exist

  • @foxbat37
    @foxbat37 Год назад +8

    thick you. so much for saying that i am 41 w no kids you hit it on the money keep up the good work.

  • @lilbfrom094princeton8
    @lilbfrom094princeton8 Год назад +9

    @1:07 If it took more than thirty years to do then it will take more than thirty years to undo. It’s not happening during this lifetime.

  • @g.v.fitmason1326
    @g.v.fitmason1326 Год назад +9

    Wait a Minute, he was giving her 25,000 a month and she still went to Court to try to get more!!! That's Crazy!!

  • @blackstars5642
    @blackstars5642 Год назад +28

    I noticed that a lot AA women are becoming more aggressive and demanding. Lately I've been running into this girl that work at the store and I guess she want me badly but I don't show no interest in her. She be trying to talk to me crazy at the register whenever I don't try to interact with her.

    • @artbunker
      @artbunker Год назад

      A few years ago, I had something like that happen to me, in front of my mother

    • @BernardBethea6339
      @BernardBethea6339 Год назад

      Desperation she already has her hoe phase now want a decent man

    • @queenbeaute9967
      @queenbeaute9967 Год назад

      Just ignore her she will get the message

  • @donovansweet142
    @donovansweet142 Год назад +6

    59:53 she said “put your hands together like Birdman,” I’m weak😂😂😂

  • @followmeleadtheway
    @followmeleadtheway Год назад +16

    just a thought if most of these women, no matter the race, can't keep simple friendships with their women counterpart. what's the excuse for not keeping a relationship with a less complicated male counterpart. it's mental, they don't wanna build a relationship, it's all selfish. watch these women and how they act towards other women. they'll let you know who they really are and how they act

  • @jstreets1983
    @jstreets1983 Год назад +7

    It’s a risk reward with the risk being everything and the reward being nothing.

  • @busyrand
    @busyrand Год назад +13

    Thanks for mentioning Sister Ali's appearance on Courtney Michelle's platform. I'd have totally missed it.

  • @thebalance871
    @thebalance871 Год назад +7

    Since they have a negative outlook on everything positive or good that means they will continue doing worst. This justifies them to behave the way they do.

  • @deborahedwards5004
    @deborahedwards5004 Год назад +7

    You are definitely on point! Legacy deprived! Due to the absolute ignorance of the black women! The black man does not want to tolerate their emotional antics! They prefer to remain stress free!

  • @maryoconnor2596
    @maryoconnor2596 Год назад +15

    I needed to hear some of this tonight, I'm an Irish white woman.
    First few times I wasn't hearing you, like you said about the spoon feeding, I finally tasted it.. I liked it lol

    • @johnnyboy2411
      @johnnyboy2411 Год назад +3

      Is it good enough to come back for seconds and thirds lol 😆

    • @maryoconnor2596
      @maryoconnor2596 Год назад +1

      @@johnnyboy2411 hahaha definitely

    • @maryoconnor2596
      @maryoconnor2596 Год назад +3

      @Action Potential 22 negative Nancy is what

    • @johnnyboy2411
      @johnnyboy2411 Год назад +2

      @C&G/G&C facts lol. At one point, Irish people weren't considered white in America no disrespect to her btw.

    • @triggered3625
      @triggered3625 Год назад +1

      @Action Potential 22 that was totally unnecessary brother. Good bless you

  • @Demonte202
    @Demonte202 Год назад +9

    who waits 22 years to finesse him in the end

  • @artssportsociety9156
    @artssportsociety9156 Год назад +4

    I'm not ever leaving black woman alone even though one almost destroyed me. I'm just being careful with my choice's red red pill!

    • @earlmiller1442
      @earlmiller1442 Год назад +1

      I'm not gon lie they getting worst man I love black women but it's hard loving them smh

  • @watchmedobetter
    @watchmedobetter Год назад +15

    Another great classic in the books and a strong week finisher. The more Ms Cure breaks down the psychological of the females of today(modern women), unless you know black history, a professional therapist, and or you work with special need children it's difficult to date and separate these lionesses from hyena demons( Supernatural breed).

  • @crook6218
    @crook6218 Год назад +9

    Surprised Courtney "the chameleon " entertained speaking with Mrs Ali.

  • @aeubanks0
    @aeubanks0 Год назад +8

    Continue to tell the TRUTH my Sister. My legacy is secure. My SON is my legacy. Tell this young generation of women what they need to do!!!! 🙏✨☯️

  • @frankjames6232
    @frankjames6232 Год назад +4

    I'm just like the movie on RUclips called the diary of a tired Blackman

  • @wallaceisking
    @wallaceisking Год назад +3

    My father was married to his ex wife for 20 years - he told me for 16 of the 20 she gave him hell. He said it was only the last 4 years she calmed down before she died. After her death he told me that he would never marry an american black woman again and INFACT was planning on moving to the Philippines based off how the Filipina nurses were treating him at the time . He had converted to a passport bro without zero knowledge of the actual movement before he died at the age of 65. Now if THAT isn’t confirmation of where we are then i don’t know what is. RIP Dad. 🙏🏾🕊️❤

  • @ganymede8395
    @ganymede8395 Год назад +7

    You are wonderful Kendra! Love you sister

  • @THEORIGINALKINGCHARMING79
    @THEORIGINALKINGCHARMING79 Год назад +3

    You was cutting up, with the medicine 🤣

  • @gmack7488
    @gmack7488 Год назад +3

    I'm tired of sisters interrupting my spirit with stupid shit like working too much and not wanting to be all in the clubs in your 40s mid 40s it gets OLD.

  • @MrCantfindanynames
    @MrCantfindanynames Год назад +2

    I wish I would be talking to a young woman, going out with her, talking on the phone all kinds of hours just to find out I'm part of a rotation???? The heck??? What is going on nowadays wit dating?!?!? I'm so glad I'm married... I would be so lost in this dating climate. All people is concerned about is getting sumthin outta you. Forget getting to know you and genuinely looking for a husband. Heck, u gotta check to make sure they're biological women before you even start talking smh. What is going on?? 😳... Another great show Ms Crimson 👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿

  • @stanforddavis5286
    @stanforddavis5286 Год назад +4

    You right because I am a man who has almost got it together with solid income, mobility, intelligence and most importantly, my spirituality. Been married 3 times but each marriage was sabotaged by them in one way or another. 3 strikes and I’m out!

  • @followmeleadtheway
    @followmeleadtheway Год назад +18

    I'm a 6/10 I'm starting my new career at 34 after being a truck driver and before that the army. so stability was never my life and I'm behind the ball on family as well as finances, due to my earlier years of irresponsibility. but I'm not too worried about either of those because those things will grow now I'm stationary and A LOT wiser. plus I pick good careers that have longevity. I got out of trucking because thats a dying industry I got out of the army cause I did two active combat wars, I really believed my third time would be my last if I went, so I left before it happened. now I work HVAC which has many different spider webs of career choices and I stay in Florida so it's just a matter of time after I pay my dues before the real money start raking in. hell I got 2 raises this year a lone. started at 14 now I'm at 18. that's less than a year of working there

    • @dreboltontupac
      @dreboltontupac 10 месяцев назад

      Go Indy… start your LLC… Your welcome

    • @followmeleadtheway
      @followmeleadtheway 10 месяцев назад

      @@dreboltontupac since that post I went to a bigger company after gaining as much knowledge from my last Hvac Job now I'm 24/hr with a month over 2 years experience

  • @brucethornton5181
    @brucethornton5181 Год назад +4

    Great show love the content. Looking beautiful Ms Kendra like always.

  • @aeubanks0
    @aeubanks0 Год назад +8

    FIRE!!! This is some of your best work Sis!!!! 💯✨👍👍

  • @Demonte202
    @Demonte202 Год назад +7

    this what they need playing over the intercom in schools and buisnesses

  • @MightyR1000
    @MightyR1000 Год назад +4

    Golden wisdom with truthful facts!!!

  • @sexysingerify
    @sexysingerify Год назад +2

    God Bless you, Sister Kendra 🙏 ❤ !
    As Usual - Thank you Very, Very Much !
    Have a SAFE AND HEALTHY AND BLESSED WEEKEND !
    I Truly Appreciate you !

  • @darnellfreeman1111
    @darnellfreeman1111 Год назад +7

    Tia wants what Jenny Mai has. But Jenny Mai is the exception not the rule. She will find out real fast how wrong she is

  • @SCoal-hm7ub
    @SCoal-hm7ub Год назад +1

    This Sista is on it! Thank you Kendra! CC👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🌹🌹🌹🌹🌹

  • @anthonyah238
    @anthonyah238 Год назад +1

    I love this truth. I’m a 48 yr old black man. I don’t date because I don’t see the point in it. It’s hard to find a black woman understand her feminine nature & purpose. The black man’s 4p’s are in play but we’re the black women who know how to nurture, submit & be a helpmeet.

  • @wavybump
    @wavybump Год назад +2

    Love a good analogy... We tried to spoon feed em and they said they where grown. So we slam the bowl on the counter and walk away saying "ok feed yourself"..

  • @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L
    @LONEWOLF..314-S-T-L Год назад +3

    GREAT TALKING POINTS MA'AM AS USUAL MA'AM 👍🏾💯🌄

  • @akatheheretic3014
    @akatheheretic3014 Год назад +5

    One of the BEST Videos ever !! 👏😏
    (On This Subject) 😉👌
    SUBSCRIPTED ‼️.

  • @5444heru
    @5444heru Год назад +4

    Great lesson for the young sister.

  • @KeithBeacham
    @KeithBeacham Год назад +3

    Mother owes no taxes on child support.

  • @wb3381
    @wb3381 Год назад +2

    I tried to love them in the ideal, but now.I started living in reality

  • @Aberamentho2010
    @Aberamentho2010 Год назад +3

    We are leaving WESTERN BW alone. Please be clear that we love bw, it's just become apparent that the modern day western bw is unsuitable to build with. We will just find cooperative & suitable women in other coutries (Africa, South America etc etc).

  • @augustusb3501
    @augustusb3501 Год назад +6

    Keep giving them hyenas that work Kendra. They need that everlasting work!

  • @jamie4622
    @jamie4622 6 месяцев назад

    Real Talk. There it is right there ..We have tried to love and help these sisters , but the Sisterhood don't want it. We tried to feed them and get them to eat their vegetables, and spoon feed them. But just like a child, they turned their nose up, and pushed us away, like a child pushing away the spoon. Excellent illustration Mrs. Crimson. I love it. ❤

  • @jeffreyneal1039
    @jeffreyneal1039 Год назад +3

    Men are leaving because we can no longer watch the distruction of the children.. we have to build elsewhere

  • @LOGICAL-JAY
    @LOGICAL-JAY Год назад +5

    @55:50 I knew two women that were receiving around 5k a month in child support in the past..they never caused trouble, they didn't talk bad about the dad, they took care of 1 or 2 kids with that money(plus they worked) and they were as happy as if they were still with the dads...how the hell does a person mess up 25k a month to take care a child?? COME ON NOW..at this point I start to question the mental..if someone was giving me 25k on top of my salary I would be the best of friends with that person..lol...if the money is balanced right I would eventually quit my job and be a dedicated stay home parent..who in their right mind would complain about that deal??

  • @jonathanhamilton9478
    @jonathanhamilton9478 Год назад +7

    I believe it’s not a man place to understand a woman and it’s not a woman place to understand a man but submit to each other for further understanding everything take chance and then come understanding of each other every person is not the same learn each other this key

  • @differentmindset7924
    @differentmindset7924 Месяц назад +1

    Excellent commentary period!!!!

  • @garrettdavis6500
    @garrettdavis6500 Год назад +3

    Modern day Blk Women chase Zaddy, or Juan, ride as a mistress than when Zaddy -O, & Juan are tired of them, & their burned-out they run to Blk Men. My vote, keep rolling.

  • @nathanielchucklove8516
    @nathanielchucklove8516 Год назад +1

    The music and social media on many levels has poisoned their minds

  • @bruceellison9269
    @bruceellison9269 Год назад +7

    Shaharazad ali warned them decades ago sysbm

  • @coo3disk1
    @coo3disk1 Год назад +6

    10:34 Unfortunately, I think it took to long for everyone else to figure out that what Shahrazad Ali was saying about Black woman was true, it had been true for many years up to when she said it and the women aren't changing any time soon.

  • @uglytruth636
    @uglytruth636 Год назад +17

    My son's mom is one more damn word from getting her walking papers

    • @coldhardtruth333
      @coldhardtruth333 Год назад

      What do you mean your sons mom? This has nothing to do with your son .. This is your ex .

    • @delontesmith6355
      @delontesmith6355 Год назад +1

      ​@@coldhardtruth333i think that's what he's reduced her to as just his son's mom and nothing more.

  • @vante2129
    @vante2129 Год назад +23

    I only want to be with a black woman but man they do make it hard I'm not in the mood for seeking a partner elsewhere however I do get more attention from non black women than I do black women I can see why many of my brothers go elsewhere it's understandable

    • @jrr7031
      @jrr7031 Год назад

      ...pftt...
      Well, may the odds be ever in your favor.

    • @earlmiller1442
      @earlmiller1442 Год назад +1

      It's extremely hard loving black women and its getting worst why because they listening to suki or the Megan the stallions of the world but then when a black man leave and go to another race he looked at as weak or a trader for not being able to deal with a black woman and her foolishness...

  • @cloudair4154
    @cloudair4154 Год назад +1

    30:20 she brought in that old school late 80s cartoon thing they used to say before commercials lol

  • @oligarchytheatre777
    @oligarchytheatre777 Год назад +4

    I'm ready to REORGANIZE THIS WHOLE THING WHEN WE CAN MOSTLY UNIFY ATLEAST 30%+....

  • @ramsesosiris292
    @ramsesosiris292 Год назад +2

    GREAT SHOW QUEEN.

  • @JoshualonShores
    @JoshualonShores Год назад

    Good morning....
    Ms Gorgeous...
    I am testifying the true blessing and faith you are incredible and Elegant..
    Thank you very very very very very very very much for your message to us all especially me you saved my life as a man to make great...
    The importance of living and understanding why are you.
    We as brothers and sisters we all get it before it's too late to recognize right from wrong
    Again thank you for saving my life and right decisions in life..
    Blessings to you and your family and many more

  • @Dstyle77
    @Dstyle77 Год назад +2

    Your intelligence, connection to love and humanity of our people is a beautiful thing.

  • @charlescoreyz4184
    @charlescoreyz4184 Год назад +2

    love you sis

  • @shawnrobin2913
    @shawnrobin2913 Год назад +1

    I wish u can a video more than 1 like at a time. Preach my sister

  • @sleepyscarlife1026
    @sleepyscarlife1026 Год назад +3

    Put me on the line for our people

  • @stoneyislandranch9783
    @stoneyislandranch9783 Год назад +8

    Correction: she threatened to take him to courtasking for more and he said no and took her to court and put himself on child support.. and the court said he was over paying.. and reduced her to $6,700

    • @odog76543
      @odog76543 Год назад

      These chicks are dumb. They don't even do their homework regarding the differences in how child support amounts are calculated state to state. It would be too easy to find out that he was overpaying and to not threaten to put him on it as if he couldn't find out on his own how much the state would make him pay. I did that when I filed for divorce so that I knew how much monthly mine would be.

    • @naginaosborne5113
      @naginaosborne5113 Год назад

      That's not a lot of money for a man that's worth 50 million. He should want his son to live his best life.

    • @odog76543
      @odog76543 Год назад

      @@naginaosborne5113 that's your opinion. Apparently the state calculated his due amounts based on how much he makes and that's what it was set at. Most children aren't getting $6700 a month in child support, so you sound absurd trying to downplay the amount.
      More importantly, wanting your son to live the best life doesn't mean throwing money at him. It means teaching him how to be a man and earn his own way, build his own legacy. Something you chicks Don't understand until you get into relationships with pathetic men who can't do for themselves because they're crying about what mommy and daddy ain't do for them.

    • @odog76543
      @odog76543 Год назад

      Imagine how pathetic and inept you have to be to not be able to thrive off of over $80000 tax free a year for over 20 years of your life. It just proves that money doesn't make the man, especially when it it simply given and not earned. Guarantee you that his trifling ass momma didn't contribute anywhere near as much as 50 Cent did either. She basically lived completely off of the child support and didn't earn or contribute any of her own income.

    • @naginaosborne5113
      @naginaosborne5113 Год назад

      @@odog76543, he should want his children to live like him. I don't think he should give her the money. I gave my daughter her child support money from her dad because it wasn't mine. He is a good dad and grandfather.

  • @snowdonromeo5399
    @snowdonromeo5399 Год назад

    Thank you 🙏🏾 so much for being a real one✨

  • @sleepyscarlife1026
    @sleepyscarlife1026 Год назад +1

    In the name of peace and blessings

  • @thepashaj7425
    @thepashaj7425 Год назад

    You really really high lighting true issues. Lord have mercy !

  • @b.p.m.5136
    @b.p.m.5136 Год назад +4

    Only slay demons not chase them

  • @tylerabraham1576
    @tylerabraham1576 Год назад +1

    I love your channel. You are needed in our community today. Maybe you can save us.

  • @christopherbinion4321
    @christopherbinion4321 Год назад +1

    “Might as well write my name on a card that can say it better” in my Ron Isley vc. 😅🙌🏾

  • @blkprince223
    @blkprince223 Год назад +1

    They Don't have any Love for the community. They used to pretend. Now they're just shameless.

  • @b.p.m.5136
    @b.p.m.5136 Год назад +2

    Never fall in love with Pleasure, money and control ones anger

  • @aceblanco12
    @aceblanco12 Год назад +2

    Sad how alot these females will be alone period!!!!

  • @imassakin1607
    @imassakin1607 Год назад +1

    Facts on top of facts.

  • @LOGICAL-JAY
    @LOGICAL-JAY Год назад +3

    @48:58...4 year old BMWs and ratchet BW are great examples of money pits..you'll loose thousands of dollars trying to make it work..lol

  • @spreadlovenotlies77
    @spreadlovenotlies77 Год назад +2

    I still open doors for bw, i will change a flat, i will chat with them in the grocery store ,but when it comes to dating them or having sex with them i 🏃 in a different direction, i wish them all the respect and love in the world but my peace is most important,life is too short!

  • @josephgreen4179
    @josephgreen4179 Год назад +1

    Because they ARE NOT worth the headache they are causing

  • @RaymondIsiah
    @RaymondIsiah 11 месяцев назад

    16:14 not the Seinfeld reference 😂