What Aubrey's Father Did To Her That Changed Her Life | Toni Talks

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  • Опубликовано: 5 сен 2024
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  • @realtalkssss
    @realtalkssss 2 года назад +6267

    Petition to interview Ms. Heart Evangelista. I want to hear her story after getting married with Sen. Chiz. Huhu

    • @markluigi
      @markluigi 2 года назад +93

      Makikichismis ka lang Naman .

    • @gspotlight04
      @gspotlight04 2 года назад +31

      That would be good interview

    • @rosaleacalmerin1568
      @rosaleacalmerin1568 2 года назад +155

      Petition for vice ganda and ion to interview as a lgbt couple

    • @frai7631
      @frai7631 2 года назад +43

      No, please lols

    • @KimberlyBasario
      @KimberlyBasario 2 года назад +4

      yes pleasee

  • @bebekojoven
    @bebekojoven 2 года назад +960

    As a public senior high school teacher, sometimes binibiro ko ang mga students ko about sex education since we all know that in their generation, marami sa kanila ang mapupusok so I educate them. But through this video, natakot ako. I realize na pano if merong akong student na may pinagdadaanan na katulad nito. This is a mind opener to me to be more sensitive about the sex education topic kasi baka ma-misinterpret nila. Thank you Miss Toni G. for this episode.

    • @godswarriorprincess4526
      @godswarriorprincess4526 2 года назад +29

      Yes thank you for your realization as an educator.. Teacher pa ni Ms. Aubrey nagbigay ng maling advise sa kanya...

    • @melitaaquino5182
      @melitaaquino5182 2 года назад +17

      @@godswarriorprincess4526 ..naalala ko po 7 yrs old palang naging pupil ko noon ng magsumbong at di po pinapaniwalan ng lolo at lola..mabuti po naisumbong sa dswd dahil di nman makontak ang bantay bata
      Nahuli at naikuling ang tito nia ..
      Godbless Miss Aubrey..ty Miss Toni..

    • @morningdew8327
      @morningdew8327 2 года назад +11

      Sir you have to open up sa mga students mo about all kinds of abuse. Tell them po they can tell you about it.

    • @jonaobamos8293
      @jonaobamos8293 2 года назад +2

      Yes po

    • @umaliadventures
      @umaliadventures 2 года назад +5

      I think its okay to teach them but educate them about this kind of situation as-well to not be afraid to open up.

  • @ericvhoi
    @ericvhoi 2 года назад +852

    I am a father of two girls. I can't really understand why a father can do this to his own kid. I would rather shoot myself in the head than do this. Shameless. Disgusting. Hateful. You are a brave woman. Stay strong ma'am. Bless up.

    • @slarteamb.9149
      @slarteamb.9149 2 года назад +31

      as she mention her father is also a victim of abused when he was a child, usually Ang mga taong nakakaranas ng abuse Nung bata pa sila tumatatak Yan sa pusot,isipan nila at kung walang mag gagabay at mag papaintindi sa kanila malaking posibilidad na Gawin nila Yan sa magiging anak o mga batang nasa paligid nila, Yan kasi Ang paraan nila para makagante sa ng abuse sa kanila nuon , Ang Gawin din sa iba Ang ginawa sa kanila, kaya importante pag my mga na abuse na Bata proper guidance and support Ang ibigay, para hindi maulit Ang nakaraan sa kasalukuyan.

    • @mariemendez9271
      @mariemendez9271 2 года назад +34

      Bkt nga po kaya ganun no alam mo nmn kung ano ang pakiramdam ng maabuso pero gagawin mo padin sa iba or sa pamilya mo.

    • @gwenomegas9259
      @gwenomegas9259 2 года назад +19

      Be thankful to God that you have the grace to know what is right before the eyes of God and let us pray for those whose are in darkness, unfortunately they can’t see the light, it’s our duty to God to pray for others🙏🙏🙏

    • @reemschannel1575
      @reemschannel1575 2 года назад +8

      Iba iba kc kaisipan ng tao sana lahat ng tatay kagaya mo ☹️☹️☹️

    • @geromevallestero
      @geromevallestero 2 года назад +1

      @@slarteamb.9149 I guess kasi nagkaroon ng mental illness yung father nya dahil na abuso din sya...I think hindi na sila normal, i mean wala na din sila sa katinuan...

  • @genevetundag3014
    @genevetundag3014 2 года назад +252

    "Pressed but not crushed, persecuted not abandoned, strucked down but not destroyed"
    You've just ended a cycle.
    I have so much respect with these kind of people. May God Bless you even more Ms. Aubrey🙏🙏🙏

  • @miksdaily_
    @miksdaily_ 2 года назад +7

    I feel her, that traumatic abuse. Up until now, di ko pa din napapatawad nagmolestya sa akin way back 2nd year college ako hanggang sa grumaduate na ako. Yung halos mabaliw baliw ka kakaisip kung ano pa ang pwede mangyari. Depression and anxiety na ang hirap ihandle. But still, thankful kay Lord na hindi niya ako pinabayaan nung time na ayaw ko na mabuhay. Sa mga katulad kong may mga trauma na hindi basta basta mawawala, keep on fighting! May awa si Lord! 🙏

    • @leia4354
      @leia4354 Год назад

      Praying for your healing.

  • @odessacasalme7230
    @odessacasalme7230 2 года назад +145

    Dear Lord,Please ingatan nyo ang lahat ng batang naaabuso ..At bigyan nyo sila ng taong handa tumulong at makinig sa kanila.Amen

  • @roginebiador5950
    @roginebiador5950 2 года назад +470

    Sakit sa dibdib, Dami kong luha dito!- Grabe I will never complain sa struggles ko sa buhay kasi yung iba sobra sobra talaga ang struggles at trilas nila, God really heals and He loves us all ❤️❤️❤️

    • @roginebiador5950
      @roginebiador5950 2 года назад +8

      @@rowenabandoy3320 Grabe ang Experience ng tao kaya di dapat tayo basta basta nanghuhusga nalang

    • @rowenabandoy3320
      @rowenabandoy3320 2 года назад +3

      @@roginebiador5950 yes po Tama Wala naman po akong hinuhusgahan. Sir

    • @dyezebelsalvador
      @dyezebelsalvador 2 года назад +3

      Agree

    • @cesscaabay6981
      @cesscaabay6981 2 года назад +17

      I used to say this to myself but it doesn't help. May you not invalidate your struggles just because other people had it worse. Your trials are reasonable, too. 🥰

    • @mjferrer3444
      @mjferrer3444 2 года назад +1

      sobra..habang nakikinig aq sa kwento nya..puro bakit?tinatanong ko…hay…

  • @yoonajimenez6222
    @yoonajimenez6222 2 года назад +475

    Hearing this Ms. Aubrey's story makes me realize how blessed I am with my parents. And I am always grateful to God for that.

    • @racquelas8626
      @racquelas8626 2 года назад +6

      True sometimes I feel sad and bad.couz were nothing..but to have a good parents makes me lucky coz i grew with love support and respect...

    • @dollytamayo4819
      @dollytamayo4819 2 года назад +3

      Lahat ng tao ay may kankanyang toka na gagampanan hnd tayo isinilang sa mundong ito ng walang kadahilan,ganun pa man ang DIOS ama na maka pangyarihan sa lahat ang siyang nakaka alam ng lahat kayat ano pa man ang nka toka sa atin ay wag tayong pang hihinaan ng loob dahil ang lahat ng nangyayari sa ating lahat mabuti man o mahirap ang lahat ng ito ay may dahilan para din sa ating ikabubuti dahil walang plano ang ang DIOS na ating ikasasama lahat ng itoy para din sa ating ikabubuti..Wag lang tayong mawawalan ng tiwala sa DIOS magpakatatag lng tayo at laging manalangin na wag tayong pabayaan at isipin palagi na nag hihintay lamang siya ng ating pag tawag sa kanya, ang ating DIOS na mapag mahal at mapag patawad....🙏❤❤❤

    • @progovt1207
      @progovt1207 2 года назад +2

      That's what I was thinking while watching. How lucky we are to have our parents who raised us well. Worked hard to give us a good life. But regrets for our mistakes and pain and hurt we caused them.

  • @markjosephcayanan9504
    @markjosephcayanan9504 2 года назад +15

    yung linya ni Ms. Toni na "The moment you felt free was the moment when you felt His forgiveness." totoo talaga to. God's forgiveness can do wonders in your life talaga. 😭 thank you, Jesus!

  • @donmariano8475
    @donmariano8475 2 года назад +31

    She's so brave. If I were in her shoes, I can't imagine my self forgiving the father who abused my innocence. That's painful, most painful story I've heard. But Glory to God, she find her peace.

  • @lilymarie1406
    @lilymarie1406 2 года назад +341

    The sad reality is,sexual abuse,crimes against children,child rape and domestic violence is very common. The good thing is our society now has been more understanding and empathetic to victims. I hope we can do more as a society to change this,hold these monsters accountable. I am praying for everyone’s healing.♥️

    • @eivasdiary2927
      @eivasdiary2927 2 года назад +7

      Naalala ko lang mga nangyare sakin nung bata ako. Pero ni minsan wala.pa nakaalam sa family ko dahil takot ako... Daldala ko in since 8years old ako ngaun 32 years old na ako

    • @givemarcelino5237
      @givemarcelino5237 2 года назад +1

      @@eivasdiary2927 d ka nag-iisa mam...but then hwag nating hayaan sila ang sirain tau...

    • @mightyobserver12
      @mightyobserver12 2 года назад

      Tapos pagtatawanan lang ng ibang tao. Ang pinoy mahilig sa victimblaming.

    • @mightyobserver12
      @mightyobserver12 2 года назад

      @@eivasdiary2927 i share mo

    • @morfnawiat8419
      @morfnawiat8419 2 года назад

      Eivas diary na rape din ako ng pinsan ko when i was 13. 35 na ako ngayon.
      Di ko matanggap na kadugo ko ung bumaboy sa katawan ko.
      Kaya 3 times ako naging kabit kc for me wala ng kwenta pagkababae ko.
      Pero Thanks God kc binata ung naging asawa ko.
      Wala siyang issue sa past ko. Kasi sinabi ko lahat sa kanya nung una palang.
      May 2 na kaming anak.

  • @agustineduardo2336
    @agustineduardo2336 2 года назад +153

    "Kung kelan ka nakulong dun ka naman pinalaya ni God". Powerful testimony! 💯 To God be all the glory.

  • @emmajaneaquino7972
    @emmajaneaquino7972 2 года назад +489

    What I like about this show is that Toni lets her guests talk first and she knows what questions to ask. Ang dami ring life lessons na matutunan. Well done👍

    • @krystelvalenzuela3468
      @krystelvalenzuela3468 2 года назад +20

      agree, she listens- not only toni talks toni listens too.. great quality of an interviewer, then all guests seem comfy kahit sensitve topic..

    • @Rociokirsten
      @Rociokirsten 2 года назад +5

      @@krystelvalenzuela3468 True and we can really feel the story.

    • @Mrdoria1993
      @Mrdoria1993 2 года назад +4

      napansin ko din yan...

    • @krystelvalenzuela3468
      @krystelvalenzuela3468 2 года назад +2

      @@Rociokirsten ❤️❤️💕💕

    • @janiceng6789
      @janiceng6789 2 года назад +6

      @@ismrph may iba kasi na banat lang ng banat ng questions kahit nagsasalita pa si guest. Kay toni is pinapakinggan nya muna bago ang ffup.

  • @morningdew8327
    @morningdew8327 2 года назад +4

    Ms Toni sana po mkatulong ka sa mga abuse women/kids. Sobrang blessed mo sa lahat ng bagay time to share from your YT money!

  • @rinaquintano442
    @rinaquintano442 2 года назад +62

    Its never easy to share what youve been through - to relive the trauma, the pain but you chose to be strong to comfort others. Thank you so much for doing this. May God be with you for all your days, and all glory to Him. 🙇🏾‍♀️

  • @graceforlish
    @graceforlish 2 года назад +62

    Saddest part of being abused - yung hindi ka pinaniwalaan. May everyone who has the same experience feel God's love and comfort. I pray that God will heal every trauma and pain that keeps on playing back in our minds. This is no longer our battle, it is the Lord's.

  • @msemily.
    @msemily. 2 года назад +466

    Heartbreaking and very traumatic your past experienced Ms. Aubrey pero you’re very brave woman.
    Thank you for sharing your story, it helps those people na nakakaranas din ng abused and trauma.
    Salamat sa buhay mo po dahil ginagamit ka ni Lord to spread the word of God and how forgiveness help you para makaramdam ka ng PEACE and LOVE na walang sinuman ang makakapagbigay sa atin kundi ang lumikha sa atin.
    Truly your life is a blessing po.

    • @eowynewynwyn1091
      @eowynewynwyn1091 2 года назад +2

      grabe Ang hirap pag naranasan mo Ang muntik ma rape. Ako Nung 11 years old ako muntik ako marape ng trabahador namin. Hanggang ngayon na 22 na ako clear parin Ang nangyari sakin.

    • @melxian5617
      @melxian5617 2 года назад +1

      @@eowynewynwyn1091 ate hindi po muntik...nirape po sya ng paulit ulit ng papa nya....at alam yun ng mga kamag anak at nanay nya

  • @claudinea.alcaneses8660
    @claudinea.alcaneses8660 2 года назад +458

    Totoong ang pag nagseek ka ng pagmamahal sa tao, it will disappoint you, but if your seek love from God you'll find unconditional love too ❤️. Thank you Ate Toni and Ms. Aubrey for being an inspiration, lalo na sa mga taong nakaranas ng pang aabuso 🤍

    • @SisDollyTv
      @SisDollyTv 2 года назад +5

      Big Chk... Kasi Kung Don mo Hahanapin sa mga Tao kalutasan ng mga Problema mo, mabibigo kalang.. Pero pag uunahin mong Kausapin c God.. Ilatag mo sa kanya lahat mga Pasanin mo, Mararanasan mo ang gaan ng Kalooban mo, sya ang Nagbibigay Lakas syo sa panahon nah ikay nang Hihina... Kung Talonan kaman sa paningin ng Iba... Namamayagpag ka naman Sa Paningin ng Diyos🙏❤️🥰

    • @ash2793
      @ash2793 2 года назад +3

      Ang tanga nung teacher busit!ganun na nga lang ang life niya ganun pa ang sinabi niya mas dinala niya lang sa mas madilim na buhay yung tao,hopefully maging ok kana at maging masaya ka kasama ng mga anak mo at sana lahat ng kailangan mo sa buhay God will provide it keep safe and sana maging friend kita or yung mga anak mo🥰😇

    • @dyezebelsalvador
      @dyezebelsalvador 2 года назад +1

      Totoo yan

    • @jomo2332
      @jomo2332 2 года назад +1

      @@SisDollyTv Amen 🙏
      I agree

    • @miramb
      @miramb 2 года назад +1

      I agree

  • @mariaanacavite1148
    @mariaanacavite1148 2 года назад +138

    This content of Ms. Toni has been very interesting to me as a social worker. Currently I'm on training for Child Protection Unit who will be handling special cases like VAWC

    • @joyclarrizefilipino9009
      @joyclarrizefilipino9009 2 года назад +1

      How's the process to deal with it if you want to help other people dealing with that kind of exprience where you cannot help your self to deal with the same experience? Future SW

    • @jeahyangyang5767
      @jeahyangyang5767 2 года назад

      I'm also a social work student and this interview is an eye opener for me. I hope in the future I will be one of the member of Child Protection Unit.

  • @richardpineda
    @richardpineda 2 года назад +17

    I recognize this kind of pain. It must’ve taken so much time for her to even find the words to tell her story. I hope everyone who is going through something similar will also find God and the comfort He provides. 🙏🏻
    Faith is such a powerful thing.

  • @madielyncandelaria737
    @madielyncandelaria737 2 года назад +35

    "Kung kailan ka nakulong dun ka pinalaya ni Lord..."
    Pag si Lord talaga ang kumilos sa buhay ng bawat isa, super nakaka amaze😇

  • @karenodchimar8924
    @karenodchimar8924 2 года назад +135

    I love that after all what she've been through instead of blaming or questioning God, the first thing she did was humbled herself and ask for forgiveness. She was strong because she has a strong God. And its applies to all of us.

  • @hannahalcalde11
    @hannahalcalde11 2 года назад +123

    1st time I heard her story when I was attending GH-Glorious Hope at CCF MAIN.
    After hearing her, I have a deep desire to hug her. Naging emotional ako sa story niya kasi kung sya nga kayang magpatawad sa mga taong may malalaking issue sa buhay niya, paano naman ako magpatawad kahit sa mga simpleng bagay lang na hirap na hirap ako?
    She’s a strong woman sent by God. Grabe mag bigay ng glory kay Lord yung testimony niya.
    Truly, God is always at work in our midst.

  • @nikdorothy
    @nikdorothy 2 года назад +8

    Suggestion for Dep Ed. Sana ilagay sa protocol ng mga teachers na pag nag sabi sa kanila ang mga pupils or students about abuse, dalhin kaagad sila sa DSWD or VAWC. Ganon yata sa US eh, tinatawagan agad nila ang Child protective services sa mga ganitong cases. Hindi yung katulad dun sa Teacher ni Miss Aubrey. ano ba namang advice yon, na maghanap ng asawa? hay...

  • @rosaliecorpuz618
    @rosaliecorpuz618 2 года назад +18

    Me as a mom, listening to this kind of interview is very touching, may kirot sa puso.
    I also have a very sad childhood, the pain ends with me and I will never let my child feel the same way I've felt before. I promise to LISTEN and be THERE whenever they need me. Di ako makakalimot sabihan sya na mahal na mahal ko sya.

  • @suchz79
    @suchz79 2 года назад +228

    This is heartbreaking. Sana wala ng ganitong klaseng insidente. Praying for peace to everyone. No more heartaches, traumas. Praying for healing.

  • @AngSarapGrabe
    @AngSarapGrabe 2 года назад +109

    Seeking God's LOVE won't disappoint you

  • @divinechannel
    @divinechannel 2 года назад +95

    nakakabilib yung mga ganitong tao na kinayang lampasan yung ganitong klaseng paghihirap! laban lang ate ❤️ Godbless!

  • @roselynpisquiza6052
    @roselynpisquiza6052 2 года назад +2

    Ang sakit sa dibdib. Those who will endure, will be saved. In time of hardship, there’s a blessing. God blessed po.

  • @parkchaeyong6333
    @parkchaeyong6333 2 года назад +39

    It makes us realize that we are blessed that no matter how hard life is we don't experience that kind of pain. Thankyou for making us realize how blessed and lucky we are, Ms. Aubrey.

  • @manuelmarielle9783
    @manuelmarielle9783 2 года назад +113

    Nakakaiyak yung kwento ni Ms. Aubrey, sobrang brave nyo maam, and grabe yung healing, restoration and comfort na nakuha mo at yung pagkilos ni Lord sa buhay nya!!!
    Praise God!!! 🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @ireensalor8519
    @ireensalor8519 2 года назад +77

    Trauma may happen to you, but it can never define you. You're not a victim for sharing your story. You are a survivor setting the world on fire with your truth. May God bless and heal all people who are experiencing and experienced this.

  • @jennyramin4373
    @jennyramin4373 2 года назад +58

    It is so painful to hear and watch. Ang sakit sa dibdib! 🥲 Yung taong dapat na magprotekta sayo, siya yung unang magsasamantala sayo. May God bless u and maging lesson sana to sa lahat ng parents out there, protektahan natin yung ating mga anak.

  • @lexsheillopez3997
    @lexsheillopez3997 2 года назад +2

    Of all those toni talks interviews eto yung pinakamasakit sa puso. Grabeeeehh..salute to you ms. Aubrey youre so strong.

  • @jaylenenicolas4937
    @jaylenenicolas4937 2 года назад +9

    May the Lord continue to widen your platform Ms. Toni, likewise to Ms. Aubrey, what a brave soul in Christ! ♡♡

  • @lalainerecasata7495
    @lalainerecasata7495 2 года назад +151

    She has a heart of gold. I've read a book that people like her are angels with a mission to teach us a lesson. May you find peace Aubrey.God bless!❤❤❤

  • @j_calinaya2508
    @j_calinaya2508 2 года назад +73

    We had the same situation but thankfully I've already recovered.
    But will never forget that tragic memory.

  • @JustMaryPH
    @JustMaryPH 2 года назад +231

    I did not know this strong woman, but I salute her bravery and courage to share her traumatic childhood. As a woman, this is not something you openly talk about in public. Thank you for letting us know that we are not alone. I had my own experiences in the past, but I only kept it to myself. I just let God avenge for me. 😭😭😭

  • @echome57
    @echome57 2 года назад +10

    I admire you Ms. Aubrey. Thank you for sharing your life story. May our Lord continue to heal and strengthen you as you inspire women.
    God bless and more power to Toni Talks.
    All support from E&C Home

  • @rhemraphael
    @rhemraphael 2 года назад +118

    Aubrey, I am so touched by your story. The teachers also play a great role. It would be good if you could organize training for school teachers to know how to detect symptoms of abuse and carry out psychological first aid for the students - this would certainly help save lives! More power to you.

    • @cssgnzls1186
      @cssgnzls1186 2 года назад

      Who is this aubrey?

    • @leonorbanez56
      @leonorbanez56 2 года назад +1

      @@cssgnzls1186 I think she’s a church mate of Toni G

  • @sofiathelast_
    @sofiathelast_ 2 года назад +171

    As someone who had been sexually abused by a sibling when I was young, I really need to hear this. Godbless to her soul and to all survivors out there, you're not alone ❤

  • @nemineangelg.engbino4773
    @nemineangelg.engbino4773 2 года назад +65

    This episode is really moving. 😭
    Just a thought.
    The feeling of being unsafe and invalidated in your own home, and having the people you value and trust the most as your big question marks leading to many 'WHYs' as you mature, it affects her marriage and even putting lotion traumatized her. You are one brave woman Mam Aubrey sharing your story being watched and heard by millions of people is one great act for a person whose been through a lot at a very young age. God bless you po 🤍🌼

  • @Greenway1234
    @Greenway1234 2 года назад +132

    I am very angry and appalled at her mother for not doing anything. As a mother, my biggest rolle is to protect my child and if I have to move heaven and earth to do that, I would. I’m horrified!!

  • @dianemadrideo539
    @dianemadrideo539 2 года назад +31

    Imagine the trauma she had to go through but she still managed to pass it🥺

  • @mlyarnbnhr7131
    @mlyarnbnhr7131 2 года назад +37

    This platform is such an eye opener. More power Miss Toni G. 🔥

  • @shelamariealina9458
    @shelamariealina9458 2 года назад +67

    Dealing with these kind of traumas and still able to forgive, you're the strongest Ms. Aubrey.

  • @phoebe1824
    @phoebe1824 2 года назад +76

    What toni talks taught me is that we don't always have to understand people at all times, We just need to listen to them and their story.

  • @fabiokrueger7833
    @fabiokrueger7833 2 года назад +117

    This episode brought heaviness in my heart. Aubrey really went through a lot but still found God. What an inspiring story. Thanks po, Miss Toni, for this wonderful episode!

  • @mlyarnbnhr7131
    @mlyarnbnhr7131 2 года назад +29

    Why i am crying the whole time 😭 Hurt people, hurt people. I think this is a perfect time to forgive and let go. Thank you for this very strong and moving episode of yours, Toni Talks!!! 🤲

  • @eishywishes7802
    @eishywishes7802 2 года назад +2

    naiiyak aq..na trigger ung mga memories n ayaw q n alalahanin.sobrang brave ni miss aubrey to come out and tell her story.because I cant,until now that Im 32 wala pang nkakaalam kht parents ko ,kht pinakamalalapit q n kaibgan ,its really hard n ikwento sa iba ung mga nangyari. even now that Im typing this naiiyak tlga aq.. I pray na lahat ng dumaan sa ganitong sitwasyon ay maging malakas,maging ok dn sila at sana wala ng babae p ang mkaranas n mapagsamantalahan..

  • @jengmababa4418
    @jengmababa4418 2 года назад +49

    Grabe to!!! Ang galing galing ng Lord!!! She was set free and yung peace talaga nahanap nya. And ofcourse love from God! Agape 💖

  • @joicealmario8044
    @joicealmario8044 2 года назад +6

    i went through physical abused that's why i promised to myself that i will never do it once i have kids. Now, i have two children and with the grace of God, i believe im on the right track as a single parent.♥️🙂

  • @nanakmartinez1323
    @nanakmartinez1323 2 года назад +4

    I feel you ma'am until now at age of 22 andito parin at tama ka po .. hinding hinde talaga yun natin makalimutan kahit magka asawa pa tayu.. ang sakiit dahil tiniis natin yun dahil lamang sa kapakanan ng ating mga kapatid at kahihiyan nadin dahil wlA namang magagawa kung mag susumbong tayu ee ..dahil pag sumabog yung ganitong problema natin tatatak na ito sa isip ng tao .. kaya sinuko ko na lng yung bataan ko sa bf ko kaysa naman ama ko mismu ang mka kuha nito ..minsan iniisip ko nga bat pko binuhay kung sariling ama ko lng din pala ang baboy sakin

  • @jasminportillo2152
    @jasminportillo2152 2 года назад +1

    Sa lahat ng taong nakakaranas or nakaranas ng ganitong sitwasyon, i hope that makalaya na kayo and mas maging malapit si God sainyo. Sending love and hugs, pray lang tayo palagi.🙏

  • @margaponce9381
    @margaponce9381 2 года назад +1

    Sobra akong naiyak ,nakakarelate dn po ako ...gnyan dn po kc nging childhood experience ko ...nakakalungkot kc kung cno pa ung malalapit sau un pa ung gagawa ng nd mgnda pero wala kang choice nd mo maisumbong kc nga kahihiyan sa pamilya...

  • @athenasalbum7636
    @athenasalbum7636 2 года назад +10

    When you experienced the same abused and literally no one ever listened to you thats the hardest part of being the victim of sexual abuse. Yung only way mo to escape the trauma is magseek ng help sa ibang tao cause again, nong time that you tried to open up sa family mo and youre being ignored ibang meaning din ng pain.🥺 So to all experiencing the same abused kapit lang, dasal lang. and know that you have a voice and there are some that will definitely listen to you!🥺💙

  • @TravelwithDarylIris
    @TravelwithDarylIris 2 года назад +13

    Dami kong iyak sa vlog na ito. 😭 i relate to her kasi i was also abused. Totoo lahat ng sinabi nya. Talagang bitbit mo ang trauma..tas ayaw nila makinig kasi shame at taboo..Ngayon may anak na babae ako. I will do everything to protect her..

  • @hanitagraceflores4454
    @hanitagraceflores4454 2 года назад +48

    Toni:Anu ung nahanap mo kay Lord?
    Aubrey: PEACE
    AMEN for this

  • @juntillaman4498
    @juntillaman4498 2 года назад +1

    "Nothing is too difficult with God!"
    He restores, transforms and forgives! The Holy Spirit gives you the boldness to share...
    God bless you Ma'am Aubrey for your boldness and Toni for being a good facilitator and host!

  • @mariannace843
    @mariannace843 2 года назад +21

    Grabe, nakakalungkot ung nangyari sa kanya, nakakaiyak ang interview na to😢😭, pero nakaka inspire din kasi she's a strong woman. Nakayanan niya at nalampasan niya ang masakit na pinagdaanan niya dahil nakilala niya si Lord. Talagang everything happens for a reason. God bless po Ms. Aubrey.

  • @adventurousmarky6727
    @adventurousmarky6727 2 года назад +76

    This is one of the best Toni talks had, it really inspire and give a message of hope to those who were abuse by their family members. Continue to inspire Toni G. We love you from Manticao Misamis Oriental 💙.

    • @zazanovillos1412
      @zazanovillos1412 2 года назад

      I just don't understand why toni choosed those other guest to interview which is she knows they were toxic and hindi naman maging dapat inspirasyon.

    • @leansayslove
      @leansayslove 2 года назад +1

      such an inspiring story.. im also watching here.. silingan rata.. from Naawan, Misamis Oriental...🥰

  • @crizzie24
    @crizzie24 2 года назад +48

    While she detailed everything her Father did to her...I shut my eyes in disbelief. I can't imagine those scenarios..It's really heartbreaking 🥺

  • @KellysMum
    @KellysMum 2 года назад +3

    God is sovereign. Praise God for your life, Ms. Aubrey.

  • @guionaebrahim8465
    @guionaebrahim8465 2 года назад +2

    Sa lahat na na isalang sa channel na to, ito talaga ang tagos sa puso,ang sakit. At nakakahanga siya ❤️

  • @jomo2332
    @jomo2332 2 года назад +22

    Sobrang iyak ko sa episode na ito. Hanga ako sa iyo Audrey sa lahat ng pinagdaanan mo at nakabangon ka muli at di nag give up kay Lord. I'm so happy you found comfort in the hands of God. May God bless you and your family. Thank you to have the courage and strength to share this to us and an eye opener to those that are still afraid to open up.

  • @faelip__studio
    @faelip__studio 2 года назад +34

    Ako lang ba ang excited sa tonitalks every week?

  • @leaminguez2190
    @leaminguez2190 2 года назад +53

    Isa na namang malupet na tonitalks ito road to 6 million subscribers toni G😍 more inspiring episodes.

  • @tessaflores5937
    @tessaflores5937 2 года назад +1

    Nakakaiyak naman...strong woman nakaya niya lahat and Truly with prayers GOD is there ..GOD BLESS YOU...

  • @joan-zx5kn
    @joan-zx5kn 10 месяцев назад +1

    I can relate. This is so painful! Lalo na pag bata ka, lam mong may mali kaso d mo masabi kng ano nagyayari.

  • @jesielynubina133
    @jesielynubina133 2 года назад +12

    We may face different battles in life but always remember that God listens to our prayers. Just believe and always seek His word.

  • @crismabanag1968
    @crismabanag1968 2 года назад +836

    WE CAN FORGIVE PEOPLE BUT WE CANNOT FORGET WHAT THEY DID TO US!

  • @Ponklan_blox
    @Ponklan_blox 2 года назад +61

    Protecting the family's reputation at the expense of the child's future. What greater shame could there be? This is the common scenario among children abused by own loveones. So outraging!
    Happy for you miss aubrey that you found the love that God had for you long before and the courage to forgive. My heart goes out to those victims out there who havent found the way out.

    • @user-yq4en2mi7p
      @user-yq4en2mi7p 2 года назад

      nakakasuka yung mga ganitong kamag-anak sa totoo lang.

  • @BLOXING-GAMES
    @BLOXING-GAMES 2 года назад +1

    Sobrang daming luha lumabas sakin dahil naaalala ko ang nagyari sakin pero ngayon unti unti kong nilalapit sarili ko sa panginoon salamat sa episoid nato

  • @linbradixx4466
    @linbradixx4466 2 года назад +21

    Miss Toni thank you for having this very useful, informative, awakening information to all of us!!!!

  • @catherinellanes7358
    @catherinellanes7358 2 года назад +71

    Toni talks.. is a platform and venue to everyone who is capable of sharing different kind of valuable stories.. Toni really knows how to interact with her guest no mother how sensitive Ang topic is..she knows how to take appropriate approach...it's so inspiring! actually I'm so down this past few days after viewing this interview I realized how blessed I'am... Please do more of this miss Toni! Love you since then❤️

  • @chrismabelisario9643
    @chrismabelisario9643 2 года назад +16

    Grabe sobrang sensitive ng topic😭😭 goosebumps at the same time dko malunok kinakain ko😭 grabe ka talaga ka lord😭 thankyou for sharing this ms toni and ms aubrey. God bless u all😥😥

  • @shacrzrms
    @shacrzrms 2 года назад +34

    Sobrang heavy and heartbreaking naman nang interview ngayon 😭😭😭 I was crying the whole time 😔 can't imagine the struggles she'd been through 💔💔💔

  • @brentsworld7555
    @brentsworld7555 2 года назад +1

    My heart. 🥺
    Iba talaga nagagawa ng prayers.
    Iba talaga kapag na kay Lord ka. ♥️

  • @loretabauca4294
    @loretabauca4294 4 месяца назад

    Thank you so much Ms. Toni for featuring Ms. Aubrey....Though its so much painful...it brings hope, relief for those who have the same sufferings related to her...Sexual traumas at a young age brings so much agony to a childs heart and mind...until adulthood...
    God bless Ms. Toni and Ms. Aubrey🙏❤️🌹

  • @HeiczM
    @HeiczM 2 года назад +176

    As I scroll down and read the comments, it pains me to see so many people sharing that they experienced the same thing. Some are probably still experiencing it and I cannot imagine how much pain you are handling right now. But I hope you'll be brave enough now to seek help. 21:48 glad that Toni added an info on how to atleast contact Glorious Hope, so if anyone one here needs some help, please contact them. Don't be afraid, you are not alone. May you find peace in His arms.

    • @suzilynn6396
      @suzilynn6396 2 года назад +4

      Same as her, trauma din ako ..abuse 5yrs molestation..then naglayas ako at curious bakit may ganyan ..pero nung nabuntis ako at nagka anak..dun ako simulang nagpapatawad pero minsan bumabalik sa isip ko..ngayun i worried also sa baby girl ko sana makapiling ko na xa as soon as possible .

  • @desigirl6899
    @desigirl6899 2 года назад +34

    Hands down the most heartbreaking yet inspiring episode of Toni 😭

  • @mamakatofaotearoa197
    @mamakatofaotearoa197 2 года назад +20

    One of the most powerful testimony I heard. Thank you Miss Aubrey for sharing it. You are such a strong and courageous Woman. Thank you Toni Talks for putting this kind of interview.

  • @mercadolanie7825
    @mercadolanie7825 2 года назад +1

    Ako ung natutrauma listening to her story. So sad. I pray for your complete healing. Grabe lang. Hugss for you ate...

  • @jellymedrano7858
    @jellymedrano7858 2 года назад +1

    Bumuhos po luha ko Ms.Tony. What a story po tlaga . For all the unheard abused people out there we are so proud that you are surviving this kind of trauma.And strong enough to forgive and to help and not return with fury but instead you poured out love to help others survive there demons 🙏 God has His ways of turning scars into a master piece. Saludo po kami sa inyo✊

  • @nursedl5237
    @nursedl5237 2 года назад +16

    Home should be the safest place for everyone, not a dangerous one. Same goes to our family should be our peace of mind not to destroy. 🌻

  • @godswarriorprincess4526
    @godswarriorprincess4526 2 года назад +46

    God bless your life Aubrey! You're such a strong woman of God. May the Lord bless you in everything you do. God loves you so much!

  • @emcee8401
    @emcee8401 2 года назад +108

    Having the RIGHT people to support children in school when these things happen is essential. Providing appropriate training for teachers and counsellors in school is so important so children can trust and receive APPROPRIATE advice and take ACTIONABLE STEPS in coordination with the right government departments to investigate further and take the child out of that situation. When they stay in that situation, unconsciously, it’s passed on to the next generation. Lots of therapy and grieving process. They have to grieve that healthy childhood and family life they didn’t have. I hope the government provide more programs and trainings in place to catch abuse before it gets out of hand, or even before it happens.

    • @FrozenFire26
      @FrozenFire26 2 года назад +5

      I agree. Because in this case, hindi talaga appropriate ang naging advice ng teacher ng magconfide sa kanya ng problema si Ms. Aubrey. Ang sabi ng teacher magtrabaho sya or mag asawa ng mayaman para makaalis sa bahay nila, at ang ginawa nya nag asawa nga sya ng 40+ age. Eh 14 pa lng sya ng time na yun. She can't solve her problem by creating another problem.

    • @vallereyrosepaciente6907
      @vallereyrosepaciente6907 2 года назад

      Njk

  • @myoutputs6434
    @myoutputs6434 2 года назад +7

    The reason why I never wanted to have a daughter as a child. I've been through this, not with my father but with the person my parents trust the most. It was just touching but still it left trauma to my self, it wounded me so much. I don't want my daughter (in the future) to go with the same trauma as I had before.

  • @frauleinjagiya6024
    @frauleinjagiya6024 2 года назад +43

    This is really heartbreaking. Your courage and bravery to share your story is worth emulating, Miss Aubrey. I know of some people who went through the same, and it's been a rough road to recovery for them. May God bless you with more courage and blessings along the way ❤️❤️❤️

  • @jenniferasne7931
    @jenniferasne7931 2 года назад +70

    LAHAT NG BAGAY NA NANGYAYARI SA ATING BUHAY AY MAY DAHILAN HINDI KO LANG MA EMAGINE KUNG PAANO MO ITO NAKAYANAN SOBRA MO AKONG NAPA BELIEVE ATE ❤️ IM SO PROUD OF U ATE AUBREY ❤️

    • @rosenoirci
      @rosenoirci 2 года назад +6

      what the fuck

    • @Ponklan_blox
      @Ponklan_blox 2 года назад +1

      Maybe a little clarification to your statement has to be done. Ang maging biktima ay never para sabihing may dahilan o purpose. Just imagine the pain and confusion na kakain sa biktima hanggat di siya lumalaya.
      The point is, anuman amg pinagdaanan nating pangit at masakit, bunga man ito ng sariling kasalanan o kagagawan ng iba, God, in His mercy and love, takes us out from that darkness, forgives us, heals us and gives us peace. Then from there, we can testify of His power and goodness.

    • @jenniferasne7931
      @jenniferasne7931 2 года назад

      @@Ponklan_blox yes I know , KAYA NGA SUBRANG PROUD AKO Kay ate Aubrey , Kasi NGA nakayanan nya Ang ganitong sitwasyon kahit na nakatatak na Ito SA kanyang pusot isipan ,

  • @Ixxaness
    @Ixxaness 2 года назад +30

    People who cannot protect their children doesn't deserve them. Shame on them.

  • @yuh7604
    @yuh7604 2 года назад +10

    Not even 2 mins in the video, im already crying. Truly heartbreaking. I can relate to whatever shes feeling especially when she said " Walang nakakarinig sakin", exactly what i feel. In order to protect the family's reputation, my guardians hide my trauma to other people.

    • @jonabellemarquez1553
      @jonabellemarquez1553 2 года назад

      oh dear, I hope you can find your way out and get justice...🥰

  • @Katscapade
    @Katscapade 2 года назад +41

    Such a strong woman.
    We really need to step up in making this world a better place. All molesters should be jailed.

  • @celestesanoria6731
    @celestesanoria6731 2 года назад +50

    Thank you ate Toni for featuring a story like this and for letting God use you in this platform. Please continue to be use by GOD in making a way for people to find love,peace, hope and salvation in Jesus! GOD bless you more and more ate Toni. All the works you've done and will do for the LORD and people will definitely not go in vain :)

  • @valeryyy7388
    @valeryyy7388 2 года назад +22

    Another powerful life story.
    I hope people stop advicing and telling them "they're still your family, you should forgive them or be with them no matter what "......cause you know even family can give traumas in your life, toxic people will always be toxic and you never know what they're going through. Protect yourself and your inner peace.

  • @juliegarry8347
    @juliegarry8347 2 года назад +15

    Thank you Ms Aubrey for sharing your life.a courageous woman.

  • @lutaran1298
    @lutaran1298 2 года назад +186

    This story brings back traumatic memories to me as well. I am an abused victim too when i was like her age till im teenager but i keep it myself. Thu I was not raped like her but im still abused. And until now its still in my head and im carrying it in my heart. Not only that i had so much struggles in life that i went through that i dont oftenly open up with my family.

    • @lindziep6319
      @lindziep6319 2 года назад +16

      Same can relate to that, thats why im not that open to anyone im a bit of a pretentious it didnt happen but it affects my past relationships coz of the trauma. And i also just talk to God about my deepest thoughts not to anybody.

    • @TheDrSweetTooth
      @TheDrSweetTooth 2 года назад +5

      *huggss*

    • @shellmichaelc
      @shellmichaelc 2 года назад +4

      HUGGGGSS,😔

    • @abbyramos3333
      @abbyramos3333 2 года назад +4

      Hugs ❤️

    • @AMBlessed724
      @AMBlessed724 2 года назад +4

      May you guys find peace and finished the run 🙏, ❤️ God bless!!

  • @misbaluyot5809
    @misbaluyot5809 2 года назад +1

    Napaka tamang mu nalagpasan mu lahat god will always on your side be strong

  • @jaredjamesjavillonar7196
    @jaredjamesjavillonar7196 2 года назад +1

    I'm so touch with the story of miss aubrey. Sobrang nadala aq sa mga emosyon, on how Lord and her prayers lift her up.... You are a inspiration and a true testimony that Lord is always here on us. That if we seek for him anjan lang xa at nghhintay din sa atin.😇😊

  • @nightfury7024
    @nightfury7024 2 года назад +15

    Thank you Ms. Aubrey for sharing your story. May you continue giving support and comfort to those who have been victims of abuse. God bless you always💜💜💜