This is one of the quotes that is so on point! "An abuser can seem emotionally needy. You can get caught in a trap of catering to him, trying to fill a bottomless pit. But he’s not so much needy as entitled, so no matter how much you give him, it will never be enough. He will just keep coming up with more demands because he believes his needs are your responsibility, until you feel drained down to nothing." Ponder on this Anna & may you find healing, peace & true happiness. No one has the right to abuse someone!!
The world is in a thunderous uproar and it was just one slap/smack 👋 Will Smith gave to Chris Rock on live TV just because of an unambiguous joke that sounds more like a compliment. Ana Jalandoni, enough is enough. You don’t deserve any of that abuse, fear and pain. Time to take back the love for yourself that you were planning to share to someone who never should deserve it. He deserves hell that he put you through. If he ever fix his anger he should live alone for the rest of his rotten life deprived of sex. 👍👍👍 Cancel culture for these kit kind of monsters 👿
@@desmondmiles1066 We’ll change the pronoun when that story is at hand. In the mean👿time we should focus on the actual victim and criminal and not be derailed by gender issues.
Napakadali lang magsalita ng iba dito na hiwalayan na kaagad when you see red flags or whatsoever. Mind you, when you truly love a person at hindi ka lang naglalaro sa relasyon, whatever his or her worst attitude might be, you will try to understand and give him or her more understanding, patience and endless chances as much as you can bear enough. Napakadali lang humusga at magsalita because you were not on her shoes. As I watched the interview I could feel that Ana is sensible, mature and easy going lang, a light person that can joke and take joke lightly. When you love a person again after failed relationship much more a failed marriage, you will gonna trust again hoping for the best outcome of that relationship. Hiwalay agad is never a solution for sensible people!
When your partner hits you for whatever reasons.. He/she already cut the ties between love and respect. You might still love your partner but the respect is already gone.
Totoo. Kaya nga pinaka delikado yung domestic violence. You are abused in your own personal space where you are supposed to feel safe. Tapos biglang kabaligtaran mangyayari. Walang prepared sa ganun so walang nakakaalam ng dapat gawin. Tapos ikaw lang den at yung taong involve ang witness. Hinde ka makakahingi ng tulong until it's too late kasi your mind is playing tricks on you. You'll start questioning your sanity because of the manipulation. Mas mahirap lalo kapag meron ng buhay na involve like kids kasi you would wish to make things work. Kailangan, your self love is very strong in order to leave the toxicity. You are literally sleeping with the enemy.
Whatever the reason is don’t judge the victim because it is still unacceptable to hit and hurt a partner. Babae man, lalake or bakla - no one is exempted from the rule. Domestic violence/assault is a crime. Mas maganda na alamin ang mga red flags at wag i-ignore para hindi na umabot. Umalis na kaagad sa abusive toxic relationship. Brave of Ana to come out and give a voice to other domestic violence victims.
I had a boyfriend like KT, i forgave him once out-of-love kasi, then the 2nd time he hit me, sinabi ko na lang to myself it's my fault. The 3rd time, i still told myself baka mag bago pa when we get married. umabot ng 12th time....that's the moment I realized im so battered na and there's no chance at all na magbago. Today, I learned that he also did the same act to his 3RD wife. Tama sinabi nila, once a man hits you uulitin at uulitin lang nya yun bec that is character and no woman can ever change that. My life has completely changed, happily living with my one and only daughter, own 3 businesses, i got a home i call my own, a car I drive under my name and lahat nun wala sya until today :) Instead gumanti and make his life miserable, i focused on making the best of myself. manghinayang siya hanggang next life! lols
The interview is just very straight forward fair enough to let the subject comfortable yet my heart just stopped when Ana said she was the breadwinner of her family and have had a failed marriage in her past, plus having both parents separated. The worst and sad thing, she deserves to be taken care of by somebody not to be just bitten up just because of so-called anger management disorder and the likes. Again, it breaks my heart knowing her pieces of a story. The way she talks the way she gave her answeres, makikita mo totoong tao sya and sincere na klaseng babae. Ibang klase ka talaga, Boy.. you always hit the spot in the truest sense of every subject na pini featured mo... the BEST!!!
Thats why I salute her.. Ive been with her thru ups and down I know every heartaches and trials she's been through.. And I am grateful for having her as a friend even though we're miles apart now. Still manages to communicate with me every now and then. She's a very strong and independent woman.
Her story is scary, she got into a broken marriage and then was abused physically by her next partner and felt she was gonna be killed! 💔 Be thankful if you haven’t experienced what she has gone through. No woman deserves abuse of any kind! Laban lang Ms. Ana! Hoping you will find your forever love someday ❤️🩹
Very well said. Being a man i can't even imagine physically hurting the woman that i love or anyone. Her man is a psycho. Respect is very important in any relationship.
He is a definitely a narcissist psychopath just like my ex husband. They seems very sweet when they want you and became obsessed. Then they turn into an evil person as the relationship progresses. Once you see a sign start packing yourself or start finding ways to cut the relationship while you can. Don’t wait for the relationship to go deeper or you’ll regret it. Read about narcessist psychopath/sociopath. You’ll be able to avoid this type of man in the future. The first sign is they are very fast or seem to rush you get into a relationship, showing you how much they are interested in you instead of just meeting you up without forcing you for meet up. And the rest is history... be careful girls.!
This is typical of a guy who’s abusive , controlling & obsessive. You are a brave woman, Ana- fight for it!!!! You don’t deserve the trauma you got! A wake up call to all of us women to speak up & know the signs of relationships w/ men who gets too clingy , protective & obsessed - they can turn into monsters!!! You can’t be trusting nowadays!!! Go Ana !!! Fight, fight lang!! I know you gave full support from family & friends!!!
To the ENABLERS/VICTIM BLAMERS in the comment section: NOTHING JUSTIFIES ABUSE!!!! Abuse is abuse, period! Whether or not someone cheated or is flirty, it does not give the other person the right to lay a hand on someone else. IN SHORT, WALANG MAG JUJUSTIFY SA ABUSE, verbal, emotional or physical. Also, Ana’s reluctance to divulge information especially sensitive ones might be attributable to the fact that there is an on-going legal action. Wag kayong mema. Upgrade your mindset, 2022 na po.
@@arvinsheet sige ipagpalagay na nagcheat. Mali den yun. Pero hinde pa rin dapat nananakit yung lalake ng mas mahina sa kanya. Logic behind that is iba ang physical makeup ng lalake sa babae. So kahit bugbugin mo yan, malamang di naman yan makakalaban. Point is, hinde ka dapat nananakit period. Lalo pag alam mong wala naman laban sayo yung tao kasi kaduwagan yon. Kaya nga may batas dyan, kasi the law were created for those who are weak and cannot protect themselves. Not just women. kids, matanda, disabled etc. If i-allow mo ang sarili mo sa ganyang reasoning... maraming pwedeng mamatay or makapatay. Physical violence is violence. Hinde dapat yan jinajustify kasi it will just encourage others to the same that's why it should be condemned.
I felt like Ana was authentic/honest in sharing her side. Hindi parang yung typical interview vibe na nakukuha ko sa ibang artista na may tinatago for the sake of their image and career. She had “nothing” to lose. I wish her the best and to heal from this. She deserves respect and the space to heal from this. Grabe I wanna hug her.
I was a victim of physical abused and believe me hindi talaga siya biro, kahit wala na kami nung ex ko na yun nandito parin yung trauma saken may takot padin ako may times na naiiyak padin ako everytime na naalala ko yung sinapit ko sakanya. Pero mabait talaga si lord kasi inilayo nya ako sa tao na yun at ngayon maayos at masaya ako with my live in partner and sa anak namin. Sana Miss Ana maging ok ka at maging mas tatagan mo pa loob mo. God is good everything will be okay. 😊❤
I hope you also seek counseling to help you emotionally and mentally. My daughter went through the same thing and therapy really helped her get through a very traumatic experience. I hope Ana will also seek professional help to get through this 🙏
I salute you boy for being able to thresh out the deeper issues. Yours is not just a superficial chismis session but rather, being able to understand the real issue.
The way Ana deliver every words, sentence and how she tried to bring back all the moments ng pag- aaway nila ramdam na ramdam mo yung trauma. :(( been there..
Narcissist si Kit, I feel really sad for Ana sana maka recover ka agad. Bago ako mag asawa I can still remember nung mag BF pa lang kami sinabi ko na never ako sigawan, murahin at saktan kasi pag mangyari yon tapos na agad kami. Sana someday maka hanap ka Ana ng matino at mag mamahal sayo ng tunay.. etong mga experiences mo sa past and toxic relationships mo will make you wise and even more stronger than ever. God bless you.
I feel you Ms. Anna. Same nanyari sa akin. I had 7 years relationship with my ex before, half of those years ay sakitan, bugbugan, etc., hanggang parang mentally unstable kna. Hinahanap2 mo yung sakit ginagawa nya. Parang nagiging psycho kna. I don’t know the medical term, pero traumatised ka na sa ginagawa nya, halos everyday na nagiging numb kna sa mga sakit. The last thing na ginawa nya eh yung hinampas nya ako ng bote sa ulo. Thank God talaga, nakalabas ako sa toxic na relationship na iyon. Ngayon my husband na ako who is waaayyyy different from my ex. ❤️
Ana's story reminds me so much of the book called 'It Ends With Us'. No one deserves to be treated that way no matter what the circumstances are. So sad that she had to go thru that but I'm glad she was able to get away from that abusive relationship before becoming too invested in him to the point that she could no longer leave him.
This book took away all my prejudice on people in an abusive relationship. I used to low key blame the victims for staying and not leaving after red flags. But colleen hoover changed my mind through this book. I hope anna gets better.
It’s never easy to let go when you’re in love, more so pag nakita mo din that the other person has a good heart but there’s something they need to work on. And yung mga beggings, cryings after the “incidents” kahit anong tapang mo bibigay ka. Minsan po talaga easier said than done. Pero nakakaalis din po kami, medyo late but never too late. Ana, pray and little by little things will be better din po. This is from someone who also suffered from abuse. Big hug
You can’t fix a broken person. He needed help and Ana was inlove with him and gave him so many chances kasi she believed na pwede pa ma fix but it only hurt her in the end. Hope she recovers from the incident, this is traumatizing. Be strong 💪
It gives me goosebumps to imagine the horrific instances Ana went thru. I hope she recovers from these traumatic experiences, rest muna sa emotional entanglement and find healing. You will find your one true love eventually, but for now, love yourself.
i really can see that ana is having a hard time telling her story due to the distress caused by kit to her. it is difficult emotionally and mentally to recall your moments with the person who abused you. stay strong ana! 🥺
Hirap siyang magkwento kase di katalinuhan obviously. I feel for her, but lets be honest here. She’s not the sharpest tool in the shed. A relationship between a guy with anger management issues and a lady who can be frustrating to listen to will always end badly. Parang pinagtabi mo ang dinamita at apoy.
Yeah, we really should not. However, psychologists explained that those who are the closest to red flags are the ones to recognize it. Due to trust, trust and comfort that those you love will protect you. This is always the case in domestic violence within couples and families. And yeah I too am praying for her recovery. And I encourage everyone that we look after our own friends and families, that we investigate when we recognize red flags. That is all stay safe everyone.
This is so true. First day of red flag alis na agad if possible. Ako nahintay ko pa dati nh 3 years. Muntik lang matulad kay Ana. I'm so thankful my husband saved me but until now yung trauma andun padin.
Been there for 9yrs. at sobrang traumatizing ung ganyan. Sobrang naka apekto sa buhay ko at napaka hirap makalimutan. Lagi lang ako nag pra-pray. I hope she will get better and still choose to be a good person kahit na ano pang tingin sakanya ng mga tao at sa traumang dinanas nya. No one deserved to be treated like that. Maging matatag ka ana asia.
@@iiyakmolang9071 Salamat po. Wala ng sasarap sa pakiramdam na wala ng nananakit sakin ngayon. To that panalong panalo na po ako 7yrs ng malaya at di na nasasaktan. Salamat sa dyos.
@@majorieterrazola2842 at the end of the day ung nanakit hindi po yan sila nakakatulog at nakakaharap sa tao ng maayos dahil alam nila kung anong klaseng tao sila. Kaya cheer up po laban po at mag pray ng mag pray. Magugulat nalang po kayo na nakawala na kayo at magiging masaya. God bless po.
Kadaming matatalino dito kayo kaya mabugbog kung anong trauma maranasan nyo? Baka nga Hindi na kayo makausap e tulala nalang kayo, napaka brave na babae mo Ana.. Walang sino man ang may karapatan na saktan ka, at kahit sinong babae Hindi dapat tinatrato na basura at bugbugin lang. Nakilala ka nya na malaki kana at pinakikinabangan ka na. Be strong Ana Salamat at Buhay ka pa.. never ever settle for less, Once na murahin ka na ng jowa mo alam mo na dapat mong gawin dahil don Hindi ka nya nirerespeto una Palang.. Hayys God bless girl 😩🙏
@@thelivingrisi7233 Exactly, Recitations nga lang sa klase sobra takot at kaba mo, e Yung mabugbog ka pa kaya? Haha katawa mga tao talaga kadaming demands muntik na nga mamatay tao, dami nyo hanashhhhh pabugbog mo na kayo then after pwede na kayo mag magaling non Hahaha.😵🥴
I feel her kasi me din napagbuhatan din ako ng EX ko buti na lang that time hindi kami natuloy mag pakasal🥺 but GOD is GOOD talaga hiniwalayan ko siya,. Traumatized Kaya un ung gusto mong mag try ulit into a relationship parang nag aalangan kapa kasi baka mngyri ulit ung dati. After 6 years bago lang ako nag attempt sumubok mag boyfriend🥰 and perfect timing din kasi si GOD din mismo ang mag bibigay sa yo ng right guy.
When i learn in my Nursing Assistant class The Cycle of abuse they way you explain the scenario of your experienced about your ex-boyfriend.Ganyan ang gawa ng Tao .Sasaktan ka emotionally ,physically then magsososorry, susuyuin ka magpapakabait,very sweet of words and action .Then uulitin uli ang abuse .Then as usual magsosorry magiging sweet na naman .Because of control sa partner kaya maging maeducate tayong mga spouse,girlfriend,friends .etc. Kung alamin ang Cycle of abuse ganyan .Pero alalahanin natin we have to Love ourselves bago iba and yong self worth natin.. Don't let them to abuse you or us ...I pray for your healing ang naging bad experience mo sa lovelife mo Ms.Ana Jalandoni..May God give you the strength to give justice sa pangaabuso saiyo.Be strong you are smart,intelligent independent,beautiful woman. So much life ahead of youGod bless you dear.I'm a mother nararamdaman ko ang nararamdaman mo kahit di mo ako kilala.My heart goes out to you.. 🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖
sa mga kabataan, focus muna kayo sa career... right ones will come... pray to God everyday to preserve that one person who's going to take care of you...
Wow, some of the people in the comment section are disgusting. You never condone violence! I cant believe some are defending Kit. Violence is violence. Regardless of whatever the reason is. IT ISNT ACCEPTABLE! Period!
Tama halos mga babae pa nag cocoment na si girl daw di nagsabi ng totoo kaya binugbog jusko anong klaseng mga babae ang ganon mag comment ganon ba basihan kapag di nagsabi ng totoo dapag bugbugin e seloso nga si boy natural hindi ganon kadali e open ni girl kong meron man saan nila nakita na nag lie si girl sa.interview dahil ba di sya ganon kagaling mag explain mga abnormal mga ganon babae na mas kakampihan pa ung veolenteng lalakeng yun..kaloka tong mga girl sa comment ..
kinikilabutan ako sa mga nakwento ni Ana Jalandoni tungkol ky Kit... grabe, na speechless ako bigla. At the same time, ang tatag ng tingin ko kay Ana. She gained my respect.
Glad you got out of that toxic relationship before it’s too late. You deserve better. I’ve been through there, not once but 2x. People say, get out, those are just words, not easy to do. So hard to phantom that alcoholic men thinks it’s okay to hurt their women and in 5 minutes or next day, expects them to forget everything they did or have said, and also to forgive all the physical, mental, verbal, emotional and hurtful they’ve caused. Sure, forgiveness is easy but never forgotten. You take that to your grave. Hope you find peace, love and comfort through God’s love and grace. Take care and be safe. 🎈🎈🎈
Come on, Boy. Kit is your talent. Conflict of interest itong interview na ito. Full disclosure dapat kayo ng agency. Prayers for Ana, her continued safety, and safe recovery.
No one deserves to be treated that way. Praying for you Ms Anna every thing will be okay your such a strong woman God bless u stay safe and healthy always God bless you
Hindi mo mababago ang past ng isang lalake, babaero man, bugbugero, sugarol o ano pa mang bisyo. Nasa sistema na yan, magiging minimal pero it wont change. Pag may red flag na sa una ekis na agad yon. Malabo na mabago. Get Well soon Ana. Stay Strong. Laban.
Hays this is very true. Kaya I'm so grateful and I can say that I am so lucky right now that I finally found the man whose totally opposite from my ex.
This reminds me of Colleen Hoover’s It Ends with Us 💔 Ang heartbreaking 🥺 “Naked truths aren’t always pretty. Sometimes it’s the one who loves you that hurts you the most.” -CoHo
Praying for your recovery both physically and mentally. Alam ko mas mahirap ma overcome ang trauma, goodluck sa processing, don't hold it back in, talk to anyone whenever something triggers you. Mas madaling magtago minsan pag natritrigger pero one step at a time, hinga malalim. You are not a victim, yòu are a survivor, brave and a woman of courage. ❤❤❤
Mabait si Ana. Kung alam nyo lang sakripisyo nya para maiayos buhay ng pamilya nya. Sumalo ng responsibility sa mga anak ng kapatid nya na hanggang ngaun di pa din nila nakikita. Tulungan member ng family nya na nalulong sa bisyo. Bata pa lang sya naging breadwinner na sya. Kung anu man narating nya anu man meron sya ngaun, naniniwala aku pinag trabahuan nya yun, pinag paguran nya. Kung pangit man nakaraan nya hindi kayo na perwisyo ng mga actions nya sa buhay. Ang issue dito ay si Kit, sya ang nanakit at nang bugbog. Maswerte si Ana naka survived sya sa brutal na pang bubugbog sa kanya na pwede sana nya kinamatay. I hope hindi nya iuurong ang kaso. You deserve to be happy and be loved truly.
Yes mabait yan. At napakasipag. Labas na tayo dyan Kung ano pa man naging diskarte nya sa buhay para maging successful. Mahalaga Wala syang natapakan sa pag angat nya. Napakasinop sa Pera kaya nakaipon at nagkaroon ng mga business. Pinaka gusto ko sa taong yan napaka humble.
I was a victim of emotional and physical abuse so listening to her story makes me remember my ordeal. No woman should undergo that kind of situation, ever.
I am married for 7 years and been together for 11 years with my husband. I'm lucky that he never lay a hand on me. I always recieve respect, kindness and loyalty. We have a simple life and have 2 lovely kids. Marriage is not about money or material things. We started from nothing and helped each other to survive our family. Its really hard to see women being treated like this. This must stop and women deserved love and respect🙌
It’s so interesting how there’s so much fuss about this incident. This happens to wives, girlfriends and partners everyday. It should not happen regardless of status in life.
Kadiri yung mga enablers sa comment section. I hope di mangyari sa inyo yung nangyari sa kanya kasi baka kainin nyo lahat ng sinabi nyo. Grow up, people, 2022 na.
I agree. Sabi q sa husband q, the moment na saktan mo ako physically, hinding hindi ako magdadalawang isip na iwanan sya. Baka nga ma patay q pa siya. Lumaki kaming hindi nakitang nag aaway ang parents q so it's a big no to me.
Facts as per this interview 1) Relationship started with an Emoji DMs 2) She was previously married to Renan Morales , who cheated on her, also he is running for Vice Mayor . ( you have been given clues, you VOTER) 3) She got married when she was 25 yrs old in 2017. 4) Her Relationship with KIT was in a span of 4 months (Started in October 2021) 5) The signs of negative /toxic relationships to watch out for are scattered in this interview.
Tama naman sinabi ni ana.... Ayusin muna ang sarili..... That should be everyone of us... Bago tayo pumasok sa relasyon mahalin.,kilalanin, at ayusin ang sarili...
I was in an abusive relationship for 3 years when I was younger. The moment you see the red flags..you should really leave the relationship as it only gets worse from there. My red flag started from the first date in a mall, when he tried to stop me from browsing the racks in the mall...as he wanted my attention solely for himself. He hit my head in a light slap, telling me ‘matigas ang ulo ko’. At the end of that relationship, It had gotten so bad that I had landed in a hospital with terrible bruises too, and I had filed a restraining order against him. I had no choice but to leave the country for my safety. Girls, you should never allow a man to hit you...it may cost you your life. Much later, I found out he was abusive to an ex-gf as well, forcing her to elope with another man to escape from this guy. There is always a track record...an no man will change easily from being a violent individual because its psychopathy.
@@aurorapaz2003 so true...we need to really learn how to protect and defend ourselves. Teach our daughters self worth so they value themselves enough to be able to walk away from an unsafe relationship.
Hindi naman ako intentionally sinaktan pero i was grabbed by hand harshly kaya nagkabruises. I dont think it was an abuse. Abusive lang sa feelings ko. Very bad experience
Grabe the way sya magkwento talagang detalyado talagang naiimagine ko yung eksena nila ni Kit 😭😭😭 grabe grabe sana maging okay na sya kahit mahirap kasi "TRAUMA" natalaga inabot niya ganyan din kasi papa ko may SALTIK konting ano lang eh nagagalit kaagad, nakakatakot yung mga ganysng tao juskooo juskooo sana maging okay kana Ate Anna🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Hearing the progression of her story, regardless, her ex boyfriend has true-blue covert narcissistic behavioral patterns. Coming from a relationship like this, although I wasn’t physically abused, there’s no amount of words to ease the trauma and the lingering misleading effects of the abuse. For some, it can be a lifetime trauma. I didn’t know Ms. Jalandoni until this news but I hope people will stop bashing and attacking her. You have no idea the severity of the damages of experiences like this can cause somebody, whether the victim’s a male or female. Be kind.
true buti di sila ngtagal... pero mukhang si girl naniniwla mahal na mahal sya ni Kit nsa idealize stage pa. kasi sya.. sna dina nya balikan. ang hirap makawala s gnyang relasyon..
I agree. Though it is a choice whether to stay pr leave the kind of relationship, pag andun ka sa sitwasyon ikaw lang ang makakapagsabi how you would manage.
@@s.o.u.l576 and so am I. Emotionally attacked and somehow broken, but I managed to fight back the emotional brokenness and gain strength. I was almost hit as well physically, but I fought back, I vowed to myself that never will I allow that anyone would hit me physically even the tip of my fingers. I gave him that bruises coz of my jumbags. And he didn't do it again. This experience actually made me an even strong person. And learn within the scenario how could you fight back the emotional impact out of it. Maybe other will think martyr or fool or stupid, but they don't know the real score of your relationship, on what's holding you to keep hoping for the best. This made me a training ground for emotion control in some instance. Weird, but that's me. I never condone violence. If really can't manage it, back off and live your life even without a partner. That's up to personal choice and decision.
Nagpapasalamat pa din ako Kay Lord coz I'm so blessed dun sa mga past relationships ko na never ever Kong natikman yung physically pain. And especially my relationship now. Sobrang thank you Lord.
She is telling truth. You can see on her body language and eyes. I think she cannot fully talk because the lawyer is besides her. Maybe she was advised not to divulge too much info.
Walang kapatawaran ang ginawa ni kit sa kapatid ko na kamuntik na mamatay ng dahil sa bugbug! 😢 magaling si lord at alam nya kung sino ang tutulungan nya kaya maraming salamat po lord sa pag gising sa kapatid ko na muntik na mamatay....
Girls, sa una pa lang na itini-treat ka ng lalaki ng walang respeto. Huwag nyo na ituloy ang relationship. Learn from Ana. Hindi ikaw ang magfi-fix sa tao, ang tao mismo ang magche-change sa sarili nila.
Sinayang ni Kit ang buhay nya. Nakakaawa nman sinapit ni Ana sana maging ok ka sa lahat ng dinanas mo! Keep praying everything happens for a reason. 🙏🙏🙏
A lot of people will never understand what it's like to have a good heart. Being a person who believes in goodness no matter what the situation may be is something you cannot just command to leave something behind. Ana had hopes for Kit because of love and she stayed despite having small doubts because love forgives and it understands. Ana knew what was going on but she also knew that she wanted to help Kit. It is just unfortunate that she had to go through this even when we as the audience knew from the beginning of the story that it did sound really weird and odd how everything went too fast and a lot of red flags were already shown. We will never know what she really feels inside and the trauma that she experienced so please everyone, be careful with your words and take care of yourselves. Never tolerate abuse and while you still have a chance, never tolerate the slightest abuse one can give you.
Naka relate ako dto..Gaya ni Ana Isa din ako sa nasaktan nabugbog pero thankful ako Kasi nalampasan ko din un..pinakamasaklap n ngyri sakin Ms.Ana dadating ung time na all the pain ai mawawala na din..good luck sau at Sana bumalik na sa dating ikaw.. Ingat po palage😊
I feel for you Ms. Ana. I hope in time you will recover from this naniniwala ako sayo. I'm a mother sana yun iba dito wag manisi buti nga nagsalita yan para wag maulit sa iba
we have to understand why she needs to be precise and give short answers lang kasi it might affect the investigation so she has to be careful with her statements. I hope she'll get better soon,
Thank you tito Boy for this interview and to Ms. Ana. Nung una talaga akala ko walang idea si Kit about your exhubby. Sa mga taong judgmental, pls wag. May kakilala ako na tulad ng sitwasyon nila. Nakakaawa si babae kc mahal nya c lalaki. Sana Kit seek help. At sana wala nang mabiktima ng gantong klase ng abuso. Will wait for part 2 tito Boy. More power po.
Hello po, since open naman nang internet para sa 'tin. Matuto po tayo magsearch regarding violence. Masakit po kasi sa ulo na karamihan sa mga nabasa ko jinujustify ang ginawa ni Kit towards Ana. Kesyo naririnig ang mga “balita o kuro-kuro”. Ang taong hindi basta-basta makaalis sa isang toxic relationship ay maaari pong nasa trauma bond situation. Eto na po 'yung sinasabi ni Tito Boy, na akala niya ay kaya niyang mabago ang isang tao. Kaso nabubulag na po sa pagmamahal. Siguradong gusto na rin makaalis ni Ana kaso nga lang dahil sa paulit-ulit na paghingi ng tawad ni Kit ay marahil hindi niya magawa kaya naging siklo na ito. Kaya po wala tayo sa lugar para sisihin ang biktima, itigil na po natin iyan. Dumadagdag lang po tayo sa sakit na nararamdaman ng taong nasaktan. Ang taong may anger issues o kahit ano mang psychological issues ay nararapat na dumaan sa professional na tulong. Ngunit mangyayari lamang po iyon kung tutulungan nila mismo ang sarili nila. Walang kahit na sino ang may karapatang manakit ng kapwa nila babae o lalaki anuman ang naging dahilan.
I was in an abusive relationship for 4yrs. Sobrang nagflash back saken yung time may pinagselosan sya sa trabaho to the point na inaway nya ako sa workplace namin mismo & natrouble kami pareho sa supervisor. So pauwi, I was explaining to him na nagpapatulong LNG yung coworker namin kaya kami nag-usap. He didn’t believe me & binabastos na nya ako. So I slapped him. Sinuntok nya ako 6-7 beses sa braso, iyak ako ng iyak. Sabi ko itigil nya yung sasakyan or tatalon ako. So he parked in an abandoned parking lot, pagkapark nya, takbo ako agad, sumisigaw ng HELP!!! It took us about 30mins bago may nakarinig samen. Everytime na tatakbo ako, nahahabol nya ako, kinakaladkad nya ako pabalik ng kotse. We broke up almost 3yrs ago na, pero napapanaginipan ko parin sya minsan. Nakikipagbalikan. Following me around. Promising me na hindi na nya ako sasaktan. Sobrang nakakatrauma kasi almost 3yrs na kami hiwalay pero napapanaginipan ko parin sya.
It's difficult to have anger problems because you can't control yourself. I believe Kit has grown too accustomed to verbally harassing Ana to the point that he has already lifted his hand to her. It is important to seek help, even if your anger problems are limited to verbal abuse, because verbal abuse causes a huge amount of damage and trauma, and it is far worse if you physically harm someone. There are many physically abused women out there, and this should serve as encouragement to speak out. If someone genuinely loves you, he or she will not harm you in any manner or place you in a traumatic situation.
OMG She looks so nervous during the interview. You can feel her guilt and anger. Imagine the pain she will carry through the years until she forgave his ex-boyfriend.
@@erincrisostomo9357 What are you saying? Nanuod ka bah? Isn't it obvious na may problema c Kit? He admitted it na may anger problem cya. Kahit na ano pa ang ginawa ni Ana, NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO HURT SOMEONE!!!
@@erincrisostomo9357 So okay lng manakit para sayo if you discover something na hindi mo gusto ang ginagawa ng partner mo? Kung sino man ang partner mo ngayon, I pity her/him. You must be someone as Kit. Gross!!
The way she talks, makikita mong totoo sya. Eye to eye contact is there. Sincere bawat salita nya. And habang pinag uusapan past nila ni kit wla na ang kilig at excitement sa mata. Kitang-kita mo na grabe talaga yung trauma na pinagdaanan nya. I hope maging okay ka ulit ana
Haha naniwala ka naman? 🤣 Yung kwento pa lang nya, wala dw signal sa room nila kaya umakyat sya sa 3rd floor at dun nakatulog.. pero nung binugbog na sya ni kit nakapagtxt sya, edi may signal sa kwarto nila
Idk if mababasa 'to ni Ana, I' ve check her natal chart and oh boy, you're a magnet of people that has a lot of tendency na mag turn into obsession. Moon and Venus is in 8th house Scorpio. You're a magnet of ppl who has a lot of baggages. Until you learn to execute and listen to your intuition you'll keep on attracting them like moth. I am sorry for a lot of things na you've been through. I know its not easy to be there but I hope, I really hope na you'll get through this. I hope you heal and heal for real. May the star guide you to find your power back. You're a powerful soul Ms. Ana you'll get through this💖
when there are red flags, kahit gano mo pa kamahal ang tao, LEAVE. i too was in a toxic relationship. not healthy at all. mentally, physically, emotionally drained ka. i was beaten up thrice, the last one was the worst but still forgave him. i thank God for giving me the strength to walk away from him. this happened to me more than a decade ago pero ang lalim ng sugat. kaya LEAVE the guy pag nakikita nyo ng may tendency syang manakit wag ng patagalin at ikaw lang masasaktan in the long run.
Maraming nagsasabi dito na hindi daw kapani-paniwala yung mga kinekwento ni Ana. I don’t think so. Kapag nagsisinungaling ang isang tao, halatang halata agad yon based sa pagsasalita at sa tingin ng mata. Pag nagsasalita si Ana, alam agad niya kung anong sasabihin niya. Alam agad niya kung anong ikekwento niya sa bawat tanong ni Boy Abunda. Maraming hindi naniniwala sa kwento ni Ana kasi bakit daw nagstay pa siya kung ginaganon na siya. And I believe Ana’s reason na dahil mahal niya at umiiyak at nagmamakaawa si Kit pag magkaaway sila. Mahirap nga talagang iwanan ang taong mahal mo lalo na’t nagmamakaawang umiiyak sayo. In fact, dinefend pa ni Kit Thompson si Ana sa fake news na pinapakalat ni Xian Gaza. Check Kit’s Facebook for that post. Ibig sabihin, guilty si Kit at nagsasabi talaga nang totoo si Ana. Hindi magpapaka-guilty si Kit kung nagsisinungaling si Ana. At anong purpose ni Ana para magsinungaling nang kwento? Anong makukuha niya sa pagsisinungaling niya? Wala. So I totally believe her.
Finally, may nabasa rin akong may sense. Most of the commenters only criticized her character while being interviewed as basis of the construct of her story. Pero they were not able to discern a notion that opening up about a traumatizing event was very difficult for her as a woman and lying about the event was senseless.
I also joke around with my husband the way she do about ex , nagseselos din ang asawa ko pero it never and will never came to a point na may verbal or physical abuse xa sa akin. Kit is a narcissist , there's something wrong on his mentality pra mkapanakit ng ganyan n halos patayin na
@@nashtyreynstarosa7437 seems like its not only an anger issues. Switching moods in just a min. , like magagalit after few min. magsosorry , and then another min. magagalit ulit magmamakaawa. He really had a mental issues, like bipolar disorder sakit.ng karamihan ng mga western. Maraming ng mga pilipinang napatay ng husband sa US dahil sa mga husband na my bipolar disorder.
Bless her..hopefully she finds her reality and way back.. it’s not love .. she’s definitely been hoovering phase , future faking , trauma bond from a narcissistic person… lots of red flags in this stories , people (including me) who experienced in a narcissistic relationship abuse ( phsycological , emotional and even physical abuse ) can see the behavioral patterns in this story!! It’s traumatic , I hope she able to recover and heal and learn to protect her vulnerabilities from predators like that guy she was with!
You can tell she's an easy target by the way she speaks. I'm not passing judgment, she didn't deserve to be treated the way Kit did, but I hope she grew stronger. Hope she completely recover from pain soon.
@@loombandz6722 You can tell that Ana is a weak minded person by the way she perceives things; she knows that something is wrong but simply ignores it. At the beginning of her story, she stated that things happened so quickly with Kit, and the way she talked about it seems like she knows that's not a good sign but she completely ignores it, and when Kit wants her to meet his parents and she doesn't want to go because they aren't together at that time, pero sumama pa din siya at this point you can clearly tell that she's a "yes person" who always happens to agree to anything even if it does not feel quite right. This type of personality can caught the interest of advantage takers like Kit. You can clearly see na pwede siya maging victim,don't get me wrong, I'm not on Kit's side, I'm a woman, and I know that no one deserves to be treated like that, but having a strong personality is the only way to get rid of someone like Kit, which ana unfortunately didn't have at that time.
Exactly. Tinotolerate nya yung pagiging abusive ni kit at pinapatawad nya agad, walang boundaries. Kung ako sa kanya lalayo na talaga ako kay kit terrifying ganung uri ng tao.
The best apology is changed behavior. When Ana was verbally abused by Kit that was a clear sign to just walk away. Let him hold accountable for his mistakes and do the healing on his own. I think Kit have abandonment issues, a codependent person. Ana should've just let Kit go after cursing at her, a simple sorry won't work, let him go because unhealed people are not ready for a relationship. Ana must love herself more instead of going back to Kit even with all the disrespect.
I’ve been in her shoes before. And I know walang kapatawaran ang ginawa ni Kit. But, analysing the story na magkakilala sila at mga exes nila parang may malaking reason talaga kung bakit ganyan ang nangyari. And sobrang tipid magsalita ni Ana. I’m not assuming anything and I’m not siding Kit. But I can smell something deeper talaga.. Marites lang noh??!! Hahaha
not you lowkey justifying an abusive behavior. kahit ano pang dahilan ng pag aaway nila still it doesn't give him a free pass to physically abuse someone.
I'm very proud to hear from you dear... Ure brave to tell the truth, and even your expression was real... God had given u chance to breath life in the middle of trials... Very thankful God saves you... Protection and healing for you Ana.. 😘🙏
Hope Ana will be great and better soon, you deserve someone na mas pahahalagahan at mamahalin ka ng buong buo at totoo. Always remember that you deserve the genuine happiness in life. Hoping for your fast recovery. 🤗🤗🤗😘
The comments section are terribly unbelievable. Kung sino pa yung na bugbog parang sya pa talaga yung mali? Parang sya pa talaga ang sinisisi? I don’t know Ana until this whole news blew up, but wake up people!Violence is never okay. Please don’t make it sound na kasalanan to ni Ana kasi regardless kung may kamalian man sya or anything na gawa nya to provoke Kitt’s anger, it is never okay to hurt anyone. Never! Violence against women isn’t cultural, it’s criminal.
Grabe talaga kapag artista or idol nila involved!. Nagiging understanding bigla! For them bawal e judge agad yung artista pero yung victim okay lang na husgahan nila agad eh kesho ganito ganyan. 😏
She's very submissive too many red flags but still chose to stay. The fact the He held a knife on her neck as a joke was foreshadowing of worse of the worse in this relationship. It could've been worst. Their physical attraction is exhilarating but deadly. Mabuti nalang she survived.
@@mlgods9727 Kung magrerelease ng public statement si Kit baka my ibang version ng story although Yung ginawa nya kasi imho is criminal act assault talaga sya.. Nakita ng lahat Ang evidence so I guess mananahimik yan ng matagal sa public. Dadaan lahat sa attorney nya for sure
She is very brave and strong, but trauma will stay herself longer.. but trigger be will be there till the wound is not held. Don't give up, Ana; everything will be okay. Love you ..
Ang mga abuser ay manipulative rin. Nakakatakot huhu Pero nakakaawa rin sila dahil serious mental problem rin yon. Godbless you, miss Ana. Sana magheal ka sa trauma na to 😢🙏🏼💗
Walang third party dito, walang sponkey issue dito. Si Ana once na pumasok sa isang relasyon yan totoo yan magmahal as in sobra sobra.Totoong tao, loyal ,faithful. Si Kit may Anger issue , yan ang problema. Hindi marunong mag control. Laging gigil , gustong gusto manakit.Hindi na kuntento na maglabas na lang ng masasamang words. Gusto pa yata makapatay.
@@richtan3514 classmate man o hindi, ang point dito is may anger problem si Kit, based sa mga kwento ni Ana, konting biruan lang, pikon agad, nanunutok na ng kutsilyo sa leeg, tama ba yon? Jusko
I can relate sa side ni Ana. Na experience ko to sa ex ko, Sampal, suntok, sabunot, sakal, habulin ng kutsilyo, tapunan ng bote ng emperador at iba pa. Yung ang happy niyo tapos out of nowhere bigla2 lng nagagalit ng hindi mo alam kung bakit. Yung nanlilisik yung mata pag galit, parang hindi muna kilala yung tao pag galit. Yung kahit sino pinagseselosan na kahit babae. Kahit kamag anak pinagseselosan na. Tapos after nyo mag away bigla nalng luluhod, iiyak at hihingi ng taawad na para bang walang nangyari. I can really relate to her kase inintindi ko rin yung ex ko for 10months, hoping na magbabago sha. hoping na baka ako yung magpapabago sa kanya but he didnt hanggang sa sumuko na ako after ko nkita sa mata ng anak ko na takot na takot na sha. 🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭
I hope you do not go back to that useless EX. You can help the next woman by letting her know kung ano meron sya, warn them. If they continued, let them be. you did your heroic part.
You will be okey soon Ana, not now but in the near future. Also had experienced like that and it’s really hard to let go when you love the person but time will come you will realize it. Which I did and you also did Ana. Women should know that self love is more important.
i disagree with 2. , in fact it should be part of a relationship and if both can handle it well then it's an indication that they're mature and self assured... it builds confidence with each other
I was once in her position, my partner was diagnosed bi polar yung galit nya hndi tlaga nya matimpi, my times n ok kme sa umaga pag dting mg 2pm ayan n konting bagay lng pinalalaki, my times npipikon m rin ako but nung nag seek sya ng help thru his psychiatrist unti2x naging ok kmi 22 years n kmi ngayon mag kasama, just a piece of advice malalaman mo nman kung gusto at willing mag bago yung partner mo if you think kaya nya at willing sya magbago, wag kang bibitaw as a partner eventually everything will fall into place.. by God's grace
@@melizyosah0221 sbi ko KUNG MAG BABAGO YUNG TAO BKT HINDI MO BIGYAN NG CHANCE, APPARENTLY YUNG HUSBAND KO MISMO NAG SEEK NG HELP PRA SA SARILI NYA AT SA FAMILY NMIN... MISMO HUSBAND KO NAG SBI N KAILANGAN NYA ANG TULONG BKT KO IPAGKAKAIT SA TAONG GUSTONG MAGBAGO
I was also a victim of physical and emotional abuse by my X Bf.. Sobrang nakakatakot! akala ko papatayin n ako.. Sa sobrang selos lng na Hindi nmn totoo.. pero pinapatawad ko dahil s mahal ko sya.. Sobrang pagtitiis ko s relasyon nmin.. mabuti n lng andyan ang family and friends ko n tumulong sakin dahil d ko n tlg Kaya.. Torture n icip at puso ko.. Thanks god at nawala n cya s buhay ko.. Maayos n BUHAY ko now. Happily Married 😍😘☺
Sa incident palang about the knife sa leeg, I would not hv continued the relationship anymore. It`s too early in tne game to show red flags like that. Ladies, wake up!
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This is one of the quotes that is so on point!
"An abuser can seem emotionally needy. You can get caught in a trap of catering to him, trying to fill a bottomless pit. But he’s not so much needy as entitled, so no matter how much you give him, it will never be enough. He will just keep coming up with more demands because he believes his needs are your responsibility, until you feel drained down to nothing."
Ponder on this Anna & may you find healing, peace & true happiness. No one has the right to abuse someone!!
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This is applicable to women also
The world is in a thunderous uproar and it was just one slap/smack 👋 Will Smith gave to Chris Rock on live TV just because of an unambiguous joke that sounds more like a compliment.
Ana Jalandoni, enough is enough. You don’t deserve any of that abuse, fear and pain. Time to take back the love for yourself that you were planning to share to someone who never should deserve it. He deserves hell that he put you through. If he ever fix his anger he should live alone for the rest of his rotten life deprived of sex.
👍👍👍 Cancel culture for these kit kind of monsters 👿
@@desmondmiles1066 We’ll change the pronoun when that story is at hand. In the mean👿time we should focus on the actual victim and criminal and not be derailed by gender issues.
Soooo true!!!!!
Napakadali lang magsalita ng iba dito na hiwalayan na kaagad when you see red flags or whatsoever. Mind you, when you truly love a person at hindi ka lang naglalaro sa relasyon, whatever his or her worst attitude might be, you will try to understand and give him or her more understanding, patience and endless chances as much as you can bear enough.
Napakadali lang humusga at magsalita because you were not on her shoes.
As I watched the interview I could feel that Ana is sensible, mature and easy going lang, a light person that can joke and take joke lightly.
When you love a person again after failed relationship much more a failed marriage, you will gonna trust again hoping for the best outcome of that relationship. Hiwalay agad is never a solution for sensible people!
Agree. 💯
Ang kitid ng utak ng mga perpekto dito. Stop victim blaming. 😒
When your partner hits you for whatever reasons.. He/she already cut the ties between love and respect. You might still love your partner but the respect is already gone.
Totoo. Kaya nga pinaka delikado yung domestic violence. You are abused in your own personal space where you are supposed to feel safe. Tapos biglang kabaligtaran mangyayari. Walang prepared sa ganun so walang nakakaalam ng dapat gawin. Tapos ikaw lang den at yung taong involve ang witness. Hinde ka makakahingi ng tulong until it's too late kasi your mind is playing tricks on you. You'll start questioning your sanity because of the manipulation. Mas mahirap lalo kapag meron ng buhay na involve like kids kasi you would wish to make things work. Kailangan, your self love is very strong in order to leave the toxicity. You are literally sleeping with the enemy.
True.
True
Whatever the reason is don’t judge the victim because it is still unacceptable to hit and hurt a partner. Babae man, lalake or bakla - no one is exempted from the rule. Domestic violence/assault is a crime. Mas maganda na alamin ang mga red flags at wag i-ignore para hindi na umabot. Umalis na kaagad sa abusive toxic relationship. Brave of Ana to come out and give a voice to other domestic violence victims.
I had a boyfriend like KT, i forgave him once out-of-love kasi, then the 2nd time he hit me, sinabi ko na lang to myself it's my fault. The 3rd time, i still told myself baka mag bago pa when we get married. umabot ng 12th time....that's the moment I realized im so battered na and there's no chance at all na magbago. Today, I learned that he also did the same act to his 3RD wife. Tama sinabi nila, once a man hits you uulitin at uulitin lang nya yun bec that is character and no woman can ever change that. My life has completely changed, happily living with my one and only daughter, own 3 businesses, i got a home i call my own, a car I drive under my name and lahat nun wala sya until today :) Instead gumanti and make his life miserable, i focused on making the best of myself. manghinayang siya hanggang next life! lols
Malas ni 3rd live in partner nya
BIPOLAR IYANG ASAWA MO...RED FLAG...DANGEROUS..
Totoo un sis the best revenge is the best version of yourself as a successfull hbng sya lumulubog unti unti .. HAPPY FOR YOU ..
Girl Im not going to rid all of that, you should have left the first time. Thats your fault at that point!
Her trauma is visible in the way how she speaks. She pauses from time to time. Sana maka-recover ka Miss Ana. We're with your journey.
The interview is just very straight forward fair enough to let the subject comfortable yet my heart just stopped when Ana said she was the breadwinner of her family and have had a failed marriage in her past, plus having both parents separated.
The worst and sad thing, she deserves to be taken care of by somebody not to be just bitten up just because of so-called anger management disorder and the likes.
Again, it breaks my heart knowing her pieces of a story.
The way she talks the way she gave her answeres, makikita mo totoong tao sya and sincere na klaseng babae.
Ibang klase ka talaga, Boy.. you always hit the spot in the truest sense of every subject na pini featured mo...
the BEST!!!
Thats why I salute her.. Ive been with her thru ups and down I know every heartaches and trials she's been through.. And I am grateful for having her as a friend even though we're miles apart now. Still manages to communicate with me every now and then. She's a very strong and independent woman.
Her story is scary, she got into a broken marriage and then was abused physically by her next partner and felt she was gonna be killed! 💔 Be thankful if you haven’t experienced what she has gone through. No woman deserves abuse of any kind! Laban lang Ms. Ana! Hoping you will find your forever love someday ❤️🩹
True, F I can't even imagine it.
Very well said. Being a man i can't even imagine physically hurting the woman that i love or anyone. Her man is a psycho. Respect is very important in any relationship.
He is a definitely a narcissist psychopath just like my ex husband. They seems very sweet when they want you and became obsessed. Then they turn into an evil person as the relationship progresses. Once you see a sign start packing yourself or start finding ways to cut the relationship while you can. Don’t wait for the relationship to go deeper or you’ll regret it. Read about narcessist psychopath/sociopath. You’ll be able to avoid this type of man in the future. The first sign is they are very fast or seem to rush you get into a relationship, showing you how much they are interested in you instead of just meeting you up without forcing you for meet up. And the rest is history... be careful girls.!
This is typical of a guy who’s abusive , controlling & obsessive.
You are a brave woman, Ana- fight for it!!!! You don’t deserve the trauma you got! A wake up call to all of us women to speak up & know the signs of relationships w/ men who gets too clingy , protective & obsessed - they can turn into monsters!!! You can’t be trusting nowadays!!! Go Ana !!! Fight, fight lang!!
I know you gave full support from family & friends!!!
@@wick296 😭
To the ENABLERS/VICTIM BLAMERS in the comment section: NOTHING JUSTIFIES ABUSE!!!! Abuse is abuse, period! Whether or not someone cheated or is flirty, it does not give the other person the right to lay a hand on someone else. IN SHORT, WALANG MAG JUJUSTIFY SA ABUSE, verbal, emotional or physical.
Also, Ana’s reluctance to divulge information especially sensitive ones might be attributable to the fact that there is an on-going legal action.
Wag kayong mema. Upgrade your mindset, 2022 na po.
agree.
I agree. And cheating is considered as an emotional abuse too. Kit shouldn't have physically abused Ana but Ana abused him emotionally by cheating.
Arvin Reyes? May patunay ka Po nag cheat si Ana?
@@anjpascual2648 I don't know the whole story but I saw a video where Kit claimed that Ana cheated on him.
@@arvinsheet sige ipagpalagay na nagcheat. Mali den yun. Pero hinde pa rin dapat nananakit yung lalake ng mas mahina sa kanya. Logic behind that is iba ang physical makeup ng lalake sa babae. So kahit bugbugin mo yan, malamang di naman yan makakalaban. Point is, hinde ka dapat nananakit period. Lalo pag alam mong wala naman laban sayo yung tao kasi kaduwagan yon. Kaya nga may batas dyan, kasi the law were created for those who are weak and cannot protect themselves. Not just women. kids, matanda, disabled etc. If i-allow mo ang sarili mo sa ganyang reasoning... maraming pwedeng mamatay or makapatay. Physical violence is violence. Hinde dapat yan jinajustify kasi it will just encourage others to the same that's why it should be condemned.
I felt like Ana was authentic/honest in sharing her side. Hindi parang yung typical interview vibe na nakukuha ko sa ibang artista na may tinatago for the sake of their image and career. She had “nothing” to lose. I wish her the best and to heal from this. She deserves respect and the space to heal from this. Grabe I wanna hug her.
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Ang babae nrrespeto di dpt snsktan. Kawawa nmn
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laaaala
I was a victim of physical abused and believe me hindi talaga siya biro, kahit wala na kami nung ex ko na yun nandito parin yung trauma saken may takot padin ako may times na naiiyak padin ako everytime na naalala ko yung sinapit ko sakanya. Pero mabait talaga si lord kasi inilayo nya ako sa tao na yun at ngayon maayos at masaya ako with my live in partner and sa anak namin. Sana Miss Ana maging ok ka at maging mas tatagan mo pa loob mo. God is good everything will be okay. 😊❤
that is scary and very very sad. i’m happy that you are now in safe hands
Same here
Same situation
I hope you also seek counseling to help you emotionally and mentally. My daughter went through the same thing and therapy really helped her get through a very traumatic experience. I hope Ana will also seek professional help to get through this 🙏
I salute you boy for being able to thresh out the deeper issues. Yours is not just a superficial chismis session but rather, being able to understand the real issue.
The way Ana deliver every words, sentence and how she tried to bring back all the moments ng pag- aaway nila ramdam na ramdam mo yung trauma. :(( been there..
True...
nagbago ba oartner mo sis kasi akor rin ganito partner ko and isa sa dahilan na di ako happy at ganun din minumura ako at sumisigaw
Exactly
@@TutorJoda iwanana mo kng d kc mgbible study yan hnd titino yan
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Narcissist si Kit, I feel really sad for Ana sana maka recover ka agad. Bago ako mag asawa I can still remember nung mag BF pa lang kami sinabi ko na never ako sigawan, murahin at saktan kasi pag mangyari yon tapos na agad kami. Sana someday maka hanap ka Ana ng matino at mag mamahal sayo ng tunay.. etong mga experiences mo sa past and toxic relationships mo will make you wise and even more stronger than ever. God bless you.
I feel you Ms. Anna. Same nanyari sa akin. I had 7 years relationship with my ex before, half of those years ay sakitan, bugbugan, etc., hanggang parang mentally unstable kna. Hinahanap2 mo yung sakit ginagawa nya. Parang nagiging psycho kna. I don’t know the medical term, pero traumatised ka na sa ginagawa nya, halos everyday na nagiging numb kna sa mga sakit. The last thing na ginawa nya eh yung hinampas nya ako ng bote sa ulo. Thank God talaga, nakalabas ako sa toxic na relationship na iyon. Ngayon my husband na ako who is waaayyyy different from my ex. ❤️
God bless you Maam
Happy for you Veronique👍💕
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Kapag used na sa sakit, sabi nga iy feels like home kaya hinanahanp hanap mo na
Masochism ba ang tawag?
Ana's story reminds me so much of the book called 'It Ends With Us'. No one deserves to be treated that way no matter what the circumstances are. So sad that she had to go thru that but I'm glad she was able to get away from that abusive relationship before becoming too invested in him to the point that she could no longer leave him.
truee
Yes! read it before, and then since you mentioned it, naalala ko ulit. The story actually bothered me. Agreeng agree, may similarity nga sila.
I agreee
This book took away all my prejudice on people in an abusive relationship. I used to low key blame the victims for staying and not leaving after red flags. But colleen hoover changed my mind through this book.
I hope anna gets better.
Same thought
It’s never easy to let go when you’re in love, more so pag nakita mo din that the other person has a good heart but there’s something they need to work on. And yung mga beggings, cryings after the “incidents” kahit anong tapang mo bibigay ka. Minsan po talaga easier said than done. Pero nakakaalis din po kami, medyo late but never too late. Ana, pray and little by little things will be better din po. This is from someone who also suffered from abuse. Big hug
You can’t fix a broken person. He needed help and Ana was inlove with him and gave him so many chances kasi she believed na pwede pa ma fix but it only hurt her in the end. Hope she recovers from the incident, this is traumatizing. Be strong 💪
The BF will have no good relationship not unless will change, this guy need psycho therapy to manage his anger issues.
@@achybabe Totally agree, they need to fix themselves first cause no one can.
Eto kasi problema sa mga tao kala nila REHAB CENTER sila 😂 pag ganyan na ayaw na mag bago wag niyo na pag aksayahan ng oras kayo kawawa sa end
@@grimreaper3576 true talaga kasi we want to be a hero and we want to save people but it doesn’t work like that.
It gives me goosebumps to imagine the horrific instances Ana went thru. I hope she recovers from these traumatic experiences, rest muna sa emotional entanglement and find healing. You will find your one true love eventually, but for now, love yourself.
i really can see that ana is having a hard time telling her story due to the distress caused by kit to her. it is difficult emotionally and mentally to recall your moments with the person who abused you. stay strong ana! 🥺
Hirap siyang magkwento kase di katalinuhan obviously. I feel for her, but lets be honest here. She’s not the sharpest tool in the shed. A relationship between a guy with anger management issues and a lady who can be frustrating to listen to will always end badly. Parang pinagtabi mo ang dinamita at apoy.
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@@Shake_n_Bake1986 agree with this. Hnd relasyong pinaghihirapan ang tipo.
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I love the sincerity of Ana. Everyone deserves respect.
We really should not ignore red flags, as they would cost us later. Praying for Ana and this trauma, and for Kit to get the help he really needed.
I'm waiting to 😁
Yeah, we really should not. However, psychologists explained that those who are the closest to red flags are the ones to recognize it. Due to trust, trust and comfort that those you love will protect you. This is always the case in domestic violence within couples and families. And yeah I too am praying for her recovery.
And I encourage everyone that we look after our own friends and families, that we investigate when we recognize red flags. That is all stay safe everyone.
This is so true. First day of red flag alis na agad if possible. Ako nahintay ko pa dati nh 3 years. Muntik lang matulad kay Ana. I'm so thankful my husband saved me but until now yung trauma andun padin.
Been there for 9yrs. at sobrang traumatizing ung ganyan. Sobrang naka apekto sa buhay ko at napaka hirap makalimutan. Lagi lang ako nag pra-pray. I hope she will get better and still choose to be a good person kahit na ano pang tingin sakanya ng mga tao at sa traumang dinanas nya. No one deserved to be treated like that. Maging matatag ka ana asia.
I hope you will feel better completely po! praying for your healing!💓
Been there too... 😔
@@iiyakmolang9071 Salamat po. Wala ng sasarap sa pakiramdam na wala ng nananakit sakin ngayon. To that panalong panalo na po ako 7yrs ng malaya at di na nasasaktan.
Salamat sa dyos.
@@majorieterrazola2842 at the end of the day ung nanakit hindi po yan sila nakakatulog at nakakaharap sa tao ng maayos dahil alam nila kung anong klaseng tao sila. Kaya cheer up po laban po at mag pray ng mag pray. Magugulat nalang po kayo na nakawala na kayo at magiging masaya. God bless po.
Kadaming matatalino dito kayo kaya mabugbog kung anong trauma maranasan nyo?
Baka nga Hindi na kayo makausap e tulala nalang kayo, napaka brave na babae mo Ana..
Walang sino man ang may karapatan na saktan ka, at kahit sinong babae Hindi dapat tinatrato na basura at bugbugin lang. Nakilala ka nya na malaki kana at pinakikinabangan ka na.
Be strong Ana Salamat at Buhay ka pa.. never ever settle for less, Once na murahin ka na ng jowa mo alam mo na dapat mong gawin dahil don Hindi ka nya nirerespeto una Palang..
Hayys God bless girl 😩🙏
Di ba?, Grabe yung bugbog sa ulo nya alone. Tapos expect tayo perfect statements from her? She's not obligated to explain in the first place.
@@thelivingrisi7233 Exactly, Recitations nga lang sa klase sobra takot at kaba mo, e Yung mabugbog ka pa kaya? Haha katawa mga tao talaga kadaming demands muntik na nga mamatay tao, dami nyo hanashhhhh pabugbog mo na kayo then after pwede na kayo mag magaling non Hahaha.😵🥴
I feel her kasi me din napagbuhatan din ako ng EX ko buti na lang that time hindi kami natuloy mag pakasal🥺 but GOD is GOOD talaga hiniwalayan ko siya,. Traumatized Kaya un ung gusto mong mag try ulit into a relationship parang nag aalangan kapa kasi baka mngyri ulit ung dati. After 6 years bago lang ako nag attempt sumubok mag boyfriend🥰 and perfect timing din kasi si GOD din mismo ang mag bibigay sa yo ng right guy.
When i learn in my Nursing Assistant class The Cycle of abuse they way you explain the scenario of your experienced about your ex-boyfriend.Ganyan ang gawa ng Tao .Sasaktan ka emotionally ,physically then magsososorry, susuyuin ka magpapakabait,very sweet of words and action .Then uulitin uli ang abuse .Then as usual magsosorry magiging sweet na naman .Because of control sa partner kaya maging maeducate tayong mga spouse,girlfriend,friends .etc. Kung alamin ang Cycle of abuse ganyan .Pero alalahanin natin we have to Love ourselves bago iba and yong self worth natin.. Don't let them to abuse you or us ...I pray for your healing ang naging bad experience mo sa lovelife mo Ms.Ana Jalandoni..May God give you the strength to give justice sa pangaabuso saiyo.Be strong you are smart,intelligent independent,beautiful woman. So much life ahead of youGod bless you dear.I'm a mother nararamdaman ko ang nararamdaman mo kahit di mo ako kilala.My heart goes out to you.. 🙏🙏🙏💖💖💖
sa mga kabataan, focus muna kayo sa career... right ones will come... pray to God everyday to preserve that one person who's going to take care of you...
Support you ms. Ana. Sana maging ok ka na. Yong trauma ng nangyari syo sna ma overcome mo to...
Wow, some of the people in the comment section are disgusting. You never condone violence! I cant believe some are defending Kit. Violence is violence. Regardless of whatever the reason is. IT ISNT ACCEPTABLE! Period!
Tama. Ang toxic nila. Di na tayo magtaka na maraming abuso at toxic na tao sa pinas. Yan ang mga walang class
Cause the girl is tatanga tanga
Tama halos mga babae pa nag cocoment na si girl daw di nagsabi ng totoo kaya binugbog jusko anong klaseng mga babae ang ganon mag comment ganon ba basihan kapag di nagsabi ng totoo dapag bugbugin e seloso nga si boy natural hindi ganon kadali e open ni girl kong meron man saan nila nakita na nag lie si girl sa.interview dahil ba di sya ganon kagaling mag explain mga abnormal mga ganon babae na mas kakampihan pa ung veolenteng lalakeng yun..kaloka tong mga girl sa comment ..
True,kung sino pa mga babae sila pa una mag judge.😥😥😥
True. Di naman kasi sakanila nangyayari/nangyari.
kinikilabutan ako sa mga nakwento ni Ana Jalandoni tungkol ky Kit... grabe, na speechless ako bigla.
At the same time, ang tatag ng tingin ko kay Ana. She gained my respect.
ang may kasalanan si ex ni kieth marites pala…ex na sila ni keith so bakit nakikipag usap pa sya kay kieth na ex nya..sira ulo pa yong ex ni ex…
Glad you got out of that toxic relationship before it’s too late. You deserve better. I’ve been through there, not once but 2x. People say, get out, those are just words, not easy to do. So hard to phantom that alcoholic men thinks it’s okay to hurt their women and in 5 minutes or next day, expects them to forget everything they did or have said, and also to forgive all the physical, mental, verbal, emotional and hurtful they’ve caused. Sure, forgiveness is easy but never forgotten. You take that to your grave. Hope you find peace, love and comfort through God’s love and grace. Take care and be safe. 🎈🎈🎈
Come on, Boy. Kit is your talent. Conflict of interest itong interview na ito. Full disclosure dapat kayo ng agency.
Prayers for Ana, her continued safety, and safe recovery.
No one deserves to be treated that way. Praying for you Ms Anna every thing will be okay your such a strong woman God bless u stay safe and healthy always God bless you
Hindi mo mababago ang past ng isang lalake, babaero man, bugbugero, sugarol o ano pa mang bisyo. Nasa sistema na yan, magiging minimal pero it wont change. Pag may red flag na sa una ekis na agad yon. Malabo na mabago. Get Well soon Ana. Stay Strong. Laban.
True! Kaya 'yung phrase na "MAGBABAGO NA 'KO PARA SA'YO" eh isang malaking scam!
Hays this is very true. Kaya I'm so grateful and I can say that I am so lucky right now that I finally found the man whose totally opposite from my ex.
PAG PAWALK TALAGA . PAWALK NA HANGGANG PAGTANDA. WALANG PUWANG ANG PUDAY NA PAGRERETIRO.
Soo true. So Lord lang makakapagpabago sa isang tao.
True!!! 💯
This reminds me of Colleen Hoover’s It Ends with Us 💔 Ang heartbreaking 🥺
“Naked truths aren’t always pretty. Sometimes it’s the one who loves you that hurts you the most.” -CoHo
omg same. pumasok rin to isip ko :((
OMG. Sameeee.
🥺
Is this a sign to read this book? Feel ko kasi hype lang siya from booktok.
Yeah, same!
Praying for your recovery both physically and mentally. Alam ko mas mahirap ma overcome ang trauma, goodluck sa processing, don't hold it back in, talk to anyone whenever something triggers you. Mas madaling magtago minsan pag natritrigger pero one step at a time, hinga malalim. You are not a victim, yòu are a survivor, brave and a woman of courage. ❤❤❤
She's such a kind woman. I salute Ana for being a breadwinner in the family. 😍
Boy Abunda is the interviewerr I can trust to get to the bottom of controversial issues. He is objective and is able to overcome his personal bias.
i agree....
Totally agree 💯
Ive been watching and listening to this legend since I was 10. Hands down to tito Boy.
I agree with u
Agree ako sa iyo
Mabait si Ana. Kung alam nyo lang sakripisyo nya para maiayos buhay ng pamilya nya. Sumalo ng responsibility sa mga anak ng kapatid nya na hanggang ngaun di pa din nila nakikita. Tulungan member ng family nya na nalulong sa bisyo. Bata pa lang sya naging breadwinner na sya. Kung anu man narating nya anu man meron sya ngaun, naniniwala aku pinag trabahuan nya yun, pinag paguran nya. Kung pangit man nakaraan nya hindi kayo na perwisyo ng mga actions nya sa buhay. Ang issue dito ay si Kit, sya ang nanakit at nang bugbog. Maswerte si Ana naka survived sya sa brutal na pang bubugbog sa kanya na pwede sana nya kinamatay. I hope hindi nya iuurong ang kaso. You deserve to be happy and be loved truly.
Halata nman pong mabait sya Kasi Kung Hindi di Yan magtitiis kay kit kahit n sinasaktan sya una p lng
Yes mabait yan. At napakasipag. Labas na tayo dyan Kung ano pa man naging diskarte nya sa buhay para maging successful. Mahalaga Wala syang natapakan sa pag angat nya. Napakasinop sa Pera kaya nakaipon at nagkaroon ng mga business. Pinaka gusto ko sa taong yan napaka humble.
agree
Well said. 💕
I was a victim of emotional and physical abuse so listening to her story makes me remember my ordeal. No woman should undergo that kind of situation, ever.
Facebook is so toxic. Ang dami pa kinukunsinti sa Kit, at pinagtatawanan ang mga pasa at sugat ni Ms Ana.
Huhu
Agree...
@@olivia5419 nkn
Kawawa C Ako.
😉
I am married for 7 years and been together for 11 years with my husband. I'm lucky that he never lay a hand on me. I always recieve respect, kindness and loyalty. We have a simple life and have 2 lovely kids.
Marriage is not about money or material things. We started from nothing and helped each other to survive our family.
Its really hard to see women being treated like this. This must stop and women deserved love and respect🙌
“Pick me pick me”
REALLY?
😆😆😃🤣😁😉😂
It’s so interesting how there’s so much fuss about this incident.
This happens to wives, girlfriends and partners everyday.
It should not happen regardless of status in life.
Kadiri yung mga enablers sa comment section. I hope di mangyari sa inyo yung nangyari sa kanya kasi baka kainin nyo lahat ng sinabi nyo. Grow up, people, 2022 na.
The day you raise your hand to a woman, that's the day you're officially no longer a man.
Literally or figuratively?
Tama! Loser ang tawag sa ganyan klaseng lalake.
Oh yes!!!!
So what happened to gender equality na ipinaglalaban ng mga "kababaihan"?
🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡🤡
I agree. Sabi q sa husband q, the moment na saktan mo ako physically, hinding hindi ako magdadalawang isip na iwanan sya. Baka nga ma patay q pa siya. Lumaki kaming hindi nakitang nag aaway ang parents q so it's a big no to me.
So bata pa lang pala ako ay hindi na ako tunay na lalake..madalas akong mag raise ng hand kapag nagtanong si Ms. Teacher..
Facts as per this interview
1) Relationship started with an Emoji DMs
2) She was previously married to Renan Morales , who cheated on her, also he is running for Vice Mayor . ( you have been given clues, you VOTER)
3) She got married when she was 25 yrs old in 2017.
4) Her Relationship with KIT was in a span of 4 months (Started in October 2021)
5) The signs of negative /toxic relationships to watch out for are scattered in this interview.
He is really a good interviewer. I’ve been watching him on TV since when I was in the Philippines (2012-2016). Always fun to watch his show.
Tama naman sinabi ni ana.... Ayusin muna ang sarili..... That should be everyone of us... Bago tayo pumasok sa relasyon mahalin.,kilalanin, at ayusin ang sarili...
I was in an abusive relationship for 3 years when I was younger. The moment you see the red flags..you should really leave the relationship as it only gets worse from there. My red flag started from the first date in a mall, when he tried to stop me from browsing the racks in the mall...as he wanted my attention solely for himself. He hit my head in a light slap, telling me ‘matigas ang ulo ko’. At the end of that relationship, It had gotten so bad that I had landed in a hospital with terrible bruises too, and I had filed a restraining order against him. I had no choice but to leave the country for my safety. Girls, you should never allow a man to hit you...it may cost you your life. Much later, I found out he was abusive to an ex-gf as well, forcing her to elope with another man to escape from this guy. There is always a track record...an no man will change easily from being a violent individual because its psychopathy.
Why is it always us, women, that have to run away?
@@aurorapaz2003 so true...we need to really learn how to protect and defend ourselves. Teach our daughters self worth so they value themselves enough to be able to walk away from an unsafe relationship.
Grabe andami talaga mga narcissists sa mundo. Unfortunately, I have experienced it too. Thank you for sharing your story, praying for your healing.
Hindi naman ako intentionally sinaktan pero i was grabbed by hand harshly kaya nagkabruises. I dont think it was an abuse. Abusive lang sa feelings ko. Very bad experience
@@raphahope1916 oh ok..i hope nasabihan mo sha to never do it again. Anything that causes bruising us physical abuse.
No woman or man deserves to be abused. May you find the healing you need Ana..you deserve to be truly loved and respected
Grabe the way sya magkwento talagang detalyado talagang naiimagine ko yung eksena nila ni Kit 😭😭😭 grabe grabe sana maging okay na sya kahit mahirap kasi "TRAUMA" natalaga inabot niya ganyan din kasi papa ko may SALTIK konting ano lang eh nagagalit kaagad, nakakatakot yung mga ganysng tao juskooo juskooo sana maging okay kana Ate Anna🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Gnyn din un tatay ko may saltik din pag nalalasing verbal+physical abused ang sinasabi sa mama ko hnggng nag hiwalay sila..
Napakagaling ni Tito Boy!
Ana, prayers of healing to you ✨
Hearing the progression of her story, regardless, her ex boyfriend has true-blue covert narcissistic behavioral patterns. Coming from a relationship like this, although I wasn’t physically abused, there’s no amount of words to ease the trauma and the lingering misleading effects of the abuse. For some, it can be a lifetime trauma. I didn’t know Ms. Jalandoni until this news but I hope people will stop bashing and attacking her. You have no idea the severity of the damages of experiences like this can cause somebody, whether the victim’s a male or female. Be kind.
true buti di sila ngtagal... pero mukhang si girl naniniwla mahal na mahal sya ni Kit nsa idealize stage pa. kasi sya.. sna dina nya balikan. ang hirap makawala s gnyang relasyon..
Well said👍
Very well said.
I agree. Though it is a choice whether to stay pr leave the kind of relationship, pag andun ka sa sitwasyon ikaw lang ang makakapagsabi how you would manage.
@@s.o.u.l576 and so am I. Emotionally attacked and somehow broken, but I managed to fight back the emotional brokenness and gain strength. I was almost hit as well physically, but I fought back, I vowed to myself that never will I allow that anyone would hit me physically even the tip of my fingers. I gave him that bruises coz of my jumbags. And he didn't do it again.
This experience actually made me an even strong person. And learn within the scenario how could you fight back the emotional impact out of it. Maybe other will think martyr or fool or stupid, but they don't know the real score of your relationship, on what's holding you to keep hoping for the best. This made me a training ground for emotion control in some instance. Weird, but that's me.
I never condone violence. If really can't manage it, back off and live your life even without a partner. That's up to personal choice and decision.
Nagpapasalamat pa din ako Kay Lord coz I'm so blessed dun sa mga past relationships ko na never ever Kong natikman yung physically pain. And especially my relationship now. Sobrang thank you Lord.
She is telling truth. You can see on her body language and eyes. I think she cannot fully talk because the lawyer is besides her. Maybe she was advised not to divulge too much info.
Bat kasi may lawyer sa tabi. Hmmmp
Kaya limitado ang mga salita.
@@Bujniak-BumatayFamily May ongoing legal case kasi.
Na op na ung attorney .d man lang nila kinausap. Or tinanong tanong man lang kahit kaunti.
@@Bujniak-BumatayFamily ongoing legal case
Lawyer nagcoconfirm if paano sagutin or ano pwede sagutin kasi may legal case. May mga bawal kasi isabi sa public
Walang kapatawaran ang ginawa ni kit sa kapatid ko na kamuntik na mamatay ng dahil sa bugbug! 😢 magaling si lord at alam nya kung sino ang tutulungan nya kaya maraming salamat po lord sa pag gising sa kapatid ko na muntik na mamatay....
Wala po tlga dhl lang karapatan ang lalaki mabugbog ng babae kapal ng mukha PBA player pa nmn yan
@@marinelromero455 tama po kayo dyan god bless po
Praying for her physical and emotional healing 🙏🙏🙏
Hindi talaga makatuwa ang ginawa ni kit kung anu ang problima dapat kinausap nalang niya ang kapatid mo kysa bugbogin
Grabe talaga nangyari sa kanya... Buti nalang nakasurvive sya... Pano nalang Kong namatay sya...
No one deserves what Anna have been through.praying for your recovery.
Girls, sa una pa lang na itini-treat ka ng lalaki ng walang respeto. Huwag nyo na ituloy ang relationship. Learn from Ana. Hindi ikaw ang magfi-fix sa tao, ang tao mismo ang magche-change sa sarili nila.
Agree.😢
Agree iwanan mo na iyan find someone who will love you
its easy to say na pag makakita tayo ng red flag is iwan or iwas agad pero we are blinded by love and we hope ana the best😔
M
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Sinayang ni Kit ang buhay nya. Nakakaawa nman sinapit ni Ana sana maging ok ka sa lahat ng dinanas mo! Keep praying everything happens for a reason. 🙏🙏🙏
A lot of people will never understand what it's like to have a good heart. Being a person who believes in goodness no matter what the situation may be is something you cannot just command to leave something behind. Ana had hopes for Kit because of love and she stayed despite having small doubts because love forgives and it understands. Ana knew what was going on but she also knew that she wanted to help Kit. It is just unfortunate that she had to go through this even when we as the audience knew from the beginning of the story that it did sound really weird and odd how everything went too fast and a lot of red flags were already shown. We will never know what she really feels inside and the trauma that she experienced so please everyone, be careful with your words and take care of yourselves. Never tolerate abuse and while you still have a chance, never tolerate the slightest abuse one can give you.
very well said po❤️
So true 😊
She is really brave. We stan a queen na mapagmahal kahit masakit na for her. 👑❤️
Naka relate ako dto..Gaya ni Ana Isa din ako sa nasaktan nabugbog pero thankful ako Kasi nalampasan ko din un..pinakamasaklap n ngyri sakin
Ms.Ana dadating ung time na all the pain ai mawawala na din..good luck sau at Sana bumalik na sa dating ikaw.. Ingat po palage😊
I feel for you Ms. Ana. I hope in time you will recover from this naniniwala ako sayo. I'm a mother sana yun iba dito wag manisi buti nga nagsalita yan para wag maulit sa iba
we have to understand why she needs to be precise and give short answers lang kasi it might affect the investigation so she has to be careful with her statements. I hope she'll get better soon,
Thank you tito Boy for this interview and to Ms. Ana. Nung una talaga akala ko walang idea si Kit about your exhubby. Sa mga taong judgmental, pls wag. May kakilala ako na tulad ng sitwasyon nila. Nakakaawa si babae kc mahal nya c lalaki. Sana Kit seek help. At sana wala nang mabiktima ng gantong klase ng abuso.
Will wait for part 2 tito Boy. More power po.
thanks for sharing your truth. nakaka-raise rin ng awareness sa violence against women. stay strong. wag ka na bumalik kay kit. God bless
i loke thos interview.. napala straight tlga... I like this girl nagpakatotoo talaga...♥️♥️ you deserve to be respect may mahahanap ka pa na mr.right
Just because it is explainable does not mean it is excusable... No one has the right to hurt someone!!!
I like how boy doesnt talk over his guests and hes very attentive👍🏽
Hello po, since open naman nang internet para sa 'tin. Matuto po tayo magsearch regarding violence. Masakit po kasi sa ulo na karamihan sa mga nabasa ko jinujustify ang ginawa ni Kit towards Ana. Kesyo naririnig ang mga “balita o kuro-kuro”.
Ang taong hindi basta-basta makaalis sa isang toxic relationship ay maaari pong nasa trauma bond situation. Eto na po 'yung sinasabi ni Tito Boy, na akala niya ay kaya niyang mabago ang isang tao. Kaso nabubulag na po sa pagmamahal. Siguradong gusto na rin makaalis ni Ana kaso nga lang dahil sa paulit-ulit na paghingi ng tawad ni Kit ay marahil hindi niya magawa kaya naging siklo na ito. Kaya po wala tayo sa lugar para sisihin ang biktima, itigil na po natin iyan. Dumadagdag lang po tayo sa sakit na nararamdaman ng taong nasaktan. Ang taong may anger issues o kahit ano mang psychological issues ay nararapat na dumaan sa professional na tulong. Ngunit mangyayari lamang po iyon kung tutulungan nila mismo ang sarili nila. Walang kahit na sino ang may karapatang manakit ng kapwa nila babae o lalaki anuman ang naging dahilan.
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Ana is good girl the way I listen to the talk. Hope you will be ok and be heal. Watching from Florida.
I was in an abusive relationship for 4yrs. Sobrang nagflash back saken yung time may pinagselosan sya sa trabaho to the point na inaway nya ako sa workplace namin mismo & natrouble kami pareho sa supervisor. So pauwi, I was explaining to him na nagpapatulong LNG yung coworker namin kaya kami nag-usap. He didn’t believe me & binabastos na nya ako. So I slapped him. Sinuntok nya ako 6-7 beses sa braso, iyak ako ng iyak. Sabi ko itigil nya yung sasakyan or tatalon ako. So he parked in an abandoned parking lot, pagkapark nya, takbo ako agad, sumisigaw ng HELP!!! It took us about 30mins bago may nakarinig samen. Everytime na tatakbo ako, nahahabol nya ako, kinakaladkad nya ako pabalik ng kotse. We broke up almost 3yrs ago na, pero napapanaginipan ko parin sya minsan. Nakikipagbalikan. Following me around. Promising me na hindi na nya ako sasaktan. Sobrang nakakatrauma kasi almost 3yrs na kami hiwalay pero napapanaginipan ko parin sya.
My heart goes to you 🥺
It's difficult to have anger problems because you can't control yourself. I believe Kit has grown too accustomed to verbally harassing Ana to the point that he has already lifted his hand to her. It is important to seek help, even if your anger problems are limited to verbal abuse, because verbal abuse causes a huge amount of damage and trauma, and it is far worse if you physically harm someone. There are many physically abused women out there, and this should serve as encouragement to speak out. If someone genuinely loves you, he or she will not harm you in any manner or place you in a traumatic situation.
You couldn’t have said this any better 👏🏼
OMG She looks so nervous during the interview. You can feel her guilt and anger. Imagine the pain she will carry through the years until she forgave his ex-boyfriend.
Mali manakit ng babae pero ndi nia akalaen malaman ni kit n spongkey sya...
Gat ndi sya huminto s gawaen nian bk ndi lng yan abutin nia s lalake
@@erincrisostomo9357 What are you saying? Nanuod ka bah? Isn't it obvious na may problema c Kit? He admitted it na may anger problem cya. Kahit na ano pa ang ginawa ni Ana, NO ONE HAS THE RIGHT TO HURT SOMEONE!!!
@@erincrisostomo9357 So okay lng manakit para sayo if you discover something na hindi mo gusto ang ginagawa ng partner mo? Kung sino man ang partner mo ngayon, I pity her/him. You must be someone as Kit. Gross!!
@@erincrisostomo9357 i pray for you’re healing. My sakit ka ata sa utak
The way she talks, makikita mong totoo sya. Eye to eye contact is there. Sincere bawat salita nya. And habang pinag uusapan past nila ni kit wla na ang kilig at excitement sa mata. Kitang-kita mo na grabe talaga yung trauma na pinagdaanan nya. I hope maging okay ka ulit ana
Haha naniwala ka naman? 🤣
Yung kwento pa lang nya, wala dw signal sa room nila kaya umakyat sya sa 3rd floor at dun nakatulog.. pero nung binugbog na sya ni kit nakapagtxt sya, edi may signal sa kwarto nila
Idk if mababasa 'to ni Ana, I' ve check her natal chart and oh boy, you're a magnet of people that has a lot of tendency na mag turn into obsession. Moon and Venus is in 8th house Scorpio. You're a magnet of ppl who has a lot of baggages. Until you learn to execute and listen to your intuition you'll keep on attracting them like moth. I am sorry for a lot of things na you've been through. I know its not easy to be there but I hope, I really hope na you'll get through this. I hope you heal and heal for real. May the star guide you to find your power back. You're a powerful soul Ms. Ana you'll get through this💖
Grabe no, yung akala mong perfect relationship sa social media na nakikita natin, grabe para nangyayari sa loob ng relasyon na di natin nakikita 😭😿
when there are red flags, kahit gano mo pa kamahal ang tao, LEAVE. i too was in a toxic relationship. not healthy at all. mentally, physically, emotionally drained ka. i was beaten up thrice, the last one was the worst but still forgave him. i thank God for giving me the strength to walk away from him. this happened to me more than a decade ago pero ang lalim ng sugat. kaya LEAVE the guy pag nakikita nyo ng may tendency syang manakit wag ng patagalin at ikaw lang masasaktan in the long run.
Yes ang Dami na red flags eh, why still stay :(
Maraming nagsasabi dito na hindi daw kapani-paniwala yung mga kinekwento ni Ana. I don’t think so. Kapag nagsisinungaling ang isang tao, halatang halata agad yon based sa pagsasalita at sa tingin ng mata. Pag nagsasalita si Ana, alam agad niya kung anong sasabihin niya. Alam agad niya kung anong ikekwento niya sa bawat tanong ni Boy Abunda. Maraming hindi naniniwala sa kwento ni Ana kasi bakit daw nagstay pa siya kung ginaganon na siya. And I believe Ana’s reason na dahil mahal niya at umiiyak at nagmamakaawa si Kit pag magkaaway sila. Mahirap nga talagang iwanan ang taong mahal mo lalo na’t nagmamakaawang umiiyak sayo. In fact, dinefend pa ni Kit Thompson si Ana sa fake news na pinapakalat ni Xian Gaza. Check Kit’s Facebook for that post. Ibig sabihin, guilty si Kit at nagsasabi talaga nang totoo si Ana. Hindi magpapaka-guilty si Kit kung nagsisinungaling si Ana. At anong purpose ni Ana para magsinungaling nang kwento? Anong makukuha niya sa pagsisinungaling niya? Wala. So I totally believe her.
Finally, may nabasa rin akong may sense. Most of the commenters only criticized her character while being interviewed as basis of the construct of her story. Pero they were not able to discern a notion that opening up about a traumatizing event was very difficult for her as a woman and lying about the event was senseless.
True.
Totoo po un sinasabi kaya lng po prng di xa marunong mk pg usap kaya po prng lmlbs ng di totoo di po xa mgnda mg explane
mas marunong pa kayo experience niya e si kit na yan kht sa pbb my ugali na talaga yan
Ya pag mahal mo titiisin mo kahit sinasaktan kana physically may Kilala akong ganyan
I also joke around with my husband the way she do about ex , nagseselos din ang asawa ko pero it never and will never came to a point na may verbal or physical abuse xa sa akin. Kit is a narcissist , there's something wrong on his mentality pra mkapanakit ng ganyan n halos patayin na
Tama ka topak yan sus mapapatay kanyan god save you ana sus
May anger issue eh
@@nashtyreynstarosa7437 seems like its not only an anger issues. Switching moods in just a min. , like magagalit after few min. magsosorry , and then another min. magagalit ulit magmamakaawa. He really had a mental issues, like bipolar disorder sakit.ng karamihan ng mga western. Maraming ng mga pilipinang napatay ng husband sa US dahil sa mga husband na my bipolar disorder.
Bless her..hopefully she finds her reality and way back.. it’s not love .. she’s definitely been hoovering phase , future faking , trauma bond from a narcissistic person… lots of red flags in this stories , people (including me) who experienced in a narcissistic relationship abuse ( phsycological , emotional and even physical abuse ) can see the behavioral patterns in this story!! It’s traumatic , I hope she able to recover and heal and learn to protect her vulnerabilities from predators like that guy she was with!
You can tell she's an easy target by the way she speaks. I'm not passing judgment, she didn't deserve to be treated the way Kit did, but I hope she grew stronger. Hope she completely recover from pain soon.
Curious lang ako, anung meron sa personality niya na parang easy target siya
@@loombandz6722 You can tell that Ana is a weak minded person by the way she perceives things; she knows that something is wrong but simply ignores it. At the beginning of her story, she stated that things happened so quickly with Kit, and the way she talked about it seems like she knows that's not a good sign but she completely ignores it, and when Kit wants her to meet his parents and she doesn't want to go because they aren't together at that time, pero sumama pa din siya at this point you can clearly tell that she's a "yes person" who always happens to agree to anything even if it does not feel quite right. This type of personality can caught the interest of advantage takers like Kit. You can clearly see na pwede siya maging victim,don't get me wrong, I'm not on Kit's side, I'm a woman, and I know that no one deserves to be treated like that, but having a strong personality is the only way to get rid of someone like Kit, which ana unfortunately didn't have at that time.
@@kubli3298 i see salamat sa response
Exactly. Tinotolerate nya yung pagiging abusive ni kit at pinapatawad nya agad, walang boundaries. Kung ako sa kanya lalayo na talaga ako kay kit terrifying ganung uri ng tao.
@@kubli3298Agree 💯👍
The best apology is changed behavior. When Ana was verbally abused by Kit that was a clear sign to just walk away. Let him hold accountable for his mistakes and do the healing on his own. I think Kit have abandonment issues, a codependent person. Ana should've just let Kit go after cursing at her, a simple sorry won't work, let him go because unhealed people are not ready for a relationship. Ana must love herself more instead of going back to Kit even with all the disrespect.
I’ve been in her shoes before. And I know walang kapatawaran ang ginawa ni Kit. But, analysing the story na magkakilala sila at mga exes nila parang may malaking reason talaga kung bakit ganyan ang nangyari. And sobrang tipid magsalita ni Ana. I’m not assuming anything and I’m not siding Kit. But I can smell something deeper talaga.. Marites lang noh??!! Hahaha
not you lowkey justifying an abusive behavior. kahit ano pang dahilan ng pag aaway nila still it doesn't give him a free pass to physically abuse someone.
@@sadsoul615 lowkey? You’re indeed a sad soul!!! Please have some brain!
True, girl! 💯🎯
You can really see na super strong
but calm Yung personality ni ana
I'm very proud to hear from you dear... Ure brave to tell the truth, and even your expression was real... God had given u chance to breath life in the middle of trials... Very thankful God saves you... Protection and healing for you Ana.. 😘🙏
We learn the lesson the hardway. 1st sign, 2nd sign until matikman natin pinakamasakit na paraan para matutunan natin ang mali sa ginagawa natin.
Hope Ana will be great and better soon, you deserve someone na mas pahahalagahan at mamahalin ka ng buong buo at totoo. Always remember that you deserve the genuine happiness in life. Hoping for your fast recovery. 🤗🤗🤗😘
The comments section are terribly unbelievable. Kung sino pa yung na bugbog parang sya pa talaga yung mali? Parang sya pa talaga ang sinisisi? I don’t know Ana until this whole news blew up, but wake up people!Violence is never okay. Please don’t make it sound na kasalanan to ni Ana kasi regardless kung may kamalian man sya or anything na gawa nya to provoke Kitt’s anger, it is never okay to hurt anyone. Never! Violence against women isn’t cultural, it’s criminal.
Victim blaming nga sila 🙄🙄🙄🙄
I agree. Grabe talaga mga comments. Mostly are blaming the victim. Nakakalungkot.
Grabe talaga kapag artista or idol nila involved!. Nagiging understanding bigla! For them bawal e judge agad yung artista pero yung victim okay lang na husgahan nila agad eh kesho ganito ganyan. 😏
true! kahit may nagawang kasalanan si girl kay kit maling mali padin manakit ng babae🙄
Karamihan mga yan mga babae pa. Idol worship amp, kahit nagawa na ng mali crush nila e pagtatanggol pa
She's very submissive too many red flags but still chose to stay. The fact the He held a knife on her neck as a joke was foreshadowing of worse of the worse in this relationship. It could've been worst. Their physical attraction is exhilarating but deadly. Mabuti nalang she survived.
Sobrang magmahal yan si Ana. Hanggat kaya nya tiisin,titiisin nya.
@@anjpascual2648 We are rooting for her and her healing. I hope she consults a therapist specially if this is a recurring narrative.
True!!!
Usap usapan na pa walk daw si ana tapos nahuli sya ni kit kasama ung sugar daddy Kaya binugbog sya. How true Kaya
@@mlgods9727 Kung magrerelease ng public statement si Kit baka my ibang version ng story although Yung ginawa nya kasi imho is criminal act assault talaga sya.. Nakita ng lahat Ang evidence so I guess mananahimik yan ng matagal sa public. Dadaan lahat sa attorney nya for sure
She is very brave and strong, but trauma will stay herself longer.. but trigger be will be there till the wound is not held. Don't give up, Ana; everything will be okay. Love you ..
Tito boy should have his own school for aspiring hosts. He doesnt interrupt yung mga iniinterview niya.
Ang mga abuser ay manipulative rin. Nakakatakot huhu Pero nakakaawa rin sila dahil serious mental problem rin yon. Godbless you, miss Ana. Sana magheal ka sa trauma na to 😢🙏🏼💗
Walang third party dito, walang sponkey issue dito. Si Ana once na pumasok sa isang relasyon yan totoo yan magmahal as in sobra sobra.Totoong tao, loyal ,faithful. Si Kit may Anger issue , yan ang problema. Hindi marunong mag control. Laging gigil , gustong gusto manakit.Hindi na kuntento na maglabas na lang ng masasamang words. Gusto pa yata makapatay.
Woooow classmate kayo te?
Ano pong sponkey?
@@richtan3514
ANO BA GUSTO MO SABIHIN SA KANYA HAHAHA DI MO ALAM ANONG MAGAGAWA NG MY ANGER ISSUES
Close daw sila oh, sana all 🤔
@@richtan3514 classmate man o hindi, ang point dito is may anger problem si Kit, based sa mga kwento ni Ana, konting biruan lang, pikon agad, nanunutok na ng kutsilyo sa leeg, tama ba yon? Jusko
I can relate sa side ni Ana. Na experience ko to sa ex ko, Sampal, suntok, sabunot, sakal, habulin ng kutsilyo, tapunan ng bote ng emperador at iba pa. Yung ang happy niyo tapos out of nowhere bigla2 lng nagagalit ng hindi mo alam kung bakit. Yung nanlilisik yung mata pag galit, parang hindi muna kilala yung tao pag galit. Yung kahit sino pinagseselosan na kahit babae. Kahit kamag anak pinagseselosan na. Tapos after nyo mag away bigla nalng luluhod, iiyak at hihingi ng taawad na para bang walang nangyari. I can really relate to her kase inintindi ko rin yung ex ko for 10months, hoping na magbabago sha. hoping na baka ako yung magpapabago sa kanya but he didnt hanggang sa sumuko na ako after ko nkita sa mata ng anak ko na takot na takot na sha. 🥺🥺🥺😭😭😭
I hope you do not go back to that useless EX. You can help the next woman by letting her know kung ano meron sya, warn them. If they continued, let them be. you did your heroic part.
Psycho ata
it takes courage to share your story, no one deserves abuse
You will be okey soon Ana, not now but in the near future. Also had experienced like that and it’s really hard to let go when you love the person but time will come you will realize it. Which I did and you also did Ana. Women should know that self love is more important.
LESSON LEARNED:
1. Discern the person you are dating.
2. Iwasan ang palagiang pag "joke"
3. Huwag na lang uminom ng alak.
4. PRAY TOGETHER.
First ---- Dont answer any EMOJI Messages :)
@@ryanprotech9530 😀
i disagree with 2. , in fact it should be part of a relationship and if both can handle it well then it's an indication that they're mature and self assured... it builds confidence with each other
2022 na po, victim blaming pa rin tayo?
I was once in her position, my partner was diagnosed bi polar yung galit nya hndi tlaga nya matimpi, my times n ok kme sa umaga pag dting mg 2pm ayan n konting bagay lng pinalalaki, my times npipikon m rin ako but nung nag seek sya ng help thru his psychiatrist unti2x naging ok kmi 22 years n kmi ngayon mag kasama, just a piece of advice malalaman mo nman kung gusto at willing mag bago yung partner mo if you think kaya nya at willing sya magbago, wag kang bibitaw as a partner eventually everything will fall into place.. by God's grace
Yung iba.. bibitiw agad.
So dapat hindi bumitiw kahit abugbug aberna? Hahaha
@@melizyosah0221 sbi ko KUNG MAG BABAGO YUNG TAO BKT HINDI MO BIGYAN NG CHANCE, APPARENTLY YUNG HUSBAND KO MISMO NAG SEEK NG HELP PRA SA SARILI NYA AT SA FAMILY NMIN... MISMO HUSBAND KO NAG SBI N KAILANGAN NYA ANG TULONG BKT KO IPAGKAKAIT SA TAONG GUSTONG MAGBAGO
@@melizyosah0221 ikw kung trip mo mag p bugbog sa taong wlang balak mag bago
@@daddada2984 oo but hndi ako bumitaw kse Mahal ko yung tao at nakita ko yung willingness Nya n mag bago,
Can't deny Ana is so beautiful and looks strong in life
In all fairness to Boy Abunda, no one does it like him. Best interviewer. Period.
I was also a victim of physical and emotional abuse by my X Bf.. Sobrang nakakatakot! akala ko papatayin n ako.. Sa sobrang selos lng na Hindi nmn totoo.. pero pinapatawad ko dahil s mahal ko sya.. Sobrang pagtitiis ko s relasyon nmin.. mabuti n lng andyan ang family and friends ko n tumulong sakin dahil d ko n tlg Kaya.. Torture n icip at puso ko.. Thanks god at nawala n cya s buhay ko.. Maayos n BUHAY ko now. Happily Married 😍😘☺
Sa incident palang about the knife sa leeg, I would not hv continued the relationship anymore. It`s too early in tne game to show red flags like that. Ladies, wake up!