Father, I’m going through a deep identity crisis and questioning the Lord 100%. I need prayer and I need it now I’m 74 years old. I am almost at the end of my life and I’m not sure anymore. I cannot get a priest to come and visit me and I’m afraid please pray for me. Thank you.
Put yourself in our Blessed Mother’s heart whom Jesus gave to us. She will bring you to her Son. She understands what you are going through. She had the most difficult time watching her Son suffer and die. She will help you find peace. Jesus wants you to have peace. You are to Him as if you were the only one He suffered and died for. Say the “Hail Mary” if you know it and peace will come over you. I will pray it also and I know how special you are to Jesus and His mother. I love you but Our Lord loves you most of all ♥️🙏✝️
when I suffered abuses from my own relatives, I prayed to God to give me justice. I would go to the blessed sacrament and stayed there for an hour or two, not telling God anything but just shedding tears. everyday I would do that. and of course at home I would pray the rosary for justice. and so God is a God of Justice and vengeance is His. so I was able to get justice and I was able to forgive. 🙏🙏🙏
AWESOME!!! "he who fears has not been made perfect in love... Is.8 says, "don't be afraid of what the world is afraid of lest we make the heart of the Father sad." I even made a video here about the day I realized God was picky, and I read all the scriptures about pleasing God and it's not too hard! It's hell on earth to live to please yourself... that video can be found on our page with a picture of eggs on it. Living a life to please God was life changing for me. And one of my favorite vs. is "we pass from death unto life when we love the bretren"... Loving those we do see has everything to do with loving Him who we don't see!
My mom is 80 and still has the scars from the past. She's a hurt person who hurts other. She needs prayers. When we all tell her. We are praying for her, she tells us , I don't need no one to pray for me. She was raped at 15, and her parents divorced when she was born.😥. She lost her last born at birth, my only brother. I keep praying for her soul.😥 she doesn't forgive the past pain, my dad caused her when they were young. Her body is now full of physical pain.she verbally expresses her hate to her neighbor. She needs conversion. She does NOT go to Church, never did. My Dad is who brought me to Church and gave me the True Church. My heart aches for her soul.
Many yrs ago, a colleague told me that I needed to pray to receive the saving grace of Jesus - so, I prayed a simple Jesus pray and when we said Amen, I felt forgiven of all my trangressions and a tremendous weight was lifted off my mind as I instantly/miraculously forgave everyone I was holding grudges against. Heavy chains were broken and lifted. Thank you Lord Jesus Christ for your endless love.
God Bless you and your family🙏🏻👪🕊️ Thank you for Sharing your story🙏🏻🙏🏻 Love❤️ and Peace🕊️ and Prayers and Blessings Have a Lovely Blessed Sunday💒🙏🏻👪🕊️🕊️ Greetings from Ireland🇮🇪 ruclips.net/video/3QtOGXiCh5o/видео.html Viva Cristo Rey
My daughter was killed years ago and the people responsible for her death I wanted revenge. I realized that it was not my place for revenge that was God’s place. It was by the grace of God I was able to forgive. Sometimes if I dwell on the whole situation I want to go back to anger but that is just Satan working on me. If I want to be true to my faith I need to follow Jesus example and realize these people need forgiveness. Today I wish them no Ill well. Nobody told me the Christian life would be easy as a matter fact I was told at times it could be difficult.
(Isaiah 35:4) Say to them that are of a fearful heart, Be strong, fear not: behold, your God will come with vengeance, even God with a recompence; he will come and save you. The best comforts you can find are written in the word of God. Shalom !
I am so very sorry For your loss and your trail of this loss Against you and yours…. But because your finally able to forgive this perpetration against you today And because of this your heart no longer carries that daily pain, grievance and the hurt, not that I’ve been through this situation itself but close enough to know what several calls that your oldest son OD’d & we expected the call he was dead every day, then he did the worst things possible to us/me, and when my own soul was shattered and I couldn’t comprehend the pain and everything in my life was ripped apart…. And I didn’t want to forgive him ever especially when I thought about everything we did for him ( actually them - babies momma kind of thing ), which also my wife turned against me for a year or two or three and brought us very very close to divorce several times …. And my life was at its lowest point ever. ( in 2001 I re- injured a military injury and was as close to fully quadriplegic as one could ever be for over a year and deal with the effects of a massive spinal cord injury to this day…. ( Gods love has been with me and has healed me greatly ) Even that didn’t hurt as bad as what my own child did me, which to this very day, probably 4-5 years ago, I am still paying for and reminded of this every day if I didn’t ask for protection from this action alone it would eat me alive )And like you have to scho away the evil thoughts, feelings and emotions that still pop up from time to time So to you, I hope that Gods LOVINGKINDNESS is upon your every breath, every step and every day and on the day of your time May Christs hug of eternal love and joy be yours for eternity
Yes I had to learn to forgive a real murderer also. Jesus said, even when we look down on others, it's a spirit of murder... We have all done things God hates.. Murder isn't the 1st sin. Pvb 6. It's pride, lying, living to make people guilty instead of living to help others become innocent. If you google Precious Testimonies, A MAN SENT FROM GOD, you can read my long testimony. Or search here for out of the ashes and into the fire. Yellowstone Valley Women's magazine, Ceci Sullivan. God Bless you. My life went to very dark places seeing myself as a victim, and losing all hope in depression. HE SENT HIS WORD AND HEALED ME AND DELIVERED ME. The only govt of satan is words... he seduced Adam and Eve out of the garden with words... The battle of life, the govt of God vs the govt of darkness is the only battle to fight. Ps. 119:92 Unless His judgments, His words HAD become my delight, my soul would have perished in my affliction!
100% accurate To allow that anger rage grief and despair to over come us is like an internal prison we create and its super hard to get out of it. I cannot imagine the depth of grief u have experienced but the Grace u have from God to overcome it must be absolutely massive. Escape from a snare that could have taken ur life also. Thank u for sharing. ❤
Unforgiveness And Bitterness Is Like Drinking Poison And Hoping That The Other Guy Dies. May GOD Richly Bless You For That Great Inspirational Homily Father Mark Goring. I Really Needed This Today Pastor.✝️✝️✝️🦁🦁🦁✨👑✨📛🕊️🕊️🕊️❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🤰🤱🧬🤰🤱❣️❣️❣️🙏🙏🙏🇨🇦🇮🇱♾️🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲🗽🦅‼️
God Bless you and your family every day🙏🏻👪🕊️ Love❤️ and Peace🕊️ and Blessings💒 Have a Great Week😊 Greetings from Ireland ruclips.net/video/3QtOGXiCh5o/видео.html🙏🏻💙🌹👪🌍🕊️🕊️ Viva Cristo Rey
@brendamyc3173 God Bless you and your family every day🙏🏻👪🕊️ Love❤️ and Peace🕊️ and Blessings💒 Have a Great Week😊 Greetings from Ireland ruclips.net/video/3QtOGXiCh5o/видео.html🙏🏻💙🌹👪🌍🕊️🕊️ Viva Cristo Rey
@@anitavaughn1968 AMEN God Bless you and your family every day🙏🏻👪❤️❤️❤️ Have a Lovely Blessed Week🙏🏻🕊️😊 Best wishes and Greetings from Ireland🇮🇪 This is one of the Hymns off my channel🎵🕊️ ruclips.net/video/W6b4YJnSMng/видео.html Viva Cristo Rey
AWESOME!!! "he who fears has not been made perfect in love... Is.8 says, "don't be afraid of what the world is afraid of lest we make the heart of the Father sad." I even made a video here about the day I realized God was picky, and I read all the scriptures about pleasing God and it's not too hard! It's hell on earth to live to please yourself... that video can be found on our page with a picture of eggs on it. Living a life to please God was life changing for me. And one of my favorite vs. is "we pass from death unto life when we love the bretren"... Loving those we do see has everything to do with loving Him who we don't see!
Wow! I just told my husband a few weeks ago that whenever someone irks us in the traffic, let's say, "God bless you" towards them instead of screaming and getting vengeful. It's a big difference.
1) The victim’s scars and memories continue to stab them, long after the abuse. It’s learning to deal with those random “stabbings,” that really leads to emotional healing. 2) The vast majority of the time, the abuser enjoyed hurting the victims and will never feel remorse. Do not give up the idea of exposing them and possibly bringing them to justice: not for yourself, but in an effort to spare their next victim what you suffered. 3) When you pray, “Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners” mention names of people you know. When X’s name comes up, say their name however many beads it takes to release your despair of ever seeing justice. However many days it takes. That’s the mental choice of forgiveness and the emotional process. Give them to the Lord. 4) God bless you on your journey and be encouraged that you will heal.
This homily is very inspiring for me . Forgiveness is difficult . I've been carrying a lot of anger towards some people who have and are being hurtful and abusive . I am a cancer survivor , blessed by the grace of God who gave me a second chance at life. I've started recently to pray for those people who are abusive and destructive. It is freeing in some way and brings me peace. Thank you Fr Mark 🙏🙂
Yes, w.e have all been selfish, abusive in some ways "you were once darkness"... even being darkness to others. It's very easy for us to see the log in the eyes of others, but to be reconciled to God, sometimes takes understanding why others do what they do. We are not in a flesh and blood battle. Pride, lying, the things God hates we have all done to some degree. Learning how to love a "Ted Bundy" who grew up in the Catholic Church, actually helped me understand how all we like sheep go astray... Not that I did the things he did, but even understanding the deceit of the human soul in what Adam and Eve did, Cain did, there is NO SIN not common to man. In the beatitudes, Jesus said himself to judge to condemn others, is how the devil himself snares our own soul. There are some video's on my page called LOVE WAXED COLD.... we need to fight to have the attributes of Jesus. Pure in heart, merciful, bless those who curse us.... "SO SHALL YOU BE THE CHILD OF THE MOST HIGH... for he has blessed us, when we weren't doing well also... Pray for those who cause us to suffer. Watch the movie Called FATHER STU, he suffered well. We all drink the cup of suffering, and we can KNOW GOD, and how we have made him suffer, if we KNOW HIS SUFFERING instead of focusing on our own!!!
Awesome homily Father! I am glad that you mentioned praying for those that have hurt you. This has really been a lifechanging practice for me and it really works! All Glory and Praise to the Lord!
I needed to hear this today. It is a daily struggle to remove anger and hate from my heart when I see what is happening to my country. I see corrupt people controlling our education and government and I am fearful as well as anger. I feel powerless against these powerful people. I have to remember to trust that GOD will win in the end. Instead of hating these people I have to pray for them. I still believe we ALL must fight the cabal that is trying to destroy the United States but at the same time we must not let the anger we feel corrupt our own souls.
Thank you Lord Jesus for the gift of a forgiving heart. Thank you Father for reminding us to pray for the person instead of being angry.Through time we will forgive the person and peace will enter our hearts. May Jesus Christ continue to bless you .Amen.
It’s amazing, how things come together! Just before I watched this wonderful homily, I was praying for forgiveness for my parents. In this prayer I forgave them of so many things that hurt me when I was a child. When I finished I got the idea to pray for them, and now I heard you, dear Fr. Mark, preach in this way. I am so happy, that immediately I was confirmed to deal with my painful past in this way. Thank you so much! God bless you and keep you! ❤️🙏🏻
So brilliant Fr Mark. The greatest healing I’ve received from PTSD is through asking God to give me the grace and strength to forgive those who turned my life upside down. The enemy doesn’t have any power now 🙏
Thank you father mark! I love the advice of intercessory prayer when a bad memory comes 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼! Will do my best ❤ May our Lord continue blessing you with knowledge, perspective, & guidance as you grow closer to Him 🙏🏼. Come Holy Spirit🔥🔥
@321voices-kimberlysunderman Amen Kimberly🙏🏻🕊️ God Bless you and your family every day Dear Kimberly 🙏🏻👪❤️❤️❤️❤️ Tell Your Family I was asking for them All😊🕊️ Love❤️ and Peace🕊️ and many many Blessings💒 Best wishes and Greetings from Ireland to you and All of your Family over in Texas USA🇺🇸🇮🇪 ruclips.net/video/3QtOGXiCh5o/видео.html🙏🏻💙🌹👪🌍🕊️🕊️ Viva Cristo Rey
AMEN! I have good news from California...a Congressman from our district, with a few others, have reintroduced the legislature in our state, to make human trafficking be considered a felony, and it passed! There is a little sliver of hope and light in California after all!🕯️🙏 God bless you and your family, dear Kim!🌊🌴🌺🩷🌺🌴🌊
@@zionlion4445 Thank you for sharing Lara! Praise the Lord!👏🙏 We pray daily for the end of Human Trafficking!🙏🙏🙏 Prayers for you and your family, your state of CA and the World! 🙏🌷🙏💒🌸🙏💕
@@321voices-kimberlysunderma7 I was just thinking how I forgot to thank you for your kind and generous prayers.🩷🙏 Praise the Lord! 🩷🙏 There's a reason why I'm the only daughter, he he... Both my parents would never talk to me again, if they knew what plans I had for " my inheritance ". Let's just say that at least one orphanage would be well taken care of, and a half - way house for wayward kids, and a big donation for a homeless and animal shelter, and anything else I could do to help others, of course...:) (what they don't know, won't hurt them, he he :) God bless you dear Kim! You and your family, are ALWAYS in my Holy Rosary and Divine Mercy Chaplet. 🩷🙏 For the sake of His Sorrowful Passion, have mercy on us, and on the whole world!🌊🩷🙏🩷🌊
I do pray for those people that seem to be on the wrong side of the ledger. But...I can't deny that sometimes my heart is far from Jesus. No justification for it...ground is level at the foot of the Cross. Thanks for the practical advice.
Tolerance is not true love, nor is turning a blind eye to sin. (Luke 17:3-4)Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. 4 And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him. (Leviticus 19:17) Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine heart: thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbour, and not suffer sin upon him. Note: The Bible shows us the true way to love and act towards our neighbor. Nowadays, under the pretext of “LOVE”, we are even tolerating sin. God, as a good Father, not wanting his children to go to eternal perdition, has always corrected his people when they strayed into evil. Shalom !
I do that as often as possible last while,even if I hear someone swearing or saying bad stuff or talking about someone,I say a Hail Mary to replace the evil with good, and it places peace in my heart immediately on starting the prayer,Our Blessed Mother is ready to guard us at a split second of asking, I'm sure of this. God bless 🙏🌹
@@bill4852 The feeling of Hurt and pain is gone immediately on starting the Hail Mary,Bill,it's a a beautiful feeling replacing a feeling of hurt. Calm is restored too straight away, I'm not perfect at it but Im trying! God bless 🙏🌹
Straight from God’s lips to My ears! Thank you for obeying God and speaking wisdom. I’ve decided to take The Sorrowful Mysteries of the rosary, and pray each decade for a hurt. ( that relates to a person ) Thank you Father.
One co-worker constantly insulted me and put me down. I started to pray for her and over the years - 15 years came to forgive her and we got on better terms. Maybe it also helped that we no longer worked in the same classroom together for the last 3-4 years, lol!
I was just on the phone with my friend who went through a bitter divorce years ago. She brought up her X & I reminded her how the Lord's prayer states to forgive others, so we can be forgiven. Thank you Father Mark. I will share this beautiful homily with her.
Awesome, I wish the pastors who I've had at my church would have preached about forgiveness and mercy and how to go about doing this in daily life. This is so needed in these days.
I find it easier to forget the wrong that someone had done to me. Eventually the forgiveness comes a little more easy to do & not too bothersome. ONLY PRAYER & the GRACE OF GOD can enable us to do this.
Father, it has been the most difficult thing to do especially people hurt you physically and emotionally through out your life. I understand though that this is something that must be done no matter how much it hurts. I have seen ugly grudges and a lot of regret...I don't want any part of that. Thank you for this homily. I know I must be much better for not myself, but for this crazy world we live in where now we don't even give room for forgiveness anymore. Peace be with you all and God bless. 🙏
Every nite when I put my head on the pillow the thought comes to me of long ago I didn’t forgive. Then I smile and thank the Holy Spirit😅😅 yes it’s wonderful
Everything is going to be okay. Our mind can start going off in wrong directions. Fear is the mind killer. When I get upsetting thoughts, I just “rest in the Lord”. Imagine Him right there with you, giving you a big hug, and telling you to let all anxiety go. Just let Him heal your mind. You are loved. You don’t have to worry. He is giving His peace to you. I’m praying for you, and many around the world are praying for you. You are loved. This confusion and fear and anxiety will leave you. Everything is going to be okay.
Once upon a time, there was a customer who came in every day to pick up something for lunch. In one series of interactions, she asked why we never had tuna sandwiches. We did, but they did sell out fast, so we made sure to order a bit more and even slid one to the back so there would be one available for her. She comes in, but she's not hunger for tuna that day. She voices her irritation that we'd assume she wanted tuna every day. Her manner mirrors her words. Each day, she acts out her irritation in some manner before she leaves, snatching the bag out of the clerk's hand, a negative comment, something. Why don't you have tuna _salad_ ? Always something and the abrupt, negative behavior. It got to the point that I dreaded seeing her pull up. One day, after she was particularly... negative.... and I was again trying to figure out what I could have done differently somehow, I thought how awful it must be to be her. To go through life, every day, miserable and nasty like that. How incredibly sad 😕 - and I said a little prayer for her. The next day and the next day weren't as hard for me after that. When I felt the dread of her visit, I said a little prayer for God to help her with whatever was making her so miserable. After she left, leaving her wake of negativity behind her, another little prayer. The prayers immediately did wonders for peace of mind for each of the staff who adopted the practice. BUT, _now, the point of this long comment,_ within just a week or two of the beginning of the prayers, she stopped coming in at all. At that point, even her absence still triggered a prayer for her. When she came in the next time, maybe a month later, she was the most friendly, lovely customer you would ever want to meet. I KNOW! 😮 As you can imagine, we were pleasantly surprised. Some days, she would even have a bit of relaxed conversation during the transaction. As it turned out, over time, we learned that a lot had gone on in her life during that absence. Resolution of employment issues, a new beau, among other personal items. Maybe six months later, she moved away from the area. I hope she's doing well. (Maybe I should say a little prayer for her again, since I'm thinking of her.) For me, the whole thing was such a clear example to remember. So I thought I'd share.
This was one of the better explanations of forgiveness that i have heard! May God reward you Fr Goring and for using your gift of preaching in such a simple yet attention grabbing way!
Fantastic talk Fr Mark , " drives the 😈 up 👆 the wall", think you ment, 👇 the wall 🔥 lol 😁 , "Lord Jesus Son of God 🙏, have mercy on me a sinner", God Bless Fr Mark and Thanks again 👍🇮🇪☘️
Finally, I have something I can agree with. It's about detaching yourself from everything that separates you from the Father and his son, Jesus. I have trouble with Priest who forge into politics. Stick with Faith, that's the path forward.
Thank you so much Father for the beautiful homily that enlightens us how a good Christian should live....love like Jesus🙏🏻 God bless you Father with more wisdom ❤
I recall Fr. Bob Bedard CC also saying, “Forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling.” and... “We’ve heard it said “forgive and forget” but God created us with a memory. Each time the bad memory comes to us, pray for the the person [our enemy] who wounded us. If we continue to do so, then in time even when we recall what happened it no longer triggers pain or anger.” Bring this to the foot of the cross. Additionally one can pray for the healing of our own wounds.
This happened to me - 1 Speak the (ugly real ) truth to God. (What u really think and feel) 2 Let Him show u how u would feel if someone treated u that way 3 See the true you 4 Know u dont have any place in Heaven Then 5 ..look at Jesus. Suddenly it all makes sense This really helped me see the truth and the value and place of Honesty Remorse , and then, Hope and gratitude
I was hoping that there are enough mansions in heaven that those who were really evil and hurt us, and we've prayed for them, and they eventually changed, they can live in heaven far from us on another cloud.
Thank You, Lord ❤😅😅for Your forgiveness and bringing me back to You Jesus, l trust and surrender myself and love ones to You. Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏 Glory and Praise to You my God forever ❤
AMEN! I also love this sermon! 🌊🌴🌺🩷🌺🌴🌊 (Our dear Father Mark is actually teaching us one of the biggest and fastest ways to be with our Lord in Paradise :)
Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us. One of the earliest things my Mother taught me - forgiveness is spelled L-o-v-e
Beautiful 🌺 🌺 “The Lord bless you & keep you! The Lord let His Face shine upon you, & be gracious to you! The Lord look upon you kindly & give you peace!” 🌺 🕊️ Numbers 6 🕊️
Father, I’m going through a deep identity crisis and questioning the Lord 100%. I need prayer and I need it now I’m 74 years old. I am almost at the end of my life and I’m not sure anymore. I cannot get a priest to come and visit me and I’m afraid please pray for me. Thank you.
God Bless you and give you inner peace 🙏♥️
Put yourself in our Blessed Mother’s heart whom Jesus gave to us. She will bring you to her Son. She understands what you are going through. She had the most difficult time watching her Son suffer and die. She will help you find peace. Jesus wants you to have peace. You are to Him as if you were the only one He suffered and died for. Say the “Hail Mary” if you know it and peace will come over you. I will pray it also and I know how special you are to Jesus and His mother. I love you but Our Lord loves you most of all ♥️🙏✝️
Lifting you up in prayer
Praying for you. Please try repeating, "Lord Jesus Christ, Son of God, have mercy of me a sinner". God bless.
You say you are not sure anymore, what are you unsure and afraid about?
when I suffered abuses from my own relatives, I prayed to God to give me justice. I would go to the blessed sacrament and stayed there for an hour or two, not telling God anything but just shedding tears. everyday I would do that. and of course at home I would pray the rosary for justice. and so God is a God of Justice and vengeance is His. so I was able to get justice and I was able to forgive. 🙏🙏🙏
AWESOME!!! "he who fears has not been made perfect in love... Is.8 says, "don't be afraid of what the world is afraid of lest we make the heart of the Father sad." I even made a video here about the day I realized God was picky, and I read all the scriptures about pleasing God and it's not too hard! It's hell on earth to live to please yourself... that video can be found on our page with a picture of eggs on it. Living a life to please God was life changing for me. And one of my favorite vs. is "we pass from death unto life when we love the bretren"... Loving those we do see has everything to do with loving Him who we don't see!
My mom is 80 and still has the scars from the past. She's a hurt person who hurts other. She needs prayers. When we all tell her. We are praying for her, she tells us , I don't need no one to pray for me. She was raped at 15, and her parents divorced when she was born.😥. She lost her last born at birth, my only brother. I keep praying for her soul.😥 she doesn't forgive the past pain, my dad caused her when they were young. Her body is now full of physical pain.she verbally expresses her hate to her neighbor. She needs conversion. She does NOT go to Church, never did. My Dad is who brought me to Church and gave me the True Church. My heart aches for her soul.
Many yrs ago, a colleague told me that I needed to pray to receive the saving grace of Jesus - so, I prayed a simple Jesus pray and when we said Amen, I felt forgiven of all my trangressions and a tremendous weight was lifted off my mind as I instantly/miraculously forgave everyone I was holding grudges against. Heavy chains were broken and lifted. Thank you Lord Jesus Christ for your endless love.
God Bless you and your family🙏🏻👪🕊️
Thank you for Sharing your story🙏🏻🙏🏻
Love❤️ and Peace🕊️ and Prayers and Blessings
Have a Lovely Blessed Sunday💒🙏🏻👪🕊️🕊️
Greetings from Ireland🇮🇪
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Viva Cristo Rey
My daughter was killed years ago and the people responsible for her death I wanted revenge. I realized that it was not my place for revenge that was God’s place. It was by the grace of God I was able to forgive. Sometimes if I dwell on the whole situation I want to go back to anger but that is just Satan working on me. If I want to be true to my faith I need to follow Jesus example and realize these people need forgiveness. Today I wish them no Ill well. Nobody told me the Christian life would be easy as a matter fact I was told at times it could be difficult.
(Isaiah 35:4) Say to them that are of a fearful heart, Be strong, fear not: behold, your God will come with vengeance, even God with a recompence; he will come and save you.
The best comforts you can find are written in the word of God.
Shalom !
I am so very sorry For your loss and your trail of this loss Against you and yours…. But because your finally able to forgive this perpetration against you today And because of this your heart no longer carries that daily pain, grievance and the hurt,
not that I’ve been through this situation itself but close enough to know what several calls that your oldest son OD’d & we expected the call he was dead every day, then he did the worst things possible to us/me, and when my own soul was shattered and I couldn’t comprehend the pain and everything in my life was ripped apart…. And I didn’t want to forgive him ever especially when I thought about everything we did for him ( actually them - babies momma kind of thing ), which also my wife turned against me for a year or two or three and brought us very very close to divorce several times …. And my life was at its lowest point ever. ( in 2001 I re- injured a military injury and was as close to fully quadriplegic as one could ever be for over a year and deal with the effects of a massive spinal cord injury to this day…. ( Gods love has been with me and has healed me greatly ) Even that didn’t hurt as bad as what my own child did me, which to this very day, probably 4-5 years ago, I am still paying for and reminded of this every day if I didn’t ask for protection from this action alone it would eat me alive )And like you have to scho away the evil thoughts, feelings and emotions that still pop up from time to time
So to you, I hope that Gods LOVINGKINDNESS is upon your every breath, every step and every day and on the day of your time May Christs hug of eternal love and joy be yours for eternity
Yes I had to learn to forgive a real murderer also. Jesus said, even when we look down on others, it's a spirit of murder... We have all done things God hates.. Murder isn't the 1st sin. Pvb 6. It's pride, lying, living to make people guilty instead of living to help others become innocent. If you google Precious Testimonies, A MAN SENT FROM GOD, you can read my long testimony. Or search here for out of the ashes and into the fire. Yellowstone Valley Women's magazine, Ceci Sullivan. God Bless you. My life went to very dark places seeing myself as a victim, and losing all hope in depression. HE SENT HIS WORD AND HEALED ME AND DELIVERED ME. The only govt of satan is words... he seduced Adam and Eve out of the garden with words... The battle of life, the govt of God vs the govt of darkness is the only battle to fight. Ps. 119:92 Unless His judgments, His words HAD become my delight, my soul would have perished in my affliction!
100% accurate
To allow that anger rage grief and despair to over come us is like an internal prison we create and its super hard to get out of it.
I cannot imagine the depth of grief u have experienced but the Grace u have from God to overcome it must be absolutely massive.
Escape from a snare that could have taken ur life also.
Thank u for sharing. ❤
Unforgiveness And Bitterness Is Like Drinking Poison And Hoping That The Other Guy Dies. May GOD Richly Bless You For That Great Inspirational Homily Father Mark Goring. I Really Needed This Today Pastor.✝️✝️✝️🦁🦁🦁✨👑✨📛🕊️🕊️🕊️❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🤰🤱🧬🤰🤱❣️❣️❣️🙏🙏🙏🇨🇦🇮🇱♾️🇺🇲🇺🇲🇺🇲🗽🦅‼️
I can’t tell you how much I needed this homily this morning! Thank you Fr Mark and thank you Lord!
God Bless you and your family every day🙏🏻👪🕊️
Love❤️ and Peace🕊️ and Blessings💒
Have a Great Week😊
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God Bless you and your family every day🙏🏻👪🕊️
Love❤️ and Peace🕊️ and Blessings💒
Have a Great Week😊
Greetings from Ireland
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I will love and forgive everyone and everything.
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AMEN
God Bless you and your family every day🙏🏻👪❤️❤️❤️
Have a Lovely Blessed Week🙏🏻🕊️😊
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This is one of the Hymns off my channel🎵🕊️
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AWESOME!!! "he who fears has not been made perfect in love... Is.8 says, "don't be afraid of what the world is afraid of lest we make the heart of the Father sad." I even made a video here about the day I realized God was picky, and I read all the scriptures about pleasing God and it's not too hard! It's hell on earth to live to please yourself... that video can be found on our page with a picture of eggs on it. Living a life to please God was life changing for me. And one of my favorite vs. is "we pass from death unto life when we love the bretren"... Loving those we do see has everything to do with loving Him who we don't see!
Wow! I just told my husband a few weeks ago that whenever someone irks us in the traffic, let's say, "God bless you" towards them instead of screaming and getting vengeful. It's a big difference.
I need to listen to this over and over, again and again. Anger and resentment is a trap I fall into frequently!
1) The victim’s scars and memories continue to stab them, long after the abuse. It’s learning to deal with those random “stabbings,” that really leads to emotional healing.
2) The vast majority of the time, the abuser enjoyed hurting the victims and will never feel remorse. Do not give up the idea of exposing them and possibly bringing them to justice: not for yourself, but in an effort to spare their next victim what you suffered.
3) When you pray, “Holy Mary, Mother of God, pray for us sinners” mention names of people you know. When X’s name comes up, say their name however many beads it takes to release your despair of ever seeing justice. However many days it takes. That’s the mental choice of forgiveness and the emotional process. Give them to the Lord.
4) God bless you on your journey and be encouraged that you will heal.
This homily is very inspiring for me . Forgiveness is difficult . I've been carrying a lot of anger towards some people who have and are being hurtful and abusive . I am a cancer survivor , blessed by the grace of God who gave me a second chance at life. I've started recently to pray for those people who are abusive and destructive. It is freeing in some way and brings me peace. Thank you Fr Mark 🙏🙂
Yes, w.e have all been selfish, abusive in some ways "you were once darkness"... even being darkness to others. It's very easy for us to see the log in the eyes of others, but to be reconciled to God, sometimes takes understanding why others do what they do. We are not in a flesh and blood battle. Pride, lying, the things God hates we have all done to some degree. Learning how to love a "Ted Bundy" who grew up in the Catholic Church, actually helped me understand how all we like sheep go astray... Not that I did the things he did, but even understanding the deceit of the human soul in what Adam and Eve did, Cain did, there is NO SIN not common to man. In the beatitudes, Jesus said himself to judge to condemn others, is how the devil himself snares our own soul. There are some video's on my page called LOVE WAXED COLD.... we need to fight to have the attributes of Jesus. Pure in heart, merciful, bless those who curse us.... "SO SHALL YOU BE THE CHILD OF THE MOST HIGH... for he has blessed us, when we weren't doing well also... Pray for those who cause us to suffer. Watch the movie Called FATHER STU, he suffered well. We all drink the cup of suffering, and we can KNOW GOD, and how we have made him suffer, if we KNOW HIS SUFFERING instead of focusing on our own!!!
Awesome!!! Awesome!!! Awesome Father Mark, as always!!! Michael ♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️♥️
Fr. Mark 🎯🎯🎯 Viva Cristore ❤
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Awesome homily Father! I am glad that you mentioned praying for those that have hurt you. This has really been a lifechanging practice for me and it really works! All Glory and Praise to the Lord!
"Heaven is the place of forgiveness." beautiful.
I needed to hear this today. It is a daily struggle to remove anger and hate from my heart when I see what is happening to my country. I see corrupt people controlling our education and government and I am fearful as well as anger. I feel powerless against these powerful people. I have to remember to trust that GOD will win in the end. Instead of hating these people I have to pray for them. I still believe we ALL must fight the cabal that is trying to destroy the United States but at the same time we must not let the anger we feel corrupt our own souls.
You are not alone.
We continue to trust in the Lord and pray for the better.
Very good, we must know God is there for us ! God Bless our country! Keep us safe!🙏🏼 10:01
Thank you Lord Jesus for the gift of a forgiving heart.
Thank you Father for reminding us to pray for the person instead of being angry.Through time we will forgive the person and peace will enter our hearts.
May Jesus Christ continue to bless you .Amen.
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It’s amazing, how things come together! Just before I watched this wonderful homily, I was praying for forgiveness for my parents. In this prayer I forgave them of so many things that hurt me when I was a child. When I finished I got the idea to pray for them, and now I heard you, dear Fr. Mark, preach in this way. I am so happy, that immediately I was confirmed to deal with my painful past in this way. Thank you so much! God bless you and keep you! ❤️🙏🏻
Maybe a channel dedicated just to this particular grievance ..... as I see so much on it in another fashion-
Don't forget to forgive yourself sometimes it a hard thing to do
So brilliant Fr Mark. The greatest healing I’ve received from PTSD is through asking God to give me the grace and strength to forgive those who turned my life upside down.
The enemy doesn’t have any power now 🙏
Thank you father mark! I love the advice of intercessory prayer when a bad memory comes 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼! Will do my best ❤
May our Lord continue blessing you with knowledge, perspective, & guidance as you grow closer to Him 🙏🏼. Come Holy Spirit🔥🔥
Thank you, wonderful homily. It’s hard but so true. God bless you 😊
Amen! Thank You!
Dear Fr. Mark 💒
Forgiveness is Key!
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Amen Kimberly🙏🏻🕊️
God Bless you and your family every day Dear Kimberly 🙏🏻👪❤️❤️❤️❤️
Tell Your Family I was asking for them All😊🕊️
Love❤️ and Peace🕊️ and many many Blessings💒
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AMEN!
I have good news from California...a Congressman from our district, with a few others, have reintroduced the legislature in our state, to make human trafficking be considered a felony, and it passed!
There is a little sliver of hope and light in California after all!🕯️🙏
God bless you and your family, dear Kim!🌊🌴🌺🩷🌺🌴🌊
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Thank you for sharing Lara!
Praise the Lord!👏🙏
We pray daily for the end of Human Trafficking!🙏🙏🙏
Prayers for you and your family, your state of CA and the World!
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I was just thinking how I forgot to thank you for your kind and generous prayers.🩷🙏
Praise the Lord! 🩷🙏
There's a reason why I'm the only daughter, he he... Both my parents would never talk to me again, if they knew what plans I had for " my inheritance ".
Let's just say that at least one orphanage would be well taken care of, and a half - way house for wayward kids, and a big donation for a homeless and animal shelter, and anything else I could do to help others, of course...:)
(what they don't know, won't hurt them, he he :)
God bless you dear Kim! You and your family, are ALWAYS in my Holy Rosary and Divine Mercy Chaplet. 🩷🙏 For the sake of His Sorrowful Passion, have mercy on us, and on the whole world!🌊🩷🙏🩷🌊
God Bless🙏🏻 you Fr. Mark
Thank you for this Wonderful and Powerful and inspiring Homily🙏🏻🕊️
AMEN
Viva Cristo Rey
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Nice one Fr.Mark
Thank you for your Guidance and Leadership
Great Homily Fr. Mark...thank you for posting this. I forgive but at times not as quickly as I should. God bless you.
Love the anger and the hot potatoe analogy. I will remember that I hope. Thank you Fr. Mark! Viva Christo Rey! 🙏
What a beautiful analogy. Love it. God bless and keep you always
This is awesome!! God bless you, Fr Mark.
Thank you father for saying what most of us need to hear . God bless 🙏🙏❤
I do pray for those people that seem to be on the wrong side of the ledger. But...I can't deny that sometimes my heart is far from Jesus. No justification for it...ground is level at the foot of the Cross. Thanks for the practical advice.
This was much needed for me Fr Mark. Thank you. Just the guidance to be healed.
God knows what I need to hear and when to pay attention. Praise be His Holy Name.
thank you Fr Mark
God Bless You Father Mark for your inspirational words on Forgiveness 🙏🙏🙏
Its all about love . Forgiveness is love and also the biggest life law ....ultimately love is God and God is love . ❤
Tolerance is not true love, nor is turning a blind eye to sin.
(Luke 17:3-4)Take heed to yourselves: If thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him; and if he repents, forgive him. 4 And if he trespass against thee seven times in a day, and seven times in a day turn again to thee, saying, I repent; thou shalt forgive him.
(Leviticus 19:17) Thou shalt not hate thy brother in thine heart: thou shalt in any wise rebuke thy neighbour, and not suffer sin upon him.
Note: The Bible shows us the true way to love and act towards our neighbor. Nowadays, under the pretext of “LOVE”, we are even tolerating sin. God, as a good Father, not wanting his children to go to eternal perdition, has always corrected his people when they strayed into evil.
Shalom !
One of your best!!!
much needed talk today. god bless father.
Love & forgiveness: The two greatest gifts we get from God & give to each other.🥰
I do that as often as possible last while,even if I hear someone swearing or saying bad stuff or talking about someone,I say a Hail Mary to replace the evil with good, and it places peace in my heart immediately on starting the prayer,Our Blessed Mother is ready to guard us at a split second of asking, I'm sure of this.
God bless 🙏🌹
Thank you for this because when I hear someone using foul language it hurts my heart now I know I should say a Hail Mary 🙏🙏🙏
@@bill4852 The feeling of Hurt and pain is gone immediately on starting the Hail Mary,Bill,it's a a beautiful feeling replacing a feeling of hurt. Calm is restored too straight away, I'm not perfect at it but Im trying!
God bless 🙏🌹
Ii also cringe when I hear people swear or use Gods name in vain. Thanks for the great advice to say a prayer .
@@audreychamberlain It replaces good with evil immediately in my heart, I say it to myself because God will hear it.
God bless 🙏🌹
Thank you Father Mark! So much wisdom.❤
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What did I win
I love the suitcase analogy!
Excellent Homily!
Yes Father Goring, prayers help us soften up and start the forgiveness process.
Forgiveness
Forgive Others
Forgive myself
Straight from God’s lips to My ears!
Thank you for obeying God and speaking wisdom.
I’ve decided to take The Sorrowful Mysteries of the rosary, and pray each decade for a hurt. ( that relates to a person )
Thank you Father.
One co-worker constantly insulted me and put me down. I started to pray for her and over the years - 15 years came to forgive her and we got on better terms. Maybe it also helped that we no longer worked in the same classroom together for the last 3-4 years, lol!
I was just on the phone with my friend who went through a bitter divorce years ago. She brought up her X & I reminded her how the Lord's prayer states to forgive others, so we can be forgiven. Thank you Father Mark. I will share this beautiful homily with her.
Amazing homily Fr. Goring. thank you for that, and God bless you and all your hard work
Thank you Fr.Goring. Everyone needed to hear this message.🙏
Thank you very much ⚘️💕
Awesome, I wish the pastors who I've had at my church would have preached about forgiveness and mercy and how to go about doing this in daily life. This is so needed in these days.
Very effective visualization....I substituted backpacks for the brief cases....done...God bless
Thankyou Father so much this sermon, beautiful
Thank you Father Mark. Those are pearls of great price. That has been added to my daily rosary intentions. What a grace!!
Day 2 of my 40 day fast. Thank you Father Goring for all you do daily for the glory of God. Viva Cristo Rey 🙏
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I find it easier to forget the wrong that someone had done to me. Eventually the forgiveness comes a little more easy to do & not too bothersome. ONLY PRAYER & the GRACE OF GOD can enable us to do this.
Most profound message and advice 🙌🏽🙏🏼 Thank you Fr Mark
This is what we are faced with daily .
Father, it has been the most difficult thing to do especially people hurt you physically and emotionally through out your life. I understand though that this is something that must be done no matter how much it hurts. I have seen ugly grudges and a lot of regret...I don't want any part of that.
Thank you for this homily. I know I must be much better for not myself, but for this crazy world we live in where now we don't even give room for forgiveness anymore. Peace be with you all and God bless. 🙏
Salve Maria ❤
Every nite when I put my head on the pillow the thought comes to me of long ago I didn’t forgive. Then I smile and thank the Holy Spirit😅😅 yes it’s wonderful
Everything is going to be okay. Our mind can start going off in wrong directions. Fear is the mind killer. When I get upsetting thoughts, I just “rest in the Lord”. Imagine Him right there with you, giving you a big hug, and telling you to let all anxiety go. Just let Him heal your mind. You are loved. You don’t have to worry. He is giving His peace to you. I’m praying for you, and many around the world are praying for you. You are loved. This confusion and fear and anxiety will leave you. Everything is going to be okay.
Wow. This was incredible. Such practical holy advise. I’m plan on doing this. I love it! Thank you so very much! God bless you Father!!!!!!❤💐🙏🏻
Oh thank you for this Father Goring✝️🙏
Viva Cristo Rey.
Once upon a time, there was a customer who came in every day to pick up something for lunch. In one series of interactions, she asked why we never had tuna sandwiches. We did, but they did sell out fast, so we made sure to order a bit more and even slid one to the back so there would be one available for her. She comes in, but she's not hunger for tuna that day. She voices her irritation that we'd assume she wanted tuna every day. Her manner mirrors her words. Each day, she acts out her irritation in some manner before she leaves, snatching the bag out of the clerk's hand, a negative comment, something. Why don't you have tuna _salad_ ? Always something and the abrupt, negative behavior. It got to the point that I dreaded seeing her pull up.
One day, after she was particularly... negative.... and I was again trying to figure out what I could have done differently somehow, I thought how awful it must be to be her. To go through life, every day, miserable and nasty like that. How incredibly sad 😕
- and I said a little prayer for her.
The next day and the next day weren't as hard for me after that. When I felt the dread of her visit, I said a little prayer for God to help her with whatever was making her so miserable. After she left, leaving her wake of negativity behind her, another little prayer. The prayers immediately did wonders for peace of mind for each of the staff who adopted the practice.
BUT, _now, the point of this long comment,_ within just a week or two of the beginning of the prayers, she stopped coming in at all. At that point, even her absence still triggered a prayer for her. When she came in the next time, maybe a month later, she was the most friendly, lovely customer you would ever want to meet. I KNOW! 😮 As you can imagine, we were pleasantly surprised.
Some days, she would even have a bit of relaxed conversation during the transaction.
As it turned out, over time, we learned that a lot had gone on in her life during that absence. Resolution of employment issues, a new beau, among other personal items.
Maybe six months later, she moved away from the area. I hope she's doing well.
(Maybe I should say a little prayer for her again, since I'm thinking of her.)
For me, the whole thing was such a clear example to remember.
So I thought I'd share.
This was one of the better explanations of forgiveness that i have heard! May God reward you Fr Goring and for using your gift of preaching in such a simple yet attention grabbing way!
Fantastic talk Fr Mark , " drives the 😈 up 👆 the wall", think you ment, 👇 the wall 🔥 lol 😁 , "Lord Jesus Son of God 🙏, have mercy on me a sinner", God Bless Fr Mark and Thanks again 👍🇮🇪☘️
Funny to see you...
I just prayed for you yesterday.
God bless you! 🌊💚🌊
🙏 🙏 for you our 74 yr old brother or sister in Christ, remember we are all a child of God and no problem or sin too big for our Lord. ❤
God Bless You Father
Finally, I have something I can agree with. It's about detaching yourself from everything that separates you from the Father and his son, Jesus. I have trouble with Priest who forge into politics. Stick with Faith, that's the path forward.
Emerald springs emanated from his chest
The aquamarine pond was full of blessings
Now farmers get the water needed for livestock⚘️💕
My husband and I were just recently talking about this subject, and how to go about it. Thank you very much Father Mark! You are in our prayers.
Thank you Father Goring!
Thank you Father
❤truth father Mark. You speak truth❤
This was so perfect for me at this time - thank you Fr. Mark
It's a great way to live Father.
Thank you so much Father for the beautiful homily that enlightens us how a good Christian should live....love like Jesus🙏🏻 God bless you Father with more wisdom ❤
Thank you Fr. Mark 🙏❤️🔥
AMEN
Unforgiveness is the major opening for the Enemy. Pray for grace to start with yourself.
Viva Cristo Rey God bless you brothers
One of the best videos you've ever put out Mark. God Bless 🙏
I recall Fr. Bob Bedard CC also saying, “Forgiveness is a decision, not a feeling.” and... “We’ve heard it said “forgive and forget” but God created us with a memory. Each time the bad memory comes to us, pray for the the person [our enemy] who wounded us. If we continue to do so, then in time even when we recall what happened it no longer triggers pain or anger.”
Bring this to the foot of the cross. Additionally one can pray for the healing of our own wounds.
This happened to me -
1 Speak the (ugly real ) truth to God. (What u really think and feel)
2 Let Him show u how u would feel if someone treated u that way
3 See the true you
4 Know u dont have any place in Heaven
Then
5 ..look at Jesus.
Suddenly it all makes sense
This really helped me see the truth and the value and place of
Honesty
Remorse , and then,
Hope and gratitude
One of your most powerful messages! I need to remember this daily.
I was hoping that there are enough mansions in heaven that those who were really evil and hurt us, and we've prayed for them, and they eventually changed, they can live in heaven far from us on another cloud.
Thank you Fr Mark♥️🙏🏻Lord Help me to Forgive and others to Forgive me🙏🏻🩸🕯🌹🕊♥️
Thank You, Lord ❤😅😅for Your forgiveness and bringing me back to You Jesus, l trust and surrender myself and love ones to You. Amen 🙏 🙏 🙏 Glory and Praise to You my God forever ❤
God is good
Fr Mark,,,Great homily, fantastic to hear you explain how to forgive ,the most difficult act .👍🦘🙏🏻🦘🌏🦘🥹
AMEN!
I also love this sermon!
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(Our dear Father Mark is actually teaching us one of the biggest and fastest ways to be with our Lord in Paradise :)
Abba Father! Amen.
You are amazing ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us.
One of the earliest things my Mother taught me - forgiveness is spelled L-o-v-e
Father great podcast
Beautiful 🌺
🌺 “The Lord bless you & keep you!
The Lord let His Face shine upon you, & be gracious to you! The Lord look upon you kindly & give you peace!” 🌺
🕊️ Numbers 6 🕊️
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AMEN
Thank you Dear Abby for the Beautiful🙏🏻🌹🕊️ Holy Scripture🙏🏻🕊️
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Thank you 🙏🏻
Father, I needed this more than ever. I thank you, sir.