I'm a filipino guy, to good foreigners who wants to have a filipino wife. Becareful, like any other country there are good and bad filipina women. There are good filipina women that are loyal to love and will take care of you to rich or poor, will never leave you , yet, there are also gold diggers. Becareful w/ the gold diggers, they will never stop asking for money until your dried up. Once that happens, they will leave you w/o a single cent. There are some foreigner beggars here in our country because of the gold diggers. I want to help but im not rich to help them return to their countries, what I can do is share my advice to atleast give a heads up to foreigners who wants to visit my country and find a filipina wife. I don't want any foreigner make any mistakes by picking a wrong filipina to love. Take care to all.
Dude, great advice wonderful post solid information. Thank you for taking your time to do it God bless you and your family and greetings from the state of Kentucky.
This is why o won’t like western society because they don’t care about men being lonely and wanting to be loved good men have feelings too no wonder why we seek an alternative by going overseas to find love and when we do we can offer her a better life with us.
I met my first Filipina in 1984 while serving in the Navy. I really liked her a lot and was amazed at how attentive she was to my needs. But I was a veryy young guy of 19 years of age, and I was really unsure how a LDR would work out. There was no internet so everything would ahve to be done via snail mail. So I abandoned the whole concept, but never forgot how I was treated by her. ( the Filipina I met in the Philippines. I married my first wife and that didn't last long. I t was always about her, and she was a hypocritical. She was very controlling and she committed bigamy. My second wife wasn't any better. She had me to the point after our divorce, that I was ready to swear off relationships all together. And I did for about 8 months. I even told my mom I wasn't going to get involved in another relationship. One night I laid in bed and was thinking to myself that I really wasn't ready to be alone. I was 53 years old and I really felt that a good portion of my life was stolen from me. I was financially destroyed, and emotionally devastated...then....I started to think about where I could find and wonderful woman. A woman that would treat me like I was the most important person in the world ( I felt I deserved that much ) Then I memory flashed in my mind. " Her " the Filipina that I was with in 1984. One event seared into my mind and memory...lost in time, but not forgotten. It was in the middle of the night and her and I were sleeping. I woke up, or maybe not, maybe it was a dream. I was laying there and she was laying next to me, on her side, next to me, in her left hand was a hand held fan, she was fanning me. I fell back asleep. The next morning...as she bathed me, I asked her; " Were you fanning me last night " and she confirmed that she was. I inquired as to why, and she explained to me; " The electricity went out, it was hot. I wanted to keep your comfortable " I thought to myself " What a kind, loving, considerate woman to selflessly put my needs and comfort over her own. But I was young and like most young guys, self centered. But that never left me....just stayed dormant. After my second marriage, I decided I would not settle for anyone, she had to be special, wonderful, and above all, loving. I realized at that time, over two years ago, and it never occurred to me until then...most would say that Filipina fanned me to get a one way ticket to America...but the though came to me.." What if I didn't wake up ? she STILL fanned me " so had I never woke up, she still did that selfless act. That was a profound moment in my life..and that is when I realized I was to seek out a Filipina. I searched " Filipina wives " and one of the first links was " Rosebrides " I browsed around, started chatting with one girl. Janna from GENSAN. It soon became apparent to me that she was scamming me. I told her it was over. I started chatting with a Filipina from Manila, she was really nice woman. Friendly and sociable....only problem was...it was a one way conversation. We would video chat, and I rarely said anything....she talked...and talked...and talked...I just sat there " Uhuh...yeah...uhuh...yeahyeahyeah...uhuh " ( reminds me of Arnold Swartzenegger in Last Action Hero with the tape recorder on the phone ) it was just two days into our...errr...I mean her chat sessions, she as constantly texting me, and calling me lover. TWO DAYS... So I started to peruse the Filipina profiles....I sent a couple of messages to Olive Olive...never an answer...I saw Riza's profile, she was incredibly beautiful, but 20 years younger than I. Wasn't too sure about that.. But she sent me a " Hello " so I thought, I will see what she is all about. Her and I arranged a time that was convenient due to the time differences. our first first video chat. She asked me about that fact that I had children and what the situation was with the mother. I explained it to her and we chatted a while about it. I really felt a bit uncomfortable about telling her the situation as this was our first conversation..but she really wanted to know. at the conclusion of our video chat she asked if we could chat again, and I agreed. she really listened to me and showed compassion. Her and I started chatting everyday...day in and day out. Her and I had a routine...her and I started talking about meeting. I told her I would come to the Philippines to visit her. on July 15th. 2018, I landed in Manila, and we met for the first time.,,,we spent a week together. visited her family, and we truly fell in love. She was raised by her aunt as she lost her parents when she as young. in July 2019, I flew to Busan ,South Korea where she works and lives now, and we spent 2 weeks together...her and I are two of a kind. She is infectiously fuuny...the funniest woman I have ever known. She is so respectful to me as I am to her. Her and I truly fit together like puzzle pieces that completes the puzzle. we cannot live without chatting at least 5 or 6 times a day...always a laugh fest between her and I. We plan on applying for the K1 sometime in 2021/2022 as she still has her contractual obligation to her employer. ... NEVER, had I ever dreamed I would ever meet such a kind, loving, and caring woman in my life. Though we are 6,000 miles apart, I don't even have a doubt in my mind...she doesn't tell me how she feels, she shows me through her actions. ...I am truly blessed and thank the almighty God for giving me such an incredible gift.
Weng's Man Who wouldn’t love this incredible story of yours? This is Angelica, as I was taking our dog out this morning. This comment made me so emotional, I didn’t even noticed our dog pooped already hahaha! Takes me back to the time where Bryan was alone and heartbroken, and we found each other. We are so glad that you took the risks of finding love again. You deserved that love, Can I share your story to our fb page if it’s okay? I just need one picture of you guys. You can email it to me angelicahowell18@gmail.com
Wish your beautiful wife had something more to say! More power to you mate! I’m in a LDR with a Filipino woman from Cebu Island province of Tuburan on the west coast. I’m an Australian, I’ve been there and met her beautiful family and just fell in love with her country and lifestyle, though very poor they are happier than most people I know.
Robert Wheeler Yeah just like sayings we may not have more, but we're more happy to the smile of Piliino people like me. When I was in Cebu SM City I met this gorgeous girl and we had a short talk and she's from New Zealand, very beautiful girl. Hope I can meet just like her. Thanks .
Robert Wheeler well said, it truly is inspirational how happy local Filipinos are and how nice everyone is in the Philippines. That’s part of the reason that my wife and I choose to live in the Philippines.
@@hardmtnbiker God bless, my friend! We haven't made a decision on where we'll live yet, but I would love to live in the Philippines and Australia. I love what I do, so for the foreseeable future, we'll live in Australia.
I might have to go visit the Philippines one day to find my soulmate. Because here in the US with all the horrible things going on with married man is very scary. You can lose everything on a divorce. I might have to take a trip soon over to the east.
I agree with all of this. I’m currently going through this experience now. My whole life I’ve met women who were much more masculine than I was. I won’t lie, I lean into the emotional stuff at times. I’m one with it. It doesn’t bother me to show someone I miss them when they are gone. But I know how to be strong when times are tough. Women I’ve dated just powered through everything, acting too tough too proud to be who they wanted to be because of whatever happened to them in their youth. A sad state of affairs I have to say. Fast forward to today. I finally got sick of the same old story. I got sick of attracting women who just won’t let themselves be the woman they are. And I met someone in the Philippines who is everything I’ve wanted for years. I’m 38. She’s 25. Yes she’s young. But she’s mature, she’s feminine, she’s funny as hell. Has the funniest laugh, she lets me be who I want to be and doesn’t hold weird personal grudges, or resentment and judgments. She just goes with the flow of life. And I appreciate it every day. I show it to her how much that means to me. I wish I had come to the Philippines years ago. I’m glad I finally found someone just like what you have in your video. Well done my friend.
I met my late wife of 31 years on 1/16/1975 in the Philippines when I was on my 5th. Navy cruise which was my very first Westpac cruise. We didn't marry until 4/5/1979 a few months after I got stationed in the Philippines. During our marriage we had 2 sons & a daughter. When I was 15 a high school Freshman that was living in Elwood, New Jersey I knew that I was going to meet & marry a Filipina woman. A few months later in July of 1969 I read an article in the Philadelphia Bulletin I read an article about a widower who got e b faced to a Filipina he met in 1959. I kept reading that article. My parents talked about that article & they said our oldest son is most likely going to marry a Filipina. I did & my late wife was,is & always will be the love of my life.
@@christophers.o622 whatever trip your trigger I’m sure she was a very nice lady personally I don’t marry outside of my race. Well quite frankly I don’t have anything to do outside of my race. I’m a white man.
Thank you for sharing this candid video. While I'm not a Philippina, I love their culture and I work with a lot of them as a caretaker. They're respectful, hard working, Godly beautiful people. Case in point, the Holy Bible corrects the harmony and balance between Man and Woman while independancy and feminism kills that harmony. I always spiritually felt like the man is in charge, they're naturally and generally more level headed. We were not created equal and that's a great thing. God bless!
I love this and it is true. I too am in a ldr with my Filipina. I love her every much. We are engaged and looking forward to being married. She truely makes me happy as i hope i make her. I will be sharing this video so others can see this. Take care you too and much love. Stay strong.
very happy with my filipina girlfriend.. 18 months together.. I'm in USA ,she in Philippines.. yes long distance is hard but I'm sooo thankful I have her and we do plan to move forward, marry and build a family.. ty guys for your videos, we both have seen and felt many things you talk about in your videos.
Well said. I like you on how you speak about Filipinas. We are born to be more caring loving and passionate.Not all just want money or anything.I can say not all are good but mostly in our culture we care about what is family and marriage means..Godbless you both.
I've been in an LDR for 4 years with a filipina. We're getting her marriage annulled. She went to the last hearing and nobody was there. First day of closing all govt offices. We were so close. We'll just have to wait a little longer now...whats that phrase that they use in the Philippines ? Oh yeah...you just wait.
Now I know what to tell my Filipina wife when she asks "why do you love me?" I tell her because you bring out the best in me and because you are so caring and loving. Loved your video. I'm living in the Philippines and yes, it's tough in so many ways but my wife respects me and loves me, and she is so good I have to try to keep up with her.
Perfectly said. Sweet little girls raised in a liberal surrounding with full independence don’t need a husband. They need a man toy for day or an evening of fun. That’s what the western society has changed into. My ex changed, after a 21 year marriage into an independent woman and took off to have some fun. Eventually I fell in love with a beautiful Filipina and she fell in love with me. We are happily married awaiting the visa process. We both prayed for a good person to come into our lives and we both wanted a real family, and we are so blessed. We found our soulmate at last!
If I didn't meet my filipino husband i would probably marry a foreigner too. My reason is not money, I work and earn my own money. Modern filipinas are very independent, they desire to marry foreigners not only from the US..i have seen a lot filipina women who have relationship with Koreans, chinese, indians and black men..they do it because of love. Sounds cliche but it is true...i guess we are not just racist in general.
I'm Canadian, i'm 54, I read a study that love takes minimum 20 days to get in place, so I believe that you need to spend minimum a month in order to get a idea if she's the right one.... But I would also prefer to bring her in Canada for few months just to be sure that she will feel ok there... In point vue of immigration she can stay up to 6 months... I'm just a type of person that would be sure that she like the weather there... spring, summer, autumn, winter... then if it works... and we get along...We can go back to get married there and in Canada...BTW... I'm not looking for a maid or someone to wash the dishes... I'm looking for the perfect wife... my friend, my love
That's what they all think. "Gold digger" but they don't know that respect, love, patience and caring make godly filipina satisfied..Your money is nothing!
Perfect explanation! Spot on. The same general idea was always somewhere there in my mind but you explained it very articulately in words. Thanks for sharing that.
@@GUITARTIME2024 yes 3 times so far, for a month each time , I'm 31, and she's 22. I've been married before so no kids and no previous baggage, and someone I don't have to repair daily was at the top of my list , I would prefer to deal with my own mistakes which has been none yet . She's awesome and she makes her own money and goes to a university as well. I was suppose to go back in April but this Coronavirus mess delayed that for now . I'm from Wilmington NC. As a bonus I guess it's awesome she was a virgin too , something you are more likely to win the powerball than find here 😂
Never underestimate filipina women! You don't know what filipina women can do! " Just respect, love, caring and patience" make filipina women satisfied.
Im from q foreign country, i am taught to be submissive to men, but don't get me wrong i have no low self esteem. But i think Philippine women compromise their culture to be with American men but for me doing that is challenging because my family or even myself envy our tradition and we have a very close social life unlike most Americans, such as letting our parents live with us till they die. I dated an American guy and that was a big turn off for me. Most American men are muscline but i will not marry one because i am raised in a family were my old family are well cared close by, but most American men dont want your or their parents to live around in which i found it hard to sustain with.
Obviously a myriad of worldly reasons for all this... but sometimes deeper reasons, senses of destiny or predestination and such.. Filipinas are probably the most spiritual of all females on earth ....seriously. The problem seems to be that they sometimes want something with someone which they know deep inside is not their destiny and original dream. Society also puts this 29 years old rule on them, that they better get hooked up with a guy by then, or else they get rejected.
Hello! I stopped by your channel for the first time. Wow, great content on your site. My wife is from Davao PH and we are in our second month of being married. I am a new subscriber and plan on being here for a while.
wow, finally some one gets it ! well spoken and right on the money, women in the states have no clue, what men are really wanting in a relationship, i got tired of women trying to be the boss and i never got into a relationship with a woman like that and never will and you said it right women need to be women and men need to be men, that is the only way relationships between a woman and a man will work, thank you
What do women want? In marriage? Women want a husband who will provide for the family. In every country in the world. What do men want in marriage? Someone who will raise a family and support and encourage her husband. In most every country. That simple.
Hi I'm Melody and I am a filipina and finding a caring and understanding man and I pray that when the times come I will be happy☺️😇still waiting because love is patient ❤️
I'm in a relationship with a Filipina woman since 2017 my first visit first kid my first visit my son was born nine months later in iligan City getting married this month in iligan City very loving compassionate Warman my preference has always been Asian women
If you want to learn more visit crazyfilipinalove.com. By the way, this was our first RUclips video ever. We want people to know this because at this time, Angelica had just arrived in the U.S. and was very shy to speak in front of the camera. Always want Angelica to contribute to the level she is comfortable. But due to the subject matter of this video, she chose to be supportive and listen along. I respected this. You will see she opens up more and more as we keep making videos. God bless! Thanks for watching our video.
My dude, hit the the nail SQUARE on the head and drove it in straight and solid with one whack( I mean look at the guns 💪🏻 on this cat) . This video puts everything in context perfectly👌🏻 (and I don’t use the words “ perfect or perfectly often). Great videos you two, very informative and enlightening and well thought 💭. Y’all are beautiful 🙏🏻💜 May your new business take off and y’all continue doing your good work, being in the service of love is one of the noblest paths some one can pursue and you two have the heart and goodsense to make it happen on a big scale for many people looking for a loving happy relationship. I’d say that’s something on the list of things that makes God smile with great warmth in his heart and our hearts. May you two have many wonderful blessings to come in your journey together 🙏🏻💪🏻🤘🏻
Please find me a wife I love Filipina women THEY ARE GORGEOUS ❤️❤️ I am a 54 year old man with no kids, i am not rich either, I am Hispanic living in America
Those were the exact reasons that my family gave me when I accepted my Filipina fiancee's texts. They could not understand why I would go to the Philippines when I could find an American. But I had already found a women who I truly wanted to be with it was simply living in the Philippines. Her traits and characteristics drew me closer and closer to her.
I made this comment three years ago and totally forgot about this site. Since that time, my fiancee has come here, and we have been married for over two years. I has been great.
Thank you Brother family will never understand, getting looked at by Mexico and America Women like a Rapist or criminal when you are a hard worker with no time to commit crimes
Because they want to have a marriage that lasts and not get kicked out of the house they built and end up paying alimony and child support. They want to watch their children grow up and bounce their grandchildren on their knees.
I'm on ldr relationship Also with my British bf for almost 2years.. And finally we gonna meet on December 30..And Im so excited to meet and spend time with him💞
Two years?? Wow, im mexican, but I like the philipina style, I like to treat my man like a king and Im kind of submissive with my man. Ive been talking to an american Guy for 5.5 months but he is not too masculine!! However I still treat him like a king. How did you do to have a relationship for two years, wow, did you Talk everyday? Or just some days and some others not? With this pandemic, i dont know if we Will be able to make It for so long. Any recommendation?
Hello, I am Indian, work from India as well. A counterpart in the US once happened to tell me that he was first married to an American woman. He went through a bad divorce after a few years and stayed single for ten straight years. Then very recently married a woman from the Philippines and they are now happily together. So I always had this question on my mind, if there is a reason American men marry Philipina women. Well, honestly, it's a great thing for the open society, and as long as they are both happy why not? All the best to all good American men and Filipina women.
There is zero shame wanting to get out of poverty and get a better life. Every single one of us wants to get our basic needs meet, because that is the only way to survive. That doesn’t mean there couldn’t still be real love, poor people are just people in a bad situation, they never desrve to be shamed for happening to being poor. We all desire being cared for both emotionally and physically, every single one of us!
Strangely enough I can't help but agree with this video. I was an American woman who is ethnically Mexican I have never understood the American woman's need to try and act like a man. It's very bizarre. Never been a fan of it I prefer to be a woman and to let the men in my life be men.
My X was married twice and a third time to a Filipina. I have to wonder if he beats her too. I also have to wonder where you come up with it, "not" being "the norm"? I've heard and read that spousal abuse is more accepted in the Philippines. And he married her only after two dates. Once in America and once he went to her home in the Philippines. Then they married.
What a fantastic channel.. I've recently started a relationship with Filipina in Australia, and it feels wonderful to be Chivalrous, Courteous, and show my Affection without having to second guess myself. Western Women!...You're Losing a lot of good Men to a more traditional concept of Love and Respect.. And i for one couldn't be happier.
I like your explanation at the same time liking the short video clips its like i don't need to imagine what your saying because i just need to watch those clip to understand it lol....
I think most men marry filipinas when they're in their 30's or 40's because maybe this is the time when they get matured and ready to settle down...or when they need someone to take care of them if they are old already...lol
No offense but majority of those guys are white losers in the West who can't get a white woman. There are exceptions but it doesn't make the rule. I really feel sorry for the filipino men since they have limited dating options.
@@MrALenCar321 dating option in the philippines is not limited but its upon on different standard of women..there are ambitious women who marries well off men for sustainable lifestyle and others settle with contentment and prefers a simple life
@@elliemay5595 I think there is self hatred among Asians that make them to choose white men. There was video RUclips video on how all the beautiful beauty pageant winner were half white. I have nothing against white people but these women choose men based on race and it's only Caucasians. If you ask them they will say a half white baby looks pretty. They have condemned their filipino genetics. Skin lightening is famous in our continent.
@@MrALenCar321 its more of insecurities and some choose to because of financial stability ....as an asian what u said is true...asian standard of beauty comes with women with fair skin and caucasian features..we always look up to white people as a superior race and i guess that mind set make us think that we are one step below them.Sometyms looks is deceiving.
I’m married to a Filipino so I’ve been to many Filipino gatherings over the years. I’m glad this has worked for you but so many Filipino women are in an abusive relationship here. One got in just one fight. He divorced her and right away contacted the agency to get another Filipino lady. This is so common. On the other hand I’ve never met a Filipina who doesn’t have to have a Luiviton bag and the best of everything etc. no matter how poor her American husband is. My husband will not allow any of his relatives to even suggest dating an American man. Just speaking from experience.
Also. One friend confided in me that he had visited not realizing that in Filipino culture you are expected to not only support your wife but you are also expect to support her family back home monthly. It’s the culture. If you don’t you’re looked up negatively.
Right on I think you hit on so many truths about our culture's and helped explain things so many people in the world would and could have a hard time understanding ...deep and I feel your right on I'm going to send to my mom
This is so sad! Little girls need to be taught that they do not need a man to be happy. They need to want to be with a man for the simple fact that he brings love and joy into her life. When you teach young girls that they need a man it puts them into bad situations where they become scared to leave their boyfriend or husband even if he is abusive because she feels incomplete without him. 😭 To all the young women seeing this video you can be strong and feminine and you can find someone who loves all of those qualities about you!
Stephaney Anne Hise Not sure your getting the point of the video. If you are implying that we are teaching young girls to need a man in an unhealthy way your perception is not correct. I am fairly certain that I never said Filipinas need a Man to be happy. Actually I’m positive. But let’s just look at facts. Men need women, women need men. It’s how god created us to be. When we say Filipinas need their men, it is meant to be in a positive feminine way. I explain masculinity and femininity very early in the video. I tell my wife I need her in my life and love her to the moon and back everyday. She tells me she needs me and shows me how much she values and loves me every day. The issues that some, not all, women have is that they won’t let themselves be vulnerable to a man, or make the man feel as if he is needed in her life because she feels like it weakens her. So tell me, what on earth is wrong with a Filipina showing her husband that she needs him in her life. What man would ever wan’t to be told “I don’t need you.” “I wan’t you in my life, but I don’t need you. No man would. What woman in the world would be ok with their husband saying to her. “Hey, I hope you know, I don’t need you in my life.” NO WOMAN would. If a man ever told his wife straight to her face that he doesn’t need her, that man would be sleeping on the couch for weeks. A woman needing a man or man needing a woman in the right way is extremely healthy for marriages! The Healthiest marriages are built on interdependence. AKA, depending on each other, and needing each other. One of the biggest things that fills a good mans love tank is a woman showing him that he is needed and valued in her life. Yet, many women go out of their way everyday to do the exact opposite. Comments like yours is exactly why we made this video. There are far too many people out there that judge and have the perception; if a man marries a Filipina it is because he wants to be controlling and abusive. This is a tragedy, and it’s false far more times than not. There are a ton of western men that have had extremely bad marriages with women that manipulate, control, and emasculate them. The women constantly using the “I don’t need you phrase” in a contemptuous ways to tear the ego and self esteem down even more. It happens, it’s real, and that is abusive. But this video is not about abuse. It’s about the truth behind why some western men seek relationship with Filipinas. It’s to have a happy, successful, interdependent marriage that is built on love and respect.
Just wanted to say god bless yall for putting your videos up yes I'm talking to a vey loving filipina we are talking about her coming to America we haven't meat yet but don't know where to start about getting her a Visa to the states I'm going to try to go their in February 2020 but we dont know where to start the visa process can yall help
Most Filipinas only can get a visa to America due to work sponsorship or the K1 Marriage Visa. K1 Visa takes time and patience. If you havent even met yet, I would chill on the marriage talk. No way US immigration will approve a K1 Visa until they see youve been over there a few times. Take photos when there, save all your messaging conversations starting now, save receipts. There are videos on RUclips about the K1 process. Main thing is dont be sending money to her until youve met, and even then, I'd be careful. Remember, you dont really know her yet and its odd shes agreeing to all this marriage talk before youve even met her.
Cultural differences can make or break a relationship. There has to be a Respect & Mutual understanding of how the Filipino culture is when it comes to supporting family financially especially when he/she lives in America. I believe once a woman is married her husband is the priority, however in emergency situations or when a family needs help, a husband should understand that aspect of the filipino family ties.
As long as we are loved we are good. We were raised simply to love and care, to be the light in the family. We would always choose to be Feminine but can be the best Masculine if needed (referring to your definition). But recently its rapidly changing because of many foreign cultures (mixed to ours), women from our country nowadays are forced to have that masculine character. Nevertheless our innate Filipino characters are still in there (those imbedded on us while growing up: that men in the family are respected and loved, because they care and provide for the family for they love their family as well==but that “provide” word is often misunderstood as us being gold diggers or money seeker only). But the real truth is, we want something honest and pure kind of relationship. Something that could stand the tests of life. A resilient to any storms kind of love and relationship. That’s why even in our poorest state we are happy and we find reasons to be happy. I’m always delighted to hear a story like this that a fellow Filipino is well loved and cared. God bless your relationship.
As a western man myself if I find a lovely beautiful Filipina woman I’m gonna be a good man to her since she’s a good woman to me and do my best when I’m with her because she would appreciate a man like me.
Since I was a kid I really loved American people, its really hard to explain, they are the reason why I wanted to be a soldier but sad to say my late grandfather not allowed me to be a soldier. I'm very protected to American even my ex cheated on me. But I believe everything happens for a reason. To all American you're always in my heart and soul.
Well, it would be good if that information would have brought to me YESTERDAY!... Thank you so much for this video, great explanation of some truth. I can relate to it. I'm in the middle of getting my Filipino girl out from Riyadh, Saudi-Arabia first and back over to the Philippines and then over to the US. I'm German by descent, but in the US since quite some time. I'm learning a lot from your vlogs.
Thanks for your video! You just explained my exWife from Cambodia. Especially with the video clip she had. And she wasn’t even from America. Good content!
Wow!First time to watch your vlog.Very interesting topic. I'm attracted to American men,I find them smart and highly educated. Just had no chance to find in social dating site.And im also busy with my work and MBA class. Might bump in one in my workplace lol God bless to both of you.
Thankyou for sharing this video guys,some people judge to the woman who dream to find a foreigner guy,they think because of money and it is really pain on my side,because like me I been searching for that too.ever since until now,I never have Filipino boyfriend's because my heart is only for my dream to find a foreigner man,.not all Filipina is only money they want but mostly is have pure and serious of finding
What if the British guy did not support her Filipina wife since they are very far each other? And tje husband has a girlfriend in the UK. Any suggestions what to do? Thanks ypu so much
Distance is not an excuse to stop loving someone youTRULY love. A faithful husband and wife in marriage wouldn't at all be tempted to seduction, to carried away in lust, and commited such a crime in marriage. Pure love have no boundaries, limits, and excuses. Pure love is sincere, patience, caring, kind, reflect respect, honest, faithful, understanding and compassion. With a wrong irresponsible person make up a lot of excuses, alibis, and reasons.
@@AllAboutRealEstate_24 thank you so much. And the worse is the British call and text the wife filipina to tell that he has someone as they living together, it hurts! The legal wife suffered emotionally and psychological abuse.
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I'm a filipino guy, to good foreigners who wants to have a filipino wife. Becareful, like any other country there are good and bad filipina women. There are good filipina women that are loyal to love and will take care of you to rich or poor, will never leave you , yet, there are also gold diggers. Becareful w/ the gold diggers, they will never stop asking for money until your dried up. Once that happens, they will leave you w/o a single cent. There are some foreigner beggars here in our country because of the gold diggers. I want to help but im not rich to help them return to their countries, what I can do is share my advice to atleast give a heads up to foreigners who wants to visit my country and find a filipina wife. I don't want any foreigner make any mistakes by picking a wrong filipina to love. Take care to all.
Those foreigners that became homeless only acted like they were rich when they weren’t rich themselves.
Bless you
Dude, great advice wonderful post solid information. Thank you for taking your time to do it God bless you and your family and greetings from the state of Kentucky.
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@@darrellbarnes2096 who said we wanna marry a Filipino? No I stay within my race I’m a white man.
This only shows that even American men needs love, affection and care!
moonflower Darn straight. Thanks for sharing your thoughts!
This is why o won’t like western society because they don’t care about men being lonely and wanting to be loved good men have feelings too no wonder why we seek an alternative by going overseas to find love and when we do we can offer her a better life with us.
I met my first Filipina in 1984 while serving in the Navy. I really liked her a lot and was amazed at how attentive she was to my needs. But I was a veryy young guy of 19 years of age, and I was really unsure how a LDR would work out. There was no internet so everything would ahve to be done via snail mail. So I abandoned the whole concept, but never forgot how I was treated by her. ( the Filipina I met in the Philippines.
I married my first wife and that didn't last long. I t was always about her, and she was a hypocritical. She was very controlling and she committed bigamy. My second wife wasn't any better. She had me to the point after our divorce, that I was ready to swear off relationships all together. And I did for about 8 months. I even told my mom I wasn't going to get involved in another relationship.
One night I laid in bed and was thinking to myself that I really wasn't ready to be alone. I was 53 years old and I really felt that a good portion of my life was stolen from me. I was financially destroyed, and emotionally devastated...then....I started to think about where I could find and wonderful woman. A woman that would treat me like I was the most important person in the world ( I felt I deserved that much )
Then I memory flashed in my mind. " Her " the Filipina that I was with in 1984. One event seared into my mind and memory...lost in time, but not forgotten.
It was in the middle of the night and her and I were sleeping. I woke up, or maybe not, maybe it was a dream. I was laying there and she was laying next to me, on her side, next to me, in her left hand was a hand held fan, she was fanning me. I fell back asleep.
The next morning...as she bathed me, I asked her; " Were you fanning me last night " and she confirmed that she was. I inquired as to why, and she explained to me; " The electricity went out, it was hot. I wanted to keep your comfortable " I thought to myself " What a kind, loving, considerate woman to selflessly put my needs and comfort over her own. But I was young and like most young guys, self centered. But that never left me....just stayed dormant.
After my second marriage, I decided I would not settle for anyone, she had to be special, wonderful, and above all, loving. I realized at that time, over two years ago, and it never occurred to me until then...most would say that Filipina fanned me to get a one way ticket to America...but the though came to me.." What if I didn't wake up ? she STILL fanned me " so had I never woke up, she still did that selfless act.
That was a profound moment in my life..and that is when I realized I was to seek out a Filipina.
I searched " Filipina wives " and one of the first links was " Rosebrides " I browsed around, started chatting with one girl. Janna from GENSAN. It soon became apparent to me that she was scamming me. I told her it was over. I started chatting with a Filipina from Manila, she was really nice woman. Friendly and sociable....only problem was...it was a one way conversation. We would video chat, and I rarely said anything....she talked...and talked...and talked...I just sat there " Uhuh...yeah...uhuh...yeahyeahyeah...uhuh " ( reminds me of Arnold Swartzenegger in Last Action Hero with the tape recorder on the phone ) it was just two days into our...errr...I mean her chat sessions, she as constantly texting me, and calling me lover. TWO DAYS...
So I started to peruse the Filipina profiles....I sent a couple of messages to Olive Olive...never an answer...I saw Riza's profile, she was incredibly beautiful, but 20 years younger than I. Wasn't too sure about that.. But she sent me a " Hello " so I thought, I will see what she is all about. Her and I arranged a time that was convenient due to the time differences. our first first video chat. She asked me about that fact that I had children and what the situation was with the mother. I explained it to her and we chatted a while about it. I really felt a bit uncomfortable about telling her the situation as this was our first conversation..but she really wanted to know.
at the conclusion of our video chat she asked if we could chat again, and I agreed. she really listened to me and showed compassion. Her and I started chatting everyday...day in and day out. Her and I had a routine...her and I started talking about meeting. I told her I would come to the Philippines to visit her. on July 15th. 2018, I landed in Manila, and we met for the first time.,,,we spent a week together. visited her family, and we truly fell in love. She was raised by her aunt as she lost her parents when she as young.
in July 2019, I flew to Busan ,South Korea where she works and lives now, and we spent 2 weeks together...her and I are two of a kind. She is infectiously fuuny...the funniest woman I have ever known. She is so respectful to me as I am to her. Her and I truly fit together like puzzle pieces that completes the puzzle. we cannot live without chatting at least 5 or 6 times a day...always a laugh fest between her and I.
We plan on applying for the K1 sometime in 2021/2022 as she still has her contractual obligation to her employer. ...
NEVER, had I ever dreamed I would ever meet such a kind, loving, and caring woman in my life. Though we are 6,000 miles apart, I don't even have a doubt in my mind...she doesn't tell me how she feels, she shows me through her actions.
...I am truly blessed and thank the almighty God for giving me such an incredible gift.
Weng's Man Who wouldn’t love this incredible story of yours? This is Angelica, as I was taking our dog out this morning. This comment made me so emotional, I didn’t even noticed our dog pooped already hahaha! Takes me back to the time where Bryan was alone and heartbroken, and we found each other. We are so glad that you took the risks of finding love again. You deserved that love, Can I share your story to our fb page if it’s okay? I just need one picture of you guys. You can email it to me angelicahowell18@gmail.com
@@CrazyFilipinaLove wow...what an honor. Of course you can share my story. I will send you some pictures. Salamat po 😊
Such a beautiful story. I wish I can find true love too.
yes to filipina.. mabuhay!
Now that's a long story..
One of the few things that is sweeter than honey and that is a Filipino woman I Know I married one and we've been married for 10 years. God's Gift"
Yes po...Filipina are Gods gift to good men !
Wish your beautiful wife had something more to say! More power to you mate!
I’m in a LDR with a Filipino woman from Cebu Island province of Tuburan on the west coast. I’m an Australian, I’ve been there and met her beautiful family and just fell in love with her country and lifestyle, though very poor they are happier than most people I know.
Robert Wheeler Thanks for sharing your comment. My wife Angelica is slowly but surely getting more comfortable speaking to the camera.
Robert Wheeler Yeah just like sayings we may not have more, but we're more happy to the smile of Piliino people like me. When I was in Cebu SM City I met this gorgeous girl and we had a short talk and she's from New Zealand, very beautiful girl. Hope I can meet just like her. Thanks .
Robert wheeler that's very true
Robert Wheeler well said, it truly is inspirational how happy local Filipinos are and how nice everyone is in the Philippines. That’s part of the reason that my wife and I choose to live in the Philippines.
@@hardmtnbiker God bless, my friend! We haven't made a decision on where we'll live yet, but I would love to live in the Philippines and Australia. I love what I do, so for the foreseeable future, we'll live in Australia.
I might have to go visit the Philippines one day to find my soulmate. Because here in the US with all the horrible things going on with married man is very scary. You can lose everything on a divorce. I might have to take a trip soon over to the east.
Good luck sir!
Hi
Gabriel Gabe Logan Good luck
Same here Gabriel.
Knock and you shall find.
I agree with all of this. I’m currently going through this experience now. My whole life I’ve met women who were much more masculine than I was. I won’t lie, I lean into the emotional stuff at times. I’m one with it. It doesn’t bother me to show someone I miss them when they are gone. But I know how to be strong when times are tough.
Women I’ve dated just powered through everything, acting too tough too proud to be who they wanted to be because of whatever happened to them in their youth. A sad state of affairs I have to say.
Fast forward to today. I finally got sick of the same old story. I got sick of attracting women who just won’t let themselves be the woman they are. And I met someone in the Philippines who is everything I’ve wanted for years. I’m 38. She’s 25. Yes she’s young. But she’s mature, she’s feminine, she’s funny as hell. Has the funniest laugh, she lets me be who I want to be and doesn’t hold weird personal grudges, or resentment and judgments. She just goes with the flow of life. And I appreciate it every day. I show it to her how much that means to me.
I wish I had come to the Philippines years ago. I’m glad I finally found someone just like what you have in your video. Well done my friend.
I met my late wife of 31 years on 1/16/1975 in the Philippines when I was on my 5th. Navy cruise which was my very first Westpac cruise. We didn't marry until 4/5/1979 a few months after I got stationed in the Philippines. During our marriage we had 2 sons & a daughter. When I was 15 a high school Freshman that was living in Elwood, New Jersey I knew that I was going to meet & marry a Filipina woman. A few months later in July of 1969 I read an article in the Philadelphia Bulletin I read an article about a widower who got e b faced to a Filipina he met in 1959. I kept reading that article. My parents talked about that article & they said our oldest son is most likely going to marry a Filipina. I did & my late wife was,is & always will be the love of my life.
@@christophers.o622 whatever trip your trigger I’m sure she was a very nice lady personally I don’t marry outside of my race. Well quite frankly I don’t have anything to do outside of my race. I’m a white man.
Thank you for sharing this candid video. While I'm not a Philippina, I love their culture and I work with a lot of them as a caretaker. They're respectful, hard working, Godly beautiful people. Case in point, the Holy Bible corrects the harmony and balance between Man and Woman while independancy and feminism kills that harmony. I always spiritually felt like the man is in charge, they're naturally and generally more level headed. We were not created equal and that's a great thing. God bless!
I love this and it is true. I too am in a ldr with my Filipina. I love her every much. We are engaged and looking forward to being married. She truely makes me happy as i hope i make her. I will be sharing this video so others can see this. Take care you too and much love. Stay strong.
Jason Lewis Wow! Congratulations guys! And thank you for sharing this too ♥️
how many times have you visited her
@@GUITARTIME2024 Don't buy into this all it is it's wishful thinking!
So 1 year later... nothing happened? :)
very happy with my filipina girlfriend.. 18 months together.. I'm in USA ,she in Philippines.. yes long distance is hard but I'm sooo thankful I have her and we do plan to move forward, marry and build a family.. ty guys for your videos, we both have seen and felt many things you talk about in your videos.
We appreciate you taking the time to watch. Very happy to hear this. Stay strong.
Well said. I like you on how you speak about Filipinas. We are born to be more caring loving and passionate.Not all just want money or anything.I can say not all are good but mostly in our culture we care about what is family and marriage means..Godbless you both.
@@allaboutmimi5782 not all of any group is good. Every group of people have good & bad in them.
God bless you and your Filipina. Magandang Buhay po !
I've been in an LDR for 4 years with a filipina. We're getting her marriage annulled. She went to the last hearing and nobody was there. First day of closing all govt offices. We were so close. We'll just have to wait a little longer now...whats that phrase that they use in the Philippines ?
Oh yeah...you just wait.
AWESOME VIDEO! I shared this on my Facebook account. Maybe it will wake up a few men and women. Keep doing these. I am a new subscriber now.
Now I know what to tell my Filipina wife when she asks "why do you love me?" I tell her because you bring out the best in me and because you are so caring and loving. Loved your video. I'm living in the Philippines and yes, it's tough in so many ways but my wife respects me and loves me, and she is so good I have to try to keep up with her.
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Perfectly said. Sweet little girls raised in a liberal surrounding with full independence don’t need a husband. They need a man toy for day or an evening of fun. That’s what the western society has changed into.
My ex changed, after a 21 year marriage into an independent woman and took off to have some fun.
Eventually I fell in love with a beautiful Filipina and she fell in love with me. We are happily married awaiting the visa process. We both prayed for a good person to come into our lives and we both wanted a real family, and we are so blessed. We found our soulmate at last!
If I didn't meet my filipino husband i would probably marry a foreigner too. My reason is not money, I work and earn my own money. Modern filipinas are very independent, they desire to marry foreigners not only from the US..i have seen a lot filipina women who have relationship with Koreans, chinese, indians and black men..they do it because of love. Sounds cliche but it is true...i guess we are not just racist in general.
true
I love how you include God in your discussions. Thanks for sharing. God bless your relationship!
Marriage can't work without God. God's blessings are very important
I'm Canadian, i'm 54, I read a study that love takes minimum 20 days to get in place, so I believe that you need to spend minimum a month in order to get a idea if she's the right one.... But I would also prefer to bring her in Canada for few months just to be sure that she will feel ok there... In point vue of immigration she can stay up to 6 months... I'm just a type of person that would be sure that she like the weather there... spring, summer, autumn, winter... then if it works... and we get along...We can go back to get married there and in Canada...BTW... I'm not looking for a maid or someone to wash the dishes... I'm looking for the perfect wife... my friend, my love
Hello
Hello
Funny when you emphasized about not looking for a "maid" .
First time I have seen your channel, subbed. American women have lost their minds. You had a good analogy. Thank you.
Filipina women's are caring & loving, we're not all gold digger. God bless you guys😘lovely couple..watching from Finland🙋
Marie Hämäläinen i agree sis
That's what they all think. "Gold digger" but they don't know that respect, love, patience and caring make godly filipina satisfied..Your money is nothing!
Wayne mourik tara sis
Ay salamat! Akala ko puro nigative nlng maririnig ko at least may naka pag vlog na hindi lahat ganon ! Watching from GERMANY.
I totally agree.. nice vlog. Best regards from Dubai
Perfect explanation! Spot on. The same general idea was always somewhere there in my mind but you explained it very articulately in words. Thanks for sharing that.
All of this is very true! Loved the explanation of the masculine and feminine energy.
Ricardo Thank you, Ricardo! Watch for our next videos!
Proud filipina here😘😘
Ricardo I’m agree
Yes very well said😊
Its just there life respect and love also and destiny is also the reasons
Nice couple 😊 I'm pilipina married American for 30 years from day one we still in love each other from north Carolina.
Im in NC too. Hope to visit PH in March. First trip!
Also from NC and I have a Filipina fiance . I wish you both happiness ❤️
@@robertwood3172 I'm from NC. Have u met her? Age diff?
oh nice I'm from greensboro
@@GUITARTIME2024 yes 3 times so far, for a month each time , I'm 31, and she's 22. I've been married before so no kids and no previous baggage, and someone I don't have to repair daily was at the top of my list , I would prefer to deal with my own mistakes which has been none yet . She's awesome and she makes her own money and goes to a university as well. I was suppose to go back in April but this Coronavirus mess delayed that for now . I'm from Wilmington NC.
As a bonus I guess it's awesome she was a virgin too , something you are more likely to win the powerball than find here 😂
You perfectly explained how I have felt but haven’t been able to put into words. Keep up the great work. You have a new subscriber!
Never underestimate filipina women! You don't know what filipina women can do! " Just respect, love, caring and patience" make filipina women satisfied.
Verry well said
yes, some people really don't know who they really are...
YES !
Oo !
Opo !
Huod !
@@rococokitchen3988 This is all a lie don't be fooled long distance relationships don't work!
All Filipino people are very nice people period!
I was born in the Philippines. I hope to find a Filipina but kinda hard here in the states
Here in Florida too.
You can't find us "Filipina" in that place because that's not our land or let just say country...😂
@@MsJazzz will I will say u r in Philippines. And what part? Tagalog or Bisaya? Thank u.
@@MsJazzz I'd like to marry Filipina, just like you sent me.
@@michaelt334 Aside from that language there's other tribes here in Philippines and i'm not Tagalog nor Bisaya I'm manobo tribe
Love your kind of analogy...great!
Awesome video guys. Very well explained
Kimmy Vibes Thank you 🙏 😊
I'm glad I found your channel. Amazing content.
Im from q foreign country, i am taught to be submissive to men, but don't get me wrong i have no low self esteem. But i think Philippine women compromise their culture to be with American men but for me doing that is challenging because my family or even myself envy our tradition and we have a very close social life unlike most Americans, such as letting our parents live with us till they die. I dated an American guy and that was a big turn off for me. Most American men are muscline but i will not marry one because i am raised in a family were my old family are well cared close by, but most American men dont want your or their parents to live around in which i found it hard to sustain with.
To be fair, In a marriage its all about compromise and balance. Both cultures, the man's, and the woman's, needs to be respected.
x comentator i agree
x comentator i agree with ya.
Great advice guys as always! Can't wait to see this channel blow up in the next months!!!
The Gilbert's Life Thank you Jordan and Melissa! Continue to inspire couples like you and praying for success in both ends! ♥️♥️
Obviously a myriad of worldly reasons for all this...
but sometimes deeper reasons, senses of destiny or predestination and such..
Filipinas are probably the most spiritual of all females on earth ....seriously.
The problem seems to be that they sometimes want something with someone
which they know deep inside is not their destiny and original dream.
Society also puts this 29 years old rule on them, that they better get hooked up
with a guy by then, or else they get rejected.
This is based on lies and false information real talk!
Amazing review and perspective! Well stated. I believe I have found real love with my beautiful filipina wife!
If you married a pilipina your children's are so beautiful
that's it period lol 😅
I have many friends mixed white with Filipino they look Hispanic! 👍🏼 True!
No kidding. its happening to Canadian men too... thanks for sharing guys
Thank you for this video
Good information never heard it put that way , thank you both
Hello! I stopped by your channel for the first time. Wow, great content on your site. My wife is from Davao PH and we are in our second month of being married. I am a new subscriber and plan on being here for a while.
wow, finally some one gets it ! well spoken and right on the money, women in the states have no clue, what men are really wanting in a relationship, i got tired of women trying to be the boss and i never got into a relationship with a woman like that and never will and you said it right women need to be women and men need to be men, that is the only way relationships between a woman and a man will work, thank you
What do women want? In marriage? Women want a husband who will provide for the family. In every country in the world. What do men want in marriage? Someone who will raise a family and support and encourage her husband. In most every country. That simple.
Exactly.
Hi I'm Melody and I am a filipina and finding a caring and understanding man and I pray that when the times come I will be happy☺️😇still waiting because love is patient ❤️
Good story man .😃
Her smile . Wow. You're lucky Bro . 😊
You forgot the main reason. Asian women are beautiful!
Rob The Realtor Oh yeah they are!
Thank u for that Sir
I'm in a relationship with a Filipina woman since 2017 my first visit first kid my first visit my son was born nine months later in iligan City getting married this month in iligan City very loving compassionate Warman my preference has always been Asian women
Beautiful Asian women who speak English.... even better!
Nasan yung beautiful?
If you want to learn more visit crazyfilipinalove.com.
By the way, this was our first RUclips video ever. We want people to know this because at this time, Angelica had just arrived in the U.S. and was very shy to speak in front of the camera. Always want Angelica to contribute to the level she is comfortable. But due to the subject matter of this video, she chose to be supportive and listen along. I respected this. You will see she opens up more and more as we keep making videos. God bless! Thanks for watching our video.
So happy for u both
First time viewing and subscribed. Because your boss told me to. ;)
My dude, hit the the nail SQUARE on the head and drove it in straight and solid with one whack( I mean look at the guns 💪🏻 on this cat) . This video puts everything in context perfectly👌🏻 (and I don’t use the words “ perfect or perfectly often). Great videos you two, very informative and enlightening and well thought 💭. Y’all are beautiful 🙏🏻💜 May your new business take off and y’all continue doing your good work, being in the service of love is one of the noblest paths some one can pursue and you two have the heart and goodsense to make it happen on a big scale for many people looking for a loving happy relationship. I’d say that’s something on the list of things that makes God smile with great warmth in his heart and our hearts. May you two have many wonderful blessings to come in your journey together 🙏🏻💪🏻🤘🏻
Good explanation! new subscriber here😉
Please find me a wife I love Filipina women THEY ARE GORGEOUS ❤️❤️ I am a 54 year old man with no kids, i am not rich either,
I am Hispanic living in America
that's great...and than you should stay in the Philippines, to be surrounded by many other nice Filipinas for the rest of your life...
I'm available here...lol
Jasmin Deneros
Here’s my email
ramriver74@gmail.com
Please send me an email to get to know each other
@@ramito42 im sorry im never dream to go US to living there....i like to visit country japan because the technology high tech....
Some damn good points.
Virel360 Appreciate you watching!!
Thank You so much for this Fantastic video. I just fell in Love with an Angel. I enjoyed it.
Rich Glad you enjoyed! Thank you!
Those were the exact reasons that my family gave me when I accepted my Filipina fiancee's texts. They could not understand why I would go to the Philippines when I could find an American. But I had already found a women who I truly wanted to be with it was simply living in the Philippines. Her traits and characteristics drew me closer and closer to her.
I made this comment three years ago and totally forgot about this site. Since that time, my fiancee has come here, and we have been married for over two years. I has been great.
Thank you Brother family will never understand, getting looked at by Mexico and America Women like a Rapist or criminal when you are a hard worker with no time to commit crimes
Brother congrats im sure you are in peace with your Asian Wife, who cares and commits
wow jaaj what is the name of the movie you use?
Because they want to have a marriage that lasts and not get kicked out of the house they built and end up paying alimony and child support. They want to watch their children grow up and bounce their grandchildren on their knees.
I'm on ldr relationship Also with my British bf for almost 2years.. And finally we gonna meet on December 30..And Im so excited to meet and spend time with him💞
Two years?? Wow, im mexican, but I like the philipina style, I like to treat my man like a king and Im kind of submissive with my man. Ive been talking to an american Guy for 5.5 months but he is not too masculine!! However I still treat him like a king. How did you do to have a relationship for two years, wow, did you Talk everyday? Or just some days and some others not? With this pandemic, i dont know if we Will be able to make It for so long. Any recommendation?
This is a really great video! Thank you so much for producing it. You definitely have a great deal of insight, as to what is going on in America!
Hello, I am Indian, work from India as well. A counterpart in the US once happened to tell me that he was first married to an American woman. He went through a bad divorce after a few years and stayed single for ten straight years. Then very recently married a woman from the Philippines and they are now happily together. So I always had this question on my mind, if there is a reason American men marry Philipina women. Well, honestly, it's a great thing for the open society, and as long as they are both happy why not? All the best to all good American men and Filipina women.
Iam Saudi Arabian we have a lot of Philippine people here including my friends I love them they are kind honest funny and loving people
There is zero shame wanting to get out of poverty and get a better life. Every single one of us wants to get our basic needs meet, because that is the only way to survive. That doesn’t mean there couldn’t still be real love, poor people are just people in a bad situation, they never desrve to be shamed for happening to being poor. We all desire being cared for both emotionally and physically, every single one of us!
can i say, THANK YOU, this is so unbelievably true. it is so wonderful to finally hear it said out loud by somebody.
Jim Haga Thanks Jim, our goal is to talk about the hard stuff and be real. Its the only way to make a difference.
I am American and I went with a Filipina as well. I met one that has the traditional values that most western women have lost.
First time visiting ur site - got subscribed after. The discussion has more substance to it. Thx
Hi.. 🖐🖐 that's really true.. filipina here from zamboanga to north virginia with my very sweet american husband.
Hi im from zamboanga too here in new York and married to an American man...frances Bowman
North virginia aq. From sangali. 😊☺
That's great to know
Has your husband been to zamboanga
No. Maybe in 3 years. 0
Strangely enough I can't help but agree with this video. I was an American woman who is ethnically Mexican I have never understood the American woman's need to try and act like a man. It's very bizarre. Never been a fan of it I prefer to be a woman and to let the men in my life be men.
Really good my brother..
Single
Hi! Great explaination😘
all about Zen Thank you Zen! 💕🇵🇭
Wonderful video. I am enjoying every single episode.
My X was married twice and a third time to a Filipina. I have to wonder if he beats her too. I also have to wonder where you come up with it, "not" being "the norm"? I've heard and read that spousal abuse is more accepted in the Philippines. And he married her only after two dates. Once in America and once he went to her home in the Philippines. Then they married.
Good video. Thanks.
Hugely impressive video. Watching from the UK.
superAweber Thank you so much! Means a lot ♥️
What a fantastic channel.. I've recently started a relationship with Filipina in Australia, and it feels wonderful to be Chivalrous, Courteous, and show my Affection without having to second guess myself. Western Women!...You're Losing a lot of good Men to a more traditional concept of Love and Respect.. And i for one couldn't be happier.
Yet another awesomely awesome video!!!!
Andy Morse Thank you Andy! We know you have your filipina 👌❤️
Very well explanied ! You got the point ! Thank you for telling it to the world :-)
I like your explanation at the same time liking the short video clips its like i don't need to imagine what your saying because i just need to watch those clip to understand it lol....
Masculine energy plus feminine energy is equals to baby energy.....
Mark Anthony Alanza Indeed!!
😂 hehe true.. I’m sleepy 💤 coz I’m tired from travel but u made me lough Mark .. it’s cute compliment
Hahahaha
Hahahahaha
Lol😂
I think most men marry filipinas when they're in their 30's or 40's because maybe this is the time when they get matured and ready to settle down...or when they need someone to take care of them if they are old already...lol
because they're wiser and more mature. they have learned a lot about life and reality. they look for real things rather than fantasy.
No offense but majority of those guys are white losers in the West who can't get a white woman. There are exceptions but it doesn't make the rule. I really feel sorry for the filipino men since they have limited dating options.
@@MrALenCar321 dating option in the philippines is not limited but its upon on different standard of women..there are ambitious women who marries well off men for sustainable lifestyle and others settle with contentment and prefers a simple life
@@elliemay5595 I think there is self hatred among Asians that make them to choose white men. There was video RUclips video on how all the beautiful beauty pageant winner were half white. I have nothing against white people but these women choose men based on race and it's only Caucasians. If you ask them they will say a half white baby looks pretty. They have condemned their filipino genetics. Skin lightening is famous in our continent.
@@MrALenCar321 its more of insecurities and some choose to because of financial stability ....as an asian what u said is true...asian standard of beauty comes with women with fair skin and caucasian features..we always look up to white people as a superior race and i guess that mind set make us think that we are one step below them.Sometyms looks is deceiving.
I’m married to a Filipino so I’ve been to many Filipino gatherings over the years. I’m glad this has worked for you but so many Filipino women are in an abusive relationship here. One got in just one fight. He divorced her and right away contacted the agency to get another Filipino lady. This is so common. On the other hand I’ve never met a Filipina who doesn’t have to have a Luiviton bag and the best of everything etc. no matter how poor her American husband is. My husband will not allow any of his relatives to even suggest dating an American man. Just speaking from experience.
Also. One friend confided in me that he had visited not realizing that in Filipino culture you are expected to not only support your wife but you are also expect to support her family back home monthly. It’s the culture. If you don’t you’re looked up negatively.
Yes! My dream Godly soulmate is from God... praying while waiting.
Right on I think you hit on so many truths about our culture's and helped explain things so many people in the world would and could have a hard time understanding ...deep and I feel your right on I'm going to send to my mom
This is so sad! Little girls need to be taught that they do not need a man to be happy. They need to want to be with a man for the simple fact that he brings love and joy into her life. When you teach young girls that they need a man it puts them into bad situations where they become scared to leave their boyfriend or husband even if he is abusive because she feels incomplete without him. 😭 To all the young women seeing this video you can be strong and feminine and you can find someone who loves all of those qualities about you!
Stephaney Anne Hise Not sure your getting the point of the video. If you are implying that we are teaching young girls to need a man in an unhealthy way your perception is not correct. I am fairly certain that I never said Filipinas need a Man to be happy. Actually I’m positive.
But let’s just look at facts. Men need women, women need men. It’s how god created us to be.
When we say Filipinas need their men, it is meant to be in a positive feminine way. I explain masculinity and femininity very early in the video.
I tell my wife I need her in my life and love her to the moon and back everyday. She tells me she needs me and shows me how much she values and loves me every day.
The issues that some, not all, women have is that they won’t let themselves be vulnerable to a man, or make the man feel as if he is needed in her life because she feels like it weakens her.
So tell me, what on earth is wrong with a Filipina showing her husband that she needs him in her life.
What man would ever wan’t to be told
“I don’t need you.”
“I wan’t you in my life, but I don’t need you.
No man would.
What woman in the world would be ok with their husband saying to her.
“Hey, I hope you know, I don’t need you in my life.”
NO WOMAN would.
If a man ever told his wife straight to her face that he doesn’t need her, that man would be sleeping on the couch for weeks.
A woman needing a man or man needing a woman in the right way is extremely healthy for marriages!
The Healthiest marriages are built on interdependence. AKA, depending on each other, and needing each other.
One of the biggest things that fills a good mans love tank is a woman showing him that he is needed and valued in her life. Yet, many women go out of their way everyday to do the exact opposite.
Comments like yours is exactly why we made this video. There are far too many people out there that judge and have the perception; if a man marries a Filipina it is because he wants to be controlling and abusive. This is a tragedy, and it’s false far more times than not.
There are a ton of western men that have had extremely bad marriages with women that manipulate, control, and emasculate them. The women constantly using the “I don’t need you phrase” in a contemptuous ways to tear the ego and self esteem down even more. It happens, it’s real, and that is abusive. But this video is not about abuse.
It’s about the truth behind why some western men seek relationship with Filipinas. It’s to have a happy, successful, interdependent marriage that is built on love and respect.
@@CrazyFilipinaLove 100% agree. Needing a man doesn't make you a weak woman.
Just wanted to say god bless yall for putting your videos up yes I'm talking to a vey loving filipina we are talking about her coming to America we haven't meat yet but don't know where to start about getting her a Visa to the states I'm going to try to go their in February 2020 but we dont know where to start the visa process can yall help
Most Filipinas only can get a visa to America due to work sponsorship or the K1 Marriage Visa. K1 Visa takes time and patience. If you havent even met yet, I would chill on the marriage talk. No way US immigration will approve a K1 Visa until they see youve been over there a few times. Take photos when there, save all your messaging conversations starting now, save receipts. There are videos on RUclips about the K1 process. Main thing is dont be sending money to her until youve met, and even then, I'd be careful. Remember, you dont really know her yet and its odd shes agreeing to all this marriage talk before youve even met her.
Cultural differences can make or break a relationship. There has to be a Respect & Mutual understanding of how the Filipino culture is when it comes to supporting family financially especially when he/she lives in America. I believe once a woman is married her husband is the priority, however in emergency situations or when a family needs help, a husband should understand that aspect of the filipino family ties.
She's Beautiful ! Love this Video! Thank you for sharing !😁
Salamat po!
As long as we are loved we are good. We were raised simply to love and care, to be the light in the family. We would always choose to be Feminine but can be the best Masculine if needed (referring to your definition). But recently its rapidly changing because of many foreign cultures (mixed to ours), women from our country nowadays are forced to have that masculine character.
Nevertheless our innate Filipino characters are still in there (those imbedded on us while growing up: that men in the family are respected and loved, because they care and provide for the family for they love their family as well==but that “provide” word is often misunderstood as us being gold diggers or money seeker only). But the real truth is, we want something honest and pure kind of relationship. Something that could stand the tests of life. A resilient to any storms kind of love and relationship. That’s why even in our poorest state we are happy and we find reasons to be happy.
I’m always delighted to hear a story like this that a fellow Filipino is well loved and cared. God bless your relationship.
As a western man myself if I find a lovely beautiful Filipina woman I’m gonna be a good man to her since she’s a good woman to me and do my best when I’m with her because she would appreciate a man like me.
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Since I was a kid I really loved American people, its really hard to explain, they are the reason why I wanted to be a soldier but sad to say my late grandfather not allowed me to be a soldier. I'm very protected to American even my ex cheated on me. But I believe everything happens for a reason. To all American you're always in my heart and soul.
Looking for Philippina lover and wife . I am from San Francisco bay area aka Silicon Valley. Juvy Message me.
I'm a single mom of one and 30 years old been single for 5 years...I know God has a plan for me...still patiently waiting....
LMAO 😂
Yes god does have a plan for you TO STAY SINGLE AND FOCUS ON YOUR KIDS LEAVE MEN ALONE thank you for understanding.
Why is a beautiful woman like you single?
Well, it would be good if that information would have brought to me YESTERDAY!... Thank you so much for this video, great explanation of some truth. I can relate to it. I'm in the middle of getting my Filipino girl out from Riyadh, Saudi-Arabia first and back over to the Philippines and then over to the US. I'm German by descent, but in the US since quite some time. I'm learning a lot from your vlogs.
Move to Germany
@@qjtvaddict Thanks for the tip. Perhaps it wouldn't be so bad to go back to Germany, except I don't like cold weather. Lol.
I love to watch more of your videos ! I'm a fan , and I'm relate to every topic you two bringing up
Thank u for ur videos. O learned a lot about our LDR. We found each other.
Exactly, I totally agree......👍 Greetings from Malte from Berlin, 3 years in a ldr with my Uyab from Cebu, getting married in march 23 in Hong Kong.
Thanks for your video!
You just explained my exWife from Cambodia. Especially with the video clip she had. And she wasn’t even from America. Good content!
Wow interesting topic guys
I love your topic, I have boyfriend from UK,, he's 61 and I'm 53 from phillipines
I love him😁😁😊
lennie Delarama Thank you 😊
Wow!First time to watch your vlog.Very interesting topic.
I'm attracted to American men,I find them smart and highly educated.
Just had no chance to find in social dating site.And im also busy with my work and MBA class.
Might bump in one in my workplace lol
God bless to both of you.
Thankyou for sharing this video guys,some people judge to the woman who dream to find a foreigner guy,they think because of money and it is really pain on my side,because like me I been searching for that too.ever since until now,I never have Filipino boyfriend's because my heart is only for my dream to find a foreigner man,.not all Filipina is only money they want but mostly is have pure and serious of finding
Can't wait for the next vlog.
I really love how you explained tho.
Ate Zhle appreciate your support!
What if the British guy did not support her Filipina wife since they are very far each other? And tje husband has a girlfriend in the UK. Any suggestions what to do? Thanks ypu so much
He's a cheater. Period! He doesn't deserved her at all. Let her leave him for good.
Distance is not an excuse to stop loving someone youTRULY love. A faithful husband and wife in marriage wouldn't at all be tempted to seduction, to carried away in lust, and commited such a crime in marriage. Pure love have no boundaries, limits, and excuses. Pure love is sincere, patience, caring, kind, reflect respect, honest, faithful, understanding and compassion. With a wrong irresponsible person make up a lot of excuses, alibis, and reasons.
@@AllAboutRealEstate_24 thank you so much. And the worse is the British call and text the wife filipina to tell that he has someone as they living together, it hurts! The legal wife suffered emotionally and psychological abuse.
Nailed it!
.......Wow I never really thought it out like that. Your so right. American women are brought up like that and Filipinas are taught their way.
I hope to see more videos like this with your wife sharing her ideas too. It would be brilliant.