Girls Share About Failed Confessions To Their Crushes | ZULA Perspectives | EP 23
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- Опубликовано: 12 янв 2021
- From "I confessed to the same guy 3 times" to "I told him to open my letter after the performance, but he opened it straightaway", we got 5 girls to share with us how they confessed their feelings and how they weren't reciprocated.
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Yeh we do want a guy's version!!
The guy that fat shamed her, damn jialat sia. Eh parents, yall need to teach your kids from young sia bodoh. But she's so cute tho.
You go girl jeynelle you did a good job. If he shame you when are at your worse then he don't deserve you when you are getting better. You read him well.
People need to talk about this more ,it reduces the stigma around all the things that could go wrong when someone gets easily gets affected by rejection .
Just an advice to people after watching this who are gonna confess just in time for valentines and the novelty of it...dont.
Dont worry about finding the right guy, concentrate on being the right girl. And vice versa.
I like this guy and I told him what I feel about him but he says he has a lot of responsibility to his family especially to his parents, instead of being angry towards him,my respect to him even more because he is willing to sacrifice for his family sake
Oo I'm early 😳 tq Zula for letting us know more about these kinda issue which we now happens but rarely talk about 💕
this happened at the end of Nov last year. I confessed to this new guy in my year because I wanted to let out my feelings. In the first 2 months of liking him, I thought he was rlly nice and that the feelings were mutual, as he would treat me differently from others. But during the last month of liking him, he grew distant and he was hanging out with other girls more than me. So I kinda got sick of the feeling I had for him and I confessed to him before our school holiday. He rejected me which I kind of expected and surprisingly I was more relieved. Later I found out that he was talking behind my back for the past month. Tbh that did hurt my feelings but at the end of the day, it's good that I wouldn't have to be deceived by someone any longer. He has written me an apology that doesn't sound like one, more of an excuse. I told him off and he left me on read lmfao.
I felt so bad for Nicky... She didn't deserve the guy stringing her along 🙄
lol the most i remembered was, back in sec school i liked a guy.
one time after school i confessed. he was shocked i think? then, he didn't appear in school for few days, i called to asked what's wrong, he brushed me off. n i never see him again...
I find it funny how the confession eventually made someone stop coming to school. i think he transferred away, but not sure.
Talk about couples who broken up and gotten back together?
9:22 rejecting someone is also really difficult especially when they keep bothering you after, so i guess its really difficult to say what either side of the party should do🤷♂️
Remember... It's important to love yourself first!
idk who’s gona see this but one time I kinda confessed to this guy and he literally told all his rowdy friends about it, and before he know it was me who confessed he was nice and all, still say he won’t tell shit to anyone but after he know my identity he just 180 degree flip lmao like he was so rude and spread to other people 🤷🏻♀️
omg buffbaby is in tsl/zula???
omg jeynelle is here uwu
Yes! Guy's version please
Omg I totally understand the feeling of confession and with what you all said T. T Yes, of course getting rejected feels sad but it actually feels good at the same time! So I would recommend confessing because like what people said, you never try never know! It's been months and till today, I have never regretted confessing!! Just that the person I confessed to like never give me a direct response :") like unsure so I took a longer time to get over it since I felt like I confess like never confess like that lol
I confessed once and it was a disaster and I very much regret it. I was considering moving schools but the guy I confessed to went to that school and it went so awkwardly so I couldn’t move schools and see him everyday. It would be too awkward.
bUFFBABEEEEEEEE 🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺 luv u bbg
ily!
Jeynelle be saying "like", like more than 25 times in like 2 min like woah
SUBCONSCIOUS
I didn't even notice and I also didn't notice that you used it a lot in your comment until I started responding to it 😂
Oof, remember the video that TSL did of sending a google form to all the boys I have a crush on, so I did one to only one of my crush but telling him that I was doing a challenge. Unfortunately, even though he often act like he have a crush on me, apparently he never once has feelings for me. I felt very sad of course but I had to move on because this year I’ll be taking an important exam which is my O’s so I can’t be dealing with relationship this year anyways. I’m used to it too. I don’t have any real boyfriend before I guess except for a kindergarten one lol 😂 yeah, we were really together apparently at that time.
Omg at the fat shaming part. Reminded me of being FACE shamed by a guy in polytechnic. I didn't confess or anything, probably did something that annoyed him and he called me a pothole face (I had very bad acne during my younger days). I was traumatized for life and feel the lack the self-confidence about my looks (even though I don't have bad acne now). :'(
I confessed to my crush on april fools last year cuz theres this hack that if they dont like you back just say it was a prank so i did and turns out he could tell all along but he didnt give me an answer then. 8 months later in december i just asked him if he likes me back cuz i was so convinced the feeling is mutual but haha nope he didnt like me back and i got over it. we dont talk but we arent awkward around each other and i am rly glad i confessed so now i am not wasting time on him anymore :)
I think it was in secondary that I confessed to this guys after liking him in secret for 3 years. I finally mustered up the “courage” to confess to him, so I wrote a text message and waited for a reply. And guess what? He didn’t reply at all and acted like nth happened. Until today I’m still left hanging. I’m guessing he knows but just doesn’t know how to react XP 🤷🏻♀️
i did a confession before to the guy who was in the same class with me. then he rejected me and then he go dating with my bestfriend. you know what i felt so frustrated..
Did it change your relationship with your best friend? How did you move on from this situation?
@@angel12319823 it was changed my relationship with her at first.. but because of i love our friendship that have been bonding since primary school, i just forgave her... but i cannot forget what was happened and of course it hurts when your bestfriend suddenly becomes a stranger..
Guy's version pls
Same thing happen to me leah & nicky.. i actually have two crush..
The first crush i have is a long story actually.. so i making it short.. long short story I'm looking for him for 3 years then i found him 5 years later in one of malaysia app omi chat is a dating apps.. i confess to him bla bla bla.. then he excepted me when i said i like him.. we chat for 3 to 6 day (i guess).. then later he gone & disappear in no reason and i been ghosted alot by him when everytime i texted him but he stock my social media alot 🤔 (hmm)
The second crush i also find him in a apps MiChat.. his awesome and cool.. he is a funny guy and always make me laugh.. we text for several days nearly to month.. we have alot of fun.. video call and watching movie together and everything.. one night i confess to him that i like him and he ask me why i like him and i tell all my reason why.. i like funny guy that always make me laugh at the the end of my reason.. you guys wanna know what is his respon.. he said we better be as a friend and he like me that way.. i so heart broken and i said ok great in a happy fake voice.. ohh he also said the he don't want to date anyone and he want to focus on his life and on his passion.. 5 days later someone confessed that she like him and wanna get married.. he say yes.. he told me that someone like him and want to marry him.. then I asked to him why you say yes to her and you say no to me and accepted her in you life.. actually I'm not ok but I'm happy for him because we still stick as a friend till now till this day and I always prayer for him that he will always be happy with his wife but something funny he said to me that he want me to be his second wife when he suddenly see one of the picture that I post in Instagram.. he said to me that I'm looking cute and pretty so he changed his mind to take me back and he feel so disappointed and so angry to himself that he didn't accepted me when I confess it to him that night.. but at the end we both think is just a joke that he said he wanted me to his second wife.. I'm a good friend to his wife too you know..
Nah... don't confess. I regretted it. Esp if it's a crush in pri school/sec school/tertiary education. You change a lot when you finish tertiary eduction and go on to uni/the workforce, and you'll probably look back wondering why you even bothered in the first place. If it's reciprocated, then there will be more indication that you both like each other, and you won't "not know" to the extent that you actually end up writing a letter/text and waiting for a reply. If the other party was more interested in you, then there would be a lot more proactiveness on his side (and won't require a text/letter to clarify things). I feel bad for the last girl (the one who confessed three times) though. He was really stringing her along, and his reply - being so delayed - was kinda disrespectful (or not something I would respect) tbh.
I actually confessed to my crushes in primary school, and like idk, they blocked me and never talk to me again but we were in the same class but guess WHAT, THEY GLOWED DOWN and I GLOWED UP. Secondary school crushes were SO MUCH better bc we still stayed friends anyways and also I don't like telling people who my crushes are now thanks to my sec school classmates ;) trust issues amirite
oh yes my friends (not so close) legit told my crush i liked him...it was awkward after that, i hated that phase of my life
I like a guy but we haven’t met in person yet and have only talked online because I’ve been sick and not been able to go out. We planned to meet twice but then I had to cancel both times because I felt unwell which I feel really bad about because now he has a bad first impression of me even though I’ve never cancelled twice before. I don’t want to tell him yet because we haven’t met in person yet so it doesn’t feel like I can confidently say I like him when I haven’t met him yet. We actually talk a lot about personal things and stuff and it kinda hurts because he’s talked to me about the people he likes but I understand because I can’t expect him to have feelings for me when we barely know each other. I hope he maybe grows feelings for me after we finally meet though. I really like him because he’s cute and he’s got like the perfect personality I like and he’s very kind and he’s understanding of everything I go through. I’m also asexual so that makes finding a partner very difficult but he said he also isn’t really into sex. It feels unbelievable I met someone so perfect and I feel like if we can’t date then statistically, it’s very unlikely I’ll find someone as amazing as him again. Like he got barely any flaws. But I have a lot of flaws with my mental health and stuff which I’ve been very open to him about so I feel like he won’t like me because of them. Like he got like no flaws and I got tons so it feels wrong if I was to date him and to like make someone so good be stuck with someone like me.
omg it's tiktok buffbaby
Notice that these girls confess when they are teenager , but being a mature adult and logical thinking personality I will think if mine crush felt ill or loss the mobility will I still like/love this person if answer is no then can forget about confess, but then how many Pierre png are there in the world 🤷♀️
how old is Jeynelle?
OMG ITS MEEEE
talk about crushing on a guy who's already in a relationship *sob* *sob*.... i will never confess....
Hello! Is it possible to have a video on how bruh girls can get a partner. It seems like nobody wants to date bruh girls :(
blue bull with horns
My ex company colleagues love to spread rumours and gossip, they ship me with another guy bc we r both fat & ugly. He also tot I like him & he said that eew I’m not his type 🙄
And there was this short guy in my internship, he also tot I like him, but I was just being friendly, I’m asexual and I’m taller than him… so he sent a LONG msg saying that he don’t like me but he will pray for me to find another guy, what an insult
nicky's one is kinda the same as me cuz I confessed 3 times too.. yes last year 3 times and I still frickin like him but he rejected every timeee. And he asked me to stop liking him but then he asked me to talk to me more in school :)
5:20 If someone can’t handle you at your worst, they don’t deserve you at your best
Personally i think its a very misguided, overstated and selfish quote. Every one is flawed, but you should not expect your partner to put up with these unhealthy behaviours.
but we might agree to disagree :)
To each their own on how u choose to interpret the message :)
boy met girl. boy likes girl. girl likes boy. but girl decides to drop those feelings but pursue career. T_T *faints*
:'(
NIce tatts
Damn this girl really still holdin grudges from primary school
some memorable hurtful things will stay in you for long periods of time , but that’s what makes you stronger & ignites the change in you :)
So many of the girls initiate 🤦🏻♀️