I once saw 2 guys beating up an old lady and using my years of training I thought I should jump in using experience from my training. The old lady had no chance against the 3 of us.
@@freepatriot9070 as a kid ww2 was beautiful . I was in love with the mass bombings in Germany but if I was a man in Germany on the ground I wouldn’t be like that
No joke though so many arrogant little kids man and I'm young myself. Martial arts taught me respect. People think they can get away with shit because they've never been stockton slapped
One of the most frustrating aspects of coming home from jail/prison is that you go from a world where respect is everything and if you don’t say excuse me for bumping into someone that could be a fight or it could cost you your life. Then you come home, and people constantly disrespect you without worrying about consequence because they can just call the cops on you.
This is such an interesting comment, prison is such a different world ppl like me who haven't been, cant understand. thank you. I just listened to the bobby green JRE , and this topic sorta comes up their too. So can I ask a question? Prison was explained like: some guys like lifers go from 0 to fight mode over the slightest thing, like even PlayStation games. coz they never learnt communication skills. And then those guys are setting the trends that everyone follows, so u go in and alget forced into acting the same way too - else you get made to pay for it right? now when u out, youre getting forced the opposite way. Like you're body goes into threat mode coz thats what u been forced into but cos of the cops thing, you can't act. And If I get you right, that's the frustrating bit. So my question is: For most people does it get less frustrating over time or is it like your body alway go into threat mode now? Like frustration change coz u now getting forced
@@saberxebeck To answer your question: certain aspects of that mentality never truly go away. I was locked up for a year and a half and still, to this day, have to remind myself to step back and breathe when someone is being disrespectful. My father on the other hand did 14 years in federal prison with the worst of the worst. He has adapted to life on the outside and is doing quite well but occasionally something small will set him off. I’ll crack a joke at the dinner table and he’ll instantly be back into fight mode before settling down and apologizing. You can see it on his face. Doing time is no joke.
@@saberxebeck Of course ! Glad I could add some info. Unfortunately this just goes to show that our prisons do not rehabilitate people and in fact make them more hostile .. my father was a non-violent drug offender and came out the other side ready to fight.
yeah, I'd be mad if someone leaned at my laptop too, maybe even punched seat, but sane person would've looked back and asked "what happened", maybe said sorry or something, not fucking act tough like he wants to start a fight
No fear of natural selection we just spend tine waiting till we die, life has no purpose anymore. And with all these modern trends we can barely express ourselves as the animals we are
Yeah "he turned white"....... Whats the old saying "never scare a small man, he will kill you". That can be the danger there of being confident and having training, it may come across and scare the person into using a weapon. Unless you're backed in a corner it's to the death (then you should use a weapon too) ignore it and walk away! The laptop chair punch or the wrong turn guy is risking a beating and he doesn't know it sure. Firas is risking REAL(not ring, with a weapon) violence on himself ,which HE probably doesn't have a concept of either, by not just ignoring a minor irritation and walking away.
@@gwildordipkin6504 The Ar@b thinks he's safe cuz he knows how to fight hand to hand. Some people don't care and will use weapons. I doubt he knows what w@r is either.
@@Thecgsystem Yeah but crazy people don't realize that. Anyone who isn't crazy can just shrug it off, screw it, why play the odds to call out rude people in any aggressive manner unless they force the issue? Hell in both situations he described he woulda went to jail if he won (not self defense calling out someone asking if they wanna go as an elite fighter), and the hospital if he lost (especially HIM cause theyd have had to use a weapon on him to beat him). It's no win, especially for him. That's my point. Brian Grimes is right too in pointing out hes starting pissing contests over shrug it off situations, then advising not to get in street fights. Had been an old lady who hit his seat he wouldn't have gotten aggressive (I assume haha). Hes harboring some male on male "violent conflict resolution" ideals himself. People carry knives and guns and tire irons and pepper spray and run people over with their cars who punch them out etc etc etc. He shouldn't tell those stories then next breath act all "zen" about street violence.
Facts i know what ur saying but when someone yells at you and u casually say u wanna go mate and they pucker up it means they dont know wtf they were doing yelling in the first place , impulse is quick reflection can be a lifetime some people choose who they wanna be aggro on they are insecure bullies but you never wanna underestimate someone
JRE just never experienced real bullying in a scrub school of a ghetto town. The hierarchy of power is very real there, and power is based on ability to bring friends to put someone down, but there's individual power too, and the person more physically fit and more willing to violently fight will always suppress the physically weaker person. And how do people know this? Well because they fucking fight, because they act like bullies only if they know that they can fuck you up. Martial training/experience is like a weapon that you can't even unwield. And what do physically weaker people need to do? Devote their whole lives to obtaining enough muscle, experience, fighting technique and confidence to be allowed to just be uninjured? This is a much more violent and complex situation that JRE is thinking of it.
First fight I ever got in, I remember getting rocked so hard that my whole body froze. Not from pain, but the pure shock of getting into a physical altercation left me with no time to react. Most humbling day of my life.
@@jeffreymacmullin1653 Haha that's usually what it takes. I've won most of the fights I've been in as well, I've just alway tried to avoid them. There are 2 realities: 1- you never know who it is you're arguing with and what they're capable of 2- there's always someone bigger and badder, and it very well could be that guy
In Oregon my Uncle Chael grew up surrounded by such hardcore criminality that he literally witnessed people publicly littering on a daily basis. It was brutal stuff man.
To be fair, hearing others loud breathing nearby (unless a medical condition or in hospital lol) is infuriating. Its kinda like those loud chewers/ obnoxious food slurping eaters. Annoying af
He's misses his own point, it's not just that you could run into a trained fighter. It's that even as a trained fighter you have no idea what you're walking into, knives guns etc, not just running into a better fighter
@@nocturnaljoe9543 watching LiveLeak videos will make everyone understand why you DO NOT WANT TO FIGHT a random stranger... so many horrible possibilities
Yeah that’s the whole other side to this in America lol I have no training whatsoever but I have a conceal carry license valid in almost 40 states and and carry a Glock everyday like MANY other Americans… not much martial arts training can do to stop a bullet… Not that I think it isn’t valuable though if they get their hands on you before you get to your waistband it could be lights out for you as well. I do plan to take BJJ classes soon sounds like a good challenge and confidence builder
Thats the biggest takeaway. It doesn't matter how much fight training you have when you come across someone violent. You could get stabbed, shot, beat with a pipe or bat, hit with a car, the list goes on. Know how to fight means nothing when youre against a someone who enjoys violence and will commit violence at a level you can't even imagine.
@@RichieD_21 usually those who do it are newbies too, real mobs and assassins only do it to get payed if they don't get money they won't risk going to prison just to show off
I think it is right because people nowadays mostly get away by saying what they want even if it can be very disrespectful. I think what your mom was saying is that people who got punched in the face have been taught humility at some point. People deserves to be punched if they are very disrespectful thus getting punched in the face teaches them humility.
Exactly. There have been literally stories about karate or BJJ or other TMA instructors who have gone to jail for killing their wives or kids etc.... these aren't good people. Martial arts doesn't make you a saint. If anything, if you have certain negative personality traits, becoming better at inflicting pain on other people, having people defer to you in a way that TMA encourages etc... can actually make some people far, far worse.
It's because some of these men know that they have the experience in fighting to distroy and are a threat to anybody regular that dont do this for a living, think they can bully you for no reason and take advantage at least for some I guess? But! can't beat'em...well?...run'em over!!! Hahaha fuack off asshole!!!.... Muahahahaha!!!
Jones would beat Tyson? Christ what is with this generation. Tyson is a boxer. So you would then have to make Jones box. Tyson is a genetic freak with a mindset in the ring similar to a tiger stalking you for a meal. He punches hard and he's hyper-aggressive with footwork that is intended to close the distance and overwhelm his opponent. Jones would be ground beef by the end of it, his only saving grace being his reach. Look at the body type alone. It is clear that Jones doesn't have the KO potential Tyson has. Jones relies on strategy which would be fruitless in a boxing ring. You think MacGregor vs Mayweather was bad? Stick prime Tyson against prime Jones and the latter will be a limp corpse to bet on.
If you fought much growing up or got beaten up, you always feel that as an adult man, violence is never completely off the cards. It tends to mitigate your responses to a lot of stuffand make you more measured when dealing other men. Win or lose, violent altercations are pure carnage. A lot of women in general and some men never had these experiences and it shows in how they confront people about things. You can see that they are not in the least bit worried about getting hit because rightly or wrongly, they don't believe it will happen. The change in some men's behavior when it appears on the cards is huge. Maybe everybody should get their ass kicked growing up.
I'm female and I got a whooping growing up from my parents for bad behaviour etc. I know nowadays there's this whole thing against corporal punishment for kids, but I never resented my folks for it... in fact we had a good, happy childhood and that whooping did me and my siblings a lot of good. I am disciplined, respect people and am very physically fit. However, I do find myself 'ready' when there's an unpredictable situation... I won't back down and won't escalate either... I know how to stay calm... but I'm already playing through possible scenarios... and adjusting for it... I find that people who've never been hit, get so loud, instigate trouble, provoke and then walk right into a punch... I would never physically attack someone first, no matter the provocation... but would definitely be ready for anything coming my way...
@@fayecummings1946 Exactly, you treat other people with respect. As the generational legacy of violence and hard times subside, I can see the arrogance and disrespect growing in our population day by day.
True. After I got jumped as a kid (wasn’t a bad kid or anything just shitty friends) shit isn’t the same. You realize at any moment someone could pop off, fuck it if you lose you might wake up with no bottom jaw or you might not wake up at all. If you get a clean strike, they could fall, hit their head, now you’re on manslaughter charges. Nah. If someone is trying to fight me I know they must just be stupid, would rather run, my ego isn’t big enough to die for.
🤣 I grew up with a smack on the table from my parents. And in high school I wrestled. I never thought I was tough though, because I thought it was the norm. As an adult and "function member" of society, I've realized there are a lot of insecure adults and a lot of them haven't been smacked as kids or been manhandled.
I disagree, just from my own perspective. I’ve met people who wanna fight me all the time cause I’m 5’7-5’8. I’m not skinny, I’m fairly athletically built. I’ve had years of fights as a younger boy, and I’ve had years of training in different combat sports. Boxing, wrestling and Taekwondo. I think Joe and the guy are just making the point that, the gym teaches respect, and everyone thinks they want to fight but don’t know the outcome that their facing... If I was violent, I would have hurt MANY young men by now but my ego isn’t in question so I de-escalate the situation cause to me...personally, I already know, 8-9/10. I’ll win, then I just feel like shit cause I knew what I had coming into this situation, and instead of degreasing the situation I leaned into it. I’m not the RUclips tough guy and no one I’m around these days knows me as that cause I’m humble about it. Most just laugh cause I’m easy going. I don’t care, but every now and then when I get pressed, there’s still that want to hurt them, it’s just not fair cause it’s a lose lose for me. I lose, I get my ass beat, I win, I just feel guilty, and someone’s humiliated. Not commenting for ego, tbh just wondering if any ever feels the same way? Like, you’ve trained, been in fights, are used to violence and know...your gonna hurt them, no question, your probably gonna win, and this person doesn’t have a clue what their up against. I’m not a mma champ, but I’ll use a maneuver, and throw several straights in succession then throw a hook. I could kick someone in their fucking head, or take any limb givin. It’s just, not prideful too me it’s wrong for me to willingly be open to do so, in my opinion. I’ve been knocked the fuck out, like lights out, and I’ve had black eyes, cut lips, bloody noses, and bruised the fuck up. There’s always a chance of losing no matter what, and when I’m placed into the situation, I back down, it’s a matter of humility. Idk, to each their own, but after giving hurt and getting hurt, I don’t want anyone hurt, no matter the person. Perhaps if a bully starts to get to that level like me, the ego will slide... maybe not but most UFC fighters are very mellow individuals.
I'm retired military and I had a friend that would say about bullies, "They have never had a good old fashioned ass whipping." My dad was a Vietnam Veteran and a Chickasaw Indian. He gave me good old fashioned ass whippings and told me never to go looking for a trouble because you will find it and may regret it forever. He was shot in a fight after he came home from Vietnam and languished in intensive care for 21 days. There's some really dangerous people out there and the best thing you can do for yourself and those that love you is to keep your mouth shut and practice humility.
Yeah but then you get ripped and walked over because youre built small, speaking for myself. Its either that or youre a ghost and nobody sees you as anything worthy.
@@adads2364 practice being humble, but practice good morals alongside this. Don't let your ego cloud your decision making, instead follow your morals and look for the actions that will lead to a net positive.
Frederick Lawton It’s about picking the best options, aiming to avoid the bad while consuming and giving out the good. It ain’t a perfect science that’s why life isn’t easy😂
This one dude that trained in boxing at my school was the chillest dude . Despite the fact that he could easily beat alot of kids in the school as almost everyone else didn’t train . It’s mainly the kids who don’t practice but have some physical advantage ( height and or weight mainly ) , that acts tough and bullies people . The ones who could actually hurt someone through training and not have to rely on just physical advantages are the ones that are chill. And they will help you get better instead of hurting you .
Fighters are usually humble and chilled compared to other athletes because they know what it feels like to feel vulnerable. People these days think that just being angry enough will help them win and fighting a better fighter removes that mindset and forces fighters to be humble. There is a saying that "If you practice at a McDojo, you feel like you can take on the world. If you practice at a real gym, you felt like the world took you on."
@@wasabi5338yeah I agree 100%, I started training judo not too long ago, and even though I’m getting beat constantly and getting thrown hurts , it’s been really fun to learn . The last sentence you said especially resonates to me , cause ever since I started training, I realized that grappling is way more complex than I ever knew it was. It was really humbling , I remember the most humbling moment was when I lost to this guy, and found out he was only 15 years old.
Keyboard warriors only exist because they don't know the consequence of pushing and poking someone. If you've personally seen or been in real beef, you don't pop off at the mouth because you know what can happen next. "Lay yo ass out like a 3 page poster"- J Hood
To play the Devil's advocate, feeling safe also allows people to voice warranted criticism. It isn't simply an excuse to be disrespectful. Think about the fear of voicing political criticism in a country like Russia or Saudi.
@@jyanasensei I get that, but there's a difference between voicing a belief and shit talking someone. No one should get knocked out for being for or against abortion, but if you're outside a Planned Parenthood calling the people walking in "pieces of shit"...then you've crossed the line.
My son was an amateur MMA fighter and wanted to attend a training camp for his 3rd belt in Quebec with Mr. Zahabi. He was just turning 18 and my wife sent both of us since it was his first time out of the country. Mr. Zahabi’s facility had a place for the athletes to stay and he watched my son and told him he was very disciplined and good for an amateur and invited him to train with his pro class. We attended and my son got to spar extremely fast and talented UFC pros we both watched on TV. I never met a room full of the most dangerous people on the planet who we so helpful and willing to teach him and coach him. GSP was also there helping him out. Needless to say, my son won his 3rd belt and went pro soon after. But those fighters and Mr. Zahabi were the greatest!!!!
violence don’t care what belt you are in BJJ, violence don’t comply with a referee violence don’t have a weight division it has a victim a time and a date, and true violence is never with the bare hands it’s mostly done by less physical ppl the smallest skinniest and shortest
It's the design of the seats that's the real problem. Room should be enough even with the seat leaned back. Some of these planes, someone leans their seat back and it's right in your face.
One time when i was a teenager i was driving with my mom, a lady got road rage and starting yelling at my mom. my mother simply replied "OK pull over" as she acted to put her hair in a scrunchy. the lady was instantly scared rolled up her window and drove away. this was such an out of character gesture, but it was single handily one of the most badass experiences ive ever encountered.
The moment the concealed weapon becomes less concealed is usually funny. Both of my last times were incidentally against four guys - the first time was in the dead of night on the highway with no one else around and I outright slid the holster on my belt in front of the jacket and the last time it was just an imprint under my shirt but it was quite evident that thing is a full sized pistol. Both times they lost interest quickly because few people are reckless or crazy enough to push their luck and see where it takes them. No need to even draw and point the thing - it just makes for very poor risk management as the potential for escalating is out of control.
i went from being bullied as a fat kid, to briefly being an absolute dickhead after a breakup. picking on people just because i felt worthless and i genuinely hated seeing people being happy since i wasn't. i can tell you guys first hand if i wasn't so insecure and at war with myself i wouldn't have projected all my problems onto random mfs who don't even know me. even though i grew to be 6'5 and shed all that weight, on the inside i was still that little fat kid. the world isn't out to get you. nobody is "praying on your downfall". i hope anyone who felt the way i did focuses on themselves and their problems rather than being an asshole like i was. don't be me y'all, be better.
"Normal people... they don't almost get into fights with randos 10 times a day like me, so they have no idea. Those people are crazy. People need to chill, like I do."
jeff newman True Story . I fought a street sing soo high on Tequila one night after doing some crazy shit... I was sooo hammered that I could not believe my behavior... but went with it anyway. At least I didn’t hurt anyone... but that sing definitely shit the fuck up 🥴😂👍🏼
@Art Chave lol he’d probably try to fight joe. Honestly tho despite the joke I wanna see Charlie get some help the whole things kinda sad to me if joe ever does get em on I hope it’s to sit him down with a doctor. Dudes legit crazy he needs to get medicated.
One time I was on a airplane on my laptop and the guy in front of me pushed his chair back and almost broke my laptop I was like wow man and then started telling me off
Its a truly scary thing. You have make a choice to not care at all what happens to the other guy in order to protect yourself. Its better to not fight at all than to have be faced with this.
People can die in an inch of water as well. Or while there walking around the hood. Or in traffic. Or from hearing the democrats whine like bitches on cnn
Hm.. A bratty, asshole buisness guy on an airplane vs somebody threatening you with a 3500 lb car when you are making a legal turn. Big difference bud. I'd be ready to go too.
So people smacking you and purposely almost driving into your car then screaming at you is a small amount of disrespect? What's a big amount, killing you?
My elder brother used to fight with me for fun , ever since I was a child. We're almost 10 years apart so I used to hate it but as I got older , My reflexes , my movements , just overall my skills improved. Just knowing that you're not weak among your peers is actually a really elite feeling and people should really train. I eventually started going to a dojo too.
My thoughts exactly! Mauy Thai trained when I was18 -21 years old straight everyday. Now im 55 years old and you learn you don't need to prove anything to anybody.I learned to just be happy to still be on this planet! There's alot kids packing and they will shoot first and not think of the repercussions of spending 20 years in prison just because they felt disrespected by some stranger. So training should bring inner peace so you can walk away from a fool and know it's not your responsibility to educate the world!
i get what he i ssaying, like he wasnt looking for a fight he was looking to turn down the guy, he didnt use violence he used intimidation witch in some cases its better because u evoid violence
@@em-nr3uw your discourse is the problem. Education trumps martial arts in violence suppression. Insults, threats and straw man fallacies are counterproductive and will not lead you anywhere (good). Cheers
Agreed so much, they also don't know the regret when the other person gets so hurt and then you look at yourself like" am I the bad guy here" . Its not a good feeling. No one wins in those situations, only losers
Maybe that's me but I honestly never felt regret whenever I did beat someone up because every single time I got provoked by them to jump in a fight (except really one or two where there was a misunderstanding, as soon as I understood it I apologized)
Well I've been lifting for 6 years now. I do feel confident. But he's missing one thing. Do you think steve jobs or bill gates felt insecure when they walked into a room? The thing is.. confedence comes from being good at something and taking pride in it. Doesn't have to be physical
The amount of wealth one has to accrue to get that power is immense compared to the respect one gets innately for being physically domineering. You're listing extreme exceptions trying to disprove the norm.
@UCDjD_RgXHpo1-GOvzg7C1EA I had confidence,but this is other level confidence. You get in bar or anywhere and you know you are safe,but if you just lift weight you know there are many guys who can whoop your ass there easily.
@@davidl3278 you don't pay attention to reality and assess your surroundings then. Sounds like you didn't inherit those survival instincts, but I'll tell you most men who are actual men will assess that if they walk into a room of unknown people incase something happens
@@Magetastic69 I think most of the people saying “I’m not like that, I’m not insecure in those situations, I don’t size people up” in these comments do, they just lack self awareness.
I feel like a tough man very often. Telling myself that helps me with my insecurities. Entering the realm of small man syndrome. This humbled me. I have a daughter that needs me.
Being big and strong does not mean you are a tough man. Regardless of their physique, strong men are defined by what they are willing to do. If you are willing to sacrifice your time and make your best effort to provide a good life for your family, then you are one hell of a fucking man.
They know how to fight bc they had lots of practice on weaklings but once they come across someone who knows how to fight 4 real and doesnt edit: mind] getting punched, then the bully becomes a coward
google Google both of them have been in street fights. Dunno why you like to talk shit on the internet about people maybe you are one of the insecure people they speak about.
My coach always tells us to defend ourselves but if we start a fight or go looking for a fight he will stop training us. He always tells us I’m not trying to create bullies.
When I was in 3rd grade, I was a complete a hole bully, divorced parents, alcoholic mother, yada yada...I had one kid fight back and bloody my nose. It was a great lesson and made me a better person.
In my experience bullies who learn to fight don't stop bullying, they just become more calculated about it. It's in their aggressive nature. People get angry and do stupid, out of character things they wouldn't do normally. You could be a walking death machine but if someone pulls a gun you still might die
My experience with bullies was quite different. The ones who were in some sort of sport clubs or knew martial arts, those ppl were one of the worst out of the bullies.
Combat sports teaches you discipline and respect like no other sport , I'm guessing the bullies you dealed with never learned anything of value in the gym
@@darthvader4339 so gyms that never thought anything of value ? Besides being tough. real gyms even the toughest in the world (chute boxe Brazil ) will teach respect and discipline it's the first thing you should be thought when you go in the door.
Did my e thug comment apply to you or something? I think my “point” stands just fine that the idea of someone carrying a baseball bat around with them all the time like they are a baseball fury from the warriors movie is laughable tough guy shit regardless of the reddit reference bud :) sorry you feel otherwise
Man who bbq,s for a living for 3 years. No fight training other than a little Roman wrestling. Don’t fuck with me bbq turns you into a different critter d
I know right. He's like I hate violence it's the last thing I wanna do. Than proceeded to tell story after story about almost beating the crap out someone, it's great.
@@theknuckle4472 sure, but also those to situation was very minor, he escalated to "hey you wanna fight". He got out of his car cause of road rage." So yea my comment stands.
I knew a guy at school who was the biggest bully, his father taught him to box and possibly bullied him, some people dont know any better...and keep repeating the same mistakes in life. I knew another kid whos father beat on him and his younger sibling....he was quiet, respectful and a very nice guy.. i think everyone has different exp in life and getting in fights with unknowns is a massive risk, definitly a last resort esp with innocents or others that dont wish to be involved, give everyone respect, if lost...they need to earn it back.
Scott Shanahan then he’s not talking about you. I’ve met people like that. Picking fights over the most trivial of things, despite not at all in the physical or mental condition to fight.
Scott Shanahan strangely a lot people do. They’re always trying to prove themselves to be superior to everyone else around them. When they can’t convince themselves that, they try to start arguments and belittle other people.
@@scottshanahan3827 People are insecure about it because if any kind of altercation does break out they aren't even going to know how to stand, much less how to keep themselves from getting beaten. Some people just aren't going to think about it but if you really consider the reality of a violent situation you'll realize you're pretty helpless to somebody who's trained 99% of the time
Yea I agree a lot of people who haven't trained are at the height of the dunning kruger effect or don't grasp a fight, conflict or danger might happen, because it most likely won't.
Michael St. George no, he treats people right. He’s shocked at people who disrespect others right off the bat. You’re an idiot not to understand this...
The key here is not the world “violence”, but “aggression”. There is no need to get aggressive over every nuisance, because aggression may cause a backlash, which in turn can make a minor thing escalate. So first just _ask_ if something bothers you, and stay respectful. Basically, treat other people like you would want them to treat you. But if somebody threatens you over nothing, you can safely assume this guy (yes, guy, women usually don't do things like that) knows nothing about violence, so you can really go for it.
@@eurickevardone2976 Where I live, its usually almost always men getting in fights. Women will usually not threaten a man, merely just shit talk. That's what they do, unless they're in an altercation with another woman, then that's when shit gets firey. And, nowadays, men are starting to hit women back.
That makes no sense to me. You're saying that you should "go for it" because someone threatens you over nothing and that means they know "nothing" about violence. If by 'know about violence' you mean that they are not a police officer or an emergency physician then I would agree with you but that's probably not what you mean. There are plenty of men rotting in prison all over the world whose go-to is to assault people for completely trivial reasons; that's a major reason why they are in prison because they don't have any legitimate explanation for their acts. And there's a very real chance that they can either sucker punch you really quickly, which is the achilles heel of BJJ and wrestling or they have a weapon. It could be that the person is confident threatening you over nothing because they have a track record of getting what they want and coming out on top.
I disagree with the initial “oh they’re just insecure” statement about modern bullies. We need to recognize that some people just feel genuinely good about physically/mentally dominated others in a negative light and need to help said people see the fault in that. Or possible find the root of those feelings. If you feel satisfied from treating another person poorly in any way, you need medical help; With all due respect.
Well they are insecure, that isn’t wrong. “Feeling good about dominating others” is the exact feeling an insecure person would get. So you are just repeating what they said.
I met a guy at an MMA gym a long time ago (about 6-ish years now) and I am positive he was a genuine sociopath, genuinely seemed to enjoy hurting others, I found him supremely distasteful, hurting others in an unjustified manner just makes me feel dirty and gross, I don't understand now how some people glorify being a sadist
Ryan Sullivan I don’t agree with that. You can be insecure and not feel satisfied by dominating others. You can also feel satisfied by dominating people and not be insecure whatsoever. Those two things aren’t mutually exclusive.
i remember the shock of the sparring in MMA when i first moved to that from taekwondo, i was absolutely blown away by the actual violence in it and was terrified and excited at the same time, i wanted to know everything while also wanting to get tf outta there haha ( i saw two of the best in the gym at the time going full hard in sparring because one of them was preparing for a fight) just the shock of getting punched in the face for the first few times while sparring was so scary to me that i had no clue what to do and how absolutely terrified i became because i was so defenseless and once i got that reality check i had no option but to learn as much as i could!
@@rahuldahoob well ive been doing it now for 3 years consistently plus weight lifting at a gym and cardio on days i dont have it on. Its one of the best decisions I've ever made learning this sport, so much to learn and adapt but not only because of that its mainly because its made me into a super confident, happy, strong and capable person.
@@cortex7024 I have been doing it for a month. Most of the other guys who were complete novices and started with me have dropped out Today was the first day I got some proper punches and I gave a few hard ones back. Terrifying 😂 my opponent was clearly more experienced than me but I am taller so I utlized my long legs and arms totower over him at points. I ended up worse off in the end I wish I had started this 20years ago!! In my late teens rather than late 30s😂😂
The problem is tons of guys that train have 0 social skills to navigate life. You can't punch your way through a disagreement or persuade someone with a rnc
Training and being trained are different to be honest a lot of the gym I go to are training but untrained thankfully my high school wrestling coach was a real mentor
I’m 59 years old. Had a lot of violence and fights in my life. In prison and out. The one thing I appreciate the most about my experiences is I’m not afraid of nobody. And I’m not afraid of a confrontation either bcuz I have no fear of being punched in the face. I believe everyone should learn a certain level of ability. No matter what they learn. Plus it also helps you internally to know you can defend yourself.
@@F.O.C.K. This guy probably never had any serious injuries like torn labrum and ligaments and clearly hasn't had any chronic pain. Hence the superman attitude. I rather be dead than disabled.
@Hugh Mungus or he just isnt the kind of person to compare themselves to others let alone feel intimidated in doing so lol some people are actually like that were not all insecure and scared lmao
@Hugh Mungus nah I'm sure I understood quite well what other reason would you have to feel intimidated in a room full of other people tho unless there were some comparisons you were drawing that made you feel inferior which is a source of intimidation
There is always a risk when you pull over the side of the road and come out as if ok you wanna go, because you don't know who you are dealing with at the other end, the other guy could be mentally irregular for whatever reason and shoot you or stab you, doesn't matter if you're a trained fighter. Being trained can give you a false sense of security that can put you in serious trouble or get you killed. The best thing to do in a situation like what he described is to not escalate. You only face someone with violence if it becomes absolutely necessary.
Well said, in a lot of areas theres people who have the “nothing to lose” mentality and are willing to spend the rest of their life in bars all because you slightly wronged them in some way. I saw on the news the other day some lady shot someone in the face after they “accidentally cut them off”. That person nearly lost their life
You got a point. However, sometimes if you don't escalate, the person you are having a fight with would think that you are afraid and that you can't stand up for yourself. And that will encourage them to continue escalating because they think they are fighting a weak person, so they want to show everyone around how brave and strong they are. Not escalating will make most people escalate. In other words, "the best defense is a good offense".
@@alexanderbrown1578 Exactly. I've encountered this a few times, where a guy acts in a very intimidating/abusive manner expecting you to back down or clam up only to change their behaviour once they realise it could go down if they really want it to.
You’re an idiot man. Did he fight the people? Or called out their bluff. Once you’re trained you have the confidence to diffuse a situation. You think he’s gonna let himself be a doormat to someone because he trains?
igor I agree with that. There are different symptoms of being insecure, and bullies tend to have - or at least think they have the upper hand on their victims to make themselves look as well as feel secure.
CaptPostmod yeah because arguably the best mma coach in the world who coached one of the greatest fighters ever doesn’t know about fighting, but you, a RUclips commenter does. You’re such a fucken casual lmao
@@JourneyToTheCage He definitely knows about fighting, but I'm willing to bet he has no problem getting into fights, the dude is justifying beating the tar out of people to himself.
Charles Jourdain (current UFC featherweight out of Montreal) when asked on Olivier Aubin-Mercier's podcast why he doesn't train at Tristar said this of his only experience with Firas: At the time he was a rising 17 year-old amateur prospect and his gym had burned down so he spent a couple weeks at Tristar. He was fighting quite a few of Firas' prospects in local amateur shows (beating them all) so the coach noticed him and offered to train him with his pro team, but under one condition: he must spar him first. The guy doesn't like sparring as it is but agreed because of the opportunity. The next day, he comes back for the sparring session: Firas immediately rushes forward and starts raining down shots on him as hard as he can. Stunned, all the kid could do was shell up for a good minute and keep taking punches to the head until someone had to step in to stop it. Now you tell me, are those the actions of a "wise coach" who "knows the realities of violence" or the actions of an ego-driven fool ? Do all of Firas prospects have to full-on fight him and step over his unconscious body to join the team ? Or did he maybe not appreciate that Jourdain was beating his prospects and had the guts to show up at his gym so he wanted to teach him a lesson ? So wise and peaceful The full story is here starts 1:35:45 but beware the whole thing is in Quebecois French ruclips.net/video/MT4AWrcvOD8/видео.html
how many years ago this happened? it isn't wise to defend anyone even if is a close one, but it isn't either not giving the benefit of the doubt. People can change.
@titanaup You can't educate someone by just beating the shit out of them, you fucking dunce. He ought to know his place, that he doesn't need to prove to his amateur students that he's better than them.
very true man. One day i can beat up everyone during sparring but when certain guys come in i don't stand a chance and that really humbles me. be kind to everyone you meet.
This is kinda true but not really. Dangerous people come in all shapes and sizes. Hell Jon Jones is a party animal and nobody wants that smoke. The whole "quiet is dangerous" thing is a bit overused. People are people, just because they received training it doesn't change all aspects of their personality. There are alot of loudmouths who are just as dangerous. Conor being a great example. The diaz brothers are very loud and in your face people, and they are perfectly fine putting your face on a t-shirt. Dangerous people can be quiet sure, but it's not like an overwhelming difference.
I once saw 2 guys beating up an old lady and using my years of training I thought I should jump in using experience from my training. The old lady had no chance against the 3 of us.
Bwaaahahaha!
Hahahahaha 😂😂😂👍
I thought the "punchline" was "Man was I wrong. But at least she visited us in the emergency room.
They had us in the first half ngl
Dark Humor
As the Romans used to say: war is beautiful to those who haven’t experienced it
That's so cheesy. I never saw anyone who thought war was beautiful. This must be the most ridiculous saying ever.
@@freepatriot9070 war is beautiful to merchants and politicians profiting off of it 😂
@@freepatriot9070 dont lie , you havent seen people entertained by war? Why do you think there are so many war tv shows and games
@@freepatriot9070 as a kid ww2 was beautiful . I was in love with the mass bombings in Germany but if I was a man in Germany on the ground I wouldn’t be like that
@@freepatriot9070 you’re an idiot lmao.
I just sneezed and my mom didn't even say bless you, this girl's never been knocked out before
In the long run it would do some good, teach her some manners😂
Show her what the fuck is up
🤣😂🤯😭🤧 damn thanks for the laugh
TheBasedMessiah thanks but i didnt laugh at your sad comment, bud. But im glad that youre glad that im glad, i guess. What are you, like 11?
TheBasedMessiah lmaooo violated that man
The worst ones are the ones instigating a fight, getting their ass handed to them, and then call the cops on you
That shit is frustrating
True, sometimes you’ll think if the jail sentence is worth it.
women
@@johnnychopping3655 yes and then you woke up
That's why you learn jiu jitsu
You can take down and control people without injuring them
“ I was walking and a 10 year old bumps me and doesn’t apologize. Clearly this little boy hasn’t been knocked out before. “
Narciso Hernandez clearly. Time to teach.
No joke though so many arrogant little kids man and I'm young myself. Martial arts taught me respect. People think they can get away with shit because they've never been stockton slapped
Lol'd hard
That got me.
@@koalaofdeath2045 Not to mention being sensitive to things that doesn't actually affect them. lol
That’s why people are violent in RUclips comments... cause in real life, they can’t.
say that to my face pussy
you get the milkshake ___ LMAOOOO 😂🤣😭
So true
@@DISASTERJOE Oh you wanna go do you?
Absolutely
"So the cashier told me I had too many items for the express line"
'You wanna go?"
"She was like 16, this girl's never been knocked out before"
lmao I just spit my tea out reading this
FUCKING AWESOME :)))
ShawnBlaque lmfao girls gotta learn some respect today lol
Love your "out of the box humor!"
Plot twist: The girl's name was Brenda, and she's got a baby, and that 16 y.o. mama said knock you out!
One of the most frustrating aspects of coming home from jail/prison is that you go from a world where respect is everything and if you don’t say excuse me for bumping into someone that could be a fight or it could cost you your life. Then you come home, and people constantly disrespect you without worrying about consequence because they can just call the cops on you.
This is such an interesting comment, prison is such a different world ppl like me who haven't been, cant understand. thank you.
I just listened to the bobby green JRE , and this topic sorta comes up their too. So can I ask a question?
Prison was explained like: some guys like lifers go from 0 to fight mode over the slightest thing, like even PlayStation games. coz they never learnt communication skills.
And then those guys are setting the trends that everyone follows, so u go in and alget forced into acting the same way too - else you get made to pay for it right?
now when u out, youre getting forced the opposite way. Like you're body goes into threat mode coz thats what u been forced into but cos of the cops thing, you can't act.
And If I get you right, that's the frustrating bit.
So my question is:
For most people does it get less frustrating over time
or is it like your body alway go into threat mode now?
Like frustration change coz u now getting forced
@@saberxebeck To answer your question: certain aspects of that mentality never truly go away. I was locked up for a year and a half and still, to this day, have to remind myself to step back and breathe when someone is being disrespectful.
My father on the other hand did 14 years in federal prison with the worst of the worst. He has adapted to life on the outside and is doing quite well but occasionally something small will set him off. I’ll crack a joke at the dinner table and he’ll instantly be back into fight mode before settling down and apologizing. You can see it on his face.
Doing time is no joke.
@R.I.P. IZZY wow that really puts things into perspective.
Thanks for helping me get a better understanding.
@@saberxebeck Of course ! Glad I could add some info.
Unfortunately this just goes to show that our prisons do not rehabilitate people and in fact make them more hostile .. my father was a non-violent drug offender and came out the other side ready to fight.
Especially for you you cuz you’re on parole.
Dude: "Don't lean your seat back"
Firas: "One of us could get killed here"
yeah, I'd be mad if someone leaned at my laptop too, maybe even punched seat, but sane person would've looked back and asked "what happened", maybe said sorry or something, not fucking act tough like he wants to start a fight
You have chosen death.
@Targaryen Dynasty he should've expected that seat to lean back
@@favkisnexerade you entirely missed his point
EXACTLY BRO. You just broke his laptop, I would’ve palmed the fucking seat too dipshit
I've met bullies that learned how to fight. It did not make them more respectful lol.
everyone who trains knows if you train long enough you'll take a loss somewhere in some round against someone
you were probably gay or something
Yeh this idea that boxing gyms weed out bully's is bullshit, it attracts them and gives them tools
Then you learn to fight and force them to be respectful.
Its because they probably never lost a fight yet
I saw this baby staring at me and I asked the baby you wanna go and the baby looked away. It’s obvious the baby has never been in a fight
You should have king hit him when he looked away!
Lmfao
What a punk. Stupid baby can’t fight
You don't watch the videos because you are interested, you simply want to make stupid jokes about whatever is available.
I laughed too hard at this 😂
It's not just violence. We live in a world where people just outright don't know reality.
a lot of people are so vulnerable and detached from the reality
it's because everybody has their unique and own reality. cheers
No fear of natural selection we just spend tine waiting till we die, life has no purpose anymore. And with all these modern trends we can barely express ourselves as the animals we are
This comment deserves mores likes. Excellent addition to put to perspective.
Those kind of people are usually the first to go in a crisis
"the last thing I want is to get in a fight"
gets honked at by a car
"you wanna have a go m8???"
Yeah "he turned white"....... Whats the old saying "never scare a small man, he will kill you". That can be the danger there of being confident and having training, it may come across and scare the person into using a weapon. Unless you're backed in a corner it's to the death (then you should use a weapon too) ignore it and walk away!
The laptop chair punch or the wrong turn guy is risking a beating and he doesn't know it sure. Firas is risking REAL(not ring, with a weapon) violence on himself ,which HE probably doesn't have a concept of either, by not just ignoring a minor irritation and walking away.
@@gwildordipkin6504 The Ar@b thinks he's safe cuz he knows how to fight hand to hand. Some people don't care and will use weapons. I doubt he knows what w@r is either.
@@Thecgsystem be careful man or you might get killed by a pussy.
@@Thecgsystem Yeah but crazy people don't realize that. Anyone who isn't crazy can just shrug it off, screw it, why play the odds to call out rude people in any aggressive manner unless they force the issue? Hell in both situations he described he woulda went to jail if he won (not self defense calling out someone asking if they wanna go as an elite fighter), and the hospital if he lost (especially HIM cause theyd have had to use a weapon on him to beat him). It's no win, especially for him. That's my point.
Brian Grimes is right too in pointing out hes starting pissing contests over shrug it off situations, then advising not to get in street fights. Had been an old lady who hit his seat he wouldn't have gotten aggressive (I assume haha). Hes harboring some male on male "violent conflict resolution" ideals himself. People carry knives and guns and tire irons and pepper spray and run people over with their cars who punch them out etc etc etc.
He shouldn't tell those stories then next breath act all "zen" about street violence.
Facts i know what ur saying but when someone yells at you and u casually say u wanna go mate and they pucker up it means they dont know wtf they were doing yelling in the first place , impulse is quick reflection can be a lifetime some people choose who they wanna be aggro on they are insecure bullies but you never wanna underestimate someone
I’ve seen lots of bullying done by people with training. Lots.
ya i train and i use it for my own personal fun
People with no training are more likely to pick fights than people with mma/MA training. I seen it happen.
@@Mr.56Goldtop so you one of those stand there and do nothing kind of pussy
JRE just never experienced real bullying in a scrub school of a ghetto town. The hierarchy of power is very real there, and power is based on ability to bring friends to put someone down, but there's individual power too, and the person more physically fit and more willing to violently fight will always suppress the physically weaker person. And how do people know this? Well because they fucking fight, because they act like bullies only if they know that they can fuck you up. Martial training/experience is like a weapon that you can't even unwield.
And what do physically weaker people need to do? Devote their whole lives to obtaining enough muscle, experience, fighting technique and confidence to be allowed to just be uninjured? This is a much more violent and complex situation that JRE is thinking of it.
Yeah me to
First fight I ever got in, I remember getting rocked so hard that my whole body froze. Not from pain, but the pure shock of getting into a physical altercation left me with no time to react. Most humbling day of my life.
I won most of the fights I've been in. My humbling experience was getting in an argument after a few too many drinks and getting my ass beat lol.
@@jeffreymacmullin1653 Haha that's usually what it takes.
I've won most of the fights I've been in as well, I've just alway tried to avoid them.
There are 2 realities:
1- you never know who it is you're arguing with and what they're capable of
2- there's always someone bigger and badder, and it very well could be that guy
How old was you
I wanna see a brawl between Jeffrey Macmullin and Rowdy Rob :p
As kids we're more vulnerable to get attacked by other kids as compared to adult vs adult
In Oregon my Uncle Chael grew up surrounded by such hardcore criminality that he literally witnessed people publicly littering on a daily basis. It was brutal stuff man.
Those are mean streets, you might even see a duck
I heard he had to clean his room 5 days out of 7. Some folk are just built differently
I am surprised he survived his childhood 😂😂😂😂
It’s getting crazy out here man
He also had to watch when the teens next door had to share car instead of getting their own car.
Guy: breaths near me
Me: literally one of us has to die now
😂😂😂
You made this amusing comment....we need to step outside...now!!!
😂😂😂
To be fair, hearing others loud breathing nearby (unless a medical condition or in hospital lol) is infuriating. Its kinda like those loud chewers/ obnoxious food slurping eaters. Annoying af
Guy: spells "breathes" wrong
Me: types sarcastically in a RUclips comment.
@@hairyviking6047 hAhA lOl u MadE a gRammOr mIsTakE oN utUbe
They are describing half the people in RUclips comment sections.
Hey the fuck you talking about us for ?
You wanna go ?
Stfu pussy
You wanna go?
@@jameslegrand848 LOL!
Loooool word , so reckless
Stellvia Hoenheim true
"Last thing I wanna do in public is fight" 20 seconds later... "I open my car door and say "You wanna go?'"
Lmaoo
The Blvck Lodge It’s the last thing he wants to do. Didn’t say he wouldn’t do it lol.
The last thing he wants to do is fight but if your getting challenged to a fight you don’t back down clearly you don’t understand what he’s saying
Chuck I agree with you.
199 of you have a comprehension issue.
He's misses his own point, it's not just that you could run into a trained fighter. It's that even as a trained fighter you have no idea what you're walking into, knives guns etc, not just running into a better fighter
You are probably one in a million people to understand this. I have only seen one more man in the cs pointing this out.
@@nocturnaljoe9543 watching LiveLeak videos will make everyone understand why you DO NOT WANT TO FIGHT a random stranger... so many horrible possibilities
Yeah that’s the whole other side to this in America lol I have no training whatsoever but I have a conceal carry license valid in almost 40 states and and carry a Glock everyday like MANY other Americans… not much martial arts training can do to stop a bullet… Not that I think it isn’t valuable though if they get their hands on you before you get to your waistband it could be lights out for you as well. I do plan to take BJJ classes soon sounds like a good challenge and confidence builder
Thats the biggest takeaway. It doesn't matter how much fight training you have when you come across someone violent. You could get stabbed, shot, beat with a pipe or bat, hit with a car, the list goes on. Know how to fight means nothing when youre against a someone who enjoys violence and will commit violence at a level you can't even imagine.
@@RichieD_21 usually those who do it are newbies too, real mobs and assassins only do it to get payed
if they don't get money they won't risk going to prison just to show off
Mom said never trust anyone who’s never been punched in the face
She's right, means you're a weasely piece of shit or you tend to get your way.
FuckYouSaur WHAT?!?!? Is there something bad about never having chosen to fight someone violently?
@@danielw.4876 its cool if you train for self defence and dont go out looking for a fight, but every fight weather you start it or not is violent
@@danielw.4876 I never started a fight. I just do boxing. You need to learn to defend yourself just in case.
I think it is right because people nowadays mostly get away by saying what they want even if it can be very disrespectful. I think what your mom was saying is that people who got punched in the face have been taught humility at some point. People deserves to be punched if they are very disrespectful thus getting punched in the face teaches them humility.
Joe going on like there isn't bullies in martial arts
Exactly. There have been literally stories about karate or BJJ or other TMA instructors who have gone to jail for killing their wives or kids etc.... these aren't good people. Martial arts doesn't make you a saint. If anything, if you have certain negative personality traits, becoming better at inflicting pain on other people, having people defer to you in a way that TMA encourages etc... can actually make some people far, far worse.
It's because some of these men know that they have the experience in fighting to distroy and are a threat to anybody regular that dont do this for a living, think they can bully you for no reason and take advantage at least for some I guess? But! can't beat'em...well?...run'em over!!! Hahaha fuack off asshole!!!.... Muahahahaha!!!
@@Great_PatBingsoo McGregor is a cage fighter, he doesn't have a background in martial arts.
Peter K ever heard of boxing before
There are outliers in all things.
"Everyone's got a plan until they got punched in the face." Mike Tyson
Jon Jones would destroy Tyson
@@michaelmessiha3297 stfu 🙄
@@michaelmessiha3297
Jon Jones better hope he gets tyson knocked out quick cause tyson still has some skills!
Yay, the Tyson quote. Only a matter of time before someone puts that in the comments.
Jones would beat Tyson? Christ what is with this generation. Tyson is a boxer. So you would then have to make Jones box. Tyson is a genetic freak with a mindset in the ring similar to a tiger stalking you for a meal. He punches hard and he's hyper-aggressive with footwork that is intended to close the distance and overwhelm his opponent. Jones would be ground beef by the end of it, his only saving grace being his reach. Look at the body type alone. It is clear that Jones doesn't have the KO potential Tyson has. Jones relies on strategy which would be fruitless in a boxing ring. You think MacGregor vs Mayweather was bad? Stick prime Tyson against prime Jones and the latter will be a limp corpse to bet on.
If you fought much growing up or got beaten up, you always feel that as an adult man, violence is never completely off the cards. It tends to mitigate your responses to a lot of stuffand make you more measured when dealing other men. Win or lose, violent altercations are pure carnage.
A lot of women in general and some men never had these experiences and it shows in how they confront people about things. You can see that they are not in the least bit worried about getting hit because rightly or wrongly, they don't believe it will happen. The change in some men's behavior when it appears on the cards is huge. Maybe everybody should get their ass kicked growing up.
I'm female and I got a whooping growing up from my parents for bad behaviour etc. I know nowadays there's this whole thing against corporal punishment for kids, but I never resented my folks for it... in fact we had a good, happy childhood and that whooping did me and my siblings a lot of good. I am disciplined, respect people and am very physically fit. However, I do find myself 'ready' when there's an unpredictable situation... I won't back down and won't escalate either... I know how to stay calm... but I'm already playing through possible scenarios... and adjusting for it... I find that people who've never been hit, get so loud, instigate trouble, provoke and then walk right into a punch... I would never physically attack someone first, no matter the provocation... but would definitely be ready for anything coming my way...
@@fayecummings1946 Exactly, you treat other people with respect. As the generational legacy of violence and hard times subside, I can see the arrogance and disrespect growing in our population day by day.
True. After I got jumped as a kid (wasn’t a bad kid or anything just shitty friends) shit isn’t the same. You realize at any moment someone could pop off, fuck it if you lose you might wake up with no bottom jaw or you might not wake up at all. If you get a clean strike, they could fall, hit their head, now you’re on manslaughter charges. Nah. If someone is trying to fight me I know they must just be stupid, would rather run, my ego isn’t big enough to die for.
Different when it comes to the people you love though. That’s something to die for imo.
🤣 I grew up with a smack on the table from my parents. And in high school I wrestled. I never thought I was tough though, because I thought it was the norm. As an adult and "function member" of society, I've realized there are a lot of insecure adults and a lot of them haven't been smacked as kids or been manhandled.
Something similar happened to me in Greggs.
I ordered 4 doughnuts and the cashier asked if I wanna box?
I told him, you dont want these hands, son.
Why would you get donuts when you could buy a pack of 4 sausage rolls for £3
Lol
You just won the internet for me today my friend... lol Greggs...
damn u could've bought the 4 doughnuts ina box which is a cheaper deal
You may be a nice guy, but those hands are awful crucial ...
Bully - Beats up kids and picks on them
Joe - He needs mma training
Bully - beats up kids, but with skill
I disagree, just from my own perspective. I’ve met people who wanna fight me all the time cause I’m 5’7-5’8. I’m not skinny, I’m fairly athletically built. I’ve had years of fights as a younger boy, and I’ve had years of training in different combat sports. Boxing, wrestling and Taekwondo. I think Joe and the guy are just making the point that, the gym teaches respect, and everyone thinks they want to fight but don’t know the outcome that their facing... If I was violent, I would have hurt MANY young men by now but my ego isn’t in question so I de-escalate the situation cause to me...personally, I already know, 8-9/10. I’ll win, then I just feel like shit cause I knew what I had coming into this situation, and instead of degreasing the situation I leaned into it. I’m not the RUclips tough guy and no one I’m around these days knows me as that cause I’m humble about it. Most just laugh cause I’m easy going. I don’t care, but every now and then when I get pressed, there’s still that want to hurt them, it’s just not fair cause it’s a lose lose for me. I lose, I get my ass beat, I win, I just feel guilty, and someone’s humiliated. Not commenting for ego, tbh just wondering if any ever feels the same way? Like, you’ve trained, been in fights, are used to violence and know...your gonna hurt them, no question, your probably gonna win, and this person doesn’t have a clue what their up against. I’m not a mma champ, but I’ll use a maneuver, and throw several straights in succession then throw a hook. I could kick someone in their fucking head, or take any limb givin. It’s just, not prideful too me it’s wrong for me to willingly be open to do so, in my opinion. I’ve been knocked the fuck out, like lights out, and I’ve had black eyes, cut lips, bloody noses, and bruised the fuck up. There’s always a chance of losing no matter what, and when I’m placed into the situation, I back down, it’s a matter of humility. Idk, to each their own, but after giving hurt and getting hurt, I don’t want anyone hurt, no matter the person. Perhaps if a bully starts to get to that level like me, the ego will slide... maybe not but most UFC fighters are very mellow individuals.
Jonathan Anderson your humble-bragging would have been better if you put in some line breaks for better readability of your weird, subtle ego flex.
TheReapersSon toxic toxic toxic... lol
If you're gonna do it, do it with style
You a big bully beating kids half your size? Come join our gym, you can now knock them out with a spinning leg kick to the face.
Dog *barks*
Firas : “You’re barking at me like you’re my father here. You wanna go?”
I'm retired military and I had a friend that would say about bullies, "They have never had a good old fashioned ass whipping." My dad was a Vietnam Veteran and a Chickasaw Indian. He gave me good old fashioned ass whippings and told me never to go looking for a trouble because you will find it and may regret it forever. He was shot in a fight after he came home from Vietnam and languished in intensive care for 21 days. There's some really dangerous people out there and the best thing you can do for yourself and those that love you is to keep your mouth shut and practice humility.
Yeah but then you get ripped and walked over because youre built small, speaking for myself. Its either that or youre a ghost and nobody sees you as anything worthy.
@@adads2364 practice being humble, but practice good morals alongside this. Don't let your ego cloud your decision making, instead follow your morals and look for the actions that will lead to a net positive.
Def agree with you keep to yourself but still be ready to defend yourself if your force too
Frederick Lawton It’s about picking the best options, aiming to avoid the bad while consuming and giving out the good. It ain’t a perfect science that’s why life isn’t easy😂
ok boomer 😂
Me: *Drinks a jug of water*
My bladder: "You wanna go!?"
Lmao
lol
🔥this tho
Underrated
Lol
I walked up to the front door and my dog came racing up behind me.
"You wanna go?"
This guy's never had his rug peed on.
Lolol best comment on here
My friend left my Facebook message on read. Clearly he's never experienced violence in his life
Lebowski reference?
This one dude that trained in boxing at my school was the chillest dude . Despite the fact that he could easily beat alot of kids in the school as almost everyone else didn’t train . It’s mainly the kids who don’t practice but have some physical advantage ( height and or weight mainly ) , that acts tough and bullies people . The ones who could actually hurt someone through training and not have to rely on just physical advantages are the ones that are chill. And they will help you get better instead of hurting you .
Fighters are usually humble and chilled compared to other athletes because they know what it feels like to feel vulnerable. People these days think that just being angry enough will help them win and fighting a better fighter removes that mindset and forces fighters to be humble.
There is a saying that "If you practice at a McDojo, you feel like you can take on the world. If you practice at a real gym, you felt like the world took you on."
@@wasabi5338yeah I agree 100%, I started training judo not too long ago, and even though I’m getting beat constantly and getting thrown hurts , it’s been really fun to learn . The last sentence you said especially resonates to me , cause ever since I started training, I realized that grappling is way more complex than I ever knew it was. It was really humbling , I remember the most humbling moment was when I lost to this guy, and found out he was only 15 years old.
**Firas ordering 5 hot wings**
**Restaurant gives him 6**
**Also Firas** : I'm ready to give you guys these two hands.
Waitress: here's your check sir have a nice night
Firas: is it go time? You wanna go!?
This proves my point, that the reason unconscious people are disrespectful is because they feel safe.
Keyboard warriors only exist because they don't know the consequence of pushing and poking someone. If you've personally seen or been in real beef, you don't pop off at the mouth because you know what can happen next. "Lay yo ass out like a 3 page poster"- J Hood
To play the Devil's advocate, feeling safe also allows people to voice warranted criticism. It isn't simply an excuse to be disrespectful. Think about the fear of voicing political criticism in a country like Russia or Saudi.
@@jyanasensei I get that, but there's a difference between voicing a belief and shit talking someone. No one should get knocked out for being for or against abortion, but if you're outside a Planned Parenthood calling the people walking in "pieces of shit"...then you've crossed the line.
I have never thought about that, thanks.
phanatic215 shutcho ass up bro u don’t know shit
Firas: The last thing I wanna do in public is get in a fight
Also Firas: "gets out the car"
You wanna go?
He let him go .psychology 90%ppl back down
I picked up on that too, very hypothetical after such a great talk 😂
No you misunderstood..he was generalizing
@@IReITaN hypothetical, huh?
well.. if no one was around then its not in public is it?
My son was an amateur MMA fighter and wanted to attend a training camp for his 3rd belt in Quebec with Mr. Zahabi. He was just turning 18 and my wife sent both of us since it was his first time out of the country. Mr. Zahabi’s facility had a place for the athletes to stay and he watched my son and told him he was very disciplined and good for an amateur and invited him to train with his pro class. We attended and my son got to spar extremely fast and talented UFC pros we both watched on TV. I never met a room full of the most dangerous people on the planet who we so helpful and willing to teach him and coach him. GSP was also there helping him out. Needless to say, my son won his 3rd belt and went pro soon after. But those fighters and Mr. Zahabi were the greatest!!!!
I’m happy for your son and jealous of the experience
violence don’t care what belt you are in BJJ, violence don’t comply with a referee violence don’t have a weight division it has a victim a time and a date, and true violence is never with the bare hands it’s mostly done by less physical ppl the smallest skinniest and shortest
Them guys weren’t dangerous
They’re the safest ppl to be around
Maybe send him to university instead of having him have his brain cells beaten out of him?
Guy: Hey don’t lean your chair back.
Firas: I don’t think you understand what you’ve done, one of us isn’t gonna be able to leave the plane alive now.
LMAO
To be fair, he slammed the seat 💺 disrespectfully. That was another level.
Yupp! Straight like that.
🤣🤣🤣🤣
It's the design of the seats that's the real problem. Room should be enough even with the seat leaned back. Some of these planes, someone leans their seat back and it's right in your face.
One time when i was a teenager i was driving with my mom, a lady got road rage and starting yelling at my mom. my mother simply replied "OK pull over" as she acted to put her hair in a scrunchy. the lady was instantly scared rolled up her window and drove away. this was such an out of character gesture, but it was single handily one of the most badass experiences ive ever encountered.
🤘 Your Mother is a G!
Love it! Good for her! That's badass!
Yeah your mother irresponsibly put your life in danger. People are crazy and will shoot you over small things.
Love your mom dude!
What if that lady had been someone like Rhonda Rousey??
You think you can fight until Mr Concealed Carry makes his presence known.
The moment the concealed weapon becomes less concealed is usually funny. Both of my last times were incidentally against four guys - the first time was in the dead of night on the highway with no one else around and I outright slid the holster on my belt in front of the jacket and the last time it was just an imprint under my shirt but it was quite evident that thing is a full sized pistol. Both times they lost interest quickly because few people are reckless or crazy enough to push their luck and see where it takes them. No need to even draw and point the thing - it just makes for very poor risk management as the potential for escalating is out of control.
Not always concealing a gun either, but Best to descalate. Why so much violence in a world that never sees peace
@Skeptical Slim I too am European and have a concealed carry permit. So do almost all of my friends.
Men who need guns in fist fights are total pussies. Might as well wear a dress
@@raizr ur a fat idiot
i went from being bullied as a fat kid, to briefly being an absolute dickhead after a breakup. picking on people just because i felt worthless and i genuinely hated seeing people being happy since i wasn't. i can tell you guys first hand if i wasn't so insecure and at war with myself i wouldn't have projected all my problems onto random mfs who don't even know me. even though i grew to be 6'5 and shed all that weight, on the inside i was still that little fat kid.
the world isn't out to get you. nobody is "praying on your downfall". i hope anyone who felt the way i did focuses on themselves and their problems rather than being an asshole like i was. don't be me y'all, be better.
Have you changed for the better
@@georgemulford2910 it sounded like he did
@@mugiwara9507 yeah sounds like it after rereading it. Good on him
It takes a man the see his own shortcomings and change for the better.
Respect
"Normal people... they don't almost get into fights with randos 10 times a day like me, so they have no idea. Those people are crazy. People need to chill, like I do."
HAHAHAHAHA
u wana go?
@@colossalbreacker huh, u challenging my masculinty. 😠😠😠
@@greuss2105 yes
@@shanks6190 ill prepare ur lunch
A knuckle sandwich
Bumps into wall , " you wanna go!"
jeff newman 😂😂😂. Good one.
jeff newman True Story . I fought a street sing soo high on Tequila one night after doing some crazy shit... I was sooo hammered that I could not believe my behavior... but went with it anyway. At least I didn’t hurt anyone... but that sing definitely shit the fuck up 🥴😂👍🏼
"Everyone has a plan until they get punched in the mouth" - Mike Tyson
god i hate that quote so much
Every boxer has a plan until he gets kicked in the leg.
but wait, thats illegal
@@aspiringretard why
@@epicmemer7543 go kick Mike Tyson in the leg then see how far that gets you lol
Agreed 100% I lost all desire to fight someone in public over silly stuff when I learnt how to actually fight and hurt someone.
Joe: you never see fights at the gym
Charlie z: *spends entire life sucker punching innocent people in gyms*
@Bilbo Buttplugins Okay haha This is a guy who's never received a beating in his life
@Art Chave lol he’d probably try to fight joe. Honestly tho despite the joke I wanna see Charlie get some help the whole things kinda sad to me if joe ever does get em on I hope it’s to sit him down with a doctor. Dudes legit crazy he needs to get medicated.
@Bilbo Buttplugins lol go watch the video again. They’re talking bout people like you.
He beat deontay wilder
@Bilbo Buttplugins I think getting someone hard might mean something different where I’m from then where ur from.
One time I was on a airplane on my laptop and the guy in front of me pushed his chair back and almost broke my laptop I was like wow man and then started telling me off
andrew S blow in his ear until he freaks out and gets tazed.
Well he has the right to lean back in his seat....?
Started telling ME off??? Started telling HIM off
WTF????
Craig I’d still lean back in my seat. Sorry your really tall: guess it pays off to be under 6ft
Craig and you’d get arrested and look like a fool. Easy as that
When 2 men fight there is the possibility that one may die.
Its a truly scary thing. You have make a choice to not care at all what happens to the other guy in order to protect yourself. Its better to not fight at all than to have be faced with this.
That's correct. I hit a guy when I was 22 and he had a seizer and almost died. Shout out to Tony for not pressing charges.
People can die from falling from just a push.
People can die in an inch of water as well. Or while there walking around the hood. Or in traffic. Or from hearing the democrats whine like bitches on cnn
There is a possibility of both dying.
Random guy: Hey man my laptop is right here.
Firas: Things are now in motion that cannot be undone.
Brother this was so funny 😂
The best way to help a bully, is to be nice, and politely hand him back the teeth...he just lost
Legendary quote
Mr Horsepower amen to that brother
How swayze said take him out ,but be nice
😂💀💀
Can't pick up teeth with broken fingers 😉
'I'm humble and don't like getting into fights'
Small amount of disrespect later - 'YOU WANNA GO!!'
Hm.. A bratty, asshole buisness guy on an airplane vs somebody threatening you with a 3500 lb car when you are making a legal turn. Big difference bud. I'd be ready to go too.
It is about disrespect ...what he is saying some people are pushing it so far the only response is a physical one
Bro if someone almost ramming into your car door is a ‘small amount of disrespect’ id hate to be your child or your parent. You total fucking nong
Hahaha
So people smacking you and purposely almost driving into your car then screaming at you is a small amount of disrespect? What's a big amount, killing you?
For a man that teaches discipline Firas kind of seems like he's looking for a good street fight to whoop up on someone.
firas is a pretentious momo who would be absolutely irrelevant if it wasn't for GSP
@@jacktenrec63 the stupidest comment in youtube, get a life
@@jacktenrec63 rory mcdonald?
@@salahboulemden9259 why butthurt bro?? wanna go? LOL
@@salahboulemden9259 listen here salad bowl no-one cares.
My elder brother used to fight with me for fun , ever since I was a child. We're almost 10 years apart so I used to hate it but as I got older , My reflexes , my movements , just overall my skills improved. Just knowing that you're not weak among your peers is actually a really elite feeling and people should really train. I eventually started going to a dojo too.
My thoughts exactly! Mauy Thai trained when I was18 -21 years old straight everyday. Now im 55 years old and you learn you don't need to prove anything to anybody.I learned to just be happy to still be on this planet!
There's alot kids packing and they will shoot first and not think of the repercussions of spending 20 years in prison just because they felt disrespected by some stranger. So training should bring inner peace so you can walk away from a fool and know it's not your responsibility to educate the world!
Aaron Johnson Wise words
Well put!
You shouldn't have to know you can kick someone's ass to not feel insecure and be happy
"i got it out of my system"
"some guy honked at me "
" you wanna go?"
i get what he i ssaying, like he wasnt looking for a fight he was looking to turn down the guy, he didnt use violence he used intimidation witch in some cases its better because u evoid violence
@@marcosgarcia295 yeah or he could have just drove away 😀
The guy tried to start a fight with him.
Cause he didn't get it out of his system.
@@JamesSmith-cm7sg Road rage isn't the same as starting a fight. It's just shouting.
Violence doesn't solve anything.
Fight me.
It's solves most things. Certainly the threat of it.
We hear violence solves nothing but ever see some one resist arrest lol
People who say 'violence never solves anything' probably never used enough of it.
Bob Smith ok coomer
@@em-nr3uw your discourse is the problem. Education trumps martial arts in violence suppression. Insults, threats and straw man fallacies are counterproductive and will not lead you anywhere (good). Cheers
Agreed so much, they also don't know the regret when the other person gets so hurt and then you look at yourself like" am I the bad guy here" . Its not a good feeling. No one wins in those situations, only losers
Maybe that's me but I honestly never felt regret whenever I did beat someone up because every single time I got provoked by them to jump in a fight (except really one or two where there was a misunderstanding, as soon as I understood it I apologized)
Well I've been lifting for 6 years now. I do feel confident. But he's missing one thing. Do you think steve jobs or bill gates felt insecure when they walked into a room? The thing is.. confedence comes from being good at something and taking pride in it. Doesn't have to be physical
So true
The amount of wealth one has to accrue to get that power is immense compared to the respect one gets innately for being physically domineering. You're listing extreme exceptions trying to disprove the norm.
You won't know what confidence is before you start martial arts
@UCDjD_RgXHpo1-GOvzg7C1EA I had confidence,but this is other level confidence.
You get in bar or anywhere and you know you are safe,but if you just lift weight you know there are many guys who can whoop your ass there easily.
"Do you feel in control?"
It's all ego guys, put ego to sleep before you catch a knife like I did or worse bullet, had 1 to many street fights, humbling experience.
ok Kimbo!
Agree. Especially when you get older.
you are an instigator. how tf do you get into street fights regularly?
Shut up
Getting stabbed is worse than a bullet wound unless it's a shotgun round.
regular people don't feel intimidated when they walk into a room of people
I believe the word was "insecure". But yeah, that's a very strange generalization to make
@@epictetus9221 ooops my mistake. but yes its strange
Yeah I agree I am not thinking “Okay who can I beat in a fight here,” that’s borderline psycho
@@davidl3278 you don't pay attention to reality and assess your surroundings then. Sounds like you didn't inherit those survival instincts, but I'll tell you most men who are actual men will assess that if they walk into a room of unknown people incase something happens
@@Magetastic69 I think most of the people saying “I’m not like that, I’m not insecure in those situations, I don’t size people up” in these comments do, they just lack self awareness.
I feel like a tough man very often. Telling myself that helps me with my insecurities. Entering the realm of small man syndrome.
This humbled me. I have a daughter that needs me.
Being big and strong does not mean you are a tough man. Regardless of their physique, strong men are defined by what they are willing to do. If you are willing to sacrifice your time and make your best effort to provide a good life for your family, then you are one hell of a fucking man.
dude, respect
facts respect brother @@ue8dh2
So much respect family first always.
One of best things u could lear is having control when your adrenaline hits
Yes..if u can stay calm when madness is around,you will be ok..just stand tall
Its like a touch from god if u focus. But satan if u go blind to it.
I learned to clear my head once in a fight and I was surprisrd at myself.
Or - let it go...
100% correct.
Ive seen a lot of bullies that know how to fight lol
They know how to fight bc they had lots of practice on weaklings but once they come across someone who knows how to fight 4 real and doesnt edit: mind] getting punched, then the bully becomes a coward
A lot of cops
Yeaa but eventually they get put on their ass.
Everyone has someone who has their number.
google Google both of them have been in street fights. Dunno why you like to talk shit on the internet about people maybe you are one of the insecure people they speak about.
@google Google When did they ever say that? lol
My coach always tells us to defend ourselves but if we start a fight or go looking for a fight he will stop training us. He always tells us I’m not trying to create bullies.
That's my mindset I ain't no bitch I will finish a fight but I'll never start one
Some people know they cant fight so they will use a gun. Telling a guy to come out of his car aint that smart.
Pretty rare in Canada for someone to be packing heat.
Possible but not actually legal to carry a gun,unless it's hunting season.
Opening your door and getting ready to do BJJ isn’t the best thing to do when the other guy might have a gun.
Not in Canada
ShadowGodOrcSlayer35 quick google search proves otherwise
But with BJJ you can wrestle the bullet to the ground and make it submit.
Or a boner....
@@snowroaches lmao right
A baby in a stroller threw his baby bottle at me. Clearly, he’s never been knocked out before.
When I was in 3rd grade, I was a complete a hole bully, divorced parents, alcoholic mother, yada yada...I had one kid fight back and bloody my nose. It was a great lesson and made me a better person.
Foreal??
got bullied alot in elementary. Flipped the kid over using what i learned in kickboxing and he never messed with me again
Sounds like Nelson from the Simpsons, idk
I remember beating my bully and next day I had to deal with a group of bullies.
@Hoodie got The uzi Lmao
In my experience bullies who learn to fight don't stop bullying, they just become more calculated about it. It's in their aggressive nature. People get angry and do stupid, out of character things they wouldn't do normally. You could be a walking death machine but if someone pulls a gun you still might die
My experience with bullies was quite different. The ones who were in some sort of sport clubs or knew martial arts, those ppl were one of the worst out of the bullies.
Then they are probably insecure abt how good they are at martial arts.
If they used their martial arts to prey on those weaker than them, then they're a disgrace to martial arts.
Combat sports teaches you discipline and respect like no other sport , I'm guessing the bullies you dealed with never learned anything of value in the gym
@@deanobrien2021 Well who knows, some gyms might have very ruthless teachers. Not all MMA/Boxing gyms have smart and respectful trainers.
@@darthvader4339 so gyms that never thought anything of value ? Besides being tough. real gyms even the toughest in the world (chute boxe Brazil ) will teach respect and discipline it's the first thing you should be thought when you go in the door.
Zahabi talks like he's ready to fight anybody who slightly raises their voice to him or disagrees with him
Then ends up being sprayed or tazered. His martial arts are gonna be real helpful then. LOL
Is that what you pussies feel lol.
@ Feeling tough?
@Tetova Tetovo r/iamverybadass Yeah man, because you ALWAYS have your baseball bat with you everyday all the time, foh e-thug lmao
Did my e thug comment apply to you or something?
I think my “point” stands just fine that the idea of someone carrying a baseball bat around with them all the time like they are a baseball fury from the warriors movie is laughable tough guy shit regardless of the reddit reference bud :) sorry you feel otherwise
Everybody want smoke until its time to BBQ 😩🙆🏾♂️🙆🏾♂️🤣
@@lazydayB2B I can link you to things I survived 😎very well versed in violence my friend
Um you need smoke to bbq
Lol
Anthony Matthews
You seem to have set yourself up nicely there
Man who bbq,s for a living for 3 years. No fight training other than a little Roman wrestling. Don’t fuck with me bbq turns you into a different critter d
Me n my homesters *SMACKED* some little 5 year old silly for calling us poopy heads
It's a cold world.
Now that's gangster
that's hard asf
You saved her from a future of needless violence
Welcome to the real world, kid.
For someone who doesn't want to get in a fight, he sure does propose it alot. Lol
lmao i thought that
I know right. He's like I hate violence it's the last thing I wanna do. Than proceeded to tell story after story about almost beating the crap out someone, it's great.
I heard two examples of situations he was in, that's twice in his lifetime? Doesn't seem like what you're saying is quite accurate
@@theknuckle4472 sure, but also those to situation was very minor, he escalated to "hey you wanna fight". He got out of his car cause of road rage." So yea my comment stands.
@@theknuckle4472 met Firas at a fan event, asked for a picture and he asked if i wanted to fight. Confirmed that he likes to propose fighting
*crushes laptop*
"Hey man, why do you wanna fight?"
Lets go pinky fight.
He should've known that anyone can lean the seat
I knew a guy at school who was the biggest bully, his father taught him to box and possibly bullied him, some people dont know any better...and keep repeating the same mistakes in life.
I knew another kid whos father beat on him and his younger sibling....he was quiet, respectful and a very nice guy.. i think everyone has different exp in life and getting in fights with unknowns is a massive risk, definitly a last resort esp with innocents or others that dont wish to be involved, give everyone respect, if lost...they need to earn it back.
I've had zero martial arts training and I've never felt insecure in a room full of people.
Scott Shanahan then he’s not talking about you. I’ve met people like that. Picking fights over the most trivial of things, despite not at all in the physical or mental condition to fight.
@@alfred0621 I get his point, I just don't understand the idea that someone would be insecure simply by being in a room with other people.
Scott Shanahan strangely a lot people do. They’re always trying to prove themselves to be superior to everyone else around them. When they can’t convince themselves that, they try to start arguments and belittle other people.
@@scottshanahan3827 People are insecure about it because if any kind of altercation does break out they aren't even going to know how to stand, much less how to keep themselves from getting beaten. Some people just aren't going to think about it but if you really consider the reality of a violent situation you'll realize you're pretty helpless to somebody who's trained 99% of the time
Yea I agree a lot of people who haven't trained are at the height of the dunning kruger effect or don't grasp a fight, conflict or danger might happen, because it most likely won't.
Imagine challenging everyone who pisses you off to a fight and thinking it's an "other people" problem.
Bittercup missed the point by a mile you moron
No, I'd say Bittercup hit it right on the head. Dude walks around thinking his shit don't stink because he is trained. A true master knows humility
Thanks for setting me straight babe, you changed my life
Michael St. George no, he treats people right. He’s shocked at people who disrespect others right off the bat. You’re an idiot not to understand this...
You're supposed to say that is an idiotic position. Bad internet arguing!
Firas "you wanna go" Zahabi
It only took about 5:33 for him to reveal how quickly he goes against his beliefs
He's flexing so hard, and it's very hypocritical.
Oxygen
*exists*
Zahabi: clearly you've never been knocked out before
The key here is not the world “violence”, but “aggression”. There is no need to get aggressive over every nuisance, because aggression may cause a backlash, which in turn can make a minor thing escalate. So first just _ask_ if something bothers you, and stay respectful. Basically, treat other people like you would want them to treat you. But if somebody threatens you over nothing, you can safely assume this guy (yes, guy, women usually don't do things like that) knows nothing about violence, so you can really go for it.
"Women usually don't do things like that"
Hooooo, boy, in what part of the world do you live?
@@eurickevardone2976 Where I live, its usually almost always men getting in fights. Women will usually not threaten a man, merely just shit talk. That's what they do, unless they're in an altercation with another woman, then that's when shit gets firey. And, nowadays, men are starting to hit women back.
That makes no sense to me. You're saying that you should "go for it" because someone threatens you over nothing and that means they know "nothing" about violence. If by 'know about violence' you mean that they are not a police officer or an emergency physician then I would agree with you but that's probably not what you mean. There are plenty of men rotting in prison all over the world whose go-to is to assault people for completely trivial reasons; that's a major reason why they are in prison because they don't have any legitimate explanation for their acts. And there's a very real chance that they can either sucker punch you really quickly, which is the achilles heel of BJJ and wrestling or they have a weapon. It could be that the person is confident threatening you over nothing because they have a track record of getting what they want and coming out on top.
@@eurickevardone2976 the world where 93% of prison inmates are male
@@YaBoiGotThatSauce nowadays like it hasnt happened throughout history 😭😂
I disagree with the initial “oh they’re just insecure” statement about modern bullies. We need to recognize that some people just feel genuinely good about physically/mentally dominated others in a negative light and need to help said people see the fault in that. Or possible find the root of those feelings. If you feel satisfied from treating another person poorly in any way, you need medical help; With all due respect.
Rogan is just a Basic bitch intellectually
I agree some people are just cunts.
Well they are insecure, that isn’t wrong. “Feeling good about dominating others” is the exact feeling an insecure person would get. So you are just repeating what they said.
I met a guy at an MMA gym a long time ago (about 6-ish years now) and I am positive he was a genuine sociopath, genuinely seemed to enjoy hurting others, I found him supremely distasteful, hurting others in an unjustified manner just makes me feel dirty and gross, I don't understand now how some people glorify being a sadist
Ryan Sullivan I don’t agree with that. You can be insecure and not feel satisfied by dominating others. You can also feel satisfied by dominating people and not be insecure whatsoever. Those two things aren’t mutually exclusive.
i remember the shock of the sparring in MMA when i first moved to that from taekwondo, i was absolutely blown away by the actual violence in it and was terrified and excited at the same time, i wanted to know everything while also wanting to get tf outta there haha ( i saw two of the best in the gym at the time going full hard in sparring because one of them was preparing for a fight) just the shock of getting punched in the face for the first few times while sparring was so scary to me that i had no clue what to do and how absolutely terrified i became because i was so defenseless and once i got that reality check i had no option but to learn as much as i could!
How long did you last??
@@rahuldahoob well ive been doing it now for 3 years consistently plus weight lifting at a gym and cardio on days i dont have it on. Its one of the best decisions I've ever made learning this sport, so much to learn and adapt but not only because of that its mainly because its made me into a super confident, happy, strong and capable person.
@@cortex7024 I have been doing it for a month. Most of the other guys who were complete novices and started with me have dropped out
Today was the first day I got some proper punches and I gave a few hard ones back. Terrifying 😂 my opponent was clearly more experienced than me but I am taller so I utlized my long legs and arms totower over him at points. I ended up worse off in the end
I wish I had started this 20years ago!! In my late teens rather than late 30s😂😂
@@cortex7024 when is your book comin out?
iv been following you since you joined the gym guess who???
My friend left my Facebook message on read. Clearly he's never experienced violence in his life
Time to knock him out and put him in his place
Unread*
@@stewart2898 incorrect
@@stewart2898 no. ‘On read’ means he opened it but never responded
It’s clear that you’ve never been in a fight before
He doesnt respeck you teach him a lesson
The problem is tons of guys that train have 0 social skills to navigate life. You can't punch your way through a disagreement or persuade someone with a rnc
Training and being trained are different to be honest a lot of the gym I go to are training but untrained thankfully my high school wrestling coach was a real mentor
As a black man when other black guys can’t fight they have a gun on them so the guys that usually talk the most shit usually packin’ be safe faras
benjaminates preach
@@nelupagu2141 Faras is a clown."You wanna go"
Who gives a fuck if theyre black?
@@wilfordgrimley4339 your wife left a message. She wanted me to tell you "dinners in the oven".
@@ProHater1 come to pico and Crenshaw in LA and talk that shit homie.
Zahabi is a tough guy who knows all about violence, he once told a guy off on an airplane really, really good.
Baruch Spinoza hahaha exactly :D that guy is such a bitch :D
You all bunch of dumbasses , he obviously trains..
Hes also Palestinian though
@@Flashyfinancier He is Canadian born. It's not like he lived in Gaza or something
@@Atreas40000 hes palestinian though like i said....most arabs love fighting.
I’m 59 years old. Had a lot of violence and fights in my life. In prison and out.
The one thing I appreciate the most about my experiences is I’m not afraid of nobody. And I’m not afraid of a confrontation either bcuz I have no fear of being punched in the face.
I believe everyone should learn a certain level of ability. No matter what they learn. Plus it also helps you internally to know you can defend yourself.
@@F.O.C.K. This guy probably never had any serious injuries like torn labrum and ligaments and clearly hasn't had any chronic pain. Hence the superman attitude. I rather be dead than disabled.
Curious - you think sparring at 50-70% is enough to learn how to fight?
You should definitely be worried about being punched in the face at 59
This guy doesn't distinguish between respect and fear
?
@@hildegardvonbingen9092 I dont get it why would they hate me and get back at me if they broke my laptop?
Never trained had some fights growing up but I never felt insecure in a room full of people
Both comments have their point.
Where you a big kid?
@Hugh Mungus EXACALY
@Hugh Mungus or he just isnt the kind of person to compare themselves to others let alone feel intimidated in doing so lol some people are actually like that were not all insecure and scared lmao
@Hugh Mungus nah I'm sure I understood quite well what other reason would you have to feel intimidated in a room full of other people tho unless there were some comparisons you were drawing that made you feel inferior which is a source of intimidation
There is always a risk when you pull over the side of the road and come out as if ok you wanna go, because you don't know who you are dealing with at the other end, the other guy could be mentally irregular for whatever reason and shoot you or stab you, doesn't matter if you're a trained fighter. Being trained can give you a false sense of security that can put you in serious trouble or get you killed. The best thing to do in a situation like what he described is to not escalate. You only face someone with violence if it becomes absolutely necessary.
Well said, in a lot of areas theres people who have the “nothing to lose” mentality and are willing to spend the rest of their life in bars all because you slightly wronged them in some way. I saw on the news the other day some lady shot someone in the face after they “accidentally cut them off”. That person nearly lost their life
Mentally irregular🤣👍🏼
You got a point. However, sometimes if you don't escalate, the person you are having a fight with would think that you are afraid and that you can't stand up for yourself. And that will encourage them to continue escalating because they think they are fighting a weak person, so they want to show everyone around how brave and strong they are. Not escalating will make most people escalate. In other words, "the best defense is a good offense".
No excuse for road rage I'm not arguing on road ain't pulling over if pull me over perhaps escalate to extreme violence
That and if the situation got out of your control from the start.
Sums it up perfectly ! Sometimes you meet people with such bad character and you know they’ve never been punched in the face.
True gold! People who‘ve experienced violence learn to appreciate respect, humility and kindness.
Chicago gang members are laughing
The Italian mob is laughing...
Firas says fighting is the last thing he'd do. Then gives of examples of him calling people out. LOL.
All he did was call out the guys bluff. He knew there wasn’t going to be a fight...
ricky gore getting your char pumped is now being a assaulted😂 and what the hell are you talking about with the car lol
@@alexanderbrown1578 Exactly. I've encountered this a few times, where a guy acts in a very intimidating/abusive manner expecting you to back down or clam up only to change their behaviour once they realise it could go down if they really want it to.
Difference between letting people walk over you and not starting fights
You’re an idiot man. Did he fight the people? Or called out their bluff. Once you’re trained you have the confidence to diffuse a situation. You think he’s gonna let himself be a doormat to someone because he trains?
SOME bullies are insecure, not all, not even most of them. On the contrary, they pick on those who are insecure
igor I agree with that. There are different symptoms of being insecure, and bullies tend to have - or at least think they have the upper hand on their victims to make themselves look as well as feel secure.
A good message for the bullies and internet trolls
Has anyone else noticed that saying "Wow" is consistently Joe Rogan's tell for him thinking but not saying "Man this person is full of it!"?
Do you know who is Firas?
@@GodPilledZen Boomer is OK?
@@CaptPostmod ok beta
CaptPostmod yeah because arguably the best mma coach in the world who coached one of the greatest fighters ever doesn’t know about fighting, but you, a RUclips commenter does. You’re such a fucken casual lmao
@@JourneyToTheCage He definitely knows about fighting, but I'm willing to bet he has no problem getting into fights, the dude is justifying beating the tar out of people to himself.
Charles Jourdain (current UFC featherweight out of Montreal) when asked on Olivier Aubin-Mercier's podcast why he doesn't train at Tristar said this of his only experience with Firas: At the time he was a rising 17 year-old amateur prospect and his gym had burned down so he spent a couple weeks at Tristar. He was fighting quite a few of Firas' prospects in local amateur shows (beating them all) so the coach noticed him and offered to train him with his pro team, but under one condition: he must spar him first. The guy doesn't like sparring as it is but agreed because of the opportunity. The next day, he comes back for the sparring session: Firas immediately rushes forward and starts raining down shots on him as hard as he can. Stunned, all the kid could do was shell up for a good minute and keep taking punches to the head until someone had to step in to stop it. Now you tell me, are those the actions of a "wise coach" who "knows the realities of violence" or the actions of an ego-driven fool ? Do all of Firas prospects have to full-on fight him and step over his unconscious body to join the team ? Or did he maybe not appreciate that Jourdain was beating his prospects and had the guts to show up at his gym so he wanted to teach him a lesson ? So wise and peaceful
The full story is here starts 1:35:45 but beware the whole thing is in Quebecois French
ruclips.net/video/MT4AWrcvOD8/видео.html
how many years ago this happened? it isn't wise to defend anyone even if is a close one, but it isn't either not giving the benefit of the doubt. People can change.
Camilo Ruiz Castellar the burden of proof is on him. His thoughts as expressed here don’t show growth or change
@titanaup u dont train ur people to be champions if u knock them out urself in sparring lol
@titanaup grow up mate
@titanaup You can't educate someone by just beating the shit out of them, you fucking dunce. He ought to know his place, that he doesn't need to prove to his amateur students that he's better than them.
Even tho it’s the last thing you wanna do ,,, sometimes your the “chosen one” to teach respect in the only way that they deserve .
very true man. One day i can beat up everyone during sparring but when certain guys come in i don't stand a chance and that really humbles me. be kind to everyone you meet.
The quiet ones, the humble, the respectful are most often the ones to truly be cognizant of. Those are the truly dangerous.
Very true
Angry bombastic people are all bark and no bite
This is kinda true but not really. Dangerous people come in all shapes and sizes. Hell Jon Jones is a party animal and nobody wants that smoke.
The whole "quiet is dangerous" thing is a bit overused. People are people, just because they received training it doesn't change all aspects of their personality. There are alot of loudmouths who are just as dangerous. Conor being a great example. The diaz brothers are very loud and in your face people, and they are perfectly fine putting your face on a t-shirt. Dangerous people can be quiet sure, but it's not like an overwhelming difference.
Idk man, I'm mostly a quiet person when I'm outside and I think I know myself and I don't think I am a "dangerous" guy 😂😅
@@dakotatomlinson8461 💯