Asuelu Leaves Kalani And The Kids! | 90 Day Fiancé: Happily Ever After?
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- Опубликовано: 6 авг 2020
- Asuelu and Kalani try to solve their problems after a tense car ride to California where he makes a few sexist remarks.
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He didn't even care that HIS baby was following him to the street! Didn't even look back! Disgusting
Smh
dont blame him hes Samoan xD new islander parents dont really like these kind of things
@@Saimone008 they don't like their babies?? Lol
@@lenaescobedo no its because of the preasure (cant spell lol) and when they argue with the mum they feel something not to sure but its quite there
Well her father did warn her. Seems all the fathers on this show were correct.
She flirted with the world’s oldest 8 year old... that was her first mistake.
Excellent, well said. Spot on.
Ok but also don’t blame it on her when he’s being a d*ck head
BellaxBTS I would blame that on him having the maturity of an 8 year old.
BellaxBTS don’t sleep with just anybody and if you do use protection
its not her mistake. its his, for being like that
I hate it when adults argue around kids, that ain't healthy and is so selfish
well in samoan culture its kind of like when parents argue u try not to get in their ways especially if its a FULL samoan women. u know what nevermind its too complicated to describe
Are you referring to asuelu as an adult? Lol hes a child himself
Kalan be happy you son birthday okay you husband i s his own way I he will leave front his kids you wife be heartbroken 💔 you do something about this you life be find help each together Kalan you do get divorce to Asuelu for good you find someone else okay care you kids okay I hate you Asuelu you attend to Kalan it is you son birthday party coming up soon now you leave like that you are crazy.
My siblings hate when me and my mom fight,but shit happens that part of life I can’t keep my mouth shut when she’s out of line and sometimes they don’t get that
adults? argue?
Dude barely said anything and pulled the equivalent of a kid running away from home because he got his fee-fees hurt for being called out.
Doesn’t even say bye to his children. Disgusting
Alex can’t imagine...
@@alexandercrush 11 year olds don't have sex.... Lol so no. He is just dumb.
Me as a poliesian he way dummer than I expected
You kalai you be find you boyfriend not mood right now don't leave home you wife and kids you love don't say b**** to you wife okay not good you son birthday today talk to you wife what is coming here you wife country . don't be mad you wife and her mom okay.
Its the Old West again to much heat for you ❄ generations
I usually scream when i see a father leaving his kids like that. But this, i think is the best for Kalani and her kids
The Truth Hurts
Username to comment ratio on point 😎
Yeah, she needs to take her children and keep moving in the opposite direction of that mamma made King baby! 🙄🤴👶
@The Truth Hurts I think that the rest of can agree, that they are definitely more hers than his, because he does absolutely nothing "fatherly" for them. He is a baby himself, because his mother created him to be codependent and grossly undereducated and ignorant, and he is a complete narssacistic tool. I should say that the majority of us see this quite clearly.
@Jake from state farm she is a horrible woman! The way she lets her family treat him is a disgrace. He might not be the best husband but she shouldn't allow her family to treat him the way they do. Also the way she treats him is a bunch of bullshit too.
@The Truth Hurts Calm yourself and realign yourself. You are putting words in my mouth, and misinterpreting what it is I was attempting to say. I am happy though, that you are very passionate about not jumping to conclusions and badgering him about verbally. He does have rights to see and spend time with his children, but from what I can tell, he doesn't seem very interested in them much at all. I was calling out his immature and narssacistic behavior towards his wife and others, and as a survivor of childhood abuse, there is more than one way to abuse and create issues with children from being around that 24/7. They clearly need some serious couple, and family, as well as individual counseling, because that could really help resolve these problems. I think that the majority of us here agree that her father should have some alone time with him, and set him straight! 😉👍
I feel bad for her mom crying, she was crying because she knows her daughter made a big mistake in her life 😖
Big big mistake
HUGE!!
I.dont 🤣🤣🤣 that's the way its suspost to go the girl suspost to do the cooking the cleaning all the house work 💀
@@isitoloisaako4k402 teamwork!! let the man and woman take turns helping each other make the tasks easier on one another.
@Catherine Alexander It's different for different cultures. In other parts of the world, the man going to work and supporting his family is considered contributing to the household, as "teamwork" as you put it. To us, sharing duties means both the man and woman work, do household chores, take care of the kids, etc.
Different parts of the world have different ways of doing things. It's hard for us as Americans to understand that, but it's the truth. Not everyone is the same as us.
I apologize on behalf of all Samoans for this embarrassment.
@Huley Chongan God Bless You!!
@Huley Chongan yeah nah
Accepted 🤗
My Samoan mate told me there's plenty of people like him back in Samoa.....they're called faafafine.
@Christian Mulipola Yes it was a joke, my mate was just mocking Asuelu for being a dick.
The man who doesn’t even say bye to his children upon leaving, wanted to have more children and a big family!
What a disgusting irony!
Almost like he was going to manipulate Kalani the way his dad used to do to his mom. She seemed perfectly ok with having 9 kids.
Exactly i heard he wanted 7 kids totals and say things like your not strong mother you can't do things like a Samoa woman . I don't understand what's with him he thinks that women are meant to stay home and produce babies . And yet he doesn't take any responsibility i mean ....... Shame on him to call a Men
This is why you need to date people before you get married or pregnant .
Yep
to be fair she got pregnant the same day she lost her virginity to him
YES!!
Say it again . It’s like these women and little boys just hop on the D without any protection or strong foundation in the relationship
@@NaetheNatural ur acting like people don’t do stuff like this in long term relationships either. It doesn’t matter how long you commit and are with someone it matters on the choices that person decides to make.
A 30-year-old virgin on vacation in Samoa. Birth control could have made all the difference between a holiday fling and this train wreck.
The fact she wasted her virginity on him is a tragedy!!
Dont say that, the kids are the only nice thing she got out of this
Sooo true
@Electroencefalografista Good question, maybe she was flattered by his attention.
@@rabeccainouye980 just the thought of that makes me crazy. There is nothing sexy about this guy.
Breaks my heart seeing the little son chase his daddy outside towards the street. Confused child, just in love with a father who is absolutely selfish. That's the worst thing I've seen on this show.
and he carelessly leaves the gate oopen
It's is the worst thing and leaving the gate open after she told him his son was following him out, there's absolutely no excuse that he or anyone else can come up to justify. There's no justification and that is neglect of a child which is under the "abuse" umbrella so why was it tolerated on the show!
@@lisamariepagliei3945 it might be staged, but what's I think is even more disturbing is what audiences people want to watch the worst "real" behavior on "reality" TV. Ratings/views are what drive the networks to film stuff like this. To be fair, depicting family dysfunction in a healthy way is important because it is a hard reality of our world, nation, and culture. But, I think on shows like this it can dance the line on what's ethical especially when children are involved instead of a fictional scenario portrayed by properly trained/professional actors. Since we're not on the set we won't ever truly know what's real and not real when it comes to "reality" television.
His a great man and Daf
Her dad raised her so well. So strong.
@@erikjohnson5549 I get that. I'm saying she's not afraid to speak up about how she feels.
Good girl for sticking up for yourself. No woman in my family would take that either. That's what happens when you take on, a different culture and not think about it. Green card!
@@erikjohnson5549 she’s 31. Don’t say anything about her if you don’t know her
@@erikjohnson5549 In many cultures, it’s normal and even expected for children and their parents to live together for that long. Often even for their whole lives. Yes, she made a very dumb mistake to have risky sex and then have a baby, but at least she is stepping up to take care of him, and that matters a lot. She seems relatively emotionally strong/healthy, and it doesn’t make her bad to live with her parents or only have a part time job.
And her MOM, don't ignore her.
The way he just walked pass the baby in the car seat on the kitchen counter just proves what kind of man and father he is.
damn i ain’t see the baby either
So dangerous leaving a baby on a raised surface that's how accidents happen
*This is why its important to know your partner before having unprotected sex with them* Sometimes people are compatible alone but as a Family, they don't work.
So true .
Exactly
It's like these people are not concerned about STDs. Esp the ones that cannot be cured
She needs to send him to Oregon with his mom. Then they can have their 5 minute makeout session.
YUCK!
I needed to hear this a few years ago 😂 but it changed my life for the better 👶🏽
How could he ignore his son like that when he followed him out the door?! Heartbreaking!! 😭 He seems very immature!
“Maybe if we get married they will change”
“Maybe if we have a baby they will change”
“Maybe if they move in they will change”
No. No it/they won’t.
So glad I don’t understand those concepts 😅
I think her will probably was by the time she even began to get to know him she was pregnant. And then she got pregnant almost immediately when he came to the US. So by the time she saw how bad it was she already had two kids. Problem is with his behavior she has three
Very true
This asuelu guy is no different from a teenager...boy needs to grow up
He's basically a teenager. She got what she asked for. Why is she messing with a guy so much younger than her and expects maturity?
Because many men at 23 are pretty mature! And women at the same age too...in many cases
@@misshisokapaints109 also shes just 6 years older... how many times have you seen a 24 years old girl with a 30yo male? Many! It comes down to him being immature and irresponsible, her objectifying him as an imaginary boyfriend rather than seeing how immature he is and how her behaviour makes him feel even more useless, and both not having spent any time understanding the point of view taught from each others cultures.
It could be a nice couple, with his feel-good spirit and her organised and committed attitude, but it takes work
I don’t think he knows how! Mentally & emotionally unprepared.....don’t use “ expensive words”..... silly boy. Cannot express himself,period.
@@etrebelle9812 females are more mature than males at that age though
Any man who runs from his problems instead of facing up to them is not worthy of being a husband. Agreed she’s better off without him.
She lied to him about a lot including the 1st pregnancy and is manipulative and brought on herself. He can still be a part of the kids life without being in her crazu family.
Wouldn't you want some time out after having everybody around you putting you down, deciding your life and not understanding you. Not a minute let up just constant nagging... I'm glad he went and had time out.. how the hell he ain't falling apart is beyond me.
And he is not worthy t be called a man!
johnnyx53 you’re really right about that. But you gotta keep it to your self
ALL YOU IDIOTS JUST BLAMING HIM. HE IS IMMATURE AND SHE KNEW THAT. WHAT ABOUT HER ACCOUNTABILITY? SHE PUT HERSELF IN THIS SITUATION.
ASUELO ISN'T EDUCATED IN THE US. HE IS YOUNG AND HE DOESN'T HAVE THE SKILLS AND KNOWLEDGE TO FIND A BETTER JOB FOR THE FAMILY.
I love how smart and emotionally aware she is. She is right 100%
If she was smart she wouldn't have got herself in this situation. She got pregnant by a man she barely knew.
My heart hurt for Kalani's mom, it must be painful to watch your daughter be in a relationship like that.
Expect Kalanis mother and father put so much oil in the fire. They are very toxic people.
By him leaving, she needs to pack his bags and send him back to his country and parents. She raising their kid's, by herself anyway, one less deadbeat person to feed and support.
Facts, man child
Yes, that's what i was trying to say earlier. TY
DeShab I was thinking the same thing He obviously thinks more of his biological family than his new family go on back to your country and support your family like they want you to
Nancy Bottom u really don’t understand what it’s like for him no matter what in Samoan culture u have to put family first and it was hard for him and I don’t understand why he so childish unless he was brought up a bit spoilt compared to others
@Claudine 27 unfortunately if he gets benefits she will be responsible for him. My ex intentionally does it.
the fact he said being a mom is easy.... LMAO
It really depends on your tolerance level.... LMAO
@@Charlie_Loves I'm sorry do you have experience as a mother?
@@Charlie_Loves and what a great one you must be if you call them bitches ❤️
What the hell would he know about being a mom when he doesn’t even know about being a dad! POS
And leaving her to take care of the kids why he be able to do what he want , the irony
She is so gorgeous and out of his league. He should feel lucky tbh. AND she deals with his horrid family. You could not even pay me to do to that for five seconds
An overweight single mother in her 30s with an attitude like her is hardly a 3 if not less, what league are you talking about? the below average one? they're a match made in Shrek XD
@@transforgoku She is beautiful . She has accomplished more and actually behaves like an adult, unlike him who is from a selfish family. Women of her background are her weight.
@@KayDejaVu then you go after her. You too, Jazz. If she's so awesome, then why don't you track her down? Seriously, that's the only answer anyone should give to those vapid and cheap types of encouraging, supportive statements. Seriously, according to some people, 90% of women would be called "gorgeous" or "beautiful" and rated a "10" on any type of 1-10 scale. Talk is cheap. Maybe they actually just deserve each other and can't do better....
@@transforgoku dude she will be a single mother because of him..n she s v pretty
@@bhuvaneshwarij1326 She IS a single mother because of her choices and feminist mindset, she was delusional thinking she could change a younger man from another country to suit her needs and be her personal doormat...
Do you really expect asuelo to be a good man when you see how his mother acts
“Why you use those expensive words just use the simple ones “ 😂😂😂 bro what
He blew me with that statement. That was a simple word being used. It ain’t like she said “beguile” 🤣
@Netiye 27 She used the word 'manipulate.' That's a common word in the English language. And she even defined it for him. The man's just a simpleton
😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂
@Netiye 27 says the person randomly capitalizing words. If you think he is the victim you're as stupid as he looks and sounds
He's disgusting. Didn't even say goodbye to the kids...
Yeah because you were there aye thats how you know hahahaha
However he is a fucking coward of a man
I mean what could we expect his own mother didn’t even care about her grandkids
All he said was “move”
He's an abuse victim.
I can’t get enough hugs and kisses from my little girl when I have to leave. I can’t even fathom just walking away like he did. Pathetic
“Why you use those expensive words?”
Sole Uce, her words are free Ninety-nine. 😂
I didn't know words can be expensive 💀
Cheeeeee free99 da bes
🤣🤣🤣🤣
“I’m going with her” points to the innocent bus driver lmao whhaaat
How could you just walk away from your kids like that without a backwards glance. Did he ever even look at them or hug them??
It's obvious he didn't care about them when he gave his son that unripened orange 🤷🏽♂️
ikr. those poor babies! I could never leave my little ones no matter how bad things got. it would break my heart.
Because thats king Curtis from wife swap bacon is good for me lmaaooo I'm packing up my bags and I won't be back until Sunday good luck with her tryna chased me down with them little high heel shoes 😂🤣 hahaha 🤣😜
@missbriteyes that may be so but him walking out like that without so much as "I love you! daddy will be back very soon!" can cause irreparable harm to a growing baby's psyche! they may have abandonment issues from experiencing a parent "bailing on them" when things get rough and never turning around to say goodbye.
he can be mad at her all he wants but he has to take a second to understand what the kids may be hearing and seeing during this cluster****.
I really do feel bad for the kids. they never asked for this. they're completely innocent.
It's pretty common. My father did the same thing to me. Never saw him again. There are many crappy parents out there.
Dude really ate that whole nasty unriped orange bout of spite 😂😂
Yea just to prove i'm from Samoa we eat fruits straight from the tree probably wanted to baff while eating it but could not camera was on him 😂😂😂😂
And tried to give some to his kid, who had more common sense then him not to eat it 🤦🏾♀️😂
Yeah, talkin about I hope this makes me feel better!
I thought I was the only one oml 😭
It's okay to eat a fruit from the tree, before it comes in a plastic box "packaged" by your local grocery store. Either way I'd have at least rinsed it with water, eat fruits save bats.
This woman is so beautiful, kind, and perfect in so many ways she deserves someone that’s gonna go above and beyond for her. He should be more than grateful for such an amazing woman. No wonder us women can’t help but give up sometimes
I think shes gorgeous and tbh I would love to be in a relationship with someone like her. Guy dosent know how great he has it
She's decent looking like 5/10
We all have flaws and sorry but she is so irritating when she is a woman then why go for a younger guy and then everyone jumps on him cause he is young and childish..just saying..
What???? Icant see this
It made my heart sad for the little boy when he followed his Daddy to the street. 😞
That's why you get to really know someone before you have children with them.
But the kids are the only positives she got out of this relationship to be fair
Electroencefalografista i reckon.
She actually gave him her virginity 🤦🏾♀️
No that’s not “what she gets”. They’re his kids too and he needs to grow the fuck up. Even if he doesn’t wanna be with her he can’t just walk away from his kids. No one deserves that shit
Amen!!!!
Poor Kalani has to take care of 3 kids
I was about to write that! Yessss so true.
@Philip Robertson III Or you could just wear protection.
@@jellyfishlotusdream No, this one falls on both of them. She took no precautions either. He wasn't going to use protection because he's a simpleton...even if she does get pregnant, she'll take care of them....and I think he is cognitively delayed. She didn't know this man from Adam's house cat, she should also have been prepared of she was going to go down this path. Like someone else said, first time = accident, second time, she already knew and he still didn't care.
@KiddRogers That could be an option, yes. Maybe she thought it was the right time? Clearly wasn't but idk.
That’s so hard to watch :( his baby was following him and all he said was “move” not even a goodbye
Asuel you are stupid person you leave kalanl you kids so hard for you guys fighting,💔
Damn he didn’t care about his kids .
OMG WHY DO SO MANY MEN ALWAYS THINK BEING A MOM AT HOME ALL DAY IS EASY
Because when those man are at home they do nothing!
you dont know samoan men ok dont judge from a cover
😂😂😂😂😂
If you're a stay at home mother than yes its easy, yall bs as hell lmao I've taken care of my brothers and sisters wash clothes cook, I get groceries all the time, its time consuming not hard lmao
@@karianajames992 this is not a man. This is a boy who is crying for attention. Men don't walk out and allow their toddler to follow them into the streets. Men know they have a responsibility to the their children. He is a boy. POINT BLANK PERIOD!
She is better as a single mother without him 🤷🏼♀️!
You can't live with a man when his mother expects you to send her thousands of dollars that's ridiculous why doesn't his mother get a job or his sister he's between kalani and his mother and it's never going to work
Single mothers will turn the sons into woman
SweetCheeks look what goes on in the hood
ALL YOU IDIOTS JUST BLAMING HIM. HE IS IMMATURE AND SHE KNEW THAT. WHAT ABOUT HER ACCOUNTABILITY? SHE PUT HERSELF IN THIS SITUATION.
ASUELO ISN'T EDUCATED IN THE US. HE IS YOUNG AND HE DOESN'T HAVE THE SKILLS AND KNOWLEDGE TO FIND A BETTER JOB FOR THE FAMILY.
@@lanacastillo49 chill... are you a bot? I've seen you on other comments saying the exact same thing
Him: "being a mom is easy."
Ok sir, since you want to go down that road, why don't YOU be a "mom" for a few days? You'll change your mind in a heart beat.
I may not be a mother. But have taken care of 3 kids. And it's NOT an "easy" job
so rich when they say that nonsense but then the moment the kids need something they're either nowhere to be found or asking the mom for help, if not just outright passing the kids to her
Yeah, it ain't like manual labor. Maybe parenting wouldn't seem like such a chore if parents thought of childhood as the time to prepare a kid for the world instead of training the child to be their ideal human
Easy being a mom.. nah bruh, it ain't easy at all. It ain't easy being a father either, being the leader of your house, being the strength and force in your beliefs.. being a parent ain't easy period my guy.
What you did? Walking out on your family? Nah.. you ain't nothing more then a child in a grown adult body. Go back to Samoa, at least there your "mommy" has her moneybags back.
"Why you use those expensive words. Just use simple words." had me dieing
Patric starr moment there... sponge bob's super not so smart bestfriend.
This show proves that deadbeats aren't just an American problem.
No one ever said it was
It happens everywhere lmao
@@dot4592 I guess so! Lmao
She had 18 forms of birth control yet she chose to get pregnant. Thats on her.
@@Brittany-fx7yz she chose to lose her virginity and have a baby with him. If he isn't shit then she isn't for laying with him and having 2 kids by him.
She's right, the tasks that women are expected to constantly do are much harder than men doing the "men tasks" which typically involve doing something once a week or so.
Asuelu is a man child who wants a mommy bangmaid. He doesn't even bring in money, but wants all the privileges of out dated gender roles.
He then pretends it's the language barrier, like nah. You understand what she wants, she knows what you want, you'll just never be compatible. I don't understand why they'd get married and have children together.
Diana please dont segregate with this men job thing sure women has it hard but men do have to provide and work much much more then the average women. Matter of fact they choose to work part time and care for the kids. Nowadays its equal distribution of chores between men and women. And yes asuelu is horrible as a father but dont believe anything TLC is presenting its still reality tv.
Ed's ChildPhotoStudio but the point is he’s not working hard or providing so what is his purpose?
@@theelolicious9302 , he only serves one purpose that I can see. The minute someone stood up to him and he didn't like it he hit the road.
@@theelolicious9302 its not that it was about asuelu specific but in general.
@@edschildphotostudio5127 That's not true, men don't work harder or provide more, in the past they did, not any more.
Abusive men, the thing for them to is accuse the mother of being a “bad mom” for random things. Run Kalani, Run!
Yeah run please do run KALANI maybe ASUELU will fall back in love with you... But as of right now that man has no interest in loving KALANI.......
MY HEART IS THE KIDS AND SEEING KALANI MOTHER IN TEARS 😭 SOOO SAD
Poor kids
All 3 of them
@@Betty-hv9fjI de
Ehhhhh
Poor bastards.
He's to busy being a son to his mother to be a husband to her and a father to his kids.
He was a son first before a father and in Samoan tradition the SONS take care of the entire family till they die their raised and taught too believe this its been going on way before you and I were alive and will continue on way after we die.....
“Don’t use those expensive words” oooooomg
Those poor little boys! This is heart breaking. 🥺
*When the little son went after his daddy* 😥💔
This relationship is even more toxic than the smelly kid’s breath in class
HAHA
STOP LMFAO
"You won't find that shit in my house" 🙏🏽 serving up hella vibes
I’m a single father of a 2 year old baby girl ❤️ and have a full time job.....taking care of a child is extremely hard work
Just put a moustache and he’ll look exactly like Mr Potato head from toy story. Ngl
Hes an ugly man
@Lew sifer 😞 sorry
Dont insult Mr. Potato Head...lol
😂😂😂😂 Ritika that’s funny
👋😂👍lmfao!
"I think he's just used to subservient women." What is subservient about Asuelu's mom and sister? Asuelu is like their slave...He just doesn't respect you, Kalani. He's a kid and when you act like your kid's friend that kid will walk all over you.
Omg!!! This is exactly what I was thinking! His sister is more of a man than he is!
Asuel you are LOL you are doing that you do hunt kalanl now leven you children behind and his wife like that obey her mom okay Asuelu now you going leave that for good that is not good .
She's really dumb as a 30 year old woman to marry & have kids from a 24 year old guy.
@@makieshabilbey2546 I’m wondering if Samoa is unique in a sense that ensuring your parents are taken care of takes precedent over your wife and kids. I know in some Asian countries elderly parents live with their kids, but it seems in these circumstances the whole family makes a joint effort to raise the children the best they can and the kids still come first. But here it’s like Asuelu’s mom feels entitled to come first over even the children. It’s bizarre
Super cute how he packed food from the fridge
1:21 *tree full of beautiful yellow lemons*
Asuelu: *jumps up and picks the greenest, least ripe one*
He can't afford the expensive words yet.
You are hot AF ..
Nor the bus fair. Did he even pay?
It was when he jumped up in the tree to get the fruit for me😂😂😂😂😂😂
...
It was when she didn't notice he is mentally slow for me. 🤣🤣
Mrs Christian he ain’t, just how some Samoans are brought up
His favourite hobby is *deflecting* 🙄 I hate him so much lmao
I’ve never seen someone pick up and haul ass so fast in my life, he jumps on a random city bus thinking he’s going to another state lmao
Frankly, Asuelu might have an intellectual impairment. He seems to really struggle with more complex cognitive functions, and he can’t seem to express himself clearly. Which might be why he’s acting out
Huh! You may have a point! Now, that you've said that, it makes ALOT of sense! Maybe a touch on the ASD spectrum ( Aspberger's?)? Good call!!
Also, something that I saw. When all the people met in a Tell All, when they hated on Larissa and Colt and had a big fight, this Asuelu man got up and started yelling and moving.. weirdly. Violently, like he was going to punch Larissa out of the blue.
@@call-me-matthew4813 I took a look at that episode you mentioned on Tell All. Boy oh boy! That IS an unusual reaction! However, in my opinion, Asuelu appears to be an UNDIAGNOSED AUTISTIC! Only people with Autism react to conflict, going on around them like that! He was having a typical 'melt down'. I have a 27 yr old Son with Autism. Social anxiety is HUGE with them! As well as communication problems, inability to take direction and or criticism and lastly IMMATURITY! It takes Autistics FOREVER to grow up! My guess is that because things are a bit more simple in Samoa, he got by just fine. In school, he probably had a learning deficit like dyslexia or had some kind of remedial classes. He's just high enough functioning that only someone who works with or was the parent of an Autistic would've caught it! It makes SO MUCH MORE SENSE NOW ( his behavior). Autistics also appear to be very selfish because of their ignorance of social cues. They pretty much dwell inside their own world until someone points out that it's abnormal to do so. I have to CONSTANTLY coach and cajole my son into communicating and considering other people's feelings! It's exhausting! I feel REALLY bad for Kalani. There's a HIGH probability that the kids will be on the spectrum, too. If they are, she needs to get them into therapy ASAP!. The later the diagnosis, the more difficult life will be! My son was diagnosed at 3. At 27, he's still not able to live on his own because he lacks not only social skills, he lacks common sense as well. As an example: You live in an apartment in December. Your heat stops working. You would call your landlord, or super, right? My son would wrap a blanket or two, around himself, FOR THE REST OF WINTERTIME, never mentioning it to anyone who could help him! It might get fixed eventually, because he'd bitch about it to his job coach probably. But it would be at least two weeks into the ordeal. They just think in the most bizarre ways and there's no way to prepare yourself for it! Good observation!!
I'm starting to see Autistic traits! This would explain his weakness in communication, his meltdowns and immaturity. He's high functioning enough that it would be missed by his pediatrician and teachers. But I'm almost 100% certain that Asuelu is on the spectrum!! Kalani should get those kids checked, ASAP!
No it’s just the language barrier, it comes off as though he can’t find the words to express himself but it’s because he can’t full speak the English language, I’m sure in his native language he can speak and express himself just fine. His problem is just that he thought he would find a rich American woman to take care of him and his family, and that’s not what he got.
Kalani, just send him on a plane back to Samoa. ✈✌
He’s insecure because she’s better without him and he knows it. 🙌🏽
And he’s quite a coward who can’t do it.
He probably realized the mother was going to tell the father. So he decided it was best to run away.
Kalani's father would agree with ASUELU's decision as its FA'A SAMOA
I hope she gets it through her head that she's better off without him. There's nothing wrong with staying alone hun. Ure not the first single mother. U got this
I guess the D too good too leave for her I guess 🤷
She just in it for the D now
Who thinks this guy is just a big baby she has three kids counting him
"Why do you use those expensive words....Use simple words!" I'm a Polynesian man(hawaiian to be exact) and I laughed my ass off when I heard that lol
He knows exactly what is he talking about, he is just blaming it all on a language barrier
At this point, she has a problem. She doesn’t have to stay with him. She chooses to stay with him. But for what?
Kids?
Definitely for the kids, but it’s unfortunate she doesn’t make that hard decision to leave him before the kids are grown enough
She must love him. To procreate with this simpleton (twice), it has to be out of love. Good luck to her and the bed she made.
Also, per the way the K-1 visa is set up, even if he leaves and they divorce, she is responsible financially for him.
Right, she has already had her kids when it was clear that she shouldn't have. But now is now, she needs to take her kids and leave before it gets out of hand and becomes more of a toxic relationship than it already is... If she doesn't? The kids will grow up to understand what's going on and that's not good. It can lead to many situations.. So yeah she better have them divorce papers ready when he get home 😌✌🏽
He's immature
Not acknowledging your own kid is beyond terrible!!
dying laughing that’s the OCTA bus i take at the end of the video XD
“Expensive”words!!! 😐
This ain’t Jeopardy
How many languages do you speak?
🤣😂🤣😂
I don't understand why people involve their families into their marriage..
From what I understand, her family is paying for the marriage
to get support
because some cultures believe in supporting each other through everything. :/
or the TLC
THIS. There is a difference between support and inviting someone into your relationship.
You can’t tell your family everything that happens because you may forgive that person, but your family is still mad at them like they are you. It’s just not good business.
I'm so grateful her mom, dad, and sister all don't put up with ignorance!
IT'S AMAZING HOW "AMERICAN" HE BECAME WHEN HE WANTED TO BOLT!!
I clicked on this faster than James Charles said hi sisters
Copy and paste
😂😂
Amy Barton ik
Asueli is a big kid with something wrong with him. How does she not see this? Yuk !! Not a gd future. Smh
The dude is probably some kind of deficient in the brain dept that has a name for it.
Obviously Asuelu's father wasn't instrumental in his life either thus he doesn't know how to be a man/husband/father to his family.
She’s so pretty !! And smart. She can actually find herself an American good guy
Every video I watch just gets crazier.
I do not understand why they had children together. He needs to study and then work to support his family with her. They need help with the children and the housework.
It is a pity for the children if he does not sharpen up and take his responsibility as well.
She is rightfully concerned yet still keeps having children with him?!
What's her other options..
Good for her, now she got just 2 kids to taking care of instead of 3 kids. Bye felicia
Kalani is such a strong level headed person. Its a pity where she ended up
Expensive words? He understands her CLEARLY. He could not refute her point so he blames the language....lies!
Why she continue having kids with him.. I don’t get it
Lmaoo he wanted her to stop him so he can argue soo bad😂😂😂. “ these are my bags. my suitcase “ 😂😂😂
"Why you use those expensive words" LMFAO
Why are they still together?
Maybe she can't!!!
@@veravaladez1525 why?
She's a grown ass woman she should've found herself a 30 year old mature man not a little 24 year old guy that hasn't even hit 30 yet
It's not his age that's the problem here! Its him !
There's lots of 24 year old men who are good fathers and husband's. It's not age it's character.
If a 30 year old man wives up a 24 year old girl all the women in this comment section would call him creepy for dating & marrying someone younger 😂
It isn’t his age that’s an issue, it’s his mentality.
@@KillShot-ln6mn why are you acting like that isn't common especially on 90 days
The way she treats him and her family ya i seen this coming a long time ago
Both of these guys have a problem and its called not appreciating one another. He should thank her and appreciate all she does as a Mom and she should appreciate his effort when he tries. The thing about appreciation is that it makes you want to do something more to please the person you love, but at the moment they're just complaining about each other.
Well said !!!
He gotta go, she needs to get rid of him, I can't deal with people that doesn't even have any feeling for her or his kids
Asuelu probably fell out of love with her and that is why he is annoyed by every little thing. They used to be so bonded like soul mates. Now he is treating her like a bad one night stand who can't get away from fast enough. He seemed like he was looking for a fight so he could have an excuse to leave. He probably doesn't have the guts to tell her that he doesn't love her anymore. Maybe he met someone new. Who knows. Regardless, this relationship appears to have expired for him.
The issue is: once you have kids you can't just get up and leave bc you don't love your partner anymore. You share responsibility for the kids
@@aysepersona4194 Maybe they can move into the same apartment complex and coparent.
@@aysepersona4194 Yes, you can get up and leave...it's called divorce, separation or just plain getting up and leaving. You cannot get arrested for leaving someone you dont love just cause you have kids. You just have to pay child support and go to court for custody sharing.
@@aysepersona4194 idk what world you live in that its MANDATORY for a woman and man too stay together becauze they got kids.... They got kids thats it nothing else
The way he got on the bus 😂😂
7:27 I know asuelo doesn't know where he is going lol 😂😂😂
Only immature run away from their problems. Running from your own children... Shame on you.
Jesus christ the way he ran inside the bus after he gave them the mic 😂😂😂😂😂
I've been in her shoes. She deserves so much better.
So sad to see a little toddler running to their Dad who is leaving indefinitely. I thought that happened in movies only.