I married a girl from my village. Still rocking. Don't be a fool just because you have a thousand rand in your pocket for the first time. God gives, and God takes away. Slay Queens take and Slay Queens run away to the next trending man.. LEARN or perish!
The very reason I'm scared to be married by a non South African man. Some leave wives and children behind. I won't build my life with another woman's tears. So, he was hoping to turn a slay queen into a wife 😏. I hope that men can realize that their blessing it's with their wife.
Stop 🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑...this man said that he was poor, and his wife agreed to take him because she was desperate... People let me share a word of wisdom...just because a woman receives a man that is poor is not an indication that she is desperate...it could be that she under stood, that a person must start from some were, just because he is poor that can change..this guy didn't see his wife for being an understanding human..but he disliked his wife and called her desperate because she didn't look down on him...his attitude is 😞 bad.. Now he is down 👇 on his back again...😢
Let me say my truth as a South African 90 % of Xhosa women they are very beautiful and with nice bodies they are like that that’s how God created them many women in South Africa they don’t like them because of that so if you are very weak as a man their beauty can destroy your life.
as I'm listening the story of this beloved brother I remember the lyrics of the song that says "you can chop my money you chop my money I don't care"sorry my brother us as men we must be careful women are too dangerous especially the ones which are not of your tribe, women can do anything for you only just for money until you become broken that's when they will leave you, but I pray for you so that God can give you a second chance thank you for sharing
No offence to anyone especially our Brothers from outside the borders of South Africa, when it comes to Marriage everyone should stick to somebody from their own tribe.
@@MerveilleK 😅😅😅Those ones are "FISHERMEN"....They're after the money & end up sleeping with snakes then infect the local Guys with diseases that don't exist in our region because you know some diseases come/originate from certain regions of the world.
I'm confused as to how did you allow the sister to introduce you to her younger sister you mean all this time you could not see that they had planned to rip you off this was a plan between the elder sister and the yohnger one to any other man from outside SA please shine your eyes you don't need a whole 6 months to know that the person is using you
These Xhosa sounds I'm really curious about 😂😂 as a Kenyan I'm sure after this Folly of the Decade you'll keep off this Vanity of a woman out there. There's always a second chance. well done for confessing the Lesson
You dont have to regret, you reap what you saw. You could have settle the first poor lady who agreed to be with you no matter your condition. I hope you have learned your lesson go apologise to her. And pray to God to have mercy on you. He is mercyful. I wish you well.
@@johnkgapane5689 Although this story is fake, I take strong exception to being insulted by a KWEREKWERE in this way. Xhosa women are intelligent and hardworking. That's why we got all the FIRSTS in every field in Mzantsi( go read history on all the professions). Xhosa women are the ultimate THREAT to all the lesser tribes. We were taught only ONE stereotype about non Xhosas...there are Xhosas at the top of the social hierarchy and then the rest of you are IZIBHANXA. We don't differentiate among the other ethnic groups. To us you are one whole idiotic mess! That's why nisihoyile. As for you, kgapane go breed more dunderheads with your first cousin.
My father use to say " a smart man respect his wife irrespective of what, because if you can upset her, break her heart, stop taking care of her.... whatever she says to curse you it shall come through 😢 man's learn from this story
I'm sure you have learned your lesson, woman can be a distraction especially when you are married. This is just a passing phase God will grant you another opportunity and I'm sure you will use it wisely this time, Goodluck
The reason why you got fired is because your wife's ancestors are angry at you. Everything that you had was from her ancestors and you decided to blow all of it with a side snack who did not love you....😢
This is true...well said .. ..It happened to my baby daddy..He left me with my baby..A month later he got arrested.Its been two years still not working.My ancestors dont let my tears to fill on the ground .
The problem here is you because, umuncu bhuti not kancinci uyeva tartaric is better than you, xa u nemali ufuna white skinned xhosa woman kodwa unomfazi ubona umfazi wakho as rubbish not your type, so uyifumene I type yakho white skinned xhosa woman ikudlela imali, hayi andazi nifunani amadoda, hayi Maan umuncu akufani uThixo ewuthathile nalo msebenzi, aziba uhlala nalo mfazi umbiza rabbish 😂😂😂😂😂
As a black woman do yourself a favor n avoid broke black men as much as possible unless you are sure he will be poor forever..poverty keeps most of them humble once that money clocks in you are below him😂🤣
Poor man or rich man , a woman can be treated like that , depending what kind of a man you you got married too. Even rich man do scary stuff out there. Even rich man do kill their wives. Abusive too. It depends on who you dating , so your advice is extremely poor
To add to this he was a fool for love fear Xhosa woman they work they don't plah the only people they truly love is their own tribe and maybe those who are rich
The bad luck started the time u see your wife as not your type 😂 the ancestors turned their backs 😂😂😂 your wife married u when you were broke but the Xhosa lady ran away 😢I hope your wife is still with you even now 😢
Some nations are cursed; from their way of thinking to even the work of their hands. Always do your background checks and avoid bringing such to your life.
Stop it you product of incest. The suthu groups love ##@ sk much they'd marry their first cousins than not have a man. They have no incest taboo. That's why we call them IZILWANYYANA.
It was a punishment for what you did to your wife. Some people when you make them cry, you anger God. And he fights on their behalf. She loved you but you treated her like your doormat.
You got what you deserved my brother, how could you be so foolish imagine assets that you could have bought with the money you where makin you probably could have brought your own truck😢 🙌
Man you dont learn i wonder why the person who walks besides you on your lowest situation thus the person who will stand with u in good and bad i thank God and your ancestors that they pulled you from a higher level to the lowest level thus what happens if u see as if your wyf is not worth it nxaa Zim man u are more than nonsense tsek mhani
Yvettemakamu that is not true,Im Xhosa and happily married with kids.I am a virtous wife and my husvands joy.Siyatshateka bhuti futhi sibaninzi abanjalo
All this time you did not see that ur Xhosa ex girlfriend was after your money? You left your wife back home to build a relationship with other women😮😮😮 I hope that you got to test your own medicine now
That's very funny how can you destroy the only job that puts money in your pockets,you should have known better that your girlfriend ddnt love you she was using you, takeaways everyday yeah truly you were blinded by love But honestly speaking many man they run away from humble women they think they're fools they want crazy ones Appreciate what you have before you loose everything a lesson for every man
Jesis Xhosa girl are very hot mos, you were drunk in love. And what happen to your relationship with Xhosa girl wen u loss your job? That relationship leads you into tamptations indeed
When you start something, ask yourself, how will this end?
This saves life
Thank you for this
I married a girl from my village. Still rocking. Don't be a fool just because you have a thousand rand in your pocket for the first time. God gives, and God takes away. Slay Queens take and Slay Queens run away to the next trending man.. LEARN or perish!
This one is very foolish 😢😢
He got what he deserved, some don't know that God something blesses you through your wife, even your kids...
I dont blame slay queens now for going after rich guys..Some of these man only need you when they are poor..come riches you are a piece of trash😢😢
The very reason I'm scared to be married by a non South African man. Some leave wives and children behind. I won't build my life with another woman's tears. So, he was hoping to turn a slay queen into a wife 😏. I hope that men can realize that their blessing it's with their wife.
You call your wife pure rubbish??! Well, who's the rubbish now!!😂🥳
I hope she leaves him. She deserves better 💯💯
When the wife start to treat him bad after all these they will say she is wicked . It will be better if the wife didn't find out the truth .
@HalimaCham-ru9rd yeah I wish I know the wife and advice her to leave him such a horrible man
That was a very good lessons to all men appreciate to what you have 😊
Money favours fools😢😢
Ka nnete🤞🏾
But a fool and his money are soon parted.
He left a woman who gave him lucky. And go for slayqeen. This is the laws of karma. God does not like ugly.
Argh ah this man!😂🙌🏾
It's good you were what you deserve.Nxt tym give your family first priority
Stop 🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑🛑...this man said that he was poor, and his wife agreed to take him because she was desperate...
People let me share a word of wisdom...just because a woman receives a man that is poor is not an indication that she is desperate...it could be that she under stood, that a person must start from some were, just because he is poor that can change..this guy didn't see his wife for being an understanding human..but he disliked his wife and called her desperate because she didn't look down on him...his attitude is 😞 bad..
Now he is down 👇 on his back again...😢
Life did humble you😅
Let me say my truth as a South African 90 % of Xhosa women they are very beautiful and with nice bodies they are like that that’s how God created them many women in South Africa they don’t like them because of that so if you are very weak as a man their beauty can destroy your life.
as I'm listening the story of this beloved brother I remember the lyrics of the song that says "you can chop my money you chop my money I don't care"sorry my brother us as men we must be careful women are too dangerous especially the ones which are not of your tribe, women can do anything for you only just for money until you become broken that's when they will leave you, but I pray for you so that God can give you a second chance thank you for sharing
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 i love this story dearly clever😊
No offence to anyone especially our Brothers from outside the borders of South Africa, when it comes to Marriage everyone should stick to somebody from their own tribe.
😅😅😅😅
Speak to the woman too, they’re more after these guys 😂 😅
@@MerveilleK 😅😅😅Those ones are "FISHERMEN"....They're after the money & end up sleeping with snakes then infect the local Guys with diseases that don't exist in our region because you know some diseases come/originate from certain regions of the world.
sounds harsh but its true though even if you are from south africa marrying your tribe is always the best option.
I'm confused as to how did you allow the sister to introduce you to her younger sister you mean all this time you could not see that they had planned to rip you off this was a plan between the elder sister and the yohnger one to any other man from outside SA please shine your eyes you don't need a whole 6 months to know that the person is using you
These Xhosa sounds I'm really curious about 😂😂 as a Kenyan
I'm sure after this Folly of the Decade you'll keep off this Vanity of a woman out there.
There's always a second chance. well done for confessing the Lesson
😂😂😂😂😂😂
You dont have to regret, you reap what you saw. You could have settle the first poor lady who agreed to be with you no matter your condition.
I hope you have learned your lesson go apologise to her. And pray to God to have mercy on you. He is mercyful. I wish you well.
I wonder what kind of sounds was the the xhosa lady making. Xhosa women mean business. 😂😂😂
Am Xhosa please😊😊😊man loves us😊
@@thulanixali4054 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Xhosa women will teach you a lesson u will never forget. He shud have asked around.
Nje they are nt playing broer
Ndiyaqaluyiva😂
@@johnkgapane5689 Although this story is fake, I take strong exception to being insulted by a KWEREKWERE in this way. Xhosa women are intelligent and hardworking. That's why we got all the FIRSTS in every field in Mzantsi( go read history on all the professions). Xhosa women are the ultimate THREAT to all the lesser tribes. We were taught only ONE stereotype about non Xhosas...there are Xhosas at the top of the social hierarchy and then the rest of you are IZIBHANXA. We don't differentiate among the other ethnic groups. To us you are one whole idiotic mess! That's why nisihoyile. As for you, kgapane go breed more dunderheads with your first cousin.
This is Jozi boy Baku layile Tu!
Ingqondo ayikho tu kulo buti, sorry to say..
My father use to say " a smart man respect his wife irrespective of what, because if you can upset her, break her heart, stop taking care of her.... whatever she says to curse you it shall come through 😢 man's learn from this story
I'm sure you have learned your lesson, woman can be a distraction especially when you are married. This is just a passing phase God will grant you another opportunity and I'm sure you will use it wisely this time, Goodluck
The reason why you got fired is because your wife's ancestors are angry at you. Everything that you had was from her ancestors and you decided to blow all of it with a side snack who did not love you....😢
This is true...well said .. ..It happened to my baby daddy..He left me with my baby..A month later he got arrested.Its been two years still not working.My ancestors dont let my tears to fill on the ground .
That was your punishment from God .lol u get confused when she make that noise with her Xhosa language😂😂😂vavasati vata Ku tlangisa nwana mhani
Stick with your women brother no offence even our Tsonga brothers get confused 😊
@@remotejobscorner Exactly my point my sister. Some ancestors do not play that game. They want honesty!
The problem here is you because, umuncu bhuti not kancinci uyeva tartaric is better than you, xa u nemali ufuna white skinned xhosa woman kodwa unomfazi ubona umfazi wakho as rubbish not your type, so uyifumene I type yakho white skinned xhosa woman ikudlela imali, hayi andazi nifunani amadoda, hayi Maan umuncu akufani uThixo ewuthathile nalo msebenzi, aziba uhlala nalo mfazi umbiza rabbish 😂😂😂😂😂
As a black woman do yourself a favor n avoid broke black men as much as possible unless you are sure he will be poor forever..poverty keeps most of them humble once that money clocks in you are below him😂🤣
Poor man or rich man , a woman can be treated like that , depending what kind of a man you you got married too. Even rich man do scary stuff out there. Even rich man do kill their wives. Abusive too. It depends on who you dating , so your advice is extremely poor
@@RockVakalisa-nf4gh you missed th point..we are talking about financial stability not abuse..
Exactly poverty makes them humble
.......women 🚮
What a painful story😢
😂😂😂😂 Andayihleka yooo Xhosa abeva
I am Xhosa woman, and this confession and some comments makes me laugh😂😂😂
😂😂😂
Yoooo man never learn src
Xhosa woman and my brothers from zim and spoiling this xhosa woman ey guys ,
keep learning though and don’t forget this lesson
It's sad u didn't look after yo life properly..
Let this b a lesson to all men n women out there
How much exactly does a truck driver earn? How much is this bucket load money?
+/- R25k. Depending on the company u work for and the number of loads u push pm.
E reach to ask ooo
@@johnkgapane5689 that is take home? It's very good
To add to this he was a fool for love fear Xhosa woman they work they don't plah the only people they truly love is their own tribe and maybe those who are rich
The bad luck started the time u see your wife as not your type 😂 the ancestors turned their backs 😂😂😂 your wife married u when you were broke but the Xhosa lady ran away 😢I hope your wife is still with you even now 😢
So,
This is what men do to us women?
But i'm glad because our God will always fight and win for us 🙏🏼 ..
Some nations are cursed; from their way of thinking to even the work of their hands. Always do your background checks and avoid bringing such to your life.
This guy was forcing the relationship though
😊😂😂😂 hope you learn.
😂😂😂😂 you made your bed then sleep
😂😂 meno a sega ditshila sorry my brother thats xhosa women for you
Stop it you product of incest. The suthu groups love ##@ sk much they'd marry their first cousins than not have a man. They have no incest taboo. That's why we call them IZILWANYYANA.
Xhosa girls will humble you
lol please school him.Those gals dont play
She was not loving you ,I'm so sorry😢
Sorry for losing your job, family comes first, it's a lifetime lesson", true beauty is in the heart " did your rubbish wife dumped you 😢
A fool and his money are soon parted.
Brother o bala monate
I hope you've learned a lesson😶
🙏Can the guy record the sound the XHOSA gal use to make in bed? I'm Xhosa too I need to add that sound on my bed skills the Xhosa sound.. 😂😂
Sad life lesson you were not your types type.
Ayii my brother all this cause of a woman ?
It was a punishment for what you did to your wife. Some people when you make them cry, you anger God. And he fights on their behalf. She loved you but you treated her like your doormat.
Bhudi wami uyisihlama straight😂
You got what you deserved my brother, how could you be so foolish imagine assets that you could have bought with the money you where makin you probably could have brought your own truck😢 🙌
Dear confessor uri rombe
Futseki iwe wakamama .mbwa yemunhu
Let hope that other men will learn from your story ... unbelievable !
Man you dont learn i wonder why the person who walks besides you on your lowest situation thus the person who will stand with u in good and bad i thank God and your ancestors that they pulled you from a higher level to the lowest level thus what happens if u see as if your wyf is not worth it nxaa Zim man u are more than nonsense tsek mhani
Shame😅
What is xhosa?
It is one of the South African tribe.
@@bongie_t Alright
A Xhosa woman gave the world MANDELA, SISULU, SOBUKWE, MHLABA, HANI, TAMBO, BIKO, MINI, WINNIE... Ndibala ntoni na?
@@nomagcisacawe3297 really......
@@okechukwuonyebukwaYep. Do you want me to add Sontonga and Mqhayi, the composers of Nkosi Sikelel'iAfrica?
Karma
Bt why man ara so foolish like dat
Men aren't foolish per se. It's the witchcraft of scorned women that make men with money do such. I'm suspecting the wife cast a spell on this guy.
Yvettemakamu that is not true,Im Xhosa and happily married with kids.I am a virtous wife and my husvands joy.Siyatshateka bhuti futhi sibaninzi abanjalo
Subahoya. They are threatened by the symbol X
Shame on you.. where were your priorities??
Kunjalo ukujolela umfazi buka manje usuyazisola and kuzoba nzima ukuthola umsebenzini oryt
Whose type are you now? This 'my type' gets no one nowhere
I'm not even feel sorry for you because what you did was wrong only God can forgive you, confess to your wife and ask for forgiveness
Mxm
this man is very wicked so will you wanna you're wife to be with now you have nothing
He is a bastard
All this time you did not see that ur Xhosa ex girlfriend was after your money? You left your wife back home to build a relationship with other women😮😮😮 I hope that you got to test your own medicine now
🙄🙄😡
Xhosa are not dear yoo
Some ppl can give poor advice
Well he came here with a poor story. He should man up and face his problems that was caused by women. We advice the ones with serious problems
My brother no one want to marry xhosa even then they don't marry each other next time make research to each everything u do special to relationships
Millions of us are married. Who would want to marry a primitive stinking shangaan, anyway?
That's very funny how can you destroy the only job that puts money in your pockets,you should have known better that your girlfriend ddnt love you she was using you, takeaways everyday yeah truly you were blinded by love
But honestly speaking many man they run away from humble women they think they're fools they want crazy ones
Appreciate what you have before you loose everything a lesson for every man
Jesis Xhosa girl are very hot mos, you were drunk in love. And what happen to your relationship with Xhosa girl wen u loss your job? That relationship leads you into tamptations indeed