The Harsh Truth: Why Dating Has Become A Nightmare For Men And Women

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  • Опубликовано: 21 авг 2024
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  • @danielhamilton5094
    @danielhamilton5094 3 месяца назад +65

    No, dating collapsed because women demand everything and offer very little in return

    • @lejamesbron5880
      @lejamesbron5880 3 месяца назад +18

      We gotta work 4 times as much for women 1/4th the worth of our grandmothers.

    • @hakimhakim8845
      @hakimhakim8845 3 месяца назад +2

      U aint lyin about that. Facts. They offer their presence, looks, and whats between their legs. How is that gonna sustain and keep a man for the long haul

    • @heruapocalypse2021
      @heruapocalypse2021 3 месяца назад +3

      Facts 😎👍🏾

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 3 месяца назад +3

      Inflation

    • @lildel7698
      @lildel7698 3 месяца назад +6

      Hoflation

  • @kendricbell9454
    @kendricbell9454 3 месяца назад +40

    Women are the best gaslighters in the 🌍

    • @keyturn23
      @keyturn23 3 месяца назад +2

      The gaslighting is in a whole different stratosphere.

  • @RD-zj6vc
    @RD-zj6vc 3 месяца назад +30

    Increasingly for alot of men, dating at all is essentially outside of their means. So Amanda says don't date outside of your means. Alot of men's response is "You know what? Bet, I'm going to stop dating altogether." Then the women get mad because they guys are pulling back completely.

    • @gsmoneybabyxxl7575
      @gsmoneybabyxxl7575 3 месяца назад +8

      This is 1000% Factual it’s not only the women who are feeling the drought but also the economy in the last couple of months Restaurants,( Fridays, Chilli, etc) have closed down due to a lot of women thinking they’re too good for a date there, David’s Bridal have filed bankruptcy due to declining marriages in the USA… Schools are closing down because the birth rates are getting lower.. It’s going to get difficult in a few decades but men will adjust and adapt as its in our nature but can’t say the same for the single independent “won’t settle for 50/50 “women

    • @death24314
      @death24314 3 месяца назад +3

      ​@@gsmoneybabyxxl7575 wow so company's are being effected by womens standards? Lol that's a bad sign for the dating right there

    • @Jay-jb2vr
      @Jay-jb2vr 3 месяца назад +4

      *Real talk, dating has become a waste of time now* 💯

    • @Cahluvca
      @Cahluvca 2 месяца назад

      Like most western Eurocentric influenced countries....folks check out

  • @franklinwill22
    @franklinwill22 3 месяца назад +14

    Believe alot of black men are not dating as much regardless of much he makes. Go where you are celebrated not tolerated men.

  • @truthseekingfreethinker5214
    @truthseekingfreethinker5214 3 месяца назад +17

    If you observe the big picture. Women have taken men for granted for so long that they now have unrealistic high demands for men and congratulate themselves for being basic and doing the bare minimum.
    Mens natural inclination is to provide and protect but there has to be a point when a man says no more, and we missed that point about 20 years ago. We are reaping the consequences of yesteryear men placing undeserving women on pedestals.

    • @crw3673
      @crw3673 3 месяца назад +2

      You nailed it!
      All these 90's video and reality TV shows, showing entertainers and athletes, spending ridiculous amounts of money has delusion alize lot of people! Men and women.
      So twenty years later the whole system is messed up.

    • @SaaayUNCLE
      @SaaayUNCLE 3 месяца назад

      They truly won't value men until they are forced to. When all they lights in the world go out you will see who's who 😂

  • @heruapocalypse2021
    @heruapocalypse2021 3 месяца назад +8

    She doesn't want certain expectations of Her! But have issue at all putting expectations on Men though 🤔

  • @icemanbtlr25
    @icemanbtlr25 3 месяца назад +11

    It be the gaslighting for me

  • @jakesmith1273
    @jakesmith1273 3 месяца назад +6

    A never ending money pit

  • @Mayo2014
    @Mayo2014 3 месяца назад +6

    Lmao Amanda lowkey throwing shots at Erin .. but I also can see a man saying she is annoying and too argumentative like shut up man

  • @crw3673
    @crw3673 3 месяца назад +4

    Social media the internet and reality TV like the bachelor and the bachelorette have distorted the concept of dating!
    Every average chick thinks she a boss lady and deserves a high income man.
    When realistically you are a average girl, with a average to no job and feel you should be living the life of the women you see on TV. Like the bachelorette, women of Atlanta and ladies of Miami.
    The sad part is the delusion is spreading fast and quick!😮

  • @DaddyWarBucks
    @DaddyWarBucks 3 месяца назад +5

    All sounds good till these chicks next u because u didn’t do the expensive date thing

  • @mr.dccomics9018
    @mr.dccomics9018 3 месяца назад +7

    Relationship fails because they grew up in a single parent unit. They never got to see mom and dad in a healthy relationship. And if the example is not their to be replicated how can you expect a single parent kid to value relationship.
    Instead of being influenced by the family unit they are going to be influenced by the streets or whatever is on TV.

    • @crw3673
      @crw3673 3 месяца назад +4

      Perfectly said! How can a girl know how to treat a husband, if she didn't have a father at home to see the example?
      How can a boy know how to treat his wife, if he never saw the reaction between father and mother?
      This is the reason why marriages are failing now!
      Single motherhood is a bad continuess reaction from generation to generation.

    • @death24314
      @death24314 3 месяца назад +1

      ​@@crw3673well said

  • @Blackchucky23
    @Blackchucky23 2 месяца назад +2

    problem is most women swear they a 10 ...... stop the cap

  • @ColdIce99
    @ColdIce99 3 месяца назад +1

    If you have to spend a lot of money on a woman then that means SHE DOESN’T LIKE YOU.

  • @ChristopherGeorge_photography
    @ChristopherGeorge_photography 3 месяца назад +6

    It's not that hard. As a man, if you invite her out, make sure to plan what your pockets can afford. Stop leading with food and find something you like to do besides eat and if y'all vibe, great. If not, move on.

  • @marchollis5547
    @marchollis5547 3 месяца назад +1

    Strangers dating Strangers 😂😂😂

  • @Geeeromeable
    @Geeeromeable 3 месяца назад +1

    Men have rewarded bad behavior what do you expect. The power dynamic is crazy

  • @Realliedoe
    @Realliedoe 13 дней назад

    Women ARE The tables…hear me out.
    There are millions of tables at the furniture stores and WE choose WHAT tables to place our meals and Valuables on!
    Most chicks are tables at IKEA thinking they’re Ashley’s Furniture.
    Fellas, WE bring the MEALS(value)…THEY are just tables(support)! Nowadays, I’ll just eat on my lap!

  • @byrongranger8447
    @byrongranger8447 24 дня назад

    Why this don’t happen in the Mexican community? The woman require a hard working man. He can do Uber eats on a moped and she hustle on the back right with him. I see it all over NYC.

  • @globalnewztv
    @globalnewztv 3 месяца назад +2

    16:07
    TALK TO THEM RICO‼️‼️‼️🔥🏆🔥

  • @theperfectbrother
    @theperfectbrother 3 месяца назад +5

    Dating is beautiful you just have to leave those 8s 9s 10s good to look at but keep it moving those women usually choose you

  • @StratoS_218
    @StratoS_218 28 дней назад

    Women made it impossible to go out on a cheap date

  • @globalnewztv
    @globalnewztv 3 месяца назад

    And stop counting my pockets sis.🔥💯🔥

  • @antmyrick2063
    @antmyrick2063 3 месяца назад +2

    You attract who you are.

  • @ezekielthemack
    @ezekielthemack 3 месяца назад +5

    Erin you are definitely not a 10. You're realistically a 4 - stop the cap and get back down to earth. SMH.

    • @szn1580
      @szn1580 3 месяца назад +2

      They always lie to each other lmao women bruh

    • @death24314
      @death24314 3 месяца назад +1

      Lol yeah she's not ugly but she's definitely not a 10. More like a 6 or 7

  • @make_emfall_inlovee
    @make_emfall_inlovee 2 месяца назад

    Can you keep what you catch 🤔

  • @johndasilva2686
    @johndasilva2686 3 месяца назад +1

    Haha there’s an old saying, their are plenty of fish in the sea . Until the right fish comes along men will happily keep holding their rods.women in the west declared a Cold War against men . For example the me too feminist and modern independent women’s movements assassinated men approaching dating and marrying women in the west. That’s why so many men have become passport brothers.

  • @healingtones2317
    @healingtones2317 Месяц назад +1

    A tip for the guys..
    The women who are REAL would be fine with applebees, cheesecake factories, etc. They are humble and grateful for the date.