Mary’s story is the story of so many black girls in ghettos all over the world who grew up in toxic environments and didn’t know any better. So many of us grow up angry at the world because it’s a defence mechanism from all of the hurt and trauma experienced as young children. I’m glad she has overcome and I remain one of her biggest fans to this day.
exactly 💯 her story was so many women's upbringing in tough areas around drugs abuse etc that's why her music is our therapy our stories and so many others are in her songs.
"When you hate yourself, you draw people to you that hate you too." Wow, that's deep. Through Mary's music, essence, & resilience, she receives my utmost adoration/respect. 👑❤
True story from me. I just had to listen to my life this morning. I have been singing it in my head the entire week and so decided to do a trip down memory lane: Reminiscing, You are certainly beautiful Mary J. Blige and don't allow anyone to steal your joy ever. Look to HIM, " The Man Above" - ALMIGHTY GOD. God bless you and keep you. 😘🤩😍🎁♥️
@@rrg Thank you for the upload . Its clear that Mary is a warrior. She will go down fighting. Her x husband was a con Artist, he used her for her money and she was blinded by his lies and deception.
Kendu said, "It felt like a brother-sister relationship" when they met-I bet it did-with Mary being the big brother provider & Kendu being the needy little sister. So sad Mary was surrounded by toxic leaches. 😣
Mary faced so many challenges. Her perseverance is astonishing. Most ppl would not make it past those circumstances she faced. Glad she conquered her demons and had a turning point. Kendu was a chump for being a cash cow. Still bumping “ALL NIGHT LONG” & “Be Happy” till this day.
1neta Remember Mary was skeptical of Kendu from the jump 🤔🤔🤔 and she let her guard down he was showing her he wanted her and Mary trusted him then HE DROPPED THE BOMB ON HER 😱😱😱
Its a blessing she's still standing. What she has gone through would've broke some people. She's a fighter and a strong woman. Believe me she will find her happiness.
If Method Man wasn't already married I think him and Mary would make a dope couple. But Method Man loves his wife and he ain't leaving her for nobody! That's how a REAL husband should be!
maybe mary is just like 95% of women out there who love when niggas mistreat them and cheat on them, instead of looking to be with a man who would love and respect her.
You can literally feel her pain in her songs. Every time I listen to her songs I break down crying because it brings back painful memories of my life but her music does help me get through life.
True, but God made men the head of the household. He cannot be the leader of he isn't pulling his weight. Thankfully some women are able to support their families.
He was her Manager Dumb ass! That was his lively Hood. Not defending kendu. But Mary's career started to really thrive when she married him. She went on to record her biggest selling album the breakthrough which was written with him in mind. Won multiple Grammys it was him who Got her many of those Paying Gigs as her manager. So when she fired him he had to Get that money back and he did. LOVE Mary but i think she suffers from mental illness as well. She's not perfect, she even dated married men before Kendu like Singer case. She knew he was married when they were together and still tried to be with him KARMA IS A BITCH!!!
I absolutely love MJB, from a child, I thought I was her in high school, Momma allowed me to dye my hair blonde, I dressed like her everything, she was my teenage relationship coach, her music was a healer, Beautiful woman inside and out
Is it sad I just assumed every little girl has this story because it happened to me and I kept meeting girls with some version of the same story. Almost always someone the family trusted was the r*pist. I remember meeting a young woman in college who hadn't been sexually molested before the age of 18 and being so happy she existed.
OMG!!! I love this women!!! she sing the songs that every female goes through because she went through them. You can here it from the heart and soul. One bad black woman.
@@lionelluva thanks l can honestly sayI'm not bitter. I never been in love and I'm ok with it. Not ONE decent dude has ever hit on me. And if no one decent is meant for me than I'm ok being alone. All my life I have had self esteem issues.... and for once in my lifetime l have come around to learn l deserve better. It's not the end of the world for not having "man"...
Rocket Groot I was saying my heart got bitter. I’ve never been in love either but I’ve been in strong like plenty of times. Have faith that true love will find you in its time.
love hope that is still a lot of money. I read up why he wanted 130k, he wanted her to pay for child support for another woman’s child and pay for his parents luxury nursing home, plus some for 1000 for shoes every month. It is absolutely ridiculous. This guy is psycho.
I always knew she was a strong and remarkable woman. Now, I have a deeper appreciation and understanding of who Mary Jane Blige truly is. I love Mary and her music even more. 👑❤️ Thank you so much for sharing her incredible story.
Mary is my Capricorn sista. We have been through some of the same heartbreaks, betrayal, and violations. I am proud to see this Queen come out on top despite all the triumphs. She has continued to rise to the top effortlessly. 👸🏾🙏🏽
That white woman hosting the show was being evil, such a nasty, horrible bitch. This was in 1995 when Mary and Jodeci both toured the UK. She planned to humiliate Mary on live TV, you could see it broke Mary's heart. I love me some Jodeci but K-ci was such an ignorant dimwitted munt, a pathetic excuse for a black man. smfh!!
Mary should have listened to her first mind when Kendu was chasing her. Her intuition was trying to tell her. She needed to be in rehab and therapy and not a relationship. He took advantage of her vulnerable state...he controlled and manipulated her all those years. Glad she got out and living her best life...love yourself and God all you really need .
The fact that Kacey can literally say him and Mary were never that serious but in the same breath say he gave her a ring (in which he never planned on marrying her as if she’s supposed to know that) , and spent 12 years together. These men were evil.
I had to pause the video because I came looking for this comment(or another one like it). Baby when I tell you I had to cover my mouth so I wouldn't holler at work. I'm done...
In the words of Biggie, "[she] turned all of that negative into a positive." MJB is a success and remains at the top of her game. Boom. Sometimes relationships don't work out. Life goes on.
Her music speaks volumes.... her songs are universal ❤️❤️❤️. I wish she would do a biopic movie of her life and write it herself. Her story needs to be told on the big screen!
Starr Williams right. I’m trying to get the timeline straight. 1991 until when? I just knew that her 1999 album duet with him which was recorded separately was confirmation that she’d been over Kci.
They weren't together that long they broke up in '97 during the "Share My World" era... And he said that there was no talks of marriage which was a lie when clearly he gave her a ring
I love the gift that she shared with the world...her precious voice. May God bless you MJB. I hope all of the bad wounds from life will be healed by God.
If KC wasn't so "in love" with Mary, why did he stalk her throughout her entire marriage to Kendu... Why did he make a video with a woman with blonde hair, dressed like Mary with the song entitled "I'm sorry" why did he talk about Mary's husband on stage at every concert saying that Kendu don't love her the way he does... Ha men are jokes
Dam sounds like he missed her, and he treated her like crap just to keep his bad boy image, but I bet she surprised him by who she decided to be in her circumstance.
Mary J is like any other woman who has struggled in her love life. The only difference is she makes amazing music when she goes through heartbreak that touches us and helps us through our bad breakups. My wish for her is that she has learned to love herself. As Whitney Houston said “Learning to love yourself it is the greatest love of all”. I don’t believe in looking for a man or prince to suddenly bring love into my life. Women have to learn to do that for themselves. We need to be happy being single and ask God for the gift of discernment so when a man tries to enter our lives, we can make a wise decision as to whether he is worthy or not. Love Mary J 💜
It's crazy how now you can see the drug abuse going on. Back then they hid it so well. Things were nothing like it is now where you find out rumors and things so easily. She would wear sunglasses and hats , back then we thought it was so cool. Well I did. I was a big fan of Mary's. I bought all her albums up until she got with Kendu. The music just wasn't that good after him imo. But I wore the hats, sunglasses, just like her thinking it was cool. Only to find out a few years later it was to hide her substance and alcohol abuse.
Plus back in those days we weren't so exposed to them as in terms of social media. Back then we would only see them in concerts, tv interviews, music videos or magazines so it was not easy to see their drug use.
I will always have respect for MJB her album My Life helped me get through a deep depression and I was only a teenager🥲 I play that album to this day when I am down. ❤
Me too.... my life album is musical therapy for me when I'm down and out don't know what to do...that album like magic never fails to get me back right. Thank you so much mary ❤ you blessed us with that one.
AS I PSYCHOLOGIST I SEE A BROKEN WOMAN WHO HAS NOT FULLY HEALED FROM PAST TRAUMA..... UNTIL SHE DOES SHE WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO TRULY LOVE AND ACCEPT HERSELF.... ONCE THIS HAS TRANSPIRED THAN SHE WILL ATTRACT A GOOD MAN..... 👍🏽🙏🏽 #prayingforher
Starr Williams Psychologists do not give unsolicited advice and/or this type of response publicly. We go through the proper assessments in order to draw conclusions about “our” patients. That would be the ethical course of action.
To bad there aren't many good black men most of us are forced to date outside our race for me its a hard pass unfortunately all I want is a strong honest stand black man 😢
To me it sounds like Mary likes to drag out dead relationships. There definitely are illusions surrounding her relationships. Some people with narcissistic traits love to play the victim. She has money, she could have went to therapy and worked on self love and self healing. We all have to learn our way some how. But damn this has been the story of her whole life, abusive, toxic relationships.
Why? Why? Why??? She is one of my favorite artists. I so want her to find that unconditional love, and to really learn to love herself unconditionally. Too many of us can relate.
Her music was the anthem of my high school days ❤❤ I hope someday someone comes along & loves her the way she deserves. No fairytales, just love she can rely on.
I’ve heard about her story before and certain aspects saddens me but she’s so strong to the core and I love her. I’m honestly happy you’ve made a video on her life. We trust your videos because you stick to the facts.
I truly hope she learns to love herself cause know one can love you more than yourself,if a man see your vulnerable he’s gonna take advantage.never buy them they will hang around til you broke then they will go to the next vulnerable ones of women do men the same way but you have to be smart enough not to let it happen to you,if your always giving and the partners not get out before your broke.
If I were Bill Gates' rich and famous, I'll be happily single because I can't split my money with no broke guy when our marriage go south. I would leave my money to family I trusted and charity.
apparently mary & kci had argued before their performance of “i don’t wanna do anything else” and that’s why they were looking at each other oddly during at certain moments.
I watched Mary J. Blige's "My Life" documentary which inspired me to want to buy her music. So far, I bought three, which included My Life because of the people in the documentary who talked about how she saved their life. It's so sad that someone that through all the rough edges, she seems truly down to earth. I have become intrigued by her life and struggles and hope that she finds someone who will love her for her and through the layers, she's built to protect herself. I'm rooting for you, Mary.
@Markus Mcneil I get the impression that you may be confused as to what I'm saying. As women, we go through heartbreaks, I just recently experienced one, and for me, as a woman, I want to hear about another woman's pain that I can relate to. When I listen to other women artists, such as Mary, it's because for the most part it may be something that they sing about that I can relate to.
Wow what a story! She is a strong woman and a survivor. I love her and her music. She is beautiful on the inside and out. Proud of you. Hold onto to your testimony.
Tinaverret internet Facebook Savannah Christian radio go ahead tell you put your police report on me Urban forget what you mean did she went to somebody my MetroCard nobody want to make sure her car that was chewing toll I watch old man spell Maggi Cube and watch your man but not your fault but I tell you one day he will go back to him with your man. Baby albino trust really don't tell your vision is you're getting the Facebook and she said y'all call her don't don't rush over your man don't tell your bigger too hot if you actually told Joe all kind of love. You mean find Joe Biden house but don't tell your brother to her nothing don't tell me nothing don't need to contact with her on the Facebook nothing but Dream Hotel Yorba everybody. Everybody people don't touch don't touch don't touch nothing don't need to contact with her login to Facebook with her don't you can't have nothing but you say tomato alive kabali homemade chili don't contact with her tomato plants before me or no and don't try her Lego man I don't care you're bigger to her and
I absolutely love the strength that the 1 & only Queen of Hip Hop MJB has. Mary is simply amazing, it takes courage to pick yourself up when you fall down in front of others. Far to often insecure, jealous, envious hatters are will go above and beyond trying to hurt others. Thankfully over the years I’ve been able to enjoy listening to all of MJB’s music over and over again . MJB’s music has been more than a shoulder for me to lean on.
THIS IS THE BEST EPISODE..WE LOVE MARY💖💖💖
RETRO BABE Coupon Deals and Savings yes indeed 🌹
Thanks so much for watching ❤️❤️
💕💕💕 yes we do!!!
Yes indeed
I see her with nas last summer and 2 years before that.
“When you hate yourself, you attract people who hate you too” 💔
😔
Well said
This hit me in my soul... So profound!!
Mary is a man...lol People are dummies...she is worn out.....a sellout allegedly...don't get mad...
😭😭😭😭
Imagine being in a 12 year relationship with someone who says "they were not as serious as people thought" Jesus wow. Hoping for the best for her ❤
Try
Right?!? What a trash, clown ass man 🤣🤣🤣 that’s such a ridiculous thing to say
He's a liar
Right 12 years is fucking serious!!
Diddy dragged Cassie for ten years
No one ever mentions how physically beautiful this woman is. I was always so proud of her journey 😊
That's what a real queen look like God bless you
She should have played Etta James.
I know Right! She's gorgeous 😍😍😍
Mary’s story is the story of so many black girls in ghettos all over the world who grew up in toxic environments and didn’t know any better. So many of us grow up angry at the world because it’s a defence mechanism from all of the hurt and trauma experienced as young children.
I’m glad she has overcome and I remain one of her biggest fans to this day.
exactly 💯 her story was so many women's upbringing in tough areas around drugs abuse etc that's why her music is our therapy our stories and so many others are in her songs.
Same here.
not just the ghetto
"When you hate yourself, you draw people to you that hate you too." Wow, that's deep. Through Mary's music, essence, & resilience, she receives my utmost adoration/respect. 👑❤
It is so true because when you don't love yourself you'll allow any and everything to come into your life to wreak havoc.
Mary J. Blige is a true living legend.
Mary J is undoubtedly the queen of hip hop soul, a legend, an icon, a winner, inspired so many. We cant ''be without you''
Yesss! 👑
Most beautiful comment ever!!!!
True story from me. I just had to listen to my life this morning. I have been singing it in my head the entire week and so decided to do a trip down memory lane: Reminiscing, You are certainly beautiful Mary J. Blige and don't allow anyone to steal your joy ever. Look to HIM, " The Man Above" - ALMIGHTY GOD. God bless you and keep you. 😘🤩😍🎁♥️
She’s been through so much she’s such a strong woman I hope she finds the happiness she deserves one day
We hope so too!
@@rrg Thank you for the upload . Its clear that Mary is a warrior. She will go down fighting. Her x husband was a con Artist, he used her for her money and she was blinded by his lies and deception.
I hope so too. She was broken for a long time, but I can sense the genuineness in her. Real love will find her one day ❤.
She gave these men 24 years of her life my God. I am so happy that I drop them fast AF.
Kendu said, "It felt like a brother-sister relationship" when they met-I bet it did-with Mary being the big brother provider & Kendu being the needy little sister. So sad Mary was surrounded by toxic leaches. 😣
No wonder her songs were so good, she had several first hand accounts.
Mary always wore her emotions on her sleeves. Everything that she was going through she put it all in the music
@@joshuamcdowell5782 Facts!
His Wife
stormb28 she always got a story to tell lol.
The best music comes from pain
Mary faced so many challenges. Her perseverance is astonishing. Most ppl would not make it past those circumstances she faced. Glad she conquered her demons and had a turning point. Kendu was a chump for being a cash cow. Still bumping “ALL NIGHT LONG” & “Be Happy” till this day.
Well said, Mary has always been a warrior of life!. She is a ongoing fighter.
1neta
Remember Mary was skeptical of Kendu from the jump 🤔🤔🤔 and she let her guard down he was showing her he wanted her and Mary trusted him then HE DROPPED THE BOMB ON HER 😱😱😱
she had those footprints walking alongside her the whole time.
Also Mary have a lot of support. It's when people don't have that is when they succumb to issues.
There's MANY who faced all of that and more without the fame and fortune. Lol
Mary is such a strong woman. She’s been through a lot and come a long way....
Its a blessing she's still standing. What she has gone through would've broke some people. She's a fighter and a strong woman. Believe me she will find her happiness.
If Method Man wasn't already married I think him and Mary would make a dope couple. But Method Man loves his wife and he ain't leaving her for nobody! That's how a REAL husband should be!
He took him several decades to get that way. He stayed cheating.
@@jasminacortezonline So true. Method was cheating on her with multiple different women during his prime with Wu Tang Clan and later on.
@@maniwatson5503 ...I'm sure he has but he still stayed by her side at the end of the day. P.S. not saying cheating should be acceptable.
@@misss.162 Cheating is not acceptable at all. If I was her I would of left him in the heartbeat.
@@maniwatson5503 ...girl me too but I think her having cancer might've scared him and made him appreciate her.
Her story taught me that self love is the best thing you can do for yourself. Thanks Mary
‘Real Love’
Poor Mary.....these men don’t want to be in a relationship, but want to get the benefits of being with her.
Don't want to be in a relationship with HER but yeah,take full advantage of the benefits & lavish lifestyle
Tell me about it. I'm living it now
She’s probably broken. Her choice in men may be bad as well.
@Nina Dollard Now you all know how the Guy's feel bout this 🙄
@My Thought's Yes they are
It sucks that mary hasn't found someone that truly loves and care for her but maybe someday it could happen!! I wish her the very best!! ❤️
Waifu DomoTron “maybe someday “. 😂😂😂
@@envyallison926 I'm no psychic!! 🤷🏾♀️😅
She is dating a African billionaire.
maybe mary is just like 95% of women out there who love when niggas mistreat them and cheat on them, instead of looking to be with a man who would love and respect her.
Good people always end up lonly
You can literally feel her pain in her songs. Every time I listen to her songs I break down crying because it brings back painful memories of my life but her music does help me get through life.
A man shouldn’t make a woman love him when knowing fully well he is going to leave her someday...
Man that's all I wanted to say
Nah ppl gotta learn how to control their emotions...Mary ain't no saint now.
Nothing last forever. Feelings change.
Mary has sung the song of so many womens lives over the years! She is a true icon!⚘
A man with nothing going for himself and lives off of women is not a man at all he's basically a kid
Deasia Williams exactly
Same applies with women.
True, but God made men the head of the household. He cannot be the leader of he isn't pulling his weight. Thankfully some women are able to support their families.
@@iyshamelton9464 :-(
He was her Manager Dumb ass! That was his lively Hood. Not defending kendu. But Mary's career started to really thrive when she married him. She went on to record her biggest selling album the breakthrough which was written with him in mind. Won multiple Grammys it was him who Got her many of those Paying Gigs as her manager. So when she fired him he had to Get that money back and he did. LOVE Mary but i think she suffers from mental illness as well. She's not perfect, she even dated married men before Kendu like Singer case. She knew he was married when they were together and still tried to be with him KARMA IS A BITCH!!!
Wow she’s won 9 Grammies 💪🏿👸🏿
That's right because she is the queen of Hip-Hop soul
@@isaiahwinbrone what was @aish thinking 🤷🏾♀️ that's MJB
She deserves it 💙
She deserved it. She worked hard
Well deserved!
Mary has always used her pain to make the best hits. Still looks amazing ❤️❤️❤️
When you pick the "Bible" up, Never put it back down.
Amen proundly true
You will NEVER find MJB looking ratchet. Always looking classy. Never showed off her body. MJB been through alot
U must not no old Mary j blige when she was on drugs
She’s the bomb!
@@DemiKaylahWilson Ok and?. She's human, Human beings make mistakes. She's not on drugs anymore, she always is and Always will be Classy.
She always showed her body off... Where have you been?
@@trawlins396 Same thing....
She called her family evil, jealous, ignorant and hateful. Reminds me of my own damn family...
My family as well.
The same
Shenyae Turner Hello!!
Same
Same 😰
I absolutely love MJB, from a child, I thought I was her in high school, Momma allowed me to dye my hair blonde, I dressed like her everything, she was my teenage relationship coach, her music was a healer, Beautiful woman inside and out
Every song is me I'm her slot of women are but she has become one of if not the best singer ever so I believe she has overcome all that love you Mary
She is a strong powerful black woman. That didn't let her abuse destroy her. She stayed 💪.
I teared up at the end. I love how you depicted her story.
Aww thanks so much for watching 💕
Like how come hardly no one talks about how literally gorgeous Mary really is 😍😍😍💜💜💜💜
Yaaaaaas Lakacia Lloyd!!💜💜💜
Jerron Jackson yes
Exactly
Absolutely stunning.
Because she not high yella!!!! HollyWeird
To bad her suspicions of Kendu ( being too good to be true ) were right all along ..
shunniepoo and he wasn’t good at all
@@isidoraveronica ....and he was never cute!
We have intuition for a reason...have to get still and listen.
Gina Cleveland lol right. He only had cute eyes.
shunniepoo And he is a Leo man they have many bad characteristics..
My girl shrugged that disrespect off like a boss.. “ we not getting married now” 4:14
Bbooooooommmmm! Its funny how we speak things into existence.
Lifestyle of Jenna and Andrew sure did.😆✌🏾💪🏾
No. She was visibly hurt and shaken. She did her best attempt at shrugging it off.
Actually, she was hurt and shook
@@lawdhammercy4448 Yes she was and after that public embarrassment she should've walked away from KC for good.
Nobody wants to be strong all the time though. Love and light to Mary I wish her all the love she deserves ❤️
The amount of sexual assaults on young children is horrifying. I just finished watching Queen Latifah's video...same story.
Is it sad I just assumed every little girl has this story because it happened to me and I kept meeting girls with some version of the same story. Almost always someone the family trusted was the r*pist. I remember meeting a young woman in college who hadn't been sexually molested before the age of 18 and being so happy she existed.
People are fkn sick and they’re trying to normalize it and I’m not going for it
Kendu was chasing her money not her 😠😠
Sounds like it...
Sinsear Jones fact
The devil comes in many forms.We definitely have to be very cautious in this f......up world .god blessed his real children.YAH .
....and he was never cute!😡
@Sinsear Jones Women do the same from time.... 🤐
OMG!!! I love this women!!! she sing the songs that every female goes through because she went through them. You can here it from the heart and soul. One bad black woman.
🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾
MJB is a shero to me. I’m sorry she married a loser of a man that’s looking for a handout.
Ikr SMDH is this how men are these days?????? If so l don't want one I do bad all by myself IJS 🤔
Rocket Groot Don’t say that honey. I’ve said that before and my heart got bitter. Now, I pray and let God bring the right man to me.
@@lionelluva thanks l can honestly sayI'm not bitter. I never been in love and I'm ok with it. Not ONE decent dude has ever hit on me. And if no one decent is meant for me than I'm ok being alone. All my life I have had self esteem issues.... and for once in my lifetime l have come around to learn l deserve better. It's not the end of the world for not having "man"...
Rocket Groot I was saying my heart got bitter. I’ve never been in love either but I’ve been in strong like plenty of times. Have faith that true love will find you in its time.
Like sooooo many blk men.:-(
I have ALWAYS and WILL ALWAYS love my sister, Mary!
She is truly a woman of strength! 🌹💞🦋
Her music help me get through some heavy things when I was in my early 20s,I just turned 35 yesterday.so glad she good now like I'm good now
He wanted 130k a month? And he doesn’t have a job. Wow the nerve of this man.
The nerve of that ninja
She paying him 30 thousand to the unuptial spousal
He took Whendy advice, ask high lol
He ain't no man.... ain't got no job.. get a job you useless worthless POS!!!! Expecting a woman to take care of yo' no account/ no integrity ass!!!
love hope that is still a lot of money. I read up why he wanted 130k, he wanted her to pay for child support for another woman’s child and pay for his parents luxury nursing home, plus some for 1000 for shoes every month. It is absolutely ridiculous. This guy is psycho.
Some ppl aren't lucky with love but she should never give up on ❤love
Stephanie White I feel that
People are fools for love and love only cares for love . Corona and love let's never meet 🤒😷
I agree..
I so agree. Some people really struggle to find something real...sometimes most of their life.
I know I sure haven't been!!!
Love Mary J and always rooting for her to find real unconditional love. True R&B soul legend 🙌💯😎👍
Thanh Mai Yessssssss!!
I always knew she was a strong and remarkable woman. Now, I have a deeper appreciation and understanding of who Mary Jane Blige truly is. I love Mary and her music even more. 👑❤️ Thank you so much for sharing her incredible story.
Mary is my Capricorn sista. We have been through some of the same heartbreaks, betrayal, and violations. I am proud to see this Queen come out on top despite all the triumphs. She has continued to rise to the top effortlessly. 👸🏾🙏🏽
Yass 🎉
man I felt that hurt when that shady talk show showed her that clip of KCi denying their relationship.
Never even seen that before like damn kc was crazy
That white woman hosting the show was being evil, such a nasty, horrible bitch. This was in 1995 when Mary and Jodeci both toured the UK. She planned to humiliate Mary on live TV, you could see it broke Mary's heart. I love me some Jodeci but K-ci was such an ignorant dimwitted munt, a pathetic excuse for a black man. smfh!!
@@Boomslang1 God is merciful though because he sucked all of KC's vocal chords from him 😂
Ms. Perfectly Imperfect Baby, I hollered!!! 😂😂😂
@@Boomslang1 I agree. I felt that, too.
She is definitely the Queen of Pain
I don’t like this. 😔
What a terrible "compliment"
Mary should have listened to her first mind when Kendu was chasing her. Her intuition was trying to tell her. She needed to be in rehab and therapy and not a relationship. He took advantage of her vulnerable state...he controlled and manipulated her all those years. Glad she got out and living her best life...love yourself and God all you really need .
As women we always have that 6ths sense and we ignore it.
Trust your gut
If he was putting her down, the words are Not "he is being disrespectful," that is abuseful.
if you gonna be a nun yeah, seems about right.
At the end of all that... Mary is doing fine, fine, fine 😊
The fact that Kacey can literally say him and Mary were never that serious but in the same breath say he gave her a ring (in which he never planned on marrying her as if she’s supposed to know that) , and spent 12 years together. These men were evil.
Mary deserved better.
She got treated badly by black men all of her life.
Not just her.. many many blk women...
Shay A Amen
Me 2 but the lessons we learned is priceless.
@@Chitownhomestead We're speaking of Mary J. at this moment
As a black.man sista this shit hurts me Iove my sistas
That Viola Davis meme was hilarious!!! Now you KNOW Kendu was NOT seeing Queen Latifah. RRG, y'all shady lmaoo.
😂😂😂
GIRL, yes!! 😹😹😹😹😹😹
Right!!!!!😁
I had to pause the video because I came looking for this comment(or another one like it). Baby when I tell you I had to cover my mouth so I wouldn't holler at work. I'm done...
Kendu never wanted her he simply used a different route to gain her trust and went for the bag in which he succeeded smh
"How can I love somebody else, when I can't love myself enough to know, when it's time, time to let go"
MJB had it rough ,what doesn't kill you makes you Stronger,❤Mary ......
In the words of Biggie, "[she] turned all of that negative into a positive." MJB is a success and remains at the top of her game. Boom. Sometimes relationships don't work out. Life goes on.
50 something years old looking a glowy 25
That pretty much summed it up. I'm glad she is healed, happy, and moved forward. ☺️💯❤️
I love Mary J Blige i can relate to her music.
Mary J....you pulled me thru some dark times, when I was ready to end living. Your music was healing. Thank you Mary J ❤
Her music speaks volumes.... her songs are universal ❤️❤️❤️. I wish she would do a biopic movie of her life and write it herself. Her story needs to be told on the big screen!
“””12””” YEARS WITH THE SAME MAN AND NO DISCUSSION OF MARRIAGE OR FUTURE TOGETHER 🤦🏽♀️ #marymarymary
Starr Williams crazy
Starr Williams right. I’m trying to get the timeline straight. 1991 until when? I just knew that her 1999 album duet with him which was recorded separately was confirmation that she’d been over Kci.
THE POP CORN WILL NOT LAST TILL THE END OF THE MOVIE..
They weren't together that long they broke up in '97 during the "Share My World" era... And he said that there was no talks of marriage which was a lie when clearly he gave her a ring
Do you know how many women do this??? Tons and they ain't even the girlfriend, they just interviewing to be the girlfriend still 🙄
Then she married that snake...Mary needs let go of anything inside her and learn to love herself...
she definitely did
I love the gift that she shared with the world...her precious voice. May God bless you MJB. I hope all of the bad wounds from life will be healed by God.
If KC wasn't so "in love" with Mary, why did he stalk her throughout her entire marriage to Kendu... Why did he make a video with a woman with blonde hair, dressed like Mary with the song entitled "I'm sorry" why did he talk about Mary's husband on stage at every concert saying that Kendu don't love her the way he does... Ha men are jokes
KC is a man who stopped growing at 15. Emotional toddler.
Dam sounds like he missed her, and he treated her like crap just to keep his bad boy image, but I bet she surprised him by who she decided to be in her circumstance.
Unbelievable SMH
I didnt know he did that...
That doesn’t mean he’s in love with her. He did all that to regain access and control over her
Mary J is like any other woman who has struggled in her love life. The only difference is she makes amazing music when she goes through heartbreak that touches us and helps us through our bad breakups. My wish for her is that she has learned to love herself. As Whitney Houston said “Learning to love yourself it is the greatest love of all”. I don’t believe in looking for a man or prince to suddenly bring love into my life. Women have to learn to do that for themselves. We need to be happy being single and ask God for the gift of discernment so when a man tries to enter our lives, we can make a wise decision as to whether he is worthy or not. Love Mary J 💜
@LadyTea I don't comment but YES and AMEN!
You are so right! I wish her the best!
It's crazy how now you can see the drug abuse going on. Back then they hid it so well. Things were nothing like it is now where you find out rumors and things so easily. She would wear sunglasses and hats , back then we thought it was so cool. Well I did. I was a big fan of Mary's. I bought all her albums up until she got with Kendu. The music just wasn't that good after him imo. But I wore the hats, sunglasses, just like her thinking it was cool. Only to find out a few years later it was to hide her substance and alcohol abuse.
Autumn Sunsets it was actually quite apparent that they were on drugs. From their behavior down to the sunglasses.
Plus back in those days we weren't so exposed to them as in terms of social media. Back then we would only see them in concerts, tv interviews, music videos or magazines so it was not easy to see their drug use.
KC did Mary J a favor.
True
I will always have respect for MJB her album My Life helped me get through a deep depression and I was only a teenager🥲 I play that album to this day when I am down. ❤
Gosh that’s beautiful ❤ I do something similar…when she sings her pain on this is me, my soul feels uplifted ❤ love to you!
Me too.... my life album is musical therapy for me when I'm down and out don't know what to do...that album like magic never fails to get me back right. Thank you so much mary ❤ you blessed us with that one.
Such a sad life...she is such a pretty and talented lady. Too often woman don't realize their God-given gifts. I wish her a peaceful, blessed life.
AS I PSYCHOLOGIST I SEE A BROKEN WOMAN WHO HAS NOT FULLY HEALED FROM PAST TRAUMA..... UNTIL SHE DOES SHE WILL NEVER BE ABLE TO TRULY LOVE AND ACCEPT HERSELF.... ONCE THIS HAS TRANSPIRED THAN SHE WILL ATTRACT A GOOD MAN..... 👍🏽🙏🏽 #prayingforher
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Or woman..... So quickly people jump to bash men and dont even acknowledge toxic gay relationships between women. 😒
Starr Williams Psychologists do not give unsolicited advice and/or this type of response publicly. We go through the proper assessments in order to draw conclusions about “our” patients. That would be the ethical course of action.
💯💯💯
I'm working on healing my past wounds and making peace within myself and father. It's pretty hard but, I'm taking it day by day.
This woman is amazing phenomenal a true queen 👸🏽
My reaction was the exact same when the part “ She thought him and Queen Latifah was a couple” 😒😂
😂😂😂
Viola and that dang purse!!! 🤣🤣🤣
I was like....shade from heaven.....lawd.....
Keemy Lashay i know, really girl!
She must didn't know 😂😂
MARY J DESERVES A REAL MAN THAT WILL TREAT HER LIKE THE QUEEN SHE IS
To bad there aren't many good black men most of us are forced to date outside our race for me its a hard pass unfortunately all I want is a strong honest stand black man 😢
I'm rooting for you Mary. Love heals all wounds. You are amazing.
Me too
That's my girl. I wish I could meet her in person.
Yessss i Love Mary
me too I love Mary
Dating for 12 years and the relationship wasn’t serious?! Smh 🤦🏾♀️
To me it sounds like Mary likes to drag out dead relationships. There definitely are illusions surrounding her relationships. Some people with narcissistic traits love to play the victim. She has money, she could have went to therapy and worked on self love and self healing. We all have to learn our way some how. But damn this has been the story of her whole life, abusive, toxic relationships.
@@elnoor3392 desperate women love staying with toxic men
She should have been left
@@millymilly8264 Mary wasn't desperate she just thought they both were in love.
Exactly tf outta here Kci
Too bad social media wasn't out @ 4:19 she would've found out beforehand and saw the clip of K-Ci and prevented that humiliation.
Yes you’re right, and the talk show was so foul for putting her on the spot like that. You could really see how hurt she was.
@@rrg ...yeah, they were! She should've walked out!
Why? Why? Why???
She is one of my favorite artists. I so want her to find that unconditional love, and to really learn to love herself unconditionally.
Too many of us can relate.
Her music was the anthem of my high school days ❤❤ I hope someday someone comes along & loves her the way she deserves. No fairytales, just love she can rely on.
I respect this woman and I love her music but could always feel the pain she was going through. I wish her nothing but the best in future endeavors..
Lol she thought queen Latifah was in a relationship with a man
Louis Payan no she’s a lesbian
Back then, no one really knew the truth. Ijs.
I love her!!! Women go thru sooooo much & always feels alone
Tell me about it...
Truth
Frfr
ughhhh yes
That's my girl.I don't care what nobody says ,about her ,she has been my strength through her music.❤❤❤❤❤👸👸👸👸👸👸
Your content, is by far one of my favorite things to watch on RUclips.
Three years old and it still hits.
Thank you.
Wow, thanks!
I’ve heard about her story before and certain aspects saddens me but she’s so strong to the core and I love her. I’m honestly happy you’ve made a video on her life. We trust your videos because you stick to the facts.
I truly hope she learns to love herself cause know one can love you more than yourself,if a man see your vulnerable he’s gonna take advantage.never buy them they will hang around til you broke then they will go to the next vulnerable ones of women do men the same way but you have to be smart enough not to let it happen to you,if your always giving and the partners not get out before your broke.
She does. She even forgave her family and KC who sung to her mom last year for her birthday.
Love Mary but always got a tortured soul vibe from her. I hope she finds the peace and happiness she deserves. Such a strong and resilient woman.
I would never marry a poor man, if I was rich.
I love you Mary J your strength, what they meant for bad, God meant for good, praise God
If I were Bill Gates' rich and famous, I'll be happily single because I can't split my money with no broke guy when our marriage go south. I would leave my money to family I trusted and charity.
LikeFirst THEN-Reply he’s leaving his to charity too sis 😂😂😂 he told his kids they will not be in his will.
Bill Gates is married
Listen... I'm gonna be rich... And I'll be in a long term relationship like Oprah... No marriage
@@raymondfields3562 we know
apparently mary & kci had argued before their performance of “i don’t wanna do anything else” and that’s why they were looking at each other oddly during at certain moments.
Makes sense
🗣🗣My Life is one of the best albums of all time, PERIODT!! Complete masterpiece, no skips, so good. I love Mary!!!
Right !!!!!
I just want to hug her help her heal and thank her for being strong and a good role model for women out there❤️🥰
I watched Mary J. Blige's "My Life" documentary which inspired me to want to buy her music. So far, I bought three, which included My Life because of the people in the documentary who talked about how she saved their life. It's so sad that someone that through all the rough edges, she seems truly down to earth. I have become intrigued by her life and struggles and hope that she finds someone who will love her for her and through the layers, she's built to protect herself. I'm rooting for you, Mary.
@Markus Mcneil can you elaborate?
@Markus Mcneil I get the impression that you may be confused as to what I'm saying. As women, we go through heartbreaks, I just recently experienced one, and for me, as a woman, I want to hear about another woman's pain that I can relate to. When I listen to other women artists, such as Mary, it's because for the most part it may be something that they sing about that I can relate to.
She's strong, everybody love her.
Video was emotional 😭 So Glad she kicked those 🐕 To Thee Curb 💪
Wow what a story! She is a strong woman and a survivor. I love her and her music. She is beautiful on the inside and out. Proud of you. Hold onto to your testimony.
Tinaverret internet Facebook Savannah Christian radio go ahead tell you put your police report on me Urban forget what you mean did she went to somebody my MetroCard nobody want to make sure her car that was chewing toll I watch old man spell Maggi Cube and watch your man but not your fault but I tell you one day he will go back to him with your man. Baby albino trust really don't tell your vision is you're getting the Facebook and she said y'all call her don't don't rush over your man don't tell your bigger too hot if you actually told Joe all kind of love. You mean find Joe Biden house but don't tell your brother to her nothing don't tell me nothing don't need to contact with her on the Facebook nothing but Dream Hotel Yorba everybody. Everybody people don't touch don't touch don't touch nothing don't need to contact with her login to Facebook with her don't you can't have nothing but you say tomato alive kabali homemade chili don't contact with her tomato plants before me or no and don't try her Lego man I don't care you're bigger to her and
I absolutely love the strength that the 1 & only Queen of Hip Hop MJB has.
Mary is simply amazing, it takes courage to pick yourself up when you fall down in front of others.
Far to often insecure, jealous, envious hatters are will go above and beyond trying to hurt others. Thankfully over the years I’ve been able to enjoy listening to all of MJB’s music over and over again . MJB’s music has been more than a shoulder for me to lean on.