Matted hair Tragedy ‼️
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- Опубликовано: 20 окт 2021
- 21 brain surgeries… Organs falling out… full story on how her hair matted hair started!
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This is why people need to believe black women when we say we have a problem!! I’m glad she is good.
Yes!! 100% - what if they'd taken her seriously? She could have been spared so much difficulty
I couldn’t even bring up that society treats black women poorly without getting immediately dismissed.
That’s honestly pitiful
I hear u. May I just say that in general people need to scream out until someone listens! Nobody knows your body better that you! My grandfather went into the hospital for a fairly easy procedure although it was a surgery. He had to have surgery done on his knee and that went wonderful. Afterwards he kept telling the nurses and dr about the amount of stomach pain he was in. It was brushed off for almost 3 days as "gas".. When he was finally taken seriously, he died on the operating table bc they opened him up and his appendix had burst. It was too late.
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Some months ago I saw a report on "violence against women in the delivery room" it was mostly about the traumatic stuff that happens in France. I'm pretty shook to hear that it's just as bad in the US. If you're born with a uterus you're pretty much fucked all over the globe I guess.
Her story is exactly what we are taught in Anatomy classes to avoid when dealing with intestines. She absolutely has every right to sue for medical malpractice.
It was so tough to hear and incredibly sad. We need better doctors and doctors who are sensitive and cater to people of all races.
I was in the US Navy for ten years, not even in a medical field, and even I was taught the correct way to handle an injury like that! Every single person on the ship is taught how to triage a handful of severe injuries, one of which is an abdominal wound like she described. Everyone from the cooks to the captain would know that the medical staff she dealt with handled her wound incorrectly. She should absolutely hold that hospital legally accountable
Thank God for courageous women who are willing to share their stories.
The story about the medical negligence she received is horrifying. How hard is it to actually listen to your patient and check their stitches to make sure everything is okay?? I'm glad she's okay now but oh my god!!
Unfortunately that’s common w/ how doctors treat black women. They get ignored and pushed to the side .
Well, my friend had a cyct on a kidney that they've watched since 2016 doctor said Def only a cyst. Nope 2 rare types kidney cancer. She had to go out of state to find out. Other friend was born with a heart defect and is 36. 36yrs of it .. her pacemaker went out and she needed a new one. Her new cardiologist told her her heart problems only exist due to her current weight. Um.. no. I was in a head on with a semi and on a scan they could tumors in my kidneys, ovaries lungs and into my lymph nodes along my lungs. Doc called and told me thw scan was clear. Nothing on it... is it not concerning since my dad died of 2 types of cancer and my mom had cancer? They post test results and when u go back on a couple days later they're changed. I have severe arthritis in my hands at 46 but the radiologist said my hands r fine so the nurse called and told me they are fine so I go in and ask them in person and rheumatologist looks and tells me no it's severe through my hands and fingers. "They just don't think that's important so they don't put it in the results" doc says.. um they're testing me for lupus it's important. It happens all the time. I can't imagine what she went through! This woman is strong! Bless her!!! And this so amazing for her!! What a beautiful soul!!!!❤❤❤❤❤
It's unfortunately common for women in general but ESPECIALLY for women of color.
Cami Parker…not all doctors, you watch too much to much media. I work in a psych hospital and the majority of my patients are white who try to kill themselves. The drs over medicate them, they be on about 7 or more different medications. You just have to be very prayerful in this world regardless of race❤️
@@titaniumbutterfly1443 I have a heartproblem , I never found out until I was 53 years old , then they told me I had that problem from birth, NOBODY ever mentioned in during any of my checkups/hospital stays during those 53 years !
I wanted to say thank you, because seeing you be so compassionate and non-judgemental I've finally felt comfortable to have professional help cleaning my house. It's horribly embarrassing but dealing with life health issues, mental health issues, my house is just as tangled as this woman's hair and I've always been too scared to ask for help. I finally have and our whole family is going to get our life back!
me too!
Well done.
I’m so proud of you!
Congratulations ❤️❤️❤️❤️
I'm in the same situation 🙃house 🏠hoarders I need help .
I was working 70 hours very week for the past 5 months. My worst habit was "I'll brush my hair tomorrow. I don't have time today". Well tomorrow finally happened tonight watching your videos. I lost all hope with my hair. I just kept adding hair tie after hair tie. I had to cut them out. My hair was in a matt on top of my head. I loved my hair. It was down to my butt. I had dyed it my favorite color in hopes to keep it healthier because I wanted to show it off. I stopped talking to my friends because I was embarrassed and didn't want to hang out with them. I almost shaved my head peak depression. But I found your videos and it gave me hope again. I'm on hour 1 of many I'm sure lol Thank you for giving me something I haven't had in a long time. Hope ❤️
How did it go?! I was going to comment and say ask a friend for help, I would love to help a friend going through such a time.
How'd it go!?
hey, u ok? how’d it go?
I get this like once a week too :/ I’m so glad you are working on it :) hope it makes you feel a little better
Let us know how it goes!
I love that she's not ashamed to show her face. Not that I judge anyone who dose. But if you go through this don't be ashamed, life happens.
You are really doing Gods work and livinh in you purpose. May Gof continue to bless the work of your hands!
This woman is very strong and what a great example to her kids - she is a beautiful person, inside and out
No way she is in her 50's! she looks so young! she is simply radiant. her story is beautiful and she is just gorgeous! i am so glad you could help her and that she feels better, thank you for doing this :)
Yes, she looks amazing. It was a pleasure helping her.
@@love518salon Hi! I love your videos and what you do! I was hoping you’d try my suggestion of using Chi silk infusion oil to help with matting! Although I don’t have curly hair... I have overly bleached fine hair that turns “kinky” after showering and has a lot of stretch and shrinkage btw wet to dry. This oil helps me get out the mats that I let build up without much breakage at all! I really hope this helps some of your clients :)))
I haven't heard her age yet in the video and was trying to figure out how old she was with a 20 year old daughter but she looks 30!
Black dont crack
That how my mom is she :54 and looks 19 this woman is so beautiful I didn’t even realize she was 50 tell I saw this comment
I'm not a woman of color, but I'm a chronically ill woman who keeps long hair as one of my last bastions of feminine projections. I fully understand how this lovely woman and some of your other clients have things get out of hand. I am so grateful to the expert women of color who share their wisdom, and I'm going to persevere and try keep my hair through my next two surgeries. I thought about cutting it all - I'm sure it would have been fine, but it would have felt like a defeat, your channel in particular helped me decide that I could do the work needed to "stay myself" throughout. Thank you for helping people feel themselves. This client is so brave in her life, what a lioness!
I hope you’re recovering well and managed to keep your hair 💖
@@jenjen4091 thank you, that's very kind. So far so good.
I wish I had a mother who cared for me like that. This woman is the kind of mother everyone wants.
Sometimes the people in our lives disappoints us because of their own past traumas. Your mother could’ve give you what she didn’t have. It’s time to start caring for yourself and others, since you know how it feels not to have it. Be the mother you wish you had, break the cycle.
As her hair gets untangled, the stories of her medical trauma comes out. This is healing, these stylists are holding the space in such an affirming way. People could just cut the hair and avoid the trouble/time/cost of going to a salon, but there are stories in there that need to be processed and witnessed. And there is a lot of good hair - why not go through the trouble to reclaim what you can.
I hope she sued that hospital pants off…talking about we don’t know how to fix it 😒 smh
It was so raw when she said that people seeing her hair would be like seeing her naked. So glad she found you. Great job.
This woman has been thru hell and back!! A true survivor and conqueror. What a Testimony!! Thank God!!🙌🏾❤❤
I hope she sued that hospital! That is ridiculous. The injustice. I'm beyond upset for her!.. I'm commenting as I'm watching they also tried to kill her baby. I cannot. I'm so glad they have a strong faith in God! May He continue to bless and protect them!
So terrible. The push for abortions, especially in the black community, is terrifying and extremely suspect. Straight evil.
my name is actually Ashley, and I am 26. I lost my mom a few years ago and I miss her so much, she used to call me her miracle baby. When you said that, I broke down in tears, I hope you and your family nothing but happiness, healthiness and so much love. I hope your kids know how much they are loved, Thanks for the reminder of my reality. So very happy you got your sexy back.
She looks so great with her long hair!! I'm glad it was able to be saved!
It's so sad that as a result of medical negligence she had to have her small intestine removed! it must've been traumatic to just see her guts fall out of her. It's beyond me why they couldn't just take a few minutes to check her stitches to make sure nothing was wrong. But honestly, I'm glad she's okay and living her best life now that all that was sorted and her hair is sorted too
So angry at the healthcare system hearing this. It must be legit terrifying to be a black woman having a baby in the US. Healthcare is bad enough when you're a woman, but I know it's even worse for many.
Congrats on getting your sexy back.
I run a patient advocasy org for a group of diseases that primarily affect women, and sadly women of all races are more likely to need medical care (women are 7xs more likely to have an autoimmune dosorder) and also are more likely to be improperly treated. I have literally filed police reports abd called the cops on drs and 1 male nurse. Take an advocate and record everything. It's bad out there.
I rarely comment, but I had to pause to share that I was in an accident with my dad as he was taking me to work. There was a plethora of issues with the both of us in which we could have died if my mom hadn't been as amazing as she is. I was in and out of conciousness after the doctors fixed my bones and my mom told me that I was complaining of stomach pains that they dismissed as a bruised spleen. I ended up having to have half of my intestines removed as well a few days after they had burst because they missed it the first time and wouldn't check until my mom firmly put her foot down and made them spring into action. There is a MAJOR ISSUE with people not taking us as black people seriously, but I feel that the health industry is a little more important for us to focus on. People's lives are at stake! I am SO GLAD that this lovely lady is still here and I pray that she continues fighting strong. She seems to have a beautiful spirit and I'm happy that her prayers were answered. I pray that everyone has a wonderful day!
My sister's father in law had cancer and they had to cut out his throat making it to where he cannot talk or make a vocal noise without covering the hole in his trakea. He fell off of a roof he was working on and they missed some broken bones in the x-ray. He was going down hill in his health and one time while the nurses were moving him his son saw him "scream". He had to make a case out of the issue before they took him back to x-ray again where they found the breaks.
That's terrible :c
I hope all is well
Yos my dad had to scream at a neurologist that I was having a stroke medical underfundding and negligence and malpractice and improper training just sucks
@@naowright9308 That just brought tears to my eyes! I'm glad that his son was there to see and let them know. I only partly understand his pain of not being able to talk or be taken care of thoroughly at the same time. I was only able to barely whisper for a while cause my throat got damaged during the surgery. Can this medical system be redone ASAP? We can only pray...🙏
@@fishfish7985 It's really sad that it has to take scolding from someone not educated in their field to light a fire under their butts. I pray you are well now?
She talks with such grace. I don’t know how she could have done all of this and still smile and look as healthy as she does. That’s nothing but God. I have to remember that my non life threatening issues are petty and yo be grateful for what I have.
She looks beautiful!! 🥲🥰
37 years ago my mother, God rest her soul, lost her baby in the hospital when they left her in a room by herself in active labor. It was something she mourned until her last day. And I KNOW it's because she was a Black woman being ignored.
The exact reason why no one should go to the er by themselves. The shocking and disgraceful practices by healthcare providers will shock you. From ignoring patients to misdiagnosing and over medicating. Then they run the isolation game when they screw up. Don’t trust anyone
So sorry to hear that..💕😘🇳🇿
.... I'm speechless. That's so heartless, I feel so bad. I hope you are having a good life and something like this will NEVER happen to you ❤️ Stay healthy and strong!
I'm a cancer patient and I know exactly the fatigue she's talking about. Chemo took away my corkscrew curls that went down to my waist, but that may have been for the best. I can't imagine how hard it would've been to maintain that hair. You are an angel and the epitome of black girl magic~
She went through all that and still looks dam good 😱😱😱😱😱…..mad props to her…… even her hair was matted she still managed to make it look presentable!
From watching this channel l now realise what l went through in my teens was depression. I wasn't changing my clothes or washing my hair often enough. Instead of helping me my parents scolded and mocked me which didn't help. When my long hair got tangled mom just made me get it cut off "because you can't keep it clean." Back in those days adolescents "didn't have" depression or PTSD, I was told l was just seeking attention or trying to make my parents look bad. Now l know better! And perfume and scented soap are my favourite things.
I respect and understand why many clients aren’t comfortable showing their faces, but it’s so heartwarming to see her smile at the end! She is so pretty and has a beautiful, gentle, and strong spirit.
Such a tragic but beautiful story. Im so glad you were able to help her. In case she sees this, I studied microbiology. Vitamin B injections will help with her lethargy. She's not getting enough from her food because she doesn't have enough small intestine. The b complex pills probably aren't working for her. She should also consider doing sublingual vitamin b tablets. It will really help a lot.
Intrinsic factor is in the stomach, not the small intestine.
Now I don't know who to believe. . . you both sound smart XDd
@@gurubhaikhalsa9337 yeah it does, but your intestines do most of the bulk of digestion. If her small intestines were destroyed or removed, she will have low energy because she doesn't have the nutrients she need to live healthier. So B12 is a fraction. B12 is basically there to have to aid the digestion of folic acid.
She basically had a prolapse. Like the doctor, nurses, and whomever that was there were incompetent.
She had necrosis (death of tissue) with her small intestines. The small intestines that are destroyed she's gonna feel tired. She's not getting the nutrients from her food to get inside her cells for energy.
Praise God for this woman and her story. What a fighter!!!!!!!! Same for our precious miracle worker with hair. What an absolute treasure.
I know no ones prob gonna see this but I just wanted you to know that after I’ve gone through a depressive episode and my hair is knotted and matted I watch your videos to give me inspiration to tackle the challenge. Thank you for this and for supporting all of us.
Thank you update: I have half of my hair done
@@lexithefangirl11 I stumbled over this comment, and just wanted to say that I hope you are doing well. And if you are not? That you can regain your strength, from watching these kind of videos, going for a walk, or whatever, to get yourself back into a better place again.
She is so beautiful! What an amazing soul. And her hair is so long and pretty! I wish my hair was as long as hers. She really is such a sweet person I'm so glad she is able to feel more like herself now :)
What a testimony! She was so very brave to tell her story! God bless you for all you do. You really do change people’s lives 💗
Her smile at the end was SO beautiful. You can really tell she feels like herself again. What a courageous and amazing woman.
I am living for her energy and how she was determined to reclaim her hair back!! 🤎✨
This lady has an awesome testimony! I'm a nurse for special needs children and adolescents, I commend her trusting God and not giving up on her daughter. I believe in miracles and her daughter is truly a miracle! You did a wonderful job aid helped get her sexy back.👍🏾 She is beautiful. ❤
I felt her when she said she felt naked when she showed her hair, when my hair ain't done I feel sick I could just cry, so happy you were able to help her gain that security back
This lady is an inspiration, I have chronic illness and understand the being too tired for self care, it’s horrible! Sending love to her, and her amazing family cx
My lord 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 This woman is brave and a blessing for sharing her story. Tbh, if it was me in this situation I would’ve cut it off and start from scratch for the sake of my health. But this is her decision, her life, her story 💕💕💕💕
She's beautiful. I'm glad she was able to get some help with her hair issue.
She's so strong, we are so proud of you sweetie
Her story is so inspirational. I just can’t believe how much her and her family have gone through!! And she continues to smile and stay positive. I LOVE HER and aspire to be HER!!
My husband has 4C hair and he has diabetes when he has an episode his hair can lock up in 24 hours of sweating and suffering. His hair is past his shoulders and this is the FIRST time in his life he has had length. Everyone his whole life just shaved his head 😢 it hurt me that he did not have a relationship of love with his hair. When he did grow and love and identify with his hair he was a changed man , such confidence. You are doing Gods work 🙏🏼 bringing self worth sand self love back to this stunning beauty!! God bless!
You are beautiful! There should never be any shame in saying we need help. God is good and He knows what you need. I am so happy for you.
What a beautiful woman.... Inside and out! The level of positivity this woman has is amazing, especially after having gone through all she hasv deal with. God bless!
Wow. You’re a miracle worker. She is beautiful. In the process of detangling my own matted 4c hair, and these videos are so motivating, just knowing that I’m not alone and there are compassionate empathetic caring people like you who understand. I can’t do too much at a time, so it’ll probably take me at least another week to finish, but I’ve got this! And to anyone else out there reading this who are in the same position, you’ve got this too!
That woman is gorgeous! Look at that glow. I cannot believe what happened to her medically and she still smiling. Doctors need to listen when people are telling them something is wrong. I hope her life is amazing right now.
Her story is wow. I can't even put it into words. She is such a good mom and I'm glad she got her sexy back 😊
I wish I can afford to travel all the way to Miami and get my hair detangled. My hair has been matted over 5 years.
I've seen people on RUclips untangle dread locs after 8 years. Start with dipping the ends in hot water if you can. Try Ambunu leaves,it's an African shampoo and detangler. Try some detangling sprays and something with marshmallow root. I use Curl Peace prepoo detangler because it contains marshmallow root. I have to comb out my hair because it's been over two months. Good luck. I hope that helps!
@@cindychristian1700 what if you are hair is in a balled up knot.
@@lashawnjones1503 I have 4c hair and went four months without washing but once a month I would comb out dead hair! If people with dreads can comb them out after 8 years then yours is a possibility! It may take you three months and a few hours a day but I bet you can do it! I would do it alone because it will probably be very emotional at times for you because it will time consuming! I would try one small section first using the end of a rattail comb, detangling products and hot water! God bless and stay strong!!
@lashawn Jones take it one day at a time. Add lots of conditioner and spend an hour per day working out side of the ball with the back end of a rat tail comb. When you get that part out, keep it separate in a scrunchie or Bantu knot. Keep going every day until you are done
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Thank you for setting her free. What an amazing mother and strong family she has. I hope she can keep healing from the trauma she’s gone through. Her smile as she gets detangled more and more is so genuine it made me cry.
Wow!!!!!!!!!!!!! Just it’s just wow! Her story. I’m in horror but happy for her and I pray that she has nothing but health in the future
That's a wonderful lady to want to help others with hair situations like this. I left my cornrows up for two months and almost cried trying to get the matted hair undone. It took me 8 hours and i now know i got a 1 month limit.
That happened to my grandma, she went back to work too soon and her guts fell out. I hope she sued that dang hospital to cover the medical cost/emotional problems she dealt with
shes absolutely gorgeous
So beautiful to listen to your story! You are a strong woman! We need more women like you in the world.
You never lost your sexy you just enhanced ot.. Simply gorgeous.. 40 + year old women i swear stop aging at a certain point..
This woman and her family is a walking miracle and I hope with everything within me that she has a warm loving inviting life full of blessings and grace
Her story is unbelievable!! She’s a walking miracle!! 🙏🏻
Thiswoman is an inspiration! I love that she is ready for self care.
What an amazing, courageous woman! I’m so glad she found you!
your client in this video is a very courageous woman. I absolutely love the quote that you had at the end of the video keep up the good work and the compassion that you show for your clients.
Her hair looks really cool matted like that. Black hair is so unique.
Everyone that comes to her get the same hair style but I can say she do a very good job in detangling the hair. She's not cutting the hair off, I wish she was where I live. Keep doing what you do making people smile.
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What a beautiful smile she had when you finished. Such a lovely video to watch
Would you happen to know anyone in southern California who does this kind of work?......Wow!!! u are a gift from God. Millions of love and blessings to you.
What a beautiful message...and you are both two beautiful women. Thank you for sharing this journey!
Beautiful inside and out! I admire her grace.
Omg 😳 beautiful ❤️ Hooray to u 518
Awe! So beautiful! She is glowing! ❤️
God Bless you! Thanks for sharing ! Thanks for sharing your story
Thank you for sharing your journey! Your courage is inspiring.
Great job! Amen
Love her testimony
She has such a soothing voice and awesome life story. When she said miracle baby, she wasn't lying. Great work on the hair - but all those passes with the flat iron 😬.
I noticed all those passes with the flat iron too although I can't speak to straightening black hair that's been matted. I was taught to move the iron down my hair at a slower pace not too slow of course, never stopping in one spot always using a comb infront of iron as it passes down the section of hair "You have to move slower to get done faster" meaning one pass on the lowest heat setting possible smaller thinner sections using proper protective products before and after. Styling it this way vs. multiple fast passes,higher heat, thicker sections of hair just slows you down while causing more damage in the long run. This is just my two cents worth 🙂
@@addiegraves3 the matting is irrelevant because it was already detangled. Coily hair tends to be fine and more easily damaged. If you noticed, the section was completely straight and she kept going over it, which isn't good for any type of hair.
Hadassa - you and your helper are Angels on Earth!! Thank you so much for what you do! ❤️
Beautiful!
Sending lots of love to this wonderful lady ❤️
She has a lovely heart, this is exactly the wholesome content I needed 🥺🥺
My heart goes out to this Beautiful courageous woman. Sending her lots of Love from England. ❤
Such a warrior ! And her hair absolutely gorgeous!
3 day appointments!!! Wow you found your calling and that is the best blessing anybody could receive ❤️❤️❤️
I love your videos. What you do is incredible 🖤
BEAUTIFUL!!!
So beautiful!!
Omg I'm 3min in and this lady is BEAUTIFUL!
What a beautiful woman, inside and out! ❤️ You did amazing guys
This is sooo inspiring. Thanks for sharing your story
What a blessing you are!!
She is so so courageous and beautiful! And a wonderful mother.
I love how incredibly encouraging and positive you are!
I LOVE LOVE LOVE this channel! What you are doing for women is SO important! Its so easy to get overwhelmed with life, and for a lot of us our hair imitates our life especially when we are natural. You are a life saver! Then You for sharing and allowing these women a space to share their testimonies. Its really inspiring and beautiful 💕
What a beautiful person inside and out! You are amazing to help women reclaim themselves.
Thank you, you are a wonderful human!
She looks amazing!!! God bless you for your patience and compassionate heart!
I love your beautiful clients and beautiful channel fraan. You're so dedicated 😘👐
God bless you all for helping a truly wonderful woman!! I love you all!!
This mama has always prioritized every one else! God bless her and you for helping her! ❤
She sounds like such a kind and gentle soul. I could listen to her talk all day 💖 I'm so happy that you could help her!!
This transformation is beautiful! It inspires to not give up. Beautiful work!💖
I bet her head felt so good after that! And her confidence. You are an angel ♥️
My goodness what a beautiful soul!
i feel so blessed by her and her story. she’s a warrior queen!!!!
WOW she looks beautiful! 🌸
What an amazing job you did on this woman's hair!!!! I think you're blessed 🙌 Thanks for showing us that the impossible is possible. ❤