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  • Опубликовано: 6 апр 2019
  • Most exciting video I’ve ever shared on RUclips? Without a doubt!
    The birth story of our baby girl!!!
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Комментарии • 224

  • @zintlebophela9650
    @zintlebophela9650 5 лет назад +147

    😂😂😂 I love the bits of the African accent. it’s such a vibe 👌🏾

  • @driasdream
    @driasdream 3 года назад +23

    She said positive not painless. Per the videos I’ve seen about hypnobirth or positive births it was never said that their pain magically disappeared. Basically she’s giving her testimony on how she managed to cope with her birth. Plenty birthing videos are scary, intense and overwhelming to watch although a blessing. The whole purpose of hypnobirth/positive birthing is simply to show natural and holistic ways of coping with labor in general not to rid the pain(that’s the epidurals job) Clips of her actual delivery show how positive she was throughout and how she managed completely different from what society knows as labor. I’m 16 weeks today and the video was inspirational since I plan on going completely natural and delivering outside of the hospital environment. All in all the video was amazing, congrats on your experience!🙂🙏🏽❤️

  • @elleredeemed
    @elleredeemed 4 года назад +48

    This was positive and honest! Positive doesn’t mean all peaches! I can tell you are proud of your body and your experience and that’s positive! You got me pumped for my upcoming labor ☺️💪🏾

    • @drzenkobilas7770
      @drzenkobilas7770 3 года назад

      Please view RUclips videos; 'Evra's unassisted home birth', 'Full Natural Childbirth Delivery | Obstetrics' and 'She's here!!! Labor and delivery' particularly the side view as baby's head is exiting mum's tummy, the skin and underlying pelvic floor muscle has been made stretchy elasticated and extends 2-3cm beyond mum's body - thanks to 'Birth Canal Widening' to 10cm diameter painlessly over 6 occasion, prior to birth; Wikipedia UK 'Perineal Massage' my RUclips videos and Aniball or Epi-no Delphine Plus website and share. Pudendal nerve block was good for my wife. You can do it.

  • @laela6289
    @laela6289 5 лет назад +41

    I am in love with your Nigerian UK blended accent!

  • @abisola2606
    @abisola2606 4 года назад +15

    Just stumbled on this again. Honestly, this is a positive experience compared to many I’ve heard of. Pain doesn’t equal negative. Labour and delivery are painful processes - there’s no need to sugarcoat it. How we/our bodies handle that pain is what can contribute to a positive or negative experience. A very belated congratulations on your bundle of joy! Thank you for sharing your experience with us x

    • @sarahroberts7374
      @sarahroberts7374 3 года назад +1

      Exactly! Its pain with purpose and i still see this as a positive story 💗

  • @charitychats6908
    @charitychats6908 5 лет назад +49

    Congratulations on your bundle of joy💃🏾. Motherhood is amazing🤱🏾. God is your strength 🙏🏾

    • @LoveYourTresses
      @LoveYourTresses  5 лет назад +1

      Charity Chats thank you ❤️ He definitely is! 🙌🏾

  • @plamondonworks6948
    @plamondonworks6948 3 года назад +15

    I think you were positive, just realistic. If ladies are afraid of pain and expecting it not to be uncomfortable, they're just not basing expectations in reality. Its going to hurt! A lot! But the pain can be a positive with a positive attitude

    • @nicolehernandez3151
      @nicolehernandez3151 3 года назад +2

      Exactly the fact of the matter is birthing is painful, the more you keep that mind the better in my honest opinion. I'm due in a month, and that's my game plan, expect pain and focus on my reaction. Her story was great and real!!

    • @MrsMacWifey
      @MrsMacWifey 2 года назад +1

      Your comment was a year ago but YES. My 2 natural labors had pain and discomfort but I was able to cope well, and they were very positive labors and my satisfaction was high. My one labor with an epidural was not positive, and I felt a lot of sadness and disappointment during and after. The epi just interrupted all the hormonal stuff that needed to happen and I had a hard time bonding with Baby, plus I didn't feel the sense of achievement that I felt with the first 2. I felt like I was handed a baby that I didn't birth. Hoping to go natural again this time and have a positive experience!

  • @KnL9713
    @KnL9713 5 лет назад +41

    Hello Fiona !
    My son is 3 weeks. And I agree giving life is such a beautiful experience. I wish you and your husband blessings in your parenthood. May God protect your baby girl.

    • @LoveYourTresses
      @LoveYourTresses  5 лет назад +2

      KnL9713 3 weeks!!! So precious! Congrats mama 🥰 wishing you the very best too 😘

  • @blazineyezasian____
    @blazineyezasian____ 5 лет назад +12

    I noticed every delivery is unique and special for a women , ive watched soooooooo many videos , 1 after another all night binging back to back tryna see what I can learn . Yes ur right , it doesn't have to be horrific and that's where the fear of the unknown comes .
    I'm 30 weeks with a baby boy and I want him out soo bad , that's just me being anxious .

  • @lovesongs91
    @lovesongs91 5 лет назад +24

    Your realistic account of hypnobirthing is so encouraging. I’m so glad I found your channel while I’m still on this journey. Congrats x

    • @LoveYourTresses
      @LoveYourTresses  5 лет назад

      Mary I. Thank you- so glad to have been able to share it - wishing you the very best with yours ❤️

  • @palobrie4312
    @palobrie4312 4 года назад +6

    That was such a beautiful story and experience. You’re so graceful

  • @jessicac.8288
    @jessicac.8288 4 года назад +25

    I love your story! I view this as a very positive story because pain does not have to equal suffering! And, for me, that's the difference between a good and bad experience. Yes there will be pain in birth, that's normal, but it doesn't have to equal fear, which is what hypnobirth has taught me. And it's so fantastic to see someone actually have that experience. Thank you so much for sharing!

  • @mayachaoui814
    @mayachaoui814 4 года назад +7

    This was such a beautiful story. I love that you got right into it too. You seemed to have been really in tune with your body as well, which is wonderful. Congratulations on your baby girl!!

  • @tiaratran
    @tiaratran 3 года назад +12

    For the people that are saying they can’t watch it because it scares them.... that’s ok, you don’t have to watch it. BUT if you’re planning on having an unmedicated Birth (or any Birth, I guess) it’s soo important to be mentally prepared for the level of pain you’re going to have to endure, in my opinion. I appreciate real stories like this one. My birth was very painful and I don’t sugar coat it because I want women to be prepared so they’ll be able to get through it too! I believe anyone (low risk) can have an unmedicated Birth but ONLY IF you’re mentally prepared and committed.

  • @TukeMorgan
    @TukeMorgan 5 лет назад +11

    Congratulations Fiona 🎉🎉🎉
    I totally agree that it is possible to have a positive birthing experience, the podcasts and books you shared earlier really helped me, my Baby was pushed out within 15 minutes of getting into the theatre room. My fan didn’t even come out, there was no time for that. Funny how I didn’t feel the effect of the gas and air, it just made my lips dry. LOL at how your pee came out. I found that my contractions weren’t as painful when I was on the toilet seat. Childbirth is truly a miracle. Your hair really looked nice and full in the birthing videos.
    I’ve made a conscious decision to ensure I share helpful pregnancy and maternity related videos because first time mums need all the tips and advise they can get.
    Cheers to women and mothers worldwide who have been birthing and raising children with ease and grace all these years.

  • @AlaWaikiTV
    @AlaWaikiTV 5 лет назад +6

    Beautiful birth story! I loved all the details, from you bumping into your aunt near the lift, to your time keeping and documenting every key moment... so precious!!

    • @LoveYourTresses
      @LoveYourTresses  5 лет назад +1

      A la Waiki Awww Waiki thank you! I’ll never forget the video you shared that brought me to tears- it really is a remarkable experience!

  • @kariaraya26
    @kariaraya26 4 года назад +5

    Im 18 weeks with my third and love hearing birth stories yours was so enjoyable you're a great storyteller thank you!

  • @withanamelikesierra
    @withanamelikesierra 5 лет назад +37

    Congratulations, Queen! I'm so happy you shared your story. I'm a HypnoBirthing instructor in the U.S. and there are definitely not enough beautiful Black and Brown moms like us sharing their stories or associated with HB. Thanks for using your platform to enlighten others. Many blessings ❤

    • @withanamelikesierra
      @withanamelikesierra 5 лет назад

      P.S. I shared this video on my FB page (Sankofa Mama Birth Services) and tagged you ❤

    • @laquishascott1961
      @laquishascott1961 4 года назад

      SankofaMama I’m doing hypnobirth for my first time located in Dallas,Tx hoping it works

    • @lizlaurel7989
      @lizlaurel7989 4 года назад +2

      Yes!! Thank you ! Representation is crucial when trying to debunks myths about birth and get mamas to believe that they deserve a positive and calm birth.

  • @Ifeyinwa
    @Ifeyinwa 5 лет назад +21

    Awwwww congratulations Fiona! So happy to hear you had a positive experience x

  • @carinamorris8186
    @carinamorris8186 5 лет назад +2

    I loved this video for its humour, honesty and positivity. As someone who is 37 weeks with a new born this video has given me life. X blessings and congratulations on your bubba x

  • @aann7132
    @aann7132 3 года назад +3

    This story isn’t scary at all... This woman is a rockstar and this is what happens when you birth a human being...
    loved every second of this!

  • @Emjay89
    @Emjay89 5 лет назад +6

    Such a Queen 👑. Congratulations to you and hubby. Your baby girl is beautiful! ❤️. Cant wait to see the videos to come

    • @LoveYourTresses
      @LoveYourTresses  5 лет назад +1

      Em Jay thank you so much - so excited to share them!

  • @narazacarias6332
    @narazacarias6332 4 года назад +4

    Thanks immensely for sharing something so intimate. It helps me, 3 months to go!!!

  • @alexiabenac391
    @alexiabenac391 4 года назад +3

    Thank you sooo much for taking away all my fears. I was trying to persuade my boyfriend that adoption is nice too, because i was afraid of giving birth. Now i think i can do it. Thank you for that. I wish you and your babygirl the best 😀

  • @dzuel09
    @dzuel09 5 лет назад +2

    This was so beautiful! Thank you for sharing! So happy for you and your baby girl! May God continue to bless you and your family!

    • @LoveYourTresses
      @LoveYourTresses  5 лет назад +1

      Jewel J. Thank you lovely! Amen 🙏🏽 God bless you and yours too 😘

  • @GrowingWithTheRichards
    @GrowingWithTheRichards 5 лет назад +9

    “The pain was mad” 😭😭😭😭 I’m so glad you and baby are okay ❤️

  • @kerristavig6134
    @kerristavig6134 3 года назад +1

    I LOVE your personality and the life you brought to your labor story! 🤍 thoroughly enjoyed this video and it excited me for mine!

  • @LaVenderlocx
    @LaVenderlocx 5 лет назад +15

    I'm so excited for you! I've been watching all youtubers that's given birth, and so anxious for my little bundle to arrive🤣...in June! So I still have a little baking to do. But CONGRATULATIONS!!!!😁🤗

  • @gracieg9671
    @gracieg9671 5 лет назад +1

    congratulations, what an amazing blessing. This video was so positive and heartwarming. x

  • @nataliea.s.4595
    @nataliea.s.4595 5 лет назад +2

    Congratulations! I felt this story in my soul. The emotion is so real and vivid.

  • @theresaita4466
    @theresaita4466 5 лет назад +1

    Congratulations to you and your family! Lots of love and blessings

  • @FionaBrianneH
    @FionaBrianneH 5 лет назад +2

    Congratulations on your new little bundle! God bless 🥳🎉💐💐💐

  • @angelgaikwad9156
    @angelgaikwad9156 3 года назад

    Love love this video, thank you for keeping it real. I am due in few weeks. I am so excited to use all the hypnobirthing techniques I have learnt.

  • @TracyD2
    @TracyD2 5 лет назад +1

    😭Happy tears. Oh bless you and your baby.

  • @anisassquad7814
    @anisassquad7814 4 года назад +2

    I started the pushing process with my first at midnight and didn't have her until 3:18 that morning, I needed oxygen the last few minutes. 🥰 Congratulations

  • @tribejamette872
    @tribejamette872 5 лет назад +2

    Congratulations...Congratulations...Congratulations. God bless you and your new family

  • @LaVenderlocx
    @LaVenderlocx 5 лет назад +30

    Never thought about the vicks vapor rub for motion sickness! Definitely gonna buy some because girl, my morning sickness has not stopped...like at all. It's kinda scary because I'm losing weight instead of gaining.

    • @LoveYourTresses
      @LoveYourTresses  5 лет назад +2

      Lakiela Manning awwwww congratulations 🥰, morning sickness is no fun 😩 I do hope the vicks helps- it was a last minute discovery for me but helped so much with the motion sickness

  • @nafib2
    @nafib2 5 лет назад +3

    Congratulations sweetie! such an amazing birth story..I'm glad you had a positive experience and you have inspired those that are expecting to also be positive about the whole process..God Bless You!!! xx

    • @LoveYourTresses
      @LoveYourTresses  5 лет назад

      Nafi b thank you so much 😊 and God bless you too 😘

  • @Lilli626
    @Lilli626 5 лет назад +2

    Ahhhhhhhhh been didn’t think this video was coming!!!!! Happy days and happy Sunday !!!

  • @enaruvie
    @enaruvie 5 лет назад +5

    Congrats. Totally missed your pregnancy. So happy for you.
    Welcome to motherhood. 🤗

  • @donnac163
    @donnac163 5 лет назад +2

    Congratulations on your bundle of joy😍😍😍. How was your hair throughout your pregnancy? Did it thicken? Was it dull looking or shiny?

  • @heathermaxwell-hicks8906
    @heathermaxwell-hicks8906 2 года назад

    Beautiful story. So happy for you and your family ❤️

  • @stephaniejonee1174
    @stephaniejonee1174 2 года назад

    I love your honesty in this video ❤️

  • @Peanut184
    @Peanut184 5 лет назад +1

    Congratulations again Fiona and a huge well done. Thanking God with you for a safe delivery and the good health of you and baby. And well done to hubby and mum in law for being so supportive, I thank God for their lives ❤️

    • @LoveYourTresses
      @LoveYourTresses  5 лет назад +1

      Mariam Ajibola thank you 🙏🏽 yes God is so good, I’m so thankful

  • @ForeverFarrah
    @ForeverFarrah 5 лет назад +1

    This was so useful. I’m due end of July and have been so scared! Thanks for this!! X

  • @yeeezful
    @yeeezful 5 лет назад +1

    This is lovely Fiona. Thanks for sharing. Glory to God and well done to you xxx🙏🏽🙏🏽💓💓

  • @noneother5900
    @noneother5900 4 года назад +1

    This is lovely, congratulations 👏🏾

  • @teeew89
    @teeew89 5 лет назад +8

    I felt like I was there pushing with you girl 🙂 you did great mama 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾

  • @nadjakari1752
    @nadjakari1752 4 года назад

    Thank you so much for sharing your story. It was incredible to hear more about hypnobirthing!!! I’m getting ready too now!

  • @afandicaroline8469
    @afandicaroline8469 5 лет назад +1

    Congratulations Fiona😍😍

  • @tinadube6163
    @tinadube6163 4 года назад +5

    You are soooo beautiful! ✨

  • @originalpanda5000
    @originalpanda5000 5 лет назад +2

    Congrats beautiful!

  • @Nurse2tech
    @Nurse2tech 5 лет назад +1

    congratulations fiona. May God bless your family.

    • @LoveYourTresses
      @LoveYourTresses  5 лет назад

      Denise Payne Denise!!! 🥰 thank you Hun, Amen

  • @QueenLadyRo
    @QueenLadyRo 5 лет назад +1

    What a gorgeous little bundle of joy! Reminds me of when mine were tiny. 😍

  • @Raven-mg3xf
    @Raven-mg3xf 5 лет назад

    Thank you for sharing your story! I am 7 months pregnant! Can’t wait to meet my baby girl!

  • @CyndyChimezie
    @CyndyChimezie 5 лет назад +4

    *Wow I had to like before the video even started. You are so strong...whose cutting all the onions I'm literally crying here in the kitchen. This is so beautiful. I've never heard of hypnobirth. But wow you go girl. So proud of you 😘😘♥️ You know I love ya sis but wow what an inspirational birth story, I could feel the love and know for a fact your mum was with you every second of your labour..ughh where's the tissue 😭*

    • @LoveYourTresses
      @LoveYourTresses  5 лет назад

      Cynthia's Corner ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ thank you Hun - awww, yes I feel like she really was!
      As for the onion cutter- not me 🤣

  • @serenap2154
    @serenap2154 5 лет назад

    I’m 37 weeks and I have loved using that same hypnobirth class!! Can’t wait to put it to use soon too 😆

  • @jamesdrew3208
    @jamesdrew3208 2 года назад

    absolutely beautiful bird story. you made me laugh and cry as well as be excited for my labour x

  • @isabelwiese1528
    @isabelwiese1528 4 года назад +2

    This is my fav story LOL congrats on your little one x

  • @alilin4128
    @alilin4128 3 года назад +3

    "Babes ain't no work for you today!" lmaooo

  • @sineadscannell9819
    @sineadscannell9819 3 года назад

    I don’t know why anyone would not like this. I thought it was lovely. Strong woman, well done 💪🏾

  • @rachelwalls4094
    @rachelwalls4094 4 года назад

    Amazing and lovely story

  • @anamezemillicentnneka6233
    @anamezemillicentnneka6233 5 лет назад +1

    Congrats, on your bundle of joy

  • @sophiejordan6121
    @sophiejordan6121 4 года назад +2

    I love this story 😍😍.... The accent switch 😂😂... Beautiful

  • @Raetalkss
    @Raetalkss 5 лет назад +2

    Praise GOD!!!!! Thanks so much for sharing gurl I was crying lol. Honestly well done!

  • @sweetfm2008
    @sweetfm2008 5 лет назад +1

    CONGRATULATIONS TO YOU & YOUR HUSBAND!!! BEAUTIFUL 💖

  • @ayo.mp4
    @ayo.mp4 5 лет назад +4

    This is such a beautiful story 😭❤️. God is so good ✨

  • @lissahay6583
    @lissahay6583 5 лет назад +1

    Such a positive experience

  • @sunflowers4sasha
    @sunflowers4sasha 4 года назад

    lol this sounds so amazing so raw and real, I can't wait

  • @storytimewithgigi3957
    @storytimewithgigi3957 4 года назад

    Congratulations!!!

  • @tillywright649
    @tillywright649 3 года назад

    Thank you for sharing your birth story. Such a gorgeous video xx

  • @GNA_xx
    @GNA_xx 4 года назад

    Thank you for sharing your story. So helpful for new mums to be like me! 🤗

  • @urbanfxshion
    @urbanfxshion 5 лет назад

    I’m glad you had a positive experience ❤️

  • @afiyahenry3156
    @afiyahenry3156 Год назад

    Thank you so much for sharing this video!!! Strong Queen!!!

  • @MomentswithKitan
    @MomentswithKitan 5 лет назад +2

    Congratulations on the beautiful addition to your family. God bless you and yours :)

    • @LoveYourTresses
      @LoveYourTresses  5 лет назад +1

      Moments with Kitan amen and amen 🙏🏽 thank you 😘

  • @karadaiMM
    @karadaiMM 2 года назад

    I love this, I’m due in March and doing a hypnobirthing course also

  • @Liberatedt
    @Liberatedt 5 лет назад +3

    I plan to share my story soon. This is informative.

  • @Clearoutcloset
    @Clearoutcloset 5 лет назад +1

    Congrats namesake! ❤️

  • @hycinthaalake7890
    @hycinthaalake7890 5 лет назад +4

    Congratulations 🎉🎊 you were so brave

  • @toriferguson5
    @toriferguson5 3 года назад

    Love this haha you’re v entertaining and a good story teller !

  • @ssa7438
    @ssa7438 5 лет назад +2

    Congratulations, I enjoyed your labor and delivery story.

  • @kemilove9050
    @kemilove9050 5 лет назад +2

    Congratulations !!!!!!

  • @trolleydolly70
    @trolleydolly70 5 лет назад +2

    Congratulations Fiona Chloe is beautiful x

  • @Jirvine28
    @Jirvine28 4 года назад

    Loved this birth story, thank you for sharing. Due in 8 weeks and hope I have a similar story to tell 🥰

  • @gmaingwithcott6615
    @gmaingwithcott6615 5 лет назад +1

    Congratulations Fiona on having a healthy bouncy baby girl. Your experience sounds very relaxing. Congrats.

  • @inspiringnaturals1316
    @inspiringnaturals1316 5 лет назад +1

    Congratulations 🙏🌹

  • @londonmusicmum4560
    @londonmusicmum4560 4 года назад

    Love this, thank you so much for your honest experience xx❤️ due December

  • @treasureafolabi5646
    @treasureafolabi5646 5 лет назад +2

    Congratulations fiona

  • @sherinewalrond6534
    @sherinewalrond6534 4 года назад +86

    I thought this was supposed to be positive 😂😂😂 I'm half way through and it just sounds like pain pain pain contractions motion sickness pain pain pain I'm due any day now 😭😭

    • @TheIAmAwakened
      @TheIAmAwakened 4 года назад +5

      Sherine Walrond Agreed! She’s made me feel horrible and I’m days away now too.

    • @sherinewalrond6534
      @sherinewalrond6534 4 года назад

      @@TheIAmAwakened all the best for your SAFE and FAST delivery❤

    • @TheIAmAwakened
      @TheIAmAwakened 4 года назад +1

      Sherine Walrond Thank youuuuu!

    • @alexandradrescher7607
      @alexandradrescher7607 4 года назад +7

      Omg I’m due in 2 days. I literally cannot watch the end of this video “pain and uncomfort and I was screaming!” Wtf!? This ain’t positive :’(

    • @tifphanycantey2509
      @tifphanycantey2509 4 года назад +3

      Same thing I said. So much for positive!

  • @serg10st
    @serg10st 2 года назад +1

    What’s the pregnancy app you used?

  • @Free2BeRiRi
    @Free2BeRiRi 5 лет назад +1

    Congrats!💕

  • @crystalwaters7978
    @crystalwaters7978 3 года назад

    No this is a great video .. I got even more insight.. I’m due on April 15 ... thanks 🙏

  • @joannatalks.
    @joannatalks. 2 года назад

    The car ride is so hard at that point. Good job mama!!!!

  • @ishaw500
    @ishaw500 5 лет назад +1

    Wow praise God!!! Thank you for sharing 💗💗

  • @jennybison809
    @jennybison809 2 года назад

    Can you purchase the hypnobirthing course if you are ordering from the us? I tried to order and it only had the UK option when entering your address

  • @vickysvoice7312
    @vickysvoice7312 5 лет назад +1

    Congrats mama
    Did you get heart burn after any meal or you get them even without meal

  • @lizdavies7513
    @lizdavies7513 3 года назад +1

    Loved your story. And damn girl, you're so beautiful! Inside and out ❤️

  • @femdivinemind7777
    @femdivinemind7777 2 года назад +1

    I'm so happy to find a black woman sharing her story...it took a while lol x

  • @haanalu1449
    @haanalu1449 3 года назад

    Thanks for the video. I'm 17 weeks along and super frazzled about creating a Birthing plan.

  • @kcastra2392
    @kcastra2392 4 года назад +4

    I’m not sure how positive this story is. All you talk about is how painful it is the whole time. What part of the hypnobirthing actually worked for you? This ordeal sounds more scary than anything else.

    • @LoveYourTresses
      @LoveYourTresses  4 года назад +6

      K Castra the breathing helped me a tonne - it helped me be as relaxed as I could be which definitely meant experiencing less pain. The more tense your body is the more painful an experience it will be- compared to the stories of many of my friends and relatives mine definitely was a positive experience. Birth is painful you can’t entirely escape that - based on my expectations it was positive and not the traumatic experience that so many go through x