God's Plan For Your Love Life: 10 Steps To Finding Your Spouse

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  • God's Plan For Your Love Life: 10 Steps To Finding Your Spouse
    Welcome to our enlightening video where we blend contemporary relationship insights with timeless biblical wisdom to guide you on your journey to finding your future spouse. Today, we explore "How God Guides You to Your Future Spouse," offering practical steps and biblical insights for your relationship journey.
    The video discusses how to combine God's teachings on dating and marriage with practical steps.
    It explores the confusion of waiting for God to present the right person versus using practical strategies like online dating.
    The importance of being authentic and addressing personal issues before entering a relationship is emphasized.
    Taking initiative, setting a timeline, and being prepared are highlighted as necessary steps.
    The video suggests that learning often happens while taking action rather than solely through preparation.
    10 Steps To Finding Your Spouse:
    1️⃣ Self-Confidence and Identity: Discover the importance of building self-confidence and understanding your self-worth, resonating with Psalm 139:14's affirmation of our unique creation by God.
    2️⃣ Be Approachable: Learn the significance of being open and friendly in your quest for love, drawing inspiration from relationship wisdom and Proverbs 18:24.
    3️⃣ Authenticity: Uncover the power of authenticity in relationships, as emphasized by relationship experts and the Bible (Matthew 23:25-26).
    4️⃣ Communication Skills: Explore the role of effective communication in building strong relationships, with wisdom from James 1:19.
    5️⃣ Respect and Kindness: Understand the significance of respect and kindness in interactions, as highlighted in Ephesians 4:32.
    6️⃣ Setting Boundaries: Learn about the importance of setting healthy boundaries in dating, a principle supported by relationship guidance and 1 Corinthians 6:18.
    7️⃣ Taking Initiative: Get inspired to take initiative in your love life, with encouragement from relationship advice and guidance from Proverbs 16:3.
    8️⃣ Being Positive and Fun: Discover the benefits of maintaining a positive and fun attitude in dating, as suggested in Proverbs 17:22.
    9️⃣ Patience: Embrace the virtue of patience in your dating journey, reflecting on Ecclesiastes 3:1's teaching that there is a time for everything.
    🔟 Trust God's Plan: Strengthen your faith in God's plan for your relationships, as echoed in Jeremiah 29:11 and the wisdom of trusting divine timing.
    🙏 Check out our coaching program, The Ring Formula (www.ringformul...) which coaches professional women to date confidently, gain quality dates so you enjoy future commitment and marriage with results in two months without the stress of figuring out modern dating alone and without results.
    ✨ Don't forget to like, share, and subscribe for more inspiring content! Drop your thoughts and experiences in the comments below and let's grow together in love and faith.
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Комментарии • 95

  • @andreajorden1706
    @andreajorden1706 8 месяцев назад +24

    Today's message really resonates with me as I try to live my life as a Proverbs 31 woman by the Fruits of the Spirit. It really takes mustard seed faith to know that someone will choose me one day. Thank u once again for lifting my spirits after a recent ghosting/benching situation. I deserve & expect nothing but God's best chosen future spouse in 2024!

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад +2

      This warms my heart to be able to encourage. God is able!

  • @candycoatedreams
    @candycoatedreams 8 месяцев назад +7

    Thank you for this. You're hilarious 😂. I have a goal of finding my husband in 2024. Might sound a little ambitious, but faith moves mountains and I'm full of it.👩🏾‍❤️‍👨🏾

    • @Kiki-AndBeyond
      @Kiki-AndBeyond 7 месяцев назад

      I stand in agreement with you. Nothing is too big for God!

  • @trellisthomas1275
    @trellisthomas1275 8 месяцев назад +4

    Absolutely !!! The connection has to be spiritual above else! and My Husband must compliment my purpose and I his.

    • @staywell7217
      @staywell7217 8 месяцев назад

      I always say the exact same thing. Thank you, for your comment.

  • @jaquelahardin1
    @jaquelahardin1 8 месяцев назад +4

    Dr. Tartt, thank you for the message. I really needed to hear this because I am believing in God for a husband and I just don’t know what to do at times. Your videos really help me to look at dating from a different perspective.

  • @rickblackgirlmindset
    @rickblackgirlmindset 8 месяцев назад +8

    Dr.Tartt thank you for this one with the biblical insights it resonates. You're funny and definitely a motivator. Many blessings to you and your family.

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад

      Thanks so much!

  • @iamtoniadcoleman1879
    @iamtoniadcoleman1879 8 месяцев назад +8

    I am definitely a sapiosexual!!! I love a Beautiful mind. I find it just as irresistibly attractive as kindness, gentleness and humility!

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    God really looks at my heart

  • @giftsonyou501
    @giftsonyou501 8 месяцев назад +4

    Free to choose.

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад

      Right! God gives us free will!

  • @user-hr1in6jj4c
    @user-hr1in6jj4c 8 месяцев назад +5

    Another timely , encouraging message ! Your practical , down to earth messages , priceless ! Thank you for all you do, and may God enlarge your territory! Definitely a good listen ! Blessings to you and your family

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад

      Thank you so much! This means a lot and I am praying for balance and enlarged territory too. Thank you for your kindness and love. 🙏🏾

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    I need more self confidence and self identity 🆔

  • @ladyd5871
    @ladyd5871 8 месяцев назад +2

    This was Awesome! Thank you so much for pouring your heart out! I’m excited about what God is doing relationally in 2024!

  • @cherylpopeclark6411
    @cherylpopeclark6411 8 месяцев назад +1

    I paused and created my list! I asked my daughter for a couple of things to get me going. That was funny. 😆

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 8 месяцев назад +1

    I am going to go out more Dr Tartt!

  • @karendougdeengokool9259
    @karendougdeengokool9259 7 месяцев назад

    Dr. Tartt, I truly enjoy your videos. God bless your work, your ministry and your family. Your observations and points are so real and genuine. Absolutely excellent.

  • @sherry9928
    @sherry9928 Месяц назад

    Good morning and God bless you 😊

  • @christinerahming-vx8nc
    @christinerahming-vx8nc 8 месяцев назад +2

    Awesome content on dating!! I truly appreciate your teaching.

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  7 месяцев назад

      Thank you!

  • @kjenkins3939
    @kjenkins3939 8 месяцев назад +4

    This is one of the best conversations we’ve had Dr Tartt!!! Can this be included in the next round of Ring Formula? Thank you!!

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад +1

      You ask for it, you got it! Happy Holidays!

  • @melcro8104
    @melcro8104 8 месяцев назад +1

    Dr you are good we need you in these churches in the home right away

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад

      God is able! Thank you for the kind words.

  • @lorinakers7934
    @lorinakers7934 8 месяцев назад +1

    Good message Dr. Tartt. I Will commit to creating a profile. Thank you

  • @rashadsternes
    @rashadsternes 6 месяцев назад +1

    Self Confidence Psalms 139:14
    Be Approachable Psalms 18:24
    Authenticity Matthew 23:25-26
    Communication Skills James 1:19
    Respect & Kindness Ephesians 4:32
    Setting Boundaries Luke 29
    Boundover your Body 1 Corinthians 6:18
    Take Initiative & Find a wife (Be Active)
    Positive & Fun (Believer of the Word)
    Be Patient & Trust in God’s Timing

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 8 месяцев назад

    Yes the real person because we are trying to get to know each other.

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 8 месяцев назад

    So true Dr Tartt! I just want to have some talks and laugh! No pressure!

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    I was so easy going when l was young

  • @CBtalks8554
    @CBtalks8554 8 месяцев назад +4

    I really appreciate this message of hope. Trusting God as I place myself in a position to be found..❤❤❤❤❤

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад +2

      Yes, imagine your future husband feeling like you and wishing you would make it possible to have a conversation.

    • @CBtalks8554
      @CBtalks8554 8 месяцев назад

      @@DRTARTT1 I'm sensing it after 29 years as a widow the healing journey from domestic abuse has given me hope for a Beautiful Purpose partner in life to find me.
      💕🙏💕

  • @laandreaellis268
    @laandreaellis268 8 месяцев назад +2

    This blessed my soul ❤

  • @wpooh6181
    @wpooh6181 8 месяцев назад +1

    I saw you for the first time on Mann TV with David on his men's health editions and found your approach in teaching important information uniquely interesting. You could be a force and I will leave it right there! I love your approach and your teaching style. Keep up the excellent work that you are doing. God is making a shift in the universe! for sure!

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад +2

      You are for sure an anointed Believer! I so needed to hear this and it convicted me even more. Validation from those close to God matters a lot. Thank you. 🙏🏾

    • @wpooh6181
      @wpooh6181 8 месяцев назад

      No thank you! @@DRTARTT1

    • @MariamaKabba-zy9yu
      @MariamaKabba-zy9yu 8 месяцев назад

      It’s a very good to have the confidence to talk to someone. I had someone l liked a lot he made an attempt to kiss me one day it l was fasting. I slowly turned him down by only informing him that I was fasting and did not give him any other words. I regret not saying much because I did not have that opportunity again.

  • @donnaspencer3969
    @donnaspencer3969 8 месяцев назад +1

    Excellent content. Very practical techniques and tips. Looking forward to trying them. Love how you and your wife share information. Its a blessing.

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you, Donna.

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you Dr Tartt bc I run from negativity

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    Im trying to educate flourish but its hard sometimes

  • @fruitsarelife7073
    @fruitsarelife7073 8 месяцев назад +1

    Could you make a video on when it’s better to break up with a boyfriend? Even If it was long term. It’s a long distance relationship. I find myself in a cycle of wanting to end it but ending up continue and try again, just to be dissapointed again and wanting to break up.
    Please could you give ultimate „red flags“.

  • @jamienl207
    @jamienl207 8 месяцев назад +1

    Chargrilled oysters are my favorite ❤️

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад

      Yes Lawd! I had them for New Year’s Eve!

  • @barbarathomas5647
    @barbarathomas5647 8 месяцев назад +1

    I love your seminars! ❤

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад +1

      Thank you!

  • @barefoothippies
    @barefoothippies 8 месяцев назад +2

    ❤❤❤ amazing message. thank you!

    • @phyllissimpson2078
      @phyllissimpson2078 8 месяцев назад

      Very insightful. Thanks for sharing, and applying scripture. Amen.

  • @reginacooks2310
    @reginacooks2310 8 месяцев назад

    Very informative and encouraging. Thank you.

  • @giftsonyou501
    @giftsonyou501 8 месяцев назад

    So true conversation. Get to know each other.

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 8 месяцев назад

    Thank you! I am looking for fruit!

  • @bobbiemichaelsNyc86
    @bobbiemichaelsNyc86 8 месяцев назад +1

    This was so helpful. Thank you

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад

      Always can count on you, Bobbie!

  • @Sadeleh
    @Sadeleh 8 месяцев назад

    Great teaching!
    I have a question about transparency..so im stepping into the dating process after a long time, and having a dating profile is one way for me as well. If I’m getting to know more than one men at the same time, should i tell them about it and how long is it appropriate to do that? Like how do guys feel about women dating multiple men (not having sex ofc) or should i keep it to myself once i see which one i like the best and have the best compatibility with before going to a deeper level of getting to know each other?
    Thank you for this video and have a blessed year of 2024 😊

  • @jd869
    @jd869 8 месяцев назад +1

    This was really, really good❤

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад

      Thank you. 🙏🏾

  • @melissawiley3688
    @melissawiley3688 8 месяцев назад +1

    Love this ❤🎉

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад

      Thank you.

  • @shemireyahlilly5521
    @shemireyahlilly5521 8 месяцев назад

    Dr. Tartt this is good!

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    I wonder 🤔 when am going to settle for a healthy relationship l have been in unhealthy toxic relationships before and it was crazy some things didn't serve me it was just lust a fling that didn't last long

  • @giftsonyou501
    @giftsonyou501 8 месяцев назад

    Yes be real be you.

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 8 месяцев назад

    A profile! I use your info and some just look at pictures so I say next

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    I do need to try to be respectful kind l do fall short sometimes of the glory of god when l know better l have been keeping my legs closed lately

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    I think it's better to be single l do get lonely sometimes

  • @joanrajaballey8852
    @joanrajaballey8852 8 месяцев назад

    Amazing advice !

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад

      Thank you.

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    I have been in toxic situations relationship before

  • @bonitamcneill3256
    @bonitamcneill3256 8 месяцев назад

    This is good

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    I don't think am ready for a relationship 😔 l do get lonely sometimes

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    Please pray for me l gotta have oral facial surgery

  • @dtpbach
    @dtpbach 8 месяцев назад +1

    19:44 better keep preaching !!!!!!

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    Maybe all find my tribe one day

  • @trellisthomas1275
    @trellisthomas1275 8 месяцев назад

    i didn't know my Godfidence was so desirable.

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    Its like l got one foot in church one foot in tge crazy world culture 😮

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    I'm use to dealing with punk's but now am in my 40s

  • @giftsonyou501
    @giftsonyou501 8 месяцев назад

    That right not about their money.

  • @gc2137
    @gc2137 8 месяцев назад +2

    Sorry but as Christians we're not supposed to be finding spouses in clubs. The Bible says we are to shun the appearance of evil.
    Rahab was Jesus' ancestor, not contemporary. He met people where they were for the purpose of saving lives, not finding a spouse.

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад +3

      God allows us to find imperfect people everywhere. Right? There is nothing wrong with dancing and having a good time. Now you know neither of us has lived a perfect life (tone-humor), so let’s not judge and celebrate getting better and better and doing life together righteously. 😀

  • @dtpbach
    @dtpbach 8 месяцев назад +4

    17:19 sapiosexuals rock!!!

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    Im doing little bit better

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    God children wants us free he really doesn't like his children in bondage

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    Some people love Jesus

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    I feel like my works are in vain

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    Im ugly cute don't know what's going on lol

  • @trellisthomas1275
    @trellisthomas1275 8 месяцев назад +2

    wipe the dust off your feet and leave

    • @DRTARTT1
      @DRTARTT1  8 месяцев назад

      Right. We have to do the same with negativity, past hurt, insecurity, etc. We need community to do that.

  • @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj
    @FlorenceLunsford-sk2nj Месяц назад

    The culture hated Jesus Christ