I deceided in my 20s that I would never love or want a relationship more than my peace or self-respect again. I was dating a guy who I was falling in love with then I learned he lied about something significant then started to gaslight me. I gave him 2 months to prove he wasn't lying and after 2 months of trying to gaslight me, I changed my number, blocked him on all socials, and moved on with my life...that was a year ago. I allowed myself heal privately before I shared what happened with any of my friends. I'm as loyal as they come so the competition won't be between him & another man, it's between him and my peace. I will never give that much time again but I'm still very proud of myself.
No commitment is no sex. Simple. I'm worth more than just being a partner with benefits. My body is my Temple and I have to take care of myself. Boundaries!!🙏❤
Most of what you said is applicable to a close family member I’ve been praying about. So, what if they’re already married and tried counseling?? I intervened and got told off. What I just saw/ heard you say in this video, literally echoes what I told her in the past. Im so frustrated. Also, I don’t think he is a believer although he will go with her to church.
Thank you so much…now what can I do with this “talent” to assist the huge population of disenchanted women lost and feeling trapped? I volunteer as a Mentor/ former coach.
Thank you for good content. I believe you mean well but please try to stay away from adding politics to your videos. Not everyone supported Trump or Harris or former Presidents you speak of. I don't admire The Obamas so i dont have their relationship goals or strive to want what the celebrity of the day's goals are. Many of them have values that don't agree with my faith in Christ. I want what is good for me.
I deceided in my 20s that I would never love or want a relationship more than my peace or self-respect again. I was dating a guy who I was falling in love with then I learned he lied about something significant then started to gaslight me.
I gave him 2 months to prove he wasn't lying and after 2 months of trying to gaslight me, I changed my number, blocked him on all socials, and moved on with my life...that was a year ago. I allowed myself heal privately before I shared what happened with any of my friends. I'm as loyal as they come so the competition won't be between him & another man, it's between him and my peace. I will never give that much time again but I'm still very proud of myself.
This was so great Dr Tart , thank you for looking out for us sisters in the lord 🙏🏽 we appreciate you and respect your work and your family ethics.
@@rickblackgirlmindset You are more than welcome.
This was so good. Hearing some of this re-traumatized me. Thank God for deliverance from that Knee-grow! 🙌🏾
Just clicked on this video. Just from the intro I’m getting cozy like 🍿 🛋️ 🥤 give it to us, sir. I’m listening 👂🏽👂🏽
Hope you enjoy
We need more prayers like that! Thanks Doc
@@nodiva218 You got it!
No commitment is no sex. Simple. I'm worth more than just being a partner with benefits. My body is my Temple and I have to take care of myself. Boundaries!!🙏❤
That’s right. Boundaries
Wow these are amazing points & I appreciated the examples. New Subbie.
🚩🚩In the very beginning! Still thought I would wait for the change.
I think everyone is guilty of this at one point or another.
Thank you!
Thank you man of God because I preach the word 🙏🏾
Yes Lord, just be honest.
I’m getting it. I need some healing.
Yep, communication important
Thank you so much this was so perfect.❤🎉😊😊😊😊
He’s just so afraid to express things he doesn’t like or agree with….and lies instead. 🤦🏾♀️
That’s not good at all.
So true commitment not the same. Not good
Thank you I dated a Dismissive avodent I wish I knew earlier he was emotionally unavailable.
Most of what you said is applicable to a close family member I’ve been praying about. So, what if they’re already married and tried counseling?? I intervened and got told off. What I just saw/ heard you say in this video, literally echoes what I told her in the past. Im so frustrated. Also, I don’t think he is a believer although he will go with her to church.
That shows how talented you are.
Thank you so much…now what can I do with this “talent” to assist the huge population of disenchanted women lost and feeling trapped? I volunteer as a Mentor/ former coach.
Thanks Dr. Tart
Self awareness = so hot!
Yes
Thank you for good content. I believe you mean well but please try to stay away from adding politics to your videos. Not everyone supported Trump or Harris or former Presidents you speak of. I don't admire The Obamas so i dont have their relationship goals or strive to want what the celebrity of the day's goals are. Many of them have values that don't agree with my faith in Christ. I want what is good for me.