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Will Avoidant Ex Regret Breaking Up
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- Опубликовано: 14 авг 2024
- In this video, I help you understand an avoidant ex's thinking process to help you determine whether they will ever regret losing you.
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He broke up before Christmas. Should I have drums dialed him? I went no contact 23 dec. I see him lurking on my social media every day but has practically ghosted me. Please help
Moral of the story - an avoidant person is a deeply wounded child that needs to go to therapy, find a spiritual awakening and heal themselves and people should leave them alone and definitely not date them until these people figure themselves out.
OR
The break up acts as a wake up call for them and they open their eyes and re prioritise things in their life.
But I do agree there is always an element of personal growth required from the avoidant partner.
@@AlexisFriedlander the breakup acts as a wake up call for the price of making another, innocent person deeply hurt. Nah, better attract someone who is mature, emotionally stable and available and live a happy life you deserve
I am a newly understood FA who found atachment theory after my breakup as I’m working on myself…. And as part of my breakup counselling and mental health therapy I have realised my ex is a DA.. I have know for so long that something wasn’t right about her and she needs to go into therapy.. I tried to be supportive and I saw her true nature occasionally but it was breadcrumbs
As an FA I did come across as a bit needy or clingy and I think she felt we became codependent but was this us or my newly discovered undiagnosed bipolar (Cyclothymia)
I know what she wants but I have to let her do her on her own as I am doing me for me …
Everything in this video is 100% it’s her to the core
I am watching a couple of other channels and all together this is helping me slowly heal and understand
I find it so endearing seeing him try so hard to share feelings and I can't help but love him. I see myself in him because I'm avoidant too.
100%
After having my first encounter with a DA, the more I try to learn about DA's, the more I'm convinced, that just I just shouldn't even be trying. Conflict resolution with a DA, is like trying to solve a rubik's cube, that's actively trying to stab you, the entire time.
The thing is, we all have to be independent, live alone, pay our own bills, take care of our own stuff by ourselves. I do it and I'm secure/AP. Really, DA's are feeling proud and bragging about that? That is the minimum for an adult. It's morning to be proud about, it's the most common thing. DA's sound like a teenager who just got their first wages, over enthused about being independent.
Right? Oh man congratulations on being damaged from your childhood. This is like a grown adult at McDonald’s holding their $400 a week wage over my head. Like who do you think you are? Congratulations on doing the bare minimum
Are avoidant just narcissists ? Why they even seek other people. Be alone and dont destroy other people happiness. Fear of commitment? So what...just sex or using the partner when they feel like?
Avoiding difficult situation as male is so notatractive to female.
Avoidans see relationship as a game? That is sick and dysfunctional.
Dont get back with narcissist, avoidant or narcissist. Life is too short. AVOID THEM AT ALL COST send them to therapy
We get into relationships because we want closeness, touch and poems :) NOT FOR THE SPACE AND LONELINESS
You might as well bundle them together. The psychological damage is all the same. They’re narcissistic as fuck
"Healthy relationship requires both partners to have deep feelings for each other and to show their vulnerable side to each other (which avoidants fear the most)"
So conclusion from that: Severe avoidants are basically always emotionally unavailable. It is impossible to establish real relationship with them, which is based on actual romantic and emotional feelings and commitment.
I learnt this the hard way, spent 4 years with severe avoidant who suddenly discarded me, I still don't know why, all the red flags where there but I opened my eyes way too late. Very painful, but one of the best lessons of my life.
Now happy with new partner which is not an avoidant, life is gooooood!
I thought borderline was bad. THIS is REALLY bad.
Yeah it’s insane to me. Read the comments, they’re completely unwilling to even admit that maybe their behavior is manipulative, and at worse emotionally abusive. I don’t know how these people live with themselves. Like congratulations on being “independent.”
6months and my avoidant and I NEVER had a fight. Worst we had was a mild disagreement until one day she came over and pulled the plug. I was hinting at adding onto my house and buying a bigger bed, looking back on it, that's most likely what ended us
Exactly.... Literally exactly the same to me. Bought a bigger bed and told her I'd like to spend more time with her - boom...gone she was
The red flags you ignore at the beginning of the relationship are the reason for the end of the relationship
DA hurt their partners and avoid you
They want you to reach out first because they are so scared
Guess what? I am scared to
They‘ll tell you they can‘t live without you and leave you 5 min later and won‘t talk to you for months
NEVER EVER A DA!!!!!
Alexis, you hit it out of the ballpark with this one! I look forward to seeing how this channel grows in 2022, certainly deserving of manyyy subscribers, thanks again for the fantastic content (that is comforting and empathetic as well)!!
Hey Alexis, previously I asked about doing a vid about DAs after FAs break up with them, but what about when DAs are dating but still not over that ex you know isn't there for them and THEN they end up losing out on another relationship bc of their fantasies and false hopes? These guys just can't win.
I thought I was dealing with an avoidant… she was a covert narcissist… beware….
mmmm they are quite different though, a DA is diffident since the beginning while a covert is lovebombing and than withdraw
Yup. Nasty beings.
They should be alone for good then!
feel like this video was made for me lol.
i told her that i wanted to take care of her and she left me on read and blocked me
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@AlexisFriedlander I was wondering if it is a good idea to tell an avoidant you know they are like that now and you understand after they ended things. Or will this backfire even more and they will think something like we are better than them and leave you anyway? Because it sounds like it is something that is in their head, that they create that we are too needy or clingy but in fact we just normally and genuinely just like them and want to make it work and talk, otherwise we wouldn't be investing in the relationship and we know that to build a strong relationship, communication is necessary. But they just feel a huge imaginary pressure consistently. For me, it's quite comical now watching your videos since finally, everything makes sense haha, because of course, if my person knew I know how she deals with things and how she is, I would take a different approach to give this space she needs rather than her just "quitting" by saying we are just different and it won't work after our first tiny discussion about phone lol. Because I was kinda blindsided by what we built that she liked to deal with/sort things and talk about but in fact, it is the opposite. She was forcing herself in a way to make it work while we were together since I think she was already working on herself. And she was doing things that she actually didn't like, and if she would have told me about those things I would be happy and actually say "Whatever floats your boat", "do what makes you happy", which in fact are things I said during our time, I like her for her being her and not the things that she can be or will be. So just be you. But the problem as well that this also created pressure on her thinking that I am only doing this because I like her and that I'm not happy myself because I'm doing this for her because I like different things. It's just a lack of belief in the person she is with and I am actually just fine with her being her lol. I am the kind of person that likes to get things sorted as fast as possible so I don't need to stress about it and just be happy afterward however I am extremely laidback at the same time, and as long as I know she likes me I would never mind waiting for her time to be ready to talk. That's her time and we meet in the middle (teamwork right?). I would not mind at all if she likes to keep grinding on the thought rather than solving it. That would be her choice, not mine so that is just fine. So I am very confused because every scenario I think ends up with them feeling pressure because we like them and they think we are doing things just because we like them and abdicating our own happiness. But in reality, they are our happiness, we are not abdicating anything, we are just creating opportunities to be happy... We actually are just fine with them being them haha. That is called loyalty, and everyone should have even an avoidant right?
My ex does not show any of the signs...
I got clouser text from my ex girlfriend.
After 3 month's of no contact
It's like..
Hey.. hope you are doing good..Just meant to say sorry, I mean it.
You are a good soul,it's just me who can't love someone,I tried to love u,you are really a good friend (and some more txts).
After she added I cared about you,maybe I still care, we can't unlove people,but I can hate someone more than I loved,
If I try to be with you again I would destroy you in every possible way.
Lastly she added
I just gave you enough time to realise I'm not important as you thought in your life,but you deserve a closure and here it is......
Don't reply she told...
What I have to do please help?
Raj - she’s not worth your time! Don’t bother replying
Maybe try to show her flaws to herself in a non-confrontational way?
Don't be a sissy tell her to f off
Don't reply.
Hi, can someone be anxious and avoidant at the same time ?
How about sending you a pic of and then text right away wrong person ?
It's cheecky but not sure they'll beleive it was a mistake
9:18 pull the plug before things get real
Alexis this video sound like my ex. She's been single mother for 10yrs then she came to me and been beyond happy 2020 and part 2021 then got busy with her daughters activities. Which took alot of time which added as she said she felt pressured and overwhelmed to be with me. So she ended it. But i feel we can make it work as she stated a year ago wanted to fight and work at it. So you we will get together
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Scorpio male, I just waiting on the paper work too move on!
I had my avoidant ex for 20 years and she did that. She wants to be alone we have 6 kids. What I don't get is ok after 6 months but after 20 years??? Come on now I think its 43 mid life crisis she swears she will be alone and wants to be friends but im lost... im totally lost no real reason no real anything even her memorys are all fucked up man. She has done it all to f$%k me in my car to call and want to reconcile to ghost me the next day. You don't sound convinced that they really want to ever get back with who they have made up thier mind they want to leave. I did it all wrong all of it begged cried pleaded bowwoed I didn't give her space its been 6 months I have chased for 4 months I gave her first 2. But she said from beginning we would never ger back together but has done everything to do with saying she wants to then ghosts again. 20 days till final now she won't but check text every 2 days maybe 3 she won't go full week without checking but.. im done man I think its gone. Hottest thing in this town can't stand it she's hot man. Small town can't leave house without hearing about her from someone teenager yesterday tells me how hot he thinks my ex us... fucking joke. You gonna call me home? She's most confusing thing always has been but she's so loving to 2 seconds later hates my guts.
So sorry. I wished I had good advice. I just want my ex back...my children's father....he is my first everything. I love this man so much.
Scorpio male,how is it a break up when thier was none ever!
Scorpio male,ok so your the experts,its not my read,
Scorpio male stop with the lies,or I'm bring thier who circus down!