I think Steve makes a great contribution to this very tricky topic. See his video below, "Ukraine Women's Financial Expectations" ruclips.net/video/X1zGzIbDjAg/видео.html
Interesting video but I really don't understand why women start thinking about children before they think about their own love. They should try to find a man they love and respect first of all, instead of saying he's a good provider so I could love him, to me this is extremely backwards.
If you are serious and you have to support... you can also go to her give her some money personal during your visit to her house. You will find out soon enough how she spend it. If you visit her and you have to stay in a hotel, and not her place, it is not time for financial support yet.
every one of them blames her man for his laziness and not running to get a better job. Man is an ATM machine for them. I have the same disaster wife living with me : After 26 years of spending my money on her and her kids ( I spent a hell of money to get them into schools and universities ) ...Now she is telling them that your dad is not good any more.. he is lazy and not bringing enough money for the family...( I am still working as a University Professor by the way) THAT IS MY STATUS MY DEAR FRIENDS
No that’s not true every woman can’t be your wife, they can’t raise your children mentally and spiritually mostly woman’s are outgoing any man giving them compliments they go in bed when husband boyfriend not around. Must be careful We made one body, soul, spirit , if person has many soulmate attached with your soul it’s hard to make any relationship for long run it’s deep spiritual.
Woman will test you if you like it or not. I was in Kiev before in that situation: woman suggested a cheap or an expensive restaurant... Even if you go for the more expensive one, what I did, it will still be cheap compairing to western prices and she will have a great time and something to talk with her friends about it. For me it was a good opportunity to see if she was appreciating it, her interaction with the staff, etc. So at the end I was also testing her...
Great strategy Hans, I did the same as you when I was in the dating trenches in Ukraine. I agree, it is indeed a great way to test the lady. You can see many things by letting her choose the restaurant.
I'm Canadian Ukrainian, my grandparents were hard working but I can imagine how difficult it must've been to travel to a new country without knowing a word of English. Ukrainian people are brave!
One thing late in the video that is very true, is that all Ukrainian think the west is paved with gold. I kept telling my girlfriend to learn about the west and how westerners live. One day she asked me to help her with 2000 GRN ($75) for her apartment heating repairs. When I took it from my wallet she exclaimed, "My God you're rich!". In the UK you cannot get an engineer to attend for $75 let along replace the boiler.
In the end it's simple, USE COMMON SENSE. I don't care how gorgeous she is, if your gut is telling you that something isn't right, you should probably listen to it. If you are 60 years old and in a "relationship" with a 19 year old Ukrainian super model, she is absolutely just scamming you for gifts and money. A real Ukrainian woman who is sincere will refuse to accept any gifts, money, jewelry, etc. unless you have been dating for at least a month or 2. Even then, most of the legitimate women will refuse to ask you for help or money. They will just tough it out until you notice they are in trouble and offer to help them. The only gifts you should be giving a Ukrainian woman are flowers, anything else is considered to be inappropriate. Also stick to women who are older, say ~28 years old and up. The scammers are usually the women who are in their early 20's or teens.
Very good video. This subject is the most important when two cultures "Rich" and "Poor" come together. I´ve dated 3 Ukrainian girls and all were super girls. They worry for their children, you are secondary. This is not a bad thing. They want a better life, who doesn´t. The woman I´m with now has never asked for money, yet over 4 years we have maintained a relationship. She has come to me to spend 10 week and sometimes 2 weeks, I pay obviously pay for this, however there is no abuse. I send her money because I want to, 100 or 200 euros, this make a huge difference to her life. Be clever guys, look at the situation, as they said in the video, if she needs to fill the fridge it can cost 50 euros, if her teeth need repairing and its 500 euros? A dentist in Ukraine will be lucky if he earns 300 euros a month !!!!! (outside of Kiev)
渡辺尚道 Exactly. Ukranian women are not to blame. We all are victimized by our governments. Ukranian women are THE MOST BEAUTIFUL women on the planet. But they also receive nearly NOTHING for their work. (I always 😭 inside to see such INJUSTICE....)
She: Prove your love by supportng my kids from another man(where is HIS contribution?). Take me to expensive restaurant, mall, help me with my bills. He: Does she love me or just NEED my $$ ?? Am I the only one asking this question?
No, there are others asking the same (unfortunate) question because they have not yet ACCEPTED the simple answer. Yes, she (some) only need your money and will make use of it if you are willing. If you were of meager means and could not foot the bill for her children or unable to pay her bills, that kind of person would not give you a second look. So face the truth and you have your answer already. If a woman asks you for money and you give it to her, you should also realize she will go with any man who will give her what she wants, and she will throw you over for another who can offer more than what you can come up with at any time. Be very, very cautious about what you are doing sir, what is done cannot so easily be undone. Cheers!
every one of them blames her man for his laziness and not running to get a better job. Man is an ATM machine for them. I have the same disaster wife living with me : After 26 years of spending my money on her and her kids ( I spent a hell of money to get them into schools and universities ) ...Now she is telling them that your dad is not good any more.. he is lazy and not bringing enough money for the family...( I am still working as a University Professor by the way) THAT IS MY STATUS MY DEAR FRIENDS
"Testing" is going on all the time, it's how we know who another person is. The trick is recalibrating to another culture. If someone (from ANY culture) responds to your sincere gift with suggestions that you're cheap, it's time to recognize that a relationship with this person in the future is going to go similarly ("You're not doing this right", "you're inadequate", "you need to do this", I" won't be happy until......") It's better to move on, don't even waste time trying to explain to her that she feels inappropriately. Many women's tests of a man are similar to what you might do before trusting a questionable old rickety bridge across a ravine. Is this strong enough? Am I in danger if I just proceed before REALLY checking this out? How do I know that I am safe?
Happy to help! Would you care to share some details of your story, knowing you'll be paying it forward and helping out many of your fellow men on the same journey?
had been chatting with a lady from odessa. she has asked for $500 usd a month for english lessons . and until I started watching some of your videos i was going to send her it.
I can totally say if the woman is genuine what this lady is saying is true. I was skyping with a beautiful Ukrainian lady. As soon as I asked to see her on Skype she did not have a problem with this. In fact she insisted. She never asked for money or gifts. I'm not going to lie when I saw her on Skype she was even better looking than in her pictures. Fortunately/unfortunately she did not sense a connection.
My lady . You are so honest . In every word . With and against your people . Hat off. Ukrainian women are much more better than a lot of other ladies from all over the world ❤️
the reason why, is because there are millions of assholes who are stupid enough to fall for that kind of shit. It's just another case of supply and demand, as long as there are rich idiots, golddigers are going to exists.
@@Zenoandturtle When I was in Kyiv, I connected to Tinder. Lots of matches, mostly women offering services for money. There was one who wanted to go to dinner, so we did. Then I bought her several gifts when I returned to Kiev. Should have chosen one of the others, it would have been cheaper lol
Don't know on what planet this guy is living. I live in Europe in the 6th richest country on the planet and average income IS NOT 60000$ per month. It is already the top 5% or 10% earners in my country. So what is a bill of 100$ in Ukraine in a restaurant? Guys i had been married to an ukrainian woman and i met a lot. It happened ONE time in 10 years that i paid such amount. It IS not HEALTHY in Ukraine to pay such amount for a restaurant if you want to have a long term relationship, except if you can afford her a HIGH SUPPORT life style. Be careful because slavic girls could have no limits in case you DON'T quickly defines the limits. I know a guy who dropped 250000$ in two years for her wife. So the problem is not a binary problem : give or not to give money. The problem is that you have to educate her constantly to show her YOUR limits accordingly to your means and to everything she don't know about the western economy but believe that all westerners are at least "well off". (as a matter of fact, the video says the truth : they know shit about it -they often believe they know because they have traveled but in fact it's BS-). This is what you will have to face in a real relationship and contrary to what this guy is saying, it's an anomaly to pay 100$ for a restaurant in Ukraine. This amount is a crazy amount for her generally (one week of labour in Ukraine), so if you start to pay such amount she could not understand that the day after you are not ready to replace the washing machinge 350$ and why you don't want to afford a first class to Bali, and so on, guys you see now the logic. The trap now is on you and many guys don't know how to stop it. They also make confusion between normal life and vacation budget. So if you let her believe that is a STANDARD, to get a 100$ restaurant bill be ready to face a big mess. It's not important what you can do or not, but what is important is what you are PRINTING in her mind. I know an other guy with a 20000$ month income who had been hearthly broken and dropped probably 100K$ on a lady BECAUSE he started to accept expensive restaurants from the scratch. Those type of guys one day or an other will have this bitter fruit in their mouth : have i been loved for me or for my money? And yes when you have such type of fruit in mouth, it sucks guys!
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For thousands of years women have always gravitated to the 6' 5, 250 pound Greek God hunk, or the guy with the most gold stored in his vault, let's get real.
You should get out more and take a look around. There are plenty of happy couples who have neither money nor beauty. If you date in your league, you don't need to worry about being rich or a greek God. But if you are another delusional saggy old fart who wants to be with a supermodel... PAY UP! 😆
I talked to a filipina woman with 2 kids for almost two years. I was financially supporting her by putting her younger son through school. But I come to find out that the school she was supposedly sending him to. Never existed. She was scamming me for over a year. I ended it before she bled me dry. Not sure yet about ukrainian women. I'm going to take it easy & slow to see what happens
I was involved with a Ukrainian woman from Pavlograd. for 7 years I sent her 600 dollars a month and she complained I did not send her more. She only made 100 -200 a month working for the post office. She called me greedy so I cut things off. She asked me for 100 dollars a month for high speed internet. I know it did not cost her so much. but she was always scamming me for extra money. Why would she expect me to support her before marriage?
every one of them blames her man for his laziness and not running to get a better job. Man is an ATM machine for them. I have the same disaster wife living with me : After 26 years of spending my money on her and her kids ( I spent a hell of money to get them into schools and universities ) ...Now she is telling them that your dad is not good any more.. he is lazy and not bringing enough money for the family...( I am still working as a University Professor by the way) THAT IS MY STATUS MY DEAR FRIENDS
Very helpful video. Most western men immediately assume a girl is only into him for his money if she asks or hints for financial help anytime prior to engagement. I myself went on a tour with one of the major tour agencies and my girl asked me for financial support on our 4th night together. And 70% of the guys I reached out to on previous tours told me that they eventually broke it off because of this issue. And almost half of the guys from my tour on our ride share bus back to the airport said they were going to send some kind of financial support when they got back home so it was clear to me a lot of these girls were asking for some kind of support right away . Between my own experiences and my previous former client facebook poll, and the ride share bus poll, I came to realize that ukraine girls expect at least some form of support and rather early on too. -Personally, I think any agency who proports to educate guys by putting out videos should be direct and explain that most of these ladies will expect and ask or hint for some form of financial help sooner or later and at least educate the guys to realize this and to understand that it doesn’t necessarily mean she is insincere or only into you for your money. It’s truly their language of love. Every agency should put out a video like this one so the relationships guys form asa result of their intro services will have a chance to survive . The agency I went with does have three finacial vidoes but they only talk about how much the ladies will appreciate it “if” a guy does this but what their videos don’t say is that the guys need to expect that most ladies will expect it at some point in time, usually sooner than later. . This agency’s videos only say “if a girl we’re to ask etc”, and to me the word “if” implies it most likely won’t happen or doesn’t happen often , such that a guy thinks it “might” or “could” happen rather than the full truth that it “most likely” will happen. They should change the wording to “when the girls asks” or to “most girls will eventually ask”. Most men who watch that particular agency's videos about the subject of finances don’t walk away with the idea that they will be asked for this or most likely will be asked/hinted at for finacial support of some kind at some point. That agency should do a video just like this one. Basically what this video tells me is that for Ukraine women , their language of love is at least “some” degree of financial support or assistance . If the agency I went with had been more forthright that this would happen, then I wouldn’t have freaked out when it did happen and continued to happen. Lastly, the agency I used for my tour suggested sending $300 -$400/mo when my girl complained that my $150/mo wasn’t enough . That never sounded right to me (that’s a lot of money , especially considering the average salary is $150/mo) and I love that this video explains it doesn’t have to be anything near that much, but rather something like around $100. When I sent $150/mo, my girl complained that I should be sending her more because she knows I make enough in America to afford to send more than that. And of course I was blamed by the owner of the agency for having a freak out reaction when this happened to me when in reality, the cause was due to the agency not preparing me for this moment when it did happen. This video puts the whole issue into perspective and make total sense to me now. Helps me understand ukraine women much better now. Thank you for posting this. I predict you’ll get a lot of positive comments on this one.
Thanks for your very articulate comment! Let me stress the point though, generally speaking, a "good girl" that is hopeful to have long lasting relations with you will NOT ASK you for money (unless it's maybe a desperate need). Not in the short term anyways. That said, you need to know that she absolutely will EXPECT it (and little gifts) if she considers you "her man". This is a very tricky subject and my advise, tread lightly, do not over react, be patient, show her you are SERIOUS, that you are there for her (in every way). That is one of the little-know secrets on how go about winning the heart of a beautiful Ukrainian lady!
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Thats why I NEVER mess with dating tours. Some men actually blow $1000-$10000 on these dating tours to meet Ukrainian women. Its a big scam to begin with, not to mention many of the girls aren't really serious and looking for a sponsor. $150 in Ukraine is enough money for food, transportation, and still have enough to go to the movies or somewhere for a month. They are scammers! The only time I sent money to Ukraine was to my future wife, after we met 3 times and communicated for over 1 year. And it was for her trip to Kiev to go to the embassy and her plane ticket to the USA once she was granted a visa. I bought her and her mom flowers for March 8th. And there was one time she wanted to take a vacation with her sister and I sent her $50 via WU. It was more than enough for her weekend trip which included train ride, hotel, and food.
I understand what you are saying, but in my situation my Ukraine ladies children are adults. We did get married and are in the process of bringing her to Canada. My wife does not ask a lot of questions but we do talk and Skype everyday. Should I be concerned about anything?
So many negative comments.. in America women also want a man who can provide. Men go to other countries so they can provide for someone who is better looking than what they are used to. The using goes both ways.
I agree with you date are wrong I found me a nice girl and she loves you very much so Brothers at astronaut is how you believe you use your gut feeling and follow your heart
Dear Vita, you videos are really good and balanced. You got a good style and nice communicating skills. I want to ask you a question. On your youtube channel and also other match making youtube videos, everybody tells foreigners to be a man of a perfect nature. My question is, If a man CAN BEHAVE SO PERFECT with a Girl then WHY HE SHOULD COME TO UKRAINE ?????? He can find a very beautiful girl in HIS OWN COUNTRY or even anywhere in whole world.
There are 2 reasons. 1) Old men think they are going to bag a beautiful model that's young enough to be his grand-daughter because he comes from a western nation & she is going to be dazzled with his social security cheque. 2) Because most middle aged guys have been through divorce or been taken to the cleaners. So they look for something new..they have been led to believe that foreign women (doesn't matter whether it's Ukraine or the likes of Thailand) are somehow different to the usual types they have in their home countries. It's nonsense & 99% of these suckers learn the hard way when they go home with an empty wallet.
Can I ask about the younger man like me and I have affair in Ukrainian woman now but older than me I love him and she love me too we have a plan to marry 2018..my question is?they have a problem about enter there in Ukraine when we are married in my country?plss I need a answer about this.thank you for reading
How do you know she's not asking 20 men for that $50? I've had a girls who tried to take me to the most expensive restaurant in town. When I didn't take her and I chose the restaurant, only then did she like me. When I took control of the situation, the girl told me, "I like your style."
I have met a Ukrainian lady in spain and we get on well but I don’t have the means to live in two places and she doesn’t have a visa .. I do my best to help but I fear I’m going to be left
it's not a matter of WHAT but a matter of WHEN. In other words, i date a girl for a year, maybe even living together for a while, she proved me that she really likes me for what i am, then for some reasons she got into troubles for money, then yes, i'm ready to help, because of the past
I want such 5 in 1 lady: mother, wive, cook, lover, housekeeper & friend!!! I think any good man would reward such high quality ladies with high quality love, too!
Who doesn't!? I can tell you, Vita is also the epitomy of the "good girl" Ukrainian women. I challenge you to find such incredible women, anywhere else in this world!
Be honorable, go to the Ukraine and live there , learn the language, meet the parents and friends, make a life there with them, bring your money and take care of her and her family.
Hi Dale, Yana here. I think it's very important to come to your lady's country at least for a couple of weeks to meet the her family and learn about her lifestyle. This will help you to understand your lady better🙂
@TheSQUALLLINE No! They are pay-per-letter and you are actually writing to a person who works in a boiler room. Anastasia Date has many covers--meaning different websites with various names. If you watch the videos produced by Match Guaranty, you will learn the international dating scene from A to Z. The decision really lies with you--if you believe what you are hearing, comparing what MG staff says versus what's going on with your PPL 'relationship'. In short, if these PPL's hook you, you could end up spending thousands on letters, chats, gifts and website 'phone calls'--only to realize that even if you ever get to meet the lady in the photo, she will come up with some excuse not to continue with you. Then, there you are sitting in Kiev by yourself with no support. I know, because I made the same mistake: 8 months on Dream Singles and paying through the nose as stated above to the tune of almost $20k USD! The 'lady' and I dreamed up this big dream meeting. I bought my airline tickets, booked my hotel--great, right? So, at the appointed time had come, I met her. Yes, she was much more beautiful than her photo--but---after talking with her for ten minutes, I realized that real girl had no clue regarding the previous 8 months, gave an excuse why she couldn't see me again--so there I was--in Kiev facing another 12 days, no support, nothing. Our translator invited me to their main agency, Grace Family Marriage Agency--they run most, if not all, the PPL girls who operate in the Kiev Oblast. Sure, I was introduced to another lady, who was real--with whom I have personal info so we can visit and chat on video calls--WhatsApp, etc. But the point is, why did I need to spend all that money on someone who I believed was sincere and wasn't. My best advice, if you desire a real Ukrainian woman--just sign up here--considerably less expensive than my ordeal. Sure, you will need to put in the effort--it's not magic, but you will have excellent coaching and support. Forget PPL, sign up here!--Keith
So after she picked me up from the airport in her $60,000 BMW X6. I fill the car with fuel then go food shopping. $250 later she's testing me? Don't think so. Her 5 apartments, own house and expensive car, 2 new I phones tells me she can look after herself.
Well, it depends on the woman and her skills as well. For example, most women are beautiful when they are young. It's difficult to be a truly ugly youth. However, if she is just pretty but has no skills, then she can't expect to be a trophy wife. I, myself, am homely, cook on defrost--it's a skill, man, and have a mental illness. I stay single. However, when I was younger and cuter, I looked for someone who is reliable. I am not a trophy wife. The biggest problem I've had with guys is that they expect too much out of women or for me to cook, clean, raise children, always be there for them, and to make a lot of money, and go to the gym for 6 hours a day while their pudge sticks out, they work at a grocery store, and they do nothing at home. They think they deserve a trophy wife, a beautiful foreigner after I turn out to be a disappointment. This is where the country matters. If you invite a beautiful woman over who has two degrees in like in biochemistry and business, and you are not rich or useful, she will simply use you to find a better partner. You have to know yourself when you look for a man or woman.
That's why you have to manage their expectations from the beginning, by stating what you won't do. Don't be afraid to walk away. Fellas, you need an abundance mindset and to view yourselves as the prize.
In Ukrainian culture if you get financial help from someone, it obligates you. Also since war started, gold diggers started using "financial help" as part of scaming Western men.
have been scammed by so many Ukrainian girls!! very few will not do this to you. be careful guys! and I am not a bad looking man.... I dated a woman named Alla in cherkasy.. I took her to nice dinners. paid for her taxi pver and over.. and she expected it. That is what makes me angry.. she used me.. I bought her nice Christmas gifts!! then she tried with crocodile tears for me to help her with her buisness.. and she cared more about her teenage son more than me.. It tore my heart out..
I think that this video is giving a little HONEST Truth on and about how some of these women are. It is thought that WESTERN MEN are walking money bags and money just falls from their pockets. But there are some gems out there. You just have to search to through what's out there to get to what is truly worth your time, efforts, and hard earned money.
I have never ever met only one who was even little not after money. Also by visiting she was not looking all most expensive places, second she could self english. But was my mistake that was ending.
And if it would be 100 dollar restaurant no problem, but 300 to 400 dollars is not anymore testing Thats scamming. My problem is that i am honest man and I believe that others are too. In years I have loosed in Ukraine money with 5 numbers in Dollars, phones, money, this and that. So I dont have anymore big interest there anymore. Going other place and less than two weeks she should be by my side.
Can I be straight up and blunt with you Mr SFtruckerWolf? Let me know if you want (can handle it), and then with your permission, I'll give you some blunt advise that you hopefully will find enlightening. Let me know? Joe
Hey thats everywhere no money no honey , all around the globe, im straigth to them i will never see myself marry with a Ukrainian girl , not because i cant support her financially or am ugly , i am latin american single financially very stable but theres not a click with me with European women
Greed and dissatisfaction is the major reason for problems in the family. For a successful relationship people should be happy in whatever they have, everyone cannot become a king. Moreover our schools and colleges r reducing the overall capability of students significantly, evolution had not designed our brains to store r process 2 decades of education, which is a waste of time and energy. Even mother won't love you if you don't take the family responsibilities.
Also, no one mentions the Russian/Ukrainian hysteria with women. A lot of them are hysteric drama queens who scream, shout and throw things. I know guys who's been married or in relationships with many of them and they ended up divorcing because of uncontrolled anger issues and drama.
1) So it's good for the percentage of crazy women that a sane, normal guy left them? He left them as a result of their behavior. I'd say good for the guys instead. No one should put up with or tolerate abusive behavior. 2) So I'm a creep for pointing out experiences people have with some Russian/Ukrainian women? I'm not saying that all women are bad from Russia/Ukraine countries. But no one should ever put up with abusive behavior. Not women, not men! No nation is more perfect than another one. It all depends on the individual person. I'm sorry, but physical attacks, psychological abuse and throwing things are considered abuse where I come from.
MrQuagmire26 “Ukrainian/Russian women hysteria “ .. Let see.. what can be wrong with such statement.. 1) Guy that had relationship with “many of them” .. were the cause of such “hysteria “. 2) Implying that there is such specific thing as “rus / Ukr hysteria “ .. is a bit ..er.. problematic.... Is it genetic .. or “cultural hysteria”? 3) you are discussing it like it’s a quality downside of some product. And finally .. I’m sorry I took it head first . But such videos really creep me out . Naive women that expect online rich princes that will save them and take to “happily ever after” .. or downright gold diggers. And naive men that think that their problem with women will disappear in some foreign places .. or downright creeps that shop for a young submissive trophy . Have you heard that definition of insanity.. doing the same thing over and over .. but expect different result? If there were cases of hysteria and abuse.. it’s just better for you to dig deeper in you and/or expectations you project on women , than just look for a new / improved model. Cheers
+Nata K. I did not say "one guy" who had relationships with many girls. Several of the few i know about experienced this with 1 or 2 women each. Also, I know some eastern european guys (2 of them Russian), even they said that it's typical for eastern women to be drama queens and hysteric. Again, NOT ALL OF THEM. I agree about the gold diggers. Also, one misconception that I see Thai/philippino and eastern european women have is that men in certain parts of the world are so rich. As a Scandinavian guy I can confirm that yes, a lot of us make quite good money. But we also have monthly expenses that match our income (bank loan, electricity, phone, internet, car expenses, food etc etc). So in other words, we are not bringing home prada purses and 1000 euro shoes on a monthly basis. At the end of each month, most of us are not left with a lot of money for saving. (of course unless it's some director of some large company who make millions a year. Which btw is a minority). A common belief I see also among men is = Oh western women are soooooo terrible. I better find a more traditional woman in Thailand or Eastern Europe. They don't think about the challenges of "importing" a woman. Some even go to the extent of lying to get her interested. If a guy lies about being richer than he is, then he could attract the wrong woman.
Hi I am Som Kumar from India. I looked many Ukraineyan RUclipsr there are told Ukraineyan girls need only money and American citizen and dollar but there are don't know American culture even Europe but its a not long time i think u don't know American culture there have many wife's so after 6 month ya 1 year after definitely send back her. and I am proud to be an Indian culture we are respect foreigner and foreign wife also
and what happens if she has no children. Do you still buy her food ? At what stage do l tell her that if she likes for example she doesn't want to have children in my country after she told me she does in the Ukraine? The Australian government will send her right back if she is a scammer.
Hmmm I hear you people all the time saying if you dont have money don't come to Ukraine. I got news for you if you got alot of money it really dont matter where you go and look lmao!! That's not the problem the problem is, when you make a good living not rich but a good living that is where I have a issue with Ukrainian women we have Ukrainians here where I live that come from Ukraine, long story short a Ukrainian girl at my bank she is cute and she was very flirtatious with me so I ask her out! I don't have a problem with rejection, but what I do have a problem is this is my 3rd bank that I have my main bank is across town but a lady friend of mine knows who I am she used to work at the other bank she overheard everything so when I left I got a email from the Ukrainian lady telling how sorry she was and now she would love to go out!! point I am trying to make she finds out how much money I have and who I am. So i sent her a email back i told her if i wasn't good enough before I am not good enough now. So the point is I am a goodlooking guy and I am very confident but these women like money most Men just make a good living not rich and they chose the latter. Cause what these Ukrainians are not getting the rich have no problem getting women in are own country. Ps there views on things are totally different. Yes we have alot of women here that is not good they are completely feminist but if you are comparing a conservative sweetheart down to earth American girl!!! There is no comparison that American conservative girl will win every time I would put are conservative women up against any Russian Ukrainian any woman in the world end of story!!!....
what goes on on in a woman's mind nobody really knows if you do you have all the answers to life and the world today it's not just about yourself is how much money you have in your account what car you drive how big your house is what sort of job you got more work at she looks at what she can take out more than she puts in I'm not unusual for her to think more of her friends more than her partner and also her family come for you this happens anywhere in the world when it comes to a woman if you expect too much you will get nothing and looks can be very deceptive the mind and the body working different ways if not against each other who is best now in this day and age to make sure that you get a contract together so that you protect yourself against a woman taking everything away from you that you work for the legal is on system is unfair towards men any general it's always the man's fault a woman can say whatever she wants and everybody believes everything that comes of her big mouth Wilmington always be deceptive Anderson station also think the grass is greener somewhere else when you've lived your purpose she will think ways to get rid of you this is a thing that goes on everywhere anywhere in the world
I think you guys are sincere about your opinions. But all of this testing nonsense you talk about at the 9:00 mark...what you should also get across to these women is that here in the USA, the K1 Visa application requires American men to undergo all kinds of financial status and back ground checks; income tax forms, banking statements, etc...assurances that we are able to provide for them; and there is a specific number that the government requires of us. And these ladies need to understand this and I think it is your responsibility, as a match maker, to get this across to them. Because as I listen to what Vita is saying I cringe; you make it sound as if we men need to meet all their (ladies) requirements to prove ourselves financially. No wonder it all sounds like a scam. If there is a real relationship "testing" won't need to rear it's ugly head, the man for sure would take care of his woman...but, for example: if I were to go there and a lady suggests an expensive restaurant...Immediately my warning sirens would sound. But if a woman sees that a man has gone to the expense to fly there to Ukraine, and bear the expense of being there for however long...and adding to that, the expense of money lost because of time off work, and then the amount of money it will take to bring her here to America, and all of this just to meet her...well...these women should take that into consideration, before they go into this 'testing' mode. And again I emphasize, it is your responsibility to educate the women on your site about this. I think you know that this testing is something has unintended consequences; it can kill a budding relationship. And this would be a travesty if both parties are sincere, but the woman needed untimely assurances, which she could have had with a little patience.
While I do understand your point, you need to understand this: 1. Too many American "players" have over the years come to Ukraine and as they say, the rotten apple spoils the whole bunch. So "we" have a bad rep here. That's just the way it is, perception is REALITY, right? 2. You say... " the K1 Visa application requires American men to undergo all kinds of financial status and back ground checks; income tax forms, banking statements, etc...assurances that we are able to provide for them; and there is a specific number that the government requires of us. AND WHAT # IS THAT? THAT # IS A JOKE, AND WE BOTH KNOW IT! These ladies ALL want a better life if they move with you to your country as you need to understand what a big sacrifice they are making, giving up their country which they are patriotic about, their family (and likely parents that need them), friends, language, culture, etc. 3. In all countries, both men and women TEST each other! It's just a fact!!! BOTTOM LINE: If you can not provide a better life (lifestyle) than she can have in Ukraine you are NOT likely going to get anywhere with a beautiful Ukrainian women. At best you might score with a "catch and release" girl. That's the truth of the matter, like it or not!!!
All over the world scammers are everywhere. God gave us brains n instinct, you can see or feel if someone ones to use you or getting abusive actions, it's up to you. 🙄🙄🙄I don't think it's only In Ukraine. I don't think if my lady ask money for food or for the maintenence in the household I have provide it for her. Or maybe you two has a budget for a month, then the husband must provide it.
A question for Vita is it true the a one or two thousand dollar Engagement ring for Ukranian girl is considered cheap I offer one girl 200 dollar a moths to help her ,she told I was cheap man
Juan, I could go into this, but it is not about spending the money. And to be honest with you. She will not give you a dollar amount. Their society does not revolve around dollars and numbers. Get away from these scam sites and stop wasting your money. Bryan Match Guaranty Moderator
To live in the u.s. it takes $12,000 average payment would be somewhere around $24,000 in Texas we are really good job average payment would be what 50 Maybe $100,000
TRUE,YOU CAN HAVE LOTS OF HONEY LIKE LOTS OF CHEESE WITH MONEY,BUT NO HONEY AND NO CHEESE WITHOUT MONEY............. NOTHING COMES FREE IN THIS WORLD, YOU HAVE TO PAY FOR IT. THERE IS NO FREE FOOD IN THIS WORLD,FORGET TO HAVE IT FOR FREE.
i hear you but what if I give her 400 dollar for valentine gift and the girl tell me am chip greddy man I was paid in 160 dollars a moths for english and I give her 800 on gifts when we meet this year and she said I want iphone10 but I give her a year earlier a i phone 6
Hello Juan, Have you met this woman in person? How long have you been communicating with this woman? In short, if you havent met her in person, it is very likely that she is taking you for a ride.
Run Forest Run!!! Scammer! She is NOT into you! It doesn't matter if you have met her in person, this girl is using you my friend! "Good girls" act the complete opposite of that! They are not demanding, they don't ask for gifts/money, and they actually help you SAVE money!
Juan, your story looks completely like scamming. as i told in our video if its not 1st need request so it can smell... You gave her too big money to be just presents i can assure you! Amounts like 4oo$ or even 800$ you gave by your decision but if she is still telling you are greedy, dont believe her! You are very generous man, believe me! If the lady needs just new phone (her is broken or stolen as was mine last month) 250-300$ is quite enough to buy a new one of good quality. people can leave without Iphone 10. So, be very careful, please! Sincerely yours, Vita
I am really seriously planing to come in September to Ukraine I wish to know about prices to join Match Guaranty its just right now my work slow and waiting to be 100 percent sure off my trip if come what city in Ukraine is best to meet with you ?
another thing i want to ask you all i am I am on 4 off the biggest date site in Ukraine and I am shok the so many girls said they are still virgin is this a lie or any truth all my friend think is all lie you leave in Ukraine tell me what is you think off this ?
Yulia Timoshenko might be able and willing to pair up with you, though you might want to check out her character references before getting too involved.
Your question was an inadequate one anyway. Firstly, what would you have in mind by "find a Ukraine wife"? Would you expect to carry her up the stairs, or go on morning runs with her? What life are you looking for? Or for her to be your carer until she becomes a widow at age xz. Secondly, is there more to you than those three facts? For all we know you might be unremittingly boring and obnoxious, or alternatively amusing and inspiring. Without this extra info, the question is useless.
No. Not a Thai wife either. All they are after is money and to get a Visa and will stay with You until they get their own visa/permit to stay. Then they will dump You. Harsh but true. Only way she will stay is if You're rich and made her sign a prenup agreement. Then she can not get access to spend Your money unless she stays in a relationship with You. If You're poor she will find some other richer schmuck to Hustle.
Why on the Lord's green Earth would I allow someone to determine my care for them based on how much money I do or do not give to them, simply because they have a certain perspective of where I'm from? This makes them sound really self-absorbed and not an ideal wife. I'm not trying to sound like a jerk, I just think it's crazy to think something like "it's just $100; it's simple for you to afford so you should just do it or you don't care about me". That's some real manipulation.
...One of your own has a Vlog and swears that Ukraine girls are not attracted in the slightest to foreigners....or older guys.......I have my own thoughts.....But that is coming straight from the horse's mouth.
One side of the topic you didn't talk about is that the time when the money request happen. For example, there's a red flag if the woman asks for money on the second date.
To inform men, many of whom have already been scammed, that if they don't 'take care' of a potential wife and dependents through financial means that it is likely to be a big relationship killer is, I feel, an ill-conceived message to be sending. You are setting men up to be scammed yet again and putting them in a difficult situation. Surely if the woman has the right motives towards a potential husband, and is aware that he has been scammed already, it is not likely that she will be asking for money at all which appears to have been a consistent message throughout your previous videos?
hey Andrew, point taken, like Vita said when I first asked her this question with no advance WARNING ... "that's one of the most difficult questions, it can be very tricky"! One the one hand, the sad reality remains that this industry rakes in a cool $1 billion annual, and at least $950,000,000 of that money is SCAM-based! So BUYER BEWARE! That said, time and time again, in my 2 years working with by partner Tatiana, I see many clients that have been badly scammed ($10-20k on average, and $160K worst case so far!) that they are hyper sensitive to being scammed again. Can't say I blame them, right. Problem is, they have such a SCAM hair trigger that they inadvertently BLOW their relationship with a good girl. Would you agree that at the end of the day, successful relationships are about satisfying the NEEDS of your partner? Well, I believe "safety and security" is the #1 NEED of the vast majority of Ukrainian women. CONCLUSION: failure to understand this topic well, is definitely one of the TOP 3 RELATIONSHIP KILLERS! Let me try another way to clarify my main point as it's super important to every mans success! SCENARIO #1: You are likely BEING SCAMMED IF she is asking your for money (in any amount) and you have never met "your lady" in person, and you are PAYING to communicate with her online. This is a virtual relationship and you are merely playing in fantasyland my friend! You're being scammed to a 99.999% probability!!! My Advise: RUN FORST RUN!!! SCENARIO #2: You MIGHT not be being scammed IF you've been to Ukraine and met with her in person many times AND you feel in your gut that she's "into you"! If you don't feel it, TRUST YOUR GUT GUYS! Here are some good indicators that she's REALLY into you. She's given you her personal cell# so you can communicate on Viber. She writes you long messages on Viber/WhatsApp/Skype and in general invests her time regularly to communicate with you personally. These first two are HUGE! If these conditions are met, understand that if she's a "good girl" and she's in financial need of some sort, she might mention her need/situation to you (likely as a TEST), but she will likely not ask you for money. But understand, this is not 100%!?! And where this gets particularly tricky is if she has some sort of URGENT NEED, such as a sick child, sick parent, can't meet an essential need, eg, pay heat bill, rent bill, no food for children... then in such situations even a "good girl" will sometimes ask you for money. "Good Girls" however are very humble and avoid asking for money unless they are in desperate need. My Advise: Test, test, test! And trust your gut!!! If your gut feelings checks out, then give her a little money and TEST her. Give it time, be patient with her, communicate with her daily, see if she responds timely, is it just very short replies, or long involved communications, ask her if she sees the possibility of a future with you? Ask her if she considers you "her man"? Bottom line again is, TRUST YOUR GUT! Trust yourself, you'll feel it if she's really into you! WHEN $HOULD YOU $END HER MONEY??? If your gut checks out, and all the conditions/advise above are satisfied, and you have feelings for her, you really want to WIN her heart, her affections, her love, then YES you are WISE to start sending her reasonable monthly financial support ($100-200/mo, not more!), especially if you're not able to go to Ukraine very often to see her in person. I can't stress this enough, if you do not meet her needs for "safety and security", you'll never gain her trust enough to MARRY YOU!!! Hope that helps guys! If you have move questions or comments, please POST HERE.
Hi Joe, these men who you are asking to trust their gut feeling are the same men who trusted their gut feeling previously with what they perceived to be "good girls" and are now on average $10-20k poorer. Why should they trust their gut feeling again with what they perceive to be a "good girl" and expect a different outcome? Are these same men going to be able to detect a "good girl" when they meet her in person? There is a reason why they say that 'love is blind' and it's because with 'affairs of the heart' reason goes out the window and it can happen online or in the real world. Are these financial payments you advocate them making substantially different from what these men were doing previously when they were being scammed online? By justifying them now sending monthly financial support of $100-200/mo to meet her needs for "safety and security", you are setting them up to be scammed again and for further financial grief. Is there some reason why a Ukrainian woman in dire financial need can't approach members of her direct or extended family for help? Surely her financial responsibility and that of her dependents lies with them and not with her man friend, but then that responsibility passes to him when they are married? I feel that no woman, other than a wife, should be asking a man for money regardless of her reason or circumstances.
Like both Vita and I have said Andrew, this is a VERY difficult subject and we could go back and forth here til the cows come home. I think Brad gives some great advise in this video here... "Catch And Release" vs. "Catch And Keep" Dating In Ukraine" ruclips.net/video/sYAq9naCKr8/видео.html
Thank you for your comments and video link, Joe. I have just one further question for you which I would like your perspective on. What is the difference between a Ukrainian woman who accepts monthly payments for "safety and security", but later gives a reason for not marrying him and doesn't fully reimburse his payments, and those women whose profiles are brought to the attention of men on a database of scammers?
Thanks That’s very important information to whom shall visit Ukraine Any way I hope U who think for good work an assist other people who needs help U should open as help BOX to these people And that’s can done by your fritelefone So l’m sure there are many many people can forgive for great humanity things
I see all these beautiful Ukrainian women on u-tube, but, I would feel just horrible to pull one of them away from home, and, family even to help them have a better life.
This bull shit I have a nice girl and she's not after money she loves me and it depends on where you go follow your heart that's not true if you guys believe in that you will never find your true love if you always think that everything is a scam then you would never be able to assess what you want in life in life is how you make it how you believe
The fact that the only thing the two of you talked about for twenty minutes was money tells me y’all just want American dollars! 🤦♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️…. No thanks, I’ll find an American woman to take my money.
i have a few friends married to ukrain women. the women dont show true love but show love kinda like a cat. she loves you because you are keeping a roof over her head and in a better way of life. still better then the local women from my country
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No money No honey is a natural
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I think Steve makes a great contribution to this very tricky topic.
See his video below, "Ukraine Women's Financial Expectations"
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Interesting video but I really don't understand why women start thinking about children before they think about their own love. They should try to find a man they love and respect first of all, instead of saying he's a good provider so I could love him, to me this is extremely backwards.
If you are serious and you have to support... you can also go to her give her some money personal during your visit to her house. You will find out soon enough how she spend it.
If you visit her and you have to stay in a hotel, and not her place, it is not time for financial support yet.
@@kc4ril kids need help first always
I am a south asian and here also " No money no honey " too. Its a worldwide thing !
every one of them blames her man for his laziness and not running to get a better job. Man is an ATM machine for them. I have the same disaster wife living with me : After 26 years of spending my money on her and her kids ( I spent a hell of money to get them into schools and universities ) ...Now she is telling them that your dad is not good any more.. he is lazy and not bringing enough money for the family...( I am still working as a University Professor by the way) THAT IS MY STATUS MY DEAR FRIENDS
@@sarrajwb5347:I hope for your sake you divorced her.
When you have a crush on a girl and she doesn't ask you to buy things.Then she is ok to be your future wife.
wait until you sign the legal contract and then you will eat your words, bitterly and sourly.
Never Marry anyone with goods in common thats the secret
@@paolopizzini9506 *NEVER* marry a single mother.
No that’s not true every woman can’t be your wife, they can’t raise your children mentally and spiritually mostly woman’s are outgoing any man giving them compliments they go in bed when husband boyfriend not around. Must be careful We made one body, soul, spirit , if person has many soulmate attached with your soul it’s hard to make any relationship for long run it’s deep spiritual.
Woman will test you if you like it or not. I was in Kiev before in that situation: woman suggested a cheap or an expensive restaurant... Even if you go for the more expensive one, what I did, it will still be cheap compairing to western prices and she will have a great time and something to talk with her friends about it. For me it was a good opportunity to see if she was appreciating it, her interaction with the staff, etc. So at the end I was also testing her...
Great strategy Hans, I did the same as you when I was in the dating trenches in Ukraine. I agree, it is indeed a great way to test the lady. You can see many things by letting her choose the restaurant.
hahahaha you are rubbish!!
I'm Canadian Ukrainian, my grandparents were hard working but I can imagine how difficult it must've been to travel to a new country without knowing a word of English. Ukrainian people are brave!
Hi Jean, Yana here. Thank you for commenting:-) It must have been a great challenge for your grandparents to relocate to Canada many years ago.
Vita really nailed it!! Great information as usual. Thank you again as always!! Congrats Vita and Joe!!
One thing late in the video that is very true, is that all Ukrainian think the west is paved with gold. I kept telling my girlfriend to learn about the west and how westerners live. One day she asked me to help her with 2000 GRN ($75) for her apartment heating repairs. When I took it from my wallet she exclaimed, "My God you're rich!". In the UK you cannot get an engineer to attend for $75 let along replace the boiler.
if you don'thave any money then DON'T come to the ukraine looking for your true love!!!
Or anywhere.....
They don't want to come to the USA and have to sleep in a car!!
GOT TO HAVE YOUR SHIT TOGETHER
In the end it's simple, USE COMMON SENSE. I don't care how gorgeous she is, if your gut is telling you that something isn't right, you should probably listen to it. If you are 60 years old and in a "relationship" with a 19 year old Ukrainian super model, she is absolutely just scamming you for gifts and money. A real Ukrainian woman who is sincere will refuse to accept any gifts, money, jewelry, etc. unless you have been dating for at least a month or 2. Even then, most of the legitimate women will refuse to ask you for help or money. They will just tough it out until you notice they are in trouble and offer to help them. The only gifts you should be giving a Ukrainian woman are flowers, anything else is considered to be inappropriate. Also stick to women who are older, say ~28 years old and up. The scammers are usually the women who are in their early 20's or teens.
a 19 year old is not wanting to be with a 60 year apart from the money
1 of the women I'm interested in. Is 30. I'm 38 going on 39. I'm still going to be careful about it
Never EVER get involved with a single mother.
Facts
Very good video. This subject is the most important when two cultures "Rich" and "Poor" come together. I´ve dated 3 Ukrainian girls and all were super girls. They worry for their children, you are secondary. This is not a bad thing. They want a better life, who doesn´t. The woman I´m with now has never asked for money, yet over 4 years we have maintained a relationship. She has come to me to spend 10 week and sometimes 2 weeks, I pay obviously pay for this, however there is no abuse. I send her money because I want to, 100 or 200 euros, this make a huge difference to her life. Be clever guys, look at the situation, as they said in the video, if she needs to fill the fridge it can cost 50 euros, if her teeth need repairing and its 500 euros? A dentist in Ukraine will be lucky if he earns 300 euros a month !!!!! (outside of Kiev)
It is not applied tjust to Ulranian but people all over the world.
渡辺尚道 Exactly. Ukranian women are not to blame. We all are victimized by our governments. Ukranian women are THE MOST BEAUTIFUL women on the planet. But they also receive nearly NOTHING for their work. (I always 😭 inside to see such INJUSTICE....)
you think
She: Prove your love by supportng my kids from another man(where is HIS contribution?). Take me to expensive restaurant, mall, help me with my bills.
He: Does she love me or just NEED my $$ ??
Am I the only one asking this question?
No, there are others asking the same (unfortunate) question because they have not yet ACCEPTED the simple answer. Yes, she (some) only need your money and will make use of it if you are willing. If you were of meager means and could not foot the bill for her children or unable to pay her bills, that kind of person would not give you a second look. So face the truth and you have your answer already. If a woman asks you for money and you give it to her, you should also realize she will go with any man who will give her what she wants, and she will throw you over for another who can offer more than what you can come up with at any time. Be very, very cautious about what you are doing sir, what is done cannot so easily be undone. Cheers!
You're right 👍👍
Listen again the video, you didn't understand nothing.
every one of them blames her man for his laziness and not running to get a better job. Man is an ATM machine for them. I have the same disaster wife living with me : After 26 years of spending my money on her and her kids ( I spent a hell of money to get them into schools and universities ) ...Now she is telling them that your dad is not good any more.. he is lazy and not bringing enough money for the family...( I am still working as a University Professor by the way) THAT IS MY STATUS MY DEAR FRIENDS
Look at the big picture and what's going on over there and the men there, the right lady will be there with you and you will know it
"Testing" is going on all the time, it's how we know who another person is. The trick is recalibrating to another culture.
If someone (from ANY culture) responds to your sincere gift with suggestions that you're cheap, it's time to recognize that a relationship with this person in the future is going to go similarly ("You're not doing this right", "you're inadequate", "you need to do this", I" won't be happy until......") It's better to move on, don't even waste time trying to explain to her that she feels inappropriately.
Many women's tests of a man are similar to what you might do before trusting a questionable old rickety bridge across a ravine. Is this strong enough? Am I in danger if I just proceed before REALLY checking this out? How do I know that I am safe?
thank you you just saved me a lot of money
Happy to help! Would you care to share some details of your story, knowing you'll be paying it forward and helping out many of your fellow men on the same journey?
had been chatting with a lady from odessa. she has asked for $500 usd a month for english lessons . and until I started watching some of your videos i was going to send her it.
@@p-nutbutter4056 dont send it
@@georgewylie7904 i didn't
I can totally say if the woman is genuine what this lady is saying is true. I was skyping with a beautiful Ukrainian lady. As soon as I asked to see her on Skype she did not have a problem with this. In fact she insisted. She never asked for money or gifts. I'm not going to lie when I saw her on Skype she was even better looking than in her pictures. Fortunately/unfortunately she did not sense a connection.
Yip, you had a genuine girl there. Great example, thanks for sharing!
She didn't like you , you mean?
@@patrickparker8417 That's what he meant, Patrick.
My lady . You are so honest . In every word . With and against your people . Hat off. Ukrainian women are much more better than a lot of other ladies from all over the world ❤️
Why test your potential partner with an expensive restaurant ??? Games and more games. SMH!!!
That is why I am adamant when I say that sex escort is the most honest profession.
the reason why, is because there are millions of assholes who are stupid enough to fall for that kind of shit. It's just another case of supply and demand, as long as there are rich idiots, golddigers are going to exists.
@@Zenoandturtle When I was in Kyiv, I connected to Tinder. Lots of matches, mostly women offering services for money. There was one who wanted to go to dinner, so we did. Then I bought her several gifts when I returned to Kiev. Should have chosen one of the others, it would have been cheaper lol
@@georgbonil7932 another words she is looking for fool,stupid deer. There nothing about love. If you will bankrupt,she will jump to another valet...
Its always good to met her in her country see were and how she lives. I hope she comes from a good family . A lady around your own age is a safe bet.
Don't know on what planet this guy is living. I live in Europe in the 6th richest country on the planet and average income IS NOT 60000$ per month. It is already the top 5% or 10% earners in my country. So what is a bill of 100$ in Ukraine in a restaurant? Guys i had been married to an ukrainian woman and i met a lot. It happened ONE time in 10 years that i paid such amount. It IS not HEALTHY in Ukraine to pay such amount for a restaurant if you want to have a long term relationship, except if you can afford her a HIGH SUPPORT life style. Be careful because slavic girls could have no limits in case you DON'T quickly defines the limits. I know a guy who dropped 250000$ in two years for her wife.
So the problem is not a binary problem : give or not to give money. The problem is that you have to educate her constantly to show her YOUR limits accordingly to your means and to everything she don't know about the western economy but believe that all westerners are at least "well off". (as a matter of fact, the video says the truth : they know shit about it -they often believe they know because they have traveled but in fact it's BS-).
This is what you will have to face in a real relationship and contrary to what this guy is saying, it's an anomaly to pay 100$ for a restaurant in Ukraine. This amount is a crazy amount for her generally (one week of labour in Ukraine), so if you start to pay such amount she could not understand that the day after you are not ready to replace the washing machinge 350$ and why you don't want to afford a first class to Bali, and so on, guys you see now the logic. The trap now is on you and many guys don't know how to stop it. They also make confusion between normal life and vacation budget.
So if you let her believe that is a STANDARD, to get a 100$ restaurant bill be ready to face a big mess. It's not important what you can do or not, but what is important is what you are PRINTING in her mind.
I know an other guy with a 20000$ month income who had been hearthly broken and dropped probably 100K$ on a lady BECAUSE he started to accept expensive restaurants from the scratch. Those type of guys one day or an other will have this bitter fruit in their mouth : have i been loved for me or for my money? And yes when you have such type of fruit in mouth, it sucks guys!
Anywhere , no money -no honey
Some very good answers on a difficult subject.
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For thousands of years women have always gravitated to the 6' 5, 250 pound Greek God hunk, or the guy with the most gold stored in his vault, let's get real.
You should get out more and take a look around. There are plenty of happy couples who have neither money nor beauty. If you date in your league, you don't need to worry about being rich or a greek God. But if you are another delusional saggy old fart who wants to be with a supermodel... PAY UP! 😆
I talked to a filipina woman with 2 kids for almost two years. I was financially supporting her by putting her younger son through school. But I come to find out that the school she was supposedly sending him to. Never existed. She was scamming me for over a year. I ended it before she bled me dry. Not sure yet about ukrainian women. I'm going to take it easy & slow to see what happens
Never send money to a woman you have never met IN PERSON.
I was involved with a Ukrainian woman from Pavlograd. for 7 years I sent her 600 dollars a month and she complained I did not send her more. She only made 100 -200 a month working for the post office. She called me greedy so I cut things off. She asked me for 100 dollars a month for high speed internet. I know it did not cost her so much. but she was always scamming me for extra money. Why would she expect me to support her before marriage?
is it wrong to ask a woman to account for where she spend your money if you support her?
Help her man
every one of them blames her man for his laziness and not running to get a better job. Man is an ATM machine for them. I have the same disaster wife living with me : After 26 years of spending my money on her and her kids ( I spent a hell of money to get them into schools and universities ) ...Now she is telling them that your dad is not good any more.. he is lazy and not bringing enough money for the family...( I am still working as a University Professor by the way) THAT IS MY STATUS MY DEAR FRIENDS
Very helpful video. Most western men immediately assume a girl is only into him for his money if she asks or hints for financial help anytime prior to engagement. I myself went on a tour with one of the major tour agencies and my girl asked me for financial support on our 4th night together. And 70% of the guys I reached out to on previous tours told me that they eventually broke it off because of this issue. And almost half of the guys from my tour on our ride share bus back to the airport said they were going to send some kind of financial support when they got back home so it was clear to me a lot of these girls were asking for some kind of support right away . Between my own experiences and my previous former client facebook poll, and the ride share bus poll, I came to realize that ukraine girls expect at least some form of support and rather early on too. -Personally, I think any agency who proports to educate guys by putting out videos should be direct and explain that most of these ladies will expect and ask or hint for some form of financial help sooner or later and at least educate the guys to realize this and to understand that it doesn’t necessarily mean she is insincere or only into you for your money. It’s truly their language of love. Every agency should put out a video like this one so the relationships guys form asa result of their intro services will have a chance to survive . The agency I went with does have three finacial vidoes but they only talk about how much the ladies will appreciate it “if” a guy does this but what their videos don’t say is that the guys need to expect that most ladies will expect it at some point in time, usually sooner than later. . This agency’s videos only say “if a girl we’re to ask etc”, and to me the word “if” implies it most likely won’t happen or doesn’t happen often , such that a guy thinks it “might” or “could” happen rather than the full truth that it “most likely” will happen. They should change the wording to “when the girls asks” or to “most girls will eventually ask”. Most men who watch that particular agency's videos about the subject of finances don’t walk away with the idea that they will be asked for this or most likely will be asked/hinted at for finacial support of some kind at some point. That agency should do a video just like this one. Basically what this video tells me is that for Ukraine women , their language of love is at least “some” degree of financial support or assistance . If the agency I went with had been more forthright that this would happen, then I wouldn’t have freaked out when it did happen and continued to happen. Lastly, the agency I used for my tour suggested sending $300 -$400/mo when my girl complained that my $150/mo wasn’t enough . That never sounded right to me (that’s a lot of money , especially considering the average salary is $150/mo) and I love that this video explains it doesn’t have to be anything near that much, but rather something like around $100. When I sent $150/mo, my girl complained that I should be sending her more because she knows I make enough in America to afford to send more than that. And of course I was blamed by the owner of the agency for having a freak out reaction when this happened to me when in reality, the cause was due to the agency not preparing me for this moment when it did happen. This video puts the whole issue into perspective and make total sense to me now. Helps me understand ukraine women much better now. Thank you for posting this. I predict you’ll get a lot of positive comments on this one.
Thanks for your very articulate comment! Let me stress the point though, generally speaking, a "good girl" that is hopeful to have long lasting relations with you will NOT ASK you for money (unless it's maybe a desperate need). Not in the short term anyways. That said, you need to know that she absolutely will EXPECT it (and little gifts) if she considers you "her man". This is a very tricky subject and my advise, tread lightly, do not over react, be patient, show her you are SERIOUS, that you are there for her (in every way). That is one of the little-know secrets on how go about winning the heart of a beautiful Ukrainian lady!
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Thats why I NEVER mess with dating tours. Some men actually blow $1000-$10000 on these dating tours to meet Ukrainian women. Its a big scam to begin with, not to mention many of the girls aren't really serious and looking for a sponsor. $150 in Ukraine is enough money for food, transportation, and still have enough to go to the movies or somewhere for a month. They are scammers! The only time I sent money to Ukraine was to my future wife, after we met 3 times and communicated for over 1 year. And it was for her trip to Kiev to go to the embassy and her plane ticket to the USA once she was granted a visa. I bought her and her mom flowers for March 8th. And there was one time she wanted to take a vacation with her sister and I sent her $50 via WU. It was more than enough for her weekend trip which included train ride, hotel, and food.
it seems you never have been to Ukraine!! Just go once to a supermarket and buy food for a family then you will know how expensive life there is!
thank you so much about the information
Why would a restaurant in the Ukraine cost $100 makes no sense at the very much I would expect it to cost a $30
Vita seems psychologically VERY intelligent. She is not naive for sure ;)
Very informative talk, thanks.
Welcome!
I understand what you are saying, but in my situation my Ukraine ladies children are adults. We did get married and are in the process of bringing her to Canada. My wife does not ask a lot of questions but we do talk and Skype everyday. Should I be concerned about anything?
So many negative comments.. in America women also want a man who can provide. Men go to other countries so they can provide for someone who is better looking than what they are used to. The using goes both ways.
This is really "business of love"! Ukrainian women are intelligent, they are not for sale.
So there is another way to see it, explain better.
good video guys very honest
Not true.
I’ve Been married to a Ukrainian woman for 12 years.
I agree with you date are wrong I found me a nice girl and she loves you very much so Brothers at astronaut is how you believe you use your gut feeling and follow your heart
Did she give you sloppy toppy on the first date?
Dear Vita, you videos are really good and balanced. You got a good style and nice communicating skills. I want to ask you a question. On your youtube channel and also other match making youtube videos, everybody tells foreigners to be a man of a perfect nature. My question is, If a man CAN BEHAVE SO PERFECT with a Girl then WHY HE SHOULD COME TO UKRAINE ?????? He can find a very beautiful girl in HIS OWN COUNTRY or even anywhere in whole world.
There are 2 reasons. 1) Old men think they are going to bag a beautiful model that's young enough to be his grand-daughter because he comes from a western nation & she is going to be dazzled with his social security cheque. 2) Because most middle aged guys have been through divorce or been taken to the cleaners. So they look for something new..they have been led to believe that foreign women (doesn't matter whether it's Ukraine or the likes of Thailand) are somehow different to the usual types they have in their home countries. It's nonsense & 99% of these suckers learn the hard way when they go home with an empty wallet.
I am from Pakistan and 💯💯💯 % agree with you.
Can I ask about the younger man like me and I have affair in Ukrainian woman now but older than me I love him and she love me too we have a plan to marry 2018..my question is?they have a problem about enter there in Ukraine when we are married in my country?plss I need a answer about this.thank you for reading
How do you know she's not asking 20 men for that $50? I've had a girls who tried to take me to the most expensive restaurant in town. When I didn't take her and I chose the restaurant, only then did she like me. When I took control of the situation, the girl told me, "I like your style."
Ukranian women are no special or better than women around the world. She makes Ukranian women sound special.
A Ukranian 6 is an 8 in America (and that means California 8 not let's say Arizona) let's be honest. They are hot and so are the Russians.
I have met a Ukrainian lady in spain and we get on well but I don’t have the means to live in two places and she doesn’t have a visa .. I do my best to help but I fear I’m going to be left
Jump the gun. Leave her first. You'll thank me later!!!
it's not a matter of WHAT but a matter of WHEN.
In other words, i date a girl for a year, maybe even living together for a while, she proved me that she really likes me for what i am, then for some reasons she got into troubles for money, then yes, i'm ready to help, because of the past
I want such 5 in 1 lady: mother, wive, cook, lover, housekeeper & friend!!! I think any good man would reward such high quality ladies with high quality love, too!
Who doesn't!? I can tell you, Vita is also the epitomy of the "good girl" Ukrainian women. I challenge you to find such incredible women, anywhere else in this world!
Be honorable, go to the Ukraine and live there , learn the language, meet the parents and friends, make a life there with them, bring your money and take care of her and her family.
Hi Dale, Yana here. I think it's very important to come to your lady's country at least for a couple of weeks to meet the her family and learn about her lifestyle. This will help you to understand your lady better🙂
If she asks me for $50 for food I'll send the $500
What are your thoughts about Anastasia date? Is this a legit site to meet someone or not? Thanks in advance!!
@TheSQUALLLINE No! They are pay-per-letter and you are actually writing to a person who works in a boiler room. Anastasia Date has many covers--meaning different websites with various names. If you watch the videos produced by Match Guaranty, you will learn the international dating scene from A to Z. The decision really lies with you--if you believe what you are hearing, comparing what MG staff says versus what's going on with your PPL 'relationship'. In short, if these PPL's hook you, you could end up spending thousands on letters, chats, gifts and website 'phone calls'--only to realize that even if you ever get to meet the lady in the photo, she will come up with some excuse not to continue with you. Then, there you are sitting in Kiev by yourself with no support.
I know, because I made the same mistake: 8 months on Dream Singles and paying through the nose as stated above to the tune of almost $20k USD! The 'lady' and I dreamed up this big dream meeting. I bought my airline tickets, booked my hotel--great, right? So, at the appointed time had come, I met her. Yes, she was much more beautiful than her photo--but---after talking with her for ten minutes, I realized that real girl had no clue regarding the previous 8 months, gave an excuse why she couldn't see me again--so there I was--in Kiev facing another 12 days, no support, nothing.
Our translator invited me to their main agency, Grace Family Marriage Agency--they run most, if not all, the PPL girls who operate in the Kiev Oblast. Sure, I was introduced to another lady, who was real--with whom I have personal info so we can visit and chat on video calls--WhatsApp, etc. But the point is, why did I need to spend all that money on someone who I believed was sincere and wasn't.
My best advice, if you desire a real Ukrainian woman--just sign up here--considerably less expensive than my ordeal. Sure, you will need to put in the effort--it's not magic, but you will have excellent coaching and support. Forget PPL, sign up here!--Keith
I dont need smartphone. I rather want fire shine on me.
So after she picked me up from the airport in her $60,000 BMW X6. I fill the car with fuel then go food shopping. $250 later she's testing me? Don't think so. Her 5 apartments, own house and expensive car, 2 new I phones tells me she can look after herself.
Sorry to say, there's only one way to make that kind of money in Ukraine. CORRUPTION!!!
MY ADVISE: run Forest run!!!
Then why does she need you. A Foreigner?
an attractive prost.
Visa
Are you offering service to indian, looking for serious marriage?
Lol I thought she said perfect cougars, turns out it's perfect cookers lol
I love your video,i just lost my Ukrainian girlfriend,i think now I understand why I lost her.I will do better next time.
The reason I want to move to Ukraine is my retirement dollar will last longer.
Well, it depends on the woman and her skills as well. For example, most women are beautiful when they are young. It's difficult to be a truly ugly youth. However, if she is just pretty but has no skills, then she can't expect to be a trophy wife. I, myself, am homely, cook on defrost--it's a skill, man, and have a mental illness. I stay single. However, when I was younger and cuter, I looked for someone who is reliable. I am not a trophy wife. The biggest problem I've had with guys is that they expect too much out of women or for me to cook, clean, raise children, always be there for them, and to make a lot of money, and go to the gym for 6 hours a day while their pudge sticks out, they work at a grocery store, and they do nothing at home. They think they deserve a trophy wife, a beautiful foreigner after I turn out to be a disappointment. This is where the country matters. If you invite a beautiful woman over who has two degrees in like in biochemistry and business, and you are not rich or useful, she will simply use you to find a better partner. You have to know yourself when you look for a man or woman.
Nice VDO. I want to visit Ukraine. What kind of help I can get from you?
I can assume from her talks that she only works with Ukrainian women who already have children.
That's why you have to manage their expectations from the beginning, by stating what you won't do. Don't be afraid to walk away. Fellas, you need an abundance mindset and to view yourselves as the prize.
I asked my Ukraine girlfriend could I help her financially and she said no she didn't want me to feel like she was using me? Can someone explain?
In Ukrainian culture if you get financial help from someone, it obligates you. Also since war started, gold diggers started using "financial help" as part of scaming Western men.
@@MatchGuaranty I just want to know what she meant when she said I dont want you to feel like im using you?
Reverse psychology... She's caught on to the fact that we've caught on.
have been scammed by so many Ukrainian girls!! very few will not do this to you. be careful guys! and I am not a bad looking man.... I dated a woman named Alla in cherkasy.. I took her to nice dinners. paid for her taxi pver and over.. and she expected it. That is what makes me angry.. she used me.. I bought her nice Christmas gifts!! then she tried with crocodile tears for me to help her with her buisness.. and she cared more about her teenage son more than me.. It tore my heart out..
Did you think she was going to kick her son to the curb for you? Jeez...
@@paulschmitz9175 oh shut the hell up! who asked for your opinion?
that is true, no money, no honey🤣🤣🤣😅😅😅😂😂😂
I think that this video is giving a little HONEST Truth on and about how some of these women are. It is thought that WESTERN MEN are walking money bags and money just falls from their pockets. But there are some gems out there. You just have to search to through what's out there to get to what is truly worth your time, efforts, and hard earned money.
Perfect wife, perfect cook, perfect everything. REALLY? I want one. Money? It's an issue everywhere. I don't care that much.
Then come and get her Dan!))) It's simple, but not easy)
I have never ever met only one who was even little not after money. Also by visiting she was not looking all most expensive places, second she could self english. But was my mistake that was ending.
And if it would be 100 dollar restaurant no problem, but 300 to 400 dollars is not anymore testing Thats scamming. My problem is that i am honest man and I believe that others are too. In years I have loosed in Ukraine money with 5 numbers in Dollars, phones, money, this and that. So I dont have anymore big interest there anymore. Going other place and less than two weeks she should be by my side.
Can I be straight up and blunt with you Mr SFtruckerWolf? Let me know if you want (can handle it), and then with your permission, I'll give you some blunt advise that you hopefully will find enlightening. Let me know? Joe
Hey thats everywhere no money no honey , all around the globe, im straigth to them i will never see myself marry with a Ukrainian girl , not because i cant support her financially or am ugly , i am latin american single financially very stable but theres not a click with me with European women
Greed and dissatisfaction is the major reason for problems in the family. For a successful relationship people should be happy in whatever they have, everyone cannot become a king. Moreover our schools and colleges r reducing the overall capability of students significantly, evolution had not designed our brains to store r process 2 decades of education, which is a waste of time and energy. Even mother won't love you if you don't take the family responsibilities.
Well Didn't Madonna say in her song that she is a Material Girl ?
Money Money Money money!
You need to have a cave and be able to hunt ! It's a natural thing
I'm 70 years old already, can I marry a Ukrainian lady?
Also, no one mentions the Russian/Ukrainian hysteria with women. A lot of them are hysteric drama queens who scream, shout and throw things. I know guys who's been married or in relationships with many of them and they ended up divorcing because of uncontrolled anger issues and drama.
MrQuagmire26 Good for “many of them” .. creep!
1) So it's good for the percentage of crazy women that a sane, normal guy left them? He left them as a result of their behavior. I'd say good for the guys instead. No one should put up with or tolerate abusive behavior. 2) So I'm a creep for pointing out experiences people have with some Russian/Ukrainian women?
I'm not saying that all women are bad from Russia/Ukraine countries. But no one should ever put up with abusive behavior. Not women, not men! No nation is more perfect than another one. It all depends on the individual person. I'm sorry, but physical attacks, psychological abuse and throwing things are considered abuse where I come from.
MrQuagmire26 “Ukrainian/Russian women hysteria “ .. Let see.. what can be wrong with such statement..
1) Guy that had relationship with “many of them” .. were the cause of such “hysteria “.
2) Implying that there is such specific thing as “rus / Ukr hysteria “ .. is a bit ..er.. problematic.... Is it genetic .. or “cultural hysteria”?
3) you are discussing it like it’s a quality downside of some product.
And finally .. I’m sorry I took it head first . But such videos really creep me out . Naive women that expect online rich princes that will save them and take to “happily ever after” .. or downright gold diggers. And naive men that think that their problem with women will disappear in some foreign places .. or downright creeps that shop for a young submissive trophy .
Have you heard that definition of insanity.. doing the same thing over and over .. but expect different result?
If there were cases of hysteria and abuse.. it’s just better for you to dig deeper in you and/or expectations you project on women , than just look for a new / improved model.
Cheers
Man sounds like a lot of fun I might as well just get myself one sounds like she'll keep me laughing
+Nata K. I did not say "one guy" who had relationships with many girls. Several of the few i know about experienced this with 1 or 2 women each. Also, I know some eastern european guys (2 of them Russian), even they said that it's typical for eastern women to be drama queens and hysteric. Again, NOT ALL OF THEM.
I agree about the gold diggers. Also, one misconception that I see Thai/philippino and eastern european women have is that men in certain parts of the world are so rich. As a Scandinavian guy I can confirm that yes, a lot of us make quite good money. But we also have monthly expenses that match our income (bank loan, electricity, phone, internet, car expenses, food etc etc). So in other words, we are not bringing home prada purses and 1000 euro shoes on a monthly basis. At the end of each month, most of us are not left with a lot of money for saving. (of course unless it's some director of some large company who make millions a year. Which btw is a minority).
A common belief I see also among men is = Oh western women are soooooo terrible. I better find a more traditional woman in Thailand or Eastern Europe. They don't think about the challenges of "importing" a woman. Some even go to the extent of lying to get her interested. If a guy lies about being richer than he is, then he could attract the wrong woman.
Would love to meet someone from Ukraine but don't know how to start, the thing is; I don't speak the language
Hi Enrique, Yana here. You can start by registering: matchguaranty.com/register/ There is no time like the present.
In Ukraine, this means: no money, no profit.
Hi I am Som Kumar from India. I looked many Ukraineyan RUclipsr there are told Ukraineyan girls need only money and American citizen and dollar but there are don't know American culture even Europe but its a not long time i think u don't know American culture there have many wife's so after 6 month ya 1 year after definitely send back her. and I am proud to be an Indian culture we are respect foreigner and foreign wife also
and what happens if she has no children. Do you still buy her food ? At what stage do l tell her that if she likes for example she doesn't want to have children in my country after she told me she does in the Ukraine? The Australian government will send her right back if she is a scammer.
Hmmm I hear you people all the time saying if you dont have money don't come to Ukraine. I got news for you if you got alot of money it really dont matter where you go and look lmao!! That's not the problem the problem is, when you make a good living not rich but a good living that is where I have a issue with Ukrainian women we have Ukrainians here where I live that come from Ukraine, long story short a Ukrainian girl at my bank she is cute and she was very flirtatious with me so I ask her out! I don't have a problem with rejection, but what I do have a problem is this is my 3rd bank that I have my main bank is across town but a lady friend of mine knows who I am she used to work at the other bank she overheard everything so when I left I got a email from the Ukrainian lady telling how sorry she was and now she would love to go out!! point I am trying to make she finds out how much money I have and who I am. So i sent her a email back i told her if i wasn't good enough before I am not good enough now. So the point is I am a goodlooking guy and I am very confident but these women like money most Men just make a good living not rich and they chose the latter. Cause what these Ukrainians are not getting the rich have no problem getting women in are own country. Ps there views on things are totally different. Yes we have alot of women here that is not good they are completely feminist but if you are comparing a conservative sweetheart down to earth American girl!!! There is no comparison that American conservative girl will win every time I would put are conservative women up against any Russian Ukrainian any woman in the world end of story!!!....
what goes on on in a woman's mind nobody really knows if you do you have all the answers to life and the world today it's not just about yourself is how much money you have in your account what car you drive how big your house is what sort of job you got more work at she looks at what she can take out more than she puts in I'm not unusual for her to think more of her friends more than her partner and also her family come for you this happens anywhere in the world when it comes to a woman if you expect too much you will get nothing and looks can be very deceptive the mind and the body working different ways if not against each other who is best now in this day and age to make sure that you get a contract together so that you protect yourself against a woman taking everything away from you that you work for the legal is on system is unfair towards men any general it's always the man's fault a woman can say whatever she wants and everybody believes everything that comes of her big mouth Wilmington always be deceptive Anderson station also think the grass is greener somewhere else when you've lived your purpose she will think ways to get rid of you this is a thing that goes on everywhere anywhere in the world
I think you guys are sincere about your opinions. But all of this testing nonsense you talk about at the 9:00 mark...what you should also get across to these women is that here in the USA, the K1 Visa application requires American men to undergo all kinds of financial status and back ground checks; income tax forms, banking statements, etc...assurances that we are able to provide for them; and there is a specific number that the government requires of us. And these ladies need to understand this and I think it is your responsibility, as a match maker, to get this across to them. Because as I listen to what Vita is saying I cringe; you make it sound as if we men need to meet all their (ladies) requirements to prove ourselves financially. No wonder it all sounds like a scam.
If there is a real relationship "testing" won't need to rear it's ugly head, the man for sure would take care of his woman...but, for example: if I were to go there and a lady suggests an expensive restaurant...Immediately my warning sirens would sound. But if a woman sees that a man has gone to the expense to fly there to Ukraine, and bear the expense of being there for however long...and adding to that, the expense of money lost because of time off work, and then the amount of money it will take to bring her here to America, and all of this just to meet her...well...these women should take that into consideration, before they go into this 'testing' mode. And again I emphasize, it is your responsibility to educate the women on your site about this. I think you know that this testing is something has unintended consequences; it can kill a budding relationship.
And this would be a travesty if both parties are sincere, but the woman needed untimely assurances, which she could have had with a little patience.
If there is a real relationship "testing" won't need to rear it's ugly head ... But how can I know there is a real relationship???
While I do understand your point, you need to understand this:
1. Too many American "players" have over the years come to Ukraine and as they say, the rotten apple spoils the whole bunch. So "we" have a bad rep here. That's just the way it is, perception is REALITY, right?
2. You say... " the K1 Visa application requires American men to undergo all kinds of financial status and back ground checks; income tax forms, banking statements, etc...assurances that we are able to provide for them; and there is a specific number that the government requires of us. AND WHAT # IS THAT? THAT # IS A JOKE, AND WE BOTH KNOW IT! These ladies ALL want a better life if they move with you to your country as you need to understand what a big sacrifice they are making, giving up their country which they are patriotic about, their family (and likely parents that need them), friends, language, culture, etc.
3. In all countries, both men and women TEST each other! It's just a fact!!!
BOTTOM LINE:
If you can not provide a better life (lifestyle) than she can have in Ukraine you are NOT likely going to get anywhere with a beautiful Ukrainian women. At best you might score with a "catch and release" girl. That's the truth of the matter, like it or not!!!
just be honest no money no funny
All over the world scammers are everywhere. God gave us brains n instinct, you can see or feel if someone ones to use you or getting abusive actions, it's up to you. 🙄🙄🙄I don't think it's only In Ukraine. I don't think if my lady ask money for food or for the maintenence in the household I have provide it for her. Or maybe you two has a budget for a month, then the husband must provide it.
here's a question for you vita.what are the red flags reference single businesswoman in Ukraine.
I support him and care for also she need him and good life me and him
A question for Vita is it true the a one or two thousand dollar Engagement ring for Ukranian girl is considered cheap I offer one girl 200 dollar a moths to help her ,she told I was cheap man
Juan, I could go into this, but it is not about spending the money. And to be honest with you. She will not give you a dollar amount. Their society does not revolve around dollars and numbers.
Get away from these scam sites and stop wasting your money.
Bryan
Match Guaranty Moderator
it's very expensive my friend paid 50 dollars for his Ukrainian woman ))) if the woman talk to much about money forget her
then find a woman in your own country why go abroad where they are so money obsessed
The answer is yes
To live in the u.s. it takes $12,000 average payment would be somewhere around $24,000 in Texas we are really good job average payment would be what 50 Maybe $100,000
TRUE,YOU CAN HAVE LOTS OF HONEY LIKE LOTS OF CHEESE WITH MONEY,BUT NO HONEY AND NO CHEESE WITHOUT MONEY.............
NOTHING COMES FREE IN THIS WORLD, YOU HAVE TO PAY FOR IT.
THERE IS NO FREE FOOD IN THIS WORLD,FORGET TO HAVE IT FOR FREE.
i hear you but what if I give her 400 dollar for valentine gift and the girl tell me am chip greddy man I was paid in 160 dollars a moths for english and I give her 800 on gifts when we meet this year and she said I want iphone10 but I give her a year earlier a i phone 6
Hello Juan,
Have you met this woman in person? How long have you been communicating with this woman? In short, if you havent met her in person, it is very likely that she is taking you for a ride.
Run Forest Run!!! Scammer! She is NOT into you! It doesn't matter if you have met her in person, this girl is using you my friend! "Good girls" act the complete opposite of that! They are not demanding, they don't ask for gifts/money, and they actually help you SAVE money!
Juan, your story looks completely like scamming. as i told in our video if its not 1st need request so it can smell... You gave her too big money to be just presents i can assure you! Amounts like 4oo$ or even 800$ you gave by your decision but if she is still telling you are greedy, dont believe her! You are very generous man, believe me! If the lady needs just new phone (her is broken or stolen as was mine last month) 250-300$ is quite enough to buy a new one of good quality. people can leave without Iphone 10. So, be very careful, please! Sincerely yours, Vita
I am really seriously planing to come in September to Ukraine I wish to know about prices to join Match Guaranty its just right now my work slow and waiting to be 100 percent sure off my trip if come what city in Ukraine is best to meet with you ?
another thing i want to ask you all i am I am on 4 off the biggest date site in Ukraine and I am shok the so many girls said they are still virgin is this a lie or any truth all my friend think is all lie you leave in Ukraine tell me what is you think off this ?
I'm in a wheelchair, retired, and on a fixed income. Should I even try to find a Ukraine wife?
Yulia Timoshenko might be able and willing to pair up with you, though you might want to check out her character references before getting too involved.
no
Jeffrey D ok. Why no?
Your question was an inadequate one anyway. Firstly, what would you have in mind by "find a Ukraine wife"? Would you expect to carry her up the stairs, or go on morning runs with her? What life are you looking for? Or for her to be your carer until she becomes a widow at age xz.
Secondly, is there more to you than those three facts? For all we know you might be unremittingly boring and obnoxious, or alternatively amusing and inspiring. Without this extra info, the question is useless.
No. Not a Thai wife either. All they are after is money and to get a Visa and will stay with You until they get their own visa/permit to stay. Then they will dump You. Harsh but true. Only way she will stay is if You're rich and made her sign a prenup agreement. Then she can not get access to spend Your money unless she stays in a relationship with You. If You're poor she will find some other richer schmuck to Hustle.
I would love to hear from a Ukrainian Man if this is true..
Why on the Lord's green Earth would I allow someone to determine my care for them based on how much money I do or do not give to them, simply because they have a certain perspective of where I'm from? This makes them sound really self-absorbed and not an ideal wife.
I'm not trying to sound like a jerk, I just think it's crazy to think something like "it's just $100; it's simple for you to afford so you should just do it or you don't care about me". That's some real manipulation.
...One of your own has a Vlog and swears that Ukraine girls are not attracted in the slightest to foreigners....or older guys.......I have my own thoughts.....But that is coming straight from the horse's mouth.
One side of the topic you didn't talk about is that the time when the money request happen. For example, there's a red flag if the woman asks for money on the second date.
To inform men, many of whom have already been scammed, that if they don't 'take care' of a potential wife and dependents through financial means that it is likely to be a big relationship killer is, I feel, an ill-conceived message to be sending. You are setting men up to be scammed yet again and putting them in a difficult situation. Surely if the woman has the right motives towards a potential husband, and is aware that he has been scammed already, it is not likely that she will be asking for money at all which appears to have been a consistent message throughout your previous videos?
hey Andrew, point taken, like Vita said when I first asked her this question with no advance WARNING ... "that's one of the most difficult questions, it can be very tricky"! One the one hand, the sad reality remains that this industry rakes in a cool $1 billion annual, and at least $950,000,000 of that money is SCAM-based! So BUYER BEWARE! That said, time and time again, in my 2 years working with by partner Tatiana, I see many clients that have been badly scammed ($10-20k on average, and $160K worst case so far!) that they are hyper sensitive to being scammed again. Can't say I blame them, right. Problem is, they have such a SCAM hair trigger that they inadvertently BLOW their relationship with a good girl. Would you agree that at the end of the day, successful relationships are about satisfying the NEEDS of your partner? Well, I believe "safety and security" is the #1 NEED of the vast majority of Ukrainian women.
CONCLUSION: failure to understand this topic well, is definitely one of the TOP 3 RELATIONSHIP KILLERS!
Let me try another way to clarify my main point as it's super important to every mans success!
SCENARIO #1:
You are likely BEING SCAMMED IF she is asking your for money (in any amount) and you have never met "your lady" in person, and you are PAYING to communicate with her online. This is a virtual relationship and you are merely playing in fantasyland my friend! You're being scammed to a 99.999% probability!!!
My Advise: RUN FORST RUN!!!
SCENARIO #2:
You MIGHT not be being scammed IF you've been to Ukraine and met with her in person many times AND you feel in your gut that she's "into you"! If you don't feel it, TRUST YOUR GUT GUYS!
Here are some good indicators that she's REALLY into you. She's given you her personal cell# so you can communicate on Viber. She writes you long messages on Viber/WhatsApp/Skype and in general invests her time regularly to communicate with you personally. These first two are HUGE! If these conditions are met, understand that if she's a "good girl" and she's in financial need of some sort, she might mention her need/situation to you (likely as a TEST), but she will likely not ask you for money. But understand, this is not 100%!?! And where this gets particularly tricky is if she has some sort of URGENT NEED, such as a sick child, sick parent, can't meet an essential need, eg, pay heat bill, rent bill, no food for children... then in such situations even a "good girl" will sometimes ask you for money. "Good Girls" however are very humble and avoid asking for money unless they are in desperate need.
My Advise: Test, test, test! And trust your gut!!! If your gut feelings checks out, then give her a little money and TEST her. Give it time, be patient with her, communicate with her daily, see if she responds timely, is it just very short replies, or long involved communications, ask her if she sees the possibility of a future with you? Ask her if she considers you "her man"? Bottom line again is, TRUST YOUR GUT! Trust yourself, you'll feel it if she's really into you!
WHEN $HOULD YOU $END HER MONEY??? If your gut checks out, and all the conditions/advise above are satisfied, and you have feelings for her, you really want to WIN her heart, her affections, her love, then YES you are WISE to start sending her reasonable monthly financial support ($100-200/mo, not more!), especially if you're not able to go to Ukraine very often to see her in person. I can't stress this enough, if you do not meet her needs for "safety and security", you'll never gain her trust enough to MARRY YOU!!!
Hope that helps guys! If you have move questions or comments, please POST HERE.
A faint heart never won a fair lady as my paw use to say!)
Hi Joe, these men who you are asking to trust their gut feeling are the same men who trusted their gut feeling previously with what they perceived to be "good girls" and are now on average $10-20k poorer. Why should they trust their gut feeling again with what they perceive to be a "good girl" and expect a different outcome? Are these same men going to be able to detect a "good girl" when they meet her in person? There is a reason why they say that 'love is blind' and it's because with 'affairs of the heart' reason goes out the window and it can happen online or in the real world. Are these financial payments you advocate them making substantially different from what these men were doing previously when they were being scammed online? By justifying them now sending monthly financial support of $100-200/mo to meet her needs for "safety and security", you are setting them up to be scammed again and for further financial grief. Is there some reason why a Ukrainian woman in dire financial need can't approach members of her direct or extended family for help? Surely her financial responsibility and that of her dependents lies with them and not with her man friend, but then that responsibility passes to him when they are married? I feel that no woman, other than a wife, should be asking a man for money regardless of her reason or circumstances.
Like both Vita and I have said Andrew, this is a VERY difficult subject and we could go back and forth here til the cows come home. I think Brad gives some great advise in this video here...
"Catch And Release" vs. "Catch And Keep" Dating In Ukraine"
ruclips.net/video/sYAq9naCKr8/видео.html
Thank you for your comments and video link, Joe. I have just one further question for you which I would like your perspective on. What is the difference between a Ukrainian woman who accepts monthly payments for "safety and security", but later gives a reason for not marrying him and doesn't fully reimburse his payments, and those women whose profiles are brought to the attention of men on a database of scammers?
Thanks
That’s very important information to whom shall visit Ukraine
Any way I hope U who think for good work an assist other people who needs help
U should open as help BOX to these people
And that’s can done by your fritelefone
So l’m sure there are many many people can forgive for great humanity things
I see all these beautiful Ukrainian women on u-tube, but, I would feel just horrible to pull one of them away from home, and, family even to help them have a better life.
Yeah I agree in philippines too.
I got scammed by a filipina woman. Trust me. I was heated
No money no honey is real even in Ukraine dont be fooled. Its a world wide issue 😂😂😂
This bull shit I have a nice girl and she's not after money she loves me and it depends on where you go follow your heart that's not true if you guys believe in that you will never find your true love if you always think that everything is a scam then you would never be able to assess what you want in life in life is how you make it how you believe
The fact that the only thing the two of you talked about for twenty minutes was money tells me y’all just want American dollars! 🤦♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️…. No thanks, I’ll find an American woman to take my money.
😅 its topic of the video
i have a few friends married to ukrain women. the women dont show true love but show love kinda like a cat. she loves you because you are keeping a roof over her head and in a better way of life. still better then the local women from my country
Hi James, Yana here. Thank you for commenting. Which country are you from?
@@MatchGuaranty hi i'm from canada. can you fix me up with a good wife?
What if the women live in Eastern Ukraine? Do most use smart phones?
Used smartphone are $20 in Ukraine and Russia so pretty much EVERYONE has a smart phone! Plus their is excellent cell signals all over Ukraine and Russian, even Siberia!)
plus Ukraine has the cheapest internet cost in the World! That is a fact!