Nope. The moment she started showing off trendy clothes, etc, I would be texting her openly on her social media, "So glad to see you can finally afford all those wonderful things, on top of paying for all your college & living expenses! So proud of you, sis! Good job at getting ahead in life! I'll stop sending you any more support money now. Love the colors you picked!"
"Ungrateful for all you've done for me? You mean the leeching, and the draining of my finances, the insults about how I haven't done anything in my life because you expect me to hold down two jobs to pay for your golden child's every least little whim? What is there to be grateful for in any of that? No, we're done here. You are NOT my family. Go away, you're bothering me."
Op deserved better. It was never op's job to fund his spoiled sister's lifestyle. That was supposed to be their parent's job. It's a guarantee she won't last a year in the real world. People like this always claim family supports family. Op's sister shouldn't have bitten the hands funding her lifestyle. If the family is so concerned why don't they give her money.
When you cross the age of 18, you should be able to separate "sister = deserves at least token ack and love" from "the toally toxic person she has become, who you should go completely NC with"
Who asked OP to sacrifice his dreams for his sister? She culd have gone to the nearby community college and worked part time like everyone else in her neighborhood. OP could have said "I can give you $ 100 if you ask nicely against an IOU"
Nope. The moment she started showing off trendy clothes, etc, I would be texting her openly on her social media, "So glad to see you can finally afford all those wonderful things, on top of paying for all your college & living expenses! So proud of you, sis! Good job at getting ahead in life! I'll stop sending you any more support money now. Love the colors you picked!"
"Ungrateful for all you've done for me? You mean the leeching, and the draining of my finances, the insults about how I haven't done anything in my life because you expect me to hold down two jobs to pay for your golden child's every least little whim? What is there to be grateful for in any of that? No, we're done here. You are NOT my family. Go away, you're bothering me."
Op deserved better. It was never op's job to fund his spoiled sister's lifestyle. That was supposed to be their parent's job. It's a guarantee she won't last a year in the real world. People like this always claim family supports family. Op's sister shouldn't have bitten the hands funding her lifestyle. If the family is so concerned why don't they give her money.
When you cross the age of 18, you should be able to separate "sister = deserves at least token ack and love" from "the toally toxic person she has become, who you should go completely NC with"
Who asked OP to sacrifice his dreams for his sister? She culd have gone to the nearby community college and worked part time like everyone else in her neighborhood. OP could have said "I can give you $ 100 if you ask nicely against an IOU"
Why is it fair for the brother to support her , that's her parents job
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