Your response to such unfair treatment shows strength and self-respect. Sometimes, setting boundaries with toxic family members is necessary for your well-being. You deserve to spend the holidays with people who value and respect you. Stay strong
Because he would have inconclusive evidence of where he stood They had to be the choice makers after he explained how he felt Their choice Can't put it on him And they chose money Period
@natecar1 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yeah I agree but with the onset of LLM being used to narrate, I believe the majority of these stories are creative writing pieces People are using these as a means of honing their skills for work/alternative income streams in their future
@chanteljonathan8195 yeah I got sick of reddit stories for several reasons. Most are either AI or come from r/stories and were intended to be fake but RUclips channels like to suggest they're real for engagement. I also blocked them because I they make me angry and, as a man who has been single for a while now, I want to be done with them since I found them infecting my psyche when it comes to any potential future relationship. Only so many "wife of 20 years has an affair and slanders me" stories you can take without it becoming a worry. I keep blocking them but new channels seem to keep getting created and the click bait video titles drag me in
You are the family ATM! They got what they wanted again! All you had to do was learn and use the word No! But, you always said yes. And you wonder why they kept coming for more? Then you made this stupid deal and screwed yourself again. A simple NO and block their butts would have gotten the same results except you would still have your hard earned money. Jeez! I hope this is fake.
I had a brother like the sister. I did not send him money to pay for a car part because he had 19K in his checking account and I told him God would punish him and he would be taken away from his children. In 2016 he had a stroke and died. He was dead before he hit the ground and he did not have a letter to allow his kids to get the money from his account to pay for his funeral and they asked me to pay it. They wanted 18000 dollars and I told them no.
2 points. He gave in and was a doormat to the very end and after he paid, he gets the worthless im sorry letter, just wait til some time settles, he ends up as the dust underneath the doormat again. OP needs some spinal fluid from Attack on Titan.
Nothing about this story makes any sense whatsoever most notably. Why would you be asked to pay for your sister's tuition when she's married? What the hell is her husband doing?
“Apparently Amanda had let it slip that I said Christmas at their house was a waste of time, because it’s all about her.” “I never said that. But now that you mention it, I’m surprisingly in favor of it. Tell Amanda that this is the best Christmas present she’s ever given me.”
When they didn't answer you right away and still tried to blame you I would have said Thank you. You made the decision for me and now you don't get this money either! Goodbye!!!
Your sister is 26 and married, so wtf would you be paying for her school.. You paid for her school; but you should have told them all what a sorry excuse for a family they actually are..
I wouldn't even give it a five because the OP didn't have brains enough to tell the family that he's disowning them right now and Amanda can get money from somewhere else.
Sick of people acting like if you don't have kids and aren't married that you're not a person deserving of respect. Different people have different ideals of happiness. No path is any greater or any less than anyone else's. As long as you are happy, and take good care of yourself, then you ARE successful.
OP gave them all what they really wanted. They didn't want him in the family in the first place. Sister got what she wanted. The only loser here is OP. Crazy!
I think people are missing the point. people like op are conditioned to feel selfish is they refuse to be employed. op isn't paying for his sisters collage he's paying for a clean conscience so now he can go no-contact guilt free.
I'd youwant to say Dad. You put such an emphasis on being a man and stepping up because family should help family. Well tell me dad why can't you afford to send YOUR daughter to school?
What an absolute trash story. This author doesn't get that paying for a 26 year old married sister's who hates you graduate school isn't the flex he thinks it is. They didn’t want him around anyway. The family got everything they wanted and then some and the author is acting like their OP character had some big win. Dude lost and should be embarrassed.
I’d have done as he did but when the mom called to take him up on the offer I’d just say that it wouldn’t happen and that I now saw my families priorities and then cut ties
if I had parents like this I would have block their phone numbers 😤 and block them on social media and move out of state and enjoy the freedom and peace
And why doesn't the husband pay the damn bill. Why is the brother paying it. And the brothers an idiot for paying for it anyway. Just another OP THAT LIKES BEING ABUSED. Stupid story.
@@diyboomboxesintexas2805 And when they come to tell you they're choosing the money, you say "wrong answer" and don't pay anything before cutting ties.
@diyboomboxesintexas2805 I realize that I was just trying to make a point that the husband should have been the one that was responsible for it. See I still think the brother stupid for paying it. You should have told all of them kiss my butt and walked away and never talked to any of them again. Paying it made him a moron. I was just trying to make a point that there were a lot of other people that could have paid the bill besides the brother.
People in the comments forget that Joker once said, "it's not about money, it's about making a statement". He paid it in full, but at the same time he cut his ties, no more future wire transfers in case the leeches that called themselves "family" want something from him. They're done, and they'll scrape for money by themselves, without the OPs presence
I would not have still paid for her tuition. I would've washed my hands of the family and went on about my business. My saved hard earned money is mine to spend the way please, not take care of my grown, married sister.
‘I’ve provided for you all my life and I’m going to give thousands again for her and then I’m done’ Dad ‘that’s so selfish’ Errrmmm how is that selfish?😂
Exactly why pay the money if he felt that way about them. He should've told them im done and since like you said family support and is loyal to each other, they make sacrifices then its you guys turn to not only talk but do so action wise regarding her tuition. He should've said im done being hr family atm and walked out. Kept that money and used it to invest in his self and his future. Change his number and block them on everything.
I think you were crazy to pay what they asked for. She has two parents and a husband who can help her figure out a way to come up with the money without involving you.
OP is 32. Why not live away from people who are so negative. Another town/ state, change his phone number. Anyone from his past wants to contact him, thru email.
you know what they will never understand your point of view your perspective so I would throw my offer to pay for Amanda's college and I will still go no contact for life with the rest of themMom Dad Amanda of future children her husband all of them you doing too much talking just ended cuz you'll never get them to understand your perspective and respect you or your boundaries!!
simple if they take the money when knows where he stands. the atm is now closed forever, it shows just how much they truly cared about him which was very little.
Thirty two! An adult for more than a decade. Still hurt by not being invited for Xmas..How about moving away to another state, changing family name to say Jones, changing phone number? I bet a small part of OP hasn't matured and still longs for mommy to take him on her lap and croon a lullaby. LOL
That's literally an after effect of parental neglect. Until someone snaps sense into them, the neglected child will always fight for recognition from the neglectful parent.
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I rate this A BIG FAT 0!
This needs a LOOOOOOT of work.
1.5 out of 1,000
@@cathyjolivet that's a lot
2... i feel generous
Doormat giving the most bizarre ultimatum I've ever heard.
Your response to such unfair treatment shows strength and self-respect. Sometimes, setting boundaries with toxic family members is necessary for your well-being. You deserve to spend the holidays with people who value and respect you. Stay strong
Why the hell did he still offer to pay his sister studies? Just tell the family that want nothing to do with the family and leave.
Yeah I don't get that. What an idiot.
Because he would have inconclusive evidence of where he stood They had to be the choice makers after he explained how he felt Their choice Can't put it on him And they chose money Period
@chanteljonathan8195 yeah bit he still paid it. Just say you have your confirmation and that you resind the offer
@natecar1 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Yeah I agree but with the onset of LLM being used to narrate, I believe the majority of these stories are creative writing pieces People are using these as a means of honing their skills for work/alternative income streams in their future
@chanteljonathan8195 yeah I got sick of reddit stories for several reasons. Most are either AI or come from r/stories and were intended to be fake but RUclips channels like to suggest they're real for engagement.
I also blocked them because I they make me angry and, as a man who has been single for a while now, I want to be done with them since I found them infecting my psyche when it comes to any potential future relationship. Only so many "wife of 20 years has an affair and slanders me" stories you can take without it becoming a worry.
I keep blocking them but new channels seem to keep getting created and the click bait video titles drag me in
Why couldn’t her husband pay for her school?
Solitude is more comforting than being surrounded by toxic people
Still being a doormat and says he is not.. stupid story..
I lost all respect for OP when he agreed to pay for his sisters tuition. Why did he cave in to the family's demands? How stupid.
You are the family ATM! They got what they wanted again! All you had to do was learn and use the word No! But, you always said yes. And you wonder why they kept coming for more? Then you made this stupid deal and screwed yourself again. A simple NO and block their butts would have gotten the same results except you would still have your hard earned money. Jeez! I hope this is fake.
I had a brother like the sister. I did not send him money to pay for a car part because he had 19K in his checking account and I told him God would punish him and he would be taken away from his children. In 2016 he had a stroke and died. He was dead before he hit the ground and he did not have a letter to allow his kids to get the money from his account to pay for his funeral and they asked me to pay it. They wanted 18000 dollars and I told them no.
I was not giving them a cent!
???
2 points. He gave in and was a doormat to the very end and after he paid, he gets the worthless im sorry letter, just wait til some time settles, he ends up as the dust underneath the doormat again. OP needs some spinal fluid from Attack on Titan.
Nothing about this story makes any sense whatsoever most notably. Why would you be asked to pay for your sister's tuition when she's married? What the hell is her husband doing?
Should have said to the sister, 'dont hold your breath, goodbye and don't ever talk to me, you burned the bridge u can either swim or stay away'
Wow, so the family/sister took money and cut off the son. Yes, mney was more important than him.
“Apparently Amanda had let it slip that I said Christmas at their house was a waste of time, because it’s all about her.”
“I never said that. But now that you mention it, I’m surprisingly in favor of it. Tell Amanda that this is the best Christmas present she’s ever given me.”
When they didn't answer you right away and still tried to blame you I would have said Thank you. You made the decision for me and now you don't get this money either! Goodbye!!!
Why would he even entertain paying. Just block and move on. You didn’t owe them a damn thing.
When they ignore you, they’re teaching you how to live without you.
Why is her husband not paying, she should support the family for the rest of her parents life's
Your sister is 26 and married, so wtf would you be paying for her school.. You paid for her school; but you should have told them all what a sorry excuse for a family they actually are..
This is silly. Why pay?
I wouldn't even give it a five because the OP didn't have brains enough to tell the family that he's disowning them right now and Amanda can get money from somewhere else.
Sick of people acting like if you don't have kids and aren't married that you're not a person deserving of respect. Different people have different ideals of happiness. No path is any greater or any less than anyone else's. As long as you are happy, and take good care of yourself, then you ARE successful.
Why doesn’t the OP’s sister just ask her husband to pay for her schooling needs?
Good lord how many ways can you tell the same story?
Bro is getting too many magnets
OP gave them all what they really wanted. They didn't want him in the family in the first place. Sister got what she wanted. The only loser here is OP. Crazy!
I think people are missing the point. people like op are conditioned to feel selfish is they refuse to be employed. op isn't paying for his sisters collage he's paying for a clean conscience so now he can go no-contact guilt free.
Sister is MARRIED and she thinks her parents (or her BROTHER) should still be paying for her SCHOOLING? Is she HIGH?
I'd youwant to say Dad. You put such an emphasis on being a man and stepping up because family should help family. Well tell me dad why can't you afford to send YOUR daughter to school?
Story sucks. He basically paid them to cut them off when he should have just told them to go to hell. Weak MC.
What an absolute trash story. This author doesn't get that paying for a 26 year old married sister's who hates you graduate school isn't the flex he thinks it is. They didn’t want him around anyway. The family got everything they wanted and then some and the author is acting like their OP character had some big win. Dude lost and should be embarrassed.
I’d have done as he did but when the mom called to take him up on the offer I’d just say that it wouldn’t happen and that I now saw my families priorities and then cut ties
i would have sent $200 for a textbook to "help" they literally choose money over him and calling him selfish haha
Funny how they used him, but always it was his problem.
This is stupid why would you help them
This is stupid. Why pay and go NC? Just go NC. Not a lot of “I” in the “AI”.
if I had parents like this I would have block their phone numbers 😤 and block them on social media and move out of state and enjoy the freedom and peace
I would not have a paid for nothing.
He seems lame. A walking door mat should be his name!. He still gave a huge amount to them. Just a simp! Smh
And why doesn't the husband pay the damn bill. Why is the brother paying it. And the brothers an idiot for paying for it anyway. Just another
OP THAT LIKES BEING ABUSED. Stupid story.
He gave them a choice and they chose money. It was a test
@@diyboomboxesintexas2805 And when they come to tell you they're choosing the money, you say "wrong answer" and don't pay anything before cutting ties.
@diyboomboxesintexas2805 I realize that I was just trying to make a point that the husband should have been the one that was responsible for it. See I still think the brother stupid for paying it. You should have told all of them kiss my butt and walked away and never talked to any of them again. Paying it made him a moron. I was just trying to make a point that there were a lot of other people that could have paid the bill besides the brother.
When they said they would take the money, give them nothing and go NC, unless he thinks he is buying his way out??
I mean, if he was smart enough to make a contract, it might be worth it if you have cash to burn and are happy to toss it into the burning flame.
Proof yourself before posting this BS.
His threat seems kinda weak. "I'll pay, but just leave me alone after"? Very, very weak, just like this story.
People in the comments forget that Joker once said, "it's not about money, it's about making a statement".
He paid it in full, but at the same time he cut his ties, no more future wire transfers in case the leeches that called themselves "family" want something from him. They're done, and they'll scrape for money by themselves, without the OPs presence
Why give her the money if you're family teat you like shit why help them out
And just HOW long am I supposed to 'repay' the debt for MY EXISTENCE!
I would not have still paid for her tuition. I would've washed my hands of the family and went on about my business. My saved hard earned money is mine to spend the way please, not take care of my grown, married sister.
I felt like I heard this story before ...
I would have told Amanda i was planning a trip to Aruba for Xmas.
‘I’ve provided for you all my life and I’m going to give thousands again for her and then I’m done’
Dad ‘that’s so selfish’
Errrmmm how is that selfish?😂
Alsooo I wouldn’t have given her the money she was expecting, I’d have said no to that and then no to being in their lives and been done
Exactly why pay the money if he felt that way about them. He should've told them im done and since like you said family support and is loyal to each other, they make sacrifices then its you guys turn to not only talk but do so action wise regarding her tuition. He should've said im done being hr family atm and walked out. Kept that money and used it to invest in his self and his future. Change his number and block them on everything.
Great story with a lesson learned.
I think you were crazy to pay what they asked for. She has two parents and a husband who can help her figure out a way to come up with the money without involving you.
nah, you don't get it. Once a beggar, always a beggar, and declaring himself persona non grata will stopped them from begging.
So many of the same theme stories. Ho. Hum…
He should've known they would take the money , duh !!! 🙄
D O O R M A T
They will take the money and you should not be paid for anything for your sister and parents her parents and husband should be paid for her education
I would've given them the choice. But if they chose the money just ghosted everyone
OP is 32. Why not live away from people who are so negative. Another town/ state, change his phone number. Anyone from his past wants to contact him, thru email.
So, why pay the sisters tuition at all?
Just walk away, go no contact.
Supporting Family don't mean Financial support. Two completely different things.
Tuition fees at 26 wtf she married with kids ? What does her hubby do for a living if she wants to still study then her hubby and parents can pay
Lame. OP wasted his money, and his bio-units are not going to honour their end of the deal. He is a fool.
How much is peace of mind really worth?
Tough guy doormat
There should be a very strong reason why a son the family needs so much is ignored. Your weak reason is unacceptable.
you know what they will never understand your point of view your perspective so I would throw my offer to pay for Amanda's college and I will still go no contact for life with the rest of themMom Dad Amanda of future children her husband all of them you doing too much talking just ended cuz you'll never get them to understand your perspective and respect you or your boundaries!!
Op is spineless
My doormat is great but not as good as op
Pointless AI story, but the "Do you want my money, or do you want me in this family? Yeah - we'll take the money" bit was funny.
I would’ve had one more caveat when the time comes. I pick the nursing home.
Another doormat AI story. These are all just utter ragebait
That frantic video did not go with the slow narrative. I nearly stopped listening because that video game made me sea-sick.
In the end he proved his family right. He's just a loser.
How is he a loser?
Grovel
Why are they showing a video game during a story? It's disturbing when I am trying to listen to the narrative..
Story gets a zero. What would possess him to pay and then leave!
simple if they take the money when knows where he stands. the atm is now closed forever, it shows just how much they truly cared about him which was very little.
Get better writers.
OP doormat, why paid?
Why can’t you make a better story line it sucked period…..
Access number of ads.
What a peep....he's gonna pay...pathetic
I love your stories, but your video gives me headache.
These AI chat bots are as bad as foreigners with a bad grasp on the English language.
Thirty two! An adult for more than a decade. Still hurt by not being invited for Xmas..How about moving away to another state, changing family name to say Jones, changing phone number? I bet a small part of OP hasn't matured and still longs for mommy to take him on her lap and croon a lullaby. LOL
That's literally an after effect of parental neglect. Until someone snaps sense into them, the neglected child will always fight for recognition from the neglectful parent.
Stupid story and I had to up the playback speed to 1.25x to get through it.
Don’t waste your time with this bullshit. It’s another doormat story a guy who has more money than sense
ZERO. OP is a simp and he is only too happy to prove it!
The pacing of this script is perfect, keeping the audience engaged from start to finish. ⏱🎥
He should've known they would take the money , duh !!! 🙄
Proof yourself before posting this BS.