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can we take a sec to notice that peniel is wearing the same outfit he wore in kingdom during the dance meet up. idk if he did both on the same day but if he did then go peniel like that must be tiring.
I love that BM has no filter. And there's no chance of anything coming out about his past because he's so open about things he's done. The fact that he just openly talked about him being a delinquent (getting put in handcuffs for stealing), that's speaks volumes and was brave considering how judgy Korean Society is.
LXX has a point, I think most of us had that moment in our lives when mom isn't even a friend, because of the age, our behavior or any reason, but after that whit the pass of the years and obviously when you get older she becomes one of the best friends you would ever have!! And that's the moment when you broke up the barriers and started acting like two humans, no lies just communication❤️ thanks guys I really enjoyed this episode 👍🏼 BTW, Peniel you look tired get some rest hahahaha
Lxx describing his relationship with his mom is encouraging. I think I’m in that stage where my mom and I are very connected it’s a bit difficult- but hearing that there’s redemption at one point brings me hope!
35:35 YES we feel the vibes. honestly hearing LXX share about his relationship with his mom was so refreshing and encouraging. a pov that is both sweet and mature
Welcomeeee, there's no exit now If you're interested you can watch Ashley's RUclips channel, hear BM's group (K.A.R.D) and Peniel group (BTOB) and all that to know them better
The way LXX looks at Ashly throughout the episode... It's cute u can tell he admires her.. I'm not trying to say anything but.. He really cares about her.. And when she turns to look at him he quickly looks away.. It's so cute... Love him
I started watching these a month ago and I'm obsessed... I don't have the time to just listen/watch and do nothing so I normally listen when I'm writing notes, brushing my teeth everyday, walking somewhere far, cleaning my room etc and it just makes me feel not alone and happy
Been waiting for this full video of this episode though I already listened to it on podcast. It’s still different when I see their facial expressions. 😃 Shout out to BM’s, Peniel’s, Ashley’s and Alex’s mom for raising great & talented kids like you guys. Your experiences growing up is so relatable. It makes me remember how I was growing up too. I’m an adult now but since I’m the youngest in the family my mom will forever look at me as her baby. I guess all moms are like that.😃❤️
Yeah I feel my mom has a soft spot for my brothers too, I'm not even the eldest, nor the eldest daughter, but she relies on me a lot and has me help a lot compared to my brothers. She does spoil me but not to the same degree. But I think it's because they kinda stupid, I wouldn't even trust them with a truth, let alone a secret
To all single parents I salute you. Once you start the adulting life you'll begin to fully appreciate how hard life is and how much your parents sacrificed for you.
Depending on what you already know about your mom, I've found a good way to find out more about her as a person is to ask her if she remembers the first time she ate or drank something outside of the culture she grew up in. For instance, I've asked my mom the first time she had various staple American foods. Another good one is the first movie she remembers watching in a movie theatre.
I can absolutely relate to Ashley. Though I'm the younger one. My mom treats my older brother like a younger one and I feel like I'm the older sibling. It's crazy. I'm closer with my dad and now she probably realized that because of that I've built this wall and only my dad can go through it. It's hard. I tried when I was a teen, but it's always my brother who's the golden child. Now she gets jealous of my dad.
moms do treasure sons a lot more and eldest daughter(s) is usually the one she rely on or is punching bag, thats me, she spoiled my brother with expensive computers, go to malls just to get a spesific kind of shoes my brother wants, and call me mean when im mad at my brother and i cant even get my ac fixed and she calls me stupid in front of her colleagues :/ she would say nicely ask help from my brotber to do chores but would order me while yelling and she had the audacity to say i get angry alot
Lol same. When my brother had a cold, my mom went out buying him soups and meds and taking care of him while when I got gastroenteritis she just left me to take care of myself haha. My dad helped me out when he saw me sprawled next to the sink, dehydrated 😂
Same as my mother. She would beat me to a pulp, kind of ignore my younger sister and shower my younger brothers with attention and love. I’m a mom myself now, and I still wonder whether I’m adopted if I’m a child outside of my parents’ marriage. She still loathes me to this day.
I really enjoyed how open they are about their lives and experiences. It makes it very relatable for anyone listening bc of the variety between the 4 of them. My mom was definitely the type that would be like the FBI on my friends and their parents before I even got to play at their house. My parents were scary lol but I thank them now bc I didn’t know the world was dangerous as a kid.
I relate to Ashley I’m more of a daddy’s girl I’m his baby (even tho I have a younger sister as well) my mom does see me as more dependable but her favorite is my brother and he is the actual baby.
I found out that my grandpa and grandma on my mother's side were not blood related very late maybe when i was in high school. But I love them like my own grandparents. My mom got adopted. And then 2 years ago when i travelled in Cambodia to meet my relatives. I asked my uncles and aunties why does my mom was separated from them because they are all together (during the genocide in Cambodia). They explained everything to me. I learned so much long story. But they thought my mom was dead when she tried to flee away from soldiers to cross the Thailand frontier. So from 1979 to 1984 they thought my mom was dead but she went to Thailand and stay there in a refugee camp (where she met my dad and my non blood related grandparents) and then went to Indonesia in another refugee camp. After that they were able to go to France. That's when she was able to send letters to Cambodia with pictures of herself to find her family. That's really crazy. She never told me that 😱😭 It was a painful moment for her and my mom is very silent about her past life. But yeah now I'm a grown up person. Sometimes also i think about all the times I disrespect her or was not nice. I try to to be kind and offer a lot especially during this pandemia 🙏❤️ She's been through a lot. Love you mommy
Strangely it's my dad who wants me to get MARRIED at the age of 25 😂 (maybe bc he wants grandkids so badly) but guys I'm almost 23 and I'm single since born 😂😂
37:07 that's my mom but 'get married' version She stopped saying 'get married already' when I had my first boyfriend (in my twenties too) haha and around that time she started saying 'go buy us a house/don't get married soon'. 🤣
To that second user who's trying to teach their mom how to play video games, I would say get her a game with a really simple control like Animal Crossing or farming simulation like Story of The Seasons. Coz I think getting her into Mass Effect is a pretty huge jump especially for someone who's never held a controller in her life before. Actually, the most important thing is to ask her if she enjoy it. If she does enjoy playing it, you should leave her be and let her figure things out, only help her when she asks. Because some people can still enjoy playing games even if they sucked at it and at the end of the day, that's the most important thing. You're not training your mom to be a pro or anything like that so don't get stressed out about it too much.
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can we take a sec to notice that peniel is wearing the same outfit he wore in kingdom during the dance meet up. idk if he did both on the same day but if he did then go peniel like that must be tiring.
ashley called peniel on her radio not too long ago and he said he attended 3-4 meetings and practice that day
@@andhiniretno3886 what episode?
@@colonthree9874 the last one
omg, you have a good eye. i just realized it now that i read your comment 😲
He looks SO good. I found BTOB through Kingdom, then chose Peniel as my bias, then found this podcast. The internet is crazy. 😂
I love that BM has no filter.
And there's no chance of anything coming out about his past because he's so open about things he's done.
The fact that he just openly talked about him being a delinquent (getting put in handcuffs for stealing), that's speaks volumes and was brave considering how judgy Korean Society is.
I hope that he knows that we still support him no matter what, I think everyone has a story and I admire how he tells us his story...
25:32 BM: Dang! You kinda lost me me like three Grandma's ago. 🤣😂🤣
Get bang Chan and Felix on this podcast stays
YESS! Everybody thumbs up this.
As if JYP will let them 😒
Yashh mayfly!!
@@alyalvarez3188 what about Jae though :( ?
yes yes yes
pH 1 and 28 lab guys are my most favorite guests
LXX has a point, I think most of us had that moment in our lives when mom isn't even a friend, because of the age, our behavior or any reason, but after that whit the pass of the years and obviously when you get older she becomes one of the best friends you would ever have!! And that's the moment when you broke up the barriers and started acting like two humans, no lies just communication❤️ thanks guys I really enjoyed this episode 👍🏼
BTW, Peniel you look tired get some rest hahahaha
Please don't let anyone put their expectations or time line on you. Really liked hearing LXX's perspective. Tfs
hey, at what time does he said that?
On a not related topic, really big shout out to Peniel for his part in round one in kingdom's no limit performance....he was so cool!!!!!....😊😊😊😁
Lxx describing his relationship with his mom is encouraging. I think I’m in that stage where my mom and I are very connected it’s a bit difficult- but hearing that there’s redemption at one point brings me hope!
35:35 YES we feel the vibes. honestly hearing LXX share about his relationship with his mom was so refreshing and encouraging. a pov that is both sweet and mature
Discovered this podcast like 2 days ago and I’m kind of obsessed 😭😭😭
Ikr?! Lately I have been obsessed with 'get real' and 'hdigh'. I am basically running a marathon of these two podcasts whenever I am free😂😂😂
Welcomeeee, there's no exit now
If you're interested you can watch Ashley's RUclips channel, hear BM's group (K.A.R.D) and Peniel group (BTOB) and all that to know them better
You’re gonna be obsessed more and more 😂😂
@@agustinavega1998 wait Ashley has a RUclips channel 👀
@@aditiyadav918 yup its Ashleybchoi
The way LXX looks at Ashly throughout the episode... It's cute u can tell he admires her.. I'm not trying to say anything but.. He really cares about her.. And when she turns to look at him he quickly looks away.. It's so cute... Love him
Yeahh I noticed that a lot
too
Ikr!! I noticed that too!
OMGGGG!!!yesss ive been looking for this comment 😅
I was looking for this comment lol. Im not shipping them together or anything I just thought it was cute
in every episodes though
BM said, “that was the first time I was put in cuffs.” Sooooooo...were there other times you were put in cuffs?!? 💀💀
time stamp?
I thought it was just my tired brain but I was like 👀👀 lol glad I wasn't the only one thinking that.
@@anoushkamantri3362 33:20
@@ketiaahhh Thanks man
he was in a gang so ofc
I started watching these a month ago and I'm obsessed... I don't have the time to just listen/watch and do nothing so I normally listen when I'm writing notes, brushing my teeth everyday, walking somewhere far, cleaning my room etc and it just makes me feel not alone and happy
16:38 ashley's mum is so creative 😂😂
I wish they invite JAY PARK too,it will be really fun to see him in get real.Hope it happens 😁🤞🤞🤞
You know what would be interesting DPR LIVE AND DPR IAN on this PODCAST
This is one of the best open and honest podcast I've ever heard and I have listened to over 700 podcasts this one has become my number one now!
Been waiting for this full video of this episode though I already listened to it on podcast. It’s still different when I see their facial expressions. 😃 Shout out to BM’s, Peniel’s, Ashley’s and Alex’s mom for raising great & talented kids like you guys. Your experiences growing up is so relatable. It makes me remember how I was growing up too. I’m an adult now but since I’m the youngest in the family my mom will forever look at me as her baby. I guess all moms are like that.😃❤️
Not me casually coming across it before my notification does
so happy lxx is back!! 🔥🔥
Mom's are a gift from heaven.
Yeah I feel my mom has a soft spot for my brothers too, I'm not even the eldest, nor the eldest daughter, but she relies on me a lot and has me help a lot compared to my brothers. She does spoil me but not to the same degree.
But I think it's because they kinda stupid, I wouldn't even trust them with a truth, let alone a secret
you put it into words perfectly
To all single parents I salute you. Once you start the adulting life you'll begin to fully appreciate how hard life is and how much your parents sacrificed for you.
Depending on what you already know about your mom, I've found a good way to find out more about her as a person is to ask her if she remembers the first time she ate or drank something outside of the culture she grew up in. For instance, I've asked my mom the first time she had various staple American foods. Another good one is the first movie she remembers watching in a movie theatre.
GET REAL PODCAST ARE SO WHOLESOME AND REFRESHING
I can absolutely relate to Ashley.
Though I'm the younger one. My mom treats my older brother like a younger one and I feel like I'm the older sibling.
It's crazy. I'm closer with my dad and now she probably realized that because of that I've built this wall and only my dad can go through it.
It's hard. I tried when I was a teen, but it's always my brother who's the golden child. Now she gets jealous of my dad.
Same , its absolutely the same in my case too , my elder brother recieves more love from my mom than i do , and it hurts sometimes to see that 😑
ok now my day is complete lol love u guys
thanks for being the best podcast in the world
My man brought up NintenDogs?! That game was fire. lol
27:53 Not Ashley describing that one Fairly Odd Parents episode where Timmy goes back to the past and sees his parents when they were his age.
Hi, just hope that everyone who reads remembers that you are loved!
Wow lxx is so honest hes talking from his heart much respect❤
Loved this episode!! Could we pls have a podcast with BM talking about his weight loss as a kid, journey into fitness n all?
35:31 my fav part😂
No matter what family is family and water is thicker then blood and that the truth 🤗
moms do treasure sons a lot more and eldest daughter(s) is usually the one she rely on or is punching bag, thats me, she spoiled my brother with expensive computers, go to malls just to get a spesific kind of shoes my brother wants, and call me mean when im mad at my brother and i cant even get my ac fixed and she calls me stupid in front of her colleagues :/ she would say nicely ask help from my brotber to do chores but would order me while yelling and she had the audacity to say i get angry alot
Lol same. When my brother had a cold, my mom went out buying him soups and meds and taking care of him while when I got gastroenteritis she just left me to take care of myself haha. My dad helped me out when he saw me sprawled next to the sink, dehydrated 😂
Same as my mother. She would beat me to a pulp, kind of ignore my younger sister and shower my younger brothers with attention and love. I’m a mom myself now, and I still wonder whether I’m adopted if I’m a child outside of my parents’ marriage. She still loathes me to this day.
Their like literally my dream friend circles. I wanna sit down and talk w my friends for hours like them🥺😫
Good to see you back Alexx .. :)))
My mom and I watch korean dramas together. She knows BTOB too because I always play BTOB songs and videos.
I'm certain the Peniel on kingdom and the Peniel on this pod are 2 completely different people
God bless all moms and dads❤️.
So, how many biggest shock BM had when he first came to Korea 😂
The way Ashley says “though” as “doe” is so cute 🥰
they're all so cute, specially the part they started talking about the parent-children relationship during the period of first days of maturity hehe
38:38 awkward silent after the prescription of Dr. Peniel Shin 😂😆 // Btw in Portugal🇵🇹 & Angola🇦🇴 the mothers day is on the first Sunday of May
Italy too!
Peniel's Snoopy phone case 😁
I've never been here this early 😭
I really enjoyed how open they are about their lives and experiences. It makes it very relatable for anyone listening bc of the variety between the 4 of them. My mom was definitely the type that would be like the FBI on my friends and their parents before I even got to play at their house. My parents were scary lol but I thank them now bc I didn’t know the world was dangerous as a kid.
God bless all moms❤️.
34:31 my opinion on this.. the thing is what the parents say become the child's inner voice even when they have a family.
ash, the more you talk about your mom, the more i become a fan of hers.
i like your mom a lot.😊
I relate to Ashley I’m more of a daddy’s girl I’m his baby (even tho I have a younger sister as well) my mom does see me as more dependable but her favorite is my brother and he is the actual baby.
I found out that my grandpa and grandma on my mother's side were not blood related very late maybe when i was in high school. But I love them like my own grandparents. My mom got adopted. And then 2 years ago when i travelled in Cambodia to meet my relatives. I asked my uncles and aunties why does my mom was separated from them because they are all together (during the genocide in Cambodia). They explained everything to me. I learned so much long story. But they thought my mom was dead when she tried to flee away from soldiers to cross the Thailand frontier. So from 1979 to 1984 they thought my mom was dead but she went to Thailand and stay there in a refugee camp (where she met my dad and my non blood related grandparents) and then went to Indonesia in another refugee camp. After that they were able to go to France. That's when she was able to send letters to Cambodia with pictures of herself to find her family. That's really crazy. She never told me that 😱😭 It was a painful moment for her and my mom is very silent about her past life. But yeah now I'm a grown up person. Sometimes also i think about all the times I disrespect her or was not nice. I try to to be kind and offer a lot especially during this pandemia 🙏❤️ She's been through a lot. Love you mommy
So, back then out of these four friends Peniel was the only good child 😂 (possibly)
I think that's where he got his nickname Angel hahaha
Peniel BM and Ashley I love you guys so much
BM's mom is LIT!!!!
this podcast is really great :)))) love the chemistry between everyone
Please have lxx on more!
LOVE THIS👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
#respectPalestine💗🕊️
My bother was spoiled because he is the youngest!!!
Loved this ep💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜💜
LXX Welcome
Waiting for the video the whole day! Now my day is completed ✌️
i remember the first time i made my father try the band hero guitar on the xbox360 and just on easy mode and it was fun honestly
Strangely it's my dad who wants me to get MARRIED at the age of 25 😂 (maybe bc he wants grandkids so badly) but guys I'm almost 23 and I'm single since born 😂😂
i'm having fun, thank you for the new insights and tips!! super helpful
Korea is really safe, there were times i walked in some dark alleyways around midnight and we made it out alive lol
mom: i thought i raised you differently
this really hurts. My mom said this to me when i had a life changing fuck up.
37:07 that's my mom but 'get married' version
She stopped saying 'get married already' when I had my first boyfriend (in my twenties too) haha and around that time she started saying 'go buy us a house/don't get married soon'. 🤣
lxx kinda looks like dpr ian lol
It's my 1st time this early??!!!!! I was so excited and couldn't wait for this video!! My whole house knew I'm waiting 😌✋🏻
I loved this episode😂 ❤️
Relatable as always.
Vernon and Joshua from seventeen too? 😊😊
Yay I'm soo excited for this episode
Can you please get Seventeen Vernon and Joshua on the podcast😃
Lxx i love you 💗💗
My fav alex
It would be so nice to have an episode about like dreams and nightmare
alex's lil xan cosplay is on point.👍
Great ep!
Peniel could be a life coach 💜
the 5 finger discount 😂😂
I like Alex' voice so much
YOOOO FINALLY>
Love this ep.
Long time i didn't watch Dive ㅜㅜ 😅
I so love this podcast. Everything just makes sense 💕
We really need bangchan and Felix on this podcast 😢
The first comment will follow you from Morocco BM I love you💗💗💗💗🙏
To that second user who's trying to teach their mom how to play video games, I would say get her a game with a really simple control like Animal Crossing or farming simulation like Story of The Seasons. Coz I think getting her into Mass Effect is a pretty huge jump especially for someone who's never held a controller in her life before.
Actually, the most important thing is to ask her if she enjoy it. If she does enjoy playing it, you should leave her be and let her figure things out, only help her when she asks. Because some people can still enjoy playing games even if they sucked at it and at the end of the day, that's the most important thing. You're not training your mom to be a pro or anything like that so don't get stressed out about it too much.
I dont think fans tagged you parents on twitter peniel, i think yesterday your dad retweeted a fan's tweet and i dont think anyone tagged him😂
make LXX a regular...
Get yourself a man that looks at you the way BM looks at Donggeun 41:26
Why is peniel the only one with headphones
I was thinking about that through the whole episode 😂😂😂
Hear me out, we need rosé, felix and bangchan here, please make it happennn
I suddenly miss Matthew
now that i am an adult, i have realized and understood my mom's strictness then and now lol