I'm not Muslim, BUT, in my dating life, I have 1 hard rule for myself: you are dating who someone *is*, not a potential version of them after they change.
Honestly, if this man isn't praying his 5 times, smokes weed, isn't providing for his wife, Islamically, does this man even fear Allah? I'd recommend this sister go visit a scholar or religious figure and ask if their Nikkah is even valid with this person who doesn't even uphold the basic tenets of Islam. If a man can divorce a woman for not being a good wife or Muslim, it should be possible to do so the other way around.
Logically speaking he has lived 30+ years in a certain way. What makes women think they are capable of changing this person all of a sudden when they only known each other for a year. If she has certain dealbreakers and he cant reach them she should leave I dont understand why she would have dealbreakers otherwise.
He went against every 4 of her dealbreakers and 2 of them that’s hes doing are haram so I don’t understand you guys advice, she should leave he can ruin her deen, you become who you’re around
I feel like the Weed part was a huge deal breaker , more so then the gym even. He can always work on his debt, and the gym part….maybe you guys can even discuss your expectations of what you need in the marriage…Then decide from there.
I've been watching y'all for over a year now and wanted longer episodes of u guys so I literally screamed of joy when I saw the length of this episode, I LOVE IT!! Y'all are just amaizing wllhi
I'm not Muslim, BUT, in my dating life, I have 1 hard rule for myself: you are dating who someone *is*, not a potential version of them after they change.
Scenario stars at 40:13
I'm so happy Chinutay was featured on the podcast! She's so lovely!!
I’m not a Muslim woman but I love listening to your stories I dream of being married one day 🖤
Barely started and I already know you need Manal back as a regular, love her
Honestly, if this man isn't praying his 5 times, smokes weed, isn't providing for his wife, Islamically, does this man even fear Allah? I'd recommend this sister go visit a scholar or religious figure and ask if their Nikkah is even valid with this person who doesn't even uphold the basic tenets of Islam. If a man can divorce a woman for not being a good wife or Muslim, it should be possible to do so the other way around.
Why do you assume that? Unless it's revealed in this video? I just started watching it
Logically speaking he has lived 30+ years in a certain way. What makes women think they are capable of changing this person all of a sudden when they only known each other for a year. If she has certain dealbreakers and he cant reach them she should leave I dont understand why she would have dealbreakers otherwise.
Men are different they don't usually smarten up until they hit 30 not all but majority
Oh em geeee that Collab surprised meee!!!! My all time favessss😍😍😍🤣🤣💕💕💕💕
You guys are onto something amazing with this podcast/channel! I enjoyed every second xx
Omg I love you guys, all off you and Manal is such a lush person! Ya’ll personality is just so amazing!!!
He went against every 4 of her dealbreakers and 2 of them that’s hes doing are haram so I don’t understand you guys advice, she should leave he can ruin her deen, you become who you’re around
48:52 conclusion
The only question you have to ask yourself is if you're ready for a man like that to raise your kids.......
I feel like the Weed part was a huge deal breaker , more so then the gym even. He can always work on his debt, and the gym part….maybe you guys can even discuss your expectations of what you need in the marriage…Then decide from there.
I've been watching y'all for over a year now and wanted longer episodes of u guys so I literally screamed of joy when I saw the length of this episode, I LOVE IT!! Y'all are just amaizing wllhi
Listened to this in Apple Podcasts before seeing the vid!!
I really wanna watch this but please don’t squeal and stuff near the mic 😣
Really enjoyed this 🎉🎉🎉
Thank you!!
My girls❤❤❤ I love you all😊
Rip to my Ears its not a good idea to watch with headphones 😭
lol really
I loveeee Manaal ❤
Love the combo❤
Thank uu for these smiles ❤❤❤
Love you sisters for the sake of Allah swt, may Allah swt bless you with afiyah ameen 🤲🏼
love you guys🤍
I am sorry but you two are too loud