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I CAUGHT MY HUSBAND CHEATING ON THE PHONE WITH SOMEONE WE BOTH KNOW | EP 47

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  • Опубликовано: 22 июн 2023
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Комментарии • 116

  • @Sofia_DolceVita
    @Sofia_DolceVita Год назад +145

    We need a movie about this woman she's my hero!

  • @Goldnal7
    @Goldnal7 Год назад +188

    She’s a smart, rational women, what a successful plan she had . Props to her

    • @abaasabshir3337
      @abaasabshir3337 Год назад

      You’re right, but it’s also Haram

    • @MoroccanQueen364
      @MoroccanQueen364 Год назад +23

      @@abaasabshir3337her husband cheating? Yes very much so haram!

    • @keifer7813
      @keifer7813 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@MoroccanQueen364Her snooping on his phone in the first place. That's a big sin

    • @lupin9285
      @lupin9285 3 месяца назад

      @@keifer7813oh, you must be a man. So you are literally protecting the man by saying she shouldn’t have looked on his phone in the first place?? Bro u got some nerves. I do think it was KADAR that she woke up in the middle of the night catching her husband cheating on her.

    • @cloudpje1114
      @cloudpje1114 Месяц назад +1

      @@keifer7813he cheating is the sin go cry about it

  • @Newlife007-m2o
    @Newlife007-m2o Год назад +75

    Now this a woman who stand her ground!!! This is a girl we need to learn how to deal with such things in this generation!!!

  • @Ohnoo01
    @Ohnoo01 Год назад +50

    He kept it a secret for over 2 years. Don’t think men are stupid. They know what they doing

  • @aarifahkarolia2956
    @aarifahkarolia2956 Год назад +53

    Keeping quiet for 6 MONTHS. I'd drop hints every 2 seconds gurl 😂

  • @aarifahkarolia2956
    @aarifahkarolia2956 Год назад +36

    "Play chess not checkers" love it 😍

  • @nezhaelmabrouki8410
    @nezhaelmabrouki8410 Год назад +36

    To this smart self-respecting lady: you did us proud ❤

  • @MuslimahTiktok
    @MuslimahTiktok Год назад +31

    She was ready from the beginning that is why she did not have kids with him. Must have had a feeling about him.

  • @aishhh3205
    @aishhh3205 Год назад +30

    So proud of you girls allah huma barik. The growth is insaneee and In’sha’allah so much more to come! So excited for the future for you and keep this up Because it’s so entertaining 😂😂

  • @SR-eb2ye
    @SR-eb2ye Год назад +11

    Sis looks like a combination of Maya Jama and Halima Aden 💕 anyways love the podcast 💕

  • @samiramohamud3411
    @samiramohamud3411 Год назад +12

    Let me know when the masterclass commences. Bloody hell. Masha'Allah.

  • @smkhan7253
    @smkhan7253 Год назад +2

    We need women like this to come up n speak we all need to have this emotional intelligence n will power 💪💪

  • @RahmaOnly
    @RahmaOnly Год назад +13

    I was waaaiiiting for this one 😂

  • @expectopatronummf
    @expectopatronummf Год назад +16

    Giiiirrlllll this is why girls need a true education, if she wasn't as smart and connected she would've lost everything .

    • @jerryrodriguez3554
      @jerryrodriguez3554 Год назад +1

      She's gonna die alone what's the point of money if she's incapable of maintaining a family

    • @lupin9285
      @lupin9285 3 месяца назад +1

      @@jerryrodriguez3554 hahahaha your way of thinking is sooo funny and old fashioned. Bro i am sure she is gonna find another man easily because nowadays nobody is perfect and its all about destiny. Furthermore it was literally the man who was not able to maintain a family by cheating on her and lying for 2 years!!?. Obviously they talked about this topic before marriage and she told him that she’s not okay with a second wife but he still did it. We shouldn’t forget the fact that he was dating with this second woman for two years and i wonder if that woman never questioned why it was taking so long to marry😂.

    • @cloudpje1114
      @cloudpje1114 Месяц назад

      @@jerryrodriguez3554better than a cheating man🫦

  • @promif5829
    @promif5829 Год назад +9

    Taking notes in case it happens to me even tho I’m single as a nun

  • @MalofoMDonzo
    @MalofoMDonzo Год назад +1

    Well done, lesson learnt ❤❤

  • @kh07gl
    @kh07gl Год назад +11

    Omg if there is a cheating clause in the prenup AND HE STILL CHEATED? He dumb

  • @eellnnuurr
    @eellnnuurr Год назад +46

    Damn how can you keep "acting" as a loving wife for 6 months when you know your husband is cheating?? I wouldn't hold it together for an hour...

    • @Sugarplumfair12
      @Sugarplumfair12 Год назад +18

      Where there is a will there is a way

    • @BQ900
      @BQ900 Год назад

      Right?! What happened? Her husband was lying!

  • @Shakibers
    @Shakibers 11 месяцев назад +3

    It’s not something to boast over. She played it well, but it’s still a failed marriage.

  • @zakwitptsd
    @zakwitptsd Год назад +4

    OMG she’s a savage 😂

  • @Balgees24
    @Balgees24 Год назад +2

    I love this sister.

  • @amlnazw
    @amlnazw Год назад +1

    Firstttt❤️❤️❤️❤️ much love from Belgium my sisterssss

  • @NA.dontcare_9
    @NA.dontcare_9 Год назад +1

    That was so sweet

  • @expectopatronummf
    @expectopatronummf Год назад

    WOMAN 👑

  • @wwinnn-mz6gg
    @wwinnn-mz6gg Год назад +4

    Seen this on TikTok IM OBSESSED

  • @soukainaa7070
    @soukainaa7070 Год назад +1

    Such a smart woman mashallah

  • @Cola948
    @Cola948 Год назад +1

    Why is comments being deleted

  • @vlogsw_ayesha
    @vlogsw_ayesha Год назад +15

    6 months without saying anything? So if he wanted to be intimate she allowed it? I couldn’t

    • @lanaw7304
      @lanaw7304 Год назад

      Ur right , what if he got aids from women outside

  • @BQ900
    @BQ900 Год назад +5

    My husband (he’s Muslim but I am not)comes home to me after work but my friends husbands go to the strip bar until 1am!! It’s crazy. No wonder 60% divorces across the world. Even some Muslim husbands are doing “stuff”!

    • @ayschasoumaya8443
      @ayschasoumaya8443 7 месяцев назад +1

      It's crazy how these activities are so normalized in their culture.

  • @rahmatohindase7070
    @rahmatohindase7070 Год назад +2

    SUPERWOMAN INDEED!

  • @missmessi
    @missmessi Год назад +1

    what a G

  • @LS-xi2du
    @LS-xi2du Год назад

    I was waaaaaiting

  • @jasminagoza5240
    @jasminagoza5240 Год назад

    7:02 what does this part mean?

  • @riyan256
    @riyan256 2 месяца назад

    Salam sisters, thank you for your amazing work and videos❤️.
    Btw, I don’t know about any of you but the sis from this Mario scenario I’m here to take a notice 🔖✍️

  • @nquenn5513
    @nquenn5513 Год назад +1

    My blood 🩸 ❤❤

  • @yasmeenomara2673
    @yasmeenomara2673 11 месяцев назад

    You guys should watch “Why women kill” it’s a series soooo goood!!!!🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌👏 similarl to this story

  • @AmuslimwithAopinion
    @AmuslimwithAopinion Год назад +3

    The man who stole the women's life savings to marry behind her back will pay on the day of judgement. He will pay with his deeds and take her bad deeds and probably go to hell.

  • @mohamedjirde.
    @mohamedjirde. 11 месяцев назад +1

    Why we love, why we cheat?

  • @savannahs8914
    @savannahs8914 11 месяцев назад +1

    Don't get mad, ladies
    Get money.

  • @Samirahassan3094
    @Samirahassan3094 Год назад

    Mash Allah Kaltun looks like Angelina Jollie when she was young

  • @lanaw7304
    @lanaw7304 Год назад +2

    In my region many men cheat, when they are asked why they cheat? they say its permitted to have for wives!!!

    • @BQ900
      @BQ900 Год назад

      My husband married a Saudi girl in his home country after he married me and he told me everything before he did. I wasn’t happy about it. She was upset cause he wouldn’t divorce me. Eventually he divorced her.

    • @lanaw7304
      @lanaw7304 Год назад +1

      @@BQ900 and u stayed? i think she had the rigjt to be upset

  • @nadiai6878
    @nadiai6878 6 месяцев назад

    I want to be her best friend ❤️

  • @SenaitSM
    @SenaitSM Год назад +1

    I'm disgusted... 2 years???

  • @user-pp5lv6dl2k
    @user-pp5lv6dl2k Год назад +9

    She new he wasn’t the one. The prenup and infidelity clause were clues

    • @makey5775
      @makey5775 Год назад +4

      You won’t know if that person is the one for you before getting married. You know the true colors of the person at least a year after getting married to them.

  • @kmonh6416
    @kmonh6416 8 месяцев назад

    NEVER I mean NEVER ... put money between your relationships whether it's marriage, friendship or even close family.
    It is better to be careful than sorry.
    Whenever you are investing or saving ALWAYS put a clear agreement between you guys on how and when to spend it (paper kind of agreement). It can be usefulness for different situations one of them to keeping ur self from fraud and another can be if someone passes away that will end as an inheritance which might not be in your favour.

  • @2990michael
    @2990michael Год назад +3

    This Lady Have watched "Money Heist Movie" this is more than Story .😬

  • @mlove8158
    @mlove8158 Год назад +5

    They say never check your partners phone because if you go looking for something you’re gonna find it 😂
    P.s…just because he is comfortable with you going through his phone, he may have another phone you have no clue about, stay woke ladies !🖤
    loved this episode.

  • @papabolet
    @papabolet Год назад +7

    So she refused to give him kids which was the one thing he genuinely desired, and her reason was that she was not financially stable incase he left her?
    So many 🚩🚩also she forced him to integrate a cheating clause and told him that she won’t trust him unless he signs it? She never loved that man, He should’ve divorced her long time ago. Hope he learned a lesson there. That man will make that money back and remarry.
    Now that she finally got the house and presumably financially stable enough to have children, goodluck to her finding a new husband.

    • @lanaw7304
      @lanaw7304 Год назад +14

      Cheaters always have excuses

    • @rereraira4863
      @rereraira4863 Год назад +1

      your are a cheater, i can smell it

    • @ibtisamahokine2921
      @ibtisamahokine2921 Год назад +3

      Being positive doesn’t always guarantee happy ending. If your partner isn’t ready to have kids , you can have a conversation and come to an agreement . Kids are a blessing but marriage isn’t all about having kids. They just got married so what’s the rush, you can enjoy each other’s company more before you start a family . Perhaps the husbands actions may give her the assurance she needs and start a family earlier than planned. Every woman dreams of having a loving and loyal husband and raising their own kids the right way while being a bougie mum. We all want that happy home, who goes into marriage planning to get divorced. If he truly loved and appreciated her, he would have understood and given her support. Cos income from both sides puts less burden on the man. All she did to protect herself was worth it because as usual men will stain your white.
      Allahs plans over all things .

  • @Sam-zk8jd
    @Sam-zk8jd Год назад +1

    I don’t get it. Is this supposed to be an Islamic channel???

    • @yasminx2878
      @yasminx2878 Год назад +5

      No its just a podcast about divorces and cheating

    • @starlight200816
      @starlight200816 Год назад +2

      No its just a podcast

  • @ziziy243
    @ziziy243 Год назад +5

    There is nothing Islamic about this story. There is no such thing as prenup in Islam. Her money is hers whether she is married or not and whilst in the marriage he is the provider. It is not her responsibility to provide for future children islamically it is the mans job, so her postponing to have children is wrong unless she clearly stated that before marriage. He has every right to marry an other woman who wpuld provide him kids but he should have gone about in the islamic way. This story just seems unislamic and westernised on both sides.

    • @comet6740
      @comet6740 9 месяцев назад

      There is a prenup. The wife has a right to say in her contract if she agrees with the husband taking on another wife if he wants to or not. She stated, he could not and he broke the contract, end of.

    • @keifer7813
      @keifer7813 9 месяцев назад

      It's most likely fake anyways

  • @yusuffarah6873
    @yusuffarah6873 Год назад

    I wonder when looking for second wife became cheating. Subhanallah

    • @sadiamohamed6197
      @sadiamohamed6197 Год назад +1

      That’s cheating ahhh

    • @reneemcguinness2136
      @reneemcguinness2136 Год назад +3

      When he is doing it for 2 years and saves his potential 2nd wife as 'bro' in their phone 😂😂😂

    • @ibtisamahokine2921
      @ibtisamahokine2921 Год назад +1

      Shouldn’t he have discussed it with his wife???

    • @keifer7813
      @keifer7813 9 месяцев назад

      I agree but if he waived his right to a second wife in the contract, then he was wrong.
      Solution: Just never sign it. And if she persists, move on to another sister

  • @lifeinislam6
    @lifeinislam6 Год назад +10

    So no one is going to talk about how she came into the marriage stating she doesn't trust his loyalty in the marriage certificate, like why marry someone you don't trust to begin with? Then proceeds to dictates when they will have kids cause she's "financially not ready" in other words to get him further under her control!! No place for Qiwama in her dictionary, zero respect not even consideration for Islamic traditional role of a husband as provider and a wife as a home maker..ohhh noooo the world has to stop and continue turning at my demand and my pet "her then husband" has to agree or he is "toxic"
    home girl is laughing now but will cry later..she has no business marrying a Muslim...she's better off with pure gaal who will agree with all feminist bullshit😂

    • @kh07gl
      @kh07gl Год назад +15

      Honestly it really depends. I always wanted to add the divorce can be done by the wife clause in my marriage certificate but I didn’t because I trusted him. Even though I did not have a nasty divorce because his family was on my side and promised my family he would not do any funny business, I regretted not putting it in and giving him so much trust. Never again

    • @uchayphilips2513
      @uchayphilips2513 Год назад +12

      Don’t hate her because you can’t be her. She turned out to be right and he was a weasel. Stop projecting your own self hatred on her and the fact that she decided that her life was hers to live and determine what happens to it. Would it be better if she left it to him to decide when they’d have kids especially since he turned out not to be trustworthy? Pls come out from under the self loathing or at least stop spilling it without self awareness in public it’s embarrassing.

    • @lifeinislam6
      @lifeinislam6 Год назад +1

      @uchayphilips2513 alxamdulillah I follow Allah's Sharia throughout my life, especially in marriage. This girl and ur arrogant self need to come out of the filthy feminism hole and accept the deen as a whole or be ashamed of coming on public platforms condoning blatant disregard of Islamic marriage principles. Go ahead and take some courses on Qiwama, husband, and wife roles in marriage, or even you don't have any business marrying a Muslim, find yourself a kafir (there is plenty in this world) and go dictate that relationship and you shall see how that will end

    • @starlight200816
      @starlight200816 Год назад +7

      You laugh until it's you. You can't be stupid and naive nowadays. You have to be prepared otherwise if something happens and your not prepared everyone will be laughing at you

    • @lifeinislam6
      @lifeinislam6 Год назад +3

      @starlight200816 No one said anything about being naive, ladies please use brain, However, if you didnt get yourself "financially prepared" Before you got married since you had the same time he had, there is no point of stopping you're lives and postponing having kids. This woman had a good relationship until she decided to wear the pants and ruined it herself. Be the woman and let the man be a man like the Shaira tells you.

  • @maimoonaahmed8614
    @maimoonaahmed8614 Год назад +1

    Okay she won in this world but took his rights and she’ll have to answer to Allah.

    • @rereraira4863
      @rereraira4863 Год назад +4

      what rights? the rights to cheat?? u delulu

    • @maimoonaahmed8614
      @maimoonaahmed8614 Год назад +1

      @rereraira4863 of course not, don’t be silly. I am talking about his finance.

    • @rereraira4863
      @rereraira4863 Год назад +1

      @maimoonaahmed8614 If he was so concerned with his finances, then he shouldn't have cheated. This man is mad stupid to even think off cheating when the wife specifically mentioned an infidelity clause that he signed (which, mind you, is allowed in islam to put such conditions even in the nikkah)

  • @cillabrew
    @cillabrew Год назад +1

    You were receiving a decent amount of pay but didn’t want a child .. did she make such arrangements with her husband before marriage? Feels like this was all planned.. no woman who loves her husband can stand him cheating and pretend not to know for 6 month .. she never loved him to begin with

    • @itwasaizensplan007
      @itwasaizensplan007 Год назад +4

      There's a fine line between love and hate. Women love more dearly than anyone else, but when that love is lost, it turns into an even more powerful hatred - "hell hath no fury like a woman scorned", as the saying goes

    • @berkamp9832
      @berkamp9832 Год назад +1

      How many times did she sleep with him in those 6 month. The girl had some serious hatred for the man.

    • @keifer7813
      @keifer7813 9 месяцев назад

      ​@@berkamp9832Exactly. That's the part that gave it away. It's all BS

  • @jerryrodriguez3554
    @jerryrodriguez3554 Год назад +2

    She denies her husband a child and cries about him wanting a second wife no wonder why brothers are going overseas for wives

    • @lanaw7304
      @lanaw7304 Год назад +14

      Cheaters always have excuses , im glad she denied her husband a child !! Her guts was right that he was a cheater

  • @NajmaADini
    @NajmaADini Год назад +1

    May Allah SWT forgive this women. It is so sad as Muslim women we go to this level to disobey Allah

    • @fatmahmohammed8133
      @fatmahmohammed8133 Год назад +11

      tf! how is that disobeying Allah? he's cheating on her!! or is that allowed (zina).

    • @ayschasoumaya8443
      @ayschasoumaya8443 7 месяцев назад +1

      You must have watched some other video or sth.. because HOW, after hearing all the haram that the husband did to her, are you blaming the woman?😂

  • @trick_show9469
    @trick_show9469 Год назад +3

    It's a shame these days that marriage revolves around assets etc so people have to go as far as getting all these measures in place or trying to take others assets and money during divorce

    • @user-et2ng1qb2m
      @user-et2ng1qb2m Год назад +11

      These days? For most of human history, people married for community building, financial gain, social gain, diplomatic strategy etc. Marrying for love is the new thing.

    • @trick_show9469
      @trick_show9469 Год назад

      @@user-et2ng1qb2m yes marriage is for building, but together, perhaps I phrased it wrong, but today people often look far beyond marriage and look for how it may end rather than the actual marriage itself. Therefore everything is done with caution to ensure a swift robbery at the end of it

    • @rereraira4863
      @rereraira4863 Год назад +1

      then dont cheat and you wont get divorced

    • @trick_show9469
      @trick_show9469 Год назад

      @@rereraira4863 I've heard of guys simply doing everything a man should do and the woman is in the background just calculating her divorce, yk they say women calculate a divorce years before it happens, gold diggers!!!! Fix the system and you'll see divorce rates drop

  • @leymong5182
    @leymong5182 Год назад +1

    First of all, she’s ain’t no smart, that’s an evil woman. Secondly, I pray that Allah bless that man with a woman who wants a family and love him. This woman put her career before her husband. I am sure she’s not practising Muslim cause ain’t no way I will do that to my husband.

    • @9087jo
      @9087jo Год назад +4

      I feel sorry for you

    • @keifer7813
      @keifer7813 9 месяцев назад

      Nice to see someone sane. Some people don't understand proportional punishment. He was wrong for going against their contract but she took it WAY too far subhanallah

  • @tasneembeigh8320
    @tasneembeigh8320 Год назад +6

    Literally the first person here just 27 seconds of posting 🥹