Why married women are easy to have an affair with, sex and intimacy struggles & life after marriage

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  • Опубликовано: 6 ноя 2024

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  • @LynnNgugi
    @LynnNgugi  Месяц назад +62

    Hello team LNN🙏
    We are happy to see you here:)
    Pull up a sit, we are gonna need it today😂😂
    What are your thoughts on today’s show?

  • @owenksimwizi9906
    @owenksimwizi9906 Месяц назад +77

    My conclusion is that when husband and wife have their hearts in the word of God,they become invincible..These guys seem to nail it..

  • @bernicefenton
    @bernicefenton Месяц назад +84

    religious folk are deep in their matrix bro. what do you mean this man - while in uni - was eyeing a young girl who was 13 years old and had just cleared class 8?

    • @eomanga
      @eomanga Месяц назад +8

      They will not believe 😂

    • @k3ygvrv
      @k3ygvrv Месяц назад +1

      Lmao I was also wondering, this is some pedo shit

    • @NellyMbotela254
      @NellyMbotela254 Месяц назад +10

      And saying it with his chest like it's a normal thing.

    • @paulinemumbi1564
      @paulinemumbi1564 Месяц назад

      They are here wowing like ambulances, this man groomed his wife and it's not even funny 😢

    • @catherinemburu1806
      @catherinemburu1806 Месяц назад +2

      And so many missedthis cringy bit 😢

  • @jemimahmukombo6638
    @jemimahmukombo6638 Месяц назад +38

    Married for 16 years marriage is a lot of work but it works 🎉

  • @lynbaker2321
    @lynbaker2321 Месяц назад +62

    Please try and host the Mathenge's (Wahu and Namesless).. Kenya favourite please

    • @annmungai-yx8ct
      @annmungai-yx8ct Месяц назад

      @@lynbaker2321 i support 101%,they are a good example for celebrity marriage

  • @lucytatublessed9576
    @lucytatublessed9576 Месяц назад +16

    Wow i watched them from Rawder kidula show recently and iam so happy to see them here too. God bless them❤❤❤❤

  • @jasonkiwah
    @jasonkiwah Месяц назад +5

    Am in uganda , a music producer and a married man. Lynn thank you for bringing this couple, I have learned a lot from them. Thanks again Thanks.

  • @JoyceMoses-zw5no
    @JoyceMoses-zw5no Месяц назад +23

    Good to have these two amazing people here,I came to know them through Rawder Kidula show,ready to listen to them once again👏👏👏

  • @elimukwadada
    @elimukwadada Месяц назад +11

    This is true love... Their Non verbals say it all. Nice to see that true love exists in this day and age. God bless you and your family guys.

  • @maggiemungai2540
    @maggiemungai2540 Месяц назад +10

    This man has wisdom, even the way he answers the questions, I like the way he's backing his examples from the bible. Well done 👍

  • @faithnchore3393
    @faithnchore3393 Месяц назад +2

    I'm a Kenyan living in Kampala and I've been challenged and encouraged by this conversation. I'd really like to attend the Kampala one with my husband. I want my marriage to be a reflection of Christ and the church and I need to know how to do it best.
    Thanks Lynn for the great work. You're transforming lives daily!!!

  • @miriamnyombi3556
    @miriamnyombi3556 Месяц назад +10

    I love this conversation because what they are talking about is happening to my relationship, thank you for this Ben and Gathoni

    • @elizabethmuhuga9512
      @elizabethmuhuga9512 Месяц назад

      Yes it's happening I know of a guy who had an affair with a married woman for more than six years they even had a child but finally the lady is with the hubby and the guy eventually lost his family

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 Месяц назад

      ​@@elizabethmuhuga9512kwani the hubby didn't know the wife is having an affair to a point of getting kids outside

  • @LucyKariko
    @LucyKariko Месяц назад +2

    This is so amazing... every marriage that is grounded in the word of God shall stand🙏🙏🙏

  • @joankidon4626
    @joankidon4626 Месяц назад +3

    I loved this totally....
    Thanks to you all ❤❤❤❤❤
    Marriage can actually help you reach your destiny or actually destroy your destiny. It's a huge ministry....

  • @LatifahNsubuga
    @LatifahNsubuga Месяц назад +9

    Right on time
    Hope all is well for everyone at LNN

  • @SarahKakai-k2s
    @SarahKakai-k2s Месяц назад +34

    Lynn receive your flowers 💐💐 mamaa together with your guests and may favor be upon you always ❤❤❤

  • @LLL3712
    @LLL3712 Месяц назад +12

    Lynn is really having fun, Lynn is very intelligent how she articulates all topics and asks the right questions.

  • @genesistrudy6943
    @genesistrudy6943 Месяц назад +1

    Heey, Jacob needs to learn the Christian union as well. I am single and this couple say it all. Thank you for being sooo honest and taking us deep. More happiness and blessings.

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya Месяц назад +60

    Ben & Gathoni is one couple that has zero clout, just lessons & loving God❤️

    • @eomanga
      @eomanga Месяц назад

      Haha 😂

  • @magdalenemwikya8691
    @magdalenemwikya8691 Месяц назад +4

    Good and powerful conversation there Lyn. My view though is: on the note 350 ladies/10men, am assuming most of these pple are aged btwn 30to 40. Now am aged btwn this age and i give you my honest opinion,men of our age were somehow neglected "sorry to say",as we were growing up,thats when the slogan "A GIRL CHILD CAN DO WHAT A BOY CHILD CAN DO ,IF ALL GIVEN AN EQUAL CHANCE", its true am not disputing but then i feel our parents took it too deep and kind of forgot our brothers. They are supposed to naturally man up without grooming,how now? Somehow feels the boy child is forgotten in our generation, that's 1980s and 1990s generation.

  • @gloriachepkosgei6569
    @gloriachepkosgei6569 Месяц назад +2

    Wow , What a show , I felt like my ears were craving for more .I am a happy person to be at Lynn Ngugi's family learning and unlearning daily . Please more of this shows dear 😍

  • @esthermutheshi4111
    @esthermutheshi4111 Месяц назад +4

    These is so educative im watching these and thinking I should watch with my husband for him to know as early as now what we women need before we get our baby❤❤❤

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 Месяц назад

      It's always what women wants, you guys can't even satisfy yourselves

  • @marygoretti3342
    @marygoretti3342 Месяц назад

    I just love the way Lynn becomes active and attentive on matters romance/affection/and sex.. she's vibrant n lights up the show.

  • @Glorie-nc9zj
    @Glorie-nc9zj Месяц назад +35

    "Strength is very unattractive to men"🚩😂 Let him speak for himself

  • @georgemayo5623
    @georgemayo5623 Месяц назад +2

    Very well explained there is a confusion between religion and Christianity.

  • @maryannmwaura7752
    @maryannmwaura7752 Месяц назад +10

    Back here to admire Lynn's authenticity 🎉🎉🎉❤

  • @solomonndungu4543
    @solomonndungu4543 Месяц назад +27

    please i wish to request that you bring back this couple they are an inspiration to us and we need a men's confence so that we can save our young men from, this toxic masculinity talks in the world. Please Lynn

    • @sharonmagdalenebooysen2874
      @sharonmagdalenebooysen2874 Месяц назад

      Totally agree to Ben and wife back,, really wisedom encouraging women

    • @GrindrKennedy
      @GrindrKennedy Месяц назад

      He basically groomed her a campus guy hoping a 13 year old would notice him cringe asf

  • @Florence-l5f
    @Florence-l5f Месяц назад +10

    Wapendanao. Wish them the best

  • @KeshieMusings
    @KeshieMusings 18 дней назад

    I have followed this couple for over a decade, so so happy to see how God has sustained them and their growth is so encouraging! More blessings to the Kiruthis. Bring them back Lynn, their lessons are timeless for all. They are so warm and genuine, we need to tap into that.

  • @emmahcheruto3974
    @emmahcheruto3974 Месяц назад +4

    Wisdom loading for this generation, thanks Lynn.

  • @napleieunice
    @napleieunice Месяц назад +11

    Congratulations Lynn can you plzz find out where Ibrahim's empire, sarah and moreen are doing🙏🙏

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 Месяц назад +1

      @@napleieunice I think Abrahams Empire collapsed. Just checked their channel, they last posted in Jan. 2023 😀😀😀

    • @napleieunice
      @napleieunice Месяц назад +3

      @@bellaolum9768 Thank you, may be coz it was impossible for two wife's in the same house

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 Месяц назад +1

      @@napleieunice it's not easy at all

    • @pauline2604
      @pauline2604 Месяц назад +1

      Abraham is now with Maureen, Sarah left

    • @napleieunice
      @napleieunice Месяц назад

      @@pauline2604 Are you sure???

  • @peaklegacyafrica
    @peaklegacyafrica Месяц назад +15

    🔥🔥🔥 Best conversation on love, dating, sex and marriage I’ve ever come across
    The conversation oozed pure wisdom 💯
    Part 2 is welcomed Lynn

  • @josephmumita8986
    @josephmumita8986 Месяц назад

    This is insightful and inspirational. Thank you, Lynn, for bringing such a conversation.

  • @elizabethwanja1750
    @elizabethwanja1750 Месяц назад

    Hi Lynn I'm so excited to hear it will be in kampala..I live in kampala and I can't wait for that day

  • @kanyoroesther41
    @kanyoroesther41 Месяц назад +5

    Lynn is always ready to listen,,i love that🥰🥰

  • @JaneWanjiru-u2r
    @JaneWanjiru-u2r Месяц назад +11

    "Men love themselves so much it is true,,," my fellow ladies let us love our self also and moreso taking care of our self period

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 Месяц назад

      Men love themselves more coz women have taught them that they can't be trusted for whatever reason

  • @marangatabitha8413
    @marangatabitha8413 22 дня назад

    Lynn av been watching you for long, this one nailed it!!! welcome kisii

  • @armoncakes7318
    @armoncakes7318 Месяц назад +1

    I love this. ❤️ Love your journey and your pictures, too. May God continue to bless your marriage and use it to bless others, too.

  • @janetadhiambo912
    @janetadhiambo912 Месяц назад +2

    Going to put up this conversation down with my hubby,out of town in a room just to allow us reform

  • @marykabutu6839
    @marykabutu6839 Месяц назад +5

    Good conversation, very encouranging words.

  • @peterr4431
    @peterr4431 Месяц назад +7

    I hope the whole of gen z is here..... cause vitu nimeona........marriage is gonna be very interesting

    • @janerose92
      @janerose92 Месяц назад

      When you meet the right person

  • @catherinemuchiri9263
    @catherinemuchiri9263 9 дней назад

    I love it ooh enjoying the show it's got to start from the mind.

  • @NJERINJUE
    @NJERINJUE Месяц назад +31

    lemme give him his flowers; Ben you are an inspiration,a true definition of consistency,see where you are now 👏👏👏🎉umetoka mbali

  • @dorcaskim8250
    @dorcaskim8250 Месяц назад +1

    Hello Lynn ...today was the best thing i need to hear .i learn alot and focusing to have it more.i want to hear more from them

  • @WanjiruMuya
    @WanjiruMuya Месяц назад +43

    Sex and intimacy should be well debated before marriage 😁Quality 👌

    • @DadaSophia-rk2kj
      @DadaSophia-rk2kj Месяц назад +3

      Yes...Quality and quantity.

    • @eliudkabebe
      @eliudkabebe Месяц назад +2

      💯 Let me tell you! What many young christian couples goes through during honeymoon, and some years after before they get experience 😂😂😂
      I laugh but this very serious. Some marital issues start there and then, some women develop sexual traumas and scars that really take time to heal

    • @lilywhite8029
      @lilywhite8029 Месяц назад

      @@WanjiruMuya Ooh yes
      It's never talked about yet there needs chemistry. Both parties should know how to explore each other's bodies. It's sad that a huge number of women have never experienced an orgasm from foreplay nor penetrative sex because they think sex is only meant for the man to ejaculate.

    • @taliyahyisrael4687
      @taliyahyisrael4687 Месяц назад

      I concur

    • @margaretomidoh5998
      @margaretomidoh5998 Месяц назад

      ​@@eliudkabebe
      Trauma with someone your heart loves,or beauty love,?
      Just trying to figure out,Marry someone u love,not anything physical ur eyes can see., simply because,all those cannot connect u to each other.

  • @faithayuma6088
    @faithayuma6088 Месяц назад +3

    I like the way Lynn probes for more😂😂..❤❤

  • @Lesby-Mogale
    @Lesby-Mogale Месяц назад +27

    I must say this gentleman is very well spoken and knowledgeable.. wow👏🏾!! I see what she meant when she said she was taken by his intellect😅

  • @KATUSIIMEHILDASHIRLEY
    @KATUSIIMEHILDASHIRLEY Месяц назад +18

    I totally agree with Gathoni the woman has to feel the husband's love and care the whole day then the bed thing will just come automatically. Well said Gathoni but Ben is a good husband too.

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 Месяц назад +1

      Women wakifanya umalaya they really don't care about feelings but still give intimacy to random men.. but when married is when you guys change script for the husband to get intimacy he has to make you 'feel'

    • @W.k4382
      @W.k4382 Месяц назад +1

      ​@@ichooseviolence2532 shut up! Stop projecting!

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 Месяц назад

      @@W.k4382 projecting kwani mm ni mwanamke

    • @rubierawbiz1165
      @rubierawbiz1165 Месяц назад

      ​@w.k4382 how is that projecting while they are stating some truth? Seems like you are pissed by it.

    • @JaneKuria-e4d
      @JaneKuria-e4d Месяц назад

      yes,they do, for money.most of them have no choice and they don't enjoy it.why would a married woman do this everyday?kwani ni slavery?they just choose not to.Unfortunately there are some who don't have the courage to chose otherwise,so they stay,unhappy and bitter.

  • @viletkerubo505
    @viletkerubo505 Месяц назад +6

    Hello LNN good job God continue Blessing you and your team happy Sabbath ❤❤

    • @LynnNgugi
      @LynnNgugi  Месяц назад

      Thank you so much ❤

  • @edsonmatose6470
    @edsonmatose6470 Месяц назад +1

    Lyn looking beautiful and delivering the best content

  • @nimuyreemu3723
    @nimuyreemu3723 Месяц назад +1

    Marriage is good on paper and on Television.When you see those bridesmaids dancing,it looks soo good!!
    But truth is its soo hard!..
    Its not for everyone..
    Its for those who are blessed and graced with it.Its clearly not for everyone!!
    Wuuuueeehhhhh!!Lets aim for heaven.Mbinguni tunaenda.

  • @Ndubi254
    @Ndubi254 Месяц назад +4

    Wow! This is a very very good conversation! Am going straight to their RUclips! I love this openness! I will sit my husband down we listen to this again mostly about sex cause that's exactly what I went through and still going through after so many years but I don't think my husband understands it this way! I need their counseling so badly! We need them more here Lynn

  • @risperkariuki1459
    @risperkariuki1459 Месяц назад +2

    This was one of the best conversations about marriage i have listened to in a very long time. This was phenomenal 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @lilywhite8029
    @lilywhite8029 Месяц назад +26

    Ben is a dream for any woman
    Gathoni you're blessed. He oozes wisdom and above all his relationship with Christ is incredible . He plays the role of a priest of the home so well
    For Gathoni I love how she lays back and listens without interrupting.
    Nothing fake, no scripts just love and submission. Woow
    Lynn. Good job, you really enjoyed this episode. I can see you love love

    • @marykariuki7381
      @marykariuki7381 Месяц назад +17

      Speak for yourself 😅, not mine in any sense!

    • @GrindrKennedy
      @GrindrKennedy Месяц назад +8

      You're very foolish he's a predator

    • @lilywhite8029
      @lilywhite8029 Месяц назад +1

      @@GrindrKennedy It takes a thief to catch a thief. Only a fool knows his fellow fools.

    • @seanreacts254
      @seanreacts254 Месяц назад

      ​@lilywhite8029 so you'll be okay with your underage daughter kupendwa na mtu ako 18+

    • @TopChoiceTilesDecor
      @TopChoiceTilesDecor Месяц назад +3

      Shindweeeeee!!! Ati a dream for who again? Talk on your own silly behalf please.

  • @goodheartedgal8001
    @goodheartedgal8001 Месяц назад +1

    Lynn, great conversation. Can you ask Ben to come back and talk about widows & widowers and what the Bible teaches about them moving on and finding love again?

    • @loverofHS
      @loverofHS Месяц назад +2

      The Bible allows you to remarry. Once a spouse dies the one left is free to remarry. It's not a sin.

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 Месяц назад +2

      The marriage covenant ends when one spouse dies. You can remarry

  • @salomekariuki1363
    @salomekariuki1363 Месяц назад

    This is powerful. I need this couple to speak to my husband, ciz he is very difficult. Then talk to both of us as a couple.

  • @olivewanjiru-Mwaniki
    @olivewanjiru-Mwaniki Месяц назад

    I first saw them during their wedding
    Look at where they're!!!! How they don't forget God..
    More Grace.

  • @ruthwagathu8282
    @ruthwagathu8282 Месяц назад

    Best video I have watched recently! Thank you Ben and Gathoni for explaining sex and intimacy so so well..baraka

  • @cerahngugi890
    @cerahngugi890 Месяц назад +1

    😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂I could not wait to finish this coz honestly that's the reality of the matter.

  • @faithvuyanzi5769
    @faithvuyanzi5769 Месяц назад +29

    This couple is definitely onto something with the intimacy and sex subject but the subject of submission has been regurgitated for so long and centuries of women submitting under men, they woke up to violence, insecurity, alienation and almost no place to call home in the world with their names on under 10% of Land which is a god given resource that men took ownership of to subdue women further and protect their sexual interests making us perpetual squatters on earth. I like that Ben uses the right term on what it means to submit "reduce yourself," yet if your feet are grounded on reality you know submission is not the answer. It only serves a skewed interest, that of men and their ego interests, not women and children.
    I understand their focal point which is religious and I would say Gathoni is possibly 'loved' in this context and quite accepting of it considering the age gap and experience its expected.
    Ill be looking forward to the show hosting successful couples who operate outside of these religious norms, but meanwhile Ben mentoring men outside of the toxic masculinity messages is without a doubt a step forward

    • @martharinebiseko1457
      @martharinebiseko1457 Месяц назад +2

      Be hosted and share non Christian stuff but as far as I know even non Christians resonate minus the quoted scriptures

    • @faithvuyanzi5769
      @faithvuyanzi5769 Месяц назад +1

      @@martharinebiseko1457 I agree, the majority male non believers have hijacked the same beliefs in order to meet their needs and sustain status quo

    • @RosyKilele
      @RosyKilele Месяц назад +3

      Exactly. Especially the lady. Let her stick to her speciality in intimacy and sex. Otherwise, she cannot relate with single women because she has basically been in a relationship all her life(Since 18years)

    • @chuitiger9393
      @chuitiger9393 Месяц назад

      A feminist speaking. Your views are soo narrow and selfish. Back then family worked with several wives one husband. You should know why women never inherited land

  • @samuelkibe95
    @samuelkibe95 Месяц назад +1

    Singles are learning....thanks Lynn for sharing this.... atleast now we understands what is marriage

  • @simonkimu5368
    @simonkimu5368 Месяц назад +6

    Who has noticed this man by the name ben is so handsome and his wisdom is oozing....im impressed by this man

    • @lilywhite8029
      @lilywhite8029 Месяц назад

      Yees and the melanin
      Any intelligent man is sexy 🤣

    • @shaicagates5341
      @shaicagates5341 Месяц назад +2

      He is wise but I wonder how a man will notice another man is handsome. Sounds weird.

    • @lilywhite8029
      @lilywhite8029 Месяц назад

      @@shaicagates5341 Stop sexualizing stuff.

    • @aj5819
      @aj5819 Месяц назад

      @@shaicagates5341they do, I believe, even from a neutral sense because it’s a physical appearance.

  • @chuchuone
    @chuchuone Месяц назад

    for those thinking I ALWAYS reject you are wrong. I actually liked this one. very honest/open discussion. and yes I am looking forward to the next one.

  • @shani5747
    @shani5747 Месяц назад +3

    I loved how Lynn advocated for the minority Communities in Turkana, Isiolo, Taita, and others. Marriage is a beautiful institution. I really wish I could be in one of the couple sessions. I have been in marriage for ten years, but missed intimacy. My divorce just went through, but my ex-husband wants reconciliation and there is a disconnect. I don't know how to reconnect.
    This session was a blessing.

    • @ichooseviolence2532
      @ichooseviolence2532 Месяц назад +1

      I hope you're not assuming the disconnect is coming from him alone 🤔.. the disconnect is coming from both of you equally!!

    • @shani5747
      @shani5747 Месяц назад

      @@ichooseviolence2532 it's in fact from my side

  • @helenmamu5346
    @helenmamu5346 Месяц назад +1

    Learning a lot and gaining wisdom from this wonderful couple
    Take your flowers 🌷 🌷 🌹 🌹 Lynn

  • @masindevictormarcellus8445
    @masindevictormarcellus8445 Месяц назад

    Woooow, every day we learn something new.

  • @Afrikanagardensresort
    @Afrikanagardensresort Месяц назад

    The best video I have watched this year....

  • @georgemayo5623
    @georgemayo5623 Месяц назад

    Very well analysed. One has to work on himself or herself, in terms of character building. Then when they meet and want to be in a marriage all else follows in the marriage.

  • @LJTL
    @LJTL Месяц назад

    Even in Kampala you're coming wow this is interesting. Thank you for sharing love from UG.

  • @lydiamgongo3436
    @lydiamgongo3436 Месяц назад

    Wow, I really love this couple, uwee Gothoni, please love your husband 😊his so full of wisdom

  • @veronicahmutua3201
    @veronicahmutua3201 Месяц назад

    Ben ooozes wisdom.Can listen to him a whole day.

  • @Patriciaedwards-w1u
    @Patriciaedwards-w1u Месяц назад

    The fear of God is the beginning of wisdom and ben have that.wish all men had the fear of God in them this world wld be a very peaceful and happy place

  • @bilhahnjeri6427
    @bilhahnjeri6427 Месяц назад

    This episode was 🔥🔥🔥 bring them back again

  • @leahanitareddig
    @leahanitareddig Месяц назад

    This couple is power 💪🏾 and I love there wisdom

  • @johngitau6995
    @johngitau6995 Месяц назад

    Soo authentic.though the reality makes singles think twice,weeeh! God help us

  • @wacera-l5n
    @wacera-l5n Месяц назад

    Yooo Have been listening to this great people since their ruracio, wedding ,pregnancy wooo I just Love them

  • @davidnangolo9631
    @davidnangolo9631 Месяц назад

    This is the best video I have ever I watched on Lynn Ngugi. It is informative and educational and I have learnt a lot. Keep restoring lives. From Namibia

    • @lucyjohn1587
      @lucyjohn1587 Месяц назад

      Learning is an everyday thing and I really appreciate cause I have really learnt a lot.Thank you sana Lynn

  • @KyoshabireSarah
    @KyoshabireSarah Месяц назад

    Wisdom spoken here!¡, thanks guys.

  • @DadaSophia-rk2kj
    @DadaSophia-rk2kj Месяц назад +8

    Their are men , who tell their wives to stay at their rural home,while they stay in the city, barely going home,maybe once in six months...Is such a union considered a marriage?

    • @martharinebiseko1457
      @martharinebiseko1457 Месяц назад +17

      Lazy to type but let me summarise .
      A certain lady I know lived such a marriage. Worse still the man got another family in town.
      She remained in the village and tilled the land to get fees for her children.
      While her last child was winding up univ the husband brought the small step children from the town family.
      She kept quiet.
      The man relocated to the village knowing that the bigger children will take care of their mum.
      She just woke up one day and asked to attend a relatives function in town.
      Left all her clothing and went to town to start a new life.
      She had lived a lonely life but stayed to work hard and raise her children.
      Now hubby wanted her to raise another lady's children.
      She never returned to the village!

    • @DadaSophia-rk2kj
      @DadaSophia-rk2kj Месяц назад +9

      ​@@martharinebiseko1457I wish she left earlier,as she was hardworking,she would have met another man .
      The man certainly never cared for her.

    • @bellaolum9768
      @bellaolum9768 Месяц назад +1

      Do such things still happen? That was in the era of our grandparents, not acceptable in this day and age!

    • @DadaSophia-rk2kj
      @DadaSophia-rk2kj Месяц назад +2

      @@bellaolum9768 they do,to those living in the interior areas who aren't exposed ,maybe their husband hustle is a mjengo in the city,he tells you stay home as it will be cheaper if I stay in the city alone.

    • @damarismoronge3163
      @damarismoronge3163 Месяц назад +2

      That's not a marriage, it's a rumor

  • @magdalenenzuki7606
    @magdalenenzuki7606 Месяц назад +3

    Lynn, please gift us one ticket.... Been married for 12years, and I really need this discussion

  • @janenjeri907
    @janenjeri907 Месяц назад +1

    Woiye mm i wish to go.....me and my husband
    @lynn ngugi gifts us....we will appreciate it.

  • @fionaachieng8270
    @fionaachieng8270 Месяц назад

    One of the most beautiful love stories of our time..God bless you Ben and Kiruthi

  • @norahatambo9515
    @norahatambo9515 Месяц назад +2

    I'm sure many women can identify with this discussion.

  • @ADayWithMe.
    @ADayWithMe. Месяц назад

    The wisdom in this couple, please bring them back again.

  • @ropgloria8121
    @ropgloria8121 Месяц назад

    happy to see kiruthis i first met them in university 10 years ago taking me through photo graphy and they are a power couple

  • @Joycembuguawm
    @Joycembuguawm Месяц назад

    If only I had watched such a show years back before the mess😅but I know my God pays back years eaten up.Ben n. Gathoni,shine on.God bless you.

  • @NileGoddess
    @NileGoddess Месяц назад +16

    People should respect themselves and respect their vows made before God

  • @carolynkangethe1431
    @carolynkangethe1431 Месяц назад

    I remember their wedding on the Wedding show citizen tv it was so beautiful 😊

  • @henrykaranja4353
    @henrykaranja4353 Месяц назад +1

    If you are unmarried, just know you will have to pass through the seasons of marriage, the good and the ugly you will most likely forget all the wisdom shared by the guests on the show, but soldier on

  • @isaiahmiringo7009
    @isaiahmiringo7009 Месяц назад +1

    Will share this with my wifi a lot of good information.

  • @peterkariuki9475
    @peterkariuki9475 Месяц назад +9

    My friend ben should understand he doesn't a monopoly in wisdom times have changed and women have changed a lot due to exposure brought about by social media that's the major difference btwn now and when they started dating in 2009, Women now are more combative , arrogant and have unrealistic standards and the only reason they agree to settle for less is the age factor.Its not that men don't want to settle but men are afraid of dating the modern woman.

    • @nimuyreemu3723
      @nimuyreemu3723 Месяц назад

      You have put us all in one bracket..arrogant,combative and with unrealistic standards.Unbracket us first please..then you can do the rest.Clearly it shows who you are.And your mindset.
      I would also put men in a bracket,but I won't because I know somewhere there's a man who doesn't fit in that bracket.And I am different and my mindset is different.
      If one brings such a mindset to the dating scene,it's easy to feel that energy and its doomed to fail.
      CLAP FOR YOUR MINDSET!

  • @teresiamututo7371
    @teresiamututo7371 Месяц назад +7

    Best interview ever

  • @JacintaMurugi
    @JacintaMurugi Месяц назад +3

    I wish I had come across such conversation long before my separation because the whole conversation is what we went through.

  • @angeliqueumuhire7521
    @angeliqueumuhire7521 Месяц назад

    very good conversation, plz bring them back

  • @chebi5704
    @chebi5704 Месяц назад +5

    Right on time ❤

  • @naomynjoroge4733
    @naomynjoroge4733 Месяц назад +1

    More blessings to you Gathoni and Ben ❤

  • @catherinegichia6676
    @catherinegichia6676 Месяц назад +5

    I love how Lynne digs deeper for us😂😂😂

  • @marykariuki7381
    @marykariuki7381 Месяц назад +3

    Gathoni said she could not date someone younger than her because they are immature and not intellectually there. This is dangerous 😢 given most pregnancies in girls between 15-18 are from men aged 20-30 years and those men abandon these young girls.

    • @beckymwende9516
      @beckymwende9516 Месяц назад +1

      She was groomed to believe she was mature for her age.

    • @marykariuki7381
      @marykariuki7381 Месяц назад +2

      @@beckymwende9516 exactly. Teenage girls need to realise they don’t need to be mature for their age. It’s okay to be your age

    • @beckymwende9516
      @beckymwende9516 Месяц назад

      @marykariuki7381 exactly, she was a child and he was a pedophile preying on a child.

  • @chaniawillow
    @chaniawillow Месяц назад +1

    What a great ep. We need more of these. Thanks Lynn and the Kiruthis.

  • @leonoraatieno5705
    @leonoraatieno5705 Месяц назад +1

    Hello team Lynn ❤. Very good discussion.