1. Do not marry on potential or expectations 2. Choose character over chemistry 3. Choose Emotional stability over financial stability 4. Avoid opposing life plans as that brings about rifts and clashes 5. Avoid pre-marital physical relationship 6. Check emotional connection with the person whom you get married 7. Pay attention to person’s anger and emotional issues 8. Beware of lack of openness about thoughts and feelings 9. Be aware of how they manage their personal responsibilities 10. Emotional health and not being available
This channel is awesome. The ulama and mufti mainly talk about issues concerning elders but only a few concentrate on the youth. So in todays situation, this channel is a blessing. Keep it up. May Allah help you guys and all of us. Ameen
I feel blessed sometimes because jab jo halat hote hain whi video saamne aa jati h mere maamlaat ko suljhane k liye.. Alhamdulillah.. 😇Masha Allah👌🏻n Jazakallah ♥️
Aaj meri ankh khul gayi ab samjh main aya ke q log mujhe dhokha dete rahe. shayad meri life main apke jaisa koi bhai hota samjhane wala Really thank you bro
Great choice of topics for the youth of today. Quite often in masajid we only get to hear political khutbas, neglecting issues of today. May Allah put barkat in your task
Wajih sir i think u should use more urdu in your conversation bcz everyone don't know either more english or some specific words which they don't know their meanings so they can't understood your perspective... Its my Humble Request to All The Team to Youth Club that All of speakers should use more urdu in their conversations... Jazakallahhh Khairaaa...
Allah talah hm sub kay dilo mai apni muhabbat paiday kary taky hm achy aur naik amal krn aur Allah talah hm sub ko aisa dil ata kary jo Allah sy daray aur hr burayi aur gunnah ko chor day qk Allah ki muhabbat aur dar nhi ho toh insaan behter nhi ban saktay aur na hi apny amal ko ekhlaq aur niyat bhtr kar sakta. Allah talah sub ko achy partner bannay ki taufeeq day aur Allah sub ko acha partner naseeb kary(Aameen) JazakAllah khair Tips achi hn Allah hmn un tips pay amal krny ki taufeeq day (Aameen)
Please give dua for me. Or just by saying Allahumma Ameen to this dua. Ya Allah please give me a spouse who is religious that will take me to jannahtul firdaus, a faithful one, gentleman, honest, responsible and a spouse that would never ever break my heart and who’s gonna love me unconditionally, who’s gonna love me for the sake of you Ya Rahman Ya Rahim. Allahumma Ameeeeeeen🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻
Only Allaah, the Most High, the Exalt is PERFECT, Subhaanahu Wa Ta'aalaa, The Rabb (Creator, Owner and Cherisher) of all that exists (seen or unseen) ... :]
Maa Shaa Allaah, Brother ... Helped a lot, especially starting with my own self, Alhamdulillaah ... Will watch again and again for better understanding, In Sha Allah. May Allaah make ease for all of us. Aameen.
Asalamu Alaikum.... Sir its for love marriage nt Arrange marriage.... Because in arrange marriage person is getting single opportunity to meet his spouse.... Hw he ll decide is she good for him or nt......
U cannot foresee all these traits before marriage is another fact. A person learns a lot about themselves after marriage as well Therefore you can never be certain on who you are marrying
Nice tips ma shaa ALLAH! Jazakumullahu khairan kathiran fi darain! Dua for a pious spouse: It maybe helpful for all in shaa ALLAH اللهم اني اسألك زوجاصالحا في الدنيا والآخر ة Allahumma inni asa'luka zaojan salihan fi duniya wal Aakhirah. O ALLAH i ask you for a pious spouse in this world and the world hereafter. Aamiin!
assalamualikum. isi topic pe hum pichly kai arsey se achi vidio dhund rahe they or alhumdulillah aaj mil gai.aaj musalman ghrana me bhi ye dekha gaya h k log shadi se pey janne k kiye hostels me or baher living relationship me reh rahe h or is ko galt kehne waly ko typical n stone era age ka samjhtey h .
But when u judge your husband or wife followed by 10 tips your negativity will increase day by day and most important all 5 fingers are not equal same husband wife are not equal we have to accept some positive and some negative things too. U can't get all the positive things from your husband/wife. Thank you This is my opinion if anyone hurts then sorry from my side.
Beshak sab same Nhe , hm um chezon p compromise karen , jin p compromise possible hai , lakin un p nh jin p possible Nhe , for example hm deen aur ikhlaq p compromise na karen , aur ek spouse atleast zimedari uthane wala ho , caring ho , tabhi life chal sakege , partner aesa to ho na atleast jo jab ap pareshan ho to uss se share kar sako aur Jab wo pareshan ho to apse baten share kr sake Bila jhikhak
Mostly our mothers and sisters choose a partner for us. We hardly get a chance to see her picture before marriage. And we get married to someone who are liked by them so how can we get to know about her. For example if she belongs to a certain firqah which we don't follow, we might have issues with that and marrying someone like this totally changes our future but our parents don't give much attention to this thing and say things gets change after marriage. How to deal with it. How to know will both of us be compatible with each other or not
esa bhi hota hai ki ladke ko ladki achi lagati hai bhot jyada..par mother and siisters mana kr dete hai ...to confusions create ho jata hai ladke aur ladki me ki likings hai but ghar wale dil tod te hai... tab bhi samaj ni ata ki kya kare .
Mre fhr shadi ki bat chali.. Rishta aya.. But I'm so scared he is unknown..uski adatain uski soch. Humari understanding develp hu k ni. Etc.. I dont know wht should i do.. How can i marrry him
I don't want to marry a person because he is not aware of his responsibilities but his mom emotionally blackmails my mom and they are trying to convinced me emotionally is it right?
Today I met with someone who I assume religiously stong with a great character. But I'm not super convinced with the chemistry. I knew beauty of face is not the real beauty, but I was still confused. Because of her characteristics I'm going forward for the next step of marriage. May allah help me with the process
These can not be applicable if younare going to choose your spouse in a religious way which is arranged by parents + 1meeting as no one can open up this much that we can cross check them
I got married few months ago I chose my husband for his deen but after some time of our marriage I realized he is not just when it comes to me and his family. He doesn't spend enough time as he plays games for like 4 to 5 hours after his job. He doesn't even allow me to meet my parents but he spends all the free time with his mother and brother's and give silent treatment to me fir weeks when anything doesn't go his way. He turned out to be very harsh and out spoken even with my parents I'm extremely helpless what to do. Shall I endure this with sabr and dua? Any tips
I am disagree from your some points.As when anybody got married its all behaviors must change like emotions, chemistry, anger etc. That is the reason islam don't guid us to judge deeply anybody deeply for marriage before marriage
Please bhai ap urdu mey bat kiya karen or english mey km bat kiya karen q k jin smjh ati hai unko tou urdu mey bhi aa jaye gi or mere jaison ko asani hogi.
1. Do not marry on potential or expectations
2. Choose character over chemistry
3. Choose Emotional stability over financial stability
4. Avoid opposing life plans as that brings about rifts and clashes
5. Avoid pre-marital physical relationship
6. Check emotional connection with the person whom you get married
7. Pay attention to person’s anger and emotional issues
8. Beware of lack of openness about thoughts and feelings
9. Be aware of how they manage their personal responsibilities
10. Emotional health and not being available
thanks brother
Jazakallahu khairn!
JazakAllah
Jazakallah khair
jazakallah
I don't think any group has connected to the youth as much as they have..... great work 😊
I also do believe...
Totally agreed, Brothers Mohammad Asif & Washim Akram. :))
Agreed
💯
This channel is awesome. The ulama and mufti mainly talk about issues concerning elders but only a few concentrate on the youth. So in todays situation, this channel is a blessing. Keep it up. May Allah help you guys and all of us. Ameen
Aameen
I feel blessed sometimes because jab jo halat hote hain whi video saamne aa jati h mere maamlaat ko suljhane k liye.. Alhamdulillah.. 😇Masha Allah👌🏻n Jazakallah ♥️
Same condition alhumduillha
same here Alhamdullilah
Aaj meri ankh khul gayi ab samjh main aya ke q log mujhe dhokha dete rahe.
shayad meri life main apke jaisa koi bhai hota samjhane wala
Really thank you bro
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Great choice of topics for the youth of today. Quite often in masajid we only get to hear political khutbas, neglecting issues of today. May Allah put barkat in your task
Very good lecture ماشاء اللہ سبحان اللہ Allah hmy smjhny ke tofeeq dy
Wajih sir i think u should use more urdu in your conversation bcz everyone don't know either more english or some specific words which they don't know their meanings so they can't understood your perspective...
Its my Humble Request to All The Team to Youth Club that All of speakers should use more urdu in their conversations...
Jazakallahhh Khairaaa...
Yes me bhi yhe khna chty
Bilkul...
I m in a search of nek husband inshaallah this points may be helpful to me
Jazakallah
Pehlay koshish karo but bharosa Allah swt par he ho or Jo milay us par sabar 🤍
Ya ALLAh....itni mushkil cheezein nhi hoti humse ..tu hi bhj dy koe acha sa naik banda.
Allah talah hm sub kay dilo mai apni muhabbat paiday kary taky hm achy aur naik amal krn aur Allah talah hm sub ko aisa dil ata kary jo Allah sy daray aur hr burayi aur gunnah ko chor day qk Allah ki muhabbat aur dar nhi ho toh insaan behter nhi ban saktay aur na hi apny amal ko ekhlaq aur niyat bhtr kar sakta.
Allah talah sub ko achy partner bannay ki taufeeq day aur Allah sub ko acha partner naseeb kary(Aameen)
JazakAllah khair
Tips achi hn Allah hmn un tips pay amal krny ki taufeeq day (Aameen)
Please give dua for me. Or just by saying Allahumma Ameen to this dua.
Ya Allah please give me a spouse who is religious that will take me to jannahtul firdaus, a faithful one, gentleman, honest, responsible and a spouse that would never ever break my heart and who’s gonna love me unconditionally, who’s gonna love me for the sake of you Ya Rahman Ya Rahim.
Allahumma Ameeeeeeen🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻🤲🏻
Aameen
Ameen ya Rabbil Aalameen
This is a billion dollar advice ... May ALLAH reward you the best 💚
You discussed very valid points. Hoping best to find someone who has the same potential
There is no such thing as perfect. Every one has to compromise
Indeed
Only Allaah, the Most High, the Exalt is PERFECT, Subhaanahu Wa Ta'aalaa, The Rabb (Creator, Owner and Cherisher) of all that exists (seen or unseen) ... :]
@@TaimurYusuf Bro we are talking about Humans
🤦
@@LifeofmuslimsinUK I do know, Brother . . . No need to hit your head hard !! :D :)
@@TaimurYusuf Good one nice comeback
Sir bahut kamal ki rehnamai ki hai but agr ap *speech mn English ki bjay Urdu words use krein* so that sb ko easily samjh a jaye Jazakallah
Alhamdulilla... Allah ne mujhe bacha k rakha ha
Maa Shaa Allaah, Brother ... Helped a lot, especially starting with my own self, Alhamdulillaah ... Will watch again and again for better understanding, In Sha Allah.
May Allaah make ease for all of us. Aameen.
Wonderful topic ❤️ me was waiting for this kind of video from youth club
Jazak Allah khair
Right
Asalamu Alaikum....
Sir its for love marriage nt Arrange marriage....
Because in arrange marriage person is getting single opportunity to meet his spouse.... Hw he ll decide is she good for him or nt......
Mashallah.. nice advice bt we have to be patient
Loved all pointers, brief and complete. Jazakallah Khairan wa Kaseerah.
JazakAllah
JazakAllah o khair really amazing and very very helpful vedio
Assalam o alakum..thory mushkil alfaaz use kiye hn.. should simple words in simple way ..Urdu zaida use krean .
Thank you brother tips are really helpful
Do you guys do counselling? Please let me know.
Jazzakallah 👍
Jhajhak Allahu khair..Sir😎❤
Sir please sari batian urdu mai samjaya karain. Thanks
Plz urdu me bat kiya karain English pe focus ziyada karna parta ha jis se Jo bat video me btany ka maqsad tha ap ka wo somewhere weak ho jata ha
Thanku so much for this wonderful topic.....thanks a lot.
JAZAKALLAH KHAIR KASEERA AMAZING VIDEO 🇮🇳🇮🇳🇮🇳
Wonderful topic watching in Jan 2021
U cannot foresee all these traits before marriage is another fact. A person learns a lot about themselves after marriage as well Therefore you can never be certain on who you are marrying
Realistic. I think the same way too. Marriage is surely a gamble in our subcontinent settings
Nice tips ma shaa ALLAH!
Jazakumullahu khairan kathiran fi darain!
Dua for a pious spouse:
It maybe helpful for all in shaa ALLAH
اللهم اني اسألك زوجاصالحا في الدنيا والآخر ة
Allahumma inni asa'luka zaojan salihan fi duniya wal Aakhirah.
O ALLAH i ask you for a pious spouse in this world and the world hereafter.
Aamiin!
Dua ka refrence bata dain
It will be helpful
MA SHA ALLAH
It was really very important,
This is a great page for youngester of Islam a best combination page may ALLAH this page get strength ameeen😍❤️
Wonderfull video evrrrr...thnx sir for guidence
Jazak Allah Khair 💞❤️💖
All the tips were very friendly . Thank you Sir
اللَّهُمَّ إِنِّي أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ جَارِ السُّوءِ ، وَمِنْ زَوْجٍ تُشَيِّبُنِي قَبْلَ الْمَشِيبِ ، وَمِنْ وَلَدٍ يَكُونُ عَلَيَّ رِبًا ، وَمِنْ مَالٍ يَكُونُ عَلَيَّ عَذَابًا ، وَمِنْ خَلِيلٍ مَاكِرٍ عَيْنَهُ تَرَانِي وَقَلْبُهُ يَرْعَانِي، إِنْ رَأَى حَسَنَةً دَفَنَهَا ، وَإِذَا رَأَى سَيِّئَةً أَذَاعَهَا
ربنا هب لنا من ازواجنا وذرياتنا قره اعين واجعلنا للمتقين اماما.(alfurqan ayah,74)
Jazakallah
Allah ap jaesae son sub ko dae. Ameen
Jazak Allah
Thanks Brother
Plz plz also start ur workshop in faisalabad
Jazaak Allah Khairan kaseera.....
Thank you so much I was searching for this topic JazakAllah
assalamualikum. isi topic pe hum pichly kai arsey se achi vidio dhund rahe they or alhumdulillah aaj mil gai.aaj musalman ghrana me bhi ye dekha gaya h k log shadi se pey janne k kiye hostels me or baher living relationship me reh rahe h or is ko galt kehne waly ko typical n stone era age ka samjhtey h .
But when u judge your husband or wife followed by 10 tips your negativity will increase day by day and most important all 5 fingers are not equal same husband wife are not equal we have to accept some positive and some negative things too. U can't get all the positive things from your husband/wife.
Thank you
This is my opinion if anyone hurts then sorry from my side.
Beshak sab same Nhe , hm um chezon p compromise karen , jin p compromise possible hai , lakin un p nh jin p possible Nhe , for example hm deen aur ikhlaq p compromise na karen , aur ek spouse atleast zimedari uthane wala ho , caring ho , tabhi life chal sakege , partner aesa to ho na atleast jo jab ap pareshan ho to uss se share kar sako aur Jab wo pareshan ho to apse baten share kr sake Bila jhikhak
@@zukhrufarbab8321 You are right 💯
@@zukhrufarbab8321 by the way what a unique name you have, mashaAllah, what is the meaning of it?
@@SalmaGujjar Jazakallahu khair, thank you 💕💕 zukhruf means gold
@@zukhrufarbab8321 wao mashaAllah 🥰 awesome
Jazak Allah khair...
Plz make vedio on lov or breakup
Mostly our mothers and sisters choose a partner for us. We hardly get a chance to see her picture before marriage. And we get married to someone who are liked by them so how can we get to know about her. For example if she belongs to a certain firqah which we don't follow, we might have issues with that and marrying someone like this totally changes our future but our parents don't give much attention to this thing and say things gets change after marriage. How to deal with it. How to know will both of us be compatible with each other or not
You should talk to your parents politely and tell them that im looking for this kind if person.
esa bhi hota hai ki ladke ko ladki achi lagati hai bhot jyada..par mother and siisters mana kr dete hai ...to confusions create ho jata hai ladke aur ladki me ki likings hai but ghar wale dil tod te hai...
tab bhi samaj ni ata ki kya kare .
MashaAllah beautiful tips💕
ap boooohat acha kam kr rahy hn allah apko jaza dy
JAZAK'ALLAH Khair 💗 thanks for informing
Jazakallah khair
Jazakallah ho khairann kaseerann Sir😇
Thank you Sir very informative video 👌🏻❤️
Very informative channel...thnk u fr existing
Great ideas by wajih bhai, Jazak Allah wajih bhai.
Nice
Lakin ye sab agle insan k bare ma kese pata chalega in case of arrange marriage??
Mre fhr shadi ki bat chali.. Rishta aya.. But I'm so scared he is unknown..uski adatain uski soch. Humari understanding develp hu k ni. Etc.. I dont know wht should i do.. How can i marrry him
Gujjar ❤️
Jazakallahu khair 💞
Greaaat one
Very informative
Very informative 🙏
What if we dont have choices
Please keep it short & simple
MAY ALLHA 🥰🥰🥰HELP US TO BECOME IBAD UR REHMAN
Great job
I don't want to marry a person because he is not aware of his responsibilities but his mom emotionally blackmails my mom and they are trying to convinced me emotionally is it right?
Today I met with someone who I assume religiously stong with a great character. But I'm not super convinced with the chemistry. I knew beauty of face is not the real beauty, but I was still confused.
Because of her characteristics I'm going forward for the next step of marriage. May allah help me with the process
Asak brother, did you marry this woman? Did you find satisfaction? Pls share your experience as i am in a similar situation.
Salaam, does youth club help connect youngsters in a halal manner?
May Allah live long
masha-Allah
Well said 👌
These can not be applicable if younare going to choose your spouse in a religious way which is arranged by parents + 1meeting as no one can open up this much that we can cross check them
This is soo good.
MashaAllah
Every word is💎
We want youth club in India
But mera confusion ye hai ki …allah ne toh phle hi humare liye partners likh rakhai hai na phir hum kuch b kare milna toh wahi hai na
Trust nahi kartay log. Marriages are based on materialistic values
Bro aisa he hai aj kal... mery apnay sath materialistic scene howa hai.. 9 years relation ko dustbin may dal dia just for worldly things. 🙂
Is there anyone still protected from zina ... Koi hai jo zina se bacha ho like kro ....
I got married few months ago
I chose my husband for his deen but after some time of our marriage
I realized he is not just when it comes to me and his family. He doesn't spend enough time as he plays games for like 4 to 5 hours after his job. He doesn't even allow me to meet my parents but he spends all the free time with his mother and brother's and give silent treatment to me fir weeks when anything doesn't go his way.
He turned out to be very harsh and out spoken even with my parents
I'm extremely helpless what to do. Shall I endure this with sabr and dua?
Any tips
Same situation with me
Allah apki mushkil Asan frmaey ameen
I am disagree from your some points.As when anybody got married its all behaviors must change like emotions, chemistry, anger etc.
That is the reason islam don't guid us to judge deeply anybody deeply for marriage before marriage
And you think this would be real. In dream........
Please bhai ap urdu mey bat kiya karen or english mey km bat kiya karen q k jin smjh ati hai unko tou urdu mey bhi aa jaye gi or mere jaison ko asani hogi.
Walikum Assalm
I did engagement on basis of deendari and later broke the engagement due to party s attitude
Kya msla huwa tha apko
Broke due to i dont have seperate personal house
6:16
Mashallah
ماشاءاللّه
I wish there would be a superrrr like button than i would like that. 💞