Both have trauma bonds, the one is the carrier the other the taker, so yea being in denial is a part of getting to know that healing is a must do and you can only heal yourself.
Right after we shared our first kiss, she shared a very brief moment of honesty with me that I never saw again. She told me, "I have a bad habit of getting bored with things and throwing them away. I don't want to do that to you". Oh how I should have heeded that warning.
King Flippynips she was grooming you to accept future bad behavior. I watched my ex try to groom several people including my replacement. Sadly I fell hard and deep for many years . Life is never the same .. eyes are open etc
So sad. And, yes, very honest. To them, we are things. Toys for the toddler in the adults body. I’m sorry you went through that. I know just exactly how much that sucks. Just remember there’s a lot of us in this boat.
Each day i am more and more grateful for my discard, and after 3 and a half years of drowning, i can feel the earth underneath my feet and the relief of gasping the air of freedom and sanity
Thank you. Spot on Doc. You are correct, we fall because they tell us all those nice things we never heard in our home of origin. Another Great video message. I am soooo looking forward to the next part.
I have noticed (I am definitely prone to dating narcissists) ... In the beginning...they insist on seeing me every day even though I am busy and have not planned on it. I am working on not buckling at the front load and becoming more comfortable with people walking away when they cannot gain control.
This video really helped me understand why I " fell' for my ex . So important to understand my own codependency and my childhood relationships with my mother. Thank you.
Your feedback on love bombing and how it affects is spot on. Think I was seeing someone that is BPD and ended suddenly. I look back and still healing but realize I was sucked in with the love bombing and learning to move on. Thanks
Appreciate your videos, left a toxic relationship (i have bpd and he had npd traits) full of triggers and abuse. Thank you for sharing free help for people who need it!
Hope you feel better Doctor! I really benefitted from this discussion of your work. Thank you for defining what is real and healthy-as you mentioned-when you come to the point of losing self, you really can’t tell what baseline is anymore, your anchor to what is real has been so warped. Don’t worry about the dogs being their cute selves. I actually enjoy their shenanigans!
The highest RESPECT to you for NOT USING SEX to sell your channel. You're obviously physically pretty and need not advertise, I'm sick of seeing dozens of women showing skin and their parts for subscribers. You're a professional and honest/ real. Truly appreciate this
“Another face for everyone else.” That hit home and I finally heard someone validate that it wasn’t just me. I tried to explain that to my family but I don’t know if they fully believe me.
Same! I don't think my family will ever understand why I broke up with such a nice, polite, funny and caring woman. But luckily, a friend of mine witnessed the very elusive Mr Hyde doing her dance with me. That's when I started thinking maybe I wasn't crazy, and that maybe she didn't actually give a spit about my well-being.
The narcs I knew are both covert & overt types . That can be malicious at times . Also don't help that alot of these abusive types come from military backgrounds . Being around these type of people with these type of disorders you start to pickup on their patterns especially when you start too notice when they are trying to brainwash you . The shame , blame shifting , name calling , character assassination , suicide attempts , belittling , manipulation , silent treatment , making everything competition , isolation , crazy making , pointing fingers , stalking , etc .
This is absolutely brilliant and in-depth. Thank you so much for making this video! Some of the people I really care about get targeted by Narcissists, and I hope they can learn from this too!
You are correct Dr Tara I recognize myself as a codependent. And have been in two marriages and several relationships that were/are toxic. I understand it’s a situation from my family of origin. I own my mistakes. I’m glad for the shared information on this subject. Thank You. I hate the way it makes me feel. i’m not sure how to heal from it.
There is a but into high functioning, we the caretakers are aware of what we are doing and why we are doing it, the only difference is, we are able to change. We are all human beings, being an addict, caretaker, or just a mentally ill person doesn’t make a difference if you come towards the point, that you cannot control someone else, you cannot heal someone else, you can only change yourself.
This is spot on. The abused mind MUST conclude that things are “normal” or can “become normal”Again. Reality test EVERYTHING, I tried pleasing narcW every waking moment. Great info. Thank you.
I have learned sooo Much from you Dr Palmatier..... I rewound different parts multiple times and this was one of your better ones A++++ ...I am so thankful for all you do... Thank You
21:02 This is the main theme of a “relationship” with a borderline woman. I actually suggest using this as a diagnostic tool: does it always feel like you’re waiting for it to “go back to what it was before”, and when a day or an experience feels like it was incredibly good, was that day or experience exceptional because of a PRESENCE OF SOMETHING POSITIVE, or was it exceptional because it LACKED ANYTHING NEGATIVE? Look at it as if you’re observing either someone else’s relationship, or comparing it to YOUR OWN IDEAL of a relationship. Also, take note of how often one of these truly “exceptional” days or experiences was immediately followed by an absolutely out of nowhere detonation that was perfectly timed to autocorrect back into the horrible normalcy of your “relationship”.
Spot on. One of the saddest things is when you realize that you can’t just enjoy a happy moment with her. You can’t tell yourself that things are great. Instead, what you do is wonder when the explosion is going to come. You know it’s coming. You just don’t know when and what you’re going to do that is going to trigger it. And that is such a tragedy. I can’t count how many golden moments that were so beautiful and tender at the time were marred by that fly in the proverbial ointment.
It's the template we were given as children. They can't change. Strange they relate to us through object relations. Financial abuse is what im trying to fix. Emotional 2 yr old. Behavior is more important than their speech.
I've been working too much here rebuilding Paradise, Ca. got a virus aftereffects thrashing my voice too. I'll be looking forward to the rest of this, thank you Doctor.
This is such an insidious process. Had a borderline narc try this on me. It's really hard to see what they're doing if you have self doubt so it's important to build yourself up before you're dating so you don't attract someone who can succesfully use these tactics on you.
@Cristina Luciano She’s totally on point. The fact that we even think that the person may be Narcissistic, suggests that we are not happy, and there’s a serious reason why. Recently I have learned that self love + boundaries = a Much happier and healthy life.
Getting a divorce w/ BPD / NPD wife after staying way to long.. . My daughter son in law and granddaughter live with me in the house and seperated with the wife about 4 months ago. Trying to go no contact but we're selling this house after some repairs. Trying to go NO Contact but she started coming over to see the grandaughter for an hour or so(she NEVER takes pics of her) so I work from home but stay upstairs while she is here. But she saw me go out the front door then she started leaving and cornered me on the porch..! IT SET ME BACK for a few days and I tried not to give supply but probably did.. I'm stuck here until the house is sold so NOT sure how I'm going to deal with contact... 🤯
I like your dogs' cameo appearances 9:2913:56 . I also laughed out loud at the idea of students taking a class on how to be an effective Cluster B in their gender studies major 6:50 . It's funny b/c it's not that big of a stretch.
Hi Dr. Tara I just want you to know how awesome you are at what you do. I have learned from you immensely from your great channel. And I would like you to know that the world needs more people like you. Keep up the great content and I will keep learning from an expert, like yourself. All the best Scott N. Johnson. I have a channel too but its just my music. Feel free to check it out if you have the time that is.
My husband is like a lot of this, but the main difference is I get kindness most of the time wirh about 2% anger and raging (these days). That 2% is really bad.
i became an expert dissasociater and compartmentalizer during hours-long, shaming, lecture sessions by my covert, passive-aggressive, religious narcissist parent - i actually have very few memories of any time spent with this parent - even though we lived in the same house and interacted every day - all my memories are of my non-disordered co-dependent parent that treated me with respect
Ha! I dated her too. She died tragically after we broke up. But goddamn it’s good not to be in that position. Everytime I threatened to leave she threatened to beat herself and tell the cops it was me. God I need to clear this out of my head bow
Appropriate how the Cuckoo Clock goes off when describing the Narcissists' shenanigans; gotta internalize that occurrence, maybe a glitch in the matrix.
That throat sounds like it could use some ginger tea with honey and lemon. As always, thank you for the video. I find your content more helpful than I can say.
Dr Palmatier remember when i told you I was outgrowing my Training wheels ?....soooo Funny I'm still here lol and I still have a lot to Learn that's for sure.... I'm not going anywhere ....
At least you’re not in denial anymore, be proud of that, most people stay in denial ready to run in another sh`t stirring relationship, we are the ones capable of breaking these cycles, break with the generational triggered gene pool. Although the NPD/BPD has a trauma based core, we have that same outcome, that’s usually why we refuse to understand they abuse, man might think if you went through a childhood of abuse, you do not end up abusing others, well in our reality YES, in theirs (the mentally ill) not so much sorry.
Thanks Dr. T. Sounds like it's time for some much needed self-care. Take time for yourself & heal.Looking forward to your next installment. Thanks again.
Luckily, I never lost my support people. My sister, mother, best friend allowed me to stay over whenever the BPD called the police to claim abuse (harassment because I felt she should work fulltime, help pay bills, budget. Plan for the future...) At first, no one believed I was not abusing her, but when I kept telling friends and family to have her show pictures of the physical harm, hospital reports, they started to question. She would only have her statements on police reports. He harassed me. As soon as she called the police, I would go outside because the police would handle me roughly. when they saw her crying , the kids would start crying from seeing her crying. It was her modus operandus. She was srunned when I filed for divorece from this blissful marriage. The ordeal cost me money and my kids. I now live with the guilt that I did not want to be financially ruined trying to keep my kids. Videos really helped. Educated myself, sought help, counseling, exercise, medication, hopefully my kids will decide to live with me they get a little older and come to live with me. The hardest thing was loving her, trying to get her help, helping her see she was ruining everything we had: a family, beautiful kids, my career, our finances, the future of our kids, and worst of all our psychological and emotional well being. I hope this helps someone who is where I have been. I would still be trying to help to demise, making decisions that would cost me more and more, until she would have caused my total ruin and blame me for it!!! It is really hard to accept that you tried, tried, tried and failed. I had my hopes on DBT but she resisted DBT or going to a thrapist with exprtise in cluster B. She would cherry pick therapists who would help ME with my domestic violence. It was truly a nightmare.
You are lucky- I did - and I was to embarrassed to reach out. The nights abuse was really bad my keys were taken so I couldn’t leave - my phone was hidden- so there was no way to leave other then hiding
Okay. At 2:04 - you got me heading to the website to see how appointments work. Thanks for the post....... shit. I’m a lovebomber sucker of The highest order.
26:02 Sounds like - THE SUNKEN PLACE - that the movie 'Get out' visualizes. Now I understand that flick and watching it again. Feels Government and a lot of females want us Sunken, compliant and used for their bidding til discard. Time to think.
Think; What matters is there’s a place for men to turn......Too many times I’ve come across ‘broken men’ who don’t even know what’s wrong :( I’m here to understand what happened to these men-while remembering we can’t fix them however, “Sharing is Caring,” and this Dr. should be shared far & wide w/other men & women! She’s a beautiful contrast to Sam Vaknin🦋
Shrink4Men - Dr. Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD Please keep posting we all wait to watch it and listen! I hope there is weekly video. Thank you Dr T you are the best.
I totally love you, and your work...but, the distractions of your dogs, especially when you are hitting on the point, and the kookoo clock is distracting . It's triggering as well. Maybe put the dogs outside, and time your clock better?? Not trying to be mean, or demanding, just a friendly suggestion.
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We stuck around because We didn't want to be right about them.
I guess that's one way to put it.
Both have trauma bonds, the one is the carrier the other the taker, so yea being in denial is a part of getting to know that healing is a must do and you can only heal yourself.
Also, we stuck around because we had the ideal, the principle to marry for life. I didn't believe in divorce, until I got one.
Right after we shared our first kiss, she shared a very brief moment of honesty with me that I never saw again. She told me, "I have a bad habit of getting bored with things and throwing them away. I don't want to do that to you".
Oh how I should have heeded that warning.
King Flippynips she was grooming you to accept future bad behavior.
I watched my ex try to groom several people including my replacement.
Sadly I fell hard and deep for many years .
Life is never the same .. eyes are open etc
So sad. And, yes, very honest. To them, we are things. Toys for the toddler in the adults body. I’m sorry you went through that. I know just exactly how much that sucks. Just remember there’s a lot of us in this boat.
@@dianet9060 omg i didn’t know this was a thing! I experienced this many many times......
This happened to me too!
Same here I got the same line
"Your needs aren't needs, they're just evidence of your selfishness."
That one hit very close to home.
Ive been 10 months no contact all u say is true...it still hurts missing her but hurted more being with her...sad really
Ikr? :(
Each day i am more and more grateful for my discard, and after 3 and a half years of drowning, i can feel the earth underneath my feet and the relief of gasping the air of freedom and sanity
Spot on. I love the way she talked me stroked my ego promised change after 6 years I had enough of the lies.
Glad you got out of the relationship.
Your videos are most appreciated. Love your delivery. Love the information and insight. Thank you!
You're welcome. Thanks for the encouragement.
Thank you. Spot on Doc.
You are correct, we fall because they tell us all those nice things we never heard in our home of origin.
Another Great video message.
I am soooo looking forward to the next part.
I have never heard anyone speak the way that you do. This video has done more for me than 20 years of counselling 🙏
I have noticed (I am definitely prone to dating narcissists) ... In the beginning...they insist on seeing me every day even though I am busy and have not planned on it. I am working on not buckling at the front load and becoming more comfortable with people walking away when they cannot gain control.
And particularly with my ex husband...my hair was falling out
If this ain’t the dam truth lol
This video really helped me understand why I " fell' for my ex . So important to understand my own codependency and my childhood relationships with my mother. Thank you.
Your feedback on love bombing and how it affects is spot on. Think I was seeing someone that is BPD and ended suddenly. I look back and still healing but realize I was sucked in with the love bombing and learning to move on. Thanks
Why does she blame me for all her-
" unhappiness, unworthiness, " THEN demands I marry her ! It's UTTERLY INSANE
I don't understand how they don't even miss us after all we did ...you can't even be friends just dumped like trash
You can't be friends, they don't do friends. You were never friends
Appreciate your videos, left a toxic relationship (i have bpd and he had npd traits) full of triggers and abuse. Thank you for sharing free help for people who need it!
Hope you feel better Doctor! I really benefitted from this discussion of your work. Thank you for defining what is real and healthy-as you mentioned-when you come to the point of losing self, you really can’t tell what baseline is anymore, your anchor to what is real has been so warped. Don’t worry about the dogs being their cute selves. I actually enjoy their shenanigans!
The dogs made me laugh.
The highest RESPECT to you for NOT USING SEX to sell your channel.
You're obviously physically pretty and need not advertise, I'm sick of seeing dozens of women showing skin and their parts for subscribers.
You're a professional and honest/ real.
Truly appreciate this
I always found it ironic that people with a such blantly poor and fragile concept of themselves seemed so determined to relentlessly attack mine.
Dr. T in the building yall! Learn up!!!!!!
I have Asperger's, only recently diagnosed as an adult.
Prime territory for a female sociopath.
Excellent video, as always.
What have you done to combat this factor. Same boat here
@@adamoffgrid182 Educate myself to the nth degree.
Well this describes the whole cycle very well. Anyone that has been through it will understand for sure.
I think you're just amazing! I could listen to you for hours. So much knowldge!
That's kind of you. Thank you.
“Another face for everyone else.” That hit home and I finally heard someone validate that it wasn’t just me. I tried to explain that to my family but I don’t know if they fully believe me.
Same! I don't think my family will ever understand why I broke up with such a nice, polite, funny and caring woman.
But luckily, a friend of mine witnessed the very elusive Mr Hyde doing her dance with me.
That's when I started thinking maybe I wasn't crazy, and that maybe she didn't actually give a spit about my well-being.
The narcs I knew are both covert & overt types . That can be malicious at times . Also don't help that alot of these abusive types come from military backgrounds . Being around these type of people with these type of disorders you start to pickup on their patterns especially when you start too notice when they are trying to brainwash you . The shame , blame shifting , name calling , character assassination , suicide attempts , belittling , manipulation , silent treatment , making everything competition , isolation , crazy making , pointing fingers , stalking , etc .
This is absolutely brilliant and in-depth. Thank you so much for making this video! Some of the people I really care about get targeted by Narcissists, and I hope they can learn from this too!
I love your channel. I really like the way you speak on the topic, thank you for the help.
Thank you so much for your videos, you have helped me understand years of toxic abuse. I can’t thank you enough
You're welcome.
You are correct Dr Tara
I recognize myself as a codependent. And have been in two marriages and several relationships that were/are toxic. I understand it’s a situation from my family of origin. I own my mistakes. I’m glad for the shared information on this subject. Thank You. I hate the way it makes me feel. i’m not sure how to heal from it.
Greatpoint about the high functioning cluster Bs... They're aware of what they're doing and why they're doing it
There is a but into high functioning, we the caretakers are aware of what we are doing and why we are doing it, the only difference is, we are able to change. We are all human beings, being an addict, caretaker, or just a mentally ill person doesn’t make a difference if you come towards the point, that you cannot control someone else, you cannot heal someone else, you can only change yourself.
I didn't watch this to get called out so hard
This is spot on. The abused mind MUST conclude that things are “normal” or can “become normal”Again. Reality test EVERYTHING, I tried pleasing narcW every waking moment. Great info. Thank you.
I have learned sooo Much from you Dr Palmatier..... I rewound different parts multiple times and this was one of your better ones A++++ ...I am so thankful for all you do... Thank You
Dr T, thank you for helping me understand me.
Hope you cold passes quickly.
You're welcome.
21:02
This is the main theme of a “relationship” with a borderline woman. I actually suggest using this as a diagnostic tool:
does it always feel like you’re waiting for it to “go back to what it was before”, and when a day or an experience feels like it was incredibly good, was that day or experience exceptional because of a PRESENCE OF SOMETHING POSITIVE, or was it exceptional because it LACKED ANYTHING NEGATIVE?
Look at it as if you’re observing either someone else’s relationship, or comparing it to YOUR OWN IDEAL of a relationship.
Also, take note of how often one of these truly “exceptional” days or experiences was immediately followed by an absolutely out of nowhere detonation that was perfectly timed to autocorrect back into the horrible normalcy of your “relationship”.
Spot on. One of the saddest things is when you realize that you can’t just enjoy a happy moment with her. You can’t tell yourself that things are great. Instead, what you do is wonder when the explosion is going to come. You know it’s coming. You just don’t know when and what you’re going to do that is going to trigger it. And that is such a tragedy. I can’t count how many golden moments that were so beautiful and tender at the time were marred by that fly in the proverbial ointment.
26:50 This is exactly what my life has been like for the past 8 years.
David Hunter Sorry to hear that. I can relate. Mine was like that for 11 years - that’s when we separated. Divorced 2 years later. Never. Ever. Again.
It's the template we were given as children. They can't change.
Strange they relate to us through object relations. Financial abuse is what im trying to fix. Emotional 2 yr old. Behavior is more important than their speech.
I hope you get better, your dogs are the reason I enjoy the videos, they seem to be the comic relief.
⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ nailed it right off the bat
Thank you for all of the light you bring to the darkness that is the experience of being in one of these relationships.
I've been working too much here rebuilding Paradise, Ca. got a virus aftereffects thrashing my voice too. I'll be looking forward to the rest of this, thank you Doctor.
This is such an insidious process. Had a borderline narc try this on me. It's really hard to see what they're doing if you have self doubt so it's important to build yourself up before you're dating so you don't attract someone who can succesfully use these tactics on you.
Doctor I have to say everything you say in your videos are on point. Thank you so much for all the work that you do.
What you do is so important! Have followed your sites for years. Thank you for all your help out here.
“...please let that permeate your cranium...” I love her words! Sad but true, and we all need the truth in midst of a web of lies given to us.
@Cristina Luciano She’s totally on point. The fact that we even think that the person may be Narcissistic, suggests that we are not happy, and there’s a serious reason why.
Recently I have learned that self love + boundaries = a Much happier and healthy life.
If you are not love bombed, don't worry you where idealised.
Wise woman. One female I feel you can trust.
Ha ha, the dogs stole the show...:-) Great information, thank you x
ouch.just survived five weeks on a cross country tour of non stop abuse,except in front of anyone.....stopping now....wish me luck
I love the glasses Dr T!
Getting a divorce w/ BPD / NPD wife after staying way to long.. . My daughter son in law and granddaughter live with me in the house and seperated with the wife about 4 months ago. Trying to go no contact but we're selling this house after some repairs. Trying to go NO Contact but she started coming over to see the grandaughter for an hour or so(she NEVER takes pics of her) so I work from home but stay upstairs while she is here. But she saw me go out the front door then she started leaving and cornered me on the porch..! IT SET ME BACK for a few days and I tried not to give supply but probably did.. I'm stuck here until the house is sold so NOT sure how I'm going to deal with contact... 🤯
Short Changed yuck. War of the roses (check out the movie)
I like your dogs' cameo appearances 9:29 13:56 . I also laughed out loud at the idea of students taking a class on how to be an effective Cluster B in their gender studies major 6:50 . It's funny b/c it's not that big of a stretch.
Wow. I unfortunately understand and relate to exactly what you're saying. I love you Dr. P
Hi Dr. Tara I just want you to know how awesome you are at what you do. I have learned from you immensely from your great channel. And I would like you to know that the world needs more people like you. Keep up the great content and I will keep learning from an expert, like yourself. All the best Scott N. Johnson. I have a channel too but its just my music. Feel free to check it out if you have the time that is.
GUILT & SHAME 11:23 SELF BETRAYAL 14:17
My husband is like a lot of this, but the main difference is I get kindness most of the time wirh about 2% anger and raging (these days). That 2% is really bad.
I never understand they hate you but want to stay with you or even marry you.🙄
i became an expert dissasociater and compartmentalizer during hours-long, shaming, lecture sessions by my covert, passive-aggressive, religious narcissist parent - i actually have very few memories of any time spent with this parent - even though we lived in the same house and interacted every day - all my memories are of my non-disordered co-dependent parent that treated me with respect
I’m getting better and better. Here’s a little joke I thought up
A borderline, Narc and a sociopath walk into a bar and she orders a Bacardi and coke
Ha! I dated her too. She died tragically after we broke up. But goddamn it’s good not to be in that position. Everytime I threatened to leave she threatened to beat herself and tell the cops it was me. God I need to clear this out of my head bow
🤣
This house looks serene and cozy!
Appropriate how the Cuckoo Clock goes off when describing the Narcissists' shenanigans; gotta internalize that occurrence, maybe a glitch in the matrix.
This is me and my child to the letter.
That throat sounds like it could use some ginger tea with honey and lemon. As always, thank you for the video. I find your content more helpful than I can say.
I just recently reclaimed sanity again after all this happened.
It was just too much
Yes this is what my ex did. A trauma bond
Someone has a cold, or was out late with karaoke last night. Hiya Doc!
Dr Palmatier remember when i told you I was outgrowing my Training wheels ?....soooo Funny I'm still here lol and I still have a lot to Learn that's for sure.... I'm not going anywhere ....
At least you’re not in denial anymore, be proud of that, most people stay in denial ready to run in another sh`t stirring relationship, we are the ones capable of breaking these cycles, break with the generational triggered gene pool. Although the NPD/BPD has a trauma based core, we have that same outcome, that’s usually why we refuse to understand they abuse, man might think if you went through a childhood of abuse, you do not end up abusing others, well in our reality YES, in theirs (the mentally ill) not so much sorry.
Priceless advice!
Thanks Dr. T. Sounds like it's time for some much needed self-care. Take time for yourself & heal.Looking forward to your next installment. Thanks again.
Luckily, I never lost my support people. My sister, mother, best friend allowed me to stay over whenever the BPD called the police to claim abuse (harassment because I felt she should work fulltime, help pay bills, budget. Plan for the future...) At first, no one believed I was not abusing her, but when I kept telling friends and family to have her show pictures of the physical harm, hospital reports, they started to question. She would only have her statements on police reports. He harassed me. As soon as she called the police, I would go outside because the police would handle me roughly. when they saw her crying , the kids would start crying from seeing her crying. It was her modus operandus. She was srunned when I filed for divorece from this blissful marriage. The ordeal cost me money and my kids. I now live with the guilt that I did not want to be financially ruined trying to keep my kids. Videos really helped. Educated myself, sought help, counseling, exercise, medication, hopefully my kids will decide to live with me they get a little older and come to live with me. The hardest thing was loving her, trying to get her help, helping her see she was ruining everything we had: a family, beautiful kids, my career, our finances, the future of our kids, and worst of all our psychological and emotional well being. I hope this helps someone who is where I have been. I would still be trying to help to demise, making decisions that would cost me more and more, until she would have caused my total ruin and blame me for it!!!
It is really hard to accept that you tried, tried, tried and failed. I had my hopes on DBT but she resisted DBT or going to a thrapist with exprtise in cluster B. She would cherry pick therapists who would help ME with my domestic violence. It was truly a nightmare.
You are lucky- I did - and I was to embarrassed to reach out. The nights abuse was really bad my keys were taken so I couldn’t leave - my phone was hidden- so there was no way to leave other then hiding
I hope you feel better soon!
Been binging your videos... and I hear you have a head cold in this one... and it makes me wonder if it was Covid.
Seasonal allergies.
Okay. At 2:04 - you got me heading to the website to see how appointments work. Thanks for the post....... shit. I’m a lovebomber sucker of The highest order.
Yes your on the $ exactly how you describe it, I wish I would of seen this video's a year ago😖
Hey guys watch the ads, that’s how she gets paid for all the good she is doing!
You have a cuckoo alarm for your scheduled clients? LOL.
Time for just an alert.
This was Great! Thank you! 🙏.
This is not love bombing...but please Dr. Tara get some rest and get better. We need you healthy. 🙂
When are you coming back? I miss your informative videos.
Ty for the video.
Thank you for the comment about if I am so bad why do you stay with me.
Amazing video. When . I can afford your services. I will go to you.
26:02 Sounds like - THE SUNKEN PLACE - that the movie 'Get out' visualizes. Now I understand that flick and watching it again. Feels Government and a lot of females want us Sunken, compliant and used for their bidding til discard. Time to think.
He doesn't like the train wrecks... he's a warning you!!!
Preach 🙏
Yay! Hi.
Cant wait to see part two! Is it available yet?
I have a question Doctor, why did you decide to specialise in men?
Think; What matters is there’s a place for men to turn......Too many times I’ve come across ‘broken men’ who don’t even know what’s wrong :( I’m here to understand what happened to these men-while remembering we can’t fix them however, “Sharing is Caring,” and this Dr. should be shared far & wide w/other men & women! She’s a beautiful contrast to Sam Vaknin🦋
Brutal
Monsters!
Great. Thanks so much.
You haven’t been posting lately Dr T
Haven't been feeling up to it.
Shrink4Men - Dr. Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD thank you for posting today
Shrink4Men - Dr. Tara J. Palmatier, PsyD
Please keep posting we all wait to watch it and listen!
I hope there is weekly video.
Thank you Dr T you are the best.
Just put the dog outside already lol
Gold A+++
Except she found a narc boyfriend and ganged up on us.
I totally love you, and your work...but, the distractions of your dogs, especially when you are hitting on the point, and the kookoo clock is distracting . It's triggering as well. Maybe put the dogs outside, and time your clock better?? Not trying to be mean, or demanding, just a friendly suggestion.
No, dogs are great
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Oh no, sore throat 🙈
My possible narc wife has a nice body.
To a T.
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