Not super related but I was stressing over a boy who I knew wasn't ideal for me and wasn't emotionally there, this video helped me realize that I see traits in him that I WISH i had in me. & I'm so scared of losing him and him not wanting me because it means 1) I'm unwanted and 2) I now lose all those really awesome traits and his whole lifestyle from my life. But then I sat and asked myself, wait, what does he have that I want so bad? And I made a mental list. And dude. I can do all those things myself. I can become that person MYSELF. And then I'll be complete. That neediness will go away because I'll have everything I need, I'll be the person I want to be, and I won't need this boy liking me just to make me feel complete. This video inspired all of that. Thank you so much ❤
yesss! i love that you were able to self-reflect and realize that; it's such an empowering feeling! you have the power to create those feelings/traits in yourself! you are already completely as you are, and self-growth is an ongoing journey. 🧚🏾♀️ next week's video on self-love/self-esteem might be helpful too (: but yes absolutely, work on becoming that person internally and you won't feel desperate to keep certain people in your life or prove yourself because of lack you're so welcome, but really i didn't do much! you came to that conclusion all on your own. keep believing in yourself, and thank you for being part of this community 🤍✨
When I was 19 I worshipped my then 23 year old ex as he was (obviously due to age) more independent and confident. I so badly wanted to be those things. Now that I am 23 myself , I don't feel that way anymore as I am now independent and confident myself.
Nice video, also the constant thinking about people will always give them th Power,we need to stop and say this to our self, that i am not a puppet who will be happy or sad by peoples actions.
It's definitely hard to work through these feelings as i felt like she was the one that got away and i was left forgotten. My ex of 8 years broke up with me 2 months ago, and my self-worth was/still is destroyed. She runs through my mind every day still, but I am making progress. I just can't believe I tied my value to a person so much. One day, you're the love of their life next. you're a stranger.
i understand how it feels to feel forgotten by someone. breakups are really tough, and ending an 8-year relationship must've been so devastating;-; i hope you have a support system that's able to be there for you. it's ok and totally normal to still think about your ex, and that's great you're making progress. sending you encouragement 🫂
you have a point, and i agree the song isn’t just about rejection. but i used it as an example specifically because of the bridge (the part i included in my video)-i think many people, regardless of sexual orientation, could relate to that part after experiencing heartbreak. but i understand the song is more than just about that (:
Me watching this, thinking about one of my workplaces that have single-handedly dismantled eons of my self worth 🤨 I was so fuelled by ‘wow I’m working so hard, people are going to see and respect that’ but hard to be the one that got away when they have forgotten you exist 😅 My resentment has done nothing but corrode over time and in turn THAT has made me a worse worker bc I am an unhappier person where work = reminder of the recognition I don’t get and a big ole ‘you are nothing’. Any video or book suggestions pls comment, nice videooo 🙏🏻
i totally understand how a toxic job can negatively impact your self-worth. your hard work and effort definitely deserve to be recognized, but i think what's most important is working on validating yourself instead of waiting for others to do it. self-validation is sooo empowering and helps to feel more secure and confident in your abilities, regardless if it's recognized externally. i have a video coming out next week on self-love and self-esteem that might resonate with you and will have some helpful tips (: i'd also recommend reading the book "the courage to be disliked" by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga. i'm still reading it but it's a great book about understanding and accepting yourself! it also helps with building a more positive self-concept. you've got this! and just remember your worth isn't determined by your job or the recognition you get (or don't get). you are valuable just as you are 🤍🧚🏾♀️
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this can apply to platonic relationships too, not just romantic! 🧚🏾♀️ friendship breakups can suck just as much, if not more
Not super related but I was stressing over a boy who I knew wasn't ideal for me and wasn't emotionally there, this video helped me realize that I see traits in him that I WISH i had in me. & I'm so scared of losing him and him not wanting me because it means 1) I'm unwanted and 2) I now lose all those really awesome traits and his whole lifestyle from my life.
But then I sat and asked myself, wait, what does he have that I want so bad? And I made a mental list. And dude. I can do all those things myself. I can become that person MYSELF. And then I'll be complete. That neediness will go away because I'll have everything I need, I'll be the person I want to be, and I won't need this boy liking me just to make me feel complete.
This video inspired all of that. Thank you so much ❤
yesss! i love that you were able to self-reflect and realize that; it's such an empowering feeling! you have the power to create those feelings/traits in yourself! you are already completely as you are, and self-growth is an ongoing journey. 🧚🏾♀️ next week's video on self-love/self-esteem might be helpful too (: but yes absolutely, work on becoming that person internally and you won't feel desperate to keep certain people in your life or prove yourself because of lack
you're so welcome, but really i didn't do much! you came to that conclusion all on your own. keep believing in yourself, and thank you for being part of this community 🤍✨
When I was 19 I worshipped my then 23 year old ex as he was (obviously due to age) more independent and confident. I so badly wanted to be those things. Now that I am 23 myself , I don't feel that way anymore as I am now independent and confident myself.
Nice video, also the constant thinking about people will always give them th Power,we need to stop and say this to our self, that i am not a puppet who will be happy or sad by peoples actions.
It's definitely hard to work through these feelings as i felt like she was the one that got away and i was left forgotten. My ex of 8 years broke up with me 2 months ago, and my self-worth was/still is destroyed. She runs through my mind every day still, but I am making progress. I just can't believe I tied my value to a person so much. One day, you're the love of their life next. you're a stranger.
i understand how it feels to feel forgotten by someone. breakups are really tough, and ending an 8-year relationship must've been so devastating;-; i hope you have a support system that's able to be there for you. it's ok and totally normal to still think about your ex, and that's great you're making progress. sending you encouragement 🫂
@texirratalks thank you for your words of encouragement. As a guy in his mid-20s, your content surprisingly has hit home for me. Keep on going 🙌
literally, simply 👏🏽 let 👏🏽 GO
enjoyed watching this so much and the edits were entertaining!! looking forward to watching more
thank you!! 🤍
starting the vid with a nana clip BROKE me. thank you
Really wise message thank you love you girl. 💋
you are so sweet ;-; i'm so grateful for your support it means so much to me!! 🤍🤍🤍
Another lovely video🤧
thank u 🥹
thank you girl ❤❤❤
this essay is very good but pls don’t use good luck babe as a rejection song bc it’s… definitely not that - a lesbian
you have a point, and i agree the song isn’t just about rejection. but i used it as an example specifically because of the bridge (the part i included in my video)-i think many people, regardless of sexual orientation, could relate to that part after experiencing heartbreak. but i understand the song is more than just about that (:
@@texirratalks thank you for clarifying !! I just hate how misinterpreted this song is already honestly
@@ecksdeerawr yea of course! i appreciate your comment and totally get how frustrating that would be
Me watching this, thinking about one of my workplaces that have single-handedly dismantled eons of my self worth 🤨 I was so fuelled by ‘wow I’m working so hard, people are going to see and respect that’ but hard to be the one that got away when they have forgotten you exist 😅 My resentment has done nothing but corrode over time and in turn THAT has made me a worse worker bc I am an unhappier person where work = reminder of the recognition I don’t get and a big ole ‘you are nothing’. Any video or book suggestions pls comment, nice videooo 🙏🏻
i totally understand how a toxic job can negatively impact your self-worth. your hard work and effort definitely deserve to be recognized, but i think what's most important is working on validating yourself instead of waiting for others to do it. self-validation is sooo empowering and helps to feel more secure and confident in your abilities, regardless if it's recognized externally.
i have a video coming out next week on self-love and self-esteem that might resonate with you and will have some helpful tips (: i'd also recommend reading the book "the courage to be disliked" by Ichiro Kishimi and Fumitake Koga. i'm still reading it but it's a great book about understanding and accepting yourself! it also helps with building a more positive self-concept.
you've got this! and just remember your worth isn't determined by your job or the recognition you get (or don't get). you are valuable just as you are 🤍🧚🏾♀️
This video was great ! I love how you present things in a simple and informative maner. Your son is so cute ! What's his name again ?
thank you!!! his name is koda. he also goes by koda bear (his name was inspired by the movie brother bear)
@@texirratalks That's refreshing name. I didn't know his existence until today
i needed to hear this years ago tho, never heard somebody talk about this topic 🫶🏻 thank you