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texirra
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Добавлен 20 сен 2023
self-love reminders, but in video format ꨄ
welcome to my digital diary, where i share my experiences and give advice ✧˖° expect self-growth content, commentaries, fun vlogs, and more! my channel is all about empowering others to shake off a desperate, anxious, low self-worth mindset (i used to be all of those). contrary to popular belief, self-growth doesn’t always have to feel like work; we have fun in this coven (a Twilight reference. the first of many)
my credentials:
- a bachelor’s in communications with a minor in sociology from UW
- great advice-giver (source: my friends)
- literally just a girl 🧚🏾♀️
in other words, i am not an expert and don’t claim to know everything. these videos serve as reminders to myself and my journey, and i am learning a little more each day. please use discernment when watching my content; take what resonates and leave the rest. always remember, you deserve the best ✨
[collaborations, pr + business inquiries]
💌: texirra@gmail.com
welcome to my digital diary, where i share my experiences and give advice ✧˖° expect self-growth content, commentaries, fun vlogs, and more! my channel is all about empowering others to shake off a desperate, anxious, low self-worth mindset (i used to be all of those). contrary to popular belief, self-growth doesn’t always have to feel like work; we have fun in this coven (a Twilight reference. the first of many)
my credentials:
- a bachelor’s in communications with a minor in sociology from UW
- great advice-giver (source: my friends)
- literally just a girl 🧚🏾♀️
in other words, i am not an expert and don’t claim to know everything. these videos serve as reminders to myself and my journey, and i am learning a little more each day. please use discernment when watching my content; take what resonates and leave the rest. always remember, you deserve the best ✨
[collaborations, pr + business inquiries]
💌: texirra@gmail.com
this simple reminder will change your life
if you're feeling behind and overwhelmed, i hope my advice encourages and comforts you. everything will be okay 🫂
a video for extra encouragement → ruclips.net/video/hOdN3fbec9g/видео.htmlsi=Wo59SQONyHYxKAOr
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s o c i a l s
instagram: texirra?igsh=MXJ1dDd5NTd2azQwdg==
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c h a p t e r s
0:00 intro
0:59 falling behind
4:44 planting a seed
8:42 second opinions
11:57 you’re a survivor
13:14 outro
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m u s i c
the beauty of everyday things - hara noda
when the sun comes - wendy marcini
thread - hara noda
postcard from ...
a video for extra encouragement → ruclips.net/video/hOdN3fbec9g/видео.htmlsi=Wo59SQONyHYxKAOr
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s o c i a l s
instagram: texirra?igsh=MXJ1dDd5NTd2azQwdg==
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c h a p t e r s
0:00 intro
0:59 falling behind
4:44 planting a seed
8:42 second opinions
11:57 you’re a survivor
13:14 outro
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m u s i c
the beauty of everyday things - hara noda
when the sun comes - wendy marcini
thread - hara noda
postcard from ...
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Видео
stop trying to "fix" them (you are not bob the builder)
Просмотров 359День назад
in this video i talk about the “fixer” mentality in relationships. it's time to stop overextending yourself and start prioritizing your own needs 🧚🏾♀️ ☆ the tiktok: www.tiktok.com/t/ZTFR1ps57/ ☆ s o c i a l s instagram: texirra?igsh=MXJ1dDd5NTd2azQwdg ☆ c h a p t e r s 0:00 intro 1:21 defining the “fixer” (aka anxious attachment) 3:41 tiktok example 5:00 do this instead 7:36 let ...
how to *actually* move on from rejection | relationships, jobs, school…
Просмотров 26814 дней назад
in this video i talk about how to bounce back from rejection and use it as a tool for growth. i share my recent personal experience, tips for shifting your mindset, and ways to remember your worth so you can move forward with confidence. rejection is a stepping stone, not a setback 🫂 ☆ s o c i a l s instagram: texirra?igsh=MXJ1dDd5NTd2azQwdg ☆ c h a p t e r s 0:00 intro 1:10 the g...
how to live in the present | Forks, WA vlog
Просмотров 80721 день назад
it’s easy to get stuck in the past-humans love comfort and nostalgia, even when it isn’t always healthy. in this video, i explored Forks, WA (the Twilight town!) while sharing my personal tips on how to live in the present and move forward, especially when it feels like the past is holding you back. whether you’re a fan of twilight or just looking for practical advice on embracing the present, ...
desire love *without* desperation
Просмотров 1,9 тыс.Месяц назад
it’s ok to want love, but sometimes this leads to desperation/fear of being alone and causes us to settle for less than we deserve. this video was inspired by a conversation i had with two of my best friends. in it, i encourage you to maintain self-respect and attract the right kind of love without losing yourself in the process 🤍 ☆ s o c i a l s instagram: texirra?igsh=MXJ1dDd5NT...
the no contact rule is easy, actually
Просмотров 2,7 тыс.Месяц назад
i get it, no contact can be really hard. in this video, i talk about how to maintain it. sometimes it’s ok to break, but you shouldn’t reach out to your ex only to fill a void. becoming aware of your patterns instead of subconsciously repeating them can prevent unnecessary heartbreak (and also help things work out if you do rekindle the relationship in the future) this can apply to friendship b...
how to *REALLY* love yourself and build self-esteem
Просмотров 1,1 тыс.Месяц назад
in this video, i talk about building self-love and self-esteem by sharing personal experiences and offering genuine tips. self-love is a daily practice. learn how you can create a healthier self-image from within and empower yourself on your journey to self-acceptance 🧚🏾♀️✨ lmk in the comments what advice video i should make next!! ☆ resources!! guided meditations: - ruclips.net/video/P-8ALcF8...
you are not 'the one that got away' (stop romanticizing your rejection)
Просмотров 3,6 тыс.Месяц назад
let's talk about why wanting to be 'the one that got away' isn't serving you. it's time to stop romanticizing rejection and start seeing it as redirection to something better. whether you're stuck reminiscing about the past or questioning your worth, this video will shift your mindset from feeling rejected to empowered ✨ s o c i a l s instagram: texirra?igsh=MXJ1dDd5NTd2azQwdg c h...
from clingy to confident: break your need for validation
Просмотров 9 тыс.Месяц назад
let’s talk about the difference between healthy affection and clinginess. in this video, i dissect why we sometimes become overly attached in relationships and give tips to build self-confidence and create healthy connections. i hope my advice helps whoever needs to hear it (: this lowkey turned into a nana analysis lolol s o c i a l s instagram: texirra?igsh=MXJ1dDd5NTd2azQwdg c ...
master DETACHMENT and manifest with this ONE simple trick
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.2 месяца назад
do you feel like you're constantly trying to manifest, but nothing happens? in this video, i talk about the law of assumption-a super simple "trick" to help you let go of the constant worry and finally manifest what you want. ditch your need for control, and start trusting that good things are coming your way. in the wise words of Ludwig, "be smart and delusional" ✨ s o c i a l s instagram: ins...
stop settling for uncertain love
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.2 месяца назад
if you’re experiencing uncertain love, it’s time to recognize your worth and stop settling. this video will give you practical tips on how to do that. i encourage you to prioritize your well-being, recognize your inherent worth and value, and seek healthier, more fulfilling relationships - because you deserve it xoxo s o c i a l s instagram: texirra?igsh=MXJ1dDd5NTd2azQwdg c h a p...
"right person, wrong time" is a MYTH
Просмотров 16 тыс.2 месяца назад
are you holding onto the idea of someone being the right person for you at the wrong time? in this video, i talk about why i believe this concept is a myth and how you can reframe your thinking around timing and relationships. whether you're single or navigating heartbreak, this video will help you focus on personal growth and trusting the process xoxo s o c i a l s instagram: tex...
watch this if you're single and feeling lonely | Phoenix, AZ vlog
Просмотров 1,4 тыс.2 месяца назад
i went on my first-ever solo trip from washington to arizona to prove to myself and YOU that it's ok to be single. you can discover parts of yourself and feel empowered. just because you're single doesn't mean you're incomplete. let this video be a reminder that you can be fulfilled, liberated, and grow while single. shift the perspective from seeing singleness as a lack to viewing it as a time...
man vs. bear: are all men trash or just your taste in men?
Просмотров 3 тыс.3 месяца назад
the whole “man vs the bear” debate got me thinking… what a sad society we live in ;-; in this video i talk about harmful gender stereotypes, the “all men are trash” saying, societal expectations, toxic masculinity, and how they shape our views on men and relationships. in order to embrace healthy love, we’ve gotta reframe our mindset p.s. i asked my dad what his thoughts were on the man vs bear...
chemistry vs compatibility: is he "the one" or is he just tall lol
Просмотров 1,2 тыс.3 месяца назад
chemistry vs compatibility: is he "the one" or is he just tall lol
graduation: the fear of what comes next
Просмотров 3053 месяца назад
graduation: the fear of what comes next
the exhausting reality of CONSTANT self-improvement
Просмотров 3 тыс.3 месяца назад
the exhausting reality of CONSTANT self-improvement
stop accepting BREADCRUMBS (are you a bird or something?)
Просмотров 1,3 тыс.4 месяца назад
stop accepting BREADCRUMBS (are you a bird or something?)
stop waiting for them to change (you are not a fortune teller)
Просмотров 4294 месяца назад
stop waiting for them to change (you are not a fortune teller)
can you love others without self love?
Просмотров 3104 месяца назад
can you love others without self love?
watch this before going back to your ex | FINAL PART
Просмотров 1705 месяцев назад
watch this before going back to your ex | FINAL PART
why moving on from a breakup sucks | part 2
Просмотров 1635 месяцев назад
why moving on from a breakup sucks | part 2
the unspoken grief of necessary goodbyes | part 1
Просмотров 2055 месяцев назад
the unspoken grief of necessary goodbyes | part 1
stop chasing unrequited love (don't your feet hurt already?)
Просмотров 3,2 тыс.5 месяцев назад
stop chasing unrequited love (don't your feet hurt already?)
what to do when your ex wants you back
Просмотров 48011 месяцев назад
what to do when your ex wants you back
My comfort channel ❤️ I don't usually comment under other peoples video but I feel like you deserve compliments from me because I can relate to your videos so much and your words of wisdom comforts my heart inshallah you will thrive soon❤️ily from Bangladesh 🇧🇩
you're the best, i always appreciate your sweet comments and am so beyond grateful to have you in my community 🤍🤍🤍 also omg Bangladesh that is so cool!!
Your voice is so soothing
thank you!
Thank you. I’ll start listening to this weekly. My therapist recommended it. ❤
aw omg i’m glad it was helpful!! 🥹🤍
this account is underrated as shh you really deserve like millions of followers
thank you so much!
Yea you got me girl, I clicked on for that second reason 😶
it’s such a good wake up call!
This reminds me of: “How can you trust yourself when you keep lying to yourself. If youre a good listener to others, why wont you listen to yourself? You hate it when others dont listen to you.. then, do the same. Listen to yourself. If youre going to love someone and if theyre not gotta love you, then who going to? Love yourself cause no one will actually actually pick you. But you can pick yourself. Afterall, nobody is falling behind, everyone is learning everyday.”
omg i love this!
0:49 I love how you encourage people to do something while watching your video, instead of rotting away lol
yess! i feel like multitasking makes me feel more productive whenever i'm watching videos (:
A really deep lesson, thanks 👌I think there is an healthy way to compare yourself to other but for some reason we compare ourself the wrong way. I fell in this trap too much tbh🤔
thanks for watching! same, it's so easy to negatively compare
This is exactly the video I needed to see today 🙌. Being in your 20s can be such a confusing time because everyone is moving at different speeds, and you can feel lost if you start comparing too much or have self-doubt when you go through a situation you never experienced before.
i'm so glad it helped! i totally agree. it's like a universal feeling honestly
i seriously watch all of your videos cuz all of them are so useful and motivating(going thru a breakup atm)💗 keep going girlll , much luv from Turkey!❤
OMG Turkey!! thank you so much, that means a lot to me! i'm really glad my content is helping you, and i'm wishing you all the best on your healing journey-you've got this 🤍 i have a video coming out this sunday that might help, and another in a couple weeks about my "secret" to finding closure in a couple weeks. i hope both will keep you encouraged/motivated 🫂
the title really got me 🤣😂
the reason we think fixing is the solution is because we’re in denial. they’re not broken, they’re just not for you !
love that you mentioned this. it can be a hard pill to swallow but everything becomes clear once you do!
if you have to question how to get them to see your value, then they probably don’t see your value !
exactlyyyy
I honestly love that you love editing. You’re really good at it. You’re truly an inspiration to us all 😭
thank you kenzie!!! 🥹
Wow, you just solved a problem I didn't even know I had😮 Nice braids btw✨
thank you!!
And then he cheated with someone who accepted his flaws. He forced me to choose: to stay with his 'mistakes' or to leave, after everything I had done for him, for his needs, for his sanity. We broke up. I was the one who walked away. I cry every day, but I am free now
i'm so sorry ;-; i'm so proud of you for walking away though. it's very hard in the moment and during the grieving process but i'm glad you decided to make the better choice for your present and future self. no one is worth that mental warfare. it sucks when you give so much and yet it isn't reciprocated or you're betrayed in the end
"You're not asking for too much, you're just asking the wrong person". This is a powerful sentence indeed. I also think everyone should know themself at least a bit to know their purpose and discover their true needs. From that point it's easier to choose the right people Thanks again for this great video !
yess i heard it once and it stuck with me ever since. i totally agree with you; knowing yourself makes it way easier to use discernment with others. thank you for watching, i always look forward to seeing your comments! 🤍
@@texirratalks Wow, what a priviledge O_o Thank you so much to take into consideration a simple suscriber like me. I feel seen and valued thank you👍❤️
you’re my SAVIOR🙏🙏😭👑
you're so sweet thank you ;-; 🤍🤍🤍🤍
like this comment if you're hanging up your "toolset" lol 🔨🧰
Love your videos!! I always feel a bit better and energized after watching :DDD
thank you so much, this genuinely made my day! (: i'm glad my videos are helpful <3
You're so underrated. I watch all of your videos. I love you❤
this comment means so much to me 🥺 thank you so much. i'm so grateful for your support and that you're part of this community 🤍
I love your voice I’m always looking forward for your videos keep going please
thank you so so so much 🥹
How is it possible ? That's the video I needed without knowing it. Seriousely, I am grateful I follow your chanel, your work is a true blessing. Now I am motivated to do more😤 Stay blessed and loved👌🏾
thank you SO much. it always makes me smile knowing i'm helping at least one person with my videos 🥹 you got this, keep going!!
Getting over rejection from a job or school is far more difficult for me than getting over rejection from a prospective partner. You have no control over if a person will choose you or not. Either they will or they won’t but those bills don’t care.
that's so true and makes a lot of sense!
The high on life thing took me out😂
it was so random 😭😭
I love your bella impressions😂
lmaoo thank you!!
@@texirratalksUwc!
Amazing video. Of topic but i never understood twilight😂
thank you so much! honestly that's ok, the saga is kinda wild 😭
@@texirratalksyeah😅
LA PUSH BABYYYYY
Your videos always make my day. Thanks for this incredible work👌
thank YOU! 🥹 your comments always make my day (:
bruh i’m so JEALOUS
it was so fun ;-; you gotta go someday if you're able!
I loved this so much!
call me marcie now 👹(iykyk) next week's vid will be 'how to move on from rejection' ✨
The is your first video I come across and it’s crazy how you came in at the right time. Sometimes we’re aware that we shouldn’t love with such a tight grip or desperation but it’s helpful to hear others remind us of that. Choose yourself people !! Always ! That’s the best thing you can do for yourself. Walking away and choosing yourself is like the biggest form of self love.
i'm so happy my video found you at the right time, i love your mindset! sooo true, walking away and choosing yourself is like the biggest form of self love 🤍🤍🤍
i really hope people are able to find this when they need it because i never find the right videos when i need them. i hope you all know that you are amazing, strong people who are amazing with or without another person. you don’t need anyone else to be whole.
🤍🤍🤍
every single video of yours hits!! like you literally don’t miss and ur always on time with what i go through wtf!!
it's like i'm psychic or something * cue that's so raven theme song * hehehe. no but seriously thank you so much!! 🤍
This is a message I wish high school me had heard. I’m white, so my experiences look a little different in some areas of my life, but I idealized love and felt desperate to be loved. The messages I saw online at the time were either helping me to idealize love, or saying that no one should really desire it. I think it’s so important to say it’s ok to want love! But you have to have a healthy relationship with love, in the sense that you can’t be desperate for it to the point that you settle or lower your standards to get it. Thank you for this video!
i love everything about this comment 🥹 agree 100%
OMGG it's my first time watching your channel and I'm already LOVING IT!! You slay girl ✨💕 💕
YOU'RE SO SWEEEET ;-; thank you, welcome to the community!! ✨🤍
next week's vid will be the longest video i've ever uploaded AAAAHHHH it's gonna be a vlog and talking about how-to live in the present i'm exciteddd (:
i really needed this video
Being single has its flaws but it’s underrated.
This video was actually so helpful
i'm so glad!! 🥹
This video needs more likes because this is such a good short explanation of what we all need to internalize
thank you!!
this video was so good i was so surprised to see it only had 300 views 😭😭
thank you so much!!
the timing of me seeing this video is CRAZY🥹🥹 exactly the things i needed to hear for the situation that i’m in😌thank you🫶
aw i love when this happens!! so glad it could resonate, thank you for watching 🥹🤍
i love your videos sm
aw omg i love having you in the community 🥹🫶🏾
Those guys are actually insane because you’re STUNNING
also thank you for this video queen 🫶🏻
omg thank you, so are you!! 🥹 i love your pfp, the curls are everythinggg. honestly those guys' opinions are irrelevant. it genuinely makes me laugh that i cared so much at the time in high school! thank you for watching!! 🤍🤍🤍
the thing is: if you are single and friendless ? 😂😂
omg 😭 my honest advice that might sound cheesy-focus on building a relationship with yourself. i think the relationship you have with yourself (and your self-concept) influences your relationships with others. spending time alone can really show you what you'd desire in a friend/partner. and don't be afraid to put yourself out there! like last weekend, my friends and i planned to go to this smores night all-girls meetup where a bunch of random girls show up to make new friends and it was a really cute idea (it ended up storming so we didn't go lol)! but if you have something like that in your area, i'd try that if you really wanna make new friends (: i'm sure you'll attract the right people in your life. and regardless, i'm happy to have you in this community 🤍
@@texirratalks what you are saying is so true. I met all of my friends through hobbies I pursued. It can happen so fast, trust it and then you look back and you've been friends with them for a year
@ilovefrogs3141 yess exactly!
Omg yesss my 5’2” queen!!
🧚🏾♀️
Slayed video, slayed opinion, slayed content 🙌🙌🙌🙌
AHHHH thank you adelaide <3