Thank you for sharing your story, my wife and I just started the process of hiring an au pair. Tonight I watched about a dozen videos of folks who have had a bad experience with a HF. A few things stuck out with some of the other videos, HF not respecting the time of the AP, lack of communication between the HF & AP. Some of the other things I noticed were some of the HF not working on training/expectations with their AP. In my opinion, it will take a person a good amount of time working with the parents and children to get into a rhythm. The parents need to set the tone between the children/child and the AP. Sorry about your bad experience. Wish you the best of luck in your future.
Where did you live? In which state. I’m actually in contact with a family from California, who has 2 twin kids (5 years old) and they speak Russian. I’m so afraid that’s this family 😥
Hello, Do you know of a site, forum, blog or the like to collect testimonials from Au Pairs who have gone to the Carnagie family (only the father with two young children aged 7 and 5) in Minnesota USA? Girls are not respected, poorly paid if at all and ..... maybe even more serious. I would like to be able to protect my grandchildren (my daughter is deceased) and "stop" this exploitation of girls who are only objects for some. Thank you.
Thank you for your comment. Unfortunately I do not know any forum like that, but I know that there are a lot of girls on RUclips who shares their experience of being Au pair.
Hi I don't know you they put that grandma their to spy on you.That is why you have to Becareful with people.They are evil god would deal with them.You are a beautiful person. You would get your blessings.Stay bless 🙏💜
Thank you for sharing your story, my wife and I just started the process of hiring an au pair. Tonight I watched about a dozen videos of folks who have had a bad experience with a HF. A few things stuck out with some of the other videos, HF not respecting the time of the AP, lack of communication between the HF & AP. Some of the other things I noticed were some of the HF not working on training/expectations with their AP. In my opinion, it will take a person a good amount of time working with the parents and children to get into a rhythm. The parents need to set the tone between the children/child and the AP. Sorry about your bad experience. Wish you the best of luck in your future.
No worries!
There's nothing perfect in this world. Same with this program. For some one it is a best experience ever, for others - the worst!
I am doing the same thing - a host mom trying to learn what makes a bad experience for an au pair.
but what did your coordinator said about you continuing the program
Where did you live? In which state. I’m actually in contact with a family from California, who has 2 twin kids (5 years old) and they speak Russian. I’m so afraid that’s this family 😥
Don't worry, those are not from California. They are living in Virginia.
@@AngelikaAbroad Okay. Just to make sure. What was the first letter of the names of the host children? Boy and Girl?
@@loouuuy1899 Yes, boy and girl. Don't worry, it's not them. They are older than 5 years.
Agencies don't just remove au pairs without talking to them. You have a mediation meeting and review.
I am pretty sure the family and specially the grandma was a crazy one. 🤦♂️😅
They wanted to look like the smartest and coolest people. But in reall life the were such two faces 😣
Hello,
Do you know of a site, forum, blog or the like to collect testimonials from Au Pairs who have gone to the Carnagie family (only the father with two young children aged 7 and 5) in Minnesota USA?
Girls are not respected, poorly paid if at all and ..... maybe even more serious.
I would like to be able to protect my grandchildren (my daughter is deceased) and "stop" this exploitation of girls who are only objects for some.
Thank you.
Thank you for your comment.
Unfortunately I do not know any forum like that, but I know that there are a lot of girls on RUclips who shares their experience of being Au pair.
Hi I don't know you they put that grandma their to spy on you.That is why you have to Becareful with people.They are evil god would deal with them.You are a beautiful person. You would get your blessings.Stay bless 🙏💜
Thank you for your kindness ☺️
Wow...inside they were like the devil 🤯 it was so unfair...that u couldn't rematch. I hope they rott in hell 🤷♀️
I was really horrible situation
These people were evil