Your personal life is your business. If you have made mistakes and now counsel others not to make those mistakes...good on you. I simply find you entertaining. Good luck with the move.
@@RobertTaylor-gz2fu I watched the video and even I'm not certain, but I think she is needlessly accusing herself, as if she were inconsistant in relationship advice. But I think she is doing fine.
She's not a counselor. She's just an opinionated narcissist. When you are divorced and having a child out of wedlock you have not credibility to give relationship advice. This woman's channel is about gaining attention from weak men who won't set boundaries with their women but get on social media and batch about them. She's an enabler.
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
My biggest issue with women is drama. I'm currently dating the most fabulous lady I've ever met. Total lack of drama. It's amazing. I consider myself lucky, one in a million.
Yeah, I had one girl who was like that.. everything’s about her was just serene. Unfortunately I couldn’t work out what the catch was.. 😅 so I didn’t pursue her hard enough and we split up. On the other hand, when I met my future wife, I was ready when I found the same qualities… 😇👍🏻
You are voicing the issues that do affect men, and that is appreciated. Your personal life is just that, personal...but thank you for sharing...hope the move goes well. Cheers.
EMILY is refreshing in her honesty, detail, & moral standards :) May God continue to bless her relationships in her blended fam. Her wisdom & insight do NOT go unnoticed.
You're honest, it's refreshing. I have been healing from a lot of abuse and within that I realized, I've made amends with my loved ones. I don't hold regrets because I always try and live honestly and make the best choices too. Seeing results of helping my children heal, well that's downright empowering at it's finest. I have been more open to sharing my journey too, because of women like you Emily. Your message does help because power has always lied in our reactions, the true control we have over ourselves ❤ Congratulations and best wishes moving where you belong!!! 🎉
@MikeBarbarossa "GASLIGHTING is when you criticize a reaction you caused." That is NOT what Gaslighting means. Gaslgihting is when someone(A) tries to make someone else(B) question their(B) reality by manipulating them(B) into believing their(B) beliefs/reality is incorrect. For example, telling someone that their version of the truth, their reality, is not true, and say that isn't how the events went down, when you know that's exactly how the events went down.
@@AlvinKazu we can disagree, but the way the poster used the phrase is not applicable either of our definitions. The point it doesn't mean everything. I wasn't even used 3 years ago. The Emily poster basically said " man you're story doesn't make sense. seems like you are fibbing" Say "ooh that's gaslighting you" is not accurate word use of the phrase
@@MikeBarbarossanot entirely, that can be a type of gaslighting or method of gaslighting. It can basically be any form of deceitful, dishonest or misleading- remark, theory or narrative that is designed to mislead, distort or deflect the audience into believing alternate events or sow doubt in their own memory….its f#€¥ed up behaviour to be honest & can actually send repeated victims of it insane Gaslighting - manipulate someone using psychological methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning.
I love hearing what you have to say Emily. I am just to the point where I don’t want a relationship from being wanted for material gain or being blamed for being a good man by showing respect.
Let's be honest. Most blokes who watch this lovely young lady would love to have a Mrs like her, she's beautiful and if she practices exactly what she preaches.....I'd definitely marry this lady in a heart beat 👌💯
If she is so damn perfect then why did her ex choose to engage in actions that split them up? She obviously doesn't practice all that she preaches! She obviously didn't fulfill all of his needs. And she's wrong, 4 years is way too fast to remarry. Makes me wonder if she had the 2nd guy in her sights all along.
@@jennifersteen8236 you're making gigantic assumptions and leaps that reflect terribly on you. = Sour grapes. And unholy sh¡t, you've made 99+ comments on her channel. Please work on developing more humility and compassion.
@@jennifersteen8236 "obviously didn't fulfill all of his needs" was it her job to fulfil ALL of his needs. Since when has someone stepping out of a marriage been exclusively the fault of the person being cheated on? No man has ever stepped out simply because he could, right?
I’m glad you read comments. I started watching the shorts and every video makes me laugh. I’m 63 but this young lady has great insight. Nobody cares about yesterday except yesterday’s people if that makes sense. Anyway keep up the great content and I’ll keep watching.
Your wisdom, kindness, and sincerity are revered and respected by many. Please don't feel obligated to justify your life decisions to random, mean-hearted trolls. You are a profoundly positive influence in this crazy world.
I adore this girl. Not only is she as cute AF, but everything she has to say adds something positive to my life. I tell you this, guys, any man who doesn't have some bit of feminine energy in his life, and does not cherish it, is not a man.
I've seen a few of your videos, and you seem like a reasonable sensible person. I have no comment on your personal life or your choices, but I just wanted to chime in with my support regarding moving and getting rid of clutter. I grew up in a Navy family. We had to move every 3 or 4 years. As an adult, I also joined the Navy and moved every few years. Moving is "awesome"! You get to make hard choices about what to keep and what to get rid of and it really helps you focus on which possessions are important to you :)
I, personally, think you are a good and honest person. There are always people that don’t even know you who are quick to judge. Try to ignore them as best you can.
In the U.S., there’s often a strong emphasis on practicing what you preach. But in Germany, we value being honest about our struggles, even if we haven’t fully resolved them yet.
We love ya, because you're genuine, not because you call out the haters, you decided to break the chains and be awesome, and I cannot stress enough that I hope one day I find a woman like you. You inspire me to keep going with my long-distance relationship, so even if everybody else leaves you, I'll always be your 1 subscriber!
Emily I have been watching you for a while, not a long while, but enough to know that your new fiancé is a very lucky man. Sigh, I wish it was me. I wish you both much happiness peace and prosperity. Teach your children well. God bless.
It's best to not feed the trolls. Your personal business is just that, you don't have to explain yourself to them. You have a better understanding of people and relationships than most and your content is valuable and helpful. Keep it up and good luck on the move. 👍
No matter what you do Emily or how well you do it, there will Always be those who want to Judge you by THEIR standards. But there is a good saying to remember about Judgment = "Those who Judge others merely define themselves". You do a GREAT job with your honest and candid approach to the messy interplay of male and female mindsets and expectations, most of which are rarely expressed or communicated b4 the spaghetti hits the wall. Us Men are in no need of extra Drama, we test only Ideas and ourselves. The Women folk however seem to only want to test Men, and are VERY hard to please. You go Gurl, I really wish there were more like YOU. Good luck with the move. x
Good luck to you and your family on the move to a new house. A new adventure awaits! Only found your channel fairly recently but you seem like a level headed and empathetic person. Never change.
I enjoy your content. A broken marriage is tough to get through. Nobody should be condemmed to never love again or measured by how quickly they find some kind of peace and happiness in their life. Everyone makes mistakes. Sometimes the same ones multiple times. I don't think you are a grifter in any way that would indicate an attempt to fool any of us. Of course you post on things your audience actually cares about. That's part of the way you get followers. Congratulations on the new home. Moves are stressful. My wife and I had to agree that it was ok to not put anymore pressure on ourselves by trying to sort and unpack everything within a predefined window. We didn't even unpack our jackets until our first winter after moving in during the July 4th weekend. Thanks for the content. I appreciate you sharing some of the aspects of your personal life.
I truly enjoy your videos. There is no timeline for ending or starting a relationship. It all depends on the people involved. You take care of your and your family. That is what really matters.
A simple statement like “I don’t think that’s healthy…” is a Green Flag- an articulation of real life experience and desire for healthy relationships. I enjoy the videos, always insightful and well thought out.
This is your life. You do what makes you happy. You didn't even have to mention anything about yourself. There is no time limit of what you should do and when. Best of luck getting your mirror moved in one piece.😉😎
Keep up the amazing work Emily! Always someone out there that will be out to take you down, you come across as genuine to me and you seem to really care about this subject and these men going through these things, I have been through some of it my self many times and thats why I'm here... It lets me know, its not just me, I'm not crazy... and it helps!
Nobody’s gonna be perfect! You’re gonna make mistakes you’re gonna contradict yourself sometimes… Especially when you’re raising your child… And it’s OK don’t let the haters hate. Ignore them… Fun to watch and good luck to you! Keep it coming it’s hilarious!
Emily, for many who watch your videos, divorce is just a word they've heard many times over. Even if they are the children of divorce, they will never truly understand it until they actually have to go through one and I hope they never do. I went through one of my own and I will never put myself in a position where that is a possibility again (despite the fact I got the house). From one fellow New Yorker (by birth, not by address) to another, I wish you and your family nothing but the best...
Good luck on your move . You are such a sweet girl Emily. Four years is not too soon to be in a relationship with someone after a divorce. Whatever the situation was the important thing is that you are obviously very happy and have a beautiful child. You are blessed by the grace of God and that makes me happy because I think you know that it was God's will that put you two together.
She filed divorce in 2019 and got with Mr. New guy in 2020 before her divorce was finalized. Go watch her video why she's not married. This chick is so full of it.
You know you’re an inspiration to many who don’t k ow what to think these days. Thes negative ass&$les don’t care. Who cares who wins what? We are a team and we are on your team!! You Rock!!
Don't worry about the haters and complainers. They have nothing better to do. You are doing a fantastic job and I always look forward to getting updates from you! Good luck with your moving, what an exciting time for you and your fiance' and kids!!!
Noone is perfect. I find you very wholesome and genuine. I enjoy how you view things as a woman being a man. You seem very happy where you are and i am very happy for you both of you. The time is fine in my opinion on the courting ect leading to marriage. Enjoy the new home!!! Look forward to more content.
Thank you for adding a little clarity to the video in question! Was hoping that you would. Many did not catch what you were trying not to have to say in that video. Personally I gave you the benefit of doubt but many did not. Sorry you had to do it but you did the right thing here. Hoping anyone that unsubscribed a few weeks ago will still see this one. My finger was hovering over the button but I decided to wait for a video like this one. Glad I did. As a man who's life was completely and permanently destroyed by a very evil "grifter" woman, you give me hope that for the next generation there are decent and good women out there for deserving young men that will give them a great life and vis versa. Your videos help both men and women. Thanks for that.
I remember watching another RUclipsr's videos about how to break into RUclips and the adage holds true today as it did back then: don't read the fucking comments! Part of them will love you no matter what you do, and part of them will want you dead no matter what you do. Emily, Chloe and Lauren (a.k.a. The Powerpuff Girls of the MRA) are genuine in their actions, but I understand why they would read the comments for feedback and direction. You're doing great, keep going!
It depends on the channel. Before reaching a certain critical mass, some advise engagement with a good number of comments to try building subs and passthroughs coming back. Most channels I've seen reach critical mass will engage the first 30-60 minutes, often solely through the heart reactions.
Thank you for being vulnerable and putting yourself out there... Just like women there are men who are bitter around... I've seen lots of positive interactions just like the hawktua girl... Keep your head up and keep pushing your advocacy for what motivates you on your advocacy...it touches me in positive ways for someone to finally advocate for me...your a bright light in my life of turmoil
Good luck with the move I only recently discovered your content through RUclips shorts and I agree with everything that you make so far Moving is stressful and I think I can speak for the other followers we can wait for a bit so take your time Love your content keep up the good work
i just had "breakups" from friends that had wronged me and i had and still have no intention of taking revenge or whatever, but almost all, except for one, kept stabbing at me, even though we don't see each other anymore. right after they wronged me, they tried to say sorry, but i didn't want any of it and i knew it was gonna repeat over and over again and i left them. it took a lot of strength to lose all those 4 friends, but i got through it. right now, i train, i got a job, i have much better friends, i enjoy being myself and i don't hate myself anymore. i needed people like you, i was alone and had no one and i thought i was crazy, but i escaped. i just want to say thank you so much
I think you' re a very wholesome, intelligent and fair- minded young woman; I wouldn' t pay any attention to negative comments-- your personal life is yours and yoours alone. I think your fiance is a very lucky guy ( I also live in NYS-- Western NY to be exact,)
She got the house! Hahahah! Honestly, your business is your own. Have watched you for about a year, and yeah, you understand better than most. Good luck on the move!
I just started watching your videos and find them awesome! This one hit home, as I have been divorced for 30 years after my Ex started cheating. She had been in a car accident and was lucky to escape with just bruises , but found out after my divorce from a friend of hers, that after the accident, she felt there had to be more to life then being a successful business woman, mother and wife and at meetings she wanted to jump across the table and have sex with the guy. She ended up with a guy from her job who also cheated and left his wife. She had to choose between him and our 2 children and choose him, so I was very lucky to have custody of my son and daughter, ages 10 and 8. Raising them has been the best thing I have ever done in my life and on Mothers day, my daughter always calls to wish my happy mothers day. I held a grudge all these years over there betrayal and your advice about letting go and move on, is so true. I still see them at events with our grandchildren and never reach out to talk to them, but if they say hi , I do respond and last week at my grandsons soccer game , as I did not say hello, my son said it had been 30 years and I should just say hi and let it go , like you say.
I feel like you really try to keep the best Godly message. You’re awesome and you deserve what you have and get. Your so sweet and as an older Man I have gotten some great advice which kept a lot of Women from taking advantage of me. You are a great example of what we can be rather than what we can make ourselves look like. Thank You so Much
thank you for doing what you are doing together. I was in a relationship and wanted to have a new environment. and she would not have it. so good for you. all your reasons are spot on.
Good luck with your move. Don’t worry about the haters. I’m guessing the majority of your viewers aren’t overly obsessed with your personal situation, but it is interesting to hear behind the scenes stuff. Carry on!
Don't let the negative comments make you feel like you have to justify yourself. As long as you've learned from your mistakes and used them to better yourself, then all is well. Besides, responding to the negative stuff just brings everything else down anyway, the positive content is much better. Also, I greatly appreciate you spreading the word on how men think and feel, and also for giving us a (relatively) safe space to share said thoughts and feelings with each other. I've learned a lot from you, and also from the other people in the comments, and it's so refreshing to hear this stuff versus all the other junk that's out there. Keep up the good work, and keep your chin up!
What bugs me is that of all the women a man could betray in such a way, that guy chose to betray Emily? A woman who stands for everything good in social interaction between men and women. Like, what a total arsehole!
@@EnglishLadI'm sad to report it occurs more often to us sweet, supportive, smart ladies with integrity than you'd think. Men and women make terrible decisions that hurt their partner and other people. Cheers to Emily and her future success and well being. 🙂 🥂
Hey Emily, thank you for the video. Your comments and answers to subscribers was really not necessary though. Those of us that have followed you for quite a while know your straight forward honesty and trust you. Thus said, your personal life, whatever it is, does not really matter to us because we know that the person you are on video is the same person that you are off video. Besides, you can never ever satisfy a negative commenter. To do so only validates them and their negativity will increase because of your attention. It’s like raising kids, we reward positive behavior and ignore negative behavior. Thank you for another excellent video. Hope you all have a wonderful life in your new house.
I feel the same way about objects holding memories and energy. ETA The reason you divorced someone is your own and others have no right to judge you even when they know the whole story. I wish you good fortune in your new marriage.
The most inspiring things about your videos is that theyre intelligent and also entirely engaged in others / selfless. One thing that I keep thinking though is that guys do get it wrong. You are also definitely a strong female. There’s no shame in it.
Ideals are ideals, and life is life. There is rarely (never) an 1:1 correlation between the two. Life happens. You being true to yourself is what matters. Now, when it comes to advice given to others, that should generally be rooted in more general truths (which rarely/never are absolutes), so what you do and the life you live may diverge. We all make mistakes, and hopefully we recognise that and learn from them. I often watch your videos. I do not always agree, and I sometimes recognise mistakes I have made in the past, but the important thing is that you provide a different perspective that makes me think. And that is very often a very good thing. Keep it coming.
Good luck with your move. And I get the sense that you would be a great catch and the circumstances leading up to the end of your previous marriage were not of your doing..
4 years is not a short amount of time, at least in my experience. My ex got married 6 months after our divorce. I should’ve been the one to leave, but I didn’t want it to end. In the end after she filed for the divorce, I realized that I wanted it too. I’ve been single since then and it’s been over 9 years. I do want to get married again, but she has to prove that it’s going to be worth it for me to do so cuz I’ll be more than willing to prove it to her.
I definitely want to see more videos like this. It makes it seem a little more personal, and we could interact through comments, maybe like a q & a would be awesome. I'm living in upstate Ny as well, about 45 minutes from Albany. I love your videos and content, keep it up you're doing great!
Don’t let anybody discount you.. as a 64 year old native Texas guy… I think you are spot on in your evaluation of men and women’s relationships… I love your channel
Your videos randomly pop up while I've got RUclips going... so I'm not a regular viewer of yours. Having said that, good luck on your move, and if someone has a problem with your personal life, they have too much time on their hands. You do you, boo.
I have dishes, glasses, and steak knives from my first divorce forty years ago. Some would say I am holding on but they are perfectly serviceable. And I have never found better steak knives in all these years.
I just want to wish you and your family a lot of luck on the blending of yall's family's. You have nothing to explain when it comes to your personal lives and choices. You are a sweetheart, you seem to have a firm grip on reality and a very acute understanding on the way men think about most (if not all) subjects. Please keep on trying to educate women because I sure think it helps in the long run.
Nobody's life is perfect, and as humans we do mistakes. The difference is what we do next, if we learn from them or not. Personally I follow you 'cause I find your contents entertaining and I believe you are a genuine person.
We know you love us as much as we love you my dear...don't let those mean old trolls and the bullshit drama suck you in, we need your knowledge, opinions and input! Good luck moving darlin, even if it's across the street you still have the pack all the crap...I'm about to move myself ...UGH! and at 54 I've got myself down to about 8 boxes..LOL
You have been straight up with your personal life. Don't pay this any attention because it's not important. Good luck with the move. I'll miss the NuTone intercom panel.
Social media makes you believe that you have to justify everything you do. Your true followers don't believe that. The content you put out stands on its own. For myself, I form my opinion upon what the content creator says and seems to believe. You're one of my favorites, stop justifying yourself.
Thanks for the transparency! I’ve started asking dates if they have watched Emily King. It’s a big green flag if they have without getting angry or defensive 😂❤
Hurray! The paintings on the wall are gone! I have OCD and when watching your videos in this room, I heard about half of what you said, because I kept looking at the uneven paintings on the wall and wondering, "How can she be doing a video when those paintings aren't level with each other?" It drove me nuts! Now, lets talk about the bed spread and how the closet is arranged...
To Emily: 4 years is absolutely not too short of a time. You are not doing anything wrong here. You found new love, have a precious baby together, moving into a new home and getting married. No wrong doing with any of this, no negative, only positive. You are amazing and deserving of the happiness and love in your life. To the negative commenter : Please comment on the following ; When my wife bailed out on me and our 3 children and our debt, she was in a new relationship within a few months. If a few years is too short of a time, where does a few months sit with you? Your comments about Emily are so off-base that you can't even see the baseball diamond from where you're at.
Ms. King, one cannot persist as a balanced person in this line of work without a serious ability to ground yourself, along with an inability to see anything but the reality in life and of life. You're quite obviously fine because you're relaxed enough so the self-reflection (you poor girls with that constant background chatter ... how annoying) is accurate and, as a result, you always make sense. On behalf of gentlemen everywhere, please carry on.
No kidding, from upstate new york! We live almost about as far north in new york state as you can go : ) Hello fellow new yorker. Very much enjoy your content.
Your personal life is your business.
If you have made mistakes and now counsel others not to make those mistakes...good on you. I simply find you entertaining.
Good luck with the move.
Well written; I agree. She has no obligation to reply to anyone rude.
@@shiroibasketshoes What exactly is the contradiction she has been accused of?
@@RobertTaylor-gz2fu I watched the video and even I'm not certain, but I think she is needlessly accusing herself, as if she were inconsistant in relationship advice. But I think she is doing fine.
She's not a counselor. She's just an opinionated narcissist. When you are divorced and having a child out of wedlock you have not credibility to give relationship advice. This woman's channel is about gaining attention from weak men who won't set boundaries with their women but get on social media and batch about them. She's an enabler.
The notion of a flawless marriage or relationship is a myth. There's no set formula for success; what works for one couple may not work for another. Yet, I've discovered that there's always a way forward, even in the most challenging times. Five years ago, my wife and I encountered significant hurdles in our marriage that nearly led to divorce. Despite the adversity, we managed to weather the storm and emerge from it with our bond renewed and revitalised
There is a lot of sense in what you just said and I hope mine works the same way too, we are currently separated but I cant live without her, I love her so much. wish I can get her back I can do anything to have her back, we have tried therapy amongst other things
Its always difficult to let someone you love go, but in my case I had the help of a spiritual adviser who saved my marriage from collapsing her name is shelly renee white
This is helpful, I will look her up online right now...Thanks.
You won't regret it
There isn't always a way forward. In many cases, one or both are horrible &/or they're so incompatible that it can't work out well long-term.
My biggest issue with women is drama. I'm currently dating the most fabulous lady I've ever met. Total lack of drama. It's amazing. I consider myself lucky, one in a million.
Congratulations!
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
Yeah, I had one girl who was like that.. everything’s about her was just serene. Unfortunately I couldn’t work out what the catch was.. 😅 so I didn’t pursue her hard enough and we split up.
On the other hand, when I met my future wife, I was ready when I found the same qualities… 😇👍🏻
😂😂 I’m jealous 😂😂
My ex-wife bottled up the crazy until I married her 😂😂😂 I was sold goods on false pretences 😂😂😂
You are voicing the issues that do affect men, and that is appreciated.
Your personal life is just that, personal...but thank you for sharing...hope the move goes well.
Cheers.
It is refreshing to see a woman like you out there. The fact you are sharing your thoughts may wake up a lot of people.
Refreshing..? Lol she divorced a guy & monkey branched to another. Ah yes so refreshing. What is wrong with you simps?
The mirror and sliiiide is what makes your videos.
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As well as her likability & hotness.
@@RobertTaylor-gz2fu yea but I was being modest. I'm not going to disagree with you though 😉
U-Haul has special boxes for things like mirrors, then carry it on any edge (glass surface vertical) at all times.
EMILY is refreshing in her honesty, detail, & moral standards :) May God continue to bless her relationships in her blended fam. Her wisdom & insight do NOT go unnoticed.
You're honest, it's refreshing. I have been healing from a lot of abuse and within that I realized, I've made amends with my loved ones. I don't hold regrets because I always try and live honestly and make the best choices too. Seeing results of helping my children heal, well that's downright empowering at it's finest. I have been more open to sharing my journey too, because of women like you Emily. Your message does help because power has always lied in our reactions, the true control we have over ourselves ❤
Congratulations and best wishes moving where you belong!!! 🎉
Don't let comments gaslight you into feeling like you have to explain yourself. I'd just ignore them and keep on doing your thing.
Love your username. I grew up in SF area and moved to the midwest six years ago.
Jeez guys- everything is not called "gaslighting" all of a sudden
GASLIGHTING is when you criticize a reaction you caused. Nothing more
@MikeBarbarossa "GASLIGHTING is when you criticize a reaction you caused."
That is NOT what Gaslighting means.
Gaslgihting is when someone(A) tries to make someone else(B) question their(B) reality by manipulating them(B) into believing their(B) beliefs/reality is incorrect. For example, telling someone that their version of the truth, their reality, is not true, and say that isn't how the events went down, when you know that's exactly how the events went down.
@@AlvinKazu we can disagree, but the way the poster used the phrase is not applicable either of our definitions. The point it doesn't mean everything. I wasn't even used 3 years ago. The Emily poster basically said " man you're story doesn't make sense. seems like you are fibbing" Say "ooh that's gaslighting you" is not accurate word use of the phrase
@@MikeBarbarossanot entirely, that can be a type of gaslighting or method of gaslighting.
It can basically be any form of deceitful, dishonest or misleading- remark, theory or narrative that is designed to mislead, distort or deflect the audience into believing alternate events or sow doubt in their own memory….its f#€¥ed up behaviour to be honest & can actually send repeated victims of it insane
Gaslighting - manipulate someone using psychological methods into questioning their own sanity or powers of reasoning.
I love hearing what you have to say Emily. I am just to the point where I don’t want a relationship from being wanted for material gain or being blamed for being a good man by showing respect.
Let's be honest. Most blokes who watch this lovely young lady would love to have a Mrs like her, she's beautiful and if she practices exactly what she preaches.....I'd definitely marry this lady in a heart beat 👌💯
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If she is so damn perfect then why did her ex choose to engage in actions that split them up? She obviously doesn't practice all that she preaches! She obviously didn't fulfill all of his needs. And she's wrong, 4 years is way too fast to remarry. Makes me wonder if she had the 2nd guy in her sights all along.
@@jennifersteen8236 you're making gigantic assumptions and leaps that reflect terribly on you. = Sour grapes. And unholy sh¡t, you've made 99+ comments on her channel. Please work on developing more humility and compassion.
@@jennifersteen8236 "obviously didn't fulfill all of his needs" was it her job to fulfil ALL of his needs. Since when has someone stepping out of a marriage been exclusively the fault of the person being cheated on? No man has ever stepped out simply because he could, right?
@@jennifersteen8236You make good woman look bad.
I’m glad you read comments. I started watching the shorts and every video makes me laugh. I’m 63 but this young lady has great insight. Nobody cares about yesterday except yesterday’s people if that makes sense. Anyway keep up the great content and I’ll keep watching.
Many blessings with your move. May God bless you and your family.
Your wisdom, kindness, and sincerity are revered and respected by many. Please don't feel obligated to justify your life decisions to random, mean-hearted trolls. You are a profoundly positive influence in this crazy world.
All the best to you. We just moved to a bigger and better home. More peace out in nowhere land. We've never been happier.
I adore this girl. Not only is she as cute AF, but everything she has to say adds something positive to my life. I tell you this, guys, any man who doesn't have some bit of feminine energy in his life, and does not cherish it, is not a man.
I've seen a few of your videos, and you seem like a reasonable sensible person. I have no comment on your personal life or your choices, but I just wanted to chime in with my support regarding moving and getting rid of clutter. I grew up in a Navy family. We had to move every 3 or 4 years. As an adult, I also joined the Navy and moved every few years. Moving is "awesome"! You get to make hard choices about what to keep and what to get rid of and it really helps you focus on which possessions are important to you :)
I, personally, think you are a good and honest person. There are always people that don’t even know you who are quick to judge. Try to ignore them as best you can.
I agree with you. She is a sweetheart of a person.
You don't know her either. I'm not saying she isn't a good person, but we have no way of really knowing.
In the U.S., there’s often a strong emphasis on practicing what you preach. But in Germany, we value being honest about our struggles, even if we haven’t fully resolved them yet.
funny that kinda sounds similar to the halocaust 🧐 but i shouldnt remind you
We love ya, because you're genuine, not because you call out the haters, you decided to break the chains and be awesome, and I cannot stress enough that I hope one day I find a woman like you. You inspire me to keep going with my long-distance relationship, so even if everybody else leaves you, I'll always be your 1 subscriber!
Emily, you don't need to explain yourself to us. I, being a guy, just love your show. Stay strong!
I really enjoy her. “Be kind to your mind” I still remember that video. Emily is King 👑
@@chadthomas587 ... or Queen. 😉
No matter what, she rules!
Emily I have been watching you for a while, not a long while, but enough to know that your new fiancé is a very lucky man. Sigh, I wish it was me. I wish you both much happiness peace and prosperity. Teach your children well. God bless.
Emily, you're doing fine, keep up the good work. I love listening to you! Best of luck with the house...
Your sincerity and honesty shows through which is the reason we watch your content. Keep it up.
Thank you for sharing. You rambled just enough. I agree with you. Moving is so stressful and not really fun. Everyone stay safe, happy and healthy.
It's best to not feed the trolls. Your personal business is just that, you don't have to explain yourself to them. You have a better understanding of people and relationships than most and your content is valuable and helpful. Keep it up and good luck on the move. 👍
I always forgive but don't forget! Got me thru 64 years so far!!!! Just don't dwell on the past. Love your videos.🙂
No matter what you do Emily or how well you do it, there will Always be those who want to Judge you by THEIR standards. But there is a good saying to remember about Judgment = "Those who Judge others merely define themselves". You do a GREAT job with your honest and candid approach to the messy interplay of male and female mindsets and expectations, most of which are rarely expressed or communicated b4 the spaghetti hits the wall. Us Men are in no need of extra Drama, we test only Ideas and ourselves. The Women folk however seem to only want to test Men, and are VERY hard to please. You go Gurl, I really wish there were more like YOU. Good luck with the move. x
❤ Don't worry about trying to explain. You're a good person. You're informative
Good luck to you and your family on the move to a new house. A new adventure awaits!
Only found your channel fairly recently but you seem like a level headed and empathetic person. Never change.
I enjoy your content. A broken marriage is tough to get through. Nobody should be condemmed to never love again or measured by how quickly they find some kind of peace and happiness in their life. Everyone makes mistakes. Sometimes the same ones multiple times. I don't think you are a grifter in any way that would indicate an attempt to fool any of us. Of course you post on things your audience actually cares about. That's part of the way you get followers. Congratulations on the new home. Moves are stressful. My wife and I had to agree that it was ok to not put anymore pressure on ourselves by trying to sort and unpack everything within a predefined window. We didn't even unpack our jackets until our first winter after moving in during the July 4th weekend. Thanks for the content. I appreciate you sharing some of the aspects of your personal life.
I truly enjoy your videos. There is no timeline for ending or starting a relationship. It all depends on the people involved. You take care of your and your family. That is what really matters.
A simple statement like “I don’t think that’s healthy…” is a Green Flag- an articulation of real life experience and desire for healthy relationships. I enjoy the videos, always insightful and well thought out.
Your fiancée is a lucky man. You are one in a million. I wish there were more women like you.
Well said.
This is your life. You do what makes you happy. You didn't even have to mention anything about yourself. There is no time limit of what you should do and when. Best of luck getting your mirror moved in one piece.😉😎
Keep up the amazing work Emily!
Always someone out there that will be out to take you down, you come across as genuine to me and you seem to really care about this subject and these men going through these things, I have been through some of it my self many times and thats why I'm here... It lets me know, its not just me, I'm not crazy... and it helps!
Thanks for being candid with your audience.
Nobody’s gonna be perfect! You’re gonna make mistakes you’re gonna contradict yourself sometimes… Especially when you’re raising your child… And it’s OK don’t let the haters hate. Ignore them… Fun to watch and good luck to you! Keep it coming it’s hilarious!
Emily, for many who watch your videos, divorce is just a word they've heard many times over. Even if they are the children of divorce, they will never truly understand it until they actually have to go through one and I hope they never do. I went through one of my own and I will never put myself in a position where that is a possibility again (despite the fact I got the house). From one fellow New Yorker (by birth, not by address) to another, I wish you and your family nothing but the best...
Some people will always have something negative to say I wouldn’t waste time or energy on it.
Good luck on your move . You are such a sweet girl Emily. Four years is not too soon to be in a relationship with someone after a divorce. Whatever the situation was the important thing is that you are obviously very happy and have a beautiful child. You are blessed by the grace of God and that makes me happy because I think you know that it was God's will that put you two together.
She filed divorce in 2019 and got with Mr. New guy in 2020 before her divorce was finalized. Go watch her video why she's not married. This chick is so full of it.
Best wishes on the move, breaking in the new house, and creating awesome memories!
You know you’re an inspiration to many who don’t k ow what to think these days. Thes negative ass&$les don’t care. Who cares who wins what? We are a team and we are on your team!! You Rock!!
Don't worry about the haters and complainers. They have nothing better to do. You are doing a fantastic job and I always look forward to getting updates from you! Good luck with your moving, what an exciting time for you and your fiance' and kids!!!
Noone is perfect. I find you very wholesome and genuine. I enjoy how you view things as a woman being a man. You seem very happy where you are and i am very happy for you both of you. The time is fine in my opinion on the courting ect leading to marriage. Enjoy the new home!!! Look forward to more content.
Don't worry about what others say. I believe you're content is valid . Be well and good luck. Hugh
Thank you for adding a little clarity to the video in question! Was hoping that you would. Many did not catch what you were trying not to have to say in that video. Personally I gave you the benefit of doubt but many did not. Sorry you had to do it but you did the right thing here. Hoping anyone that unsubscribed a few weeks ago will still see this one. My finger was hovering over the button but I decided to wait for a video like this one. Glad I did. As a man who's life was completely and permanently destroyed by a very evil "grifter" woman, you give me hope that for the next generation there are decent and good women out there for deserving young men that will give them a great life and vis versa. Your videos help both men and women. Thanks for that.
Four years can be plenty of time in my opinion. Congratulations on the move and the house!
An Appalician saying "never bring an old broom to a new house"
❤❤ I love this... from middle Appalachia, myself, BTW
i do not understand
I remember watching another RUclipsr's videos about how to break into RUclips and the adage holds true today as it did back then: don't read the fucking comments! Part of them will love you no matter what you do, and part of them will want you dead no matter what you do. Emily, Chloe and Lauren (a.k.a. The Powerpuff Girls of the MRA) are genuine in their actions, but I understand why they would read the comments for feedback and direction. You're doing great, keep going!
It depends on the channel. Before reaching a certain critical mass, some advise engagement with a good number of comments to try building subs and passthroughs coming back. Most channels I've seen reach critical mass will engage the first 30-60 minutes, often solely through the heart reactions.
Who's Chloe? I didn't know there was a third musketeer.
@@AdrianColley If they're in PowerPuffical order, she is the joy and the laughter.
@@AdrianColley RomaArmy.
Thank you for being vulnerable and putting yourself out there... Just like women there are men who are bitter around... I've seen lots of positive interactions just like the hawktua girl... Keep your head up and keep pushing your advocacy for what motivates you on your advocacy...it touches me in positive ways for someone to finally advocate for me...your a bright light in my life of turmoil
Good luck with the move
I only recently discovered your content through RUclips shorts and I agree with everything that you make so far
Moving is stressful and I think I can speak for the other followers we can wait for a bit so take your time
Love your content keep up the good work
Three years isn’t too short as long as it wasn’t overlapping time. Good on you
i just had "breakups" from friends that had wronged me and i had and still have no intention of taking revenge or whatever, but almost all, except for one, kept stabbing at me, even though we don't see each other anymore. right after they wronged me, they tried to say sorry, but i didn't want any of it and i knew it was gonna repeat over and over again and i left them. it took a lot of strength to lose all those 4 friends, but i got through it. right now, i train, i got a job, i have much better friends, i enjoy being myself and i don't hate myself anymore. i needed people like you, i was alone and had no one and i thought i was crazy, but i escaped. i just want to say thank you so much
I think you' re a very wholesome, intelligent and fair- minded young woman; I wouldn' t pay any attention to negative comments-- your personal life is yours and yoours alone. I think your fiance is a very lucky guy
( I also live in NYS-- Western NY to be exact,)
She got the house! Hahahah!
Honestly, your business is your own. Have watched you for about a year, and yeah, you understand better than most. Good luck on the move!
I just started watching your videos and find them awesome! This one hit home, as I have been divorced for 30 years after my Ex started cheating. She had been in a car accident and was lucky to escape with just bruises , but found out after my divorce from a friend of hers, that after the accident, she felt there had to be more to life then being a successful business woman, mother and wife and at meetings she wanted to jump across the table and have sex with the guy. She ended up with a guy from her job who also cheated and left his wife. She had to choose between him and our 2 children and choose him, so I was very lucky to have custody of my son and daughter, ages 10 and 8. Raising them has been the best thing I have ever done in my life and on Mothers day, my daughter always calls to wish my happy mothers day. I held a grudge all these years over there betrayal and your advice about letting go and move on, is so true. I still see them at events with our grandchildren and never reach out to talk to them, but if they say hi , I do respond and last week at my grandsons soccer game , as I did not say hello, my son said it had been 30 years and I should just say hi and let it go , like you say.
Good luck with this new chapter. God bless
Always good advice, well-considered, and well-intentioned. Always worth hearing. Thank you.
I feel like you really try to keep the best Godly message. You’re awesome and you deserve what you have and get. Your so sweet and as an older Man I have gotten some great advice which kept a lot of Women from taking advantage of me. You are a great example of what we can be rather than what we can make ourselves look like. Thank You so Much
Good luck and congratulations on your new marriage and achievements❤
thank you for doing what you are doing together. I was in a relationship and wanted to have a new environment. and she would not have it. so good for you. all your reasons are spot on.
Good luck with your move. Don’t worry about the haters. I’m guessing the majority of your viewers aren’t overly obsessed with your personal situation, but it is interesting to hear behind the scenes stuff. Carry on!
Don't let the negative comments make you feel like you have to justify yourself. As long as you've learned from your mistakes and used them to better yourself, then all is well. Besides, responding to the negative stuff just brings everything else down anyway, the positive content is much better.
Also, I greatly appreciate you spreading the word on how men think and feel, and also for giving us a (relatively) safe space to share said thoughts and feelings with each other. I've learned a lot from you, and also from the other people in the comments, and it's so refreshing to hear this stuff versus all the other junk that's out there.
Keep up the good work, and keep your chin up!
I'm so sorry that you were cheated on. I didn't know that. I've followed you for a while but I didn't know that. Good luck with the move!
What bugs me is that of all the women a man could betray in such a way, that guy chose to betray Emily? A woman who stands for everything good in social interaction between men and women. Like, what a total arsehole!
@@EnglishLadI'm sad to report it occurs more often to us sweet, supportive, smart ladies with integrity than you'd think. Men and women make terrible decisions that hurt their partner and other people.
Cheers to Emily and her future success and well being. 🙂 🥂
I love your videos. They do resonate, but I give up on dating years ago.
I absolutely love you and your videos. Thank you for being such a positive influence.
Hey Emily, thank you for the video. Your comments and answers to subscribers was really not necessary though. Those of us that have followed you for quite a while know your straight forward honesty and trust you. Thus said, your personal life, whatever it is, does not really matter to us because we know that the person you are on video is the same person that you are off video. Besides, you can never ever satisfy a negative commenter. To do so only validates them and their negativity will increase because of your attention. It’s like raising kids, we reward positive behavior and ignore negative behavior. Thank you for another excellent video. Hope you all have a wonderful life in your new house.
I feel the same way about objects holding memories and energy.
ETA
The reason you divorced someone is your own and others have no right to judge you
even when they know the whole story.
I wish you good fortune in your new marriage.
The most inspiring things about your videos is that theyre intelligent and also entirely engaged in others / selfless. One thing that I keep thinking though is that guys do get it wrong. You are also definitely a strong female. There’s no shame in it.
Ideals are ideals, and life is life. There is rarely (never) an 1:1 correlation between the two. Life happens. You being true to yourself is what matters.
Now, when it comes to advice given to others, that should generally be rooted in more general truths (which rarely/never are absolutes), so what you do and the life you live may diverge. We all make mistakes, and hopefully we recognise that and learn from them.
I often watch your videos. I do not always agree, and I sometimes recognise mistakes I have made in the past, but the important thing is that you provide a different perspective that makes me think. And that is very often a very good thing. Keep it coming.
Good luck with your move. And I get the sense that you would be a great catch and the circumstances leading up to the end of your previous marriage were not of your doing..
4 years is not a short amount of time, at least in my experience. My ex got married 6 months after our divorce. I should’ve been the one to leave, but I didn’t want it to end. In the end after she filed for the divorce, I realized that I wanted it too. I’ve been single since then and it’s been over 9 years. I do want to get married again, but she has to prove that it’s going to be worth it for me to do so cuz I’ll be more than willing to prove it to her.
All the best with the move! definitely let us know how the mirror does! hope everything goes great!
I definitely want to see more videos like this. It makes it seem a little more personal, and we could interact through comments, maybe like a q & a would be awesome. I'm living in upstate Ny as well, about 45 minutes from Albany. I love your videos and content, keep it up you're doing great!
The most beautiful people are the ones that work on themselves. Haters don't deserve your attention. Stay beautiful!
Don’t let anybody discount you.. as a 64 year old native Texas guy… I think you are spot on in your evaluation of men and women’s relationships… I love your channel
Your videos randomly pop up while I've got RUclips going... so I'm not a regular viewer of yours.
Having said that, good luck on your move, and if someone has a problem with your personal life, they have too much time on their hands. You do you, boo.
Emily you are a total gem! Don't give the negativity any oxygen!
They do what you do I tune in often and enjoy you treated content no nonsense and truthful we who tune in hear obviously enjoy you so go girl go
I have dishes, glasses, and steak knives from my first divorce forty years ago. Some would say I am holding on but they are perfectly serviceable. And I have never found better steak knives in all these years.
You keep them because you want to, not because you can't let go.
I just want to wish you and your family a lot of luck on the blending of yall's family's. You have nothing to explain when it comes to your personal lives and choices. You are a sweetheart, you seem to have a firm grip on reality and a very acute understanding on the way men think about most (if not all) subjects. Please keep on trying to educate women because I sure think it helps in the long run.
Nobody's life is perfect, and as humans we do mistakes. The difference is what we do next, if we learn from them or not.
Personally I follow you 'cause I find your contents entertaining and I believe you are a genuine person.
Right on good for you that's amazing. You deserve it 👍👍🇨🇦
Emily, thank you for doing what you do. Thank you.
We know you love us as much as we love you my dear...don't let those mean old trolls and the bullshit drama suck you in, we need your knowledge, opinions and input! Good luck moving darlin, even if it's across the street you still have the pack all the crap...I'm about to move myself ...UGH! and at 54 I've got myself down to about 8 boxes..LOL
You have been straight up with your personal life. Don't pay this any attention because it's not important. Good luck with the move. I'll miss the NuTone intercom panel.
Social media makes you believe that you have to justify everything you do. Your true followers don't believe that. The content you put out stands on its own. For myself, I form my opinion upon what the content creator says and seems to believe. You're one of my favorites, stop justifying yourself.
Thanks for the transparency! I’ve started asking dates if they have watched Emily King. It’s a big green flag if they have without getting angry or defensive 😂❤
Hurray! The paintings on the wall are gone! I have OCD and when watching your videos in this room, I heard about half of what you said, because I kept looking at the uneven paintings on the wall and wondering, "How can she be doing a video when those paintings aren't level with each other?" It drove me nuts! Now, lets talk about the bed spread and how the closet is arranged...
My mother always says that a change is as good as a holiday. Enjoy your holiday
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To Emily: 4 years is absolutely not too short of a time. You are not doing anything wrong here. You found new love, have a precious baby together, moving into a new home and getting married. No wrong doing with any of this, no negative, only positive. You are amazing and deserving of the happiness and love in your life.
To the negative commenter : Please comment on the following ;
When my wife bailed out on me and our 3 children and our debt, she was in a new relationship within a few months. If a few years is too short of a time, where does a few months sit with you? Your comments about Emily are so off-base that you can't even see the baseball diamond from where you're at.
Wishing you and yours all the luck in the whole . But I will say your man is already lucky cause he has you .
What is it you want to know ?
Ms. King, one cannot persist as a balanced person in this line of work without a serious ability to ground yourself, along with an inability to see anything but the reality in life and of life. You're quite obviously fine because you're relaxed enough so the self-reflection (you poor girls with that constant background chatter ... how annoying) is accurate and, as a result, you always make sense.
On behalf of gentlemen everywhere, please carry on.
I don’t see any red flags in your situation. Ignore the D-bag and keep on doing what ya do! Love ya Em
Em , Is someone trying to hi-jack your ID?
Thank you, Emily!
No kidding, from upstate new york! We live almost about as far north in new york state as you can go : ) Hello fellow new yorker. Very much enjoy your content.
I always liked your videos you always make perfect sense I do like the updates that's amazing I also live in upstate New York
Before you move out you have to use the intercom in a video! (Provided it works, but I think you mentioned it did.)