Some men just like the “chasing a girl” period. Once they have her the excitement dies off because he already has her. Safari is a prime example of those type of men! Its really sad because thats the example he’s setting for his child!! The fact that he didn’t know how much work a kid requires is dumb AF! Like you grown how the hell did you not know 🙄
Foreal that was the most immature response EVER. That conversation was sooo cringey. But tbh that was all a front because Erica is right. You need to be MATURE enough to deal with your stuff. I dunno... looks like being in front if the cameras has stunted his growth. Cah he stuck at being in his teens.
I definitely think he's a man child 🙄 his whole lifestyle is a rap video. The unfortunate part is now you have TWO kids that are supposed to learn from you , a boy and a girl. Obviously Erica maybe (idk) didn't ask the right questions I think she was more in love because he was willing to do life with her and no one we've seen her with publicly has done that. She already had a child so we already have a good idea she should've triple checked his head space on adulting in general. Just my opinion. I hope whatever needs to happen for the babies should be what it is.
I noticed this when he was with Nikki Baby and tried to get with JuJu. They knew the type of person that he was and they wanted no parts of it. Him being with certain women is a status symbol for him. He doesn’t want to actually put in the work and be in a real relationship. This is what happens when you rush to get married and ignore the issues that are there.
Imagine chasing down a woman and after all he tried everything she gives him a chance and he’s not ready for what he promise. To all my ladies and dudes don’t get marry or have kids if you aren’t ready or for commitment.
Men like this like all the fun stuff like planning for a baby, thinking of names, buying stuff, same with wedding planning and then don’t actually realize HOW HARD ALL OF IT IS to maintain. If like babies but don’t want one, babysit. If you like weddings but aren’t sure about getting married, don’t propose to someone.🤷🏾♀️
And to many times the guy THINKS HE'S READY so he proposes or have a baby and then not able to go through the storm..these men need to stop running or giving up just because things aren't" the way the use to be" before all of the real responsibility..if you loved her then, love her enough to try..esp when it's kids involved..flames always burn out..let love, patience, compassion and understanding bring it back..no matter how often you have to keep pressing the reset button..if it's no violence, abuse or cheating, then TRY!!
The problem here is Erika, she has too much anger and she's used to getting her way. Nobody wants to deal with her attitude. Most father love their children, they don't leave the children, they leave the mother. Ask yourself, why can't Erika keep a man ?
@@Lyntastic7 These men out here need that because or else this happens. He needs to know better and respect the mother of his child. Unfortunately is a-little to late for them
@tq231442 Haha yeah right. Bambi put up with SO MUCH from Scrappy before they got married, and all she could show was her utter desperation for a ring!
@tq231442 No, she took him back the second he produced a ring. Even though none of the past issues hadn't actually gone away, she snapped him straight back up knowing what he was like when he got a ring
It is very annoying how Safaree can't see how his actions affect other people. Having a baby was ALWAYS going to be a lot of work, and if you can't handle it then you ask the people you love for help, not take it out on them.
@@aldosanchez374 at the end of the day a women can play all she wants until she gets pregnant and she’s trapped..men can really just turn around and leave like nothing happened.
Did y'all see that vein in Erica's forehead? I know she wanted to lose it but she remembered that she was pregnant so tried to keep calm. Safaree is a 40 yr old child!!!!
It makes so sad her baby was or is in the NICU, when you’re pregnant, you don’t need the added stress or someone making you feel sad. I hope she can move on for her and her children.
I was real confused cause before that she was drinking wine with Sierra and Bam it made me feel like we didn't know she was pregnant and in the trailer she told him when she was 6 months 😳 I'm wondering if she knew she was pregnant and kept it from him until
I feel bad for Erica and I would've did the same shit Erica did I feel bad for her because she's actually trying in this relationship ..I wish her the best and blessings for her and her beautiful children 💕💕💕💕
"You're so dramatic." "We're definitely not a team ..." "You need to talk to somebody and just need to figure your shit out. " "Get over it." Man. I know that had to cut. When you're hurt and tryna talk and a man says all of this - it's a wrap. Umm, umm,ummm.
Yeah because my blood was boiling for her and she is not a favorite of mine... and knowing me...the get over it comment would have had him snatched and beat DF up and down 😏He would have gotten up feeling dizzy 🥴
Every time I see Safaree & Erica fighting, I think about that time Nicki told him his hair fell back out after his hair transplant bc God don't like ugly. She said Tyga went to the same doc & his didn't fall out. Yours did bc God don't like ugly
Nicki tried to tell y'all Safaree ain't shit, but nobody wanted to hear it. Lol. Safaree is about as trustworthy as that bad wig Sierra had on in the first clip. 😩
@@MarieAmicalola I had to take care of my much younger half brother at times, so I knew then that kids were a lot of work. I'm amazed that Safaree even said what he said.
Lmao I hope Safaree gets his karma in his relationship with his child. You’re gonna wish you had done all that “work” when your child resents you for being absent
I mean Think about it when a man cheats most women go back when a woman cheats sometimes they don’t go back now when a guy goes to jail that girl will hold him down if a woman goes to jail most of the time a man’s not gonna wait it’s the truth and BK is the first example of it
Bk needs to remember that his entire reality ‘career’ came from Sierra, so he needs to put respeck on her name. Why is he even on here? Poor Erica, she needs to accept that Safaree doesn’t love her. Her heart must be beyond broken but I hope she can find the strength to move on for her babies
Filing for a divorce was probably best..REAL anger and resentment was definitely setting in.. it's one thing to not get a long or have a rough spot in a marriage BUT he definitely acted as if he didn't care not Respect her or their marriage anymore..didn't even seem happy about the new baby on the way..he had no regards to this woman's emotional stability in such a vulnerable period.
@@sus-tw2ls I don't kno if he's not a gud father cos all I see is him posting baby girl on Instagram but I do see him going back n forth with a pregnant woman unnecessarily so... Some conversations can be closed with just an apology
That's what happens when the flesh is what brings you to someone. Fleshly desire eventually wear off. The foundation should always be a spiritual emotional bond not the physical.
I get the vibe safaree is abusive behind cameras but acts like a good man around others prime example what man or women doesn’t know children are work 😮💨 chille sit down
When a woman who is used to yelling to get her point across stops telling and just keeps her cool, that's a problem. She either feels defeated or she is about to blow up in ways that you can't imagine.
It’s Scrappy knowing his wife for me. Scrappy, “I would never be able to talk to Bam like that” “When my wife takes them mic off, it’s either we loving or somebody getting beat up and it ain’t gonna be her.” 😂
@@neonrays28 exactly lol she was originally a side chick lmfao than the way she treated rich when she dated him at times was down right foul so I'm with u she deserve that shit
I believe Erica is getting exactly what she deserves BUT YES, she does deserve love by a real man. For years, she's walked around thinking way too highly of herself, calling women fat, ugly, etc...slept with a married guy, assulted her own baby father, shi**ed on Cyn, like this girl had it coming. BK actually had a point @3:26
I really thought that Safaree is a cool, good guy but now it is discussing to see and hear what he's saying to his wife, after he was making all of them move to Erica, I am sure that his dad is so embarrassed to see his son is so disrespectful to his wife and woman, especially to his mom.
I am happy to see how Erica has grown and she is all about her family while safari is operating like a child he needs to grow up, he now have two kids who needs their dad
I’m 18 years old and when I think of the definition of romance in my opinion it you find somebody u love and what you do is you look for something that’s everlasting not no boyfriend ever lasting time we don’t need no free trial we need something everlasting don’t move in with each other wait until you’re married also wait until you’re married to have sex as well there’s a reason why they said there’s a reason why it’s in the Bible but people don’t believe in that and sometimes it Does work out if you do it the other way but most of the time it does it I don’t understand it maybe I’m different
BK’s reactions were so annoying. “You can make money from the studio tho” ...okayyy but money isnt the issue at hand stupid. Its the fact that Erica feels neglected and embarrassed by the way Safaree is treating her now. Thank the Lord that Sierra FINALLY let him go. Guys like him are nothing but trouble
I never had an issue with Safari until this season. He did all that to chase Erica just to treat her like shit when he got everything he "wanted". Erica has done some grimmy things to maybe its Karma but shit I wouldn't want the Karma to come from my love one but we have no control over that. He is childish and who didn't know a baby was a lot of work? The guy said why does she keep popping them out. Ummm clearly bc we throwing it back TOGETHER she not alone in the bed room lol. Scrappy had more common sense then them all lol. This show is my guilty pleasure.
@@Ennui83 well the things that she has done has not be done just once. If it was done once it was maybe a mistake but after the 1st time it's no longer a mistake and Erica has cheated on just about every partner she was with based on what the show has shown. Idk bc it its tv I only can go off what they show. I definitely agree on the safaree part lol
Her level of tolerance is on a whole-nother kind of kind cuz pregnant I would not have been sitting in that chair and listen to him nonchalantly address out marital issues like that. Talking about "get over it". When I tell you those chairs would have came flying...
the way BK and Scrappy were laughing and co-signing Safaree’s behavior makes them just as bad. The men never check each other even if someone is DEAD WRONG like Safaree. Laughing at Erica’s pain when she just put her guard down and had this man’s baby, and he treating her like a new toy he got tired of playing with. Then he tells her that she just needs to go and fix HER problems. Classic Narcissist behavior, never wanna own up to anything they’ve done wrong and will blame you for your reaction no matter how good or bad it is. Hate people like that
Yeah it really sad and what’s more sad is they have daughters I wonder what they would do if somebody did that to the daughter I wonder if they were cuz One thing I noticed is when a man treats a woman wrong they always end up having daughters and what happens they daughters get treated horribly so I Want to see them laugh and keep that same energy when this happens to their daughters
@@captainkrunch9243 You sound so ignorant. The people reacting to it are MEN. So, obviously they're gonna be talking about MEN. Like it's not that hard?
Safaree wasn't ready to get married and being a father. Being a husband and father is alot of work. I wish Erica Mena and Safaree all the best co parent their 2 children.
I don't think he was ready for either, to be honest. I have seen how annoying Erica can get bur the way Safaree spoke to her wasn't right. I hope they can find an amicable resolution to their problems as adults and parents to 2 beautiful babies.
I don't think safaree even like erica at this point,his whole demeanor and attitude toward her is just not that of a loving husband.That marriage sure went down quick,damn
Safaree's full of crap, in the first place, he plays too many games and she should have never married them in the first place. This internet is not real life ...that's all he is is about playing games.
I don’t like how none of the men are holding him accountable. I like how Sierra told Erica that THEY BOTH NEED TO GET OFF SOCIAL MEDIA... I just want someone to tell him in a serious tone sir you are fucked up for how you are treating your wife.
Trust and believe Safaree will eat all of his words when the divorce is final and he is on his 50th girlfriend because dealing with his own shit is too hard for him... Smh
I was bout to ask the same thing , I would even tell my bestfriend baby why your part like that . Makes the hair look like a wig that was put on to the side .
@@candirockstar135 He's dead wrong for that. I know he and Erica are on the outs, but he still has kids with her and he needs to hop on the 1st thing smoking to Hartsfield-Jackson and check on his son.
I used to really like Safaree, but after seeing how he moving.. all cool points gone. His Lil career will be next. I wish Erica and her kids nothing but the best with moving forward
Safaree was over it way before he told her..he was cold with very little eye contact and wasn't suffering emotionally at all. his mind was made up and I wouldn't be surprised if she knew this before the 2nd child..He's a cold dude!
@@dalvone284 Bingo! It's her demeanor & attitude that gets me. L&HH Atlanta is really switching up by showcasing female artists but now they need to get rid of Sierra since she has nothing to do with music & Karlie who finds any man to bring on the show(Lamar,Wtf!)
The fact that these guys were laughing and making a mockery of this woman's pain shows their mentality right there. Gosh I don't want to ever be in another relationship and have kids for no other man! This is the type of shit a lot of women go through on the daily
Scrappy has me dead with his re-enactment of this conversation 😂💀 His summation, "if my wife takes her mic off, either we loving or somebody gone get hurt and it ain't gone be her" #truth #dontplaywithbambi
In my opinion once a man or women cheats in the relationship it’s over. There would be no point in getting back together or staying together because every time you have a fight that’s the first thing they’ll bring up. Especially some people find out their spouse cheats then they cheat back instead of just breaking up its a dumb game. Some people don’t mind giving a third, fourth and fifth chance, Rasheeda, but that’s besides the point. I don’t think cheating is a mistake it’s a decision. No one accidentally has relations with someone unless you were super drunk and someone took advantage of you or that type of scenario.
Now we can see why Nicky left his dry ass. Omg. The love and care part is definitely gone at this point and their relationship is over. “I didn’t say that” when she said its almost like you don’t wanna do life with me is avoiding saying the truth
I feel so much for erica because I'm in the same position in my relationship. A lot of men really aren't ready for commitment out here. They just want the fast life and think they can have the best of both worlds but no, families come with sacrifices. You can't have it all. But the joy you get from your family should outweigh any temporary pleasure. Unfortunately a lot of men can only see a couple steps in front of them and not the whole picture smh
I wish my husband would tell me to get over it, he bet be able to get over this divorce and me loving another! Cuz I ain’t fin to play that game my husband knows what time it is. He respects the hell out of me! I give him my entire self and love because he’s so dam amazing. I’ve been where Erica is and sis, it don’t get better sometimes you gotta walk away if he ain’t ready to be married he ain’t ready take your loss and use that as a learning curve! You guna be okay no matter what. You g out an entire army of supports behind you!
WHEN I SAY ERICA MENA HAS GROWN AND CHANGED. Instead of going back and forth with safaree and arguing with him, she decided to walk away. That shows a lot.
I've started to dislike Safaree after I've seen this scene 😐 and Bk and Scrappy in the confessional making fun of what's going on is bothering alot 🤦🏽♀️ aren't y'all mature grown men what's so funny?😐
Everyone keeps bringing up Erica’s past before she got married and I am sure he had a past too so idk why hers is being talked about now… she did it and that part was over when she got married to him… so let it go! I feel horrible for her to think his man loves you and wanted a life and family with you and then he just changes his mind! Her oldest child is a teenager and now she has two small children and will be a single mom again… I am pretty sure if she knew he would turn out to be this way she wouldn’t have made some of the choices she did! Seeing her marriage and family destroyed is just horrible!
*Time has got this covered. He’s going to have a face to face situation with his mortality and want to build a relationship with his kids who don’t know who he is. It’s him being 40 for me.*
I live for Scrappy’s reactions he gives me life ! They are thought and funny as hell !! That’s all ! Safari is Special ! His name is a vacation ! What is everyone else thinking 💭 he is a vacation, true to his name ! Can’t be bothered, will not be bothered ! 😆😆😂😅🤣he is classic ! I can relate ! I’m a female version of him ! We exist now you all know !! 💥 💥 💥
Some men just like the “chasing a girl” period. Once they have her the excitement dies off because he already has her. Safari is a prime example of those type of men!
Its really sad because thats the example he’s setting for his child!! The fact that he didn’t know how much work a kid requires is dumb AF! Like you grown how the hell did you not know 🙄
Foreal that was the most immature response EVER. That conversation was sooo cringey. But tbh that was all a front because Erica is right. You need to be MATURE enough to deal with your stuff. I dunno... looks like being in front if the cameras has stunted his growth. Cah he stuck at being in his teens.
@@meloney14 right! Is definitely a turn off to hear a “man” speak this way.
I definitely think he's a man child 🙄 his whole lifestyle is a rap video. The unfortunate part is now you have TWO kids that are supposed to learn from you , a boy and a girl. Obviously Erica maybe (idk) didn't ask the right questions I think she was more in love because he was willing to do life with her and no one we've seen her with publicly has done that. She already had a child so we already have a good idea she should've triple checked his head space on adulting in general. Just my opinion. I hope whatever needs to happen for the babies should be what it is.
I noticed this when he was with Nikki Baby and tried to get with JuJu. They knew the type of person that he was and they wanted no parts of it. Him being with certain women is a status symbol for him. He doesn’t want to actually put in the work and be in a real relationship. This is what happens when you rush to get married and ignore the issues that are there.
I went through the same thing as Erica with my ex. Some men love the chase the change once they win the prize
Imagine chasing down a woman and after all he tried everything she gives him a chance and he’s not ready for what he promise. To all my ladies and dudes don’t get marry or have kids if you aren’t ready or for commitment.
Men like this like all the fun stuff like planning for a baby, thinking of names, buying stuff, same with wedding planning and then don’t actually realize HOW HARD ALL OF IT IS to maintain. If like babies but don’t want one, babysit. If you like weddings but aren’t sure about getting married, don’t propose to someone.🤷🏾♀️
I'm a genuine fan of the guy but i agree why chase a woman so hard, get her then be like ehh not what I thought like wtff
And to many times the guy THINKS HE'S READY so he proposes or have a baby and then not able to go through the storm..these men need to stop running or giving up just because things aren't" the way the use to be" before all of the real responsibility..if you loved her then, love her enough to try..esp when it's kids involved..flames always burn out..let love, patience, compassion and understanding bring it back..no matter how often you have to keep pressing the reset button..if it's no violence, abuse or cheating, then TRY!!
The problem here is Erika, she has too much anger and she's used to getting her way. Nobody wants to deal with her attitude. Most father love their children, they don't leave the children, they leave the mother. Ask yourself, why can't Erika keep a man ?
💯💯
I love how scrappy admits that he could never get away with talking to Bambi like that. Kudos to him!
Scrappy's trained
@@Lyntastic7 These men out here need that because or else this happens. He needs to know better and respect the mother of his child. Unfortunately is a-little to late for them
@tq231442 Haha yeah right. Bambi put up with SO MUCH from Scrappy before they got married, and all she could show was her utter desperation for a ring!
@tq231442 No, she took him back the second he produced a ring. Even though none of the past issues hadn't actually gone away, she snapped him straight back up knowing what he was like when he got a ring
Exactly! Scrappy know what’s up! I told my husband I would’ve socked Safari right in the back of his head!!
Safaree is a damn child. He gaslighted her and flipped out back on her like she’s the only one that’s the problem.
Its because of the woman. She brought this out in him.
@@sus-tw2ls Yeah right. He is immature, he said himself he didn't know kids are a lot of work and marriage was a mistake, common now!
That's what Narcissist do best.
@@sus-tw2ls how😂😂 he did all of that to himself he’s been like that even when he was with Nicki but Nicki was smart enough to get out
@@sus-tw2ls he been like this before her . stop it.
It is very annoying how Safaree can't see how his actions affect other people. Having a baby was ALWAYS going to be a lot of work, and if you can't handle it then you ask the people you love for help, not take it out on them.
All I wanted to see was the old Erica in this moment. He's a real piece of shyt
@@tiffanykennedy9387 she loves him. He just doing this for views no wonde nicki left him he just wanted a come up
@@ladywed2699 no he wont step up again bec the first one he wasnt helping her do anything either
@@ladywed2699 Like pulling out is a reliable form of contraception though 😂
oki but why the hek is she proggo agen this is on her to
The way BK reacted to Safaree really scares me..men these days are just not it.
Can say the same about SOME women .
Agreed his comments was just out of place
@@aldosanchez374 ok but we not talking about women here are we? Be bitter somewhere else
@@aldosanchez374 at the end of the day a women can play all she wants until she gets pregnant and she’s trapped..men can really just turn around and leave like nothing happened.
@@Ms.PrettyMarie 😁😁lol im not bitter at all. And you might not be talking about women but iam . 😁
Bk’s “confessional” epilogue sounds better on mute
‼️‼️‼️ like he and safari clearly need to get together 🤷🏽♀️
😂😂😂😂
Girl it don’t even sound good on mute I’m tired of looking at him
He just reminds of Lames R mariahlyn's ex man, Soo corny and irritating 😫
And should
Did y'all see that vein in Erica's forehead? I know she wanted to lose it but she remembered that she was pregnant so tried to keep calm. Safaree is a 40 yr old child!!!!
It makes so sad her baby was or is in the NICU, when you’re pregnant, you don’t need the added stress or someone making you feel sad. I hope she can move on for her and her children.
I was real confused cause before that she was drinking wine with Sierra and Bam it made me feel like we didn't know she was pregnant and in the trailer she told him when she was 6 months 😳 I'm wondering if she knew she was pregnant and kept it from him until
Wait a minute he 40 years old 😳
@@kenyettawhitson5325 he just turned 40
@@ToyaTsubscribe damn and he acting like that smh
Erica has calmed down I remember when she would of slapped the crap out of him 😂
Right 😫😂
I feel bad for Erica and I would've did the same shit Erica did I feel bad for her because she's actually trying in this relationship ..I wish her the best and blessings for her and her beautiful children 💕💕💕💕
Ig having their daughter humbled her
More like super kicked his dumb ass
He'd deserve every bit of it.
"You're so dramatic."
"We're definitely not a team ..."
"You need to talk to somebody and just need to figure your shit out. "
"Get over it."
Man. I know that had to cut. When you're hurt and tryna talk and a man says all of this - it's a wrap. Umm, umm,ummm.
Yeah because my blood was boiling for her and she is not a favorite of mine... and knowing me...the get over it comment would have had him snatched and beat DF up and down 😏He would have gotten up feeling dizzy 🥴
@@nessajenean8705 Girl, yes! 😂😂 I would have been fumin'. I ain't feel bad for her though. 🤷♀️
Yeah I'm kind of thinking it's true what they say about a kid calming you down cuz I thought she was going to go in full Mena Mode
I have been there a few times and the first offender was my mother
Frfr, smh
Every time I see Safaree & Erica fighting, I think about that time Nicki told him his hair fell back out after his hair transplant bc God don't like ugly. She said Tyga went to the same doc & his didn't fall out. Yours did bc God don't like ugly
STOPP 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 when did Nicki say this!!!??
I remember that 😩😂😂
I didn't know she said that I was wondering how Tyga ended up in the mix though
🤣🤣🤣🤣😩sis thanks for the flashback now I gotta find that video
STOP 🤣🤣🤣
Nicki tried to tell y'all Safaree ain't shit, but nobody wanted to hear it. Lol. Safaree is about as trustworthy as that bad wig Sierra had on in the first clip. 😩
I hollered seeing this comment chile 😂🤣
I been saying that wig is TERR-I-BLE
It’s that part for me. It’s leaning too far to the left. Lol 😂🤣
The struggle!! Lol
😂😂😂😂Yesss that shit is a mess
😁😄😄😄😄😄😄😄😄
WHO....DOESNT... KNOW THAT HAVING CHILDREN....IS ALOT OF WORK?!?!? Every adult WORTH THEIR SAULT knows this!!!
Shiiit even older children who help take care of younger siblings know.
@@MarieAmicalola thank you, smh
I have heard that my wholeeee life 😭😭 it sounds crazy for him to say that so confidently
It’s a thing where you can hear it but only until you experience it will you actually know.
@@MarieAmicalola I had to take care of my much younger half brother at times, so I knew then that kids were a lot of work. I'm amazed that Safaree even said what he said.
Why Sierra have her ‘middle part’ wig on as a side part 😆. They let her film like that 🤭
Omggg that's where I was in my life and u said it...that part sus...that fucking part #literally
I thought it was a new style 🤷🏾♀️🤣🤣
I swear I couldn't focus on what she said cos Im looking and wondering bout her wig🤦🏾
And it's so far to the side. It was distracting
Her part is almost by her ear
You chase her down, make her fall for you, but you act like a jerk when the novelty wears off. The games! The games! The games! (In Kand’s voice).
Men 'move on', while still In a relationship, Sierra waited til after yet somehow She's the villain. Men & their double standards. Smdh
Lmfaoo because she didn’t wait she was doing her dirt too lol don’t forget the condoms and text printouts
She didn't move on afterwards. You really think she met Eric 2 months after and immediately started hopping on international trips?
@@iliketotroll250 can you blame her though? He been cheating since day 1 I have zero sympathy for him
@@Azia26 I’m just stating there’s no double standard here 😭 they both cheated
She was cheating while she was still in a relationship according to bk.
Lmao I hope Safaree gets his karma in his relationship with his child. You’re gonna wish you had done all that “work” when your child resents you for being absent
but why the hek get another one
Say it louder for those in the back🗣🗣
The sad part is I don't truly even know if he would care
Safari and Ray J are kids who don't need to be married. Marriage is for grown ups period
Mhm.🙄
Funny how he talks about her moving on to fast but cheated throughout the relationship
Typical lol.
I just stopped by to say "what's up" to another Jazzy ✌🏿
I mean Think about it when a man cheats most women go back when a woman cheats sometimes they don’t go back now when a guy goes to jail that girl will hold him down if a woman goes to jail most of the time a man’s not gonna wait it’s the truth and BK is the first example of it
@@OGJazzyB just saw this wassup 🤪
@@brown_skin_lover_queen5790 when a men go to jail a lot of women cheat.
Bruh…….. Safaree is the definition of UNBOTHERED😂😂😂😂😂 Scrappy said I would never be able to say that to Bam! He knew! 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Scrappy not lying
He treated Erica worst.
And Erica is the boom!!
Ssffaree is a child
I promise safaree is the most unbothered person I know. I don't know if that's a good thing or bad thing💁🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Bam would eat him up for dinner
Bk needs to remember that his entire reality ‘career’ came from Sierra, so he needs to put respeck on her name. Why is he even on here? Poor Erica, she needs to accept that Safaree doesn’t love her. Her heart must be beyond broken but I hope she can find the strength to move on for her babies
I been knew Safaree and Erica relationship was gonna be toxic..
Even when they were lovey”d up in Jamaica lol?
🤔right🥱😂😂
Good thing Nicki ran for the hills on that one.
You mean Nicki and Nikki (or the N.M. club, wow Safaree dated two people with the same initials consecutively).
He would have stayed. She’s his true love
@@JacqlynCharles lol
It's not like she did so much better.
And married a sex offender 🤣
Filing for a divorce was probably best..REAL anger and resentment was definitely setting in.. it's one thing to not get a long or have a rough spot in a marriage BUT he definitely acted as if he didn't care not Respect her or their marriage anymore..didn't even seem happy about the new baby on the way..he had no regards to this woman's emotional stability in such a vulnerable period.
It’s SCARY to me how much he switched up after realizing that marriage and kids wasn’t everything he imagined it would be.
@@camdenhunt7565 yeesssss!!!! It definitely was an eye opener.
Am I the only one who thinks he did that just to have something after Nikki ?
@@Omgnotagain Hmmm 🤔
Divorce is not always the best decision we can work sum out if we can
Erica wanted to hear Safaree apologize.. He should've, for the sake of the pregnancy
He don't have to apologize to her. Atp he just needs to be a better father.
@@sus-tw2ls I don't kno if he's not a gud father cos all I see is him posting baby girl on Instagram but I do see him going back n forth with a pregnant woman unnecessarily so... Some conversations can be closed with just an apology
@@thevillagemakoti1665
Not if he has nothing to apologize for. Toxic people don't get a pass just cause they're pregnant.
Safaree is in Jamaica right now partying while their child is in the NICU he has serious issues and toxic AF
He didn't know she was pregnant
The way Scrappy said he'd never be able to say that to Bam 🤣🤣
Safaree been chasing Erica for years get his shot and does this
That's what happens when the flesh is what brings you to someone. Fleshly desire eventually wear off. The foundation should always be a spiritual emotional bond not the physical.
@@captainkrunch9243 THIS !!
That’s whAt they do not the ones who knows what they have tho
@@captainkrunch9243 Man.....you better say that
@@captainkrunch9243 Amen 🙏🏾❤️
I get the vibe safaree is abusive behind cameras but acts like a good man around others prime example what man or women doesn’t know children are work 😮💨 chille sit down
Erica is abusive ijs and trust if he was she would of wasted no time telling us she can't help herself she would of most definitely said something
Why does Scrappy copy Erica like that😭😭🤣🤣🤣
They both got big teeth 🥴
Scrappy is so funny😂😂😂😂
It was hilarious 🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂😂😂😂 I had me straight hollering lmao
💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀💀
Old Erica ,would have yell on his face and throw stuff, she's really matured now! Safaree just irks me!
Yeah old Erica would have slapped that men in his face
Either she's matured or he's killed her spirit.
Definitely not mature. Shawty just stuck with him so she gotta play nice cuz of the kids
When a woman who is used to yelling to get her point across stops telling and just keeps her cool, that's a problem. She either feels defeated or she is about to blow up in ways that you can't imagine.
She's done that over and over already. He doesn't like how she gets mad. They need to just coparent and go separate ways.
Who idea was it to give BK a speaking role??
This 💯
It’s Scrappy knowing his wife for me.
Scrappy, “I would never be able to talk to Bam like that”
“When my wife takes them mic off, it’s either we loving or somebody getting beat up and it ain’t gonna be her.” 😂
He look wipped and scared at the same time
I actually love Scrappy and The Bam. Safaree is 🗑
@@Love-dc5tq he definitely is
😂😂😂
Safaree wasn’t ready to settle down and you can clearly see that Erica deserves better
Erica doesn't deserve anything.
Does Erica deserve better? Consider it her karma he's just matching her energy.
@@neonrays28 exactly lol she was originally a side chick lmfao than the way she treated rich when she dated him at times was down right foul so I'm with u she deserve that shit
I believe Erica is getting exactly what she deserves BUT YES, she does deserve love by a real man. For years, she's walked around thinking way too highly of herself, calling women fat, ugly, etc...slept with a married guy, assulted her own baby father, shi**ed on Cyn, like this girl had it coming. BK actually had a point @3:26
@@Handlemenice LMAOO
BK sounding like a bitter little boy who’s mama just told him no
Sierra needs to stop with all this work she's getting done. She's looking crazier, you can barely see her eyes
Fr 😂😂😂
Omg😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
She looks like a 👻
She’s looks a mess
She's needs a new storyline 🙄 she's boring 😴and that wig!
I really thought that Safaree is a cool, good guy but now it is discussing to see and hear what he's saying to his wife, after he was making all of them move to Erica, I am sure that his dad is so embarrassed to see his son is so disrespectful to his wife and woman, especially to his mom.
Disgusting
And me 2. He was probably influenced by the fame
I am happy to see how Erica has grown and she is all about her family while safari is operating like a child he needs to grow up, he now have two kids who needs their dad
I wish Eric’s would’ve grown sooner because she was already a mother when she started LHH.
@@jademitchll3964 facts!!! The wtf…
You spell his name wrong it safara
@@mrs.camillewarrenempress3115 what are you talking about his name is safari
@@phoebethompson1780 safaree
So we're just not going to address Sierra and that part 👀
🤣🤣😂
Yesssssssssssss!!!!!!! 😱
I thought my eyes was seeing thangs
Cringeeeee
How is she a hair stylist then walking around in these streets like that
America romanticises having kids. Then when people have them they get a dose of reality. Kids are a lot of work.
Yes they are
I’m 18 years old and when I think of the definition of romance in my opinion it you find somebody u love and what you do is you look for something that’s everlasting not no boyfriend ever lasting time we don’t need no free trial we need something everlasting don’t move in with each other wait until you’re married also wait until you’re married to have sex as well there’s a reason why they said there’s a reason why it’s in the Bible but people don’t believe in that and sometimes it Does work out if you do it the other way but most of the time it does it I don’t understand it maybe I’m different
Absolutely 💯
Men are just as much WORK can I get a witness oh forget ion need ANY😂😂
Good thing kids have 2 PARENTS HUH 🤔
Scrappy making fun of Erica Mena face expressions were EVERYTHING 😂
BK’s reactions were so annoying. “You can make money from the studio tho” ...okayyy but money isnt the issue at hand stupid. Its the fact that Erica feels neglected and embarrassed by the way Safaree is treating her now. Thank the Lord that Sierra FINALLY let him go. Guys like him are nothing but trouble
I never had an issue with Safari until this season. He did all that to chase Erica just to treat her like shit when he got everything he "wanted". Erica has done some grimmy things to maybe its Karma but shit I wouldn't want the Karma to come from my love one but we have no control over that. He is childish and who didn't know a baby was a lot of work? The guy said why does she keep popping them out. Ummm clearly bc we throwing it back TOGETHER she not alone in the bed room lol. Scrappy had more common sense then them all lol. This show is my guilty pleasure.
I was just thinking, I don't feel bad because it might be karma. But her maturity, I love to see it cause the old her woulda popped off!!
@@Ennui83 well the things that she has done has not be done just once. If it was done once it was maybe a mistake but after the 1st time it's no longer a mistake and Erica has cheated on just about every partner she was with based on what the show has shown. Idk bc it its tv I only can go off what they show. I definitely agree on the safaree part lol
Erica has been through hell with these industry men
They been through hell too she was abusive toward them
@@lovelytt5409 not all of them let's keep it 💯 there where times she did people dirty & there where times where people did her worse
Bad is bad it does not matter who did who the worse
Sierraaaa that wig is not it 💀 that part is not itttttt
Safaree is disgusting for this. And I hope BK gets some sense knocked into him cuz they both the definition of toxic
The way Bk and scrappy are laughing about this 🤦♀️
I wonder if they will laugh if somebody did this to their daughter like I want to see them keep that same energy
Erica’s grown a lot. The the past she would have put those paws on Safaree when he said “get over it”
Her level of tolerance is on a whole-nother kind of kind cuz pregnant I would not have been sitting in that chair and listen to him nonchalantly address out marital issues like that. Talking about "get over it". When I tell you those chairs would have came flying...
the way BK and Scrappy were laughing and co-signing Safaree’s behavior makes them just as bad. The men never check each other even if someone is DEAD WRONG like Safaree. Laughing at Erica’s pain when she just put her guard down and had this man’s baby, and he treating her like a new toy he got tired of playing with.
Then he tells her that she just needs to go and fix HER problems. Classic Narcissist behavior, never wanna own up to anything they’ve done wrong and will blame you for your reaction no matter how good or bad it is. Hate people like that
Yeah it really sad and what’s more sad is they have daughters I wonder what they would do if somebody did that to the daughter I wonder if they were cuz One thing I noticed is when a man treats a woman wrong they always end up having daughters and what happens they daughters get treated horribly so I Want to see them laugh and keep that same energy when this happens to their daughters
Women don't hold each other accountable either.
@@captainkrunch9243 some do and some don’t. a lot do. but right now we’re talking about the men in this video, don’t try to flip this on all women
@@radarada4036 just like women some men do some don't, you trying to make it a men issue when it's a people issue.
@@captainkrunch9243 You sound so ignorant. The people reacting to it are MEN. So, obviously they're gonna be talking about MEN. Like it's not that hard?
Safaree wasn't ready to get married and being a father. Being a husband and father is alot of work. I wish Erica Mena and Safaree all the best co parent their 2 children.
i remember he cry on wedding day
I don't think he was ready for either, to be honest.
I have seen how annoying Erica can get bur the way Safaree spoke to her wasn't right.
I hope they can find an amicable resolution to their problems as adults and parents to 2 beautiful babies.
I hope Erica gains the strength to leave Safaree and never speak to him again
Safaree is gay and very childish. He needs to grow up and walk in his truth. He ignorant.
Anytime another man says ..that's cold..its prettybad
No its not scrappy is a simp and doesn't wanna get beat up like Safaree is in these comments
I love Sierra! But she is looking more and more like a mannequin!!!
3:55 Scrappy Nailed That Face She was Making 😭😂🙈
Weak 🤣🤣
the fact that he's not even there to be with his child that's currently in NICU and console his wife, speaks volumes
I don't think safaree even like erica at this point,his whole demeanor and attitude toward her is just not that of a loving husband.That marriage sure went down quick,damn
And that's my point do people think he got that way over night? After we know how he was about her and all of sudden it changed ah no
When a man is done! That’s how they act. It was only a matter of time… He was inlove with Erika once upon a time
For the first time, I actually agree with Erica. I feel so bad for her
I don't feel bad for her but Safaree is wrong though.
This is my first time watching it ERICA I FEEL BAD FOR HER NEVER AGREE WITH THIS AT ALL
@@blacknbougie8021 BUT SAFAREE NEVER GOING THOU INSADE HAS HEART ABOUT HAS GRIL ERICA HES NEED CLEN HAS MASS UP
Please replace Bk with Joc🙄. We dont need him
Safaree's full of crap, in the first place, he plays too many games and she should have never married them in the first place. This internet is not real life ...that's all he is is about playing games.
I don’t like how none of the men are holding him accountable. I like how Sierra told Erica that THEY BOTH NEED TO GET OFF SOCIAL MEDIA... I just want someone to tell him in a serious tone sir you are fucked up for how you are treating your wife.
Trust and believe Safaree will eat all of his words when the divorce is final and he is on his 50th girlfriend because dealing with his own shit is too hard for him... Smh
How does Sierra’s part go down to her ears? Y’all gotta stop letting Tyler Perry production hair set y’all y’all. They made her look like a muppet.
I was bout to ask the same thing , I would even tell my bestfriend baby why your part like that . Makes the hair look like a wig that was put on to the side .
LoL 😂😂😂
I’m glad I’m not the only one that finds her hair to be disturbing and uncomfortable to look at
She must have pawned all the mirrors in her house too
@@franklinmaputla281 😂😂😂or something . Maybe it’s cute to her . If she likes it I love it . It’s her head at the end of the day
I hope Safaree is acting like this for the show cause I'd not he's a 🤡🤛
Nah fact he out in jamaica pop locking while his preemie son is fighting for his life prove he DGAF.
@@candirockstar135 He's dead wrong for that. I know he and Erica are on the outs, but he still has kids with her and he needs to hop on the 1st thing smoking to Hartsfield-Jackson and check on his son.
I never really been a fan of mena but I can honestly say she has matured! The old Erica would of set him on fire!
Erica has really matured I’m so proud of her🥺
She was trying so hard not to go off This situation deserved a going off !!!🤬🤬🤬
these men reacting are so immature & they’re pushing 40! scary
Erica: You asked for my hand in marriage, you asked for these kids and this life.
Safaree: looking like Ummm No you forced it🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
😂 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The problem is Erica loves Safaree too much. He was meant to be her Prince Charming. Safarees needs counselling!
I used to really like Safaree, but after seeing how he moving.. all cool points gone. His Lil career will be next. I wish Erica and her kids nothing but the best with moving forward
Sierra shift the wigggggg! Please! Or Take it off cause girl.
Safaree was over it way before he told her..he was cold with very little eye contact and wasn't suffering emotionally at all. his mind was made up and I wouldn't be surprised if she knew this before the 2nd child..He's a cold dude!
Sierra does hair therefore she is her own walking advertisement for her salon. It's time she goes into early retirement with these Tyler Perry wigs.
She looks terrible and her demeanor is even worst
@@dalvone284 Bingo! It's her demeanor & attitude that gets me. L&HH Atlanta is really switching up by showcasing female artists but now they need to get rid of Sierra since she has nothing to do with music & Karlie who finds any man to bring on the show(Lamar,Wtf!)
Safaree Face reaction is Just everything 😂🤣 LMFAOAOAO his funny af.
4:02 I played this 4 times and laughed as if Bernie Mac said it himself
Bk: "damn girl you move on quick".
😂😂
Big mad really
The fact that these guys were laughing and making a mockery of this woman's pain shows their mentality right there. Gosh I don't want to ever be in another relationship and have kids for no other man! This is the type of shit a lot of women go through on the daily
Scrappy has me dead with his re-enactment of this conversation 😂💀 His summation, "if my wife takes her mic off, either we loving or somebody gone get hurt and it ain't gone be her" #truth #dontplaywithbambi
Scrappy, say that shit in front of Erica or to her face 😂😭 I double dare you lmao he's such a comedian
🤣🤣🤣
In my opinion once a man or women cheats in the relationship it’s over. There would be no point in getting back together or staying together because every time you have a fight that’s the first thing they’ll bring up. Especially some people find out their spouse cheats then they cheat back instead of just breaking up its a dumb game. Some people don’t mind giving a third, fourth and fifth chance, Rasheeda, but that’s besides the point. I don’t think cheating is a mistake it’s a decision. No one accidentally has relations with someone unless you were super drunk and someone took advantage of you or that type of scenario.
You spoke straight facts in this comment
How you pawn his fake ass ring to get real diamonds I swear Sierra sound slow..
I wonder who is gonna put up with Bk , like he’s a joke from his reaction to Erica’s scene.
Millions of women are attracted to toxic men like that.
I hope Erica take him for everything he got. 😘
That's been the plan all along 😒
Now we can see why Nicky left his dry ass. Omg. The love and care part is definitely gone at this point and their relationship is over. “I didn’t say that” when she said its almost like you don’t wanna do life with me is avoiding saying the truth
Scrappy imitating Erica's facial expressions 🤣🤣
I feel so much for erica because I'm in the same position in my relationship. A lot of men really aren't ready for commitment out here. They just want the fast life and think they can have the best of both worlds but no, families come with sacrifices. You can't have it all. But the joy you get from your family should outweigh any temporary pleasure. Unfortunately a lot of men can only see a couple steps in front of them and not the whole picture smh
I wish my husband would tell me to get over it, he bet be able to get over this divorce and me loving another! Cuz I ain’t fin to play that game my husband knows what time it is. He respects the hell out of me! I give him my entire self and love because he’s so dam amazing. I’ve been where Erica is and sis, it don’t get better sometimes you gotta walk away if he ain’t ready to be married he ain’t ready take your loss and use that as a learning curve! You guna be okay no matter what. You g out an entire army of supports behind you!
Sierra and BK are both toxic periodtt🤣🤣🤣
0:23 @thewig
😂😂😂😂I was like,
"Her best friend isn't her friend. She is her 'yes man', so she can get the benefits."
She didn't even tell her😩
Scrappy should have his own commentary cause he the best lol
I think so too
1000% agree 😅🤣😂
WHEN I SAY ERICA MENA HAS GROWN AND CHANGED. Instead of going back and forth with safaree and arguing with him, she decided to walk away. That shows a lot.
I've started to dislike Safaree after I've seen this scene 😐 and Bk and Scrappy in the confessional making fun of what's going on is bothering alot 🤦🏽♀️ aren't y'all mature grown men what's so funny?😐
And if I’m not mistaken Scrappy has two daughters laughing at this stuff
4:03 SCRAPPY STOPPP🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂
I don’t understand why BK’s sweet behind is still on this show.
Everyone keeps bringing up Erica’s past before she got married and I am sure he had a past too so idk why hers is being talked about now… she did it and that part was over when she got married to him… so let it go! I feel horrible for her to think his man loves you and wanted a life and family with you and then he just changes his mind! Her oldest child is a teenager and now she has two small children and will be a single mom again… I am pretty sure if she knew he would turn out to be this way she wouldn’t have made some of the choices she did! Seeing her marriage and family destroyed is just horrible!
Now I see why Nicki never claimed him he’s for the streets
*Time has got this covered. He’s going to have a face to face situation with his mortality and want to build a relationship with his kids who don’t know who he is. It’s him being 40 for me.*
I live for Scrappy’s reactions he gives me life ! They are thought and funny as hell !! That’s all ! Safari is Special ! His name is a vacation ! What is everyone else thinking 💭 he is a vacation, true to his name ! Can’t be bothered, will not be bothered ! 😆😆😂😅🤣he is classic ! I can relate ! I’m a female version of him ! We exist now you all know !! 💥 💥 💥
BK is the most immature man I've seen ..somebody put his part on mute 🤐
Scrappy and his facial impression of Erica is priceless. I've watched so many times for a laugh 😂😂😂😂