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  • Опубликовано: 10 дек 2024
  • It's the month of LOVE and Louie has a Valentine! We give our own advice to YOUR juicy questions about red flags, icks, and watching porn when you're in a relationship. Louie and Yoatzi discuss standards and boundaries, and Yoatzi opens up about being cheated on by an ex.
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Комментарии • 229

  • @areynoso
    @areynoso 10 месяцев назад +274

    “Liberty and justice for all” 😭😂😂😂

  • @desirayiniguez
    @desirayiniguez 10 месяцев назад +286

    You guys have no idea the excitement I get EVERY thursday when a new episode of PNS comes out! Love you guys and thank you for always keeping me entertained 🩷💜

    • @Arreola0816
      @Arreola0816 10 месяцев назад +2

      Same I always see an episode and scream ITS THURSSDAYYY!! lol

    • @shadowshinobi29
      @shadowshinobi29 10 месяцев назад +1

      Hey cutie baby

    • @camilarosario8377
      @camilarosario8377 10 месяцев назад

      sameeeeeeee

    • @yessymartinez6503
      @yessymartinez6503 10 месяцев назад +1

      Same I love them 🥹🥹🥹

    • @ThatOnerascal
      @ThatOnerascal 10 месяцев назад

      Omg same!! I want to be invited to their party because I’ve been loyal since day ONEEEEUHHH 🤪💗💜

  • @Sofia-px3fs
    @Sofia-px3fs 10 месяцев назад +74

    These episodes never feel long enough 😭💔 love the commitment you guys have to post weekly 🩷

  • @kflores1639
    @kflores1639 10 месяцев назад +22

    Seeing someone get cheated on and seeing their confidence fade away is so heart breaking. My dad cheated on my mom for so many years and she finally had the strength to leave him and I can see her confidence come back little by little, but it’s been so hard to see her struggle and think poorly about herself. But little by little she’s healing ❤

  • @NessaL.00
    @NessaL.00 10 месяцев назад +48

    Not having a good relationship with the in laws is a deal breaker for me. I can’t be in a relationship with someone if I don’t have a good relationship with his family. I’d feel like it’d be too much tension for family gatherings. I’ve seen it with my siblings and their SO’s. I’m just glad I have a great relationship with my boyfriend’s family and love his family so much.

  • @aisaisbby
    @aisaisbby 10 месяцев назад +40

    I wanted to comment about the cheating advice I found out I was cheated on for over a year 2022 with my high school sweetheart, and we were married for 7 to 8 years and honestly the first couple months to a year it was really hard It is so hard today but I'm having more better days. in my opinion when you get betrayed like that with someone that you love and care for and you think that they love you and care for it's really hard to get over. Like Louie said, you shouldn't doubt yourself on your looks or appearance or thinking the worst of you. The person that cheats clearly has issues within themselves. And you should never put that blame on you. In my opinion getting a new hobby meeting new people making new friends helps a lot. Obviously it takes time and you want to make sure you love yourself before you think about talking to someone new. In my opinion, I don't believe once a cheater always a cheater I believe if a person really wants to change & grow up they won't cheat again. Focus on yourself and rebuild your confidence ❤

  • @happymochis
    @happymochis 10 месяцев назад +52

    I can’t believe it’s almost a year of PNS (in may) but still! I can’t believe it’s been that long I thought y’all started this in the fall 😂 still watching every episode and excited for more 🤗

  • @juarez9837
    @juarez9837 10 месяцев назад +23

    Yoatzis story about catching her ex in the shower had in me in tears 💀😭😭😭

  • @Asdfghj12345h
    @Asdfghj12345h 10 месяцев назад +25

    The perfect sibling podcast duo!!!
    You guys are seriously so funny together😂 separate too but together you guys are funnier 😂😂😂 love yall

  • @mariamondragon6975
    @mariamondragon6975 10 месяцев назад +6

    i love that y’all’s videos are always so raw🥹 ugh please don’t ever stop posting

    • @mariamondragon6975
      @mariamondragon6975 10 месяцев назад

      i literally wanna see yall as older people still posting these podcasts😭😭😂

  • @Kaassl
    @Kaassl 10 месяцев назад +13

    Longer podcasts 2024 please !!! Y’all are too funny 😂💜🩷

  • @lesliesilva2405
    @lesliesilva2405 10 месяцев назад +2

    37:15 I needed to hear this I’ve been going through the same issue where I question myself. I am in a place where I think differently and it’s been so hard for me mentally. Thank you guys for speaking on this ! I needed a way out in it’s not my fault that he cheated. I love you guyss 🥺❤️❤️

  • @angelalexis9445
    @angelalexis9445 10 месяцев назад +57

    I stopped looking at Valentine’s Day as a big deal and it’s helped so much with not feeling horrible and lonely once the day comes. Tbh ….i don’t think it should be a big deal anyway. I think love should be spread on the daily and if your man wanted to show his appreciation for you….he shouldn’t need to wait or only be doing it on V-day 🙃

    • @melissafernandez6191
      @melissafernandez6191 10 месяцев назад +4

      me when i’m a hater

    • @heidi05
      @heidi05 10 месяцев назад +11

      @@melissafernandez6191she’s not being a hater, she’s right. If you are only being treated good that day then it’s not worth being with someone like that. You should be treated great all year round!!!

    • @leslirosales3
      @leslirosales3 10 месяцев назад +1

      Girl you specking facts 🙏

    • @melissafernandez6191
      @melissafernandez6191 10 месяцев назад

      @@heidi05 its a joke girly pop

  • @vivivargas
    @vivivargas 10 месяцев назад +69

    8:04 the real story about San Valentine’s day is that there was this padrecito named Valentin in Rome, who would celebrate en secreto the marriage of los enamorados, whenever they found out what he was doing lo sentenciaron a muerte

    • @Ljemz23
      @Ljemz23 10 месяцев назад +4

      Yesss!!! Saint Valentine 🥹

    • @jocelynrodriguez9135
      @jocelynrodriguez9135 10 месяцев назад +1

      Omgg that's so sad 😭

    • @stephaniemuralles4029
      @stephaniemuralles4029 10 месяцев назад

      Every single Thursday I am so exited to watch your podcastttt I watch it after school or in class. It love you guys so proud of you

  • @vivivargas
    @vivivargas 10 месяцев назад +23

    I’m sick, feeling like a bus run over me but your podcast always brings me up 🫶🏻

    • @tionnalovell7519
      @tionnalovell7519 10 месяцев назад

      Same!! Hope you feel better soon 💜

  • @alyssaholguin7383
    @alyssaholguin7383 10 месяцев назад +17

    Yes I look forward to my Thursdays love this podcast 🤍

  • @hillarygalindo9755
    @hillarygalindo9755 10 месяцев назад +7

    i needed this 🥹 my ex baby daddy cheated on me twice. once while i was pregnant and two when we were together. and i’m still struggling to this day to see why he left me for someone else if i gave him everything. i lost the baby and he blocked me on everything so i just feel horrible. and this just confirmed that it wasn’t me, it was him being scared if commitment and as soon as the baby was gone he could leave me and go hoe around. Now i’m healing from all the hurt and trying to gain my light back 🤍

  • @CeciliaHernandez-pk1rh
    @CeciliaHernandez-pk1rh 10 месяцев назад +5

    Started my day horrible and to see a notification of y’all posting a new video made it much better ♥️ I love you guys !

  • @desireesandoval533
    @desireesandoval533 9 месяцев назад

    I just got out a bad relationship and you literally spoke to me Louie. I already started spooking myself with "dates" and I should look at it another way seeing it less of a date and just friends hanging out.

  • @MyKing500
    @MyKing500 10 месяцев назад +3

    I love you guys so much! Thank you so much for the laughs thank you for sharing everything. I hope I get to meet you guys one day that would be a blessing and my dream!

  • @RosalyOrozco
    @RosalyOrozco 10 месяцев назад +9

    Love hearing ur podcasts during my class

    • @letiAyon01
      @letiAyon01 10 месяцев назад

      Me at work 🫶🏻

  • @Arreola0816
    @Arreola0816 10 месяцев назад +3

    Also keep in mind when they cheated they weren’t thinking of you or how it would make you feel so they will do it again if you get back with them, that’s the sad reality, that person is just not ready for a serious relationship or if you’re married they aren’t committed to the marriage, period.

  • @sarahyguillen4501
    @sarahyguillen4501 10 месяцев назад +12

    watching this and seeing the recommended video underneath being Alex asking Yoatzi to be his valentine 🥹💗

  • @wendygarcia7050
    @wendygarcia7050 10 месяцев назад +2

    YESSSS ONE MORE EPISODE LIKE THIS !!!!!!😂❤❤❤

  • @minerva08
    @minerva08 10 месяцев назад +12

    no way 😂😂i had so much confidence in you spelling ‘advice’ right. come on now louie 😂😂

  • @karenbadillo_2183
    @karenbadillo_2183 10 месяцев назад +4

    🎉🎉🎉 best podcast !!! Perfect day for this episode to come out on my birthday today ❤❤❤❤
    I love it here 😊

  • @diana_torr
    @diana_torr 10 месяцев назад +1

    I really enjoyed this epi 😊. Please do more advice sessions!

  • @elenafernandez739
    @elenafernandez739 10 месяцев назад +9

    Yoatzi all the time saying "I don't know why they don't like me pinche pendeja " made me feel like deja vu there for a minute

  • @vanessag8865
    @vanessag8865 10 месяцев назад +7

    I missed y’all ❤ luv the decor!! Too cute

  • @Cat_the_fav
    @Cat_the_fav 10 месяцев назад +3

    Omgggg someone asked me to be there valentines and they made a whole poster that says will you be my valentine with a card that says ily. It was so cute ❤😂. I also love you guys too I thank you for your advice ❤ and I also love the way yoatzi said Louie is engaged 😂😂

  • @c4t3yg1rl
    @c4t3yg1rl 10 месяцев назад +2

    Listening to this during my lecture 😏😏🫶🏻🫶🏻

  • @Karina381000
    @Karina381000 10 месяцев назад +4

    Perfect timing! Love watching the podcast on my lunch break! 🫶🏼💖💜

  • @marissahernandez1015
    @marissahernandez1015 10 месяцев назад +3

    watching this on my birthday... I LOVE YALL

    • @noname-tr1rq
      @noname-tr1rq 10 месяцев назад

      Happy birthday ‼️🙏🏽

  • @chelseydavila6257
    @chelseydavila6257 9 месяцев назад +1

    Yoatzi looks all like her mom when she’s smiling to the side🤭

  • @patriciacasillas4440
    @patriciacasillas4440 9 месяцев назад

    Louie you give great advice, I love how you explain your responses. You seem more mature than your sis, for real.

  • @yisselleh.f7579
    @yisselleh.f7579 10 месяцев назад +1

    you guys are part of my afterschool thursday ritual ♥️♥️ I LOVE YALLLLL

  • @zuleimaperez5328
    @zuleimaperez5328 10 месяцев назад +4

    Tengo gripa you Guys,, and just listening to you guys makes me feel so much better ❤

  • @saywhatsonyourmind
    @saywhatsonyourmind 10 месяцев назад +1

    Y’all always come in clutch! I work with jente de tercer edad y me paso el tiempo listening to your pod cast! Gets me through work in a good mood! ❤🎉😊

  • @MOMba247
    @MOMba247 10 месяцев назад +4

    Omg y'all about to make me walk out of work to go watch this in my car 😂😂😂😂 love y'all! Best part of my Thursdays! ❤

  • @jazminparra30
    @jazminparra30 10 месяцев назад +5

    pretty not smart makes my thursdays feel like a mini friday🥰

  • @paulinerey4559
    @paulinerey4559 10 месяцев назад +2

    I waited 9years before I started dating my now husband. Of course as a single mom and coming out of an abusive relationship i took my time before dating of course i had my booty calls strickly booty calls. And it was the most happiest time i had before i dated my now husband married him two years later and have a son and now been together 13yrs. So enjoy life😘

  • @itsalooo
    @itsalooo 10 месяцев назад +1

    Im always looking forward to new episodes 🫶🏻🩷💜

  • @quetzallitrejo7747
    @quetzallitrejo7747 10 месяцев назад +1

    I love watching your podcast on Thursdays that’s what I always look forward to once I wake up I go straight to your podcast to watch ittt I love you guys YALL are so funny

  • @leeanaemontoya5982
    @leeanaemontoya5982 10 месяцев назад +1

    You both gave great advice!! ❤

  • @kimberlyygarciaa2711
    @kimberlyygarciaa2711 10 месяцев назад +5

    I left Spotify to come see how yoatzi decorated 😂❤

  • @jesssssss444
    @jesssssss444 10 месяцев назад +25

    Can we talk about yoatzi cheating ? I want ALL the chisme si no nada lol

    • @J199.
      @J199. 9 месяцев назад

      mhum👀

  • @AlejandraJana28
    @AlejandraJana28 10 месяцев назад

    Blessed for your friends and family for making your Valentine day happy

  • @aracelyperez6562
    @aracelyperez6562 10 месяцев назад +10

    Clicked super quick when the notification popped up 😭❤️love y’all

  • @karynamartinez03
    @karynamartinez03 10 месяцев назад +1

    Love the setup!!!!😍🥰🫶🏼

  • @tionnalovell7519
    @tionnalovell7519 10 месяцев назад +2

    I was bored then remembered it’s PNS DAYYY 💜💗💜💗💜💜💗

  • @jg-fl7xr
    @jg-fl7xr 6 месяцев назад

    Love you guys 💜💜💜

  • @esmee.222
    @esmee.222 10 месяцев назад

    this is why i love thursdays not you guys but another podcast that i love post on thursdays too. thank you i love yall

  • @yesenia_torres_
    @yesenia_torres_ 8 месяцев назад

    with the end of season 1 of PnS coming up, i am already rewatching past episodes 😭😭

  • @mychal-anng4243
    @mychal-anng4243 10 месяцев назад +9

    Albuquerque should be a word off the day 🤪

  • @Cj-bl4cl
    @Cj-bl4cl 10 месяцев назад +1

    I love yall podcast!! ❤❤

  • @kalynnbrock2582
    @kalynnbrock2582 10 месяцев назад +2

    This is in my Grwm routine❤❤❤❤❤❤ I love y’all so much literally!!! But when we ganna see Addie 😂😂😂😂

  • @katiaj8768
    @katiaj8768 10 месяцев назад +2

    NOT THE SAN JUAN BAUTISTA🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 legit outta breath!

  • @dorianromero16
    @dorianromero16 10 месяцев назад +1

    Never blame yourself for being the problem when it comes to getting cheated on. Typically the reason why someone cheats is because they are the ones who are lacking in the relationship.

  • @Jennyvargas318.
    @Jennyvargas318. 10 месяцев назад +3

    Best Day of the week🥹

  • @sandragonzalezdelgado7194
    @sandragonzalezdelgado7194 10 месяцев назад +1

    My birthday is on Valentines Day!! Everything is so packed i hate it!!! I end up doing things before or after, because I can't do much the day of. lol

  • @xaevierrxo3446
    @xaevierrxo3446 10 месяцев назад +4

    actually, I think Louie got the 'word of the century' correctly. Me coming all nerdy.. 🤓. But 'advice' is a noun, and 'advise' is a verb. So in this case, only for those 10 seconds of spelling, he remains being both pretty AND smart 🤣💜

    • @lunay4723
      @lunay4723 10 месяцев назад +1

      Righttt! I was like which one 😂

  • @francenialopez
    @francenialopez 10 месяцев назад +1

    Loui is always confusing holidays with "Pascua" hahah! los amo

  • @allysonvasquez1862
    @allysonvasquez1862 10 месяцев назад

    I LOVE THE WHO PODCAST ROOM I love how you decorated with hearts and pink hears and purple hearts I love its so so pretty you guys I LOVE IT AND I LOVE WATCHING YOU GUYS ON THURSDAYS....YALL ARE MY FAVS LOVE YOU GUYS 💗💗💗🥺🥺🥺

  • @anahi6arcia
    @anahi6arcia 10 месяцев назад +1

    It’s crazy because my mom really disliked my recent ex. Ever since we broke up this past January, they told me the reason why. They felt like he was going to play me and best believe he cheated on me. They really liked the ex befor him though😭

  • @jacquelineg12
    @jacquelineg12 10 месяцев назад +1

    very CONSTRUCTIVE CRITICISM ‼️ make sure you guys are perfectly centered . i feel like i see a lot of louie’s sofa and i see like half of yoatzis arm. but love yall both 🤍🤍

  • @stephanie5972
    @stephanie5972 10 месяцев назад +1

    I always look forward to the days you guys upload🥹 love you guys so much🫶🏻
    Word of the day should be hypocritical☺️

  • @beronciacesilya
    @beronciacesilya 10 месяцев назад

    I recently found out I’m pregnant, found out I’m getting cheated on . All His mom told me was“es mi hijo” . going through pregnancy alone and hurt is not it.

  • @ashleyyarcee
    @ashleyyarcee 10 месяцев назад +1

    i love how a lot of us come on here as a form of comfort & some are able to get advice from you i loved this podcast a lot !! 🩷💜

  • @alinamariee23
    @alinamariee23 10 месяцев назад

    The decor is sooo cute!! 💘

  • @yulianaramos714
    @yulianaramos714 10 месяцев назад +3

    Valentines for me is like another regular day my husband is not romantic ever since we got together so valentines for me is just another day 🤷🏻‍♀️ so it don’t hurt me

  • @kelsi.o13
    @kelsi.o13 10 месяцев назад +1

    Anyone else love when louie says "tik tok shop" 😭

  • @mitziespino6129
    @mitziespino6129 10 месяцев назад +1

    2 years later and he finally asked me out

  • @yurirodriguez656
    @yurirodriguez656 10 месяцев назад +1

    My Thursday’s don’t suck anymore thanks to PNS 💞

  • @iSeetothe3rdpower
    @iSeetothe3rdpower 10 месяцев назад +1

    Friendly reminder- if anyone ever cheats on you or betrays you, try your very best to NOT take responsibility for their actions. It is a reflection of them, not you. Honor your self worth- and take a step back to really think about whether the situation is worth forgiving. Always remember, forgive for yourself, not for them. Honor and love yourself first in those tough situations! You are worthy of respectful and honest love 🩷🩷🩷

  • @cynthiasmittle1347
    @cynthiasmittle1347 10 месяцев назад

    I think it’s a huge problem when it’s the mother in laws who are so I love with their sons that they treat you bad and it’s creepy. Aaannnd when the sister in laws are like that too it’s just difficult

  • @cloudytoni1224
    @cloudytoni1224 8 месяцев назад

    Being cheated on sucks ..TO A T but honestly I got over mine by leaving letting them realize what they lost , and once we had a conversation as grown adults we realized we were both at fault and I’m happily in the same relationship yrs later we r great on communication and we both took major blame for it. Very complicated situation ofc but he only did what he did because we started to dislike eachother but realized we r all we really wanted at the end for us to work out. And that showed through the relationship progressing even more afterwards . Sometimes we can bounce back but if the treatment and attitudes don’t change , don’t even try with someone if y’all r both not willing to compromise the past for a better future! It’s not always the person it’s the situations y’all put eachother through that can impact what makes or breaks y’all xx! Stay strong soldiers!

  • @maricruzreyesss
    @maricruzreyesss 10 месяцев назад +2

    Good morning! I’m ready to clean now 💖💖

  • @leorosales1564
    @leorosales1564 5 месяцев назад

    My ex cheated on me too. With another girl. The first year i had met him. 2018. It sucks but the cheater is the problem. Cheating is for liars and people who arent confident in themselves.

  • @sunqee
    @sunqee 10 месяцев назад

    “You can’t even fokin see it” 😂😂😂😂 5:23

  • @ifoundjayden18
    @ifoundjayden18 10 месяцев назад

    me watching this on valentine’s day😭😭 this is my “movie” to keep me company lol

  • @HighItsCakeyy
    @HighItsCakeyy 10 месяцев назад +1

    53:03 that’s the point of going out and meeting people from strangers to friends to dating for more . Don’t settle for the first date find what you want you’re allowed to be your own person y la 🧀👏

  • @alanigaytan9981
    @alanigaytan9981 10 месяцев назад +3

    thought yall weren’t gonna possstttuhhhh🩷

  • @ItsMiRiii
    @ItsMiRiii 10 месяцев назад +1

    I started working recently after years of MOMing .
    And im just seeing this video ya’ll bout to make me quit my job bruh. I always watch the minute you upload 😭💜🩷

  • @aleea428
    @aleea428 10 месяцев назад

    LOVE IS IN THE AIR IM SOOOOO READY FOR PNS LOVE YALL !!!!! 🩷💜🩷💜🩷💜🩷💜🩷

  • @_jennrod
    @_jennrod 10 месяцев назад

    i lost my fur baby last night and this made me feel better 🫶🏻

  • @tteuina3
    @tteuina3 10 месяцев назад +1

    "dont freak out, do a backflip & try to run them over w your carrr" 😭😭😭 i loveee

  • @biancaquintanilla9080
    @biancaquintanilla9080 10 месяцев назад

    Love This EP ❤ been with my husband for 15 years and the MIL doesn't like me
    I'm unbothered at this point but I see how it hurts my husband and they don't get it
    Thank You for Always being Relatable 💕
    XOXO 💋 Happy San Valentin de Pasqua 🥰

  • @josec8444
    @josec8444 10 месяцев назад +1

    You picked the perfect name for both of yall got my laughing 😂 yotzi como vas a pensar que Cupid is saint valentine omg 😳

  • @carmencatalanoortiz2000
    @carmencatalanoortiz2000 10 месяцев назад

    Love you guysssss❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @jennaaguilar9711
    @jennaaguilar9711 10 месяцев назад +1

    I have a funny story about one of my exes 😂so he was a huge cheater and I had just found out he cheated on me again. But before I confronted him he said he wanted to take me out to buy stuff so I let him.. when he picked me up he looked all nice but had a huge booger sticking out of his nose🤣 I was being petty and didn’t let him know and I let him walk through the whole mall with a huge booger in his nose…oh and then that same day I confronted him and also I told him about his booger😂he was mad but oh well 💁🏽‍♀️

  • @Rolita022
    @Rolita022 10 месяцев назад +1

    Update yoatzi has a valentine 💘 just saw their video on jarass’ channel

  • @Geovannacabrerac
    @Geovannacabrerac 10 месяцев назад

    Ahhh I love Thursdays my favorite podcast ever!!!!!!

  • @andidontcarelol
    @andidontcarelol 10 месяцев назад +1

    I be handing over a tissue to my date & let em know he has a moco. Or if they have something in their teeth. Like, I am NOT gonna let u walk around like that lmao

  • @angelaespinoza5929
    @angelaespinoza5929 10 месяцев назад

    Thursdays are my favorite day of the week💜🩷

  • @la_yadira
    @la_yadira 10 месяцев назад

    Aww the hearts on the back 🩷💜

  • @Lllaureennn
    @Lllaureennn 10 месяцев назад

    My favorite podcast 💜💕the set up is so cuteeee

  • @adriab13
    @adriab13 10 месяцев назад +1

    Not me thinking it was Wednesday and you guys released a surprise episode 😂

  • @priscilaperez2148
    @priscilaperez2148 10 месяцев назад

    You guys are my podcast to watch and l was literally waiting to watch this episode l love you guys so much 🫶🏻💗

  • @Mellowpurplee
    @Mellowpurplee 10 месяцев назад +1

    Its funny bc my first date with my boyfriend i did ask for extra onions anddd we have now been together for 2 years 😂❤️

  • @kamilanavarro9264
    @kamilanavarro9264 10 месяцев назад +2

    louie has a valentine, who might it be,FERN!?