Teachers, what is the biggest red flag you've seen in a student?

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Комментарии • 238

  • @Playingwithproxies
    @Playingwithproxies 12 дней назад +442

    Getting fired for reporting to cps while your a mandatory reporter sounds like a huge employment lawsuit

    • @sarahm8695
      @sarahm8695 12 дней назад +6

      Came here to say this. I am gobsmacked.

    • @gnojoe6359
      @gnojoe6359 12 дней назад +3

      You’re*

    • @raarasunai4896
      @raarasunai4896 11 дней назад

      @@gnojoe6359dude. Get. A. Freaking. Life.

    • @raarasunai4896
      @raarasunai4896 11 дней назад +11

      I agree with our narrator. If people are getting fired for reporting abuse, education is doomed

    • @nyotamwuaji6484
      @nyotamwuaji6484 10 дней назад

      ​@@raarasunai4896education is already doomed.

  • @pippagrey9633
    @pippagrey9633 11 дней назад +48

    Making the assaulted student alternate days with the assaulter is just punishing the victim again. If I were the parent of the girl, I'd be insisting that the school figure out a way to deal with him and let her have her proper education.

  • @SusanBaileyAmazingEstate
    @SusanBaileyAmazingEstate 12 дней назад +198

    I’m always suspicious of the mom “who didn’t know anything about the abuse.”

    • @nationalinstituteofcheese3012
      @nationalinstituteofcheese3012 12 дней назад +5

      Why?

    • @HokageAjRulesTheWorld
      @HokageAjRulesTheWorld 12 дней назад +19

      i was assaulted at 8 and my parents didn’t know anything until i told them almost a decade later, things happen, they know now but i didnt tell them and the only signs were my depression but that was signed off as being situational as i was also homeless for a period of time. i think my parents going through so much at the same time didnt help them not picking up on the signs though

    • @ninia-ti2ik
      @ninia-ti2ik 12 дней назад +13

      @@nationalinstituteofcheese3012 Because at some point your kids going to say \ do something to show signs . They arent going to sit there quietly (some might but not all) Soo you cant always say "i didnt know"

    • @izzybell1892
      @izzybell1892 12 дней назад +12

      Happens all the time my mom never knew my uncle had groomed and assaulted me till I told her at 14

    • @availanila
      @availanila 12 дней назад +8

      It's very common actually; no man or woman wants to think the worst of their partners and very few are looking for it (and even amongst these they're at risk of ruining their families worse especially if wrong.) Also, don't forget the amount of access parents have to their own children, unmitigated anf unsupervised.

  • @sarahm8695
    @sarahm8695 12 дней назад +40

    The fact that the school cared more for its image than the students and that the teacher got FIRED for literally following the law is disgusting and horrifying.

  • @xC0NTRAy
    @xC0NTRAy 12 дней назад +126

    12:57 seriously, if you get fired for making a CPS call, be glad you left the crap place.

    • @pokemagetech
      @pokemagetech 12 дней назад +21

      No. You sue. You drag it out into the open, force them to suffer publicity 1000x worse than they would’ve for the report itself. And even if you somehow lose, they won’t have standing to counter-sue, because you haven’t defamed them.

    • @Allantitan
      @Allantitan 7 дней назад

      @@pokemagetechnope they defamed themselves already

  • @MischieviousJirachi
    @MischieviousJirachi 12 дней назад +59

    So many of these stories have the root cause of homelife being disrupted, negligent, or dysfunctional. It's amazing how intervening early and actually dealing with these behaviors will help, yet this video is just a snippet into the massive amount of households that refuse to act on them.

  • @user-pi7gc4wg8k
    @user-pi7gc4wg8k 10 дней назад +8

    The kid who cuts bugs in half and looks for crayons to eat will have a great career in the Marine corps later on in life.

  • @BeKindAllTheTime
    @BeKindAllTheTime 12 дней назад +27

    "Fourth graders are typically very sweet, light-hearted, and not bratty yet." I want to know what fourth grade class they're talking about because I went to a private LUTHERAN school in fourth grade, and my classmates were throwng around inuendos and swearing like nobody's business. They knew exactly what they were saying, too. The third and fourth grade teacher said that our class and the class befotre us were probably the worst two classes she had taught in her 35 years of teaching at the same school. My teachers from 7th and 8th grade completely agree. There were fights everywhere, we were almost a year behind on material because of class disruptions (which resulted in everyone coming close to failing and having to repeat), vaping in the bathrooms, death threats from students to other students in THIRD GRADE. Third grade! For years, I've been wondering how the parents can just let their kids act like this. The parents act like their kids can do no wrong, when the teachers and classmates are saying otherwise. The students even acted in these ways toward their parents, as I saw at sporting events. I can't blame any of these behaviors on mental disability, because the only IEPs in the class were for speech impediments.
    We went on an overnight field trip to a summer camp in 7th grade, and my classmates had ZERO respect for anyone, even the camp leaders (as I was told. I had a migraine from the heat, so I had to stay in the cabin for the entire trip). The class after mine went to the same camp the next year, and they were still talking about our class, saying that the other class was so much better, and I don't blame them. My classmates sucked. They still act like this sometimes in high school. I hope they grow up soon, because I don't want to know where they will end up if they don't.

  • @luckyslob3359
    @luckyslob3359 11 дней назад +11

    Every child deserves parents, not every parent deserves a child, and some kids are just straight up nightmares

  • @wolveswithtea
    @wolveswithtea 11 дней назад +12

    That kid scream crying whilst staring at the teacher smiling maniacally with no tears would be FUCKING TERRIFYING

  • @lovelysakurapetalsyt
    @lovelysakurapetalsyt 12 дней назад +60

    Compulsive scab picking and such can be a sign of stuff like depression and anxiety, and to some degree can be a thing with ADHD or autism, where the texture feels wrong so you try to get it off. For anxiety and depression, it usually comes from needing some kind of physical input to stop thoughts, so many turn to picking scabs so they don't harm themselves worse

    • @pokemagetech
      @pokemagetech 12 дней назад +7

      For the autism, it can also be the OCD-like behaviors that can come with it. (I would know.)

    • @lovelysakurapetalsyt
      @lovelysakurapetalsyt 12 дней назад +2

      @@pokemagetech Absolutely true!

    • @sonyabruns
      @sonyabruns 11 дней назад +3

      For ADHD it could be a form of fidgeting too. Sometimes a fidgit toy could help change that behavior.

    • @lovelysakurapetalsyt
      @lovelysakurapetalsyt 11 дней назад

      @@sonyabruns That can also be true. I'm someone with autism with ADHD-like symptoms where fidget toys don't help me, and I'll scratch out my scabs anyways

    • @lambybunny7173
      @lambybunny7173 11 дней назад +1

      It's also known as dermatillomania. Absolutely sucks I have OCD and autism and I have it bad with my lips. Any time I feel that the skin is "uneven" I have to peel it even though I know it'll hurt. Sucks majorly

  • @WendyDarling1974
    @WendyDarling1974 12 дней назад +39

    I threw up a lot of red flags when I was a kid based on the content of my stories and essays, coupled with my behavior, which was pretty atrocious and odd (before things were diagnosed). My parents would be contacted because I had adult themes and violence in my stories. Very well written, but with stuff that a second or third grader shouldn’t know about. I wasn’t getting it from my parents or any violence or sex at home, I was just watching TV and reading books above grade level and didn’t know it wasn’t appropriate for school.
    When I was around 9 I wrote about a girl who introduces her mom to her new boyfriend and her mom goes ballistic because the new boyfriend’s dad had raped her in the past. Later on in the story, the mom’s rapist stalks and kills her. I didn’t know rape was off the table.
    Honestly, it’s got to be pretty difficult to tell the difference between a child’s active imagination versus actual issues and situations they’re dealing with. I can see where you’d want to err on the side of caution but I’m also quite glad no one ever proceeded with anything legally with my parents. It wasn’t anything bad going on at home.

  • @lordvoldemort5586
    @lordvoldemort5586 12 дней назад +73

    I was an IEP kid and let me tell you there are some very interesting people in that program. I remember in particular we have one girl that everyone in the actual group of kids would call Miss psycho, and not to be mean. She once punched our pregnant teacher in the belly trying to cause a miscarriage; another time she ran off with the wheelchair of our one-legged teacher's aide because she thought it would be funny to watch him hobble after it. And if she got mad her fits were so bad that the teachers weren't even allowed to handle them anymore they had to call the resource officer that was stationed at the school to handle it. The last time I saw her was after my school locked her in one of what they called The quiet rooms which was basically just a closet for the kids that they didn't know how to handle. It had a small window that you couldn't see through a desk that was screwed to the wall and if you were lucky a chair, she was not though. I was actually in the room next door to her at this time because I had argued with the teacher earlier in the day because they were wrong on something they were teaching us and refused to admit it but I had a chair. It was right after lunch time and surprisingly the secretaries had remembered our food this time. This meant she had a tray screwed on desk and the window. She use the tray to break the window then open the door from the outside which is the only way you could open the door. After she was free she decided to open my door to free me, which was honestly quite surprising, before going to the secretarial desk and holding one of the secretaries at glass point. I stayed in my closet for the hour long stand off that ensued. The resource officer eventually got the upper hand and she was taken out in cuffs screaming she would quote "blow this building sky high."
    Another boy broke one of the other windows using his head the next year and was apparently laughing when the paramedics arrived.
    I think part of the reason we all went insane in those rooms at some point or another but it's basically a 10 by 10 closet where they could shut the lights off to quote "keep us calm". Many of us spent most of the year in those. It was basically like giving students solitary confinement for a very small crimes.

    • @SoulDevoured
      @SoulDevoured 12 дней назад +19

      Yeah that's um ... Literally torture and child abuse.

    • @lordvoldemort5586
      @lordvoldemort5586 12 дней назад +20

      @@SoulDevoured oh I'm aware there's multiple lawsuits from kids that were put through that currently pending. I chose to not go through with a lawsuit but many other people decided to

    • @TheStarsTwilight
      @TheStarsTwilight 12 дней назад +9

      It's truly horrifying here about how common abuse like this is in dedicated special ed. schools. The dehumanization of literal children is mortifying to hear of.

    • @redjoker365
      @redjoker365 11 дней назад +3

      @@TheStarsTwilight I'm a survivor of our extremely carceral and underfunded state psychiatric hospitals. Cops and hospital employees actually killed a patient at one by dog-piling and suffocating him. Virginia Central State Hospital. I was at SWVMHI in Marion, and that place scares the shit out of hillbillies who aren't afraid of going into the pitch-black coal mines
      The places are horrifying and degrading, but at the same time I saw a patient on the pediatric ward during our marches to the chow hall. He was a 16-year-old kid whose father wanted a football star. So daddy dearest kept giving him steroids and other performance enhancing drugs until all that was left in him was rage. He broke people's arms like they were nothing
      I don't really know what the humane option is in these cases. Having been over-medicated several times before, I can tell you that a life sedated isn't worth living. We don't have the resources yet to keep them in gilded cages so large that they wouldn't know they're confined, and then there's also the problem of keeping them in solitude being torture, but also keeping them around others is too dangerous. Any kind of physical restraint can eventually get worked out of. As horrifying as it sounds, I think the only option that spares their lives and keeps their minds in tact if all other forms of therapy fails is permanent physical disability, like having a surgeon rupture the Achilles tendon on opposite legs every couple years

    • @sdaspo4909
      @sdaspo4909 11 дней назад +7

      Say what you will about her but at least she cared about her fellow tortured children enough to free you from your cells

  • @StephBer1
    @StephBer1 11 дней назад +17

    The day Twin Towers were destroyed my daughter was in 4th grade. I took her to school, not sure if school was cancelled or not. One of her classmates, who was also a new friend, came running up at school, telling us that her aunt had fallen out of the window of the 80th floor of one of the towers! She was crying and I started giving her my condolences. Then she pipes up and told me she was being transported to the hospital with a broken leg...after falling 80 floors. This kid was know to lie and I let it slide but I was really angry with her, as it was a terrible day, and told her that it couldn't have been the 80th floor. She doubled down and started screaming at me that it was. I told her I didn't believe her and it was a terrible thing to lie about. Later that day, after much thought, I went and saw her mother about it, wondering if she needed some help. The mother told me that she wasn't lying as she did have an Aunt who lived in New York. Apparently the mother thought that any sliver of truth made the lie not a lie! About 6 weeks later they moved her to another school. Good Riddance.

  • @Demonetization_Symbol
    @Demonetization_Symbol 11 дней назад +6

    Please don't hate students!

  • @theshinypeliper8813
    @theshinypeliper8813 12 дней назад +24

    The story about the op using urinals with his pants all the way down got a chuckle out of me

    • @GaskyChan
      @GaskyChan 11 дней назад

      Basically doing a Butters from South Park

  • @midnight1978
    @midnight1978 12 дней назад +12

    While I get that many of these kids are really terrifying, I mostly just feel sorry for them. They're kids and most of them probably have or had some deep rooting issues that just get overlooked or ignored. And if the kid acts up they get send to a different class/school where it most likely will continue. Out of sight out of mind.

  • @randystanton1224
    @randystanton1224 11 дней назад +8

    I could have been many of these children. Addiction, prison, crime. Almost 40. So much was ignored, in the 90s no one listened or cared. Guidence counselor once said his dad beat him w a broom so things werent that bad. I didnt have time to get to the bad parts. Lifes hard.

  • @sunnyandthechlo
    @sunnyandthechlo 12 дней назад +10

    I graduated high school in 2001 and they knew NOTHING about mental health. I was picked on almost daily by teachers, one in particular couldn’t go a single day without saying something horrible or sarcastic to or about me. Instead of asking if anything was wrong I got bullied. And I was a good kid, straight A’s until my mental health made them slip and never got detention for bad behavior, just things like being late or not bringing a note after an absence.

    • @pufpufpuffin
      @pufpufpuffin 11 дней назад +2

      That really sucks, especially coming from teachers. I'm sorry that happened to you.

  • @rynieryarom4277
    @rynieryarom4277 12 дней назад +6

    Are teachers exempt from retaliation laws? Mandatory reporting ARE teachers responsibility, that means its part of their job. But they can get fired for doing their job?

  • @J4SP3RS
    @J4SP3RS 12 дней назад +13

    you can hear the sadness and empathy in his voice throughout the video :(
    it always pains me to hear these stories and i have a feeling of dread listening to them yet i always stick around for the entire video

  • @VOID_Mootove
    @VOID_Mootove 12 дней назад +13

    By the way IEP isn’t just disabilities. I am a IEP kid but it’s because I am advanced, so I have a different education plan that normal students.

    • @Doggo226
      @Doggo226 11 дней назад

      I also have an IEP, but it’s for both reasons. I’m a grade ahead in math, but also get to wear headphones and leave class 5 minutes early.

  • @reneelibby4885
    @reneelibby4885 11 дней назад +7

    Kids teach themselves how to cry???? Normal kids? I wouldn't know - I had a very abusive childhood and had plenty to cry about. Except I better NOT cry.

  • @siqxyre8473
    @siqxyre8473 12 дней назад +7

    20:10 nothing enrages me more than this op
    It’s so obvious this kid is being sexually abused and what did they do? Send him to homeschool to isolate him with his abusive parents. It’s absolutely heart wrenching to see how little empathy op has for this poor child. I hope op feels the guilt weigh on their conscience forever.

  • @RabidWildCreature
    @RabidWildCreature 12 дней назад +5

    "he had an evil smile all while making crying noises" ooh. oh. dont like that at all.

  • @localvaultcompanion3516
    @localvaultcompanion3516 12 дней назад +11

    I never got attention growing up, and the only thing i really knew was discipline. My mom treated me like I was a trophy, never really giving me the emotional support i needed while only giving me physical attention and nothing else. I was never taught a lot of things either that a child should learn from their parents.
    I became a sneaky asshole in school. I would manipulate and use people to benefit myself and when i got into highschool it was more of the same stuff. I always knew how to talk my way out of trouble.
    When i turned 20, i went to therapy with the hopes of being diagnosed with ADHD so i could get on meds. Instead, after several sessions, i was diagnosed with ASPD + NPD (on top of ADHD as well as tendencies for BPD). Needless to say, i was taken aback and surprised all to hell.
    Lately ive been trying to make do with that knowledge and try to project something beneficial into the world. Have been a manipulator myself, i find it easy to point out things people may miss in relationships. If someone has problems with their s/o, they come to me. It helps me try to amend all the damage i did as a youth.
    Not sure where to go from here, but im taking it one day at a time.

    • @LaraKeller-su3zc
      @LaraKeller-su3zc 10 дней назад

      My younger brother is A.S.P.D. You can learn cognitive empathy, if you really want to. Obviously, it's in your best interest to follow the law as much as possible to avoid incarceration 🤷. You might want to go somewhere else & get a second opinion on your diagnosis. Most sociopaths have little regard to trying to amend any damage they may have caused or anything like that. N.P.D. can be treated.

    • @localvaultcompanion3516
      @localvaultcompanion3516 10 дней назад

      @LaraKeller-su3zc I never said I was a sociopath. I was considering going to therapy again but I really don't feel like I need to. My quality of life is decent enough and I don't really care too much to pay for something I feel I don't really need. After getting my diagnosis way back when I stopped seeing my therapist altogether after a while because I realized she wasn't gonna get me on meds

    • @LaraKeller-su3zc
      @LaraKeller-su3zc 10 дней назад

      @@localvaultcompanion3516 What in the hell do you think A.S.P.D. IS???🤣🤣🤣

    • @mango_onyx
      @mango_onyx 3 дня назад

      one day at a time is great ;) u got this! keep it going

  • @mrnowak2835
    @mrnowak2835 12 дней назад +6

    I remember my criminology teacher telling us she was only truly scared of 1 student in her life. He was massive for a 17 year old. He never talked and had that soulless look about him. Like the body was there but the soul wasn’t it was creepy according to her. She point blank refused to be alone in a room with him. When he finished school she felt relieved.

    • @LaraKeller-su3zc
      @LaraKeller-su3zc 10 дней назад +1

      That made me think of an old movie called " The River's Edge ". The protagonist was a kid like that. It's really good....& very chilling.

  • @L0STDREAMER2415
    @L0STDREAMER2415 12 дней назад +7

    Story 5 is one I relate to. I have a ton of scabs and red bumps on my arm and I have a tendency to pick at them over and over again. I always get told to stop, but I just can't stop.

  • @________stephens8251
    @________stephens8251 11 дней назад +4

    as someone who was abused to the point of developing DID this makes me I wonder what my teachers noticed about us... and if they did anything

  • @rainbowstreak9615
    @rainbowstreak9615 11 дней назад +2

    When I was a freshman in high school, I had a classmate who said something "really funny" happened recently... "My mom hit my cat and she died."
    The whole class went silent and stared at her, until someone finally asked, "How is that funny?" She kind of started backpedaling, but couldn't really explain herself. I used to be friends with her, but I started getting a bad feeling from her after that. It sounds like my gut was right on the money, because she became a big bully later on. Despite claiming she was against bullying, she tried to start a cyberbullying trend against one girl for no reason. Luckily, I don't think many people joined in.

  • @small_and_dangerous2068
    @small_and_dangerous2068 11 дней назад +2

    6:12 Yes! Most children know how to make themselves cry or at the very least how to fake it. The difference is why they’re doing it. I taught toddlers up through the age of 5 and if they ever made themselves cry it’s because they didn’t want to do something, plain and simple. Take napping for example. I can see on a child’s face that they’re exhausted and need this nap, they know they’re tired, but they want to play so they cry to fight it and me. Some kids cry for attention, but they don’t usually make stuff up. Especially not things that drastic and it’s not constant and every day.

  • @ashleyn8735
    @ashleyn8735 11 дней назад +3

    When I was in elementary, I knew these twins and one of them would always do odd things (in my opinion what I thought was odd at 9 years old) but one time, he broke open a pen and started to basically drink the ink. I knew enough about ink to know it was not good. The only thing I thought he did it for was to die. I told the teacher that he was drinking the ink from his pen and I hadn’t seen either twin in years until about senior year, I saw the twin who did not break open a pen and turns out it’s all good now. But that’s my red flag story😅

  • @thatkingdomheartsguy9615
    @thatkingdomheartsguy9615 10 дней назад +2

    Wouldn't reporting abuse and getting a child away from an abusive family be good for a schools reputation.

  • @Blitz0555
    @Blitz0555 12 дней назад +4

    Didn't expect an Angron of the World Eaters cameo in one of those stories

  • @aaron9797
    @aaron9797 12 дней назад +3

    that is enough internet for the day

  • @susanmayer9791
    @susanmayer9791 11 дней назад +3

    I was working as a high school secretary. As I was walking down a small hallway that housed the offices of the social workers I saw a young man sitting on the floor waiting for his social worker. He was crying, then he started ramming the top of his head into the cinder block wall. I ran up to him to stop him, then ran to find his social worker. She took over from there.

  • @nikotm2856
    @nikotm2856 12 дней назад +3

    regarding story 5: i have similar compulsions (not to that extreme but i do sometimes pick my skin until it bleeds) AND i get itchy enough with allergies to *want* to scratch underneath my skin, thank god i haven't (but i have accidentally broken my skin scratching too hard 😐). this kid definitely had something going on. it's near impossible to diagnose mental illnesses in children under like, 10ish (especially things like sociopathy and psychopathy, pretty much every kid shows socio/psycho behavior a few times) and i only have highschool ap psych level knowledge so i won't say much about it but it does definitely seem like he may have something.

  • @AlexxitheVoidboi
    @AlexxitheVoidboi 12 дней назад +13

    14:29 Op's calendar math is correct. The next Wednesday after Christmas break was January 2nd. Yes, the 26th was a Wednesday, but that's part of the week of Christmas break.

    • @Moon_x_sun
      @Moon_x_sun 12 дней назад

      There is a week between Christmas and new years (if you celebrate Christmas on the 24th) :)

  • @finalhour4406
    @finalhour4406 День назад

    The number of sociopaths and serial killers that we're around every day is ridiculous now.

  • @Lampe2020
    @Lampe2020 12 дней назад +10

    That background footage was freaking me out more than the stories in the video (the ones I've heard so far, I'm only seven minutes into the video). The background footage is pretty close to the kind of dream that you half-control, where you cramp up to e.g. try to stop a wheel or pendulum, just for it to go even faster the other way. And I felt my legs cramping up whenever that dang ball didn't get pushed down when my subconcious wanted it to, or when it almost got stuck somewhere and I tried to lift it up with my will power, fully knowing that my thoughts will not have any effect on the video. I couldn't even listen fully!

    • @pokemagetech
      @pokemagetech 12 дней назад +2

      …you should probably see a psychologist…

    • @MischieviousJirachi
      @MischieviousJirachi 12 дней назад +2

      It's a game called exo one, but also I would definitely see someone about that.

    • @Lampe2020
      @Lampe2020 12 дней назад +1

      @@pokemagetech
      Just so you know, I have already, about a decade ago. I have an autism diagnosis and I think the fact that my brain is wired differently is the cause for me feeling that way when seeing that. But I've heard from several people who also have the kind of dream I described, so at least that is something pretty common.

    • @pokemagetech
      @pokemagetech 12 дней назад

      @@Lampe2020
      I’m autistic, too. Have you been screened for anything else?

    • @Lampe2020
      @Lampe2020 11 дней назад +1

      @@pokemagetech
      Dunno, is after all already almost a full decade ago. I can't get the darn papers for it either even though I need them to be able to take driving lessons in Sweden…

  • @Baconator_JYSN
    @Baconator_JYSN 5 дней назад

    Some of these kids sound like they'd make horror movie villains blush

  • @marcmeinzer8859
    @marcmeinzer8859 9 дней назад +1

    Had this tenth grader at Cleveland South High School in 1996 I called Nature Boy because he disliked wearing a shirt. One day Cleveland police detectives showed up to examine my attendance book to determine whether or not he’d been in class on a given day. I told them he was marked present but that it might not hold up in court because I had one of the girls take attendance for me. When they got up to leave I asked them which squad they were with. One of them answered “homicide”.

  • @peachturnover7641
    @peachturnover7641 10 дней назад +1

    Trauma doesn't affect everyone the same. There are surely typical signs of abuse, but of course some kids don't show them.

  • @bubzilla6137
    @bubzilla6137 12 дней назад +4

    I'm pretty sure OP meant the second Wednesday after Christmas, not the very next day. Obviously the next day would have been December 26th, but the second Wednesday after Tuesday December 25th, would have been January 2nd. Perhaps the wording was a little unclear, but I knew what they meant and I'm pretty certain they know what they meant.

  • @heatheral-hammadi3046
    @heatheral-hammadi3046 12 дней назад +5

    Once one has exhibited psychopathy they don’t get better.

    • @lambybunny7173
      @lambybunny7173 11 дней назад

      This is blatantly false, people with ASPD (psychopathy is a heavily outdated term) can and more often than not are average people, just with more challenges socially than those who don't have it. With therapy and self-work it can be worked through and accommodated for. All mental illnesses should be treated as such, people are not evil for having mental problems and you have no doubt met people with ASPD, psychosis, schizophrenia, what have you without even knowing it because we are not what sensationalized media tells you we are. I have autism, OCD with psychosis, and NPD and with therapy I've been able to function semi-normally. It just takes extra work because society isn't built for people like us and people like to make us out to be disgusting horrible monsters when according to research we are actually more likely to be victims of crimes than perpetrators.

    • @lambybunny7173
      @lambybunny7173 11 дней назад

      www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/books/NBK537064/ research I mentioned as well

    • @TheMrcbritt2
      @TheMrcbritt2 День назад

      You cannot diagnose someone with sociopath or psychopath (or any other form of Anti Social Personality Disorder) until they are 18. Hell all young children have development that is essentially that of a psychopath.

  • @chloesibilla8199
    @chloesibilla8199 12 дней назад +4

    There was this kid that would bash his head into the bus window while cackling madly. He'd also constantly try and lick me , id tell him to stop then he'd start back up a minute later, for that whole school year it just became a neverending cycle of pushing him away and literally holding him back the whole bus ride home, I got yelled at when I tried to sit in a different seat. We were on a short bus and half the seats were empty. I was being punished by the angry driver by being put in the front seat with that kid. What was I in trouble for? Complaining about the sensory overload of the short bus... because I was special needs and the whole bus REAKED like that fresh weirdly sweet chemical smelling plastic and there was this kid that would just SCREAM. That on top of the kid literally trying to push himself on top of me and force his tongue in my mouth for half an hour EVERY DAY for that whole school year and id have really bad panic attacks from it all...the panic attacks were the reason I was on that bus to start with.

    • @chloesibilla8199
      @chloesibilla8199 12 дней назад

      Oh and that kid had the worst case of lobotomy doll face id ever seen, his parents had him on something that reduced him to a doll that sometimes tried to assault people. I still struggle with internalized ableism because of him . I wonder if he was even human anymore and if it was cruel torture not just letting his body rest.

  • @boneymeroney2674
    @boneymeroney2674 11 дней назад +2

    Nope. While there might be a cute little nugget buried in the stories.... I noped out of this one after story 1. 😮

  • @Damyyyy
    @Damyyyy 11 дней назад +2

    Not really affecting me now but back when I was in elementary school, my dad was a gang member + drug dealer and my mom was always at strip clubs etc... anywàys me and some of my other siblings were badly abused like them using needles and other stuff on us and always were locked in the dark of the basement (ofc not to go in school but most of the time..). I would always try to get signs to the teacher. Dont really remember exactly what I did though. The teachers always brushed the stuff off and claimed it was just fine not really suspecting things.
    If your in education dealing with children please dont ignore their behaviour like that

  • @TheSofaKing09
    @TheSofaKing09 7 дней назад +2

    Narrator i love your voice so calming. Interesting video though.

  • @Boogledigs
    @Boogledigs 12 дней назад +1

    In one schòol, a student was behaving strangely. He really unnerved me. One day, he stole newborn rabbits. They were rescued. We all became very wary of him. Years later, he was convicted of murder.

  • @toxinistired849
    @toxinistired849 4 дня назад +1

    taking away recess has been proven to make behavioral issues worse..... that one teacher just doesn't gaf.

  • @Kp-0-
    @Kp-0- 12 дней назад +12

    i never get adds gon this channel

  • @jamie5661
    @jamie5661 12 дней назад +7

    I feel like they should have helped that kid who seems to be sociopathic, he has even less of a chance as an adult now. The mother definitely should have taken her child to therapy when she was noticing the fake crying.
    Edit: I'm actually so angry at the people posting this that didn't help these children. It's not that hard, see something say something.

    • @corvusdominus9835
      @corvusdominus9835 12 дней назад

      Society would rather slap a temporary bandaid on a on an infected weeping wound than do any permanent fixes because it isn’t profitable.
      I hate humanity for this reason.

    • @madisonh1280
      @madisonh1280 12 дней назад

      Therapy isn’t a fix all solution and some people don’t know how to work with that. The programs they need are often expensive too.

  • @Midnightaperson
    @Midnightaperson 12 дней назад

    I was literally picking the scab on my head when the scap story came on 😭

  • @D4viant
    @D4viant 11 дней назад

    Story 46 thus far the only one that actually made my heart sting for sadness

  • @cesarestrada3619
    @cesarestrada3619 12 дней назад +3

    7:16 Story 5 sounds a lot like Bar Jonah a cannibal child murder and sexual abuser.

  • @Jack_Kennedy_is_here
    @Jack_Kennedy_is_here 12 дней назад +5

    Whats the game in the background, I'm kinda wanting to know because it looks like a good time waster.

    • @idk-dg1to
      @idk-dg1to 12 дней назад +4

      exo-one, hope this helps :)

    • @Jack_Kennedy_is_here
      @Jack_Kennedy_is_here 12 дней назад +4

      @@idk-dg1to Thank you, have a great day/night ^^

  • @ratedsforsisters2717
    @ratedsforsisters2717 12 дней назад +1

    16:48 this reminded of the time in middle school a boy held a knife he made of tinfoil to my neck in art class. Just snuck up behind me. I think I was just confused when it happened. He was a weird dude. Has done worse things but that was all after middle school. Got a criminal record as a minor for stabbing someone with a pencil because they either insulted or hit on his female cousin (I can’t remember). It could be a lie though too. He, again, was weird. Yet oddly nice to me at times

  • @firehawkthechosen
    @firehawkthechosen 3 дня назад

    Had teachers scream in my face because they thought I was talking. Could never imagine one ever asking me if I'm being abused and that's pretty fucking sad.

  • @meroleona3951
    @meroleona3951 11 дней назад

    I was a pre-k teacher for awhile but we also watched elementary schoolers before school started, one kid who was known for making trouble came up to me one day and said
    "Miss mero are you a mommy?"
    "No I'm not"
    "Good, I hope you lose your baby"
    His mom didn't care

  • @julife.ka.3899
    @julife.ka.3899 2 дня назад

    41:33 'he used to crawl on the floor looking for crayons to eat, but that might just have been a kid thing' really REALLY drives the point of just how little these kids are

  • @GitGoodGaming
    @GitGoodGaming 12 дней назад +1

    I don't think I'll be on here but damn I know I scared a LOT of teachers when I was younger... I've gotten a lot better as I've gotten older and have been graduated since 2012 but man my K-5 was nuts I threw more red flags than a soccer referee

  • @silvertalon007
    @silvertalon007 7 дней назад

    The letter opener kid wasn't a red flag, HE'S A GOTTDANG ROAD FLARE

  • @BoxOKittens
    @BoxOKittens 2 дня назад

    I know I scared my elementary school teachers because of how blank I was. I remember literally choosing to cry once when I got hurt because I was curious. After a few minutes I decided it sucked and stopped 😅

  • @suelviadomingos5411
    @suelviadomingos5411 2 дня назад

    Story 2 - ooohhh that child is a sociopath… Jesus

  • @rarelymary
    @rarelymary 10 дней назад

    Off topic, what is the background video? Is it from a game or just a mood video?
    Edit: It looks like Exo One. Looks really nice!

  • @RebekkaJones
    @RebekkaJones 2 дня назад

    *couldn't *I'm *won't *didn't *doesn't *mom's *didn't *wasn't

  • @uniquegeek2708
    @uniquegeek2708 12 дней назад +1

    Story 10: beginning of that sounded like the twins in my mom's classroom who had FAS. Their mother did drugs and alcohol while pregnant. She was also the school trustee. Tons of fun to deal with, considering everything.

  • @bgaming9.
    @bgaming9. 11 дней назад +3

    unrelated, but you should start putting the name of the game in the background in the description

  • @I-AmWealthy-Bee
    @I-AmWealthy-Bee 9 дней назад

    Story 26 is just utterly horrifying and disgusting.

  • @l3scOmgAming4370ARTGAMING
    @l3scOmgAming4370ARTGAMING День назад

    Brian being a drug dealer really makes sense,heres how:-
    sociopath-->grow to 18 y/o-->get a job-->get fired-->snort that pack-->love it-->decide to make other people taste this "beauty"(ofc drugs are the worst thing ever im just making it how he thinks in his mind,so dont think i like drugs,they are disgusting)

  • @Goodasteebaby
    @Goodasteebaby 10 дней назад

    Oh my wait until “Brian” gets into a serious relationship OMG

  • @bethroth7623
    @bethroth7623 11 дней назад

    What is the game going on in the background? It looks really interesting.

  • @mehpoorheart
    @mehpoorheart 7 дней назад

    It's 5am and I just got done sobbing to a mha ep of dabi and now I'm watching this so I can distract myself 🫡

  • @donnamurphy5698
    @donnamurphy5698 12 дней назад

    Chronic scratching or picking is a mental disorder multiple people in my family have it including me. . Kid in that segment has lots of additional problems. Kid in that segment has lots of additional problems

  • @HanaDubs
    @HanaDubs 12 дней назад

    Worst part about my school is that IEPs are never actually used, just in place to tell parents theyll do soemthing but they never do

  • @listen_beforeigo
    @listen_beforeigo 5 дней назад

    story 24 sounds ALOT like my old school

  • @Spring._.0
    @Spring._.0 5 дней назад

    idk what was wrong with me but i used to pick theese (scabs?) idk what to call them on my arms, take my mechanical pencil and dip it in the small patch of blood and draw / write with it….
    sometimes in class i’d just get up and get a paper towel from the front to clean my bloody spots from my hands..
    i genuinelly don’t know why tf i did that but i turned out pretty normal

  • @Distriived
    @Distriived 8 дней назад

    It's surprising how smart a two year old can be. We told our son he could get a toy if he could start pooping on the potty. Well I caught him in the bathroom using a piece of toilet paper (this part blew my mind that a 2 year old would be germ conscience) to pick his crap out of his pullup up and put it in the toilet. If I hadn't caught him halfway through doing this I probably would have believed him. 😅

  • @Bladze2084
    @Bladze2084 12 дней назад

    14:37 they meant the Wednesday the week after Christmas

  • @kerontherun
    @kerontherun 10 дней назад

    I'm laughing at the E rated RPF about the teacher. Maybe I shouldn't but... omg...

  • @jennifercirasa1444
    @jennifercirasa1444 3 дня назад

    I think it’s so funny that dudes all like “I feel so bad for them. I hope everything’s better now. I wanna know what happened to the poor abused child. “.
    No you don’t. You don’t care. No one does. Cause it’s most likely the same addict that you straight up judge for being broken addicted and/or homeless.

  • @angelpandadaylane4924
    @angelpandadaylane4924 10 дней назад

    9:54 seems like a kid version of my mother.

  • @philjack8535
    @philjack8535 11 дней назад

    Some of these remind me of eric cartman from south park

  • @uniquegeek2708
    @uniquegeek2708 12 дней назад

    Story 2: oh geez no, doing put him in a drama class. It wouldn't redirect his energy, he would just use the info to be a more skilled sociopath.
    Same reason you don't send people with full blown malignant narcissism to therapy or psychology classes. They take that info to get more skilled at messing with people.

  • @the_blue_shark
    @the_blue_shark 6 дней назад

    Why are there space suit people for a short moment at 37:39 the lightning in that game is realy wierd

  • @jaystohh
    @jaystohh 12 дней назад

    another w!!!!

  • @justicekingtut3571
    @justicekingtut3571 12 дней назад +2

    What game is this?

  • @annisaissadi9257
    @annisaissadi9257 11 дней назад +1

    The audio is weirdly small

  • @user-mk9yv8pv3vIMA-WEIRD-GUY
    @user-mk9yv8pv3vIMA-WEIRD-GUY 12 дней назад

    8:04 scab picking? idk about that being a sign on something, but you're right to say when it got that extreme, there was something wrong.

  • @JoshInTheOutdoors
    @JoshInTheOutdoors 12 дней назад +12

    FACE REVEAL!!!

    • @Brambleclaw01
      @Brambleclaw01 12 дней назад +3

      Huh?!?!?!

    • @Lampe2020
      @Lampe2020 12 дней назад +1

      @@Brambleclaw01
      I think he just demands it, not calls it out. Although I have only watched the first ten minutes so far.

  • @shaynorthan101
    @shaynorthan101 12 дней назад

    Bryan sounds like my former boss, he has a personality disorder.

  • @serioussteven3948
    @serioussteven3948 2 дня назад

    IDK if OP was talking about both girls or who was laughing. But tbh I would probably laugh too if someone hold a knife up against my throat out of fear. 😅
    Like when I'm really scared I would actually laugh.

  • @abarbienamedken3334
    @abarbienamedken3334 10 дней назад

    4:45 my guess is Brian has a cluster b. It sounds more like histrionic. I really wish people would realize signs of “sociopathy” may be signs of severe neglect or abuse. Cluster b’s are not usually hereditary, they usually come from trauma. Even if it is hereditary, with good parenting and proper counseling people with cluster b’s can be great people. I have histrionic and borderline and my spouse has antisocial. We are both children of horrific neglect. Their mom was sick and mentally unwell so couldn’t take care of them and mine were an alcoholic and a workaholic that were never home.
    I’m shocked Brian’s mother didn’t get him help when she saw him practicing crying. This behavior just breathes attention seeking which kids don’t usually get just willy hilly, usually that comes with neglect. They have to feel they need to perform to get the attention they need or desire from a parent. The mother just sayings he’s a pathological liar and to not listen to his stories basically makes me wonder if she just sort of turns a blind eye on him. Why not do something about his lying like counseling or if you were concerned about the practice crying, why not take him to a doctor. Plus I wonder if he chose crying because maybe his mother would only show sympathy to him if what made him upset had him full blown crying. If the only time you get the emotional support you need and the feeling of being taken care of is when you sob coz your parents ignore you otherwise, it makes perfect sense to learn to cry, to make up stories that are sad enough that a person would deem him worthy of care. It would make sense if he wasn’t being taken seriously unless he was sad enough.
    Idk my first thought from everything in this post is “So Brian was horrifically neglected, had a cluster b, and his parents did the ‘he’s just born a monster, nothing I can do but treat him like one’ thing a lot of parents do. Coz why get help when the counselor can tell you that it’s your parenting at fault.”
    The reason I think this is because my brother was antisocial, his mother died in front of him when he was two and his dad married a woman who couldn’t stand him, as horrible of human as my brother is, I do recognize it was because of horrific abuse. Instead of getting him help, my mother just told everyone around her what horrible behavior issues he has and to ignore them. She hit him constantly to stop the behavior and became convinced that he was just manipulating his therapists. He never got any help or counseling for the death of his mother he just got beat for acting out because of it. Eventually he did start acting like a “sociopath” but again that’s not a formal diagnosis. He killed pets, wild animals, he abused several of his girlfriends and he became a child predator. But he wasn’t just born that way.
    Meanwhile I would also lie like this as a child and I’m an incredible empathetic person. I had histrionic because I was neglected in favor of my brother who “needed more attention”. I told people my dad knew Jesus personally and met him face to face, that I moved coz my last preschool burned down, and all sorts of wild things, because I wanted to have the attention. I stopped when I humiliated myself coz a teacher caught me and called my parents. Children aren’t born pathological liars, they have to learn that lying is beneficial to their survival in their home and that bleeds over into the rest of their life, I.e. the classroom.
    Tl;dr I highly suspect Brian’s mother was neglecting him if not abusing him in other ways because “sociopaths” aren’t just born. Also sociopath is no longer a diagnosis, so stop calling people that. If a child is lying and doing anything to get attention that’s probably a huge sign of neglect. Good parents don’t raise bad people and good parents don’t raise kids who fake family deaths and tears. Think, has a serial killer ever had a wonderful childhood? No, so why would a kid exhibiting serial killer traits not also have an awful home life. Plus he became a drug dealer. Happy kids don’t become drug dealers.

    • @siqxyre8473
      @siqxyre8473 9 дней назад

      Exactly what I was thinking

  • @tasniabasit6204
    @tasniabasit6204 12 дней назад +2

    good, hardworking, nerdy kid with aspirations and high standards for herself ... her parents hate her anyway.

  • @staz1571
    @staz1571 2 дня назад +1

    The Game is Exo One :)

  • @MagiCultist
    @MagiCultist 4 дня назад

    What’s the game in the background?

  • @notthebestasbestos
    @notthebestasbestos День назад

    Wait but in 2012 the Wednesday after Christmas WAS January 2nd. The OP was right. Am I missing something?

  • @Olim1les
    @Olim1les 11 дней назад

    9:37 Wtf happened to this kid that made him like that

  • @Nori-239
    @Nori-239 12 дней назад +1

    REALLY scary stories yeah, but what's the game in the background??

    • @midnight1978
      @midnight1978 11 дней назад +2

      It's called Exo One :) I asked that in a previous video once as well since it looked really interesting!

    • @Nori-239
      @Nori-239 11 дней назад

      @@midnight1978 Ah, thank you! :D