10 Things Every Grown Man Needs In His Bedroom
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Ah, now I see why this video exists haha
I think everyone would love to see your rims and your adult race car bed and what kind of rims are you going to purchase to put on it.
Laugh out loud.
1- Twin size Mattress in floor with no bed sheets.
2- Car Jack Stands in a corner.
3- Dumbbell Rack.
4- 32inch TV on top of a upside down shopping cart.
5- Microwave oven on top of a beer keg.
6- Plastic bags for each type of clothes (Keep organized, you know...).
7- Milk plastic rack upside down to put old spice cologne and deodorant.
8- AR-15 and some ammo laying on the floor.
9- Mini fridge with Hot pockets and Pat Ribbons.
10- Teddy Bear.
11. triumph speed triple.
12. AR-15 for teddy bear
13. Hiker Backpack for outings
Damn if you shifted your budget a little you would be more comfortable
My guy, this is perfect!
I have a bike pump next to my bed in case my girlfriend loses air. She likes it when I read before we fool around. Books are attractive.
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Duuuuuuude.🤣
Sir... Thanks for this laugh 😆. Hugely needed and appreciated 👍 Have an awesome day
A bike pump gets the job done. You can get a lot of downward leverage.
Love is a complicated thing!
I also highly recommend a home defense weapon of choice at the ready at your bedside and taking a course on proper use, if not familiar. Life experience has taught time and time again that we never know when it might be needed. All the best Courtney and Teddy.
Got a Glock under the folded blanket on the little bookshelf. Check.
I thought that is what she meant when she said "protection"😭
100% agreed. Even if you're not a practitioner of the art of klik-pao, there are fire extinguisher size cans of pepper gel that will pointedly remind someone that this is not their home.
I consider my bedroom as my sanctuary where comfort and serenity are the master words.
It's not only a place where I sleep and dream, but also a place where I can rest, listen to peaceful music and think about my life so I can become a better version of myself.
Thank you for the video!
As a bare minimalist, I don't even have a bedroom. I retire at the end of every single day in my SUV and all I have is [1] mattress & pillow, [2] fan, [3] small bin for clothes, and [4] gym bag. How long have I been doing this you ask? This November will be my 50th consecutive month. Live free, clutter-free
1. Good Mattress
2. Candles
3. Drapes
4. Book shelf
5. Paintings
6. Full length Mirror
7. Condoms
8. Bed accessories
9. Humidifier
10. Bedside Lamp
Clean up kit
Ty
whats a condom?
mattress and condoms.....thats all
Folks like you that do these video summations...are Kingd-Queens!!
I like what Courtney said about bed sheets. She’s hardcore like my grandmother. She endorses washing bed sheets once a week. I wash my bed sheets every two weeks. I figured out my best routine when I was 18. I still work for the same company 18 years later. I’ve been there for half my life now. Every payday weekend I wash my bed sheets. Just bought new ones this month actually. As a bachelor I’ve learned that payday weekend is a good marker for routine chores such as washing bedsheets and vacuuming my car. The first weekend of the month is good for washing shower curtains and bath rugs and mopping bathroom floors. Just some tips I use.
Get a cleaning lady. You evidently need one in your life.
@@russ9921 cleaning lady would probably find all this serial killers dead bodies
@@farmerx165 🤣🤣🤣
I didn't know people washed shower curtains. I wouldn't even know how
Also cleaning and doing chores on payday weekend seems like a very solid method of saving money, since you're occupied with chores rather than spending money after getting $$$ head
I'm saving up to get some sweet rims for my racecar bed. As a grown man, I think its important to show that I care about my investments
XD
😭😭😭
Hopefully spinners
"if you're a grown man, your room should reflect that"
I feel attacked
Buck Up Buttercup 😉
Hahahahaha
Me too. I am a huge cartoon fan and I have a Discord from mlp on my dresser, I also have a book on the making of Disney's Cinderella on my bookshelf, as well as various mangas. I am a dweeb and I am proud. But it turns out lots of women are animation nerds too, so.
It's true though....
We all need to tighten up. Don’t worry boys, look at your girls car if you need to feel better
Great stuff, such a positive influence for guys out there. With your content I picture a bunch of guys hearing this and becoming a little more emotionally intelligent, a little more thoughtful, and a little classier. I listen just for ideas for how I could work on myself more as well. Thanks!
Wow, this comment made me smile! Thank you 🥹
I totally agree Shane! It’s so great having a female’s perspective with such authentic content. I pictured a bunch of guys running out to Bed Bath and Beyond today 😂
@@ronfranklin5854 haha that's hilarious and presumably true!
@@CourtneyRyan 100% Shane.
Very well put
For me, what makes Courtney stand out?
Is that her advice seems to come from a very genuine, altruistic point of view.
It's not her intent to help men mack, or game women, or even hook up.
So much as she is clueing us in how
How women tick, why? What they look for in a man, and why. Generally helping mtn Better understand them, while also improving ourselves, so that we can be better men, people and partners
Not just to get women, but to be better overall human beings.
It's Not about Men vs women, as much as it is being better, more together versions of ourselves. Like, it's Not about Men, vs Women. It's about Mrn And women, being Better, Together.
Awesome to get good wisdom from a Super Hot chick, who is also a grounded, smart, solid human being.
You're right, I feel way more emotionally intelligent now that I put a lamp on top of the gun safe in the corner.
Bonus that I found and love. Get a water decanter with some matching glasses, just one or two will do. Fill it with water before bed. Its so nice to be able to wake up and just have water right there. No more morning cotton mouth, bad breath, and just general thirstiness. Also, keep lubricant with your protection, and make sure they can work together. Your bedroom activities will thank you.
Yeah, water near bed is invaluable in hangover situation. Just remember to keep it fresh ... hangover plus diarrhea is not good combination ;)
@@matikaevur6299 Entirely valid point as well. I don't get drunk, but if someone did, it would help with that as well.
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Yeah .. depends on how "grown" you are.
I'm late 40's and don't need that kind of first aid anymore, either. In my late teens to mid 20's .. well
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Those advices are for all people important. Its always good to design your bedroom the way you feel most comforting. Sleep is extremely important for physical and mental health. Any little detail that helps creating the environment you need to relax and have a peaceful night is worth it... Even when its just a tiny thing like putting your phone away from nightstand or adding a plant.
Good video and keep the great work up, Miss Ryan ✌️
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Nah I didn't find them important at all. Most of these things are actually needed by women, not men. Sure, if you as a man have all these, you'll be a lot more sympathetic to women, but tbh as a grown man all YOU (and not others) need in your bedroom is a comfortable bed, and some source of light. All the rest is just plus for additional comfort. I personally never needed a candle, but I still have one 'cause I noticed women like it. Men need hell a lot less than women, that's the truth.
1. Book ✔
2. Soft Mattress✔
3. Accessories... Yes I don't sleep on a bare mattress of the floor✔
4. I don't know about these "drapes" you speak of, I have manly curtains ✔
5. Candles - no not my style - ladies bring your own❌
6. Reading lamp✔
7. Full length mirror❌ I only have a half length (I have failed)
8. Artwork (or course... I'm not a monster!)✔
9. Humidifier (this should be number 1 here in Cleveland!)✔
10. Protection (yep mattress protector fitted just right)✔
11-a soft fuzzy pair of hand cuffs and a blind fold
12-a mini fridge
13-a bed
with posts
14-robe
15-blue tooth speaker
Bonus-make your candle the cool to touch wax for an extra heightened experience
Shes 100% right, especially on the last one. Can't stress how important it is to have protection in your room at ALL times. No exceptions. Had a woman over one time without having any on hand. The desire in the moment, however, would not be denied. And i spent the next several months paranoid, waiting for a dreaded call from her. Fortunately nothing came of it, but its not worth the worry. I learned my lesson. keep those things well stocked.
What that you gave her an STD lol. 😂😂😂😂
I have a flat, pancake pillow. But to be fair, I’ve been a stomach sleeper my entire life. Only in the past few years have I started waking up in the middle of the night and grabbing a second pillow for my side sleeping shift. That one has some quality neck support and keeps me from feeling my age in the morning!
Just had to Google what drapes was. Never heard that saying before. I’m the UK we say curtains, also I love my humidifier
Yeah in America we say both but I would say drapes isn't a common thing anymore, so hurry for the Millennials keeping it alive hahaha
Bonus one which I would personally recommend, a Reed Diffuser. Trust me, your girl would love it.
Courtney you got your self together and provide quite practical advice.
I would also recommend a nice desk and maybe a nice set of drawers or even a filing cabinet. Even if you don't have a personal, landline computer, simply getting various possessions and effects off of the floor and onto a higher plane or inside a space you aren't walking on will do you tons of good. And please throw out your water bottles and other trash, and please run the vacuum every so often. Even once a quarter, that will do you so much good.
My ex had an inflatable doll in his bedroom ; I found it under the bed!
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I've had a Tempur-Pedic mattress for almost a decade and love it. But I had one guest who said that she missed the spring squeaking!
Aromatherapy is relaxing for me n awesome. I have candles and incense, a bookshelf n a night stand lamp. Soo relaxing
Top tip. Store protection in the artwork. Totally classy
Lol storage unit with protection, wine and glasses kept behind the artwork
Missing 3 things... A pistol/gun, because you are a man in a dangerous world (and know how to use it...my protection drawer has 2 meanings 😅). A super soft plush rug. Ive got one under my king bed that extends out from under it about 2 ft on all sides. Its a nice touch. And its a good little knee padding 😏. And you gotta have a color LED light strip under your bed, prefarably wifi/bluetooth controlled. Pop that sucker on with some red lights and boom, perfect mood lighting.
white drapes with elite looking curtains are a must! Totally changed the look and feel of my room
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I have a small book shelf and one of my favorites happens to be 1984 by George Orwell
Love it!
Yes, that is a great book!
Thank you, I really appreciate your videos!
I just need the perfect lamp by my bed to read with and I think I have most of those things covered! Thank you for another great video, Courtney, and keep on being you :)
You're helping me alot. I used to be incel but your advice helps me stay in school and work in an internship.
I’m so glad I can help! 🤍
@@CourtneyRyan thank you! If there's hope for me then there's hope for ALL men.
Good for you, we love to see it.
How are you no longer an incel? Do you have a girlfriend now?
@@jeremiahbok9028 thanks
Great video Courtney! I recommend a small or stand up plant if there is room for it. The best men's apartment or bedroom to model after is in the film American Psycho... very minimal, clean, white, great artwork etc... I also do not put a tv in my bedroom... bedroom is for sleeping, comfort and unwinding!
Agreed. TV in Bedroom is just a bad idea for several reasons
This! 😂
Really? You recommend a serial biller as a role model? Do you have daughters, that you love?
@@AllHandlesRTaken You must be fun at parties
well that's the idea: being a mask for others (impress them for whatever reason) and not genuine.
Please dont take this the wrong way cuz i think ur such a super sweet girl but these are just common bedroom items with an ad for a mattress.
Great content Courtney, I love your unpredictable topics.
I would add an essential oil diffuser for peace of mind, peppermint, francansense, eucalyptus, white Angelica etc
And, no tv
Maybe a CD player for old school audio books
Bottle of water
Alarm clock across the room
Enjoy
Clean pillow, Clean Sheets, Dark drapes - no electronics, no books, no distractions. I am asleep in 3 minutes or less.
Next to bed - alarm clock, shot gun and a pair of slippers
No candles, no potpourie, no art, no posters, no flags,
'sexy time' happens in the other room. I do not want to sleep in a wet spot - protection is there.
Thank you Courtney, great content.
defo getting these things when I turn 18 and start living in my own place. Heck, i'll try get some now!
I got my ultra firm King Koil queen mattress May 2020. The 12mo financing for a 2g purchase bundle was so worth it!
And an intimidating Big Bong! And a projector. And cream for the skin to smell good 😊
Absolutely true, thanks a lot ✨
You’re so welcome! 🤍
Bed
Drawers for clothes
Mirror
Wardrobe (preferably built in)
Working Light
Curtains/blinds
Optional -
Bed side table to put anything on such as mobile phone or alarm clock
Storage space (drawers, cabinets, shelves on walls, etc)
Desk (if you really must work in your room or for studying)
Shoe rack
Working fan (for the hot summer nights)
Portable heater (for the cold winter nights)
Anything more than this is overkill and waste of money
Optional - woman
@@reptiloid-kun9247 to be honest, there would never be a woman in my house....because I can't get any haha and i'd never be able to afford a house anyway
@@GrowingDownUnder I like your point
candle and full length mirror is a women want not what a grown man need.
@@zhen86 You really don't care how you look then, not even for a job interview to be sure you dress to impress?
You can also practice facial expressions and body posture in the mirror.
I think mirrors are great for interview and work practice, even if you have a blue collar job.
great video this video helps us guys keep up the good work
Courtney got me laughing at the fact that she says that we don’t listen to her 😂. We’re guys we tend to do what we want but I heard you loud and clear. Protection in the room ✅. Great content
I also heard her say we don't listen.
I use my protective body armour while wrestling in the bedroom
You got them level 4 plates?
A nice chair/recliner is also nice to have.
thanks for these videos
I would recommend waterproof pillow protectors, I have some very expensive memory and latex pillows that I have had for years but because they have been sealed in waterproof pillow protectors they are not exposed to things like snot and drool, they last. A lot of people buy new pillows as a conventional pillow is like cotton wool, you wet cotton wool and it will lose its shape forever same goes for pillows.
My phone is usually in my pocket or on the charger in both cases not in reach
6/10
I have blinds instead of drapes and no candles. No Mirror.
I'm pretty good on books though. My Bedroom is pretty much the house library.
"A room without books is like a man without a soul"
- Cicero
As for protection, I have a bunch of Dungeons and Dragons rulebooks visible on my shelves. I wasn't sure whether to count that though.
The Last paragraph haha
D&D books are very effective birth control.
When she was talking about birth control... I somehow don't think that that is what she had in mind... 🤔🤣
I recently upgraded my wardrobe. I switched out a few of my graphics tees, and kept some of my more neutral tones and blue (matches my eyes) etc. and active wear, gym shorts and shirts etc. Additionally, I have some buttonups hanging that I'm going to bring into the rotation more regularly. Making a bunch of glow ups, while currently in the job search for something with a higher salary, so there's a lot happening right now, wish me luck!
Chad has his mattress on the floor with no head board but still blows her back out on the first date. But...please guys still go ahead and make sure you have all this stuff so you can be alone and cozy in your room while you watch and simp over always low cut top Courtney on youtube😉 Some of you dudes are so caught up in the matrix and don't even know it. This chick is so smart and runs such an amazing hustle, It's actually impressive🤌
I have 2 more to add to this.
11. Firearm
12. Police grade handcuffs
77inch Big screen TV
Some 1/4 scale super hero statues , & graded vintage comics on the wall,
Surround sound speakers,
PS5, & my Series X
& lastly bed 🛌
Universal gym in the garage 💪
you know what courtney, i'll take you up on that...i have purchased at least 3 books the last 8months(seeing as though the first and last time i purchased a book to read was TMNT back when i was 12 at a school book fair) and never read them...but seems like probably the only time i would ever attempt to read a book...and i do want to get into reading...i dont know about 10 pages...but i can definitely do 3-5
Very interesting video. Decided to evaluate my space and listen to this for ideas and I got a thing or two that I'd upgrade when I'm in my own place (still with the parents atm) but I'm good for the most part. I got a decent array of books (could use a bookshelf tho but space is lacking), good bed, mattress and plenty of varying sheets to go with. Also got the lamp and candles. I didn't even know humidifiers were a thing lol, for reasons of I'm not on my own plus religious I don't have or use protection (my safety is abstinence until married, plus even if I was intending on bringing different girls home I probably wouldn't bring them home to my room then get into it with my grandma in the bedroom directly opposite). Definitely need a mirror though, that's the one thing I'm lacking.
Edit: also realised I forgot I don't have drapes. I think given my situation currently my room is good. When I do go in my own however I would change a few things. I've got a TV in my room standing on a shelf with lots of DVD'S and Blu-Rays, and I used to have a PS4 (now in storage, I need a break from it) there too. Also I got a pretty bulky desk underneath my window hence why I can't have drapes. If I'm riding solo, I may not have the TV in my room as I could watch whatever in the TV room anyway, if I keep one in my room id wall mount it. Would definitely look into getting a proper bookshelf to better display my books. I'd definitely get a different wardrobe, something a bit more modern, probably bigger and something that either has or could at least fit a mirror. I'd go for a more sleek and modern desk also, I'd try to get a drawer cabinet to store a few things. My "artwork" is something I'm actually quite proud of mostly, I've got a couple little kid photos of myself which I might not hang up on my own but I think with patents around its more appropriate, but what I would definitely keep is my religious iconography. I'm big in my faith, it's the core to who I am and the artwork reflects that plus I think it fits well into respectable and mature and not nothing like the naked chick's or the beer boxes. Definitely when on my own I'd look into drapes. Really liked this video courtney.
Perfect Lighting courtney👌
Yes, a nice comfortable bed is very important. It's worth every penny. Candles add a bit of romance. These are huge pluses if you have these when we come to your house.
You get it Court! 🤍
Yeah I keep a wax smell in both the living room and the bedroom and my nicer lamps with the red bulbs in them are in the bedroom. The setting is always appreciated
LOOOOOL you ain't comin over unless the guy makes six figures, is at least six feet tall, and has six pack abs or an eight inch dick. Dudes are onto y'all.
@@TheNaturalHealthBlogger That attitude is why nobody is coming to your house. Get your head right, and your immutable traits won't matter nearly as much to you or to anyone else as they do now. If you can't hold a conversation without spitting venom, putting your loathing for self and others on full, shameful display, then your mindset is going to continue to be flat-out repulsive. A bitter disposition is a bad look on anyone. Read books. Work on yourself. Until you've put in some real effort, maybe you ought to quit crying about how come nothing's changing. It's nobody's fault but yours.
Nothing says romance like having sex with random dudes...
I agree with the bookshelf. I don't think anyone needs a small library there but it shows you have more going on besides video games. I second the pictures on the wall as well.
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Video games? You guys have a lot to learn.
Good info Courtney Ryan thumbs up hope you are doing well 👍
Another good thing to add to this a flashlight just in case there is a power outage or emergency in the middle of the night.
Multiple full length mirrors to make the room look a bit more spacious (so the theory goes), family pictures if you're not big on art, a ceiling or oscillating fan for the hot months and an illuminated clock or clock radio so you can readily check the time without having to find your cell phone.
Yes you can wash your pillows & dry them too.
Thanks
_"I don't know what you guys are doin'."_ 😄😳
Something about the way you said that was hilarious. First time I've ever laughed and felt insecure at the same time.
In the interest of everyones time:
1. Queen size bed with matching sheets and bed set
2. paintings
3. Discarded MRE packets
4. Guitar
5. Rhodesian camo short shorts
6. Patteren 83 battle jacket
7. Bedside FN FAL
8. discarded 7.62x51 ammo
9. Crye percision top
10. Robert Mugabe rifle targets
You are forgetting a BEDSIDE FIREARM!
Defending against unexpected and violent intruders is more important than any of the above...
Another great video👌
Love the tip to have a bedside book (or two)!
Does anybody actually read paper books anymore though? I have an entire library (currently like 600 ebooks) on my phone, and can read any time I like without having to carry a heavy book around all day.
@@elmateo77 While we personally love flipping through the pages of a paper book, we also enjoy the convenience of an ebook!
Rollo Tamossi has 5 great books! Rich Cooper, don’t forget Aaron Cleary book of numbers. Also Jack Donovan, to become the warrior and build your tribe. This will help you understand why you are lost in a western society ran as if we are all women…
@@elmateo77 i read paper books
I got a 2 inch memory foam pad on the ground, a desk, power rack
AC unit, fan, phone charger, wall outlet, table, shelves, supplementss, tools, etc.
LOL at the "unknown stains on the pillows" remark. Regarding "protection" (ie condoms), how do they prevent crazy people? I know they protect against pregnancy and STDs, but I didn't know they also warded off crazy people, lol (and if they DO ward off crazy people, they must have a high failure rate)
😂 making sure you don’t get stuck with one because of a pregnancy potentially! Lol
Thank you . My bedroom is so boring . I don’t like clutter or furniture. I have bed nightstand and desk in there. THATS IT.
Blue blocking glasses are a must
Yes!!
This is clutch advice!
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I have a bedside bookshelf in my bed is primarily for sleeping as my favorite place to be is my gym which is where I unwind and recover as well as train. Most of my reading is done in the living room or the dining room because your brain can associate certain behaviors with certain environments so I no longer watch TV in my bedroom, I no longer read in my bedroom and I for sure as hell don't ever eat in my bedroom anymore. Ever since I turn my room into a blackout Zone I have been sleeping solid and thorough
Oooh yes I’ve heard the dark curtains really help!
@@CourtneyRyan so does having outlet timers that turn on lamps with red light bulbs in them before dusk so that I can slowly get all of the other lights off and begin to unwind. Just enough light to read and do things but low enough on the lux meter to not turn on stress hormones so that I actually relax before bed
You probably won’t touch this question, but I would be interested on your thoughts on what do you think should be considered and decided on before moving in with someone?
Check the local laws to make sure there is no "common law" laws. Some states she becomes your wife after a certain amount of cohabitating
This is good way to merge a sponsor with content, fair play.
I lol 😆 when you talked about college poster. Have a great day Courtney
"And who doesn't like fancy!?" HAHAHA! Love it!
Love your content as usual...that having been said, art is a personal thing - be it a beer box, posters...whatever: remember Tennyson said in his translation of Ulysses " I am a part of all I have met..."
Courtney doing an outfit check while balancing on the edge of a bathtub....Now *there's* an image!!😁
Interesting evaluation. Most men do not really pay much attention to "atmosphere" in their living spaces like women do, so I'm sure this is useful. It doesn't have to be perfect, just uplifting. I have am fortunate to own a home to myself, so each room has a different visual theme according to it's purpose. Play, eat, cook, work, rest. I think it's important to divide your home according to your activities. I eat dinner every night in my dining room, even if it is alone. That's my way of honoring the way it used to be with family. My living room has all my favorite pictures, books, and memorable items. My game room has all my electronics and musical instruments. My bedroom is simple and comfortably decorated --- no TV, no computer, no toys, no distractions. And surprisingly, contains 9 out of 10 things on this list.
You can put many pillows in the washing machine. And should.
Guys call them curtains. Blackout preferred.
1. Comfortable bed
2. Night stand
3. Phone charger with a long cable so you can confrotable use your phone in bed while charging
4. Laundry hamper
5. Bottled water so you don't have to stumble to the kitchen in the middle of the night for a cup of water
6. Tv with apple tv or chrome cast
7. Alarm clock so you don't flashbang yourself with your phone when checking the time in the middle of the night
8. Dresser
9. AC or fan
10. Smart plug and switch so you don't have to get up to turn off the light before bed
What kind of pillow's and fitted sheets and sheets and blankets and pillow cases in what kind of drapes would you recommend what is a good book that you would recommend for guys especially for single guys would you?
recommend for a single man
And what kind of full-body mirror would you recommend I would love one that has hidden storage and lights in it?
I like this type of content, some things I just wanna do for myself rather than girls.
Courtney always coming in clutch
The humidifier is a nice tip.
Ddaannggg 5k views within the hour! Keep up the great content Courtney!!
Wow, I just litterally have all of this just right now in my badroom (thanks for my landlord for having some of this already)😅😅😅
1:53 For a great night's sleep my body requires a hard surface, I prefer hard wood floor or rock with a woolen blanket above and below( to avoid draft ) for a good sleep.
A place to lay out clothes for the morning is really helpful, and a vacuum for getting all the crumbs and ants out of the bed once or twice a month is a must. Lol.
On a serious note.... candles are essential. I also have a fragrance diffuser which you put water and scented oils in and it shoots scented vapor into the air. Obviously the candles I use match the fragrance of the oil in the diffuser and of course reed diffusers too.
I have millions of books. I also keep my bed covered with faux fur throws in co-ordinated colors above the bedspread and there are pillows and cushions all over the place..
One thing I would argue is also essential in a bedroom that you missed is potted plants. I have 5 plants in my bedroom and also occasionally put in a bouquet of flowers to brighten the place further.
fragrance diffuser? I have a bomb diffuser and 3 kitchen knives in the drawer next to my bed
5:24 I don’t know what you guys are doing . That cracked me up 🤣😂
Enjoy your content, as per usual.
Pretty much have all that in my room, but the most important thing I have next to my bed is my turntable.
Nothing like playing a record before winding down.
Hey I did pretty good for this list. I have a 16 year old mattress, i have drapes and a bedside lamp. 3/10 not bad.
Can't do a humidifier here in the winter, it causes ice to build up on the windows.
I have a nice Venetian blind ... is that a wrong choice in some way?
Great video, Courtney! I would love your advice for me. What advice do you have for people who want to get married but not have children? I know you have expressed in other videos your desire to have children, and that is great. But children are not for everyone. I have been told to be myself and be open and honest about this choice. Of course, that is good advice even if it doesn't expediate the process. I'm even questioning whether or not marriage is for me or worthwhile pursuing.
Agreed. Having children is not for everyone. But that's the whole point of marriage. There is no reason whatsoever, especially for a man, to get married if he doesn't want to become a father.
@@moleahy6880 Well its a person's choice to become a father or not. Some people wanna get married but not have kids
@@001barca Yes, that's true. But getting married for a man makes no sense without children. Women are always ready to get married because they usually marry up. But men marry down. The tradeoff is supposed to be a family and without that, it isn't a good deal for a man.
@@moleahy6880 To each their own. It depends on different cultures, also different thoughts of people in the same culture. It is easily understandable that a man needs a partner more than a woman. A woman is born with more abilities than man, she can do the outdoor and financial stuff and she can do the indoor home stuff, take care of kids at the same time while most men struggle to do so. Also, easy for a woman to live alone happily without a man while its really hard for men naturally. Wife is a man's family, family ain't only with kids. Kids are an addition to an already established family. If both partners decide not to have kids, then it is totally understandable.
@@001barca Do you mind if I ask how old you are? I'm an older guy and have done a lotta living.
You can get washable pillows. Just thought I'd mention it.
Fixed title: "The bedding advertisement every grown man must watch"
I’m a weird guy. I never step foot in my bedroom unless I’m going to bed or picking clothes from my closet. And that’s when my wife is at home. For years we had to live in separate countries at least 6 months of the year, and during that time when I’m alone I would sleep on the couch in the living room. If I dare sleep in the bedroom, all kinds of nightmares would plague my sleep.
It's not weird, it's actually a good thing because your brain does associate certain behaviors with certain environments as I quit watching TV in bed, I quit reading in bed and I quit eating in bed years ago and it has improved my sleep greatly. I also invested in red light bulbs, outlet timers, and blackout curtains just so that my bed is a sanctuary, as well as a fun place to hang out haha so now I do my reading in the living room next to another lamp with a red light bulb in it, I eat at the table and I do my reading either at the table or on the couch