I’ll never blame my mom for this. I can’t imagine what it was like to see her child have this happen. I was rock climbing and fell off the wall from 35 feet up. She tried to run away because she was so afraid. Another woman caught her and told her that wasn’t going to help, but I can understand. I love my mom because all she was worrying about was how horribly I had been hurt and all I worried about was how scared she was. We ended up talking about my dog because stories about her kept us both calm.
So very true! My daughter retired from the US Army, was deployed (extended) in Afghanistan, and i still think of her as my baby. I’ve told her she may be an adult but she will always be my baby!
I hear Fathers say about there children , that my son that’s my baby , then he learns not to say it to loud ,but between parents o ya You can express deep Love , that normal .
I've had a chest drain put in while conscious and I don't think people undertand just how much it hurts. The lidocaine only helps for the surface cuts; you can feel every second of the tube going through the chest wall. I could even feel it scraping against my ribs as they pushed it in. If anyone reading this ever needs a chest drain while you're awake, you need to be adamant about asking them for pain meds before they start. I cannot stress this enough. Don't try to "just get through it", there's no need to be a hero and there's no need to be in pain when you don't need to be.
My wife had two chest drains after heart surgery. The first one was so traumatic, she refused the second to be done outside the theater. She was done in theater and it was a much better experience.
@@ezlow1065because most of the time it’s done on the scene of a bad accident or in an awkward area. It’s an emergency situation that can kill you within minutes unless you have your chest drained. There is simply no time basically
@@belindawilson1350 I didn't say they were ignoring him, And I said it nicely so I wasn't talking mean. But when a baby is crying and wanting their parents cuz they're not feeling good You're supposed to pick them up comfort them you know?
19:56 I’m sorry, did she just say her baby had lost weight but that it was much needed? Babies are supposed to be chonky! Poor kid has been puking and pooping his guts out, he’s probably dehydrated.
How true is that? "Say I love you often".... I just watched a video on TheSpineGuy channel. A man, ironically a parametic, broke his neck attempting a flip at the start of a zip line. It was the first day of a vacation with his wife celebrating being offically "empty nesters" 🙈 Always say "i love you" and if you can't say it, express it how you can. Today is the 4th of october and almost 20 years ago today, my mom was hit by a truck while crossing the road. I am thankful everyday that she miraculously survived without many lingering problems.... considering she actually did die and was brought back. Love the way you bring humanity into a medical show. 💕 ✌️👏👏
They really were adorable. I love how she said they’re “good pals as well as husband & wife.” A really good eg of how true love grows & matures but remains steadfast. A truly beautiful couple!
It's a sad state of affairs when someone falls 25', breaks several ribs, has to have a chest drain, and then returns to work 8 days later. He should've had a couple of months of paid medical leave to recover from a work-related injury.
When in shock due to attending a tertiary hospital reactions can differ. Not everyone turns on the tears as defined as a good tear jerker by the media. Everyone behaves differently, everyone behaves differently under the gaze of a camera. Don’t be so ready to criticise parents reactions. Don’t drag people down they are doing their best under extraordinary times.
My sister has the strongest grip of any woman I’ve ever met. When her first daughter was born, there was a student nurse in the room who offered to hold her hand during the birth. My sister actually fractured the nurses hand……
They couldn't have given that poor guy painkillers before they cut him open and put a chest tube in? Lol after they do it shes like ill get you some painkillers 😂. Thats messed up
@@karinabarnes Well, he had been exploding out of both ends for 24 hours and now they are in a public place with no place to adequately clean up if he explodes on them. Baby got what he needed from them, eye contact and soft words. Holding him whilst he was crying would not do much, given he was crying because he was sick, not lonely.
They are fine. The husband said that when he met her, she looked like she would be hard work and then as they interacted, he discovered otherwise. He explained that regardless how she looks, she's very warm, caring and with a great sense of humour. I recognize the look she has - the resting face that makes a person look angry and/or hard. My mom had that type of resting face. Mom could be sitting quietly and looking really angry and when I checked to see if everything was okay, she would respond very cheerfully. She couldn't help her resting face. And I think this girl is rather sweet, just reserved in public. I had my daughter in ER once as a baby and although it was a highly emotional situation and I felt like a wreckage inside, outwardly I kept it together because I come from strong British roots and we manage ourselves in front of others. The British saying "keep calm and carry on" is so real.
@@lindawitherspoon446 She was, most certainly. She's not an 18 year old with uncontrolled emotions standing there bawling, she's a grown woman. Didn't you hear what her husband said about her?
The hardest time to be a mom is when you break your neck at age 57, spend 10 years for 13 surgeries, finally reach a point where you realize, only one of your 3 kids, actually cares to call 12 times year and the other 2 can't be bothered. Being alone at age 69, I am not scared of anything. I have actually been alone since 2012. Those lost years are the worst of my life, but I have permission to go and do whatever I want. No responsibility to anything or anything. Today I am 69 years old. No one calls even though I have had the same phone number for 20 years. Hurts watching husband's and wives at the end of life.
33:03 I hope I'm as happy as that couple when I'm their age. It is amazing that they are still so in love with each other. After so many years, they still try to keep things interesting, Hahaha 😆
I want to fly my hiney over there & go to your hospital. I’m in California about 60 miles south of Sacramento. The healthcare here is not very good. I need serious medical care & I honestly don’t think any of the doctors or nurses care about anybody. So frustrating.
for any woman that is struggling with trying to get pregnant try drinking aloe vera juice. It truly works my parents struggled with conceiving for nearly 5 years and this guy my mom worked for told her about her drinking aloe vera juice because mom had an abscess tooth. the guy was a retired pharmacist that was like in his late 80's or in his 90's in 1984or 1985. So, my mom did drink the aloe vera juice and while she was drinking the juice she was able to get pregnant with my brother and he was born in July of 1985. And my mom was not the only one to use this a coworker who was having a hard time getting pregnant my mom told her about drinking the aloe vera juice and she was also able to get pregnant as well.
They said so themselves, picking him up causes him to scream. Why? Because having an infection and fever makes touch hurt, same in babies as in adults. I'm sure they wanted to love on him but sometimes you have to back off for the sake of the child.
@@Rammstein66-u9v her whole vibe was weird to me - the "well it was time for a baby so I needed to find a man" she seems very robotic, and the comment about the baby's weight was so odd.
@@Rammstein66-u9v 19:51 The "much needed" comment about him losing weight. It was much needed for the baby to lose weight? A healthy baby is a plump baby, they are growing every day. Weird vibes form them both. And she did just look at the baby, the dad was tending to him more and the one discussing the situation with the doctor. Also they both talked about worrying about spoiling the baby, the whole concept of spoiling a baby is just stupid, babies cannot be spoiled, they aren't even self aware till around 18 months. They were confusing the concepts of love, discipline and spoiling in their conversations. Perhaps it was all bad editing but they didn't come across very well.
27:00 I am 44 and have never had children or even thought about it because I never thought I was responsible enough. I know it's not too late but my partner has had a vasectomy. Confused 🤦
Well not the vasectomy part 😢and I’m a bit older But when I was 43 I got pregnant accidentally first time ever ❤miscarried Not sad because was not prepared in the least &although I Felt young at the time, just wasn’t sure I’d be a good parent - God takes care of everything for how it’s supposed to be ( in my belief ) ❤much love to you from the United States 🫶🏻🙏🏻🥰
You’re the only other one to comment on this! I feel like that was ABSOLUTELY not addressed by anyone. The silence definitely gives “we’re all so fucked” vibes, like they knew what was happening but didn’t want to admit it on camera
Just a question being a Fan of this Awesome program ,we all see it we all know . But what would be a good age for children or teenagers to watch this show. With mature adult oversight …. What if your Child sitter watch’s this in front of children ? Somebody please chime in .
I wonder who would say, don’t look into a medical book. It’s a perfect guide to saving lives. I have heard, don’t check the internet. Lol it must be doctors saying these stupid things. Like my daughter would say, “Mom, google is your friend.” It sure is‼️ and likewise a medical book. You would be surprised how much you can know by just reading.
Nina, SPOIL him 🩷 It's okay to spoil your babies, Life is very unexpected and we never know how long we have with our children or our parents so spoilers as you want 🩷🩷🩷
I’ll never blame my mom for this. I can’t imagine what it was like to see her child have this happen. I was rock climbing and fell off the wall from 35 feet up. She tried to run away because she was so afraid. Another woman caught her and told her that wasn’t going to help, but I can understand. I love my mom because all she was worrying about was how horribly I had been hurt and all I worried about was how scared she was. We ended up talking about my dog because stories about her kept us both calm.
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We all do weird things in an emergency.
As a mom of 4 adult children I always still see them as babies. I think all moms do no matter how old they are especially when they’re hurting
That is so true, we where 4 children and even us being married in our 50th she treated us sometimes like a little child.
So very true! My daughter retired from the US Army, was deployed (extended) in Afghanistan, and i still think of her as my baby. I’ve told her she may be an adult but she will always be my baby!
I hear Fathers say about there children , that my son that’s my baby , then he learns not to say it to loud ,but between parents o ya You can express deep Love , that normal .
I've had a chest drain put in while conscious and I don't think people undertand just how much it hurts. The lidocaine only helps for the surface cuts; you can feel every second of the tube going through the chest wall. I could even feel it scraping against my ribs as they pushed it in. If anyone reading this ever needs a chest drain while you're awake, you need to be adamant about asking them for pain meds before they start. I cannot stress this enough. Don't try to "just get through it", there's no need to be a hero and there's no need to be in pain when you don't need to be.
They need to sedate me cuz I have heard how horrible it is! No way! Absolutely not! Im sorry you went through that!
I will never forget seeing on put in a teenager when I first worked as a nurse. Omg the pain for her was horrific
Why o why dont they give gas for those things!
My wife had two chest drains after heart surgery. The first one was so traumatic, she refused the second to be done outside the theater. She was done in theater and it was a much better experience.
@@ezlow1065because most of the time it’s done on the scene of a bad accident or in an awkward area. It’s an emergency situation that can kill you within minutes unless you have your chest drained. There is simply no time basically
With all do respect, Nina & Jason, when babies are sick it's nice for them if you pick them up for comfort.
Poor little baby ❤
With respect you have no idea What was going on the entire time.Nobody was ignoring him. So stop talking tripe.
@@belindawilson1350 I didn't say they were ignoring him, And I said it nicely so I wasn't talking mean. But when a baby is crying and wanting their parents cuz they're not feeling good You're supposed to pick them up comfort them you know?
I agree, and he vomited almost lying down , you could see that he was in discomfort…
Daphne is a rock! I love her attitude.
19:56 I’m sorry, did she just say her baby had lost weight but that it was much needed? Babies are supposed to be chonky! Poor kid has been puking and pooping his guts out, he’s probably dehydrated.
It’s like parents that feed babies skim milk so they “ don’t get fat”…when they actually need the fat to develop….
Yup. She actually fat shamed her baby😢
Some people need to take a “parenting “ course before they become parents.
Babies in distress also need to be held. They feel overwhelmed when sick. I didn’t enjoy watching him cry in his pram.
How true is that? "Say I love you often".... I just watched a video on TheSpineGuy channel. A man, ironically a parametic, broke his neck attempting a flip at the start of a zip line. It was the first day of a vacation with his wife celebrating being offically "empty nesters" 🙈
Always say "i love you" and if you can't say it, express it how you can.
Today is the 4th of october and almost 20 years ago today, my mom was hit by a truck while crossing the road. I am thankful everyday that she miraculously survived without many lingering problems.... considering she actually did die and was brought back. Love the way you bring humanity into a medical show. 💕 ✌️👏👏
I love these lil old people/couples they are so precious ❤
Honestly, couple goals in true life form!❤
The cute older couple when she whispers in his ear, " I'll climb upon the bed, and we'll have sex," made me giggle! 😅
They really were adorable. I love how she said they’re “good pals as well as husband & wife.” A really good eg of how true love grows & matures but remains steadfast. A truly beautiful couple!
I miss my mom 😭❣️
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Me too
Me too
So do I😢
It's a sad state of affairs when someone falls 25', breaks several ribs, has to have a chest drain, and then returns to work 8 days later. He should've had a couple of months of paid medical leave to recover from a work-related injury.
I hope in the near future the Doctors will be able to mend the Spinal column .
I was just thinking that. 2024 and paralysis continues after spinal injuries.
When in shock due to attending a tertiary hospital reactions can differ. Not everyone turns on the tears as defined as a good tear jerker by the media. Everyone behaves differently, everyone behaves differently under the gaze of a camera. Don’t be so ready to criticise parents reactions. Don’t drag people down they are doing their best under extraordinary times.
Good morning Banijay,and everyone ❤️🙂⚘️🏥.
That's a new one to me mouthing 'colorful' and people thinking you are saying 'I love you'!! Another one to mouth is 'olive juice'!! ❤❤
My sister & her hubby mouth “elephant shoes”! 😍
I love all the older English couples, so endearing!!!❤❤❤
My sister has the strongest grip of any woman I’ve ever met. When her first daughter was born, there was a student nurse in the room who offered to hold her hand during the birth. My sister actually fractured the nurses hand……
They couldn't have given that poor guy painkillers before they cut him open and put a chest tube in? Lol after they do it shes like ill get you some painkillers 😂. Thats messed up
I heard that loud clunk when the hip popped back in. Yikes 😳
I can’t believe she was 80. Looked younger.
Yikes is right!
These two people who are just first-time parents worry me.
She doesn’t seem very interested in the crying baby.
@@lindawitherspoon446They didn’t even hold their baby when he was crying 😢
@@karinabarnes Well, he had been exploding out of both ends for 24 hours and now they are in a public place with no place to adequately clean up if he explodes on them. Baby got what he needed from them, eye contact and soft words. Holding him whilst he was crying would not do much, given he was crying because he was sick, not lonely.
They are fine. The husband said that when he met her, she looked like she would be hard work and then as they interacted, he discovered otherwise. He explained that regardless how she looks, she's very warm, caring and with a great sense of humour. I recognize the look she has - the resting face that makes a person look angry and/or hard. My mom had that type of resting face. Mom could be sitting quietly and looking really angry and when I checked to see if everything was okay, she would respond very cheerfully. She couldn't help her resting face. And I think this girl is rather sweet, just reserved in public. I had my daughter in ER once as a baby and although it was a highly emotional situation and I felt like a wreckage inside, outwardly I kept it together because I come from strong British roots and we manage ourselves in front of others. The British saying "keep calm and carry on" is so real.
@@lindawitherspoon446 She was, most certainly. She's not an 18 year old with uncontrolled emotions standing there bawling, she's a grown woman. Didn't you hear what her husband said about her?
The hardest time to be a mom is when you break your neck at age 57, spend 10 years for 13 surgeries, finally reach a point where you realize, only one of your 3 kids, actually cares to call 12 times year and the other 2 can't be bothered. Being alone at age 69, I am not scared of anything. I have actually been alone since 2012. Those lost years are the worst of my life, but I have permission to go and do whatever I want. No responsibility to anything or anything. Today I am 69 years old. No one calls even though I have had the same phone number for 20 years. Hurts watching husband's and wives at the end of life.
That sounds like an awful time, maybe bridges will be mended, maybe it is too late, but either way this stranger wishes you happiness ❤
God’s Angels were watching out for the roofer guy. I learn more about people from every show.
I dont know why they dont give the patient gas when doing chest drains! The local doesn't really help much!
I wonder the same thing. It seems like the perfect moment to administer pain relief.
33:03 I hope I'm as happy as that couple when I'm their age. It is amazing that they are still so in love with each other. After so many years, they still try to keep things interesting, Hahaha 😆
That poor child laying there without comfort. So sad.
Please just hug him and then some more. Weston’s parents need to cuddle him more, forget the new clothes.
I want to fly my hiney over there & go to your hospital. I’m in California about 60 miles south of Sacramento. The healthcare here is not very good. I need serious medical care & I honestly don’t think any of the doctors or nurses care about anybody. So frustrating.
for any woman that is struggling with trying to get pregnant try drinking aloe vera juice. It truly works my parents struggled with conceiving for nearly 5 years and this guy my mom worked for told her about her drinking aloe vera juice because mom had an abscess tooth. the guy was a retired pharmacist that was like in his late 80's or in his 90's in 1984or 1985. So, my mom did drink the aloe vera juice and while she was drinking the juice she was able to get pregnant with my brother and he was born in July of 1985. And my mom was not the only one to use this a coworker who was having a hard time getting pregnant my mom told her about drinking the aloe vera juice and she was also able to get pregnant as well.
That poor little sick baby, and the parents look at him like he is a piece of plastic needing cleaned! Pick him up and love on him, he is sick!!
They said so themselves, picking him up causes him to scream. Why? Because having an infection and fever makes touch hurt, same in babies as in adults.
I'm sure they wanted to love on him but sometimes you have to back off for the sake of the child.
@@SensationalBanana Still i didnt like the mother for some reason..
@@Rammstein66-u9v her whole vibe was weird to me - the "well it was time for a baby so I needed to find a man" she seems very robotic, and the comment about the baby's weight was so odd.
@@Rammstein66-u9v 19:51 The "much needed" comment about him losing weight. It was much needed for the baby to lose weight? A healthy baby is a plump baby, they are growing every day. Weird vibes form them both. And she did just look at the baby, the dad was tending to him more and the one discussing the situation with the doctor.
Also they both talked about worrying about spoiling the baby, the whole concept of spoiling a baby is just stupid, babies cannot be spoiled, they aren't even self aware till around 18 months. They were confusing the concepts of love, discipline and spoiling in their conversations. Perhaps it was all bad editing but they didn't come across very well.
@@nancyneyedly4587. Don’t think either of them should be parents. Especially the mother. What a cold woman.
27:00 I am 44 and have never had children or even thought about it because I never thought I was responsible enough. I know it's not too late but my partner has had a vasectomy. Confused 🤦
Me too ❤😅
Well not the vasectomy part 😢and I’m a bit older
But when I was 43 I got pregnant accidentally first time ever ❤miscarried
Not sad because was not prepared in the least &although I
Felt young at the time, just wasn’t sure I’d be a good parent - God takes care of everything for how it’s supposed to be ( in my belief )
❤much love to you from the United States 🫶🏻🙏🏻🥰
@@lizardwhispererfivehead3552 I'm glad your journey wasn't too tough for you. God works in mysterious ways
23:05 I think he might have slammed what I'm guessing is Ketamine too hard causing her reaction?
You’re the only other one to comment on this! I feel like that was ABSOLUTELY not addressed by anyone.
The silence definitely gives “we’re all so fucked” vibes, like they knew what was happening but didn’t want to admit it on camera
Pick the baby up for a cuddle maybe
Bloody hell that tapping noise is SO SO ANNOYING
Only you hear it.
Calm down.
It is annoying. I turn it down till it’s over.
Beeing on a roof you would think a safty harness lik tf
my mother passed away on mothers day
Mine too
The young parents look exhausted. I hope they can get some sleep.
Just a question being a Fan of this Awesome program ,we all see it we all know . But what would be a good age for children or teenagers to watch this show. With mature adult oversight …. What if your Child sitter watch’s this in front of children ? Somebody please chime in .
Elsie❤
Pick up the baby!!!!
Cutest 😂couple ever!!!
Pick up that baby 😕
23 years old, bounced like a sausage! Easy compared to the elderly!
I wonder who would say, don’t look into a medical book. It’s a perfect guide to saving lives. I have heard, don’t check the internet. Lol it must be doctors saying these stupid things. Like my daughter would say, “Mom, google is your friend.” It sure is‼️ and likewise a medical book. You would be surprised how much you can know by just reading.
Nina, SPOIL him 🩷 It's okay to spoil your babies, Life is very unexpected and we never know how long we have with our children or our parents so spoilers as you want 🩷🩷🩷