Excellent discussion & perspective on the three categories of men. I currently lean moderate black pill based on my own personal experiences & observations over the last few years. Though I have a muscular, aesthetic physique from years of bodybuilding & maintaining a healthy lifestyle, I struggle with women because I'm short (5-6) & probably in the sub-5 category in the face. I wouldn't say I've gone completely black pill & given up but I don't approach women anymore - there's only so many rejections a man can take before you slide into depression & despair. I wait for a woman to approach me or at least I look for choosing signals that give me some confidence if I decide to approach her. However, over the years, it's mainly overweight/obese women that have approached me or given me some sort of choosing signals - women completely opposite of my lifestyle! Lol. Fit, average-looking women have so many options these days with social media & dating apps where they get bombarded by hundreds of desperate, thirsty better looking & taller guys than me. I also have some friends & acquaintances from the gym who are in the same boat - generally shorter guys who are average looking at best. One of my good friends is 5-5, average looking, athletic, 12% BF, makes good money, college educated & struggles with women! Same on dating sites - I don't select & send a like to possible matches anymore - too many none responses. Sadly, I only average one or two likes a month from women, and just like the situation at the gym, they're overweight/obese. *Sub-5 & short* is a bad combination for trying to attract women in this day & age. *Looks & height* are big factors with many of today's women --- black pill reality.
Thanks for the well thought out comment. It’s very difficult out there. Especially for shorter men. I think geo-maxing would be a possible solution. May I ask your age?
ya, me 2, we need reasonable and "normal" people to be involved in these discussions, the people leading the way for our societies changes to how we deal with gender, dating, relationships, and societal expectation, should be relatable to the majority of the population. We can't have people like Andrew Tate leading the way, he doesn't deal with the same problems that an average man would deal with. Same goes with anyone on the left, we can't have feminist liberals lead the discussion, they are not going to give the male perspective enough weight, the society is half men, our solutions should work equally well for women and men.
I'm a pretty cool guy but I've given up on looking for a long-term partner pretty much because I just don't make enough money or have a high status job. It's just hookups for me even though I'd like more, if that's what I get I'll take it. It's disappointing that's all.
@@theemilyandtoddpodcast if you work retail at 32 and you're not a manager and can't even afford to live on your own I think that's off-putting to any woman. Almost all of my bosses since I started working in 2007 have been women as well so I personally never saw the gender wage gap, if anything I've seen a gap of most women making more than me. Hooking up with a guy is one thing but to be seen in a relationship is another. Enjoy your podcast btw! Thanks for the reply.
@ Hahamasala Standup Comedy If you're having bad luck in connecting with women at your level, and desperately want a GF or female companionship - what are we supposed to do? Sure, there might be some rejection - and that would certainly sting. But OTOH, the girl might be very excited to date a guy at a higher level consequently treating him very well. In a perfect world, every guy would be guarantee a woman at least his look's match. But dating & finding a mate in the 3rd decade of the 21st century is far from perfect.
As a 27 year old virgin, I have that experience of valuing yourself ti not sleepy around a lot but many of the women I meet don’t have the same values I do
@@theemilyandtoddpodcast Todd is willing to debate a lunatic onlyfans feminist in Farha, but refuses to debate better bachelor. That says all you need to know about Todd's intellectual capacity. You should be willing to talk to both.
@@theemilyandtoddpodcastI've been following "Better Bachelor" aka Joker since the early days, and while he's way less hopeful about the state of things now, generally his takes are balanced and well-reasoned.
So i noticed my comment in regards to how much you can level up your looks through gym and nutrition got deleted. This is pretty weak dude. Seems like you are not quite secure with your world view and must have this doomerism mindset to your viewers. This actually kills your credibility as someone who can give useful advice to your viewers.
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Excellent discussion & perspective on the three categories of men. I currently lean moderate black pill based on my own personal experiences & observations over the last few years. Though I have a muscular, aesthetic physique from years of bodybuilding & maintaining a healthy lifestyle, I struggle with women because I'm short (5-6) & probably in the sub-5 category in the face.
I wouldn't say I've gone completely black pill & given up but I don't approach women anymore - there's only so many rejections a man can take before you slide into depression & despair. I wait for a woman to approach me or at least I look for choosing signals that give me some confidence if I decide to approach her. However, over the years, it's mainly overweight/obese women that have approached me or given me some sort of choosing signals - women completely opposite of my lifestyle! Lol. Fit, average-looking women have so many options these days with social media & dating apps where they get bombarded by hundreds of desperate, thirsty better looking & taller guys than me. I also have some friends & acquaintances from the gym who are in the same boat - generally shorter guys who are average looking at best. One of my good friends is 5-5, average looking, athletic, 12% BF, makes good money, college educated & struggles with women!
Same on dating sites - I don't select & send a like to possible matches anymore - too many none responses. Sadly, I only average one or two likes a month from women, and just like the situation at the gym, they're overweight/obese.
*Sub-5 & short* is a bad combination for trying to attract women in this day & age. *Looks & height* are big factors with many of today's women --- black pill reality.
Thanks for the well thought out comment. It’s very difficult out there. Especially for shorter men. I think geo-maxing would be a possible solution. May I ask your age?
I think this is an underrated channel for sure... I hope it takes off.
ya, me 2, we need reasonable and "normal" people to be involved in these discussions, the people leading the way for our societies changes to how we deal with gender, dating, relationships, and societal expectation, should be relatable to the majority of the population. We can't have people like Andrew Tate leading the way, he doesn't deal with the same problems that an average man would deal with. Same goes with anyone on the left, we can't have feminist liberals lead the discussion, they are not going to give the male perspective enough weight, the society is half men, our solutions should work equally well for women and men.
I'm a pretty cool guy but I've given up on looking for a long-term partner pretty much because I just don't make enough money or have a high status job. It's just hookups for me even though I'd like more, if that's what I get I'll take it. It's disappointing that's all.
Same.
You can hook up with women but they don’t want relationships from you?
@@theemilyandtoddpodcast if you work retail at 32 and you're not a manager and can't even afford to live on your own I think that's off-putting to any woman. Almost all of my bosses since I started working in 2007 have been women as well so I personally never saw the gender wage gap, if anything I've seen a gap of most women making more than me. Hooking up with a guy is one thing but to be seen in a relationship is another.
Enjoy your podcast btw! Thanks for the reply.
@@wes5614 just moneymaxx bro, careermax now
@@kenyanicholas6809like it’s that easy
If I could get Todd as a therapist I would
Well maybe you could do some video sessions
Never approach a woman who you think is below your level. They're often pickier and when they reject you, it's even more painful.
Just don’t Cold approach
Warm approach or just match on apps
@ Hahamasala Standup Comedy If you're having bad luck in connecting with women at your level, and desperately want a GF or female companionship - what are we supposed to do? Sure, there might be some rejection - and that would certainly sting. But OTOH, the girl might be very excited to date a guy at a higher level consequently treating him very well. In a perfect world, every guy would be guarantee a woman at least his look's match. But dating & finding a mate in the 3rd decade of the 21st century is far from perfect.
Can you give the source of the study for male vs female resumes that lead to interviews at 45:00?
Excellent episode guys !
As a 27 year old virgin, I have that experience of valuing yourself ti not sleepy around a lot but many of the women I meet don’t have the same values I do
Who offered it to you?
@@jcransome5616 crazy chicks who I wouldn’t touch with a 10 foot poll
You act like you had women throw puss at you when you inkwell in denial
Thus channel help me see a male's perspective in dating which gives me more sympathy
Can you have the "Better Bachelor" as a guest. He is red pill with good takes.
better bachelor makes much more sense than todd.
No. His whole channel is bashing women. Follow Alexander Grace if you want to understand the female nature
@@theemilyandtoddpodcast Todd is willing to debate a lunatic onlyfans feminist in Farha, but refuses to debate better bachelor. That says all you need to know about Todd's intellectual capacity. You should be willing to talk to both.
@@theemilyandtoddpodcastI've been following "Better Bachelor" aka Joker since the early days, and while he's way less hopeful about the state of things now, generally his takes are balanced and well-reasoned.
@@theemilyandtoddpodcast oh boy
Ha ! "You look great for your age." You've seen the quiz: "He's a 6 but he's 50." "He's a zero."
Todd got monkey-branched 💀
And he admits it instead of shaving his head and renting cars and making rage bait vids
First viewer/like/comment.
So i noticed my comment in regards to how much you can level up your looks through gym and nutrition got deleted. This is pretty weak dude. Seems like you are not quite secure with your world view and must have this doomerism mindset to your viewers. This actually kills your credibility as someone who can give useful advice to your viewers.
I never saw your comment let alone deleted if Brian. We don’t delete comments. The only thing I can think of is RUclips deleted it
If you use certain words, it could be flagged as spam and never show up.
@@Kasian1 hmm, fair points.