@@Blackfly032 Definitely! I’ve been in a relationship with someone for a little over a year and I can honestly say it’s been a mixed experience. It’s the first serious relationship I’ve been in for almost 5rys. Right now I would say we at a crossroads in the “relationship”, but it’s really on her where we go from here because my mind is already made up and I’m at peace with it. I’m not a MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY person, but I’ve put my cards on the table because I’m 10yrs older than her. I’m not asking for marriage( at least for now)but we should start the next level of a relationship. The dating game is dangerous nowadays, I ain’t got time to be dealing with nobody who’s straddling the fence. We either move forward together or you get left on the curve.
The idea of making your silence louder than your pain speaks to the power of inner strength, composure, and resilience in the face of adversity. It’s a beautiful reminder that sometimes the most powerful response is no response at all-letting your calmness and refusal to be shaken by external forces speak louder than any words could. In silence, we find clarity, and in that stillness, we regain control over our emotions and actions. Your words remind us that mastering the art of quiet strength not only protects our peace but can also shift the dynamics around us in ways that force others to pay attention. Have you found that in moments where you embraced silence, the impact on others was greater than you expected?
@@haitiqueen0119 It forces people to reflect, to feel the absence of energy that they may have once taken for granted. It’s true, that many people become uncomfortable when met with silence-it creates a space where they must confront their thoughts, feelings, and actions without distraction. The silence speaks louder than words, revealing its truth in the pauses. Your observation taps into a profound Stoic understanding: that sometimes the most powerful statement is saying nothing at all, allowing others to recognize the value of your presence by its absence. Have you ever found that this kind of silence not only brings people back but also helps you gain clarity and strength in the process?
When they walked away, I felt as if my entire world had collapsed. My heart ached, each beat a brutal reminder that I had just lost something precious. Their eyes, the way they looked at me for the last time, keeps haunting my mind. I once believed I could forever hold onto that hand, that we would walk through all storms together. But now, it's just me alone in a cold room, holding onto memories, to moments of joy and sorrow that once belonged to us.
There’s an undeniable elegance in the way you've expressed your newfound clarity, as though you're reclaiming a part of yourself that was always waiting to be heard. It's the path of Stoicism - knowing that your peace and value are not contingent on anyone else's approval or attention. You’ve chosen not to bend to the whims of others but to stand firm in the quiet power of self-love. What moment of clarity led you to this powerful realization? What was it that made you say, “I will always put myself first”? Would love to hear more of your story.
Not easy , especially if she is Super Hot and Sex it Grreat. I know but I am telling you, if this happens to people they will see. Anyway , I left two nights ago. I dont want to think of that Narcissist woman. No one Realizes how many Men are Sex Addict with these Beautiful Narcissist Nymphos. Trust me not easy
I went silent and cut off contact. Months went by when he noticed I was not going to chase or be the one to initiate contact. There is so much power in silently removing yourself from someone that will never change.
By stepping away, you forced reflection not just on the other party, but also within yourself-a quiet assertion of boundaries that can shake the very foundation of a relationship. There is something incredibly powerful about standing in silence, letting your absence speak volumes. When you reflect on the time that passed in silence, what did you learn about yourself and the true nature of those around you?
Your experience speaks volumes! Sometimes, silence is the most powerful move you can make, it forces them to realize what they’ve lost and gives you the space to reclaim your own power. By removing yourself, you show them you're not someone who will settle for less. Stay strong, because your silence speaks louder than words. 💪
@@stoickingdomoffical This is when I realised I had a lot of work to do, namely, learning a lesson from this, healing and finding a higher vibrational path to loving myself and finding things that bring peace and happiness.
They taught us about silence when they would go AWOL for days or even months n then just pop up again. Someone says repeat wash rinse no more my peace is priceless @stoickingdomoffical
Thank you for sharing that powerful affirmation! 💪 You are absolutely more than enough. Never forget your worth and continue embracing that confidence. 😊
@@Pneuma84 Oh. Thats good. Yeah, me too. Just asking for "a Friend" who left his Narcissist girl 2 days ago. What if although she was Horrible with you,.the Sex was off the Charts. My Friend would like to know 😉 Oh, I am putting this for him as well "I reflect, but I don't regret."
Another one bites the dust. You’ll realize after time it was the best decision. You’ll have bad days but then wisdom comes in and you realize truths. You’ll be way stronger
The way you speak of realizing the truth, even through the tough days, is both powerful and relatable. It’s in those moments of struggle and reflection that we often gain the greatest clarity, seeing the strength we’ve built from decisions that may have once felt impossible. Your comment reflects the Stoic understanding that hardship is the crucible of growth, and with every step away from what once held us back, we uncover a deeper resilience within ourselves. Your insight is a reminder that wisdom isn't given; it's earned through the experience of living, reflecting, and moving forward. Was there a specific moment in your life when you felt this surge of strength after making a difficult decision?
I left just over a Yr ago, I sometimes still struggle. It is difficult. He moved on after 3 months. Guess he didn't really love me that much despite all the long yrs & kids.
@@emilybakerjones9881 The fact that he moved on so quickly must have been incredibly painful, but your reflection shows such resilience. Sometimes, when people move on fast, it’s less about their capacity for love and more about their inability to face the depth of emotions that come with loss. Your journey speaks to the inner battle of healing, where even though time has passed, the heart still seeks answers that may never fully come. But in your struggle, there is also incredible growth, and each day you are becoming stronger, not just for yourself but for your children as well. Do you think, with time, people ever truly realize the value of what they’ve lost, or do some simply never understand the depth of what they had?
Absolutely! Silence has a remarkable way of shifting the dynamics in a conversation. It allows us to reflect, regain control, and often reveals more than words ever could. I'm glad to hear it's working for you! Keep embracing that power, it truly can be a game changer!
It’s a bold and empowering statement, reminding us all that our value isn’t something to be negotiated or diminished by others’ lack of appreciation. The way you’ve embraced your own self-worth is truly inspiring-it echoes the Stoic belief that our internal peace and sense of self should never be dependent on external validation. You’ve drawn a line, and in doing so, you’ve liberated yourself from the chains of seeking approval from those who fail to see your true value. What was the turning point for you, when you realized that begging for what you deserve was no longer an option?
This video is so good, I played it through twice! ...I am the prize...So sick of the hot and cold behavior and mixed signals. I have had enough of those mind games.
Thank you so much for your support! I'm glad the video resonated with you, and I totally hear you on the mixed signals and mind games. Remember, you are absolutely the prize, and you deserve someone who recognizes that from the start. Stay strong and keep putting yourself first! 🙌
It's a reminder that silence, when wielded with purpose, can communicate strength, wisdom, and even a quiet resilience that words could never fully capture. You've beautifully highlighted the art of restraint, where silence is not weakness but a deliberate choice to let others reflect, to let actions and presence speak louder than anything else. Have there been moments in your life when silence became your strongest form of communication, leaving others to ponder its depth?
It’s better to work on yourself, wish them the best & just move on no need to be mean to them they already know what they have done that regret well they will have to live with always. Either way just work on yourself & show God what beautiful creation he made which is you.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment! I completely agree that focusing on self-improvement and wishing others well is a powerful approach. It’s important to prioritize our own growth and happiness, and by doing so, we not only honor ourselves but also set a positive example for others. Ultimately, embracing our journey and showing appreciation for who we are can lead to beautiful transformations. Appreciate your insights!
There’s a profound grace in realizing that your worth isn’t something to be proven to anyone, but something that quietly radiates from within. Your silence becomes your most eloquent statement, speaking truths that don’t need to be shouted but are deeply understood. It's a declaration of self-love and dignity that transcends words, reminding us all that sometimes the greatest strength lies in walking away, in allowing your absence to be felt more deeply than your presence ever could. Have you found that this shift in mindset has brought you a sense of peace or clarity that you didn’t expect?
The journey to rediscovering one's inner strength is no small feat, and your declaration serves as a shining example of resilience. When we realize that the power we seek has always been within us, it's like unlocking an unshakable foundation that no one can take away. Your confidence is contagious, and it reminds all of us that once we find our footing, we should never let go of it. What was the turning point that made you realize this inner power?
That's an amazing step you've taken! Taking control of your life is empowering, and it's great to hear that you're prioritizing your well-being. Your absence is clearly making him realize your value, and that's a testament to your strength. Keep focusing on yourself and your goals-it's a journey worth taking! 😊✨
*When you simply disappear, you embody the essence of stoicism - a quiet strength that leaves behind neither anger nor blame, only the serene understanding that not everything or everyone is meant to stay. In your absence, you remind others that peace comes from within, and true freedom lies in mastering the art of letting go without the need for explanation or validation. By walking away in silence, you teach the world that some paths are meant to be traveled alone, with dignity, resilience, and a heart at peace with itself.*
@@legingembrefou5981 It’s more than just cutting off communication; it’s choosing your well-being over the emotional chaos they may have caused. By doing this, you’re taking control of the narrative, giving yourself the space to heal and grow. It's truly inspiring to see someone embrace their own strength in such a decisive way. What motivated you to take this step, and how do you feel now that you've made it?
@@cathynjeri2467 It's a reminder that true worth isn’t about lowering ourselves for the convenience of others but standing firm in our authenticity, knowing that those who truly see us will be willing to make the effort. You’ve captured a sense of dignity and grace in just a few words, and it’s inspiring. This perspective aligns beautifully with the Stoic belief in self-respect and not seeking validation from external sources but from within. Have you ever experienced a moment where someone realized your worth too late?
This video is a reminder of the strength in silence. Sometimes, walking away isn't about leaving others behind but rediscovering our own worth. Thank you for shedding light on the power of reclaiming our energy.
When we left I refused his offer of friendship kindly. One week later, someone much more loving came into my life. I tell friends the new person is undoing the prior 2 year damage. We're a good match.
That’s such a powerful story! It’s amazing how letting go of what no longer serves us opens the door for something so much better. Wishing you both endless happiness and healing, sounds like you found exactly what you deserve! 🙌✨
@@richardgreen62 No. The new guy introduced himself a week after my break up. I wasn't looking. We're at 2 1/2 months now. Going well and future planning
@@a.d.b535 it's good your happy I just think 1 week is a little direct and quick ..if you did care about the the ex maybe you should give a little healing time
Thank you for accepting the challenge! 🙌 It's awesome to hear that this message helped keep you on track. Stay strong and keep pushing forward, you got this! 💪
Going on 7 months and just last month, she liked by instagram picture and unliked it. At a point I would have jumped in excitement however, when the notification came up, I felt nothing. I never responded. Her free trial is up!!!!
"Wow, it sounds like you've made some real progress in moving on! It's crazy how things that used to make us excited don't have the same effect once we start focusing on ourselves. That 'free trial' analogy is spot on! Keep doing you, it's all about growth and not getting stuck in the past. 🙌
Mine was just a month ago. Like wise She was never my friend on Instagram . She like and unlike for the first time and when I check throught her Instagram , she changed her profile picture with 2 wine glasses. It didn’t hurt me at all when I saw her profile. I was glad and here is my chance to claim my worth and values back . Suddenly I just felt that I will not go back to someone who doesn’t value my worth . No hatred but relief and peace
The part where you said 'your silence speaks volumes' really struck me. It’s such a powerful reminder that sometimes the loudest statement is made by simply stepping back and letting your absence speak for itself. This truly inspired me to stop over-explaining and let people realize my worth on their own. Thank you for this empowering perspective!
You create what you have. Your thoughts that are created by you are yours hence they can change, evolve, become, disappear. You are your own creator of life. You are you own God.
I accept the challenge. I am whole without them. I am the mystery they can’t solve. I reflect but I don’t regret. I attract I don’t chase. I am more than enough. I no longer play games. My silence speaks volumes. I am worth the chase. Keep it up! Thank you Universe. 🥰
That's the spirit! Embracing your wholeness and stepping into your power sets a beautiful example of self-respect and inner strength. Your words radiate confidence and peace, qualities that truly attract the right energies and opportunities towards you. Keep shining your light and living your truth. The Universe surely has wonderful things in store for you! 🌟🌌
That’s powerful. After 32 years of love, realizing your worth is a game-changer. No more one-way streets, now it’s about meeting in the middle or walking away with your head high. You’ve got this!
Your situation mirrors mine. I have been with my wife for 32 years and unfortunately I am now watching these videos to help me either break free. Our two sons, 23 and 26 disrespect me and my wife. Had enough of that. They tried so hard to make me look crazy because I have a hard time controlling my emotions. My life feels like communism. It’s a gradual process of change that boils the water, makes me want to bounce like the frog in the pot. I just realized that I have to leave before I stroke out, or have a panic or heart attack. Had a nervous breakdown two days ago. They made me realize that they are trying to get me into a psychiatric facility because I yell when they treat me like that. They didn’t realize that I checked myself in and signed myself out after 3 drs. all agreed that I didn’t need to be there because I’m not crazy. My wife and youngest son can’t understand that they are the ones who make me crazy. I’m done with them. Have to start planning my exit. Good luck sigmas. There’s strength in numbers. ✌️😎
That's a great analogy! Elevating your self-worth not only changes how others perceive you but also shifts your own mindset towards greater self-respect and potential. It's all about valuing yourself enough to know you deserve more than just being passed by. Thanks for sharing that perspective!
9 Things They Feel When You Disappear: 1. The Sting of Rejection 2. The Emptiness of Missing Something 3. An Overwhelming Curiosity 4. Deep Self Reflection 5. The Urge To Pursue You 6. The Battle Between Relief and Regret 7. The Desire To Play The Game 8. The Crushing Weight of Silence 9. The Fear That Brings Them Crawling Back
The impact of those who speak with wisdom and authority often leaves a lasting imprint on our minds, encouraging us to dig deeper and embrace new perspectives. Your comment feels like a testament to that connection-when words don’t just inform us, but inspire and transform us. Have you ever come across a moment where someone's words changed the way you approached a challenge in your own life?
Thank you for this video.Because I completely disappear from my toxic codependent.Narcissistic family members.Even my own mother I'm so grateful that God pulled me out of This witchcraft family.😢😢😢😢 something I had no idea that was against me😢 Glory to the kingdom🙏🏽🤣🥰 Living my best life, no contact.
Your strength and resilience shine so brightly in your words, Donna. The courage it takes to step away from toxic environments, especially from family, cannot be understated. You’ve made a powerful decision to protect your peace and well-being, and it’s inspiring to see how you’ve embraced this new chapter of life with such grace and gratitude. Your journey reminds us that sometimes the hardest choices lead to the most profound freedom, and in doing so, you’ve aligned with the very essence of personal empowerment. It's beautiful how you’ve transformed pain into triumph, finding solace in a life free from negativity. During this journey of detachment and healing, what have you found to be the most surprising lesson about yourself?
I have cut contact with my couvert narcisist mother 3 years now and it has been and still is hard ,even overwhelming still. My toxic mother has alienated me from all family members over years and i was sooooo confused and soooooo sad!😢 😢😢 I am 51 year old woman who feels alienated from world in general now. I take each omeny of each day as it comes and i have to find the strength to carry on, move forwards (not stuck) and live the rest my life as best possible life ❤
@@carlabruce3971 It’s clear that your journey has been filled with challenges, but your ability to take each moment as it comes and find the strength to move forward is a true testament to your resilience. The emotional weight of feeling alienated from both family and the world at large is a heavy burden, yet here you are, standing tall and determined to live the best life you can. Your resolve to not remain stuck, despite the overwhelming sadness, shows that you are embracing your power, choosing to heal and create a future that is filled with hope and purpose. As you continue on this path of self-healing and growth, have you found certain practices or mindsets that help you stay grounded and hopeful?
Ghosting, as you pointed out so insightfully, leaves behind an emotional wound-one that lingers long after the silence begins. It’s a withdrawal that doesn’t just cut off conversation, but leaves the other person in a state of confusion and pain, often questioning their worth. Your comment reminds us of the importance of honoring others with clarity and openness, even when the conversation is difficult. In a world that sometimes prioritizes convenience over compassion, your perspective is a crucial reminder of the emotional responsibility we carry in relationships. Have you ever found yourself in a situation where communication could have changed the outcome entirely?
@@hopehadley8844 Staying in such an environment not only chips away at your emotional well-being but also blurs the lines of what you know you deserve. By acknowledging that it’s damaging, you’ve taken a powerful step toward protecting your peace and reclaiming your sense of self-worth. Stoicism teaches us that it’s not about changing others, but about controlling how we respond and what we allow into our lives-and you’ve grasped that truth with such clarity and strength. Have you ever found that removing yourself from a toxic situation allowed you to rediscover parts of yourself that had been lost in the struggle?
I guess this really works on women that doesn’t have many options even if you disappear she still most likely if she is good looking there are guys giving her plenty of attention so if you disappear she might not even notice
Thank you so much for watching and supporting the channel! 🙏 May everyone who listens to this find health, peace, and good fortune on their journey. As the Stoic philosopher Epictetus once said, "We cannot choose our external circumstances, but we can always choose how we respond to them."
That’s the energy! 💥 When you stop begging, you start attracting. Keep that mindset, your worth speaks louder in silence. 👑 Keep going, you’ve got this!
@@powerfulstoichabits thank you so much for this wonderful video. It’s been 5 days since my breakup. It hurts so much but after watching your videos. It helped me a lot to think different. And i always play your videos so i can sleep
This video hits so deep! It’s incredible how disappearing from someone’s life forces them to see your true worth. The way it goes through all nine stages of their emotions is so relatable, from regret to that intense pull when they finally realize what they lost. It’s not about revenge or games; it’s about finding respect for yourself. Love how the content blends Stoic and Buddhist wisdom - such a powerful reminder to focus on inner peace and not settle for less. Thanks for such an empowering message!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! As Seneca said, As is a tale, so is life: not how long it is, but how good it is, is what matters. Walking away isn’t about vengeance but about valuing your worth and cultivating inner peace. Focusing on yourself is the ultimate act of self-respect. Stay strong!
That’s a powerful choice! Sometimes, stepping back and choosing silence speaks volumes more than words ever could. It’s a way to reclaim your energy and let others reflect on their actions. Keep embracing that emotional independence!
Thank you so much for this video and channel... I recently was told by the woman I love that... I need to work on me and that she sees me more as a friend than a lover and it crushed me...its been about a week now and I was about to text her saying how much I miss her but now...I feel stronger and I refuse to live by someone else's validation...I don't chase, I attract. Everytime I feel weak I will play this video.. Once again thank you for giving me the courage and strength to move on
You're so welcome! I'm truly touched by your comment. It takes a lot of strength to go through something like that and even more to choose to focus on your own growth and self-worth. It's not easy, but you're absolutely right, your value isn’t defined by anyone else's validation. I love that you've embraced the mindset of "I don't chase, I attract" because it shows you're taking control of your journey. Keep moving forward with that strength, and remember you're not alone in this. You’ve got this! Stay strong and keep pushing forward. 🙌
Thank you for sharing that! You're absolutely right, being unpredictable keeps things interesting and makes others value your presence more. When we hold onto our power, we stop relying on their timing and start moving on our own terms. If they come back too late, it’s a sign that we’ve already grown stronger without them. Keep shining and never give away that power! ❤️
I have tried and tested this method since I have been in the same situation of being not loved back the way I did,I disappeared for 6 months and he contacted me back again and keeping in mind it was a situation ship btw us, he came back wanting to be with me in a relationship and I gave in, not realising the mistake I was gonna do again because a snake only sheds it’s skin but stays the same, I realised after accepting him that he’s never changed and mind you if you’re in your path of moving on and leaving them PLEASE PLEASE NEVER ACCEPT THEM BACK,it’s more destructive and damaging. Today I have decided to leave him again forever now, because I am worth much more than his distractions. I will take my strength back and never look back. I hope I can go in strong in this journey because I loved him so much May we all who are in toxic one sided love be at peace
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It's incredibly brave of you to reflect on your journey and make the tough decision to prioritize your own well-being. You’re absolutely right, sometimes, when we let someone back in, we discover that they've remained the same despite the hopes for change. It takes so much strength to walk away, especially when love is involved. But recognizing your own worth and choosing yourself is a powerful step toward healing. Stay strong and keep moving forward, there’s so much peace and happiness ahead for you. Wishing you all the best on this new chapter of self-love and growth! 💪❤️
I miss my family and I know I NEVER cross their minds. I was too stupid to face they resent me. Now that I have faced up to it, the people I meet step in and replace the loss. And truly care about ME.
It sounds like you’ve been on a really difficult journey, and it’s completely understandable to feel that way. It’s brave of you to confront those feelings and recognize the support you’ve found in new relationships. Remember, it’s never too late to rebuild connections or seek healing with your family. Surrounding yourself with people who genuinely care about you is so important. Keep focusing on those positive relationships that uplift you!
Absolutely! Your journey towards self-wholeness is inspiring. Thank you for your kind words, and I’m glad you found the content powerful! Keep shining! 🌟
What people don't understood about me is, if a person always stay, I would appreciate this person with all my life. But if a person is toxic and takes me for granted, that's where I'd stop investing myself in, because all I got by being there is pain.
That’s a strong boundary, and it’s powerful! People who value your loyalty will cherish it, and those who don’t will lose out. Protecting your peace isn’t selfish; it’s self-respect. Keep standing tall! 💪✨
I am done begging I have been whole without them I am the mystery they can't solve I reflect but don't regret I attract I don't chase I'm more than enough My silence speaks volumes I'm worth the Chase ❤
Thank you so much to the team for delivering such an amazing video! This content is truly insightful and has helped me understand more about practicing Stoicism in everyday life. Wishing you continued success and growth as you spread more valuable messages. ❤🙏
Thank you for sharing that! Absolutely, you are worthy, and it's beautiful that you recognize the power of empathy, compassion, and having a soulful connection with the world. Keep shining that light! 🙏
Thank you so much for your incredible support! Your kind words mean the world to me. I'm thrilled you enjoyed the video! Stay tuned for more content coming your way!
I accept the Challengehe ❤ I have already put it into action. No contact. With love❤ These people will not change they don't want to change.They have been manipulated in lying all their life.I will allow God to handle the rest🙏🏽 ❤ new life new me💃
I used to tell people that I love helping others, but they took it as a joke and tried to take advantage of me. They’d ask for unreasonable favors, and when I refused, they got upset because I didn’t help
It’s unfortunate how some people can misinterpret kindness as a weakness. Helping others should always come from a place of mutual respect, not obligation. It’s important to set healthy boundaries and remember that it’s okay to say no when someone’s request is unreasonable. True friends and those who genuinely appreciate your help will understand and respect your limits. Stay kind, but also stay firm in protecting your own well-being. Thanks for sharing your experience!
Absolutely I accept the challenge am gone now I wish you well . Taking back my power. Not giving my energy anymore. On the road again feeling wonderful. Thank for your wisdom of relationships .
The road you're on now, filled with a renewed sense of freedom and purpose, is a testament to the courage it takes to prioritize your peace above all else. It’s not just about walking away, but about rediscovering the joy of walking towards something far greater-your well-being. As you continue this journey, have you found that others are surprised by your absence, and if so, what reactions have you observed in those who once took your presence for granted?
I was always there and did not leave until he decided to leave. We are in the process of separation, he will always have insight in my life since we have a child.
I'm really sorry you're going through this. It's tough to navigate the changes that come with separation, especially when you share a child. Remember to take care of yourself during this time and seek support when you need it. Your strength and resilience in managing both your emotional well-being and co-parenting will guide you through. If you ever need someone to listen, we're here for you.
I'm thrilled to hear you found it so valuable! It's amazing how these insights can truly transform our lives. Thanks for your kind words and for being part of our community. Keep embracing the journey! ❤️🌟
I am done being my family's doormat. I no longer answer their calls or text messages. They will have to learn on their own. I am refocusing my energy on myself and showing how happy and great my life is without them.
You're taking a courageous step by setting boundaries and prioritizing your own well-being. It can be incredibly tough to make these changes, especially with family, but focusing on your happiness and mental health is crucial. Keep nurturing your personal growth and enjoying your life's journey. Your strength might just inspire others to reflect on their own actions and relationships. Stay strong!
I'm glad to hear that! 💪 Now it's time to show them what silence can do. Keep your power, stay in control, and let your actions speak louder than words. 🔥 You're unstoppable!
Thank you for sharing that powerful affirmation! 💪 You are absolutely more than enough. Never forget your worth and continue embracing that confidence. 😊
I 'ghosted' someone many years ago, and I still regret it like h*ll. Fortunately, though, I re-aquainted myself a couple years later and this person has become the best friend of my life. Just my experience, that's all.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s amazing how life gives us second chances sometimes, even after we make mistakes. Reconnecting and building a genuine friendship out of what might have been a missed opportunity is so inspiring. Your story is a reminder that, even when things don’t go as planned, there’s always room for growth, healing, and deeper connections. 🌱
Wow, that’s amazing! After 10 years, that’s such an inspiring commitment. I’m excited to see how you take on this new challenge! ❤️ Keep us posted on your journey!
Yes I'm the mystery they can no longer solve and on my own i am enough i am whole without him yes I accept the challenge I'm gone I will no 18:08 longer be taken for granted 💯
There is a profound beauty in walking away, not out of bitterness, but out of self-respect and the quiet confidence that comes with knowing your value. Your journey of self-reclamation shines brightly, showing others that sometimes, the greatest challenge is to let go - and in that letting go, we find our true power. What do you think others often discover about themselves in moments of solitude and reflection like yours?
Your response is powerful! 🙌 Yes, embrace that mystery and keep shining as the whole, unstoppable force you are! 💯 You’ve got this, no more being taken for granted. Stay strong and keep moving forward. 👏
Yes, yes, and yes. I knew a young woman who was a catch, good morals, and gorgeous. But her 10 years older boyfriend took him 10 years to get her to the alter. She wouldn't leave him. She wanted a marriage, kids all of it. I told her to pack everything of hers, don't even leave a toothbrush, take all your belongings, and give him the silent treatment as if you are not living on earth anymore. No text, calls, no one telling him about how you're doing. She did what I said and I told her only after 6 months she can let him reach her. He came back, married her immideatly, and in 3 months after marriage they were pregnant with their first child. They had two, but she passed away at 42 and only had 8 years of marriage. Now he says she was the love of his life..people are sure fools to take a fine person for granted. He is suffering the natural consequences of his own actions..
I'm done. He's married. He still chases me, trying to gain access to my energy. I knew this would happen. I tried to warn him because I knew he would regret it, and he does. I'm like a ghost. I barely even remember the relationship. Meanwhile, he can not forget it. I am more than enough! ✌️
It sounds like you’ve reached a place of incredible strength and clarity. You knew your worth all along, and now he’s the one facing the consequences. Your energy is sacred, and you’ve taken back control. Stay in that power, your peace is untouchable, and you are absolutely more than enough! ✨👑
Thank you for sharing that powerful affirmation! 💪 You are absolutely more than enough. Never forget your worth and continue embracing that confidence. 😊
Sometimes it takes a while. Some people keep their walls up but the guilt will peek through. One day, at their most vulnerable, they’ll realize what they took for granted and lost. I promise you - if they don’t feel it now they will.
Sometimes it feels like that, but you'd be surprised at how much your absence impacts people, even when they don't show it. Silence speaks louder than words, and time has a way of revealing the truth. Stay strong, you've taken your power back.
I don't want power. No games...I just want peace. ❤
Wisest comment in this thread!👍🏾
Peace of mind is power.
@@Blackfly032
Definitely! I’ve been in a relationship with someone for a little over a year and I can honestly say it’s been a mixed experience. It’s the first serious relationship I’ve been in for almost 5rys. Right now I would say we at a crossroads in the “relationship”, but it’s really on her where we go from here because my mind is already made up and I’m at peace with it. I’m not a MY WAY OR THE HIGHWAY person, but I’ve put my cards on the table because I’m 10yrs older than her. I’m not asking for marriage( at least for now)but we should start the next level of a relationship. The dating game is dangerous nowadays, I ain’t got time to be dealing with nobody who’s straddling the fence. We either move forward together or you get left on the curve.
🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼inner peace ❤
It's admirable that you just want peace and sincerity. Sometimes, simplicity is the most precious thing in life. Hope you find it! 🌿✨"
Make your silence louder than your pain!!! It works!
The idea of making your silence louder than your pain speaks to the power of inner strength, composure, and resilience in the face of adversity. It’s a beautiful reminder that sometimes the most powerful response is no response at all-letting your calmness and refusal to be shaken by external forces speak louder than any words could. In silence, we find clarity, and in that stillness, we regain control over our emotions and actions. Your words remind us that mastering the art of quiet strength not only protects our peace but can also shift the dynamics around us in ways that force others to pay attention.
Have you found that in moments where you embraced silence, the impact on others was greater than you expected?
Im done begging
Very profound comment, I think people are also likely to come back your way also when given silence. The silent treatment makes some uncomfortable.
@@haitiqueen0119 It forces people to reflect, to feel the absence of energy that they may have once taken for granted. It’s true, that many people become uncomfortable when met with silence-it creates a space where they must confront their thoughts, feelings, and actions without distraction. The silence speaks louder than words, revealing its truth in the pauses. Your observation taps into a profound Stoic understanding: that sometimes the most powerful statement is saying nothing at all, allowing others to recognize the value of your presence by its absence.
Have you ever found that this kind of silence not only brings people back but also helps you gain clarity and strength in the process?
When they walked away, I felt as if my entire world had collapsed. My heart ached, each beat a brutal reminder that I had just lost something precious. Their eyes, the way they looked at me for the last time, keeps haunting my mind. I once believed I could forever hold onto that hand, that we would walk through all storms together. But now, it's just me alone in a cold room, holding onto memories, to moments of joy and sorrow that once belonged to us.
I'm done begging... I will always put myself first from now on.
I am whole
I am the puzzle
There’s an undeniable elegance in the way you've expressed your newfound clarity, as though you're reclaiming a part of yourself that was always waiting to be heard. It's the path of Stoicism - knowing that your peace and value are not contingent on anyone else's approval or attention. You’ve chosen not to bend to the whims of others but to stand firm in the quiet power of self-love.
What moment of clarity led you to this powerful realization? What was it that made you say, “I will always put myself first”? Would love to hear more of your story.
That’s the mindset! Putting yourself first is the ultimate power move. Stay strong and keep owning your worth 💪🔥
Me too and the one I chased, adored and would do almost anything for died before I had a chance to leave
Never let anyone disrespect you
Absolutely! Respect is non-negotiable. 🙌
Not easy , especially if she is Super Hot and Sex it Grreat.
I know but I am telling you, if this happens to people they will see.
Anyway , I left two nights ago.
I dont want to think of that Narcissist woman.
No one Realizes how many Men are Sex Addict with these Beautiful Narcissist Nymphos.
Trust me not easy
Respect is essental!
Absolutely correct 💯
I went silent and cut off contact.
Months went by when he noticed I was not going to chase or be the one to initiate contact.
There is so much power in silently removing yourself from someone that will never change.
By stepping away, you forced reflection not just on the other party, but also within yourself-a quiet assertion of boundaries that can shake the very foundation of a relationship. There is something incredibly powerful about standing in silence, letting your absence speak volumes.
When you reflect on the time that passed in silence, what did you learn about yourself and the true nature of those around you?
Your experience speaks volumes! Sometimes, silence is the most powerful move you can make, it forces them to realize what they’ve lost and gives you the space to reclaim your own power. By removing yourself, you show them you're not someone who will settle for less. Stay strong, because your silence speaks louder than words. 💪
@@powerfulstoichabits Thank you so much!!!
@@stoickingdomoffical This is when I realised I had a lot of work to do, namely, learning a lesson from this, healing and finding a higher vibrational path to loving myself and finding things that bring peace and happiness.
They taught us about silence when they would go AWOL for days or even months n then just pop up again. Someone says repeat wash rinse no more my peace is priceless @stoickingdomoffical
No begging, no chasing, absolutely no nothing . Silence is the best reply to a fool..❤
Thank you for sharing that powerful affirmation! 💪 You are absolutely more than enough. Never forget your worth and continue embracing that confidence. 😊
Does it work if the girl monkey branched? Just asking for a friend 🤭
@@Pneuma84
Oh. Thats good.
Yeah, me too.
Just asking for "a Friend" who left his Narcissist girl 2 days ago.
What if although she was Horrible with you,.the Sex was off the Charts.
My Friend would like to know 😉
Oh, I am putting this for him as well
"I reflect, but I don't
regret."
I wanted to like this comment twice.
Another one bites the dust. You’ll realize after time it was the best decision. You’ll have bad days but then wisdom comes in and you realize truths. You’ll be way stronger
The way you speak of realizing the truth, even through the tough days, is both powerful and relatable. It’s in those moments of struggle and reflection that we often gain the greatest clarity, seeing the strength we’ve built from decisions that may have once felt impossible. Your comment reflects the Stoic understanding that hardship is the crucible of growth, and with every step away from what once held us back, we uncover a deeper resilience within ourselves. Your insight is a reminder that wisdom isn't given; it's earned through the experience of living, reflecting, and moving forward.
Was there a specific moment in your life when you felt this surge of strength after making a difficult decision?
I just did this lift and disappeared silently quietly best decision I've ever made❤
I left just over a Yr ago, I sometimes still struggle. It is difficult. He moved on after 3 months. Guess he didn't really love me that much despite all the long yrs & kids.
@@emilybakerjones9881 The fact that he moved on so quickly must have been incredibly painful, but your reflection shows such resilience. Sometimes, when people move on fast, it’s less about their capacity for love and more about their inability to face the depth of emotions that come with loss. Your journey speaks to the inner battle of healing, where even though time has passed, the heart still seeks answers that may never fully come. But in your struggle, there is also incredible growth, and each day you are becoming stronger, not just for yourself but for your children as well.
Do you think, with time, people ever truly realize the value of what they’ve lost, or do some simply never understand the depth of what they had?
Silence is much more powerful than arguing. It is a game changer for me and it’s already working.
Absolutely! Silence has a remarkable way of shifting the dynamics in a conversation. It allows us to reflect, regain control, and often reveals more than words ever could. I'm glad to hear it's working for you! Keep embracing that power, it truly can be a game changer!
I’m done begging! I’M WORTH SO MUCH MORE!
It’s a bold and empowering statement, reminding us all that our value isn’t something to be negotiated or diminished by others’ lack of appreciation. The way you’ve embraced your own self-worth is truly inspiring-it echoes the Stoic belief that our internal peace and sense of self should never be dependent on external validation. You’ve drawn a line, and in doing so, you’ve liberated yourself from the chains of seeking approval from those who fail to see your true value.
What was the turning point for you, when you realized that begging for what you deserve was no longer an option?
This video is so good, I played it through twice! ...I am the prize...So sick of the hot and cold behavior and mixed signals. I have had enough of those mind games.
Thank you so much for your support! I'm glad the video resonated with you, and I totally hear you on the mixed signals and mind games. Remember, you are absolutely the prize, and you deserve someone who recognizes that from the start. Stay strong and keep putting yourself first! 🙌
My silence speaks volumes
It's a reminder that silence, when wielded with purpose, can communicate strength, wisdom, and even a quiet resilience that words could never fully capture. You've beautifully highlighted the art of restraint, where silence is not weakness but a deliberate choice to let others reflect, to let actions and presence speak louder than anything else.
Have there been moments in your life when silence became your strongest form of communication, leaving others to ponder its depth?
No more disrespect. They will never hear from me again.
I attract! I don’t chase anymore.
You attract don't chase..those have nothing in common ...different things
It’s better to work on yourself, wish them the best & just move on no need to be mean to them they already know what they have done that regret well they will have to live with always. Either way just work on yourself & show God what beautiful creation he made which is you.
Thank you for your thoughtful comment! I completely agree that focusing on self-improvement and wishing others well is a powerful approach. It’s important to prioritize our own growth and happiness, and by doing so, we not only honor ourselves but also set a positive example for others. Ultimately, embracing our journey and showing appreciation for who we are can lead to beautiful transformations. Appreciate your insights!
I am done begging. I am not going to chase him anymore. I need not prove my worth. My silence speaks volumes.
There’s a profound grace in realizing that your worth isn’t something to be proven to anyone, but something that quietly radiates from within. Your silence becomes your most eloquent statement, speaking truths that don’t need to be shouted but are deeply understood. It's a declaration of self-love and dignity that transcends words, reminding us all that sometimes the greatest strength lies in walking away, in allowing your absence to be felt more deeply than your presence ever could.
Have you found that this shift in mindset has brought you a sense of peace or clarity that you didn’t expect?
He’s probably thinking the same lol
I reflect, but don't regret , but I also take responsibility for my part .
I am not stuck any longer. I am that missing link. Yes I have finally got my power back and I love it and I would never lose it again ever💯💯👍🏽👍🏽
Wonderful!
The journey to rediscovering one's inner strength is no small feat, and your declaration serves as a shining example of resilience. When we realize that the power we seek has always been within us, it's like unlocking an unshakable foundation that no one can take away. Your confidence is contagious, and it reminds all of us that once we find our footing, we should never let go of it.
What was the turning point that made you realize this inner power?
I’ve always felt sorry for those I have left behind for good.
I'M DONE BEGGING! I'M DESERVING OF BETTER.
Im ready to take control of my life and stop letting him take me for granted . I’ve stepped away for 4 months and he asks everyone we know about me .😊
That's an amazing step you've taken! Taking control of your life is empowering, and it's great to hear that you're prioritizing your well-being. Your absence is clearly making him realize your value, and that's a testament to your strength. Keep focusing on yourself and your goals-it's a journey worth taking! 😊✨
*When you simply disappear, you embody the essence of stoicism - a quiet strength that leaves behind neither anger nor blame, only the serene understanding that not everything or everyone is meant to stay. In your absence, you remind others that peace comes from within, and true freedom lies in mastering the art of letting go without the need for explanation or validation. By walking away in silence, you teach the world that some paths are meant to be traveled alone, with dignity, resilience, and a heart at peace with itself.*
I blocked him yesterday, so I’m ready.
@@legingembrefou5981 It’s more than just cutting off communication; it’s choosing your well-being over the emotional chaos they may have caused. By doing this, you’re taking control of the narrative, giving yourself the space to heal and grow. It's truly inspiring to see someone embrace their own strength in such a decisive way.
What motivated you to take this step, and how do you feel now that you've made it?
I am worth the chase
@@cathynjeri2467 It's a reminder that true worth isn’t about lowering ourselves for the convenience of others but standing firm in our authenticity, knowing that those who truly see us will be willing to make the effort. You’ve captured a sense of dignity and grace in just a few words, and it’s inspiring. This perspective aligns beautifully with the Stoic belief in self-respect and not seeking validation from external sources but from within.
Have you ever experienced a moment where someone realized your worth too late?
Well said...❤
This video is a reminder of the strength in silence. Sometimes, walking away isn't about leaving others behind but rediscovering our own worth. Thank you for shedding light on the power of reclaiming our energy.
When we left I refused his offer of friendship kindly. One week later, someone much more loving came into my life. I tell friends the new person is undoing the prior 2 year damage. We're a good match.
That’s such a powerful story! It’s amazing how letting go of what no longer serves us opens the door for something so much better. Wishing you both endless happiness and healing, sounds like you found exactly what you deserve! 🙌✨
That was fast
I guess you was already talking to him before you left
@@richardgreen62 No.
The new guy introduced himself a week after my break up. I wasn't looking. We're at 2 1/2 months now. Going well and future planning
@@a.d.b535 it's good your happy I just think 1 week is a little direct and quick ..if you did care about the the ex maybe you should give a little healing time
I accept the challenge,..I stepped away 2 days ago and was about to message, but, thanks to this message I won't... thanks 🙏
Thank you for accepting the challenge! 🙌 It's awesome to hear that this message helped keep you on track. Stay strong and keep pushing forward, you got this! 💪
I am WHOLE without them!
Going on 7 months and just last month, she liked by instagram picture and unliked it. At a point I would have jumped in excitement however, when the notification came up, I felt nothing. I never responded. Her free trial is up!!!!
"Wow, it sounds like you've made some real progress in moving on! It's crazy how things that used to make us excited don't have the same effect once we start focusing on ourselves. That 'free trial' analogy is spot on! Keep doing you, it's all about growth and not getting stuck in the past. 🙌
That's a good one bro! Free trial is over!
I really needed this for my continued strength, that free trial is up analogy, perfectly said
Mine was just a month ago.
Like wise
She was never my friend on Instagram .
She like and unlike for the first time and when I check throught her Instagram , she changed her profile picture with 2 wine glasses.
It didn’t hurt me at all when I saw her profile.
I was glad and here is my chance to claim my worth and values back .
Suddenly I just felt that I will not go back to someone who doesn’t value my worth .
No hatred but relief and peace
@jasonchua8758 I really commend your strength. she probably uploaded that image to get a reaction from you.
My silence speaks Volumes. They can grapple with my Absence for the Rest of Their Lives!!! 😭😮😢🎉😂❤
The part where you said 'your silence speaks volumes' really struck me. It’s such a powerful reminder that sometimes the loudest statement is made by simply stepping back and letting your absence speak for itself. This truly inspired me to stop over-explaining and let people realize my worth on their own. Thank you for this empowering perspective!
I accept the challenge! Lord order my steps, order my words, order financial! Give me knowledge and wisdom to face this task!🙏🏾
That’s the spirit! 🙌 Keep that faith strong, when your steps are aligned, success becomes unstoppable. You've got this! 💪
You create what you have. Your thoughts that are created by you are yours hence they can change, evolve, become, disappear. You are your own creator of life. You are you own God.
I accept the challenge. I am whole without them. I am the mystery they can’t solve. I reflect but I don’t regret. I attract I don’t chase. I am more than enough. I no longer play games. My silence speaks volumes. I am worth the chase. Keep it up! Thank you Universe. 🥰
That's the spirit! Embracing your wholeness and stepping into your power sets a beautiful example of self-respect and inner strength. Your words radiate confidence and peace, qualities that truly attract the right energies and opportunities towards you. Keep shining your light and living your truth. The Universe surely has wonderful things in store for you! 🌟🌌
I accept the challenge. I am absolutely in love with her and have been for 32 years, but I'm done with the one way street.
That’s powerful. After 32 years of love, realizing your worth is a game-changer. No more one-way streets, now it’s about meeting in the middle or walking away with your head high. You’ve got this!
Your situation mirrors mine. I have been with my wife for 32 years and unfortunately I am now watching these videos to help me either break free. Our two sons, 23 and 26 disrespect me and my wife. Had enough of that. They tried so hard to make me look crazy because I have a hard time controlling my emotions. My life feels like communism. It’s a gradual process of change that boils the water, makes me want to bounce like the frog in the pot. I just realized that I have to leave before I stroke out, or have a panic or heart attack. Had a nervous breakdown two days ago. They made me realize that they are trying to get me into a psychiatric facility because I yell when they treat me like that. They didn’t realize that I checked myself in and signed myself out after 3 drs. all agreed that I didn’t need to be there because I’m not crazy. My wife and youngest son can’t understand that they are the ones who make me crazy. I’m done with them. Have to start planning my exit. Good luck sigmas. There’s strength in numbers. ✌️😎
Don't be the penny everybody walks over be the dollar they'll pick up.Increase your worth
That's a great analogy! Elevating your self-worth not only changes how others perceive you but also shifts your own mindset towards greater self-respect and potential. It's all about valuing yourself enough to know you deserve more than just being passed by. Thanks for sharing that perspective!
9 Things They Feel When You Disappear:
1. The Sting of Rejection
2. The Emptiness of Missing
Something
3. An Overwhelming Curiosity
4. Deep Self Reflection
5. The Urge To Pursue You
6. The Battle Between Relief and
Regret
7. The Desire To Play The Game
8. The Crushing Weight of Silence
9. The Fear That Brings Them
Crawling Back
I detach like breathing air.
I AM WORTH THE CHASE and FULLY KNOW MY WORTH
This man is very very good an powerful an knows what he is saying
The impact of those who speak with wisdom and authority often leaves a lasting imprint on our minds, encouraging us to dig deeper and embrace new perspectives. Your comment feels like a testament to that connection-when words don’t just inform us, but inspire and transform us.
Have you ever come across a moment where someone's words changed the way you approached a challenge in your own life?
Thank you for this video.Because I completely disappear from my toxic codependent.Narcissistic family members.Even my own mother I'm so grateful that God pulled me out of This witchcraft family.😢😢😢😢 something I had no idea that was against me😢 Glory to the kingdom🙏🏽🤣🥰 Living my best life, no contact.
Your strength and resilience shine so brightly in your words, Donna. The courage it takes to step away from toxic environments, especially from family, cannot be understated. You’ve made a powerful decision to protect your peace and well-being, and it’s inspiring to see how you’ve embraced this new chapter of life with such grace and gratitude. Your journey reminds us that sometimes the hardest choices lead to the most profound freedom, and in doing so, you’ve aligned with the very essence of personal empowerment. It's beautiful how you’ve transformed pain into triumph, finding solace in a life free from negativity.
During this journey of detachment and healing, what have you found to be the most surprising lesson about yourself?
I have cut contact with my couvert narcisist mother 3 years now and it has been and still is hard ,even overwhelming still. My toxic mother has alienated me from all family members over years and i was sooooo confused and soooooo sad!😢 😢😢 I am 51 year old woman who feels alienated from world in general now. I take each omeny of each day as it comes and i have to find the strength to carry on, move forwards (not stuck) and live the rest my life as best possible life ❤
@@carlabruce3971 It’s clear that your journey has been filled with challenges, but your ability to take each moment as it comes and find the strength to move forward is a true testament to your resilience. The emotional weight of feeling alienated from both family and the world at large is a heavy burden, yet here you are, standing tall and determined to live the best life you can. Your resolve to not remain stuck, despite the overwhelming sadness, shows that you are embracing your power, choosing to heal and create a future that is filled with hope and purpose.
As you continue on this path of self-healing and growth, have you found certain practices or mindsets that help you stay grounded and hopeful?
Sometimes silence screams louder than words. If they couldn't see your value before, let them drown in the silence of your absence now.
Stay away from them. If they disrespected you they didn't value you. Excellent video from beginning to end. Thanks
Communication is key in any relationship. Ghosting someone is emotionally damaging.
Ghosting, as you pointed out so insightfully, leaves behind an emotional wound-one that lingers long after the silence begins. It’s a withdrawal that doesn’t just cut off conversation, but leaves the other person in a state of confusion and pain, often questioning their worth. Your comment reminds us of the importance of honoring others with clarity and openness, even when the conversation is difficult. In a world that sometimes prioritizes convenience over compassion, your perspective is a crucial reminder of the emotional responsibility we carry in relationships.
Have you ever found yourself in a situation where communication could have changed the outcome entirely?
It's emotionally damaging to stay in a toxic relationship. Communicating with an abuser is useless.
@@hopehadley8844 Staying in such an environment not only chips away at your emotional well-being but also blurs the lines of what you know you deserve. By acknowledging that it’s damaging, you’ve taken a powerful step toward protecting your peace and reclaiming your sense of self-worth. Stoicism teaches us that it’s not about changing others, but about controlling how we respond and what we allow into our lives-and you’ve grasped that truth with such clarity and strength.
Have you ever found that removing yourself from a toxic situation allowed you to rediscover parts of yourself that had been lost in the struggle?
@@stoickingdomoffical Sometimes it's necessary to disappear, especially when you have to endure emotional pain from a narcissist or a psychopath.
I guess this really works on women that doesn’t have many options even if you disappear she still most likely if she is good looking there are guys giving her plenty of attention so if you disappear she might not even notice
your absence can speak volumes. I learned this when I stopped chasing people who didn’t value me.
Never again will I let myself be a victim...
Oh that's one speaks so close to my heart
The part about letting them feel the emptiness really hit home - sometimes that's the only way they learn
Thank you so much for watching and supporting the channel! 🙏 May everyone who listens to this find health, peace, and good fortune on their journey.
As the Stoic philosopher Epictetus once said, "We cannot choose our external circumstances, but we can always choose how we respond to them."
I am the Mystery they can't solve
I no longer play games. I walked away lin March 2023. My absence speaks louder than words. I took back my power and became empowered.
I’M DONE BEGGING !!!! I’M DESERVING BETTER.
That’s the energy! 💥 When you stop begging, you start attracting. Keep that mindset, your worth speaks louder in silence. 👑 Keep going, you’ve got this!
@@powerfulstoichabits thank you so much for this wonderful video. It’s been 5 days since my breakup. It hurts so much but after watching your videos. It helped me a lot to think different. And i always play your videos so i can sleep
"Watching this video, I clearly understand the meaning of contentment and appreciating each moment. Such a profound lesson!"
I'm taking my power back and will never give it away again!
I AM WHOLE WITHOUT THEM!
THEIR ABSENCE ONLY HIGHLIGHTS MY STRENGTH!!
My silence speaks volumes; it is my power.
This video hits so deep! It’s incredible how disappearing from someone’s life forces them to see your true worth. The way it goes through all nine stages of their emotions is so relatable, from regret to that intense pull when they finally realize what they lost. It’s not about revenge or games; it’s about finding respect for yourself. Love how the content blends Stoic and Buddhist wisdom - such a powerful reminder to focus on inner peace and not settle for less. Thanks for such an empowering message!
Thank you for sharing your thoughts! As Seneca said, As is a tale, so is life: not how long it is, but how good it is, is what matters. Walking away isn’t about vengeance but about valuing your worth and cultivating inner peace. Focusing on yourself is the ultimate act of self-respect. Stay strong!
After talking and explaining myself over and over. I no longer waste my energy. I just go silent/disappear.
That’s a powerful choice! Sometimes, stepping back and choosing silence speaks volumes more than words ever could. It’s a way to reclaim your energy and let others reflect on their actions. Keep embracing that emotional independence!
Thank you so much for this video and channel... I recently was told by the woman I love that... I need to work on me and that she sees me more as a friend than a lover and it crushed me...its been about a week now and I was about to text her saying how much I miss her but now...I feel stronger and I refuse to live by someone else's validation...I don't chase, I attract. Everytime I feel weak I will play this video.. Once again thank you for giving me the courage and strength to move on
You're so welcome! I'm truly touched by your comment. It takes a lot of strength to go through something like that and even more to choose to focus on your own growth and self-worth. It's not easy, but you're absolutely right, your value isn’t defined by anyone else's validation. I love that you've embraced the mindset of "I don't chase, I attract" because it shows you're taking control of your journey. Keep moving forward with that strength, and remember you're not alone in this. You’ve got this! Stay strong and keep pushing forward. 🙌
Never be predictable.....let them guess ! Sometimes it' s too late when they come back. Hold on to your own power !!!❤
Thank you for sharing that! You're absolutely right, being unpredictable keeps things interesting and makes others value your presence more. When we hold onto our power, we stop relying on their timing and start moving on our own terms. If they come back too late, it’s a sign that we’ve already grown stronger without them. Keep shining and never give away that power! ❤️
@@powerfulstoichabits Thank you !! ❤
Your ability to innovate within the medium is unmatched
I have tried and tested this method since I have been in the same situation of being not loved back the way I did,I disappeared for 6 months and he contacted me back again and keeping in mind it was a situation ship btw us, he came back wanting to be with me in a relationship and I gave in, not realising the mistake I was gonna do again because a snake only sheds it’s skin but stays the same, I realised after accepting him that he’s never changed and mind you if you’re in your path of moving on and leaving them PLEASE PLEASE NEVER ACCEPT THEM BACK,it’s more destructive and damaging.
Today I have decided to leave him again forever now, because I am worth much more than his distractions.
I will take my strength back and never look back.
I hope I can go in strong in this journey because I loved him so much
May we all who are in toxic one sided love be at peace
I attract. I don’t chase.
Thank you so much for sharing your experience. It's incredibly brave of you to reflect on your journey and make the tough decision to prioritize your own well-being. You’re absolutely right, sometimes, when we let someone back in, we discover that they've remained the same despite the hopes for change. It takes so much strength to walk away, especially when love is involved. But recognizing your own worth and choosing yourself is a powerful step toward healing. Stay strong and keep moving forward, there’s so much peace and happiness ahead for you. Wishing you all the best on this new chapter of self-love and growth! 💪❤️
@@powerfulstoichabits thank you so much ❤️❤️❤️❤️ sending love and all the healing energies
I miss my family and I know I NEVER cross their minds. I was too stupid to face they resent me. Now that I have faced up to it, the people I meet step in and replace the loss. And truly care about ME.
It sounds like you’ve been on a really difficult journey, and it’s completely understandable to feel that way. It’s brave of you to confront those feelings and recognize the support you’ve found in new relationships. Remember, it’s never too late to rebuild connections or seek healing with your family. Surrounding yourself with people who genuinely care about you is so important. Keep focusing on those positive relationships that uplift you!
I found this video at the right time. Thank you ❤
You're so welcome!
I AM WHOLE WITHOUT THEM!!
I am whole without them.Thank you for another great one. This was powerful!
Absolutely! Your journey towards self-wholeness is inspiring. Thank you for your kind words, and I’m glad you found the content powerful! Keep shining! 🌟
I accepted the challenge long ago, now I feel I don't want them anymore in my life.
Yah this has changed my life completely
What people don't understood about me is, if a person always stay, I would appreciate this person with all my life. But if a person is toxic and takes me for granted, that's where I'd stop investing myself in, because all I got by being there is pain.
That’s a strong boundary, and it’s powerful! People who value your loyalty will cherish it, and those who don’t will lose out. Protecting your peace isn’t selfish; it’s self-respect. Keep standing tall! 💪✨
I am done begging
I have been whole without them
I am the mystery they can't solve
I reflect but don't regret
I attract I don't chase
I'm more than enough
My silence speaks volumes
I'm worth the Chase ❤
Thank you so much to the team for delivering such an amazing video! This content is truly insightful and has helped me understand more about practicing Stoicism in everyday life. Wishing you continued success and growth as you spread more valuable messages. ❤🙏
Glad it was helpful!
I am worthy, and I have empathy and compassion and a soul.
Thank you for sharing that! Absolutely, you are worthy, and it's beautiful that you recognize the power of empathy, compassion, and having a soulful connection with the world. Keep shining that light! 🙏
This is the BEST video that's ever been, or will be, on YT! Thank you.
Thank you so much for your incredible support! Your kind words mean the world to me. I'm thrilled you enjoyed the video! Stay tuned for more content coming your way!
I attract and I'll never chase again.
Me2 im so fed up with it
I accept the Challengehe ❤ I have already put it into action. No contact. With love❤ These people will not change they don't want to change.They have been manipulated in lying all their life.I will allow God to handle the rest🙏🏽 ❤ new life new me💃
I used to tell people that I love helping others, but they took it as a joke and tried to take advantage of me. They’d ask for unreasonable favors, and when I refused, they got upset because I didn’t help
It’s unfortunate how some people can misinterpret kindness as a weakness. Helping others should always come from a place of mutual respect, not obligation. It’s important to set healthy boundaries and remember that it’s okay to say no when someone’s request is unreasonable. True friends and those who genuinely appreciate your help will understand and respect your limits. Stay kind, but also stay firm in protecting your own well-being. Thanks for sharing your experience!
I am DONE begging! My absence is felt every minute of their day! 💯
Absolutely I accept the challenge am gone now I wish you well . Taking back my power. Not giving my energy anymore. On the road again feeling wonderful. Thank for your wisdom of relationships .
The road you're on now, filled with a renewed sense of freedom and purpose, is a testament to the courage it takes to prioritize your peace above all else. It’s not just about walking away, but about rediscovering the joy of walking towards something far greater-your well-being.
As you continue this journey, have you found that others are surprised by your absence, and if so, what reactions have you observed in those who once took your presence for granted?
That’s the energy! 🚀 Taking back your power is the ultimate move. Keep moving forward and watch the transformation happen! You’ve got this. 💪🔥
I ACCEPT THE CHANGE AND CHALLENGE FROM THIS DAY FORWARD AND FOREVER
Whoever created this channel is a genius❤
I was always there and did not leave until he decided to leave. We are in the process of separation, he will always have insight in my life since we have a child.
I'm really sorry you're going through this. It's tough to navigate the changes that come with separation, especially when you share a child. Remember to take care of yourself during this time and seek support when you need it. Your strength and resilience in managing both your emotional well-being and co-parenting will guide you through. If you ever need someone to listen, we're here for you.
I attract, I don’t chase!
100/100 I agree man… This is a great advice and gives life time lesson.I This is indisputable education by itself ❤❤❤❤
I'm thrilled to hear you found it so valuable! It's amazing how these insights can truly transform our lives. Thanks for your kind words and for being part of our community. Keep embracing the journey! ❤️🌟
I am done being my family's doormat. I no longer answer their calls or text messages. They will have to learn on their own. I am refocusing my energy on myself and showing how happy and great my life is without them.
You're taking a courageous step by setting boundaries and prioritizing your own well-being. It can be incredibly tough to make these changes, especially with family, but focusing on your happiness and mental health is crucial. Keep nurturing your personal growth and enjoying your life's journey. Your strength might just inspire others to reflect on their own actions and relationships. Stay strong!
I'm READY TO STOP CHASING!!! THANKS FOR THIS WAKE UP CALL!!!!
I accept the challenge! Thank you for giving me hope.
I'm glad to hear that! 💪 Now it's time to show them what silence can do. Keep your power, stay in control, and let your actions speak louder than words. 🔥 You're unstoppable!
silence is the key to your peace of mind and heart, no sucking up, begging pleading or trying, just beautiful silence
Silence is a shield, unbreakable, unyielding. Let it guard your peace while the world clamors in vain. Thank you for this truth!
I don't chase. I attract!☺️
Thank you for sharing that powerful affirmation! 💪 You are absolutely more than enough. Never forget your worth and continue embracing that confidence. 😊
I have always been, am now and WILL ALWAYS BE ENOUGH.
I reflect but don't regret.
NEVER LET ANYONE TO DISRESPECT YOU AT ANY CAST ... .
Two weeks of silence. And now I learned he is already with someone new. I will never go back to him again.
I 'ghosted' someone many years ago, and I still regret it like h*ll. Fortunately, though, I re-aquainted myself a couple years later and this person has become the best friend of my life. Just my experience, that's all.
Thank you for sharing your experience! It’s amazing how life gives us second chances sometimes, even after we make mistakes. Reconnecting and building a genuine friendship out of what might have been a missed opportunity is so inspiring. Your story is a reminder that, even when things don’t go as planned, there’s always room for growth, healing, and deeper connections. 🌱
I am mystry they can never solve and can not solve. Amen.
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🎉🎉🎉Thank you Universe🎉🎉🎉 thank you. Keep it UP❤
I accept the challenge after a 10 year relationship x i accept this challenge ❤
Wow, that’s amazing! After 10 years, that’s such an inspiring commitment. I’m excited to see how you take on this new challenge! ❤️ Keep us posted on your journey!
I reflect but there's no regret😂❤ Turning my love inward and empowering myself.Knowing that I am a blessing to Be a blessing, Have
Healed and growth 🦅
I went silent automatically and done everything
I reflect. I do not regret.
Yes I'm the mystery they can no longer solve and on my own i am enough i am whole without him yes I accept the challenge I'm gone I will no 18:08 longer be taken for granted 💯
There is a profound beauty in walking away, not out of bitterness, but out of self-respect and the quiet confidence that comes with knowing your value. Your journey of self-reclamation shines brightly, showing others that sometimes, the greatest challenge is to let go - and in that letting go, we find our true power.
What do you think others often discover about themselves in moments of solitude and reflection like yours?
Your response is powerful! 🙌 Yes, embrace that mystery and keep shining as the whole, unstoppable force you are! 💯 You’ve got this, no more being taken for granted. Stay strong and keep moving forward. 👏
I reflect and I don't regret
I accept the challenge!!
Yes, yes, and yes. I knew a young woman who was a catch, good morals, and gorgeous. But her 10 years older boyfriend took him 10 years to get her to the alter. She wouldn't leave him. She wanted a marriage, kids all of it. I told her to pack everything of hers, don't even leave a toothbrush, take all your belongings, and give him the silent treatment as if you are not living on earth anymore. No text, calls, no one telling him about how you're doing. She did what I said and I told her only after 6 months she can let him reach her. He came back, married her immideatly, and in 3 months after marriage they were pregnant with their first child. They had two, but she passed away at 42 and only had 8 years of marriage. Now he says she was the love of his life..people are sure fools to take a fine person for granted. He is suffering the natural consequences of his own actions..
I'm done. He's married. He still chases me, trying to gain access to my energy. I knew this would happen. I tried to warn him because I knew he would regret it, and he does. I'm like a ghost. I barely even remember the relationship. Meanwhile, he can not forget it. I am more than enough! ✌️
It sounds like you’ve reached a place of incredible strength and clarity. You knew your worth all along, and now he’s the one facing the consequences. Your energy is sacred, and you’ve taken back control. Stay in that power, your peace is untouchable, and you are absolutely more than enough! ✨👑
My silence speaks volumes. Thanks for this video.
Thank you for sharing that powerful affirmation! 💪 You are absolutely more than enough. Never forget your worth and continue embracing that confidence. 😊
I don’t believe they have given my disappearance a second thought.
Sometimes it takes a while. Some people keep their walls up but the guilt will peek through. One day, at their most vulnerable, they’ll realize what they took for granted and lost. I promise you - if they don’t feel it now they will.
Sometimes it feels like that, but you'd be surprised at how much your absence impacts people, even when they don't show it. Silence speaks louder than words, and time has a way of revealing the truth. Stay strong, you've taken your power back.
Oh my dear stoicist, I dissapeared of business long years ago and bye bye to charmi ng cautious. Take care!