I just want to clarify that this was mutual. Graham didn't leave me. We both sat down and talked about our relationship together and both decided this was what was best. It was my decision to leave the house, he did not kick me out and actually wanted me to stay. I wanted to move out because I do not like the area that the house is in and would feel more comfortable in an area that is safer while being home alone overnight with the kids. As you know, the house has been broken into several times and I just don't feel the safest here alone with the kids. So that is why I am moving. Thanks for all of the support on the video! We both appreciate it so much. We'll be doing a video together to answer some questions- not sure when.
elleandbabes sorry to hear this. I’m definitely praying for y’all. And just take it day by day. That’s what I have had to do. I’m also getting a divorce and my husband and I have been together since we were 13 & 15. And becoming a single mom has been extremely hard but I know you’re strong and will make it through this! 💕
elleandbabes I can see by this video, you love Graham!! It sounds like you both need some time apart. That doesn’t mean in the future things can’t be worked out. You guys have a lot going on. Maybe when things settle down you’ll find your way back into each others arms 😍 rooting for you guys!!!! “Its another day with the naudets” ❤️
Hey Elle, I'll be covering you guys in prayer. I dont know much about how youtube works etc, but, if you want someone to talk to, words of encouragement, you can message me if that's possible on here. Let me know if there's anything you want specific prayer for.
Couples now a days give up way to easy. For Better or Worse, go to counseling and stick through this rough patch! You guys will get through this, marriage is not suppose to be easy, it’s suppose to be trial and error and you will both get through this. I feel like you both shouldn’t separate but maybe take a few days away and then come back and see how it goes. Xx the kids will appreciate both you guys working it out
Maybe they are not just giving up out of no where we don't see there everyday lives this could have been going on for a while and what's the best thing for the children is what is the best for the parents
I agree 100 % but I mean, what can you expect? I have absolutely nothing against them but they started living the adult life WAY too young ( getting married, having kids, a house, etc, etc) and that almost always catches up with the couple. They are at the age were they are still discovering themselves and figuring out life and when you add responsabilities and commitments like these to the mix there’s a really high chance it wont end well.
My husband is my living hell, but I stay because I want to be there to raise my child full time. I would never tell anyone to try to work it out, and for all we know, them being together might be worse for the children. Everyday I question my decision to remain married and it is literally destroying my mental health. Marriage counseling only works when it is mutually agreed upon that there is an issue and that there is a willingness on both sides to work through it.
Naomi and Dan Ily guys so much!! I watch ur Vids all the time, hope little miles is doing ok!!! I hope he picks up, it may seem hard to remember he’s doing well but it’ll work out, we’re all here for u!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
elle, please take time off. You’re pregnant and this is a lot of stress. I suggest try working on your marriage, maybe just a month more. Just to see. I wouldn’t want you jumping into buying a place so quick. I hope things work out for you. I couldn’t imagine. i’m praying for you.
This broke my heart to watch. I’ve been following you for so long so it feels like my friend is hurting. You are so beautiful no matter what makeup you have on or don’t. I think we all understand you are a real person and you don’t owe us anything. You are both still such amazing parents of course and your kids are lucky to have you. Do what is best for you first and for your kids. We all love you so so much and are here for you!
I dont usually comment about this but i can 100% relate to what you are going through! I have a 3 year old, 2 year old and 4 months old and when i was 5 months pregnant with my 3rd me and my husband split up. We currently are back together on a trial period attempting to work things out. Marriage is hard and marriage with kids is even harder, my heart goes out to you because i know the pain and i know how difficult it is but it gets easier in a way! My following is way less than yours but i also sort of put out a video about our relationship and it was nerve wreaking, sending you all the positive vibes!
MiSsY agreed!!!! I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have two kids and one on the way. We went through something similar. I stayed at my moms on the weekends (because i do daycare in my home so i couldn’t stay on week nights) for about 2 1/2 months. It gave us time to remember why we wanted to be together in the first place. It’s still hard sometimes but it definitely helped
The thing is though, they HAVE been apart from each other for a while. As soon as he gets back and makes the decision to leave his passion this happens. Maybe it’s the fact that they both want different things, only they know. All we can do is wish them the best.
I am praying for you girl. Please try marriage counseling with someone. And PRAY PRAY PRAY. Dont give up. My brother and his wife have been having marriage problems for the last year, adulatory, kids, just a lot. They are now fine and doing great because of the Lord. Don’t give up on Him and don’t give up your marriage with Graham. Your kids need the both of you, TOGETHER. They will see the love you two have together and that will make a huge difference in their lives. Kids go through more than you think when you split up. Please just don’t give up and do counseling and like I said PRAY. I love you two and I’m praying!!!!
I agree and disagree... I agree because trying to do counseling would be a good idea. But I disagree because I have seen people remain together for their children. And they made each other and their kids miserable. Not intentionally, but still to a point that the children felt the changes. Staying together for the children doesn’t always work, for some yes but for most others no. I say leave it in gods hands take the roads and paths that he has laid out and who knows, maybe they will get back together in the future or maybe they won’t. I just send all the well wishes and love I have their way.
They’re kids don’t NEED them together. Is it ideal? Yes probably. My mom split from my biological father for many reasons, but my sister and I turned out just fine. I am actually happy to know my mom took the necessary steps for herself to ensure she got out of a situation for herself. The kids need happy parents! And Elle and Graham need to figure out if that is together or apart. I’m sure they’ve thought of their children and I feel like you’re one of those people putting in your unnecessary comment. I highly doubt they had one argument and decided to split. This was probably an ongoing thing for them. Aside from that, before they are parents, they are people. Individuals. And in order to provide a healthy kid parent relationship, they need to ensure they are healthy. Stop putting this pressure onto people because of your own beliefs.
God does NOT put things your way he knows you can’t handle! I know you’ve heard this many times before but time heals everything my love. Have faith and ask God to give you strength and guidance to where he wants you to be. I know it’s easier said than done but you’re going to be okay. Trust 🙌🏽🙏🏽
Jemmy Kay GOD didn’t promise a life without struggles. He promised he will get us through all the trials he puts in our life. No one in these messages are saying God is okay with marriages breaking up. What we are saying or agreeing with is that God won’t give Elle something she can’t handle, don’t get that twisted.
Marriage is a covenant. In the eyes of God it is not broken by divorce papers, it is broken by death of one partner. That's why they say "till death do us part".
So sorry Elle... I hope everything works out. Have y’all talked about trying marriage counseling?! Could be something that would work for y’all. Stay positive 💞💞
People shouldn’t define who you are as a couple. We only see 30 min of your life. I’m so sorry Elle don’t let comments or people bring you down. Take time for your self but really think about your future with and without each other and then make your decision.
My prayers go out for the both don’t let the enemy Satan win that’s what he wants because he don’t like marriage... Lean on the Lord for help 1. Grant Elle & Graham a strong assurance that You are able to defend the covenant they entrusted to You on their wedding day. (Psalm 18:1, Psalm 59:9-10) 2. Give Elle & Graham eyes to see that the same power that raised Jesus from the dead can revive their love and affection for each other. (Romans 8:11, 2 Timothy 1:10) 3. Empower Elle & Graham with courageous faith to believe that You can stir up the gifts of love and forgiveness in them even now. (Luke 1:37, 2 Timothy 1:6, Psalm 23:4) 4. Counsel Elle & Graham to deposit love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, faithfulness and self-control into their relationship trusting that they will produce a great harvest of victory in their marriage. (Galatians 5:22-23, 6:7-8) 5. Impart Your wisdom and revelation to Elle & Graham so they are able to speak the truth in love to each other. (Ephesians 1:17, 4:15) 6. Send Elle & Graham a person with great understanding to expose the hidden motivations behind their fragmented relationship. (Proverbs 20:5) 7. Encourage Elle & Graham with Your presence and power to save them from this fiery trial in the same way you saved Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego from the blazing furnace. (Daniel 3:26-27) 8. Inspire Elle & Graham with Jesus’ example of faithfulness to His imperfect confidants who betrayed, denied, and doubted Him. (Luke 22:34,48, 24:38) 9. Intervene so that Elle & Graham become eager to maintain unity and peace. (Romans 14:19, Ephesians 4:3) 10. Teach Elle & Graham to be doers of Your Word and live humbly acknowledging Your will and Your power to make all things new. (James 1:22, Micah 6:8, 2 Corinthians 5:17) 11. Be merciful to Elle & Graham as they rebel against Your ways, and deliver to them a profound awakening as effective as Paul’s Damascus Road experience. 12. Secure Elle & Graham marriage on Your firm foundation using the miracle of their unity to show the world how faithful and powerful You are. (Matthew 7:24-27, 1 Corinthians 1:9, Ephesians 1:19)
God’s ways are not our own and sometimes He has to allow “ALL” of the broken pieces to fall before they can be put back together, HIS WAY. Maybe He was just waiting for you, BOTH, to surrender, completely. Trust God and remember...”What is the definition of faith?” Without faith it is impossible to please Him but if you can tangibly see something, it isn’t faith. So just, spiritually, close your eyes and trust your Spiritual Father. He won’t let you fall if you’ll just trust Him. 🙏🏼 Let go and let God..... IF you don’t know what to do then stand still and wait on His answer.
I’m very happy to see the great advice under this video. I also agree to leave this in the hands of the Lord. “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Mark 10:9. Pray, pray and pray! You will have a stronger relationship after this. Like someone in the comments said as well, God won’t give you something you can’t handle. Use this time to seek more of him. I also pray God will give you the strength to pass through this tribulation. I know you will see the light at the end of the tunnel. God is a way maker, miracle worker, promise keeper, and light in the darkness. Although you cannot see it yet, God is working. Love you!
My husband and I went through this too. This is a difficult season in many marriages. Counseling for myself helped so much! And my husband and I are soooooo different but I tell you, with counseling for yourself, once you break through this difficult time you will be so happy.
We love you Elle! My husband and I have been together for 5 years. We got together at 14 and 15 years old, and my junior and his senior year we ended up splitting up for a few weeks and it felt like the worst thing in the world but in that time we both realized a lot and if we didn’t have that time apart we wouldn’t be married now with our daughter. I know marriage splitting up and boyfriend and girlfriend splitting up are totally different things, but I just wanted to say that sometimes taking time apart is what you both need to grow and figure things out. Your’e still a young, GREAT mama, your career is flourishing and there will be brighter days! Love you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
It sucks when kids have kids...they are so young and still growing into who THEY are as people which is difficult to navigate as it is and it’s crazy to think that they have to do that while nurturing the growth of a child going through the same exact process at a completely different stage... that’s nuts to me... I wish them the best I hope they can work things out they seem like really nice people...I wish they would have had the opportunity to figure this out before having children
I think you guys will find your way back to each other. I can see the love you have for one another. That's something that just doesnt goes away. I feel you guys just need to find your independence and your identity outside of a young married couple. This may be just a temporary break that you guys need. Work on yourselves then each other. Mad love for you guys, praying for strength that you will need thru this.
I found out I’m pregnant about a week ago and my now ex boyfriend have decided to separate . You are not alone I’m with you 100% it’s okay to cry , let it out . Sending lots of love ❤️ WE will be okay
Try counseling, also I hear the book ‘5 love languages’ saves marriages, y’all gotta know how to make one another feel the love! Shouldn’t give up, whatever you both fell in love with is still there, y’all just gotta figure it out and get back to that place! Praying for you ♥️ you clearly have that passion for him still..
Elle, please take the time and analyze , you are going to have 3 children, Ghram seems like an amazing guy at least in the videos you put out, you both need to analyze and realize the blessings you are surrounded by, dont let the negative things separate.... dont let yourselfs fall into this world where its selfish. You both can accomplish a lot together... it's not about your or his happiness your kids are your happiness , your children need both of you , dont give up 💖💖💖 And please if you see this comment , please look for marriage retreats , and my catholic church they do a lot of marriage retreat for couples that are on the verge of divorce and God has restored their marriage 💖
I'm so sorry Elle. I'm in the same boat... I have grown in a complete different direction than my son's father and we're very different now. Our wants and needs are completely different. We have been together for 5 years and I'm also 18 weeks pregnant. It's so complicated. I'm so sorry
I noticed that to its Satan attacking those who really love and care foreachother praying for them all its sad when kids are involved but reguardless their good parents
Marriage is not a contract it’s a commitment! You both need to see the Vow by Craig Groeschel especially part 3 and 4! Your eyes have adjusted to the darkness and the only way to see the light is through Christ!! When you run out of gas you don’t go out to buy another car you fill it back up! Fill your love back up!!! You work through it it will be okay. Forget your feelings marriage is Commitment and you work through it. Don’t lose hope❤️
🤬🤬🤬 I hope you guys can work things out. It wasn't easy for my hubby and i at first but i had to make an effort to change and so did he. We don't argue as much 13 yrs married w 2 kids. You guys know best and I know you will remain civil for the kids.
Elle I am so so so sorry. I want to see you thrive and grow and live and love. I am so terribly hurt for you. I know that you deserve all the happiness in the world and I hope that you can find it in your children, friends, your surroundings, and most importantly, YOURSELF. One day you’ll look back on this moment and you’ll rejoice in all the joy you then will have.
I am so sorry you are going through all of this, especially while pregnant. I can’t imagine how hard it is, but it is so important to take care of yourself! If after awhile you guys feel like you wanna try to work on things, I would really recommend on couples counseling and individual. Maybe you guys already have tried, but if not it’s always worth a try. Just to talk to things through and figure out what’s the best for the both of you❤️ hang in there, you are an amazing mom, sending love and prayers❤️
I’m so sorry love! You are one strong mama for even letting us know something so deep about your life . Things will get better! 💕 In God’s timing. You’re in my prayers! 💕
Chin up momma! Your so strong and you’ve got two beautiful children, with one on the way. Stay strong for them, keep the positive thoughts and push through. If it’s meant to be it’ll be. 💕
I think taking time apart is a smart and healthy move, you guys have been together since you were teens and haven’t had the chance to experience the independence of being single. Who’s to say you won’t find your way back to each other in a year or so but for now I think you are both making the right choice in focusing on yourselves and your own goals and happiness. Good luck to you both! So long as you’re both happy that’s all that matters
Just When you think you’re the only one that is going thru relationship issues. It’s really hard very freaking hard. But it happens i guess some is worst than others but it’s life. Nobody ever said marriage and parenting will be easy. Stay strong for the kids ofcourse. I try to keep a smile on my face for my son even though it’s killing me inside.
Next month would be four years since I'm married too. I can say you have to intentionally work on your marriage and seek counselling to help you guys after the time apart. Pray, ask God for guidance. A marriage built on the strong foundation of Jesus Christ is bound to last, after all God is the inventor of marriage. Read up on marriage in the Bible.
I think you definitely should disable the comments bc people are harsh and you’re going through something while being pregnant which is obviously 10 times harder emotionally you don’t need random people judging you or making you feel even worse my prayers go out to you your beautiful children and your marriage I hope and pray you and anyone who sees this continue to have faith and stay strong , hard times won’t last forever god bless you 🧡🧡🧡😭😭😭😭☹️
My husband and I were together from middle school and now we’re 21&22...we got married when we were both 18 and we have both changed SO MUCH. I totally get where you’re coming from...we have had ups and downs because we have just grown up and sometimes it causes major ruts. He is in the military and that comes with its own challenges. We are from Missouri (not too far from y’all) but we are currently in North Carolina and being away from family is hard at times, especially with kids. My heart hurts for you 💙 you guys are great parents and will overcome this ❤️
Sweetie we are here for YOU 💕 You are a STRONG, BEAUTIFUL, WONDERFUL WOMAN and you will make it through this . No matter what you decide we are here for YOU❤️
Be strong mama !! You have outshined so many statistics being a young married mom . I’m a young married mom and growing up with your spouse definitely hard to do . Don’t feel like you aren’t accomplishing anything . You’ve accomplished so much . More than I have in my life . I’ll be praying for your family 💜
I am so so sorry about everything you’re going through. You are such a strong woman for putting your real life out there for the world to see and you both will make it out of this time even stronger. Believe in yourself because you’re far more capable of things than you think! Sending lots of love to you during this time ♥️
Keep strong Elle♥️ your such a young beautiful strong person. You can overcome anything that comes your way. You be successful && ignore the haters. There’s a reason they are behind you.
Seriously, feeling the exact way with home issues and issues at work and it happening all at once. Just gotta keep telling yourself things will get better and you’ll see better and happier days! Keep yourself distracted! Push through 💛
Noooooo pray pray pray... marriage is not to be dissolved so easily, please work at it!!! No one no one is prefect, so negative comments aren’t even worth it.. report them people! No marriage is perfect and it is hard to juggle things sometimes, but those that stick together no matter what o careless what others think are the “perfect marriages”😊🌹. He loves you you love him... Please remember the love that God put creating this! Get your Bible please sweetie please... read the Psalms, pray hard and pour your heart out to your Creator Jehovah... He loves you both and your cute family and now an amazing blessing that’s growing and that needs mommy and daddy to stay close and battle things together 💪🏻 💪🏻 💪🏻 with Love & Patience. 👉🏻Do not allow more time to pass by... So much time might not be good.. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️you’re One and you promised to each other your Love and Faithfulness!!! Forget you tube if anything, but get your family back! And it’s ok to be Real. Much love 💕. Will keep you both in 🙏. You’re an Amazing Beautiful Wife & Graham is Amazing Husband and Friend ❤️PUSH= Pray Until Something Happens ❤️ *Along with prayers, Actions too! & Put into Work what you both want*
There’s No Marriage that’s Easy! None! You just have to work hard at it and keep things organized by priorities. 💍 👰 Ecclesiastes 4:12 “And someone may overpower one alone, but two together can take a stand against him. And a threefold cord cannot quickly* be torn apart.” 🤵 🌹 -It takes 3!!😊 1)God should always be first ... 2) Then you 2, Because 2 strong ones; no one can destroy and will help your kids to copy that as well. 3) 4) 5)
Praying for you both. Stay strong, you are so right when you said you either grow together or grow apart, I’m currently in the same situation. Try to stay positive Elle ❤️
You’ll do what’s best for your family.. Don’t listen to negative comments girl.. Just do your best and figure out what you need.. please don’t be sad 😞 im sure things will eventually get better.. Trust me I know im also a young mom and I’ve had does same issues as well.. i truly understand how you’re feeling rn.. stay strong for your 3 beautiful babies Sending much love ❤️ and hugs❤️
Been there and I know how hard it can be. If you guys are best friends & love each other like you say you do then keep working at it. PLEASE go to marriage counseling. Don’t give up on each other just yet. Marriage is really really hard. The people who have been married for 40+ years can tell you that it’s hard and takes a lot of work from both sides. I’m 21 with a 3 year old and 1 year old. I know how you feel. Me and my husband also got married young and obviously had our kids young. We almost separated multiple times, but have worked it. Because we really love eachother and can not live without eachother lol. This is a rough patch but y’all can pull through. 🙌🏼 I’m praying for y’all
Stay strong Elle!. Seek God I know that’s what helped me on my first marriage.... hopefully you too find the answers y’all need I’ll be praying for your marriage
I applaud you for being so raw and real to us even when u didn't have to. You stay strong and take CARE of u. Love your channel and I'm a fellow Missourian!
Separating during pregnancy is the woooooorsssssst. The absolute worst. Although our situations most likely may not the same, I can say that I feel your pain 100%. Father of my baby (still “husband” cause military & baby’s not out yet) and I split early on in my pregnancy. He came home from deployment, we thought we were good, apparently cause we made a child together, and then all of a sudden things went left and divorce was thrown around every day or every other day. I thought we were so happy but unfortunately I was wrong. So I’ve gone through SO much this pregnancy. & it hurt but 🤷🏽♀️ you got this. For sure you got this.
Stay strong Elle. It’s awesome that you guys are mature enough to stay civil and co parent for the kids sake. And it’s understandable that you guys will still stay friends and still have love for each other no matter what, You guys have been together for so long and you guys have 2 about to be 3 kids together. Real fans support you no matter what. And I wish nothing but the best for you guys, You’re an awesome mom and and awesome person!
Maybe time apart will help y’all come back to each other with the help of a little marriage counseling, that is if you think the marriage is salvageable. I’m praying for all of you guys and genuinely wish the best for you and your mental stability because I know you’re probably so emotionally drained. If it helps you should have someone else moderate your comments for you so you don’t have to see any negativity! Love you Elle 💓
Elle I went through the same exact thing over the summer and it was the worst period in my entire life! Just please stay strong and push through, it will all work itself out. Just remember you will be okay no matter what happens and you deserve nothing but to be truly happy
Stay strong girl, things happen. I know its hard as a teen mom going threw life's struggles is a b-tch but I feel for you girl. Stay strong!! It takes time but I think You got this!
Just know that you are strong & I admire that Graham & you sat down & talked about it. I don’t believe you guys are giving up, you have realized that it’s not working & that something needs to change. That’s very strong of the both of you to do & to realize. You both need to be happy & you will realize what makes you guys happy, wether it’s you being together or not. God gives his hardest battles to his strongest soldiers ❤️❤️❤️❤️ & all the negative comments you’re getting on your course... let them talk, they will always have things to say, especially if you’re succeeding & doing something right.
Honey this is your life. Please dont let others opinions determine your Happiness. We get one chance in this Life...Do what makes you Happy. Prayers & Hugs💜
Don’t give up babe! Yes you guys need time apart but at the end of the day know you’re both good parents to the kids! That’s all that matters 💗 get some you time as well it will help too.
It happens to the best of us girl... it’s very mature of you to put you life out there for all of us to see and I commend you for it. I’m sorry that you have to go through this . Stay strong for the kids and remember that you have to go through some rain 🌧 to get to the sunshine 🌞. We❤️you.
Keep your head up Elle. I can relate to how you’re feeling at the moment. I too went through something similar while expecting and it’s 100xs harder. You’ll get over this struggle. This time will help you see what you need to better yourself in and what you deserve now. 💕
I assumed y’all were separating but you still had your ring on so I thought I was wrong. I hate that I’m right 😭. I hope y’all can work on yourselves. Stay strong 💪
You got 2 kids and one on the way. It is normal to go through hard times with kids. You can fall out of love but you can fall back in love. I wish the best for you guys either way. Marriage is tough and kids make it harder. Prayers for you guys
Keep being u 💗 it’s okay, everything happens for a reason !! The rainbow 🌈 will come out behind the dark clouds soon enough !! Stay strong and positive. Your so pretty and passionate and inspiring
I am so sorry that you’re going through this, I know how hard it is. My boyfriend and I have two kids and I also am pregnant with the third, and we’ve had a rocky relationship at times too which is so difficult with kids. I firmly believe everything happens for a reason though and you will all be living your best lives whichever way this works out. Sending love and light to you. Enjoy this pregnancy all the same 🌸
YOU ARE AMAZING! People will always talk gtl! Dont worry what people say or will say who gives a f***. You have showed you are an amazing mother and only you and graham know what you guys need! I will pray for you and your babies and graham! At the end I’m positive you will overcome this because you’ve showed before how strong and amazing you are!
I just finished watching this after binging your videos for a month now, and this one took the cake with breaking my heart. But I just wanted to let you know that you got this! I can see that you and Graham are good parents and know what’s best for the kids, so I know y’all are gonna be great at co-parenting. Don’t ever apologize for crying when the situation is tough. I may not know exactly what you’re going through but from what I can see from the outside lookin in, is that you guys are going to be alright. Just stay strong (both of you stay strong) and continue doing what you’re doing for the kids and yourselves and everything will be golden. You got this girl! Stay strong and keep doing you. Love ya! #babesquade #youarestrong #youarestillbeautifulevenwhencrying
So sorry to hear about your split. Try to be strong girl, you have beautiful children with another on the way. I've been going through the course slowly also dealing with a hard pregnancy. I think it's very helpful and I am glad I could support you. Share what you feel comfortable with as this is your life and your channel you can share what you want. Not everything is meant for the internet. 💕
I watched this video when it came out, watching it again almost two years later and crying with you. I’m currently pregnant and going through a break up and I can’t stop crying. I’m scared to be a mom and a single mom at that. I seen your recent vlog and you seem much happier which gives me some hope.
You are so strong ❤️ you’ll get through anything and if being apart is what helps you grow then maybe that’s best ! But no matter what god will always be with you!
Praying you guys can work it out. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years over the summer. We got back together recently and the break was honestly the best thing that could have happened. We’re not married but we we’ve been together a long time. I cried so much at first and no one could believe it happened. Everyone kept telling me it was only temporary but I honestly didn’t know. I was a wreck but eventually I started to venture out and do my own thing for a change and was able to find myself as a person again. I never though I’d say this but I am so thankful for the time we spent apart. Now we’re back together and we know who we are and what we want in life. I love him so much and he loves me and now we’re stronger than ever before - both individually and as a couple.
I’m so proud of how grown up and mature y’all are doing this. At the end of the day all that matters is happiness and keeping your children number one priority. I remember my parents staying together just so they would hurt us but watching them hate each other and fight was far worse. Everything happens for a reason best wishes
Just seeing this video. I've been behind and I never comment! Girl you need to just CRY IT OUT! Deep down it still hurts no matter how you put it or if it was mutual, you still care for the guy and that's ok! I've done it myself with 3 kids at 21, you're going to do great. Don't apologise for crying and just let a good cry out. I wish I could give you a hug.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder . . . It's crazy because I'm going through the same thing except for its nothing compared to you because we have pets, and you have children and one on the way, I'm so so sorry for what you are going through
I'm sorry you have to through this, unfortunately we can't always control what life throws at us. I wish you all the best in this hard time and pray that things get easier as that you and Graham find your happiness.
Your a strong BIHHHHH lol never forget that Ugh seeing this takes me my back to my 8 year relationship breaking 18-27 Time is literally what u need time to heal and put your back
Oh Elle I’m so sorry my heart breaks with you.. hearing this really took the words out of my mouth about my OWN relationship... being young has a lot to do with it
In Every single relationship, there are ALOT of differences. That’s not the problem.. it’s when the pair is not willing to compromise. It’s important to meet in the middle, not necessarily see eye to eye. It’s okay to be different & have different opinions. That’s so normal in a relationship. A relationship takes 2. 2 sides, 2 humans, 2 souls. Relationships are a challenge, & getting married is a commitment to always work together. We don’t know everything, but in a general sense, please don’t think there’s anything wrong only because you guys aren’t the exact same person. Best wishes to you beautiful.
To realize that you need time to work on yourselves to be better parents and people in general is an amazing accomplishment, I currently have 3 children and should be doing this but haven’t! This takes true courage it may be hard and it may sting a little but maybe it will lead you all back together and in a better place! I hope everything works out for you guys! Love u all ❤️❤️❤️
😢. You're a brave woman... Whatever the future has in store for your family I'll pray for strength, courage and happiness for you all. Never apologize for doing what's right for you and your family 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
youve both got to do what makes you happy....its your relationship, no one elses. youll figure it out sweet. youve got the kids best interests at heart. lots of love. xoxo
😭 sometimes you just need time you can easily loose your self in a marriage and forget who your are, this is a new chapter in your life and his, be proactive go out enjoy life try new things, be goofy 🙃 and when your at your happiest everything comes into place, I hope you both can find a middle and regain the strength, respect, and love and be happy together agian❤️
So sorry to hear what you’re going through and sincerely wish you and graham all the best. As long as you guys are going with your gut and doing what you feel is right, then that’s all that matters. Things will be rough but you’ll get through it no matter what. Best of luck.
I just want to clarify that this was mutual. Graham didn't leave me. We both sat down and talked about our relationship together and both decided this was what was best. It was my decision to leave the house, he did not kick me out and actually wanted me to stay. I wanted to move out because I do not like the area that the house is in and would feel more comfortable in an area that is safer while being home alone overnight with the kids. As you know, the house has been broken into several times and I just don't feel the safest here alone with the kids. So that is why I am moving. Thanks for all of the support on the video! We both appreciate it so much. We'll be doing a video together to answer some questions- not sure when.
i wish you the best in life Elle. I been married for 10 years and i can feel what your feeling and it fucken sucks ....You are a strong woman .....
elleandbabes sorry to hear this. I’m definitely praying for y’all. And just take it day by day. That’s what I have had to do. I’m also getting a divorce and my husband and I have been together since we were 13 & 15. And becoming a single mom has been extremely hard but I know you’re strong and will make it through this! 💕
In the end it is no one else’s business so only share what you’re comfortable with. Thinking of you 💙
elleandbabes I can see by this video, you love Graham!! It sounds like you both need some time apart. That doesn’t mean in the future things can’t be worked out. You guys have a lot going on. Maybe when things settle down you’ll find your way back into each others arms 😍 rooting for you guys!!!! “Its another day with the naudets” ❤️
Hey Elle, I'll be covering you guys in prayer. I dont know much about how youtube works etc, but, if you want someone to talk to, words of encouragement, you can message me if that's possible on here. Let me know if there's anything you want specific prayer for.
You two should try marriage counseling. Praying for you both and your children. God can bring you through anything.
Agree if they haven’t already. It reallllllly does help. Even if things don’t work out it is so helpful but it can really help to make things work
Couples now a days give up way to easy. For Better or Worse, go to counseling and stick through this rough patch! You guys will get through this, marriage is not suppose to be easy, it’s suppose to be trial and error and you will both get through this. I feel like you both shouldn’t separate but maybe take a few days away and then come back and see how it goes. Xx the kids will appreciate both you guys working it out
Anie couldn’t agree more, I say this from experience no marriage is easy. It’s all about not giving up.
Maybe they are not just giving up out of no where we don't see there everyday lives this could have been going on for a while and what's the best thing for the children is what is the best for the parents
Stephanie Lourenco I agree
I agree 100 % but I mean, what can you expect? I have absolutely nothing against them but they started living the adult life WAY too young ( getting married, having kids, a house, etc, etc) and that almost always catches up with the couple. They are at the age were they are still discovering themselves and figuring out life and when you add responsabilities and commitments like these to the mix there’s a really high chance it wont end well.
My husband is my living hell, but I stay because I want to be there to raise my child full time. I would never tell anyone to try to work it out, and for all we know, them being together might be worse for the children. Everyday I question my decision to remain married and it is literally destroying my mental health. Marriage counseling only works when it is mutually agreed upon that there is an issue and that there is a willingness on both sides to work through it.
my heart breaks for you elle 😔😔
Naomi and Dan Ily guys so much!! I watch ur Vids all the time, hope little miles is doing ok!!! I hope he picks up, it may seem hard to remember he’s doing well but it’ll work out, we’re all here for u!!!!!! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
elle, please take time off. You’re pregnant and this is a lot of stress. I suggest try working on your marriage, maybe just a month more. Just to see. I wouldn’t want you jumping into buying a place so quick. I hope things work out for you. I couldn’t imagine. i’m praying for you.
Honestly it wouldn't be beneficial for her to take time off. RUclips is how she makes her money. But I agree I high opa things work out for her.
This broke my heart to watch. I’ve been following you for so long so it feels like my friend is hurting. You are so beautiful no matter what makeup you have on or don’t. I think we all understand you are a real person and you don’t owe us anything. You are both still such amazing parents of course and your kids are lucky to have you. Do what is best for you first and for your kids. We all love you so so much and are here for you!
Marissa Mae wow you are a true fan supporting someone and that’s good. 👍🏽
I dont usually comment about this but i can 100% relate to what you are going through! I have a 3 year old, 2 year old and 4 months old and when i was 5 months pregnant with my 3rd me and my husband split up. We currently are back together on a trial period attempting to work things out. Marriage is hard and marriage with kids is even harder, my heart goes out to you because i know the pain and i know how difficult it is but it gets easier in a way! My following is way less than yours but i also sort of put out a video about our relationship and it was nerve wreaking, sending you all the positive vibes!
Maybe the time apart will make you miss each other. This could be exactly what you both needed
MiSsY agreed!!!! I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have two kids and one on the way. We went through something similar. I stayed at my moms on the weekends (because i do daycare in my home so i couldn’t stay on week nights) for about 2 1/2 months. It gave us time to remember why we wanted to be together in the first place. It’s still hard sometimes but it definitely helped
The thing is though, they HAVE been apart from each other for a while. As soon as he gets back and makes the decision to leave his passion this happens. Maybe it’s the fact that they both want different things, only they know. All we can do is wish them the best.
I am praying for you girl. Please try marriage counseling with someone. And PRAY PRAY PRAY. Dont give up. My brother and his wife have been having marriage problems for the last year, adulatory, kids, just a lot. They are now fine and doing great because of the Lord. Don’t give up on Him and don’t give up your marriage with Graham. Your kids need the both of you, TOGETHER. They will see the love you two have together and that will make a huge difference in their lives. Kids go through more than you think when you split up. Please just don’t give up and do counseling and like I said PRAY. I love you two and I’m praying!!!!
Agree!
Agreed !
I agree and disagree... I agree because trying to do counseling would be a good idea. But I disagree because I have seen people remain together for their children. And they made each other and their kids miserable. Not intentionally, but still to a point that the children felt the changes. Staying together for the children doesn’t always work, for some yes but for most others no. I say leave it in gods hands take the roads and paths that he has laid out and who knows, maybe they will get back together in the future or maybe they won’t. I just send all the well wishes and love I have their way.
They’re kids don’t NEED them together. Is it ideal? Yes probably. My mom split from my biological father for many reasons, but my sister and I turned out just fine. I am actually happy to know my mom took the necessary steps for herself to ensure she got out of a situation for herself. The kids need happy parents! And Elle and Graham need to figure out if that is together or apart. I’m sure they’ve thought of their children and I feel like you’re one of those people putting in your unnecessary comment. I highly doubt they had one argument and decided to split. This was probably an ongoing thing for them. Aside from that, before they are parents, they are people. Individuals. And in order to provide a healthy kid parent relationship, they need to ensure they are healthy. Stop putting this pressure onto people because of your own beliefs.
AMEN
God does NOT put things your way he knows you can’t handle! I know you’ve heard this many times before but time heals everything my love. Have faith and ask God to give you strength and guidance to where he wants you to be. I know it’s easier said than done but you’re going to be okay. Trust 🙌🏽🙏🏽
Yas Cantu best advice ♥️ God is merciful.
Amen!
Jemmy Kay GOD didn’t promise a life without struggles. He promised he will get us through all the trials he puts in our life. No one in these messages are saying God is okay with marriages breaking up. What we are saying or agreeing with is that God won’t give Elle something she can’t handle, don’t get that twisted.
Pauline Romo thank you for understanding.
Marriage is a covenant. In the eyes of God it is not broken by divorce papers, it is broken by death of one partner. That's why they say "till death do us part".
So sorry Elle... I hope everything works out. Have y’all talked about trying marriage counseling?! Could be something that would work for y’all. Stay positive 💞💞
Give a second chance plz guys
People shouldn’t define who you are as a couple. We only see 30 min of your life. I’m so sorry Elle don’t let comments or people bring you down. Take time for your self but really think about your future with and without each other and then make your decision.
Omg praying for you. Your strong girl & u don’t look ugly you look beautiful ❤️
omg mama don’t worry just know we all love you soo much ❤️😭🙌🏼 no matter what we will always support you
My prayers go out for the both don’t let the enemy Satan win that’s what he wants because he don’t like marriage... Lean on the Lord for help
1. Grant Elle & Graham a strong assurance that You are able to defend the covenant they entrusted to You on their wedding day. (Psalm 18:1, Psalm 59:9-10)
2. Give Elle & Graham eyes to see that the same power that raised Jesus from the dead can revive their love and affection for each other. (Romans 8:11, 2 Timothy 1:10)
3. Empower Elle & Graham with courageous faith to believe that You can stir up the gifts of love and forgiveness in them even now. (Luke 1:37, 2 Timothy 1:6, Psalm 23:4)
4. Counsel Elle & Graham to deposit love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, gentleness, faithfulness and self-control into their relationship trusting that they will produce a great harvest of victory in their marriage. (Galatians 5:22-23, 6:7-8)
5. Impart Your wisdom and revelation to Elle & Graham so they are able to speak the truth in love to each other. (Ephesians 1:17, 4:15)
6. Send Elle & Graham a person with great understanding to expose the hidden motivations behind their fragmented relationship. (Proverbs 20:5)
7. Encourage Elle & Graham with Your presence and power to save them from this fiery trial in the same way you saved Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego from the blazing furnace. (Daniel 3:26-27)
8. Inspire Elle & Graham with Jesus’ example of faithfulness to His imperfect confidants who betrayed, denied, and doubted Him. (Luke 22:34,48, 24:38)
9. Intervene so that Elle & Graham become eager to maintain unity and peace. (Romans 14:19, Ephesians 4:3)
10. Teach Elle & Graham to be doers of Your Word and live humbly acknowledging Your will and Your power to make all things new. (James 1:22, Micah 6:8, 2 Corinthians 5:17)
11. Be merciful to Elle & Graham as they rebel against Your ways, and deliver to them a profound awakening as effective as Paul’s Damascus Road experience.
12. Secure Elle & Graham marriage on Your firm foundation using the miracle of their unity to show the world how faithful and powerful You are. (Matthew 7:24-27, 1 Corinthians 1:9, Ephesians 1:19)
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God’s ways are not our own and sometimes He has to allow “ALL” of the broken pieces to fall before they can be put back together, HIS WAY. Maybe He was just waiting for you, BOTH, to surrender, completely. Trust God and remember...”What is the definition of faith?” Without faith it is impossible to please Him but if you can tangibly see something, it isn’t faith. So just, spiritually, close your eyes and trust your Spiritual Father. He won’t let you fall if you’ll just trust Him. 🙏🏼
Let go and let God.....
IF you don’t know what to do then stand still and wait on His answer.
I’m very happy to see the great advice under this video. I also agree to leave this in the hands of the Lord. “Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate.” Mark 10:9. Pray, pray and pray! You will have a stronger relationship after this. Like someone in the comments said as well, God won’t give you something you can’t handle. Use this time to seek more of him. I also pray God will give you the strength to pass through this tribulation. I know you will see the light at the end of the tunnel. God is a way maker, miracle worker, promise keeper, and light in the darkness. Although you cannot see it yet, God is working. Love you!
My husband and I went through this too. This is a difficult season in many marriages. Counseling for myself helped so much! And my husband and I are soooooo different but I tell you, with counseling for yourself, once you break through this difficult time you will be so happy.
We love you Elle! My husband and I have been together for 5 years. We got together at 14 and 15 years old, and my junior and his senior year we ended up splitting up for a few weeks and it felt like the worst thing in the world but in that time we both realized a lot and if we didn’t have that time apart we wouldn’t be married now with our daughter. I know marriage splitting up and boyfriend and girlfriend splitting up are totally different things, but I just wanted to say that sometimes taking time apart is what you both need to grow and figure things out. Your’e still a young, GREAT mama, your career is flourishing and there will be brighter days! Love you! ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
It sucks when kids have kids...they are so young and still growing into who THEY are as people which is difficult to navigate as it is and it’s crazy to think that they have to do that while nurturing the growth of a child going through the same exact process at a completely different stage... that’s nuts to me... I wish them the best I hope they can work things out they seem like really nice people...I wish they would have had the opportunity to figure this out before having children
Agree
Be strong for your kids..Things happen, everything is going to be okay🙏
I think you guys will find your way back to each other. I can see the love you have for one another. That's something that just doesnt goes away. I feel you guys just need to find your independence and your identity outside of a young married couple. This may be just a temporary break that you guys need. Work on yourselves then each other. Mad love for you guys, praying for strength that you will need thru this.
I just don’t think couples need to put their life’s on RUclips. This is heart breaking.
I found out I’m pregnant about a week ago and my now ex boyfriend have decided to separate . You are not alone I’m with you 100% it’s okay to cry , let it out . Sending lots of love ❤️ WE will be okay
Try counseling, also I hear the book ‘5 love languages’ saves marriages, y’all gotta know how to make one another feel the love! Shouldn’t give up, whatever you both fell in love with is still there, y’all just gotta figure it out and get back to that place! Praying for you ♥️ you clearly have that passion for him still..
Just went through this same thing baby girl. Keep your head up. This made me cry! 💕 if you watch this your are going to cry. Guaranteed
Elle, please take the time and analyze , you are going to have 3 children, Ghram seems like an amazing guy at least in the videos you put out, you both need to analyze and realize the blessings you are surrounded by, dont let the negative things separate.... dont let yourselfs fall into this world where its selfish. You both can accomplish a lot together... it's not about your or his happiness your kids are your happiness , your children need both of you , dont give up 💖💖💖
And please if you see this comment , please look for marriage retreats , and my catholic church they do a lot of marriage retreat for couples that are on the verge of divorce and God has restored their marriage 💖
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I'm so sorry Elle. I'm in the same boat... I have grown in a complete different direction than my son's father and we're very different now. Our wants and needs are completely different. We have been together for 5 years and I'm also 18 weeks pregnant. It's so complicated. I'm so sorry
EVERYONE ON RUclips IS BREAKING UP/DIVORCING????!!!!
I noticed that to its Satan attacking those who really love and care foreachother praying for them all its sad when kids are involved but reguardless their good parents
@@velvetrosas9528 🙄
Marriage is not a contract it’s a commitment! You both need to see the Vow by Craig Groeschel especially part 3 and 4! Your eyes have adjusted to the darkness and the only way to see the light is through Christ!! When you run out of gas you don’t go out to buy another car you fill it back up! Fill your love back up!!! You work through it it will be okay. Forget your feelings marriage is Commitment and you work through it. Don’t lose hope❤️
🤬🤬🤬 I hope you guys can work things out. It wasn't easy for my hubby and i at first but i had to make an effort to change and so did he. We don't argue as much 13 yrs married w 2 kids. You guys know best and I know you will remain civil for the kids.
Elle I am so so so sorry. I want to see you thrive and grow and live and love. I am so terribly hurt for you. I know that you deserve all the happiness in the world and I hope that you can find it in your children, friends, your surroundings, and most importantly, YOURSELF. One day you’ll look back on this moment and you’ll rejoice in all the joy you then will have.
I am so sorry you are going through all of this, especially while pregnant. I can’t imagine how hard it is, but it is so important to take care of yourself! If after awhile you guys feel like you wanna try to work on things, I would really recommend on couples counseling and individual. Maybe you guys already have tried, but if not it’s always worth a try. Just to talk to things through and figure out what’s the best for the both of you❤️ hang in there, you are an amazing mom, sending love and prayers❤️
I’m sorry you’re going through this at this moment in your life, I hope and pray things get better not just for you but your whole family sweetie 💕
I’m so sorry love! You are one strong mama for even letting us know something so deep about your life . Things will get better! 💕 In God’s timing. You’re in my prayers! 💕
Chin up momma! Your so strong and you’ve got two beautiful children, with one on the way. Stay strong for them, keep the positive thoughts and push through. If it’s meant to be it’ll be. 💕
I think taking time apart is a smart and healthy move, you guys have been together since you were teens and haven’t had the chance to experience the independence of being single. Who’s to say you won’t find your way back to each other in a year or so but for now I think you are both making the right choice in focusing on yourselves and your own goals and happiness. Good luck to you both! So long as you’re both happy that’s all that matters
Just When you think you’re the only one that is going thru relationship issues. It’s really hard very freaking hard. But it happens i guess some is worst than others but it’s life. Nobody ever said marriage and parenting will be easy. Stay strong for the kids ofcourse. I try to keep a smile on my face for my son even though it’s killing me inside.
Next month would be four years since I'm married too. I can say you have to intentionally work on your marriage and seek counselling to help you guys after the time apart. Pray, ask God for guidance. A marriage built on the strong foundation of Jesus Christ is bound to last, after all God is the inventor of marriage. Read up on marriage in the Bible.
I think you definitely should disable the comments bc people are harsh and you’re going through something while being pregnant which is obviously 10 times harder emotionally you don’t need random people judging you or making you feel even worse my prayers go out to you your beautiful children and your marriage I hope and pray you and anyone who sees this continue to have faith and stay strong , hard times won’t last forever god bless you 🧡🧡🧡😭😭😭😭☹️
I'm so sorry, you're a strong woman and great Mother... you'll get through this!! It's tough and sucks, I've been there.. stay strong!!!
My husband and I were together from middle school and now we’re 21&22...we got married when we were both 18 and we have both changed SO MUCH. I totally get where you’re coming from...we have had ups and downs because we have just grown up and sometimes it causes major ruts. He is in the military and that comes with its own challenges. We are from Missouri (not too far from y’all) but we are currently in North Carolina and being away from family is hard at times, especially with kids. My heart hurts for you 💙 you guys are great parents and will overcome this ❤️
Sweetie we are here for YOU 💕 You are a STRONG, BEAUTIFUL, WONDERFUL WOMAN and you will make it through this . No matter what you decide we are here for YOU❤️
Be strong mama !! You have outshined so many statistics being a young married mom . I’m a young married mom and growing up with your spouse definitely hard to do . Don’t feel like you aren’t accomplishing anything . You’ve accomplished so much . More than I have in my life . I’ll be praying for your family 💜
Anyone else look down here to see if it was clickbait? I’m so sorry!!!! I hope everything gets better between you guys!! Love you!❤️ STAY STRONG!
I am so so sorry about everything you’re going through. You are such a strong woman for putting your real life out there for the world to see and you both will make it out of this time even stronger. Believe in yourself because you’re far more capable of things than you think! Sending lots of love to you during this time ♥️
Keep strong Elle♥️ your such a young beautiful strong person. You can overcome anything that comes your way. You be successful && ignore the haters. There’s a reason they are behind you.
Seriously, feeling the exact way with home issues and issues at work and it happening all at once. Just gotta keep telling yourself things will get better and you’ll see better and happier days! Keep yourself distracted! Push through 💛
Noooooo pray pray pray... marriage is not to be dissolved so easily, please work at it!!! No one no one is prefect, so negative comments aren’t even worth it.. report them people! No marriage is perfect and it is hard to juggle things sometimes, but those that stick together no matter what o careless what others think are the “perfect marriages”😊🌹. He loves you you love him... Please remember the love that God put creating this! Get your Bible please sweetie please... read the Psalms, pray hard and pour your heart out to your Creator Jehovah... He loves you both and your cute family and now an amazing blessing that’s growing and that needs mommy and daddy to stay close and battle things together 💪🏻 💪🏻 💪🏻 with Love & Patience.
👉🏻Do not allow more time to pass by... So much time might not be good..
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️you’re One and you promised to each other your Love and Faithfulness!!! Forget you tube if anything, but get your family back! And it’s ok to be Real. Much love 💕. Will keep you both in 🙏.
You’re an Amazing Beautiful Wife & Graham is Amazing Husband and Friend
❤️PUSH= Pray Until Something Happens ❤️
*Along with prayers, Actions too! & Put into Work what you both want*
There’s No Marriage that’s Easy! None! You just have to work hard at it and keep things organized by priorities.
💍 👰 Ecclesiastes 4:12 “And someone may overpower one alone, but two together can take a stand against him. And a threefold cord cannot quickly* be torn apart.” 🤵 🌹
-It takes 3!!😊
1)God should always be first
... 2) Then you 2, Because 2 strong ones; no one can destroy and will help your kids to copy that as well.
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Very good advice. Unless he is abusive or unfaithful I don't see any reason to end this marriage.
Praying for you both. Stay strong, you are so right when you said you either grow together or grow apart, I’m currently in the same situation. Try to stay positive Elle ❤️
You’ll do what’s best for your family.. Don’t listen to negative comments girl.. Just do your best and figure out what you need.. please don’t be sad 😞 im sure things will eventually get better.. Trust me I know im also a young mom and I’ve had does same issues as well.. i truly understand how you’re feeling rn.. stay strong for your 3 beautiful babies
Sending much love ❤️ and hugs❤️
I love you elle ❤️ stay strong
Been there and I know how hard it can be. If you guys are best friends & love each other like you say you do then keep working at it. PLEASE go to marriage counseling. Don’t give up on each other just yet. Marriage is really really hard. The people who have been married for 40+ years can tell you that it’s hard and takes a lot of work from both sides. I’m 21 with a 3 year old and 1 year old. I know how you feel. Me and my husband also got married young and obviously had our kids young. We almost separated multiple times, but have worked it. Because we really love eachother and can not live without eachother lol.
This is a rough patch but y’all can pull through. 🙌🏼 I’m praying for y’all
Stay strong Elle!. Seek God I know that’s what helped me on my first marriage.... hopefully you too find the answers y’all need I’ll be praying for your marriage
I applaud you for being so raw and real to us even when u didn't have to. You stay strong and take CARE of u. Love your channel and I'm a fellow Missourian!
i’m currently going through a break up. it was mutual ish... it’s just hard.
Separating during pregnancy is the woooooorsssssst. The absolute worst. Although our situations most likely may not the same, I can say that I feel your pain 100%. Father of my baby (still “husband” cause military & baby’s not out yet) and I split early on in my pregnancy. He came home from deployment, we thought we were good, apparently cause we made a child together, and then all of a sudden things went left and divorce was thrown around every day or every other day. I thought we were so happy but unfortunately I was wrong. So I’ve gone through SO much this pregnancy. & it hurt but 🤷🏽♀️ you got this. For sure you got this.
Stay strong Elle. It’s awesome that you guys are mature enough to stay civil and co parent for the kids sake. And it’s understandable that you guys will still stay friends and still have love for each other no matter what, You guys have been together for so long and you guys have 2 about to be 3 kids together. Real fans support you no matter what. And I wish nothing but the best for you guys, You’re an awesome mom and and awesome person!
Maybe time apart will help y’all come back to each other with the help of a little marriage counseling, that is if you think the marriage is salvageable. I’m praying for all of you guys and genuinely wish the best for you and your mental stability because I know you’re probably so emotionally drained. If it helps you should have someone else moderate your comments for you so you don’t have to see any negativity! Love you Elle 💓
Elle I went through the same exact thing over the summer and it was the worst period in my entire life! Just please stay strong and push through, it will all work itself out. Just remember you will be okay no matter what happens and you deserve nothing but to be truly happy
Praying for you guys. This is just a rough patch and it will get better.
Praying for you both💕 Love you guys and I know you guys will do amazing with the kids, you are both amazing parents and know whats best for them❤️
Stay strong girl, things happen. I know its hard as a teen mom going threw life's struggles is a b-tch but I feel for you girl. Stay strong!! It takes time but I think You got this!
Just know that you are strong & I admire that Graham & you sat down & talked about it. I don’t believe you guys are giving up, you have realized that it’s not working & that something needs to change. That’s very strong of the both of you to do & to realize. You both need to be happy & you will realize what makes you guys happy, wether it’s you being together or not. God gives his hardest battles to his strongest soldiers ❤️❤️❤️❤️ & all the negative comments you’re getting on your course... let them talk, they will always have things to say, especially if you’re succeeding & doing something right.
Don’t worry about people , focus on you and your beautiful babies and the baby on the way I know you are so strong! I love watching your vlogs ❤️❤️❤️
Honey this is your life. Please dont let others opinions determine your Happiness. We get one chance in this Life...Do what makes you Happy. Prayers & Hugs💜
Don’t give up babe! Yes you guys need time apart but at the end of the day know you’re both good parents to the kids! That’s all that matters 💗 get some you time as well it will help too.
you’re so strong!!😊you’ll make it through this!!💕much love
It happens to the best of us girl... it’s very mature of you to put you life out there for all of us to see and I commend you for it. I’m sorry that you have to go through this . Stay strong for the kids and remember that you have to go through some rain 🌧 to get to the sunshine 🌞. We❤️you.
Keep your head up Elle. I can relate to how you’re feeling at the moment. I too went through something similar while expecting and it’s 100xs harder. You’ll get over this struggle. This time will help you see what you need to better yourself in and what you deserve now. 💕
I’m sorry you’re going through this. I hope everything works out for you both no matter what the outcome is.
I assumed y’all were separating but you still had your ring on so I thought I was wrong. I hate that I’m right 😭. I hope y’all can work on yourselves. Stay strong 💪
If you haven’t tried counseling definitely try that. Don’t stress yourself out the baby will feel all of that. Praying for you!
You got 2 kids and one on the way. It is normal to go through hard times with kids. You can fall out of love but you can fall back in love. I wish the best for you guys either way. Marriage is tough and kids make it harder. Prayers for you guys
Keep being u 💗 it’s okay, everything happens for a reason !! The rainbow 🌈 will come out behind the dark clouds soon enough !! Stay strong and positive. Your so pretty and passionate and inspiring
I am so sorry that you’re going through this, I know how hard it is. My boyfriend and I have two kids and I also am pregnant with the third, and we’ve had a rocky relationship at times too which is so difficult with kids. I firmly believe everything happens for a reason though and you will all be living your best lives whichever way this works out. Sending love and light to you. Enjoy this pregnancy all the same 🌸
YOU ARE AMAZING! People will always talk gtl! Dont worry what people say or will say who gives a f***. You have showed you are an amazing mother and only you and graham know what you guys need! I will pray for you and your babies and graham! At the end I’m positive you will overcome this because you’ve showed before how strong and amazing you are!
I just finished watching this after binging your videos for a month now, and this one took the cake with breaking my heart. But I just wanted to let you know that you got this! I can see that you and Graham are good parents and know what’s best for the kids, so I know y’all are gonna be great at co-parenting. Don’t ever apologize for crying when the situation is tough. I may not know exactly what you’re going through but from what I can see from the outside lookin in, is that you guys are going to be alright. Just stay strong (both of you stay strong) and continue doing what you’re doing for the kids and yourselves and everything will be golden. You got this girl! Stay strong and keep doing you. Love ya! #babesquade #youarestrong #youarestillbeautifulevenwhencrying
Don’t ever call yourself ugly elle💕you’re beautiful and I wish nothing but the best for you and your family. Stay strong you’ll get through this💜
So sorry to hear about your split. Try to be strong girl, you have beautiful children with another on the way. I've been going through the course slowly also dealing with a hard pregnancy. I think it's very helpful and I am glad I could support you. Share what you feel comfortable with as this is your life and your channel you can share what you want. Not everything is meant for the internet. 💕
I watched this video when it came out, watching it again almost two years later and crying with you. I’m currently pregnant and going through a break up and I can’t stop crying. I’m scared to be a mom and a single mom at that. I seen your recent vlog and you seem much happier which gives me some hope.
You are so strong ❤️ you’ll get through anything and if being apart is what helps you grow then maybe that’s best ! But no matter what god will always be with you!
Praying you guys can work it out. I broke up with my boyfriend of 4 years over the summer. We got back together recently and the break was honestly the best thing that could have happened. We’re not married but we we’ve been together a long time. I cried so much at first and no one could believe it happened. Everyone kept telling me it was only temporary but I honestly didn’t know. I was a wreck but eventually I started to venture out and do my own thing for a change and was able to find myself as a person again. I never though I’d say this but I am so thankful for the time we spent apart. Now we’re back together and we know who we are and what we want in life. I love him so much and he loves me and now we’re stronger than ever before - both individually and as a couple.
I’m so proud of how grown up and mature y’all are doing this. At the end of the day all that matters is happiness and keeping your children number one priority. I remember my parents staying together just so they would hurt us but watching them hate each other and fight was far worse. Everything happens for a reason best wishes
I hope everything works out for you both. Its hard especially when kids are involved. Keep strong you still are carrying a baby.Take care of you.
Oh noooo 😥 I haven't started to watch but I just Wana give you a hug 😢
Sending love to you and your family ❤️ I know its hard but just hang on, things will get better!
God will never give you more then you can handle ❤️ stay positive baby girl ! We all are here for you ! Xo
Just seeing this video. I've been behind and I never comment! Girl you need to just CRY IT OUT! Deep down it still hurts no matter how you put it or if it was mutual, you still care for the guy and that's ok! I've done it myself with 3 kids at 21, you're going to do great. Don't apologise for crying and just let a good cry out. I wish I could give you a hug.
Absence makes the heart grow fonder . . .
It's crazy because I'm going through the same thing except for its nothing compared to you because we have pets, and you have children and one on the way, I'm so so sorry for what you are going through
I'm sorry you have to through this, unfortunately we can't always control what life throws at us. I wish you all the best in this hard time and pray that things get easier as that you and Graham find your happiness.
We all here for you through your struggles. Love you ❤ I'm sad but I understand
Your a strong BIHHHHH lol never forget that
Ugh seeing this takes me my back to my 8 year relationship breaking 18-27
Time is literally what u need time to heal and put your back
Oh Elle I’m so sorry my heart breaks with you.. hearing this really took the words out of my mouth about my OWN relationship... being young has a lot to do with it
In Every single relationship, there are ALOT of differences. That’s not the problem.. it’s when the pair is not willing to compromise. It’s important to meet in the middle, not necessarily see eye to eye. It’s okay to be different & have different opinions. That’s so normal in a relationship. A relationship takes 2. 2 sides, 2 humans, 2 souls. Relationships are a challenge, & getting married is a commitment to always work together. We don’t know everything, but in a general sense, please don’t think there’s anything wrong only because you guys aren’t the exact same person. Best wishes to you beautiful.
To realize that you need time to work on yourselves to be better parents and people in general is an amazing accomplishment, I currently have 3 children and should be doing this but haven’t! This takes true courage it may be hard and it may sting a little but maybe it will lead you all back together and in a better place! I hope everything works out for you guys! Love u all ❤️❤️❤️
😢. You're a brave woman... Whatever the future has in store for your family I'll pray for strength, courage and happiness for you all. Never apologize for doing what's right for you and your family 🙏🏼❤️🙏🏼
youve both got to do what makes you happy....its your relationship, no one elses. youll figure it out sweet. youve got the kids best interests at heart. lots of love. xoxo
😭 sometimes you just need time you can easily loose your self in a marriage and forget who your are, this is a new chapter in your life and his, be proactive go out enjoy life try new things, be goofy 🙃 and when your at your happiest everything comes into place, I hope you both can find a middle and regain the strength, respect, and love and be happy together agian❤️
So sorry to hear what you’re going through and sincerely wish you and graham all the best. As long as you guys are going with your gut and doing what you feel is right, then that’s all that matters. Things will be rough but you’ll get through it no matter what. Best of luck.