The Work of Byron Katie ~ You Were Supposed To Love Me | The AWARENESS INQUIRIES (Part 6)
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- Опубликовано: 15 сен 2024
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FROM THE ORIGINAL VIDEO BOX:
Watch as Katie facilitates Gary through his thoughts on his wife, and the fact that she has left him because she finds him repulsive.
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15:42-15:52 - *There is no way she cannot be a mirror image of your thinking. There is no way. There is no one out there but your story.* THANK YOU Brian Cormack Carr for uploading!
Mirror Image Goosebumps stuff, isn’t it!? 😊
@@BrianCormackCarr For Sure!
so much respect for this dear man for showing his vunerability and being open to letting it all go - really amazing the power of the work with BK ...
Wouldn ,t it be great if they had teached us The Work at school?. What a different humans we would be, and life would have been easier for me that,s for sure.
All those myths we believe, all those ego,s. The y should, they should,t. Every time i,m watching a new video i i learn something. Isn,t that amazingmafter spending already a couple of years with The Work. What a mistakes i made 😔but today i can say that i have forgive my ex husband for some things he did, and myself, i didn,t know better and was stuck . And sometimes when people leave us, in the end i turned out to be a present Thank you again for putting this online Brian 🙏🏻
So... Are you teaching others or yourself? I m often telling advice to others and teaching. Thus i needed to do the work
I totally agree...the kids would turn out AMAZING if we taught them this at an early age in school.
17:38 - *I want to be with someone else.* This was a gut-wrenching moment; the moment when the truth was revealed to him. The truth has set him free. The Work is so powerful!
So nice to see new old Katie material. What a treat! Thank you!
Brian do have 1-5 of this series?
+1
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What a brave, brave soul he is!
We all are! 🙏🏻💕
Thanks so much for posting this, Brian. The man doing The Work is so honest and insightful, it (he) opens up The Work in even more nuanced ways.
Thank You So So So much! cherished video.
It's the wisdom of the earth. You spread it out. So great.
New to Katie's videos but not new to this process. I just love the words spoken mind finding home...in the heart...a place to be safe. For many,many years I ran from life and myself...trying desperately to feel safe. I was a runner & a fighter in the extreme. I can testify as my own personal experience...I no longer have to run nor fight....because m mind is a peace in my heart.....through the process that Katie calls the work. Peace & Love To All
This has cracked me wide open. I feel reborn. So powerful.
me too
Amazing work. Letting go of struggles that seems to be so incredibly difficult for me. I find myself again and again in the struggle with my mother, family and humanity. I think I had given up the struggle and then I find myself doing that again in even more roundabout ways. That is also where all the tension is in my body.
BEST Byron session I have ever seen. Thank you so much for posting.
it is so awesome to live by these principles. life becomes an amazing adventure and the people that remain are seemingly like minded beings
So true!!
I fully enjoyed this session. Much gratitude for this gift ❤️
Wow. That was so intense and just wonderful... full of wonders. Gratitude 💎
God I don’t know what I would be doing right now without the work.
You can learn so much about humanity, about love, relation of all sorts, but mainly about how tricky mind is. If we allow our thoughts, to become reality, we better maintain healthy thoughts. I laughed so hard, watching two sexy , powerful human beings
Laughed and learned a lot
This is an amazing session! Thank you so much for posting!
Beautiful and powerful. Grateful.
What a incredible work !
Thank you for sharing 💘
Brian, thank you so much for uploading this particular video. I felt myself transforming right along with this man. 🤗
Thank youuuuuuuu for uploading 😊
If your thinking, your mind, your emotional reactions (natural) are YOUR BUSINESS, someone else's is THEIRS. Only THEIRS
How do you treat X when you hold a belief how X should be/act []? What happens? What do you do?
Can you see a reason to drop the story? Given it's not painful?
Who puts the condition for you to feel a feeling? You do
16:35 the self-righteous comment oof
18:35 🔥I'm in awe
21:11 😂
25:00
29:20 Do I love myself, warts and all? Is it the wart or the story I tell and BELIEVE about it?
The moment of ownership of power is akin to true shadow work
55:10 attach or investigate the story, concept or belief?
"...and whether or not it is clear to you, no doubt the universe is unfolding as it should. Therefore be at peace with God - whoever and whatever you conceive him to be." The Desiderata has Byron Katie in there if you consider this.
lol...Can't remember where I heard this but BK's "Marry you" statement reminded me of "With this ring, I me wed".... Love it
Thanks--love this video older than lots of the BK available on RUclips.
Only good in life! Preach Katy!!!!!
Thank you for these.
The only thing I want to say is WOW! WOW! WOW! 💕
Thanks for sharing
This is a beautiful gift to us all...
I love these 1990's and 2000's (decade) videos!
Yes, same here. I think this is from around 1998.
@@BrianCormackCarr , thanks for the year, or at least your best guess at the year!
Fierce grace! Wow this one is so powerful for me. I am going to need to rewatch this a few times. Thanks for uploading. What year is this from?
Thank you for these rare gems!
and I love the cosmic laugh that comes when we see our own reflection! Priceless. First the tears, then the laughs :)
Wow this one is so powerful ... thank you so much
I love witnessing these light bulbs lighting up 😍
He was so brave!!!!! That was beautiful🥰
Thanks Brian. Awesome!
Thank you!!! Precious! 😊
Thank you Katie. You are a gift to us all. xo
One of her best. Thanks xx
So proud of this man omg 😍
Thanks for posting these!
im just now discovering katie... im not sure but i have been a nice wife... it hurts to see men break down but the vulnerability actually shows so much strength at the same time
i saw the shift way before and then when she said that... damn go girl mad respect
The introduction in this video about how the heart and the mind merge should be on the top on Katie's website...
Priceless.
27:00 "be like water my friend." Bruce Lee
Thank you for uploading this! Amazing ❤
„Life is a very nice place to be“
- Kirtana
Thank you
Thank you 💕
This is fuckin' crazy; this man got braver and braver as this thing went on. Jesus!
Where did you get this old footage?
37:45 Love that moment when the whole crowd erupts cheering on that mans greatness!!
That moment is life. That’s what we all need, to support each other into our greatness so we can all thrive together.
Beautiful work
Yes Katy, everything is good for everything is for my spiritual growth!!!! LOVE YOU!!!! or is that another 'story?"
43:40 wait for it Katie goes Sun Tzu again.
45:56 the target of your hate, fear, etc. could be dead. They could be completely gone from this Earth and still you could go on hating them, fearing them. What's destroying you, what's crippling you when you do that? It's not them, it's you.
I wonder how things ended up for him.
So painful to have a spouse you love leave you for a month for another person, especially with such anger. Time for divorce.
The more he awakens, the sexier he gets! heheheheheheh Projection.
And The Law of Attraction added also
53:48 if there's hurt there's more work to be done
Amazing!
the Giving is in the moment you give it. It's a gift...what if the other never gives gifts to you? Is there no such thing as imbalanced relationships where one gives constantly and the other is a constant taker? Is there never wrong caused by others? If you always turn it around...you're always to blame?
That's how it can appear and feel when we go straight to the turnarounds without doing the inquiry of the four questions first. The inquiry helps us to see that some of what we've been believing - about ourselves, about the other - doesn't stand up to scrutiny. Then we can "own" the turnarounds. And it doesn't mean that we wouldn't leave an abusive or imbalanced relationship. It's just that we'd be in a position of greater clarity when we do, and aware of all our options.
@@BrianCormackCarr thanks Brian. Appreciate you taking the time to answer my question.
No problem - it's definitely a question I've asked myself during my journey with The Work! :)
Thankyou!!!!!!
the audio is horrific, but hey, lol, that's kind of part of the charm xD
This man transformed into a sexy man before my eyes. Love it!
18:34: Humility. Stop preaching which is wanting the other ones to get it. I can see the control freak in me. The romantic myth and how we buy into it.
Yes. Powerful stuff.
phoenix rising you are so right. 18:55-19:13 - *As long as you are trying to teach us there's no hope because you're teaching what you don't know yet. . . .It gives us internal responsibility and that's where we find our freedom. Rather than being Suzanne-Realized you can be Self-Realized.* This is an excellent video. One profound insight after another. I'm so grateful for this man's courage to be taped.
Hi phoenix rising. So funny to see you here. That video was a really good mirror for me. I enjoy the work. (The result of the work)
Take care
@@aurelienyonrac Cher Aurélien... Décidément, nos chemins n'arrêtent de se croiser. Merci de me faire revenir ici pour me rappeler l'évident, encore et encore, jusqu'au moment où il ne restera plus trace en moi de ce qui veut changer l'autre quelle qu'en soit la raison. xx
This is her best vid. Very curious why she keeps having it removed from RUclips... 🤔
For money probably. So ppl will turn to her.
"A wart is God"...💜💜
My appreciation💙✨✨
Wow...💜♾💜
u r the one u have been waiting for, mary you
He is so easy to love.
this woman is classicaly, agelessly, feminine but in touch with her madculine beautiful... so internally beautiful. Her voice, her style ... gorgeous. I want to be her lol... maybe if i turn that around.. I AM classicly,agelessly, timelessly, everything beautiful?? Or do i feel agelessly, ugly, timelessly ugly and im jealous?? im Confused!!! lol
im texting so fast sorry... i didnt think I'd relate to this sexy hot headed man's story... loving this
Wow, yes! I hear what you’re saying. She seems to have integrated both ends of the spectrum so flawlessly-and that’s the power of the Work! Without our beliefs holding us back, the Divine Union just happens!
Usually, you only do the turnaround one degree away from the original statement. So if you judge another person as beautiful, you turn it around to “I am beautiful”. Turning it around to “I am ugly” would be two degrees away from the original statement, which Is usually not the point. However, if you go two degrees, you could also say that “I am ugly WHEN I see myself as anything other than this timeless and ageless beauty that I see in her”.
I wonder what happened to this great guy.
Can you have it "all" "forever"?
I teach me ❤
These are my honest thoughts and no insult to you, Brian. I just don't gel with her. I did give her a chance though.
Gosh. Some of the things she says make sense but others don't. I just can't wrap my mind around it. This example comes very close to home for me as my husband left me for a woman in Australia. The way she thinks is almost like she has no boundaries and anything goes. She insults him one minute and builds him up the next. I'm not that convinced she helped him deal with his grief. Maybe a bit. It's true though - only good has come of it. What a marvelous man though! He shouldn't take her back. The non-attachment idea is weird, almost like a cult. We live on this earth. Things happen. We're supposed to have joy and sorrow. It grows us.
I'd love to know how this idea works in conjunction with a magic practice where you're intentionally changing your life and not just accepting it.
No insult taken! :)
The Work isn't necessarily for every situation, and certainly isn't for everyone - there are lots of wonderful paths and tools for us to choose from, thank goodness.
I completely understand where you're coming from - I've had those thoughts too! All I would say is that her question "is it true" can brought to any assumption we have about how anything works, including The Work! I've found that anytime I've formed a firm idea of "she must mean this or that", "is it true?" brings me back to a state of presence and wide-open options. I don't experience her as insulting him or building HIM up; more that she's pointing out when he's attached to a thought or belief that's making him unhappy.
What I love about The Work is that it can inquire into any stressful thought, so it sometimes seems a bit contradictory. It can be used to inquire into a thought we're attached to that's leading to suffering; but the thought that's making us suffer might be something like "I shouldn't be suffering", which would lead to an inquiry into "you're not supposed to suffer - is it true?"
The part of The Work that is sometimes a bit downplayed is its that it comes from a position of pretty radical nonduality. In other words, what's happening is supposed to be what's happening, simply because it's happening. Any opinion as to whether it's good, bad, or indifferent is going to move us from the reality of the situation. The Work/Magic question is an interesting one, because it brings up the question as to whether we're actually changing anything, or are we "being changed" as life unfolds...?
@@BrianCormackCarr Thank you for your detailed answer, Brian. I think you explain it better than her, lol. Good food for thought. It's similar to the Buddhist ideas. I studied Buddhism after I left Christianity and enjoyed a lot of the ideas but paganism felt more right for me at this time in my existence. My favourite Buddhist reading material was The Dalai Lama's Cat book series. A marvelous read for cat lovers.
Music intro🙉
Where is part 1 through 5?
My Awareness Inquiries series - including a number of Byron Katie sessions - can be found here at this playlist: ruclips.net/video/BfRW9_ARkjw/видео.html
@@BrianCormackCarr Thank you sir.
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yes, Lots of relationships are based on needs, wants, expectations, disappointments, approvel.Can two people have a relationship anyway if they aren,t conscious and willing to investigate.
🤔 People should be conscious and willing to investigate their feeling, here you go again. Hm i guess to much thinking makes you crazy . Better go sit in an ashram and not think ever again, just be🙄
The picture is the matter
Very brave
❤🙏🏼
no story is the truth
Donna Reed is the truth :D
I can't stand people laughing at that suffering man. It doesn't look funny to me.
I think the laughter is appreciation. I think it's delight for the direction he's headed in. And I can't swear to this, but I think every time the audience laughed, he did, too. And there was such a roar of excitement and agreement when he said he was a strong, sexy, powerful man! They're in his corner. But you are kind, to be concerned for him. But I think they were loving him, is all. 😊🙏💚
rumigirl isn't it strange, im only half way through, but i wrote a comment about this earlier, how as the session goes through, his vulnerability really makes him sexy... its almostbthe opposite of what men THINK they should be and what we really crave, that shell to be broken... yum just so different
Often it is the laughter of recognition. When we see ourselves in others, An “aha” moment of freedom can cause a giggle from the Soul, dear one ❤️
There is no time, no space, no past, and what what what what??? I didn't get the last word!
KD's Home & Garden What's the time stamp? I'll try to make it out for you.
@@BrianCormackCarr Give me some time. I'll send it.
KD's Home & Garden 👍
I think you could literally put ANY word there. 😬😸
Pow.er.fullllll
KaBoooooom!
I’m not listening to this with this underlying noise. Subliminal. Pity. Hopefully I’ll find the same one on somebody else’s channel
If you're interested in this inquiry session, you can purchase the remastered audio from the Store for The Work: www.storeforthework.com/collections/recordings/products/you-were-supposed-to-make-me-happy-cd-talk
Katie is not doing this well here.
Awful manners .
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