it all gets so much easier when you are happy being alone and understand that women should not be your main focus. I lost count of how many I have ghosted and how many have ghosted me so if someone doesn't like you move on plenty of women out there no time to stay wasting time.
Me as a shy introvert: - I won't touch you unless it's made explicit. - I'll text you hours or even days later so you don't think I'm clingy or creepy. - Avoid extended eye contact. I'll probably admire you when you don't even notice. - Probably bully you or be extra eccentric, and weird if I like you. - Often daydream instead of actually engaging. - I'll talk about hobbies or something odd like space / psychology instead of flirting, but truthfully I'm accessing our compatibility. Some of these are spot on, like not bothering to reciprocate, looking disinterested, not wanting to know anything about you, some might be a classic shy / introverted person.
@@klausvnt7380 The point I was making here was that 'classic introverted / shy behavior' (and in some cases those with an avoidant attachment style), can often be misconstrued / mistaken as a sign of disinterest. The only way to know for sure is to be direct.
After not returning my calls, not replying to my texts, after not responding to my emails, after not answering the door, after a restraining order, and several court appearances, after 4 months in jail the first time (and a year the second time) I’m starting to think hat she’s not as into her as I am I to her. But I wish she’d just send me a clear sign!
Five things occurred during our date which told me she was not into me: 1. Turned her cheek during the first kiss attempt. 2. Looking disinterested when we talked not looking directly at me. 3. Looked at the phone on occasion during dinner. 4. Only talked about her issues; never asked me questions. 5. Didn’t text back after 24 hours. I’ve deleted here number and forgotten about her. I have three dates this week coming up. It’s frustrating though .. I’ve had five women this past month into me but I was not into them. And the one woman I liked was not into me .. that’s the dating scene I guess.
The signs a girl is interested in me are much more apparent when, I'm not interested in her. Same goes when a girl is interested in one of my friends. I always let my friends know because emotions blind us guys when we know theres a chance of a awkward " no thanks", or being turned down. I would say more than 50% of the time I'm successful with women is when one of there friends tells me she likes me. Ir when her friends make excuses for us to dance or go do something together. Then maybe 30% of the time the girl just tells me she's interested. The rest of the time I just go for it and see how she reacts to me.
I was walking through my college campus with a girl that I thought was cute trying to be friendly and talk (Side note: we were in the same social club, so she wasn't just some random person). She was giving very dry, unenthusiastic answers and wouldn't really ask anything back in return. Eventually, she just straight up stopped talking. She just ignored my question and would no longer answer me. I had been ignored before over text with other girls in the past, but this was the first, and only, time that I was ignored during an ongoing conversation that was happening in person. Not going to lie, it was pretty disheartening.
women are actually really rude. ive had it where if i had shown interest in someone i had known for a while like years, they would stop being around you and start being mean like a bully
Simple, come up to a girl, have a genuine conversation, a little banter is always a must, after the conversation, ask for her name and don't tell her yours. Just be like "hey, nice to meet you *her name*. If she asks for your name back, there's a high interested right there. However if she doesn't, just assume she's not at all and just move on and don't waste your time. 🔥
I usually just assume that a girl is not into me. However, if a girl shows some interest, I can eventually figure that out. However, I have some guidelines, like if I'm paying her (bartender, server, barista, clerk, cashier) and she's nice, it's probably her job to be nice. Subtlety is not my thing. A hug is a good sign that a girl likes me.
People are direct with me. I pretty much was just told by them that they are not. In one case completely blocked in every way and another was unclear and just left me hanging. Surprisingly not many of these signs where a part of me finding out.
If I was on a date at a restaurant and she keeps texting on her phone instead of having a conversation with me, I'd walk out the restaurant and let her pay the bill.
I went out with a girl earlier in the year. We kissed after each date. Then after the third she told she was not ready for a boyfriend. She said she was busy which she is. She works from 7 am to 8pm including weekends. On our second date we went out for dinner at 9pm. No joke. Now i am starting to realize that she might have been lying in order to cover up her real reasons. Or she could have been very busy? The more i think back the more i feel that it was my fault. Whatever i did or said scarred her off
There was a girls that I tried to be just friends with, and when I invited her to a party with my friends, she changed her mind at the last minute, twice. However in between those two she wanted to meet me for drinks. Wierd isn't it.
So this is a work situation and if you have some savvy you know you need to tread carefully or there will be that meeting with HR. Over the course of years (what can I say, risk versus reward) there is enough excited conversation over shared interests and I learn a lot about her and her interests. Find out eventually that she is introverted and shy...and I am thinking, wow, she's really opening up to me. I even get into casually asking about things like whether she likes heels and makeup as somewhat bold qualifiers. BUT...it occurred to me that I initiate most of the conversations. Yeah, I get that she says she's shy...but not one question about what I am about. I let myself get confused because she gets excited about my ambitions but I realize she's just nice but NOT into me. Which isn't a bad thing ... I start to understand why men always talk about mixed signals when it's actually about not paying attention.
besides her saying ‘you meet every ‘check list us girls keep,’ but i do not see it working between us and i’m really disappointed in myself’: ***obvious signs, that should have stopped me right away: 1. before the second date me saying, ‘i’m really looking forward to the (second) date’, and her not responding with as much enthusiasm. --right then, I should have canceled the date. 2. During the date she asked where i want to move one day, and her responding, ‘that’s a great place for dating’…. i was not sure if she said that at first b/c it was so early in the date and nothing went wrong, and it was just so out there and rude that I just did not follow it up with a ‘did you just say…???’ 3. when standing near her, she moved away just slightly. 4. Me calling her after the date when I got home late (1 hour drive to her place), and I left a voice text message saying i had a great time, and that she is both beautiful inside and out; she texted me the following day saying that she crashed after I left, and she had been up that morning for a while doing something (and just texted me back after hours of being awake).. --both not texting/calling when going to bed after the date, knowing I had an hour drive home, and me not the first thing on her mind to call/text back when she woke after getting my message…, Not to mention, her text wasn’t giving me any reciprocal ‘ I had a great time. i liked spending time with you… etc.’ 5. me showing a photo of a place I vacation, and saying that it’s a place i’m sure her and her dog would love, and her saying ‘that’s totally (her dog’s name) type of place!’. no small hints. hahaha -i was never rude or called her out on things she did that I thought were rude; (she wasn’t really rude, just her giving hints she wasn’t into me) “it’s disappointing to hear (you’re not into me). But thank you for letting me know you’re not interested’ was my response. -in my mind, though:“goodbye. good luck finding the right guy”.
I didn’t even have to watch this to realize I didn’t stand a chance with the girl I like. Just watching it caused more pain than anything. No point in dating.
When you start talking to a girl and she says straight away meeting other person and that she's only talking to you as a friend and a brother 😂 awkward right? I'm like "I'm out!" 🤣
Also if she does say anything to you it's only when she's accompanied by one or more friend. Shell never say anything to you first if she's alone l. And almost if not always when she responds back to you when you ask her something her response feels forced and she makes it short as possible
When I was younger, I was always "that guy" you know... The one who made all the effort. I texted first. I was so willing to help replace light bulbs or check the oil in her car. I was "the nice guy" stuck in the "friend zone". When a woman was into me, her interest seemed to die out several days to two months into our "hanging out." I used to think it was me and that something was genuinely wrong with me. I now know that it wasn't me but them. I am what some people refer to as "boring." I like to stay home and watch movies or play videogames. I'm not the type that likes to go out all day every day. I'm now 100% ok with who I am and I learned that it's not my job to entertain hyperactive women with ADD and a very short attention span. And if women don't like who I am, that's not my issue. I will not change for anyone and I am very honest right off the bat with what type of man I am. I seek a life of peace, tranquility, serenity and positivity. I don't do drama and everything I do is planned out and not impulsive. I would prefer to plan my day out instead of acting on impulse and risk forgetting something important. I love who I am and would rather be alone than be stuck with the wrong person.
well things are harder now a days, women only want two things money and looks in a guy. then they are wishy washy because they are constant attention seekers from a lot of different men, all thanks to the internet. they will go a ton of people and just hook up with some other guy in a blink of an eye.
3:30 Dorian had the best expression... Works for me... most of the time :( 1) She unfollowed me on Instagram 2) She doesn't reply to my messages 3 She never compliments me
In terms of not into me well it was a bit complicated as in i realized i was an option though at first things were going really fine as she will be engaging me constantly but only till she started giving excuses that she was busy for just a phone call or just replying my messages much later did I come to the realization that I was being taken for a ride. Thank you guys for your tips feel genuinely happy knowing this channel exist as it is a very good morale booster. Cheers =)
I need to ask to know: if we talk she answer to me but when she go whit her friend she answer after she got home what she say? God girl are so much difficult
I called her after she gave me her number and we chatted some. I called back a different day and she didn't answer so I called her again right away from a number she didn't know and she answered. I just hung up and disnt call her anymore. You are both great and thank you for all your great advice. Also where'd Dorian get his green bomber? I have a black one from USA Jackets but, I like that green.
@@Duderino1978 wow so easy to judge and attack me without seeing any bad things about anything I said here. but I just suggested him to broaden his search. So you already know me very well and know my situation. If it was me the problem why then many channels popping each second to show men how to approach women and understand them? Seems there is a problem here. I could do like you by judging you but I am not that person
Help!: the girl i like doesnt talk to most people at all. But she talks to me! She is shy, but not so much around me! I know it seems obvi, but idk! (Lol i think my teachers shipped us we sit next to eachother in every class.) im probably just oblivious...
what if she says she has a boyfriend and after that when i stopped talking to her , she started to stare me literally every place i see her ( in college)
What if she maintains eye contact for more than 10 seconds even when you look away? She’s older than me. And has a bf if 5ys. Says he treats her bad. Even put her foot on mine and when I asked her why she did she said “it feels good” before this I asked her shy she’s staring at me. She said she wasn’t but her face got red and I made a joke saying she’s blushing and she walked by me smiling. The main red flag is she’s older than me and telling me we/ people I work with should have a drink some time. I agreed. But all 5 of us have been on quarantine ( she doesn’t have it) and I haven’t seen her in 2 weeks. I’ll edit this comment tomorrow if she still acts the same. I just wanted to narrate what the last month has been like aside from direct compliments. It’s just odd for me. We’ll see where this goes
My story is a consistent one, I won't specify the amount of girls I have taken for coffee (I use coffee as a "get to know" session before I advance to more romantic style dates) anyway, the amount of times I am trying to get to know these girls and their answers are non-committal or half arsed, they never compliment "even the successful dates never complimented or touched" I honestly feel like I am talking to a brick wall. I have awkward stories and some that really didn't make sense; this is the only one I will speak of, I dated this girl for over a week, we done so many things together, I took her to the beach and watched the sunset "thinking this would be a pretty awesome first kiss" well... I was already holding her from behind, her head leaning back into my chest as I lent over her shoulder to kiss her, she put her hand up and said "nope I don't kiss" Well that confused me, weeks of dates, hanging out everyday messaging each other... I don't even know what to say except, I laugh about this now. Honestly though this has only ever happened this one time, can any woman whisperer explain WTF happened here? note; never heard from her again
A great clue is discovering the real (or fictitious) things she finds more important than talking or being with you. For example, she has to end the phone call to shampoo her hair (or get a root canal, if you're in a class by yourself).
The girl I like has a boyfriend but shows almost all the signs she likes me like literally all of them so with her having a boyfriend does she not like him or ? I mean he does live 4/5 hours away
I was working around a girl I really liked in a Bodyshop. She knew I liked her so she kept finding reasons to touch me. I ordered a mirror from her for my wife’s car because she worked in the parts department. But she already knew me and my wife were separated so she didn’t care. I just wanted to have sex with her. Once I got the mirror I had to leave suddenly for a job in Mississippi. When I got back she instantly stopped flirting with me. What the hell happened?? I’m lost.
Haha, I got the phone treatment from a female coworker of mine. It wasn’t even a date but a breakfast at the hotel where we were staying during our work week. I guess she wanted to make sure I know she’s not interested 😀 We’re still good friends though but I stopped eating breakfast at the hotel during our assignment 😉
This video is epic, so informative. I feel relieved now. I am so grateful for this video. Thank you folks for this video. I figured out that she was not into me. I realized the I was not as tall as the other person.
I can’t really understand women.. I have a pretty female coworker, we always worked together everyday. This is the sign that i notice to her. Sometimes she break the touch barrier, but she seldom answer my text but sometimes she will text out of sudden. She also know that I have a crush on her. We dated together twice and have good conversation. And during our site inspection ( we are both architects), she usually teases and flirt me by saying random stuff like your shirt fits you or you look sexy and getting more handsome. She also invited me and her friends for a movie marathon and other activities like jogging and hiking. The problem is until now, I still can’t figure if she really into me or just playing with my feelings..she begin to distance herself when our other colleague and friends jokingly admitted that she also has a crush on me. by the way i am married, while she have no boyfriend since birth. I’m beginning to fall in love with her so I’m thinking of forgetting or moving away from her. Thanks
She may just be using you for attention bro. She already knows you have a crush on her and she still hasn’t done anything about it?? She’ll flirt and touch you at work cause she knows you’ll go for it so try this. Tell her straight up what you want and see what she does after that whether it’s a date or somethin casual. If she stops flirting and engaging then you’ll know exactly what she was about the whole time. Stay blessed and focused bro!! 👌🏾
I think for me it was the lack of communication over text after the first date. Since then for future dates, I will make an emphasis on FaceTime when appropriate because texting can get tricky in my opinion. I went on a date with a girl recently and it went well in my view but I was too into her to notice the signs right away. I did notice those signs like checking her phone in front of me. I felt like I was initiating all the conversations or date ideas. There was a lot of dead silence which I tried to fill by asking her questions. I always mentioned her name in texts and in person but she never mentioned mine once. I got tired of carrying water so I tested her before the second date to see if she even remembered. The date was on Sunday so I texted her on Saturday with a “Hi ‘insert name’ how is your weekend going so far”? Within seconds, the little signal that pops up when someone starts to type shows up but then she didn’t respond. I knew then that it wasn’t going to work. She texted 5 hours later with a generic response like “I’m good, how about you” 😒. So I ignored her until 3 hours before the date on Sunday. She texted to ask how my weekend was going which was strange. In the end she got mad me for her own lack of interest and blocked me from Instagram and blocked my number. She said she was annoyed at me for “cancelling the date” which baffles me but it was best that we went our separate ways. I can’t date a girl who can’t communicate no matter how great I think she is. A lack of communication is the death of any partnership. I’m a kind-hearted, giving and well-mannered person by nature so hopefully I can find a girl that can communicate. I want to thank Ashley Weston and her husband for helping us out with our style, grooming and etiquette 👏
I don't date nor do I ever plan too & in general I never pay attention into anything relating into the dating & relationship world I've noticed that for a few months I've been making a few females here & there act hostile,aloof,& arrogant towards me I never pay attention to them nor do I instigate any type of attention It's crazy though because I've always been able to blend amongst everyone
There are exceptions to the I have a boyfriend excuse. You can say, well I don't want to date you , but maybe we can hangout. If things aren't going necessarily well with her boyfriend and she's attracted to you, then she very well might give you her number.
I came here because I haven't dated in 7 years and I'm a bit Rusty so I met this girl at my job and she would give me attention off the rip so I would feed into it, so I got her number and whenever I messaged her it was always one word replies. I decided to not text her for a few days and she never responded back but at work she always engages with me on anything I do so I was getting mixed signals and decided maybe it's because I'm Rusty and haven't been in the dating game in a while
Similar thing going on there's this girl not a terrible texter just sometimes she wont respond for hours. But she does make it a point to see when shes around like let's grab food or let's smoke we both have done it. I'm just not sure what is there we aren't exactly flirty but we enjoy each other's company ik I'm probably supposed to make a move to be sure or not but idk
with what I see on this video and how my ethnic group of women prefer.....forget it. When my time of life comes to an end, I do hope Lord Jesus has someone waiting for me once I go thru the gates....
She take lot of time to text back but I don’t think 24 hrs... and also when ever we plan to meet up she comes with another guy ... and I don’t understand whether he is her friend or boy friend ... or what?
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She won't go into my coronabunker with me.
She fake, cut her off
Responding with boring answers. Leaving you on read.
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it all gets so much easier when you are happy being alone and understand that women should not be your main focus. I lost count of how many I have ghosted and how many have ghosted me so if someone doesn't like you move on plenty of women out there no time to stay wasting time.
Games are for kids. If your getting to know someone and your being ghosted. Just hit delete 💯
Me as a shy introvert:
- I won't touch you unless it's made explicit.
- I'll text you hours or even days later so you don't think I'm clingy or creepy.
- Avoid extended eye contact. I'll probably admire you when you don't even notice.
- Probably bully you or be extra eccentric, and weird if I like you.
- Often daydream instead of actually engaging.
- I'll talk about hobbies or something odd like space / psychology instead of flirting, but truthfully I'm accessing our compatibility.
Some of these are spot on, like not bothering to reciprocate, looking disinterested, not wanting to know anything about you, some might be a classic shy / introverted person.
That's not what you should do
@@klausvnt7380 The point I was making here was that 'classic introverted / shy behavior' (and in some cases those with an avoidant attachment style), can often be misconstrued / mistaken as a sign of disinterest. The only way to know for sure is to be direct.
Friend : Just propose to your Crush, The worst she will say is "no".
Me to Crush : Hey ! I like You.
Crush : Ewwww !
Me : Those Bastards Lied To Me !
Hahahaahahhah
Yeah they straight up call you ugly and shit 😂
Oof
😂😂🤣
After not returning my calls, not replying to my texts, after not responding to my emails, after not answering the door, after a restraining order, and several court appearances, after 4 months in jail the first time (and a year the second time) I’m starting to think hat she’s not as into her as I am I to her. But I wish she’d just send me a clear sign!
She's not into you if she never asks you how your day went.
Five things occurred during our date which told me she was not into me:
1. Turned her cheek during the first kiss attempt.
2. Looking disinterested when we talked not looking directly at me.
3. Looked at the phone on occasion during dinner.
4. Only talked about her issues; never asked me questions.
5. Didn’t text back after 24 hours.
I’ve deleted here number and forgotten about her.
I have three dates this week coming up.
It’s frustrating though .. I’ve had five women this past month into me but I was not into them.
And the one woman I liked was not into me .. that’s the dating scene I guess.
I would assume pepper spray is an obvious indicator.
The signs a girl is interested in me are much more apparent when, I'm not interested in her. Same goes when a girl is interested in one of my friends. I always let my friends know because emotions blind us guys when we know theres a chance of a awkward " no thanks", or being turned down.
I would say more than 50% of the time I'm successful with women is when one of there friends tells me she likes me. Ir when her friends make excuses for us to dance or go do something together. Then maybe 30% of the time the girl just tells me she's interested. The rest of the time I just go for it and see how she reacts to me.
I found out by the dry conversation and also because she straight up “liked a message” on Instagram😂
Yeah I can relate to the part of setting everything up and being stood up last moment.
I was walking through my college campus with a girl that I thought was cute trying to be friendly and talk (Side note: we were in the same social club, so she wasn't just some random person). She was giving very dry, unenthusiastic answers and wouldn't really ask anything back in return. Eventually, she just straight up stopped talking. She just ignored my question and would no longer answer me. I had been ignored before over text with other girls in the past, but this was the first, and only, time that I was ignored during an ongoing conversation that was happening in person. Not going to lie, it was pretty disheartening.
Yeah, that would be painful to deal with. If that ever happened I would just lose all hope.
women are actually really rude. ive had it where if i had shown interest in someone i had known for a while like years, they would stop being around you and start being mean like a bully
Women can be very vicious. Gotta watch out.
We planned a date for Valentine’s Day. This was our first date and we had been texting for while now. She ended up ghosting me on Valentine’s Day.
Damn keep ya head up chief 😥
Simple, come up to a girl, have a genuine conversation, a little banter is always a must, after the conversation, ask for her name and don't tell her yours. Just be like "hey, nice to meet you *her name*. If she asks for your name back, there's a high interested right there. However if she doesn't, just assume she's not at all and just move on and don't waste your time. 🔥
lol doest mean she's into you if she asks for your name, they could just be nice. big difference.
I usually just assume that a girl is not into me.
However, if a girl shows some interest, I can eventually figure that out. However, I have some guidelines, like if I'm paying her (bartender, server, barista, clerk, cashier) and she's nice, it's probably her job to be nice.
Subtlety is not my thing. A hug is a good sign that a girl likes me.
When she tells u that your in the “friend-zone.” I hate that!😦
you put yourself there
People are direct with me. I pretty much was just told by them that they are not. In one case completely blocked in every way and another was unclear and just left me hanging. Surprisingly not many of these signs where a part of me finding out.
I asked her for her number and she said no😅
If I was on a date at a restaurant and she keeps texting on her phone instead of having a conversation with me, I'd walk out the restaurant and let her pay the bill.
How did I know she was not into me, and when did I find out? When I existed on this planet.
Hahaha
It highly depends on looks
I went out with a girl earlier in the year. We kissed after each date. Then after the third she told she was not ready for a boyfriend. She said she was busy which she is. She works from 7 am to 8pm including weekends. On our second date we went out for dinner at 9pm. No joke. Now i am starting to realize that she might have been lying in order to cover up her real reasons. Or she could have been very busy? The more i think back the more i feel that it was my fault. Whatever i did or said scarred her off
There was a girls that I tried to be just friends with, and when I invited her to a party with my friends, she changed her mind at the last minute, twice. However in between those two she wanted to meet me for drinks. Wierd isn't it.
So this is a work situation and if you have some savvy you know you need to tread carefully or there will be that meeting with HR. Over the course of years (what can I say, risk versus reward) there is enough excited conversation over shared interests and I learn a lot about her and her interests. Find out eventually that she is introverted and shy...and I am thinking, wow, she's really opening up to me. I even get into casually asking about things like whether she likes heels and makeup as somewhat bold qualifiers. BUT...it occurred to me that I initiate most of the conversations. Yeah, I get that she says she's shy...but not one question about what I am about. I let myself get confused because she gets excited about my ambitions but I realize she's just nice but NOT into me. Which isn't a bad thing ... I start to understand why men always talk about mixed signals when it's actually about not paying attention.
Women are like Rubricks cubes, except they have like 1000x more different combinations.
besides her saying ‘you meet every ‘check list us girls keep,’ but i do not see it working between us and i’m really disappointed in myself’:
***obvious signs, that should have stopped me right away:
1. before the second date me saying, ‘i’m really looking forward to the (second) date’, and her not responding with as much enthusiasm. --right then, I should have canceled the date.
2. During the date she asked where i want to move one day, and her responding, ‘that’s a great place for dating’…. i was not sure if she said that at first b/c it was so early in the date and nothing went wrong, and it was just so out there and rude that I just did not follow it up with a ‘did you just say…???’
3. when standing near her, she moved away just slightly.
4. Me calling her after the date when I got home late (1 hour drive to her place), and I left a voice text message saying i had a great time, and that she is both beautiful inside and out; she texted me the following day saying that she crashed after I left, and she had been up that morning for a while doing something (and just texted me back after hours of being awake).. --both not texting/calling when going to bed after the date, knowing I had an hour drive home, and me not the first thing on her mind to call/text back when she woke after getting my message…, Not to mention, her text wasn’t giving me any reciprocal ‘ I had a great time. i liked spending time with you… etc.’
5. me showing a photo of a place I vacation, and saying that it’s a place i’m sure her and her dog would love, and her saying ‘that’s totally (her dog’s name) type of place!’.
no small hints. hahaha
-i was never rude or called her out on things she did that I thought were rude; (she wasn’t really rude, just her giving hints she wasn’t into me)
“it’s disappointing to hear (you’re not into me). But thank you for letting me know you’re not interested’ was my response.
-in my mind, though:“goodbye. good luck finding the right guy”.
I can feel the pain ... I have same
We need to have hope i know it's hard to move on.
I didn’t even have to watch this to realize I didn’t stand a chance with the girl I like. Just watching it caused more pain than anything. No point in dating.
When you start talking to a girl and she says straight away meeting other person and that she's only talking to you as a friend and a brother 😂 awkward right? I'm like "I'm out!" 🤣
She talks to everyone straightaway......and only says something when i ask her.
Also if she does say anything to you it's only when she's accompanied by one or more friend. Shell never say anything to you first if she's alone l. And almost if not always when she responds back to you when you ask her something her response feels forced and she makes it short as possible
When I was younger, I was always "that guy" you know... The one who made all the effort. I texted first. I was so willing to help replace light bulbs or check the oil in her car. I was "the nice guy" stuck in the "friend zone". When a woman was into me, her interest seemed to die out several days to two months into our "hanging out." I used to think it was me and that something was genuinely wrong with me. I now know that it wasn't me but them. I am what some people refer to as "boring." I like to stay home and watch movies or play videogames. I'm not the type that likes to go out all day every day. I'm now 100% ok with who I am and I learned that it's not my job to entertain hyperactive women with ADD and a very short attention span. And if women don't like who I am, that's not my issue. I will not change for anyone and I am very honest right off the bat with what type of man I am. I seek a life of peace, tranquility, serenity and positivity. I don't do drama and everything I do is planned out and not impulsive. I would prefer to plan my day out instead of acting on impulse and risk forgetting something important. I love who I am and would rather be alone than be stuck with the wrong person.
well things are harder now a days, women only want two things money and looks in a guy. then they are wishy washy because they are constant attention seekers from a lot of different men, all thanks to the internet. they will go a ton of people and just hook up with some other guy in a blink of an eye.
3:30 Dorian had the best expression...
Works for me... most of the time :(
1) She unfollowed me on Instagram
2) She doesn't reply to my messages
3 She never compliments me
I think that not being into people is the default. If you don’t see positive signs, I’d assume this.
In the situation that the country is in right now , if she’s not answering your text, she’s ignoring you and doesn’t want to respond
If she hits you with a pie, she's probably not into you.
In terms of not into me well it was a bit complicated as in i realized i was an option though at first things were going really fine as she will be engaging me constantly but only till she started giving excuses that she was busy for just a phone call or just replying my messages much later did I come to the realization that I was being taken for a ride. Thank you guys for your tips feel genuinely happy knowing this channel exist as it is a very good morale booster. Cheers =)
I need to ask to know: if we talk she answer to me but when she go whit her friend she answer after she got home what she say? God girl are so much difficult
I called her after she gave me her number and we chatted some. I called back a different day and she didn't answer so I called her again right away from a number she didn't know and she answered. I just hung up and disnt call her anymore. You are both great and thank you for all your great advice. Also where'd Dorian get his green bomber? I have a black one from USA Jackets but, I like that green.
every girl in my school flirts with me except for the one i like
just realised no women has been interested in me... 😢💔
Change country my friend.
Just need to respawn and you'll get another go at it!
Unknow Person if you need to change countries to get a woman, then the problem is probably you and not every woman in the country.
Unknow Person damn
@@Duderino1978 wow so easy to judge and attack me without seeing any bad things about anything I said here. but I just suggested him to broaden his search.
So you already know me very well and know my situation.
If it was me the problem why then many channels popping each second to show men how to approach women and understand them? Seems there is a problem here.
I could do like you by judging you but I am not that person
Help!: the girl i like doesnt talk to most people at all. But she talks to me! She is shy, but not so much around me! I know it seems obvi, but idk! (Lol i think my teachers shipped us we sit next to eachother in every class.) im probably just oblivious...
Actually that's a good sign ... Tell me what you have did ?
what if she says she has a boyfriend and after that when i stopped talking to her , she started to stare me literally every place i see her ( in college)
Who cares? You keep doing you and if she wasn't into you, why waste another moment worrying about it? The best revenge is living well.
Same happened to me but now i don't understand ... I'll just stop chasing and let her chase me
*WE WON'T UNDERSTAND WOMEN ONE DAY*
What if she maintains eye contact for more than 10 seconds even when you look away? She’s older than me. And has a bf if 5ys. Says he treats her bad. Even put her foot on mine and when I asked her why she did she said “it feels good” before this I asked her shy she’s staring at me. She said she wasn’t but her face got red and I made a joke saying she’s blushing and she walked by me smiling. The main red flag is she’s older than me and telling me we/ people I work with should have a drink some time. I agreed. But all 5 of us have been on quarantine ( she doesn’t have it) and I haven’t seen her in 2 weeks. I’ll edit this comment tomorrow if she still acts the same. I just wanted to narrate what the last month has been like aside from direct compliments. It’s just odd for me. We’ll see where this goes
So ....
posting stories while not responding to your message XD
What if she’s watching everything you post
She gave all the signs from the 'she's into you' video, but got into relationship with some other guy. Then I knew she's not into me. 🙂
What its means when she. Say i missed the little fish in the sea but we got everything comment but she never say she do got a boyfriend ir married
My story is a consistent one, I won't specify the amount of girls I have taken for coffee (I use coffee as a "get to know" session before I advance to more romantic style dates) anyway, the amount of times I am trying to get to know these girls and their answers are non-committal or half arsed, they never compliment "even the successful dates never complimented or touched" I honestly feel like I am talking to a brick wall.
I have awkward stories and some that really didn't make sense; this is the only one I will speak of, I dated this girl for over a week, we done so many things together, I took her to the beach and watched the sunset "thinking this would be a pretty awesome first kiss" well... I was already holding her from behind, her head leaning back into my chest as I lent over her shoulder to kiss her, she put her hand up and said "nope I don't kiss"
Well that confused me, weeks of dates, hanging out everyday messaging each other... I don't even know what to say except, I laugh about this now.
Honestly though this has only ever happened this one time, can any woman whisperer explain WTF happened here? note; never heard from her again
In the words of Zuko: 🤔😕 that’s rough buddy
What does it mean when a girl says why when you ask a risqué question like
What’s your phone number and what’s the beat way to respond
What if i text her good morning beautiful and she reply morning ?
No text back... ghosted!
A great clue is discovering the real (or fictitious) things she finds more important than talking or being with you. For example, she has to end the phone call to shampoo her hair (or get a root canal, if you're in a class by yourself).
Please, tell me the brand of that bomber, i need one ASAP
Can you do online consultations during this time we're all stuck indoors?
The girl I like has a boyfriend but shows almost all the signs she likes me like literally all of them so with her having a boyfriend does she not like him or ? I mean he does live 4/5 hours away
James cheffins I have nearly the exact situation, would be cool if somebody has some tips
PlanTum HD gotta have some faith bud
Just because she has a bf doesn’t mean she has feelings anymore. Maybe she feels trapped. Be careful though because she could just be confused aswell.
She block me but always staring at me in class why guys help me
Idk you just can't understand women
I was working around a girl I really liked in a Bodyshop. She knew I liked her so she kept finding reasons to touch me. I ordered a mirror from her for my wife’s car because she worked in the parts department. But she already knew me and my wife were separated so she didn’t care. I just wanted to have sex with her. Once I got the mirror I had to leave suddenly for a job in Mississippi. When I got back she instantly stopped flirting with me. What the hell happened?? I’m lost.
Signs she doesnt like you like "that...she says, "youre such a good friend" or "youre like a brother to me". Friendzoned buddy!
As bad as that is I did that to my best friend, I said to her she's my sister, she then asked if I sister-zoned her HAHAHA
immaturity - bringing up arguments that we worked thru 3 yrs ago as an excuse not to go out. 🥱
I watched this to make sure that a friend doesn’t like
Haha, I got the phone treatment from a female coworker of mine. It wasn’t even a date but a breakfast at the hotel where we were staying during our work week. I guess she wanted to make sure I know she’s not interested 😀
We’re still good friends though but I stopped eating breakfast at the hotel during our assignment 😉
I told her i like her and she said she dont know what to say... And after that no more connections and contact
This video is epic, so informative. I feel relieved now. I am so grateful for this video. Thank you folks for this video. I figured out that she was not into me. I realized the I was not as tall as the other person.
This is painful but truth.
The last one was an eye opener !! Thanks guys
9 months to get out and a lifetime to get back in.
I emptied the seat behind me so that she can sets next to me. But she gets her friend to set there
Means she isn’t interested. Best thing to do is move on man.
Restraining order might be a clue... hahaha!!!
When all the stores are out of toilet paper but she still doesn't want any of yours lololol
looking well Dorian, hope you're well 👍
Your 11 signs a girl likes you really helped me
Giving the people what they need, lol. Also, where’d you get that bomber? It’s clean as hell👌🏿
Shit she just aint interested...... :(
The wag u guys explain this is seems interesting and intentional haha Thank u
I can’t really understand women.. I have a pretty female coworker, we always worked together everyday. This is the sign that i notice to her. Sometimes she break the touch barrier, but she seldom answer my text but sometimes she will text out of sudden. She also know that I have a crush on her. We dated together twice and have good conversation. And during our site inspection ( we are both architects), she usually teases and flirt me by saying random stuff like your shirt fits you or you look sexy and getting more handsome. She also invited me and her friends for a movie marathon and other activities like jogging and hiking.
The problem is until now, I still can’t figure if she really into me or just playing with my feelings..she begin to distance herself when our other colleague and friends jokingly admitted that she also has a crush on me. by the way i am married, while she have no boyfriend since birth. I’m beginning to fall in love with her so I’m thinking of forgetting or moving away from her.
Thanks
She may just be using you for attention bro. She already knows you have a crush on her and she still hasn’t done anything about it?? She’ll flirt and touch you at work cause she knows you’ll go for it so try this. Tell her straight up what you want and see what she does after that whether it’s a date or somethin casual. If she stops flirting and engaging then you’ll know exactly what she was about the whole time. Stay blessed and focused bro!! 👌🏾
Carvin Cadet thank you for your advice. Much appreciated. Cheers!
I think for me it was the lack of communication over text after the first date. Since then for future dates, I will make an emphasis on FaceTime when appropriate because texting can get tricky in my opinion. I went on a date with a girl recently and it went well in my view but I was too into her to notice the signs right away. I did notice those signs like checking her phone in front of me. I felt like I was initiating all the conversations or date ideas. There was a lot of dead silence which I tried to fill by asking her questions. I always mentioned her name in texts and in person but she never mentioned mine once. I got tired of carrying water so I tested her before the second date to see if she even remembered. The date was on Sunday so I texted her on Saturday with a “Hi ‘insert name’ how is your weekend going so far”? Within seconds, the little signal that pops up when someone starts to type shows up but then she didn’t respond. I knew then that it wasn’t going to work. She texted 5 hours later with a generic response like “I’m good, how about you” 😒. So I ignored her until 3 hours before the date on Sunday. She texted to ask how my weekend was going which was strange. In the end she got mad me for her own lack of interest and blocked me from Instagram and blocked my number. She said she was annoyed at me for “cancelling the date” which baffles me but it was best that we went our separate ways. I can’t date a girl who can’t communicate no matter how great I think she is. A lack of communication is the death of any partnership. I’m a kind-hearted, giving and well-mannered person by nature so hopefully I can find a girl that can communicate. I want to thank Ashley Weston and her husband for helping us out with our style, grooming and etiquette 👏
Yup. Restraining Order. I know she's just playing hard to get. 😂
🤣🤣🤣
I don't date nor do I ever plan too & in general I never pay attention into anything relating into the dating & relationship world
I've noticed that for a few months I've been making a few females here & there act hostile,aloof,& arrogant towards me
I never pay attention to them nor do I instigate any type of attention
It's crazy though because I've always been able to blend amongst everyone
she's not into you if she keeps on promising you things that never happens...EVER
Periodttt
Just being curious who else is so unattractive that their whole life they get more of signs girls dislike them than like them just like me 😢
less you try the more she into you.
Wise words
Hey, where did you get that bomber ?
H&M
never
Ohh shii...
There are exceptions to the I have a boyfriend excuse. You can say, well I don't want to date you , but maybe we can hangout. If things aren't going necessarily well with her boyfriend and she's attracted to you, then she very well might give you her number.
I know, for no ne has ever been interested in me, and it’s not their fault. I would not be interested in myself ever. So yeah.
Love this series! Make a how do you know she’s your soulmate 🙃
Lol at the fact you googled this and turned someone else's list into a video. Word for word...
I came here because I haven't dated in 7 years and I'm a bit Rusty so I met this girl at my job and she would give me attention off the rip so I would feed into it, so I got her number and whenever I messaged her it was always one word replies. I decided to not text her for a few days and she never responded back but at work she always engages with me on anything I do so I was getting mixed signals and decided maybe it's because I'm Rusty and haven't been in the dating game in a while
Similar thing going on there's this girl not a terrible texter just sometimes she wont respond for hours. But she does make it a point to see when shes around like let's grab food or let's smoke we both have done it. I'm just not sure what is there we aren't exactly flirty but we enjoy each other's company ik I'm probably supposed to make a move to be sure or not but idk
If i really like someone i can't even look in proximity or would dare touch her...
Thanks for sharing this ❤️
with what I see on this video and how my ethnic group of women prefer.....forget it. When my time of life comes to an end, I do hope Lord Jesus has someone waiting for me once I go thru the gates....
She take lot of time to text back but I don’t think 24 hrs... and also when ever we plan to meet up she comes with another guy ... and I don’t understand whether he is her friend or boy friend ... or what?
Damn my guy
If she brings a guy that’s a good hint she isn’t interested in you and it’s best to just move on.
@@hilde198881 thanks mate .... I got to know that after a month after this comment ....
What if girl agrees to hangout on campus but is a bad texter takes a day to reply etc? I need advice lol
Means just ignoring you. If she liked you she would blow your phone up.
@@hilde198881 she agrees to meet up if she didnt then is bad lol
@@hilde198881 you realize not every girl likes blowing up there guys phones right?….
because she said she didnt
Never put in the effort for a broken girl
The woman in wall pic look alike Tongtong the preggy woman.
Refeused the ring
Ohh i can feel you ... Sorry bro
It's hard to move on but you gotta do it and you will feel better.
What brand is dorians jacket
Not touching? What about Corona