@@apandey327 no. some are born big with thick rolls of skin and some aren't. I would know,my brother was a chubby baby from birth til he was around 4 years old.
I think they mean for his age because I find he was a little on the bigger size, not fat but just bigger like you would think he is older, for a 1 month old lol I love chubby baby’s
Lmao babies are extremely flexible, especially the newborn ones since they had to make it out of the birth canal. This woman wasn't being rough with the baby, and was only making sure to support the baby's cute little head. They have no control over their neck muscles, remember.
Ok guys, 4 things: 1.) The baby would be CRYING and fussy if it was uncomfortable in any way. 2.) The parents are RIGHT THERE and are paying her for the pics. Last time i checked, newborn's parents worry enough about their kids to atleast take them away if they feel their kid is not being treated right. 3.) To all of y'all saying, "let them be in any natural position they want, why force them?" This IS how they were _naturally_ in the womb. She's not forcing but gently moving the baby in position. Y'all never moved babies? 4.) She SPEEDS up her videos so that you don't have to sit and watch her settle the babies for 2 hrs+. If you can't perceive that she's gentle based on the speed of the video, then... Idk what to tell you. ( I'm going to copy and paste this comment on every video i find people being irrational. Deal with it.)
The baby is fine it looks rough bc its sped up but shes really moving super gently. I babysit my little cousin alot and and i usually hold her head similar when its burp time and she always giggles. If the baby is bothered they will gladly let you know😂😭
Id say she did a good job. It made me a bit uncomfortable too but really its not a big deal. Some parents really do too much tho with this kind of stuff. Like toddlers in tiaras is too much and child abuse if u ask me
My ex SIL was a newborn photographer and the one thing she CONSTANTLY preached was how someone ALWAYS had a hand on the baby/their neck to prevent their airway being blocked unnoticed, or in case they twitch and fall over somehow.. This just made me uncomfortable and anxious AF.
I THOUGHT THAT WAS A SILICONE DOLL FROM THE WAY IT WAS HANDLED. When I saw someone get their child's baby photo taken, the baby was handled very gently Edit: Thank you all for giving me some info about it, I didn't know
Honestly I feel like parents put their newborns in the most uncomfortable places and positions to get this cute photo for seemingly no reason when there are a billion other safe and comfortable ways they can get a cute photo Like parents cutting out pumpkins and sticking their newborns in it to take photos disregarding the sicknesses and discomfort that it will bring the baby
Incredibly hard because there were some times when baby wants a feed or had her eyes open. We even had to come bk on a diff time because she bevame restless but all was well..truly adorable and rather enjoyable
My daughter was two weeks old and had her picture taken at the mall professionally. But the guy said he was not going to sell them to me because she was asleep and that babies look dead that way. After talking he agreed to sell them to me. It was back in 1993.
I mean it's definitely cute photos, but watching how you got there made me super uncomfortable as a mom, I would never be that rough with them that young and purposely put them in what I myself would consider an uncomfortable position.
I get what u mean, but this baby is so young he can not hold hid head up so the woman is giving his head some kind of support. Also, she made it pretry confortable in thst bucket, and I don't think he will be in there for more than 5-10 mins.
Exactly!! Especially that part when she finally got him to a pose ,but then decided she still needs his fingers straight .seriously just leave that baby alone who cares if his fingers are straight 😔 instead of using some bucket 🪣 why not use some nice comfy baby pillows and this will make good pictures too without all that baby moving and making it uncomfortable . I can understand the urge to have a beautiful baby photos but there are limits ,also the fact its a newborn just one small mistake and he can endup injured ,I wouldn't want to risk ..
@@claireoost7857 they know the baby can’t support his head, you don’t need to have them in a chokehold though, I agree with the commenter as a mom myself too
yeah but as a 13 yr old, I've seen many many of realistic baby dolls that are super creepy. overall, I think that is what this is. I can imagine a 1 month baby crying because this hurts them.
I have worked with and cared for babies specifically my whole career. I adore them. I have never seen her do a single thing wrong or harmful. Occasionally I do worry about the neck support but she does a pretty good job at that as well. Babies will cry and fuss over anything sometimes, doesn't mean they are hurt or not okay. The parents will have these pictures for life, having a baby a little annoyed at most is not some huge deal it's being made out to be.
Be more gentle omgg- the way they handled the neck is just aaaaaaaa- Edit: okay, turns out a started a whole ass war xd I can't be bothered to reply to comments anymore so ye
@@xiayu6098 yeah ik they can't support their own necks that's why u gotta be gentle, hold the head in the crevice of ur arm especially at this age istg
@@violet_the_dragon mine only like to be carried in the football hold there not as fragile as you think and you have to move the baby's head around and there neck because they can get stiff and that's how they can get flat on one side.
These comments are absolutely insane. Y'all clearly don't know the first thing about infants. She's a professional and never hurt them in any way. Babies fuss over anything, doesn't mean they are hurt.
I've had a few newborns to know how delicate they are so I will just list my concerns on this one, based off of my health and safety background. - She rightfully weighted the bucket, however I could not see any protection for the baby's legs or feet on the weight. Just needed a blanket on top of the weight to prevent their skin sitting uncomfortably on the metal, which also may have some texture and reduce the risk of abrasions and bruising. If the child was there for only 30 seconds was one thing but considering how much time it may have taken, I believe a blanket on bottom would've been a good call. I'm not convinced that there was a blanket in there because of how quickly she was able to take out one of the cushions because the baby was sat too high up. However she did ensure that the rim on the bucket was cushioned, so hopefully in time they may see this as a potential issue. - How she was holding the baby horizontally, then placing them into the bucket while having a hold of their neck and more crusially, the airway. It was not the chest being supported from what I could see. If she lost hold of the rear end of the child, then there would be no secondary support to keep the baby safe. The baby's weight would drop, pulling on the developing neck risking substantial injury and also risk the windpipe being crushed by the remaining hold on the baby. This will be from the natural, human instinct to tighten the grip to stop the child from falling to the ground. Just takes one false move in an instant for something which seems extremely fun to turn deadly serious. I do not believe this woman is abusive and believe that she has a very caring nature which she pool's all her energy to such a beautiful art. I do also believe that she is human and like the rest of us, makes mistakes. Her handling newborns is a very risky job and could face big problems if something were to go wrong. Sometimes it's worth questioning whether a risky method is worth a potential bad outcome.
Whats wrong with laying them down in a cute basket or bed with some decor or a cute hat... this is doing too much😂 Edit: all the people that try to justify this are 🚩🚩
Baby was comfortable on the forward leaning position, but his feet and lower back parts were all directly on weights and against probably COLD metal as the baby’s body temp was probably much warmer. That seems like it’d piss me off pretty good if I were trying to just feed sleep and hand over a dirty diaper… but at the end of it all? Baby looks like he’s going to have a VERY loving and comfortable upbringing and have the gorgeous photos to prove it later in life. So for those crying child abuse “EAT ONE and have fun in life. You might just enjoy it!” - I said that Sh*t
@@bad_mnky9134 yeah the it was probably cold, but I doubt it was in their for too long for all these people saying rude things and saying it’s child abuse😭 the baby survived and they’re left with what you said, gorgeous photos for life lol. And amazing quote haha
I just said the same thing!!!! Like, I was honestly really sad my daughter never got to do any of these types of baby photos... now I'm like... guess everything you miss out on isn't a loss because... 🤯👀
You can tell that NONE of these comments are parents. 😂 she’s not mishandling this baby at all. And yes chubby babies are adorable and that’s just body shaming. It’s just a fact.
Are you psychic? I wrote a comment saying I don't like this silly idea, and I have kids just under / over 30.....so you are wrong to think that "NONE" are from people who are parents. You cannot possibly know whether someone has kids unless they say so. I personally don't think this baby is being mishandled, but I am against this type of photoshoot because it just seems so stupid....sticking a naked baby in a bucket....why? So cringey
This reminds me of that episode of The Office where Angela gets the baby poster for Christmas and Oscar gets upset -- "It makes me think of the frigid stage mothers who forced the babies into this. This is the opposite of art"
unpopular opinion but the baby seemed fine until it wasn't and they quickly took care of them cutting it out of the video until the baby was okay again and fell asleep. They're professionals. The comments need to chill out.
I honestly regret my newborn photos. They're were the opposite of this though...the photographer swaddled her so tight in so many layers, I'm surprised she didn't suffocate. I'll never do that again. I can take my own photos and save my baby from being tortured and $500.
I never did photoshoots like this with my kids, but if y’all don’t like this then you would have a heart attack watching the nurses with your baby fresh out the womb. 😂
Some of these comments are WILD! Like, have y’all just never handled babies before? This baby is clearly comfortable. And since so many people didn’t seem to watch the video, there is a ton of cushioning in between the metal lip and the baby. She’s being incredibly gentle with this baby, although babies aren’t nearly as fragile as some of you seem to think they are. There’s nothing wrong with parents wanting newborn pictures. If you don’t have them you just might regret it one day.
You cleary never had a baby before. So you cleary dont understand how important baby pictures are for some people. Babys are flexible, so they are not hurting him.
You cleary never had a baby before. So you cleary dont understand how important baby pictures are for some people. Babys are flexible, so they are not hurting him.
You clearly never had a baby before. So you clearly dont understand how important baby pictures are for some people. Babys are flexible, so they are not hurting him.
She’s being gentle. Babies will use every force possible to not move. The parents are paying for these pictures and can deal and are dealing with one minute of fussiness. All babies are different. ❤
It’s not for views 🙄 she’s a photographer and ppl have been getting photos of their new born baby for memories since before social media was even a possibility. Also he was literally in it for at most 5 mins 😂
Yeah, it’s obviously not the worst thing in the world but why do you need to bother? Just take natural photos of baby where you don’t need to manhandle them and pose them in weird props and all this.
How..? Shes being really delicate with the baby and theres fluff and blankets in the bucket to make sure the baby is comfortable. Taking a few pictures isnt gonna kill the baby.
@@Cheeselover6611 No it’s dangerous, babies are delicate!!! I shouldn’t have to explain this to you! it’s a red flag that you even justify that.🚩 If you watch the video again, the baby had it’s neck moved roughly! these pictures ARE NOT WORTH IT.
It's sad and disturbing to see people so obsessed with social media and garnering attention all the time! Whatever happened to 'treat your baby gently with love' ?!
@@ambibambi1021 Its not about how she's handling the baby ....it's how silly things are being done by parents ...I mean a pic in a bucket?! ...for what?
@@ruchikasharma4808 for memories, are you daft? Many people do baby photoshoots to put in scrapbooks for their kids. It's not always going on social media
@@annebwood7676 thank you! I’m 24 and I have pics of me as an infant in weird and funny poses because it’s cute and you want the memories of that stage in life because it only lasts a few months
Bro I literally thought that that child was a literal silicone baby and the first time that I watched it through I saw his hand moves and my soul almost left my body because I was like the silicone child is coming to life 💀
I was so excited to do a newborn shoot with my daughter, then when they started posing her, I was so uncomfortable and grossed out that I cancelled the whole thing. They're not dolls.
You cleary never had a baby before. So you cleary dont understand how important baby pictures are for some people. Babys are flexible, so they are not hurting him.
@@shanaparrilla978 You sound dumb . One she wasn’t hurting him . Did he cry once or was in discomfort ? The babies are very flexible and you would know this is the same way doctors handles newborns birdbrain
@@almondkissed3794 first of all your rude and mean secondly it’s my opinion I’m entitled to it , like everyone else is . If you don’t like my opinion skip pass my comment but the fact your saying I’m dumb because of my opinion shows are small if a human you are. I pray God blesses your ugly spirit that can have the audacity with your big chest to call me dumb? 😂😂😂 People always trolling
Fyi she isn't handling the baby like a doll and grabbing it roughly, she is positioning it in the most humane way possible. Baby heads are the heaviest and at this age the head tends to tip and can factually break a neck, so she is supporting it by holding it from the back. It is not an easy job, just like photographing baby animals. They don't know what is happening. But I do admit it can look very rough if you don't know. The images looked fully worth it though.
A friend of mine is a newborn photographer and she gasped in horror when I showed her this short. For anyone who doesn't know, a worthwhile baby photographer SHOULD NOT pose your baby like this. Worthwhile baby photographers actually take the photos of babies in very safe positions with their parent's hands supporting them and then photoshop out the hands and edit in cute surroundings. She said never in a million years would she have actually put a newborn in a cold hard bucket with weights and especially not with their weight on their chest/ribs while sleeping. That is what disturbed her most. Newborns laying on their stomachs or leaning on their chests while asleep is statistically linked with SIDS because their little bodies are not yet robust enough to handle the physical pressure for long periods and/or duing sleep. That pressure puts strain on their airways and circulation. Newborn babies should never be asleep in a prone or leaning position. Even when they're awake, doctors recommend limiting their tummy time to 3 minute sessions for safety. My friend also expressed concern for the baby's joints because posing the arms the way this photographer has in the video can damage the joints in the wrists and elbows AND resting the baby's weight on their knees and ankles inside a hard bucket atop a hard weight can injure the knee and ankle joints (newborns are still developing their knee caps, too). She mentioned wondering what the thermostat was set to, also, because only a diaper may not be sufficient to keep baby warm enough to be happy and cozy for a photo shoot if the thermostat is set to most adults' cooler preferences. She keeps her studio thermostat set at 70°F and turns on/off strategically placed fans if the baby is being positioned on a surface that absorbs body heat, like a fuzzy blanket. She was appalled that this photographer did not go about this in a safe way, which would have been the parent holding up the baby to see his sweet little face while his neck and body was supported and airways/circulation restricted, and photoshopping in the bucket during editing. For everyone who commented their discomfort, you should be proud of your instincts. Direct quote from my baby photographer friend: "That baby's parents should sue this photographer. She obviously has not taken any newborn safety training courses and she put that precious baby in danger."
I'm not so worried about how the baby is being manipulated (babies are flexible af) but I'm worried about the rust on the bucket. It only takes a tiny cut for a kid to get tetanus. Like why in the world doesnit have to be a bucket.
@@dejectedsmilez Rust is a very common host for clostridium tetani, and rusty metal is more likely to create a puncture wound, the type of wound most associated with infection. While the spores can be found throughout the environment, especially soil, there are certain circumstances that increase your risk of exposure that can lead to contracting it, rusty metal being one.
@@sydneyerickson2068 How do you know the kid was fine? Instead of comforting them though she just went 'take you're binky and let me get my photo.' How would you feel if you were shoved into a bucket?
Then don’t LOL Plenty of people want baby photos of their kids, and they will pay and allow this, because the person is being safe and knows what they’re doing
There parents are there and they want some baby photos so they go to a professional photographer and they let her do her things to make it look cute and it doesn’t hurt the baby and there showing a tutorial it’s a New born photographer get it right people!!!
@@Str4wb3rry666 Idk if ur saying the baby is is uncomfortable but from the video baby seems fine, i babysit all the time as well and they dont mind being held like this. It made me feel weird watching tho bc it looks so aggressive sped up😂😂
@@Str4wb3rry666 The baby is too young to get control of its head. Since the video is sped up it may look a bit aggressive. But trust me,the kid wasn't uncomfortable,it would have cryed if that actually wasn't a proper position to hold a baby.
ITS THEIR JOB!! And the parents ask for specific props to be used, such as the bucket in this, and other times they give the photographer free range. Stop acting as if the parents didn't know what was going to happen, because they did.
Babies cry he wasn’t in any pain or discomfort . It’s fucking pictures relax !! I’m sure you cried to over things as a child . Key word you aren’t a mother
The video is sped up, in reality she’s being extremely gentle with the baby. Jeezus, try pulling your heads out of it, why dontcha! 🤦♀️🤦♀️ Lawd. Some ppl & their unending drama mixed with absolutely ridiculous virtue signaling. SMH.
And a thin blanket between his neck and that metal bucket edge, when he can't hold his head up and thus the weight of it would be resting on that edge, ya I'd be crying too Not to mention being crammed and crushed into a small space on a hard weight, cuz some tiny pillows on one side isn't cushioning squat for his crumpled up little feet and legs against the rest 🙄😒🥺
Yeah but the photographer DEMANDS the pose the parents are paying money, so that matters over anything to do with their baby. The soothers are just there to comfort the baby enough to go back to it's drugged induced state of sleep. Same thing happens with the baby monkey sleeping videos.
Jesus poor little guy is only one month old treat him with some respect and care! He was an extremely good sport about it and I’m surprised he didn’t cry more. Poor little sweetie 😭 I’m still not over the ultrasound tech being rough with my daughter when I was 16 weeks pregnant to get a picture from the right angle and that was a trained medical professional. I could NEVER let someone treat my child like that especially just for a photo and if they did they would be catching these hands 😤
Try to do that with an adult.. would it be confortable? In my opinion i would not be confortable, so i only can imagine is not comfy for the baby. I never did that with my boys, only pics in ordinary things or places 😊 but hey, each parent makes a choice and taking photos of your kids is a well intencioned and loving gesture, not a bad thing
For all the people hating there is a thing called scrolling. Maybe it would be helpful for you. And she is a professional. She knows what she is doing, there was a reason she put a bean on the bottom and side. Watch her other videos and you’ll see how hard she works and how careful she is with newborns…😊
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thats will always hurt 😂😂
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that baby is not chubby at all.
Babies get chubby from 3rd month
@@apandey327 no. some are born big with thick rolls of skin and some aren't. I would know,my brother was a chubby baby from birth til he was around 4 years old.
Yeah like stop body shaming
I think they mean for his age because I find he was a little on the bigger size, not
fat but just bigger like you would think he is older, for a 1 month old lol I love chubby baby’s
so?
Lmao babies are extremely flexible, especially the newborn ones since they had to make it out of the birth canal. This woman wasn't being rough with the baby, and was only making sure to support the baby's cute little head. They have no control over their neck muscles, remember.
Well they know how to kick people in the face that’s for sure😂
bro fr, babies can do the splits even accidently
Ok guys, 4 things:
1.) The baby would be CRYING and fussy if it was uncomfortable in any way.
2.) The parents are RIGHT THERE and are paying her for the pics. Last time i checked, newborn's parents worry enough about their kids to atleast take them away if they feel their kid is not being treated right.
3.) To all of y'all saying, "let them be in any natural position they want, why force them?" This IS how they were _naturally_ in the womb. She's not forcing but gently moving the baby in position. Y'all never moved babies?
4.) She SPEEDS up her videos so that you don't have to sit and watch her settle the babies for 2 hrs+. If you can't perceive that she's gentle based on the speed of the video, then... Idk what to tell you.
( I'm going to copy and paste this comment on every video i find people being irrational. Deal with it.)
Completely agree 👍🏻
this.
I've seen how much work goes into these photoshoot I agree 100%
These comments are annoying🙄😒
Even I thought to say
Was this supposed to make me uncomfortable cuz it did
Agreed 😳
I thought it was one of those fake dolls until it moved, i was horrified
Me 2 I kind of think it was stupid for her to do that and you knowshe could hurt his little face on the side of the bucket
Ikr I was very uncomfortable 😣😂
This is horrible😡
poor baby makes me so anxious to see him handled like a doll
The baby is fine it looks rough bc its sped up but shes really moving super gently. I babysit my little cousin alot and and i usually hold her head similar when its burp time and she always giggles. If the baby is bothered they will gladly let you know😂😭
@@valerieurrea5560 I think he did by crying.
Bro this is a job 0-0 there supposed to do that
@@lorenasummers867 Temporary crying is a given for anything with a literal infant, it's constant, unmistakable distress that's a problem.
@@fredericksaxton9782 Fuck sake, now you're crying too?
Guys she’s an expert and she clearly knows what she is doing and she is handling the baby with care so stop saying it is “bad”
agreed
It is
Same
Id say she did a good job. It made me a bit uncomfortable too but really its not a big deal. Some parents really do too much tho with this kind of stuff. Like toddlers in tiaras is too much and child abuse if u ask me
@@kristenwisecagesso4040well clearly it isn’t bad since you were asked “how?” And 3 months later you don’t have anything to say…
My ex SIL was a newborn photographer and the one thing she CONSTANTLY preached was how someone ALWAYS had a hand on the baby/their neck to prevent their airway being blocked unnoticed, or in case they twitch and fall over somehow.. This just made me uncomfortable and anxious AF.
I THOUGHT THAT WAS A SILICONE DOLL FROM THE WAY IT WAS HANDLED. When I saw someone get their child's baby photo taken, the baby was handled very gently
Edit: Thank you all for giving me some info about it, I didn't know
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This is sped up, and like it said the baby's one month old and can't support his head, she wasn't aggressive at all.
Same
Pediatricians handle babies with precise “roughness” all the time. Babies are tough and they’ll let you know if you did something they don’t like.
Honestly I feel like parents put their newborns in the most uncomfortable places and positions to get this cute photo for seemingly no reason when there are a billion other safe and comfortable ways they can get a cute photo
Like parents cutting out pumpkins and sticking their newborns in it to take photos disregarding the sicknesses and discomfort that it will bring the baby
Yo 💀the way she picked him up and everything i thought he was a doll till he cried
Same
Me toooo!!! 😭😭😭😭😭
Ikr!
if u ever see how nurses handle babies its very similar. you can be firm yet gentle!
Yeah
Aww this is so cute. What a fun and difficult job. It’s gotta be hard to get good pics of babies.
Incredibly hard because there were some times when baby wants a feed or had her eyes open. We even had to come bk on a diff time because she bevame restless but all was well..truly adorable and rather enjoyable
My daughter was two weeks old and had her picture taken at the mall professionally. But the guy said he was not going to sell them to me because she was asleep and that babies look dead that way. After talking he agreed to sell them to me. It was back in 1993.
What the heck?! So he'll use his time to take the photos of a baby he knew was asleep then claim he doesn't sell pics of sleeping babies...
@@Fhornergal I kept trying to get her to open her eyes. But, right when the shot was taken she would close them tight again.
I mean it's definitely cute photos, but watching how you got there made me super uncomfortable as a mom, I would never be that rough with them that young and purposely put them in what I myself would consider an uncomfortable position.
I get what u mean, but this baby is so young he can not hold hid head up so the woman is giving his head some kind of support. Also, she made it pretry confortable in thst bucket, and I don't think he will be in there for more than 5-10 mins.
Exactly!! Especially that part when she finally got him to a pose ,but then decided she still needs his fingers straight .seriously just leave that baby alone who cares if his fingers are straight 😔 instead of using some bucket 🪣 why not use some nice comfy baby pillows and this will make good pictures too without all that baby moving and making it uncomfortable . I can understand the urge to have a beautiful baby photos but there are limits ,also the fact its a newborn just one small mistake and he can endup injured ,I wouldn't want to risk ..
@@claireoost7857 they know the baby can’t support his head, you don’t need to have them in a chokehold though, I agree with the commenter as a mom myself too
yeah but as a 13 yr old, I've seen many many of realistic baby dolls that are super creepy. overall, I think that is what this is. I can imagine a 1 month baby crying because this hurts them.
the video is going at a faster speed so her movements look rougher than they actually are.
This gave me levels of anxiety i never knew existed.
Fr
It kinda did tbh
I'm pregnant right now, see this make my stomach hurts i dont know why🥲
If it was her baby she wouldn't have been that rough.
@@mimiwinarto9164 The video is sped up. The parents were right there, she isn't being rough. You're overreacting
Yall chill, she is not hurting the baby it's a padded blanket, and it's the parents' decision if they want pictures of their child
Fr it's not like they're doing it on purpose.The parents asked for it...
Some parents make decisions to do horrible things to their children. Doesn't make it OK.
This is not horrible guys. It’s okay, it’s okay shhhhhhhhh……
@@roxanne1092What’s horrible about this?
I have worked with and cared for babies specifically my whole career. I adore them. I have never seen her do a single thing wrong or harmful. Occasionally I do worry about the neck support but she does a pretty good job at that as well.
Babies will cry and fuss over anything sometimes, doesn't mean they are hurt or not okay. The parents will have these pictures for life, having a baby a little annoyed at most is not some huge deal it's being made out to be.
i was hold my nephew and he started getting fussy because i moved. babies get fussy, their BABIES some people have no common sense
Be more gentle omgg- the way they handled the neck is just aaaaaaaa-
Edit: okay, turns out a started a whole ass war xd I can't be bothered to reply to comments anymore so ye
Agreed
That’s how your supposed to do it they can’t hold up their necks
@@xiayu6098 yeah ik they can't support their own necks that's why u gotta be gentle, hold the head in the crevice of ur arm especially at this age istg
@@violet_the_dragon mine only like to be carried in the football hold there not as fragile as you think and you have to move the baby's head around and there neck because they can get stiff and that's how they can get flat on one side.
@@casuallygaming2021 true but you should always support the head unless the baby is lying on it back, this baby had nothing to support its neck
I’ll stick with my candid photos of my babies being held by myself and their dad 🤭 this would stress me tf out.
Those are some of the cutest raw moments out there... memories that last forever. 💕🙌🤱
They’re babies, snowflakes. What you can’t put it down ?
Omg me too. TF out!!
Yes 👏👏👏
Don't forget the ones where baby was peacefully napping either on their own or with family
Older siblings will use this photo to say, "See, we found you in a trash bin" 🤣🤣🤣
These comments are absolutely insane. Y'all clearly don't know the first thing about infants. She's a professional and never hurt them in any way. Babies fuss over anything, doesn't mean they are hurt.
I've had a few newborns to know how delicate they are so I will just list my concerns on this one, based off of my health and safety background.
- She rightfully weighted the bucket, however I could not see any protection for the baby's legs or feet on the weight. Just needed a blanket on top of the weight to prevent their skin sitting uncomfortably on the metal, which also may have some texture and reduce the risk of abrasions and bruising. If the child was there for only 30 seconds was one thing but considering how much time it may have taken, I believe a blanket on bottom would've been a good call. I'm not convinced that there was a blanket in there because of how quickly she was able to take out one of the cushions because the baby was sat too high up. However she did ensure that the rim on the bucket was cushioned, so hopefully in time they may see this as a potential issue.
- How she was holding the baby horizontally, then placing them into the bucket while having a hold of their neck and more crusially, the airway. It was not the chest being supported from what I could see. If she lost hold of the rear end of the child, then there would be no secondary support to keep the baby safe. The baby's weight would drop, pulling on the developing neck risking substantial injury and also risk the windpipe being crushed by the remaining hold on the baby. This will be from the natural, human instinct to tighten the grip to stop the child from falling to the ground. Just takes one false move in an instant for something which seems extremely fun to turn deadly serious.
I do not believe this woman is abusive and believe that she has a very caring nature which she pool's all her energy to such a beautiful art. I do also believe that she is human and like the rest of us, makes mistakes. Her handling newborns is a very risky job and could face big problems if something were to go wrong. Sometimes it's worth questioning whether a risky method is worth a potential bad outcome.
Whats wrong with laying them down in a cute basket or bed with some decor or a cute hat... this is doing too much😂
Edit: all the people that try to justify this are 🚩🚩
right.
Seriously these people doing too fucking much gadamn.
Baby was comfortable on the forward leaning position, but his feet and lower back parts were all directly on weights and against probably COLD metal as the baby’s body temp was probably much warmer. That seems like it’d piss me off pretty good if I were trying to just feed sleep and hand over a dirty diaper… but at the end of it all? Baby looks like he’s going to have a VERY loving and comfortable upbringing and have the gorgeous photos to prove it later in life. So for those crying child abuse “EAT ONE and have fun in life. You might just enjoy it!” - I said that Sh*t
@@bad_mnky9134 yeah the it was probably cold, but I doubt it was in their for too long for all these people saying rude things and saying it’s child abuse😭 the baby survived and they’re left with what you said, gorgeous photos for life lol. And amazing quote haha
literally
I will never look at photos like those the same ever again. 🥺
Right lol smh
Why?? This video is sped up, this woman is being very gentle
Why? Baby is not being hurt and women is being gentle. The video is sped up. I'm sure it took her a long time to get the photos she wanted to take.
I just said the same thing!!!! Like, I was honestly really sad my daughter never got to do any of these types of baby photos... now I'm like... guess everything you miss out on isn't a loss because... 🤯👀
You can tell that NONE of these comments are parents. 😂 she’s not mishandling this baby at all. And yes chubby babies are adorable and that’s just body shaming. It’s just a fact.
Are you psychic? I wrote a comment saying I don't like this silly idea, and I have kids just under / over 30.....so you are wrong to think that "NONE" are from people who are parents. You cannot possibly know whether someone has kids unless they say so. I personally don't think this baby is being mishandled, but I am against this type of photoshoot because it just seems so stupid....sticking a naked baby in a bucket....why? So cringey
Why is everyone so sensitive- babies at this age are EXTREMELY flexible and this will not hurt them. Besides, she knows what she's doing.
This reminds me of that episode of The Office where Angela gets the baby poster for Christmas and Oscar gets upset -- "It makes me think of the frigid stage mothers who forced the babies into this. This is the opposite of art"
Hahahaha yessss Oscar lol
OMG YESSS
Yes! This one could not be a better example of that!
My photographer was incredibly gentle with our daughter. Then again, we weren’t trying to stuff her in a bucket.
So what.
She being gentle. The video is sped up making it look rough
Okay..
unpopular opinion but the baby seemed fine until it wasn't and they quickly took care of them cutting it out of the video until the baby was okay again and fell asleep. They're professionals. The comments need to chill out.
You born --> struggle starts 💀
‘Casually chokes child’
Not choked but it always looks like that from this point of view
it's not choking.. it helps the photographer to calm down the newborn ang support its neck when newborn babies casually lift its head.. 😅
I honestly regret my newborn photos. They're were the opposite of this though...the photographer swaddled her so tight in so many layers, I'm surprised she didn't suffocate.
I'll never do that again. I can take my own photos and save my baby from being tortured and $500.
I never did photoshoots like this with my kids, but if y’all don’t like this then you would have a heart attack watching the nurses with your baby fresh out the womb. 😂
Some of these comments are WILD! Like, have y’all just never handled babies before? This baby is clearly comfortable. And since so many people didn’t seem to watch the video, there is a ton of cushioning in between the metal lip and the baby. She’s being incredibly gentle with this baby, although babies aren’t nearly as fragile as some of you seem to think they are. There’s nothing wrong with parents wanting newborn pictures. If you don’t have them you just might regret it one day.
I get wanting pictures but just put them in a little bed or a basket with blankets and don’t move them like their action figurines
😂😂😂😂 action figurines
I thought it was a toy with how it was being treated but then it started moving and I was like “OH GOD ITS ALIVE”
I thought the same too oml 💀
Same like OMG toy and then it cried
SAME I WAS LIKE WTF
Same
+1
All this did is give me flashbacks to seeing those old photos of dead people being posed like they were alive
Jesus. I will not be professionally getting photos done with a baby. I want to fight the photographer.
Damn don’t be too harsh on a BABY!?
Babies up to a year are VERY flexible so don’t worry.
@@Unicornlala13 oh ok
The baby is fine lol
You cleary never had a baby before. So you cleary dont understand how important baby pictures are for some people. Babys are flexible, so they are not hurting him.
Girl you sound silly . She handled the baby correctly definitely tell you aren’t a parent
Baby picture would be just as cute in a natural position/setting 🤷♀️
Probably cuter bc it wouldn’t be all fake and posed.
Y'all probably feel uncomfortable because it's fast forwarded, she was actually being pretty gentle.
oh my god why is it so cute, it looked like a doll fjdsfnjafjkadsk
Why in the world would you do that
Take photos for memories?
You cleary never had a baby before. So you cleary dont understand how important baby pictures are for some people. Babys are flexible, so they are not hurting him.
I mean they do this for newborn photoshoots but it kinda looks uncomfortable
@@Meeshilin_Man what memories are you recalling from a photoshoot?
@@Naralarawaralol
Im glad i wasn’t the only one to notice how inconsiderately that little body was being manipulated for some pics! Jeez
You clearly never had a baby before. So you clearly dont understand how important baby pictures are for some people. Babys are flexible, so they are not hurting him.
I have two Babies . I told my black Karen to stay in lol
"Manipulated"? 💀💀 my god get a grip, they're just posing the baby for a picture, he's comfortable and even slept
Yea, I like to see a photographer stuff her into a 40 gallon bucket for some sleepy poses.
what is she supposed to do? tell him to stay in a certain position??
She’s being gentle. Babies will use every force possible to not move. The parents are paying for these pictures and can deal and are dealing with one minute of fussiness. All babies are different. ❤
For these situations it's no uncommon for parents to drug up their baby with infant Tylenol or something so they stay sleepy.
Influencer mums be like:
Feel like some women never grew out of the Anne Geddes Trend in the 90s.
Atleast she had them lay on daddy or mommy for the pics. I saw the documentary on it and it blew my mind!!
😂
That name is a blast from the past. I completely forgot about her. Thanks for the nostalgia, and for reminding me I'm old 😂
This ^
Rusted metal bucket, could have had other photo shoots ☹️
It’s painted to look that way smh
I would cry too 💀🤚🏼
Ive seen some people in the comments like "this is her job" "the baby is comfortable its ok"
LIKE DID THE BABY TELL U THAT- 💀
Imagine allowing a new born baby to sleep in a damn bucket for views
Its for about 30 seconds buddy. No one was harmed.
It’s not for views 🙄 she’s a photographer and ppl have been getting photos of their new born baby for memories since before social media was even a possibility. Also he was literally in it for at most 5 mins 😂
@@apollomommy7364 shut up bruh
@@apollomommy7364 Wow ur really one of those people… lol have the day u deserve
@@deathvvitch lmao imagine thinking bad on someone for not wanting to upset a newborn for a selfish reason 😅 take your own advice lmao
I wud never put my bundle of joy in a cold iron bucket for some pics... Never ..
She clearly showed that the baby would have plenty of fluff and insulation from the bucket but no one said you had to do this either way 🤷🏻♀️
no one cares
@@Sursie_Metzger Some weights, 1 pillow and 1 blanket, so protected👍🏻
@@sexcdoll
@@jsav6058 babies aren’t made of glass, they can take being posed in a bucket for 10 min
People acting like she dipped the baby in gasoline and set him next to a candle
His/her siblings has proof now that he was adopted from dustbin
So glad people in the comments are sharing my sentiment of being disturbed by this
Yup and the people that are justifying this are 🚩🚩🚩
Yeah, it’s obviously not the worst thing in the world but why do you need to bother? Just take natural photos of baby where you don’t need to manhandle them and pose them in weird props and all this.
I'm glad we're all on the same page about how fckd up this is. Literally treating this bby like a rag doll 😖😖I could never
How..? Shes being really delicate with the baby and theres fluff and blankets in the bucket to make sure the baby is comfortable. Taking a few pictures isnt gonna kill the baby.
@@Cheeselover6611
No it’s dangerous, babies are delicate!!! I shouldn’t have to explain this to you! it’s a red flag that you even justify that.🚩
If you watch the video again, the baby had it’s neck moved roughly! these pictures ARE NOT WORTH IT.
Fr. That baby was just tryna sleep, dude.
@@Cheeselover6611 I've seen puppies get better care for a pic than this child.
It was cute...BUT WOULD IT KILL YOU TO BE MORE GENTLE?! i would be literally scared to even move a finger on that baby while it was sleeping 😭
They are gentle
I think this woman never had a kid in her life to grab him like that 💀💀💀
It's in speed up and it's her job bro she knows what she does
It's sad and disturbing to see people so obsessed with social media and garnering attention all the time!
Whatever happened to 'treat your baby gently with love' ?!
She’s literally a baby photographer this is how she’s paid, and as someone who works in pediatrics, she is handling that child perfectly
@@ambibambi1021 Its not about how she's handling the baby ....it's how silly things are being done by parents ...I mean a pic in a bucket?! ...for what?
@@ruchikasharma4808 for memories, are you daft? Many people do baby photoshoots to put in scrapbooks for their kids. It's not always going on social media
@@ruchikasharma4808My parents have baby pictures of me framed on the wall, that is probably what these people are doing or a christmas or birth card
@@annebwood7676 thank you! I’m 24 and I have pics of me as an infant in weird and funny poses because it’s cute and you want the memories of that stage in life because it only lasts a few months
Bro I literally thought that that child was a literal silicone baby and the first time that I watched it through I saw his hand moves and my soul almost left my body because I was like the silicone child is coming to life 💀
Yeah me too 😭
But like the way they were handling the baby tho
Omg fr 😭
@@Silly_littlegoblin gosh she knows what she is doing n if u see the normal version u will know how gently she is handling
@@Rachel-sq8ki jeez chill no need to get upset stop.pls
This was terrifying, as if I needed to be more afraid of babies
I was so excited to do a newborn shoot with my daughter, then when they started posing her, I was so uncomfortable and grossed out that I cancelled the whole thing. They're not dolls.
Damn being mad harsh with him all for some pictures smh he’s not a damn toy
You cleary never had a baby before. So you cleary dont understand how important baby pictures are for some people. Babys are flexible, so they are not hurting him.
This is too much he’s a human I agree with you
@@shanaparrilla978 You sound dumb . One she wasn’t hurting him . Did he cry once or was in discomfort ? The babies are very flexible and you would know this is the same way doctors handles newborns birdbrain
@@almondkissed3794 first of all your rude and mean secondly it’s my opinion I’m entitled to it , like everyone else is . If you don’t like my opinion skip pass my comment but the fact your saying I’m dumb because of my opinion shows are small if a human you are. I pray God blesses your ugly spirit that can have the audacity with your big chest to call me dumb? 😂😂😂 People always trolling
@@bubble1532more important than the comfort of the baby itself? Ngl that sounds kinda selfish to me
Fyi she isn't handling the baby like a doll and grabbing it roughly, she is positioning it in the most humane way possible. Baby heads are the heaviest and at this age the head tends to tip and can factually break a neck, so she is supporting it by holding it from the back. It is not an easy job, just like photographing baby animals. They don't know what is happening. But I do admit it can look very rough if you don't know.
The images looked fully worth it though.
Omg he's so fragile I queezed
A friend of mine is a newborn photographer and she gasped in horror when I showed her this short. For anyone who doesn't know, a worthwhile baby photographer SHOULD NOT pose your baby like this. Worthwhile baby photographers actually take the photos of babies in very safe positions with their parent's hands supporting them and then photoshop out the hands and edit in cute surroundings. She said never in a million years would she have actually put a newborn in a cold hard bucket with weights and especially not with their weight on their chest/ribs while sleeping. That is what disturbed her most. Newborns laying on their stomachs or leaning on their chests while asleep is statistically linked with SIDS because their little bodies are not yet robust enough to handle the physical pressure for long periods and/or duing sleep. That pressure puts strain on their airways and circulation. Newborn babies should never be asleep in a prone or leaning position. Even when they're awake, doctors recommend limiting their tummy time to 3 minute sessions for safety. My friend also expressed concern for the baby's joints because posing the arms the way this photographer has in the video can damage the joints in the wrists and elbows AND resting the baby's weight on their knees and ankles inside a hard bucket atop a hard weight can injure the knee and ankle joints (newborns are still developing their knee caps, too). She mentioned wondering what the thermostat was set to, also, because only a diaper may not be sufficient to keep baby warm enough to be happy and cozy for a photo shoot if the thermostat is set to most adults' cooler preferences. She keeps her studio thermostat set at 70°F and turns on/off strategically placed fans if the baby is being positioned on a surface that absorbs body heat, like a fuzzy blanket. She was appalled that this photographer did not go about this in a safe way, which would have been the parent holding up the baby to see his sweet little face while his neck and body was supported and airways/circulation restricted, and photoshopping in the bucket during editing.
For everyone who commented their discomfort, you should be proud of your instincts. Direct quote from my baby photographer friend: "That baby's parents should sue this photographer. She obviously has not taken any newborn safety training courses and she put that precious baby in danger."
I'm not so worried about how the baby is being manipulated (babies are flexible af) but I'm worried about the rust on the bucket. It only takes a tiny cut for a kid to get tetanus. Like why in the world doesnit have to be a bucket.
It’s painted to look rusted lol
Nah, you've totally gone one further with your "rust" worries 🤣
Rust doesn't cause tetanus. It's a bacteria that causes tetanus, any wound could get infected with it.
@@dejectedsmilez Rust is a very common host for clostridium tetani, and rusty metal is more likely to create a puncture wound, the type of wound most associated with infection. While the spores can be found throughout the environment, especially soil, there are certain circumstances that increase your risk of exposure that can lead to contracting it, rusty metal being one.
@@Ilmksmxo That is a pretty convincing paint job then because you can see the texture in the metal as well.
I would never allow my child to be handled like this.
Just stop the kid is fine she wasn't even hurting him
@@sydneyerickson2068 How do you know the kid was fine? Instead of comforting them though she just went 'take you're binky and let me get my photo.' How would you feel if you were shoved into a bucket?
You do know this was sped up right? The baby's head was supported the whole time.
Then don’t LOL
Plenty of people want baby photos of their kids, and they will pay and allow this, because the person is being safe and knows what they’re doing
There parents are there and they want some baby photos so they go to a professional photographer and they let her do her things to make it look cute and it doesn’t hurt the baby and there showing a tutorial it’s a New born photographer get it right people!!!
I had never disliked a video.....but this deserves one
Same, immediate dislike
@@imjstar why?.. its her job all she’s doing is taking photos
What..why
Y'all are so fuckin weird 😂
I thought that was a doll😅😅
I literally thought she was using a reborn doll by the way she was handling him. It's like a damn prop
SAME. Glad somebody agrees with me. Poor baby =[
Yea until I saw the baby move
@@jekkyfish. i babysit regularly. I can tell what makes the baby/if the baby is uncomfortable
@@Str4wb3rry666 Idk if ur saying the baby is is uncomfortable but from the video baby seems fine, i babysit all the time as well and they dont mind being held like this. It made me feel weird watching tho bc it looks so aggressive sped up😂😂
@@Str4wb3rry666 The baby is too young to get control of its head. Since the video is sped up it may look a bit aggressive. But trust me,the kid wasn't uncomfortable,it would have cryed if that actually wasn't a proper position to hold a baby.
If I saw a photographer doing that to my baby I wd stop him immediatly
Yeah but sadly the mother is allowing this I’m happy the photographer made the baby comfortable to make sure the baby is safe but this is hazardous
ITS THEIR JOB!! And the parents ask for specific props to be used, such as the bucket in this, and other times they give the photographer free range. Stop acting as if the parents didn't know what was going to happen, because they did.
@@ETayy they always make sure the baby is as safe and comfortable as possible
@@alexisforrest2662 that’s literally what I just said 💀
@@alexisforrest2662I never said it wasn’t her job idiot your comments are so pointless i don’t see how this info changes anything
Aww how cute :) ❤
Absolutely terrible!! Omggg!
I swear this was a toy until the baby started to cry, I could never do my child like that, and am not a mother.
Babies cry he wasn’t in any pain or discomfort . It’s fucking pictures relax !! I’m sure you cried to over things as a child . Key word you aren’t a mother
@@almondkissed3794 yes, I am not a mother but yet I know better 🤔
Thought the same too. Jeezos! I am a mother....
She's taking pictures of him chill out
The video is sped up, in reality she’s being extremely gentle with the baby. Jeezus, try pulling your heads out of it, why dontcha! 🤦♀️🤦♀️ Lawd. Some ppl & their unending drama mixed with absolutely ridiculous virtue signaling. SMH.
Yoo i thought it was one of those latex babies
You mean silicone?
It is
Какое то издевательство.
Why would you do this to a baby just for the sake of a silly photo.....what's wrong with the normal type photos, which in my opinion are way better?
I know she was probably gentle af handling the baby but my clumsy ass got anxious so quickly
" Hey bro how do u pose so well"
" oh! i have been doing it since I was 1month !!"
A month? That baby is about a week old!
😊😊😊
Poveri bimbi😢
REMINDER: babies this little still can’t really hold their heads up on their own!!
This honestly pissed off my mama heart.
Exactly!!! Thank you so much!!!
And a thin blanket between his neck and that metal bucket edge, when he can't hold his head up and thus the weight of it would be resting on that edge, ya I'd be crying too
Not to mention being crammed and crushed into a small space on a hard weight, cuz some tiny pillows on one side isn't cushioning squat for his crumpled up little feet and legs against the rest 🙄😒🥺
Yeah but the photographer DEMANDS the pose the parents are paying money, so that matters over anything to do with their baby. The soothers are just there to comfort the baby enough to go back to it's drugged induced state of sleep. Same thing happens with the baby monkey sleeping videos.
I literally thought he was one of those fake realistic babies. Oh my god
Pourquoi elle met le bébé dans un récipient métallique rouillé ?
C'est irresponsable !
Hes mad as hell in that old rusty bucket.
Jesus poor little guy is only one month old treat him with some respect and care! He was an extremely good sport about it and I’m surprised he didn’t cry more. Poor little sweetie 😭 I’m still not over the ultrasound tech being rough with my daughter when I was 16 weeks pregnant to get a picture from the right angle and that was a trained medical professional. I could NEVER let someone treat my child like that especially just for a photo and if they did they would be catching these hands 😤
You're a good mom!
Until he started to cry I seriously thought it was a doll 😳.
Wait he had his hand up inside you moving her around
You realize the parents brought them to the photographer right? So they are there with them.
What did you do in response
Not me thinking he was a living Babydoll then getting spooked when I saw him move-
Try to do that with an adult.. would it be confortable? In my opinion i would not be confortable, so i only can imagine is not comfy for the baby. I never did that with my boys, only pics in ordinary things or places 😊 but hey, each parent makes a choice and taking photos of your kids is a well intencioned and loving gesture, not a bad thing
Rusty bucket check
Tetanus guaranteed
i honestly thought the baby was the kids play toy.
edit: the way she is holding his/her neck.
Ok that was so uncomfortable and disturbing to watch. 😬 My face was literally like this the whole time.
I HATE THESE. i think its stupid and ridiculous to so this with a newborn.
When will people start realizing babies are not dolls
Omggg🥺🥺i was uncomfy the whole time I donno wth this world is changing into..
Зачем такая глупость?
Жесть!
she made him cry
Don't tell me i was the only one who thought it was one of those hella realistic baby dolls i be seeing everywhere
Yeah bc of the way he was being handled I thought he was a reborn at first to 😭
For all the people hating there is a thing called scrolling. Maybe it would be helpful for you. And she is a professional. She knows what she is doing, there was a reason she put a bean on the bottom and side. Watch her other videos and you’ll see how hard she works and how careful she is with newborns…😊
That’s a big newborn
Nah! Cute pics tho, but nah