Finding Out Why Men are Emotionally Damaged through Street Therapy | DESUS & MERO | SHOWTIME

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  • Опубликовано: 9 июн 2022
  • To find out the real reason why "men are trash," we're enlisting the help of show writer and unlicensed not-therapist, Heben Nigatu, to ask the men of New York City what their damage is.
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    DESUS & MERO, the Bronx’s very own, reconnected online in the early days of Twitter, where they unleashed their potent personalities and found themselves kindred spirits.. That led to stints on Complex and MTV, the Bodega Boys podcast, and a daily late-night show on Viceland, developing a feverish following. The quick-witted duo brings a distinct voice to late night, delivering smart and comedic commentary on any and all topics, that keeps audiences buzzing. DESUS & MERO continue to host their Bodega Boys podcast.
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  • @DarkChocolate325
    @DarkChocolate325 2 года назад +323

    Y'all still need to bring on that "I got shot in the face guy", like immediately... 😂

  • @19thHour
    @19thHour 2 года назад +273

    Some of the best segments on this show have been the interviews with the public. We need more of this!

    • @mikeleeFILMS
      @mikeleeFILMS 2 года назад +2

      second that! they’re so good

    • @msbrownsuga
      @msbrownsuga 2 года назад +3

      Yes, yes! They really have a knack with sizing up people, and New Yorkers always have more stories to give.

  • @zandicarter5113
    @zandicarter5113 2 года назад +85

    I could tell he's emotionally unavailable when he said garbage instead of baggage 😆 🤣

    • @youknowwhoyouare2269
      @youknowwhoyouare2269 2 года назад +3

      One time I put two loads of laundry into one bag, took a pic for the gram entitled: my emotional baggage be like

  • @TamariMcKay
    @TamariMcKay 2 года назад +54

    Lol Mero saying that one guy’s an old incel & then he reveals he loves the Phantom of the Opera, a musical about an incel that lives in the Paris Opera 🤣

    • @youknowwhoyouare2269
      @youknowwhoyouare2269 2 года назад +4

      Cry now, cry later
      No laughter😭😭 incels biggest hero is a musical phantomm

  • @DreamcastQ
    @DreamcastQ 2 года назад +109

    Lol we need more segments with Heben

    • @jamesmarie
      @jamesmarie 2 года назад +4

      2nd this, more Haben, PLEASE.

    • @Social_Pugatory
      @Social_Pugatory 2 года назад +1

      Loved the Podcast Another Round with her and Tracy 😂 more of her in front of the camera as well as behind writing.

  • @jester188
    @jester188 2 года назад +39

    He sees Phantom 3-5 times a year, because that's the only time he feels anything. Damn.

  • @plattitude
    @plattitude 2 года назад +218

    I’d watch an entire show of men taking about what they think is wrong with them. Clearly I’ve developed a taste for trauma

    • @cmdchiimeh
      @cmdchiimeh 2 года назад +8

      Please make this, on God. Take my 💰

    • @youknowwhoyouare2269
      @youknowwhoyouare2269 2 года назад +3

      The more you joke about, the longer it plays out. There's angry boys in the comments everyday, what happens when they lose control. Everyone loses in this outcome

  • @therealjm112
    @therealjm112 2 года назад +23

    Bushwick Pablo Escobar got it 😂😂😂😂

  • @user-dj8di9nk5r
    @user-dj8di9nk5r 2 года назад +48

    This needs to be a real show

  • @seerenita
    @seerenita 2 года назад +37

    This needs to be a regular segment.

  • @simanaden4599
    @simanaden4599 2 года назад +23

    “I got shot in the face guy” plot twist took me out!!! 💀💀😂😂😂😂

  • @Jorgemikell
    @Jorgemikell 2 года назад +18

    Desus shouting out his Therapist has me SCREAMING.

  • @MrsTrixieFirecracker
    @MrsTrixieFirecracker 2 года назад +29

    My observations:
    a) I could never have a conversation with them they would figure me out right away
    b) I like "Dark Mero"🤣🤣🤣
    c) Richard has definitely written his own alternate ending to Phantom

  • @cfvasconcellos
    @cfvasconcellos 2 года назад +49

    YEEEEEEER the last Mini Man was the best... yeeeer ... please more of this.. men's mental health needs to be addressed too..love to all women...much healing to all in our new world...yeeeeer love to the 🌎

    • @beeggym666
      @beeggym666 2 года назад +3

      Yes and yes!! Well said

  • @kongming66
    @kongming66 2 года назад +12

    2:13 Damn, Desus 😮

  • @msbrownsuga
    @msbrownsuga 2 года назад +14

    Thrilled to see Heben on the screen!!!

  • @sunshineblue1981
    @sunshineblue1981 2 года назад +37

    Desus and Mero are pretty good at spotting people's emotional damage. Imma call y'all Dr. Bodega boys. When y'all are tired of showbiz start a practice my guys.

  • @maybemablemaples2144
    @maybemablemaples2144 2 года назад +28

    Men take ya asses to therapy 🙏🏾. I swear if you do it right it's totally worth it. Don't be like Phantom of the Opera guy.

    • @__yklim
      @__yklim 2 года назад

      I’ll pass

    • @machobandzsavage281
      @machobandzsavage281 2 года назад

      Cap!!! Scam likely. Real men don't waste money talking about feelings.

    • @nik-at-nite
      @nik-at-nite 2 года назад +11

      @@machobandzsavage281 Nah real men deal with their feelings in a proper, healthy way because they want to evolve

  • @tayojisi
    @tayojisi 2 года назад +11

    the baby at the end was a cute little surprise

  • @RickyJ718
    @RickyJ718 2 года назад +25

    The Heben thirst isn't too crazy in the comments [yet], so let me add: Heben 😍😍

    • @FlyAwayChi
      @FlyAwayChi Год назад

      She's mine bro lol I'm in love with her🥰🥰🥰

  • @Angie_Onaleta
    @Angie_Onaleta 2 года назад +13

    Still waiting on the interview with the "shot in the face guy" I need more from that whoooooole situation. 🤣😂

  • @NoahBility
    @NoahBility 2 года назад +17

    Wait, But Can We Get More Of This Segment?
    If Enough People Ask, I'm Sure They'll Consider

  • @zachsalvatore5175
    @zachsalvatore5175 2 года назад +32

    “When are the Broncos gunna get a real quarterback” lmao sums up his train of thought

    • @vft5593
      @vft5593 2 года назад +2

      I was disappointed in Mero man, they have Russell Wilson 😂

    • @Zom13y
      @Zom13y 2 года назад

      Colorado doesn’t deserve a good team, fans are trash.

    • @youknowwhoyouare2269
      @youknowwhoyouare2269 2 года назад

      @@vft5593 the only Future he can look forward to is raising his step-child

    • @WarriorQueenUnicorn
      @WarriorQueenUnicorn 2 года назад

      @@youknowwhoyouare2269 You are correct, Future is raising many childs and BBs regularly point this out.

    • @Chigz10
      @Chigz10 2 года назад

      @@vft5593 Up until now though

  • @Illstrator2
    @Illstrator2 2 года назад +9

    Desus is smart as he is funny. No joke.

  • @SurfDUI
    @SurfDUI 2 года назад +21

    Where you been Heben. Salute.

  • @MrKINGTAC0
    @MrKINGTAC0 2 года назад +23

    Lol the after credits scene tho…

  • @janbonne
    @janbonne 2 года назад +13

    Heben!!!! We need more of her if she wants to do more yay!

  • @_daddy_fat_sacks_330
    @_daddy_fat_sacks_330 2 года назад +10

    I’m here to start a petition to bring back the bodega boys podcast, The hive is on life-support at the moment. ☠️🗽🌃🏥🤕

  • @Illstrator2
    @Illstrator2 2 года назад +8

    This was the best on location joint since thier trip to the beach

  • @nettw4703
    @nettw4703 2 года назад +8

    “New town new bitch “ 😂😂

  • @kristinnelson-patel442
    @kristinnelson-patel442 2 года назад +6

    I need more of this segment!

  • @shifty220
    @shifty220 2 года назад +11

    Phantom of the Opera ahhaahahah 💀💀💀💀

  • @SpiritSoulSense
    @SpiritSoulSense 2 года назад +5

    More of Heben! I miss her podcast ♥️✨

  • @kevinrosa5422
    @kevinrosa5422 2 года назад +2

    "new town, new b***h n****a wassssup!" made me spit my drink out lmaooooo

  • @deezeedrone
    @deezeedrone 2 года назад +6

    An Ethiopian featuring on my favourite show! I love it!

  • @eloheemstar71
    @eloheemstar71 2 года назад +13

    Heben been fine

  • @SCSilk
    @SCSilk 2 года назад +12

    Yay Heben!

  • @estela.z
    @estela.z 2 года назад +7

    Omg! D&M .... the best

  • @ayeteetv1379
    @ayeteetv1379 2 года назад +7

    Thats the dopest sweater I’ve ever seen. I probably can’t afford it but anyone know how to get it?

    • @youknowwhoyouare2269
      @youknowwhoyouare2269 2 года назад +1

      Someday you'll have sweaters like that in your walk-in closet🧞‍♂️
      Just gonna need a few things from you, but for now sign your name here📝👹

  • @WarriorQueenUnicorn
    @WarriorQueenUnicorn 2 года назад +2

    I'm soothed by your presence Beautiful Benevolent Ballbag Kings! 💋 😘 LOVE the therapy, mental health, men do real talk segments truly deep and mad valuable 🙏

  • @wonton_soup805
    @wonton_soup805 6 месяцев назад

    I’m glad I waited until the end, the baby with their little mustache pacifier is adorable lol

  • @MrLakers92
    @MrLakers92 2 года назад +5

    Wow a habesha on Showtime, we really here

  • @OGeniusTheFirst
    @OGeniusTheFirst 2 года назад +1

    We need more of thisssssss

  • @mpick26
    @mpick26 2 года назад +3

    Yo this needs to be a whole show 😂👏🏿

  • @kayceecee-
    @kayceecee- 2 года назад +18

    Yea .. therapy isn’t all that bad gentleman.. gonna’ end up like my boy Ross over there 😭😭😭

    • @vft5593
      @vft5593 2 года назад

      I never considered going to therapy gas is 6 dollars I can't pay a therapist rn 😂

    • @Dkmo94
      @Dkmo94 2 года назад +5

      @@vft5593 cmon G they got Better Help and Teladoc where there's a will there's a way my g. Your mental health just as important as your physical

    • @youknowwhoyouare2269
      @youknowwhoyouare2269 2 года назад

      @@Dkmo94 he's upset because his fatherfigure lost the election. He's most likely been upset longer than that, but it's a sign of danger if left unchecked

  • @jessicabw
    @jessicabw 2 года назад +7

    This was hilarious.

  • @rswinton83
    @rswinton83 2 года назад +2

    I need the extended version of this!

  • @2012aal
    @2012aal 2 года назад

    Literally the best preview from the show.

  • @candidreamy9685
    @candidreamy9685 2 года назад +2

    Love this new segment. Keep it going 😂

  • @emsee8073
    @emsee8073 2 года назад +1

    more of this please!

  • @sweetcynsation
    @sweetcynsation 2 года назад +3

    Doing the lords work

  • @Theeartalchemist
    @Theeartalchemist 2 года назад

    3:55 When homie started laughing in the background, I lost it. 😂😭

  • @Babygottaeat249
    @Babygottaeat249 2 года назад +2

    OMG THIS IS ART

  • @AbbyEndy
    @AbbyEndy 2 года назад +4

    Heben!!! 💜

  • @moon.mp3201
    @moon.mp3201 2 года назад +13

    Anybody else in the comments care to share their damage?
    The floor is yours.

    • @kongming66
      @kongming66 2 года назад +5

      Narcissistic father, mother also a child of a narcissist with deep anxiety issues, both from different racial and class backgrounds in Latin America/West Indies. Perpetual cycles of codependency and self-identification.
      I just walked through how I'm going to break up with my gf of 3 yrs after living together 10 months because she's probably high-functioning NPD with a therapist I'm struggling to pay. If nobody else wants to put themselves on blast yet, I figured I'd step up while I'm still raw 🤷🏾

    • @kevthepoet
      @kevthepoet 2 года назад +3

      No 🤣😭

    • @youknowwhoyouare2269
      @youknowwhoyouare2269 2 года назад +1

      @@kongming66 our individual & collective struggles w identity also manifests in how we wear our labels as an id to define us- when the real you is in there waiting for you to be revealed

    • @youknowwhoyouare2269
      @youknowwhoyouare2269 2 года назад +1

      @@kongming66 LOVE the anonymity of the internet allowing vulnerability minus any undo anxiety. Perfect space to flex your reflection skills, the more you explore the more you uncover

  • @timtrainsong9398
    @timtrainsong9398 2 года назад +1

    Bushwick Pablo 🤣

  • @wfkkid13
    @wfkkid13 2 года назад +1

    i could watch a lot more of this segment. damn

  • @fiascoson11
    @fiascoson11 2 года назад

    More of this please. This was nice lol

  • @WmJared
    @WmJared 2 года назад +2

    that outro

  • @JessAyye
    @JessAyye 2 года назад +5

    Heben!!! 🏆🏆🏆

  • @mismay360
    @mismay360 2 года назад +3

    I love Heben!!

  • @lisaloki5337
    @lisaloki5337 2 года назад +2

    Is this is real show? It needs to be. And she needs to ask desus and mero. I wanna know thier damage.

  • @msandrews87
    @msandrews87 2 года назад

    Desus shouting out his therapist at 2:22 was kinda sexy lol

  • @Malouco
    @Malouco 2 года назад +1

    I cry every time I ask Alexa if she loves me!!!! 😢
    I NEVER GIVE UP THOUGH 🕺

  • @aizashahid-qureshi3213
    @aizashahid-qureshi3213 2 года назад +3

    I need this guy I know to go on here lol

  • @astheskylarksings
    @astheskylarksings 2 года назад +2

    That was dark yo 🤷‍♂️😂🤦‍♂️🤣🥲

  • @DeLaKleve
    @DeLaKleve 2 года назад +5

    Yo, can I get Heben’s number so I can text her inconsistently because I’m lonely but also emotionally unavailable?

  • @tabjones5163
    @tabjones5163 2 года назад +2

    this was funny. FIVE BAGS OF POPCORN!

  • @ChilliCharlie22
    @ChilliCharlie22 2 года назад +3

    Any Heben sighting >>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>

  • @BVTMVN007
    @BVTMVN007 2 года назад

    This Was A Funny Ass Eps!!

  • @nfranklin997
    @nfranklin997 2 года назад +4

    lol we got Russell Wilson now!!!!!!
    I hope he gets to the super bowl and brings out them super cut braids by Blaire w his queen ciarra &lil future by his side 🎨🎨🎨🎨🎨🎨🎨 AH AH AH AH

    • @youknowwhoyouare2269
      @youknowwhoyouare2269 2 года назад +1

      🤔📝Your laughter is merely a defense mechanism deflecting from internal fear of another losing season, this time with a highpriced qb at the helm. Please sit down, let's talk this through

  • @ahsans5350
    @ahsans5350 2 года назад +5

    Can Desus and Mero be my therapists??

  • @NAConen
    @NAConen 2 года назад

    That Broncos guy is a psychopathic drifter 😆

  • @montague2362
    @montague2362 2 года назад +2

    Lmao is the brand so strong they took shots at their own network?

  • @Weekendwavves
    @Weekendwavves 2 года назад +1

    Kinda wanna start calling baggage garbage now.

  • @NatoJacobs
    @NatoJacobs 2 года назад +1

    last guy was like sadly likeable

  • @bee2072
    @bee2072 2 года назад

    More Heben!!! Pls!

  • @BVTMVN007
    @BVTMVN007 2 года назад

    #DESUSANDMEROWILDNOUT ‼️

  • @joshuaalexanderlynch
    @joshuaalexanderlynch 2 года назад +1

    Yeeeeerrrrrrr

  • @Ho11is2Ho11ywood
    @Ho11is2Ho11ywood 2 года назад

    Last dude looks like Edmund Kemper

  • @latenitecaptain
    @latenitecaptain 2 года назад

    People! People r my damage!

  • @Kobain0
    @Kobain0 2 года назад

    When I go into a new town I go into a new life .. anyone else getting, maybe I wanted serial killer vibes can we pull up a couple of sketches 😂

  • @thegreatyate8832
    @thegreatyate8832 2 года назад

    We’re still waiting for Ramey 🛹

  • @Brazil201
    @Brazil201 2 года назад

    LMAOOO

  • @iliketocomment8144
    @iliketocomment8144 2 года назад +7

    I swear only white people go see The Phantom Of The Opera. Especially more than once is facts. 😂

  • @cdemere
    @cdemere 2 года назад

    more more more

  • @MongoosePreservationSociety
    @MongoosePreservationSociety 2 года назад

    Heben!

  • @ept2
    @ept2 2 года назад

    Last time I cried was when I heard "look like Bushwick Pablo Escobar"

  • @droq7237
    @droq7237 2 года назад +1

    Go Broncos ay ay ay 🤘🏾

    • @youknowwhoyouare2269
      @youknowwhoyouare2269 2 года назад

      Where they going, to a new league?

    • @droq7237
      @droq7237 2 года назад

      @@youknowwhoyouare2269 Nah... same division, same conference, same league, just new CHAMPIONSHIP RINGS

  • @belgianheskey
    @belgianheskey 2 года назад

    Damn this east african beauty

  • @robertmaeurerofficial
    @robertmaeurerofficial 2 года назад +1

    I feel targeted. But also I think part of my damage is that I'm not attached to this goddess Heaven. Dudes can dream

  • @MrQdiddy85
    @MrQdiddy85 2 года назад +1

    Conflict avoidant i.e. I'm a 😺

  • @gajayjay
    @gajayjay 2 года назад +2

    Heben fine fine tho. Hit me up gurl I need some therapy

  • @emartinez7733
    @emartinez7733 2 года назад +1

    serious question. Was Leo a guy?

  • @kerrajohnson3203
    @kerrajohnson3203 2 года назад +1

    Are we sure that first guy was a guy?

  • @fxnction5074
    @fxnction5074 2 года назад

    Finding Out When They are Emotionally Damaged through Street Therapy

  • @andresa1490
    @andresa1490 2 года назад

    Is she a real therapists? She fine af

    • @youknowwhoyouare2269
      @youknowwhoyouare2269 2 года назад +1

      If she's a professional she'd reject you
      Trust me I know from experience 🥺💔
      She said it's "transference", but I wanted to transfer bodily fluids😭🎻

    • @andresa1490
      @andresa1490 2 года назад +1

      @@youknowwhoyouare2269 no she wouldn't no could resist my charm

    • @rustyjames1727
      @rustyjames1727 2 года назад

      ​@@andresa1490 that's the spirit!

  • @janaenae1338
    @janaenae1338 2 года назад

    💋Jf

  • @fakeproductions2820
    @fakeproductions2820 Год назад

    this didn't age well... lol

  • @jordanmiller4186
    @jordanmiller4186 2 года назад

    FOR SURE this bit was not their idea