Bachelor Franchise TEA From Two-Time Contestant

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  • Опубликовано: 6 ноя 2024

Комментарии • 228

  • @nicholeschroeder3040
    @nicholeschroeder3040 5 лет назад +239

    I think it’s fine to date before going on the show but it’s definitely not okay to say I’m coming back to you after I get kicked off the show. The whole premise of the show is to find your husband/wife. If you’re going into it with the idea that you’re just going to have fun and mess around, you shouldn’t be there.

    • @thatgirlinautumn5995
      @thatgirlinautumn5995 5 лет назад +8

      Which makes Peter's situation sooo different

    • @steph322
      @steph322 5 лет назад +9

      The fact that his parents were in on it makes even more crazy. If he wanted to get famous by boosting his music career then he should of went on American idol

    • @taylorgayhart9497
      @taylorgayhart9497 5 лет назад +6

      Nichole Schroeder EXACTLY!!! The difference is that he literally told his gf that he was going lead Hannah on to stay until the top 5! They had plans for her to pick him up at the airport and pick up where they left off. If he was just casually dating her and left for the show and then went back and said “hey it didn’t work out, let’s start dating again” that’s different, but that’s not what happened.

    • @aliciagraham3401
      @aliciagraham3401 5 лет назад

      But what if you’re not a good enough singer to get onto Xfactor or American Idol?! Is it okay then?

    • @emilycatherine8589
      @emilycatherine8589 5 лет назад

      Agreed

  • @Shewas-kathybates
    @Shewas-kathybates 5 лет назад +188

    Am I the only one who thinks he looks exactly like Cam? Because I thought that was him lol. Also, why haven't they sued Reality Steve? Is that not an option? Agree with him on the dating scandals. I don't see people having girl/boyfriends before the show as a big deal at all lmao

    • @Artgeek17
      @Artgeek17 5 лет назад +8

      The ABCamitis is contagious. Soon everyone will be Cam 😱

    • @Veromoi4
      @Veromoi4 5 лет назад +2

      Kathy Bates sammmmeee

    • @heatherbocks
      @heatherbocks 5 лет назад +16

      Yeah he kinda looks like a more handsome Cam

    • @RLjuicygucci1
      @RLjuicygucci1 5 лет назад +2

      They’ve tried to sue Reality Steve

    • @mkmerth
      @mkmerth 5 лет назад +8

      He’s a hotter version of Cam for sure.

  • @pujasangoi8532
    @pujasangoi8532 5 лет назад +165

    Ummm the biggest difference between Jed and Hannah is that Jed is lying about having someone back home while Hannah’s dating life is an open book. This guy in this interview was only sticking up for Jed so much because he felt guilty about doing something similar before going on paradise. Which brings up the point - how many contestants do this shit.

    • @maysummers9557
      @maysummers9557 5 лет назад +20

      Exactly! The contestants know that the lead is dating other people, I mean that's the show. They knew what they were getting themselves into. Whereas, in Hannah's case she didn't know Jed had a girlfriend and they were in a mutual relationship. He hid that from her and that's the difference. This dude's logic is so idiotic! I feel like he either doesn't know the whole story, or he just lacks common sense.

    • @mkmerth
      @mkmerth 5 лет назад +11

      Yep! It’s not a double standard. Jed knows that Hannah is dating other guys. She doesn’t know about Jed’s girlfriend nor does she know that Jed told his girlfriend that they would for sure be together when he was done with the Bachelorette.

    • @JJtxstate
      @JJtxstate 5 лет назад +3

      Good point. I heard Kaitlyn had a boyfriend when she was on Chris' season. Then stands up for Jed. UGH.

    • @YashSharma-gk7fb
      @YashSharma-gk7fb 5 лет назад

      YESSSSSSSSS SOMEONE SAID IT

    • @m.h.1593
      @m.h.1593 5 лет назад +2

      I agree it could be a double standard, but Jed was committed to his girl, told her he would go on the show for fame then ditched her and did not exactly tell Hannah about it. Hannah is dating 25 guys, but that’s all out there-she ain’t hiding anything. Jed led her on and had the audacity to act disgusted towards Luke’s behaviour.

  • @poepoesie6390
    @poepoesie6390 5 лет назад +99

    Jed said he was coming back to his GF though. He said he was using the show for his career. It wasn't in good faith.

  • @slesseps
    @slesseps 5 лет назад +45

    Jed wasn’t “just dating” he was scheming to get on the show for his career, and told his girlfriend that he loved her and would return to her. Then he lies to Hannah left and right- he’s a jerk.

  • @debracarnahan2758
    @debracarnahan2758 5 лет назад +85

    My take on the Jed situation is that he wasn't truthful from the start with Hannah. When she sent the first guy home for having a girlfriend she asked all of the guys if you have a girlfriend please tell me now. Jed never said a word. He could have come clean and let her know what was going on in his life but he never said anything, he just wanted to promote his music career.. Hannah was never given that choice on whether to keep him or not. I know everyone may be dating but he could have at least let Hannah know. You shouldn't start any relationship with a lie..

    • @albataliephillips4271
      @albataliephillips4271 5 лет назад +3

      Yes, very true! Agree with you 100%

    • @dani09eveline
      @dani09eveline 4 года назад

      He did tell her he was originally there for his music career. She ignored that red flag just because he told the truth

  • @srhcp40408
    @srhcp40408 5 лет назад +109

    100% disagree with this guy. One of the requirements of being a contestant on the show is you have to be single. All the contestants know that Hannah is dating other guys and that is what they signed up for, but it's not like Jed told Hannah he was seeing someone else back at home, which makes him very duplicitous. Plus, he explicitly came on the show to promote his doomed music career.
    Jed sucks and this guy is wrong.

    • @44travelbug
      @44travelbug 5 лет назад +5

      yes! it was so annoying how much he wanted/tried to get airtime while playing/singing. I mean he took Hannah to the studio on his hometown!

    • @elizabethjulia20
      @elizabethjulia20 5 лет назад +2

      Agree and disagree. I think I agree with the guy's general point of Jed doesn't deserve AS MUCH HATE as he's getting. Like all things considered with the situation he hasn't fallen from some pedestal, he very well could have seen the show something superficial (like many do) and then had that change along the way. Which is legitimately what he told Hannah when he admitted he came for his music and that completely changed. If he had no feelings for her he never would have admitted to ever being there for his career, that's just trying to be honest. In saying all that... I don't like him very much lol. He signed a contract to be single, like you said, and it's super duplicitous for his relationship to be secret while Hannah is being transparent. Also super douchy to go on with wrong intentions in the first place, saying he only wanted to benefit his career. But he admitted that, what still pisses me off is that he admitted it and then promoted his music almost more after admitting??????? How on earth do you expect us to believe your bullshit if you keep going with it? Ugh. SO yea, I see the guy's point but ultimately still not a huge Jed fan

  • @RJ-mw2gw
    @RJ-mw2gw 5 лет назад +8

    Great interview! Seriously, well thought out questions and very informative answers. Thank you for sharing. You guys are the best!

  • @passengerprincesspodcast
    @passengerprincesspodcast 5 лет назад +17

    I picked a good time to check RUclips! Been looking forward to this one!

  • @lisa__rcs
    @lisa__rcs 5 лет назад +1

    You guys deserve way more subscribers. I’ve watched other bachelor recap shows, but they’re so hard to watch because everyone talks over each other, there’s theatrics, and the hosts often try to be the center of attention. I love the way you guys produce these vids and how calmly and respectfully you interact with the guests. I could def listen to this as a podcast too.

    • @WhitandRy
      @WhitandRy  5 лет назад

      Lisa R. Callahan What a kind and meaningful compliment. Thanks so much, Lisa!

  • @belindacarter6872
    @belindacarter6872 5 лет назад +25

    The problems with Jed, from what we’ve been told are many - he keeps the information secret fromHannah, knowing another person was eliminated for same, his family seems to know this - the toast in which his mom sternly toasts to living by your TRUTH! he made BIG overtures to Haley abt how he’d be thinking of her the whole time, loved her, etc.... and THEN he GHOSTED her - that sucks! A person of integrity had many times to course correct - we need the show to be over so we can learn the whole story - but he shows himself already as not the top choice for the man you’d want to marry. And Hannah seems to like her men best with a big side of controversy & drama. The final rose episode will be a stinker. 💡

  • @annafultz5626
    @annafultz5626 5 лет назад +14

    Thank you so much for this! I really hope she's right about Mike being the next Bachelor. I know she didn't say he was going to be I know she said she wants him to be and I hope that comes true. So far I think he is very deserving unless any tea spills on him

  • @lasloksaja
    @lasloksaja 5 лет назад +3

    This was so good ladies! Very insightful and mind-opening. I liked hearing Dan's perspective of Jed and Hannah but I won't make a final opinion until we hear from both of them and see how the show ends. Thank you for the candidness :)

  • @projectkj7643
    @projectkj7643 5 лет назад +10

    I like his take on the Jed situation. Agree or not, it's a good point.
    For me, it's been one of my favorite seasons. It's all about entertainment and this was an entertaining season! Sho-nuff!

  • @mslouise479
    @mslouise479 4 года назад +1

    I'm really surprised at how nice Dan really is. He's obviously very intelligent and articulate too. Great video 👍

  • @romancenovelshawaii3863
    @romancenovelshawaii3863 5 лет назад +3

    Helpful info to understand "Behind the Scenes" ... pre and post season. ( I too applied for Survivor (3x) so it was a highlight to see a cast member on yr channel. What a surprise to see "this union" of my two favorite reality shows. " I have watched them both on their seasons... Cute couple. Loved the honesty. Mahalo.

  • @ashelyluo6663
    @ashelyluo6663 5 лет назад +4

    Great questions and answers guys! Thanks so much to you both and Dan for doing this

  • @jasmin1549
    @jasmin1549 5 лет назад +4

    Such a good interview! Thank you for the inside scoop 😃

  • @cecin7042
    @cecin7042 5 лет назад +7

    This was an amazing interview. Thank you for asking my question about the contract.
    P.s: you guys look so pretty.

  • @vikuciic
    @vikuciic 5 лет назад +2

    Absolutely loved this! thank You for the insight - so excited to get to know who the next bachelor is and what Final Rose brings ;)

  • @erikop817
    @erikop817 5 лет назад +1

    Bravo! I loved this interview with interesting Behind the Scenes perspective. Thank you!

  • @lynnehenry
    @lynnehenry 5 лет назад +14

    On the double standards part, the issue is not dating people Perhaps but lying about it or withholding that info, about making a 'deal to return to a girlfriend' a contestant had prior to casting.

  • @KD-qk6lb
    @KD-qk6lb 5 лет назад +16

    Jed having a girlfriend prior to the show is a sad normality. The bigger issue here(at least for me) is that he cheated on Hayley numerous times even though he was supposedly “in love with her”, one of which she didn’t even find out about until she went on Reality Steve’s podcast. And for the people that say “maybe he fell in love with Hannah”, his post-show activities were pretty bad for someone who is either heartbroken or engaged.

    • @RLjuicygucci1
      @RLjuicygucci1 5 лет назад +3

      KD Exactly! Can’t claim you fell in love with Hannah after what he was up to post-filming.

    • @JKnight1316
      @JKnight1316 5 лет назад +1

      why what has he done post show?

    • @KD-qk6lb
      @KD-qk6lb 5 лет назад +4

      JKnight1316 there have been numerous reports on separate occasions where he was being very flirtatious at bars, trying to get people’s numbers and hook up later, even some inappropriate touching without consent. There were also some reports he was doing this at the CMAs which Hannah also attended. Reddit has a lot of information if you want to check it out, but it’s full of spoilers.

  • @awwwkitteh
    @awwwkitteh 5 лет назад +10

    It's okay to Date before going on the Bachelor, but not okay to continue that relationship while on the show. You go on the show with the intention of getting married. Jed didn't have any intentions of getting married - he just wanted a platform for his music. I admit that Jed fooled me early on.. esp when he was so nonchalant when he caught hannah and Luke P making out. I thought what a mature person, but turns out he just didn't care. Who knows if he cares now, but I'm glad his ex came out publicly with the truth because if he didn't win, he would go back to her. No one deserves to be personally attacked but I do think opinions are allowed to be shared publicly on twitter and other public platforms

  • @radinabambina
    @radinabambina 5 лет назад +12

    I disagree with Dan’s take on Jed. Jed didn’t break up with his gf before the show. Hannah is dating multiple guys but breaks up with them until the end. 🤷🏻‍♀️

  • @jennyhoff1022
    @jennyhoff1022 5 лет назад +8

    I don't think the fact that Jed was dating someone prior is a big deal - I'm sure the vast majority of people come on the show for fame/influencer status/a good time. However, to Hannah that bit of information is a big deal, considering she yelled at a guy on the first night and threw him off the show for the very same offense. Jed saw all this go down and even when Hannah said "If anyone else here has a girlfriend back home, tell me now," Jed didn't say a word. He didn't even take that opportunity to croon out a song about his torn heart. So, in that case, it was pretty deceitful. She made it very clear she wouldn't tolerate a situation like that (I think the guy she threw off dumped his girlfriend the day before coming on the show - Jed didn't even dump his girlfriend!) It's naive to think any of these people come on purely for the chance to find love - competing with 24 other people for one person is probably the least successful way to do that - but you should at least be honest if directly asked. If he didn't say anything that night because he was still in the mode of free publicity then he should have at least told her on their one on one when he confessed he initially came on the show to promote his career. That would have been a good time to also mention he had been dating someone who he thought he cared for but since arriving he had fallen head over heels for Hannah. He might have gotten booted but he would have at least then given Hannah the choice. As Khalid Hosseini wrote in A Thousand Splendid Suns, “There is only one sin and that is theft... when you tell a lie, you steal someone's right to the truth."

    • @englishgoesnuts
      @englishgoesnuts 5 лет назад

      Jenny H brilliantly said! I totally agree!

    • @christianone6611
      @christianone6611 5 лет назад

      I will add to Khalid... When you lie, you are stealing another's time. They may not choose to be with you if they knew the truth.

  • @jennifer24fields
    @jennifer24fields 5 лет назад +2

    Thank you for posting this interview. I really liked his take about Jed. It was also super interesting to hear that there is a psychologist on site, and it sounds as if she is really invested in the well being of the contestants - at least when they are about to leave the show. Maybe she could pull a couple of them aside for some chats during the show - I think a few of them could use some therapy (ahem, Luke). So, UnREAL was right about the onsite therapist. P.S. I am a new subscriber! You two remind me of me and my sister, who is three years younger. We're also from the South (Texas). Fun fact: she's pregnant, too! She's having a C-section on Aug 12th. Congratulations on your upcoming newborn!

  • @farniceh9090
    @farniceh9090 5 лет назад +28

    Great interview. But I disagree with him about the reality Steve. Yes he may get some pictures and infos during filming from random people, but he watches the episodes , like the full episode, couple of days before airing. And give min by min spoilers couple of days before. So it’s more than leaking. He spices up the whole show tho. He spreads rumors and then says, oops false information and the correct one is this. So people already started to watch the show through the lens of that ending, then he changes that and people having hard time believing or changing their lens so they are more eager to watch even when they might know what will happen. I strongly believe that he is a part of the game. Intentionally.

    • @Nikki30288
      @Nikki30288 5 лет назад +3

      I agree. That makes complete sense...and it does get people talking

    • @angelaraber
      @angelaraber 5 лет назад +3

      I don’t follow reality steve but I end up getting a lot of spoilers from comments. It’s ruining every season for me cause I know who wins in the end when the show’s just barely started!

  • @mollyj6168
    @mollyj6168 5 лет назад +10

    I think the real problem is that Jed never told Hannah that he had a gf back home, so if he is the one she picks at the end, how the heck is she supposed to get past that? Basically he was lying to her the whole time. It really speaks to his character. I guess he was really hoping that his gf would never come forward. Oops.

  • @nataliacruz6354
    @nataliacruz6354 5 лет назад +3

    This was so interesting, i appreciate your hustle

  • @lizdocabo
    @lizdocabo 5 лет назад +44

    Sorry but Jed’s situation is not OK! I mean poor girl back home waiting for her boyfriend to come back x_x

    • @vidyabk1083
      @vidyabk1083 5 лет назад +10

      True Jed's and Hannah's situation is very different... but Jed's gf is not innocent either... she was ok with him using Hannah to get fame and karma caught up to her now so I'm sorry but she can't play the victim now .. she reaped what she agreed to sow 🤷‍♀️

    • @gisellemelendez4792
      @gisellemelendez4792 5 лет назад +2

      Vidya Bk yes! You’re right.

    • @57andstillkicking
      @57andstillkicking 5 лет назад +3

      Vidya Bk
      It doesn’t matter about Jed’s girlfriend. She is not the one who went on the show and constantly deceived Hannah to her face.

    • @clg6373
      @clg6373 5 лет назад

      @@57andstillkicking but she knew he was going on the show to lie to some girl. IMO, she decided to do this for her own career as well as to get back at him. Not blaming her at all, I'd probably do the same but there's no way she is an innocent in all this.

    • @57andstillkicking
      @57andstillkicking 5 лет назад

      CL G
      What I mean is the issue is not Jed’s girlfriend or her motivations. The issue is that Jed deliberately went on the show to deceive Hannah. It wasn’t that he broke up with a girlfriend to go on the show. He planned to go on the show for a music platform, planned to act instead of be real on the show, and planned to come back to this girlfriend.

  • @luza87
    @luza87 5 лет назад +2

    Great interview ladies! Always look forward to your videos!

  • @projectkj7643
    @projectkj7643 5 лет назад +28

    I wonder whose payroll Reality Steve is on...ABC's? It's a thought.

  • @justmemadison
    @justmemadison 5 лет назад +4

    Here's the difference...Jed lied to the girl he was dating and he lied to Hannah (as far as we know); however, Hannah didn't lie to anyone and those 30 guys all signed up to date her simultaneously. Jed had a choice to participate in the charade, but Hannah didn't have a choice -- she was lied to. Now, there are plenty of couples that make it through a whole lot worse -- love can be a powerful thing. Only time will tell how they truly feel about each other.

  • @lar.8168
    @lar.8168 5 лет назад +7

    Seems like a nice guy, but he totally failed to explain why what Jed did is ok. It's really not ok, he's still a piece of work

  • @mkmerth
    @mkmerth 5 лет назад +3

    When he teases that the last episode is going to be fireworks it makes me wonder if there will be some post production filming. If she does pick Jed I wonder if they film their conversation about Hailey. That would be interesting to watch.

  • @Call.Me.Brianna
    @Call.Me.Brianna 5 лет назад +3

    My mind is blown. I’m actually rewatching all the past seasons of survivor again and I’m currently watching Natalie’s season. I thought she looked familar! 🤯

  • @kcc-karenschroniccorner9432
    @kcc-karenschroniccorner9432 4 года назад +1

    Regarding dating somehow at home before coming on the show, I think it all comes down to Intent, respect and expectation.

  • @karolineflaate6060
    @karolineflaate6060 5 лет назад +28

    I just realised who Ry reminds me off ! DESIREE !

  • @emilyestes14
    @emilyestes14 5 лет назад +4

    So my question is why hasn't therapist pegged Luke P as a problem? I mean certainly that would raise some red flags for the therapist--It did for me. I am in shock that they actually let Luke stay. I mean someone put the mic pack on him and gave him a camera to vlog with. I'm just blown away lol. Kinda makes me annoyed with the show, but I still love it!

    • @kaileim970
      @kaileim970 5 лет назад +1

      You would think a MMPI would uncover his narcissistic tendencies and his rigid outlook.

    • @englishgoesnuts
      @englishgoesnuts 5 лет назад

      Emily Estes omg isn’t that obvious? For ratings of course! Higher ratings mean more money. And you can’t make money if nothing happens. The crazier the contestants the easier it is to make a good show

    • @emilyestes14
      @emilyestes14 5 лет назад +1

      @@englishgoesnuts Yes it is obvious. But that is absolutely ridiculous

  • @celinachen7486
    @celinachen7486 5 лет назад +1

    Such a great interview! This guy has the best analogies hahaha

  • @shirleyc792
    @shirleyc792 5 лет назад +6

    That's not the same thing. Hannah is dating more than one person only because that's literally the format of the show. It's like trying to punch people in the boxing ring - it's OK to do that because that's literally the point and all parties agree to it with full understanding of the situation. It's NOT OK to punch people in real life. Jed is cheating on his girlfriend in real life, and he is lying to Hannah.

    • @WhitandRy
      @WhitandRy  5 лет назад +1

      Love the boxing analogy!

  • @RJ-mw2gw
    @RJ-mw2gw 5 лет назад +1

    Hey, if it’s not too much trouble, please keep us posted on the new baby shenanigans! I wish you the best during this exciting time!

    • @WhitandRy
      @WhitandRy  5 лет назад +1

      R J Awwww, I will! 💞

  • @beulahhillier8974
    @beulahhillier8974 5 лет назад +2

    Great interview and a eye opener

  • @christinesirgant1087
    @christinesirgant1087 5 лет назад +4

    The dating may not be a big deal as we don’t know both sides BUT the fact Jed said he was on show for his career is a huge NO NO! This is not about careers it’s about matchmaking

  • @littleflower9536
    @littleflower9536 5 лет назад +4

    Mike for bachelor because he’s in his 30s! He just seems so much more mature than the others.

  • @haleytruslow7200
    @haleytruslow7200 5 лет назад +1

    I love his perspective on the Jed and Peter with girlfriends situation. Very enlightening.

  • @mkmerth
    @mkmerth 5 лет назад +1

    I love this channel. You guys rock!

  • @gloriakoch4764
    @gloriakoch4764 5 лет назад

    I think Paradise is better than either Bachelor or Bachelorette. Love this interview. So many things come to light!

  • @mrsunmoon2010
    @mrsunmoon2010 5 лет назад +1

    A lot of good information on this interview, thanks for your hard work. I found the therapist part very interesting.

  • @siegno
    @siegno 5 лет назад

    You guys are so cool..i watch the show just to see your comments after😊 keep it up.

  • @reemabdulhussein2756
    @reemabdulhussein2756 5 лет назад +1

    You guys should talk about who you think and who you want to be the next bachelor!

  • @PMMcDaniel
    @PMMcDaniel 5 лет назад +4

    If you are already dating, there is no reason for you to go on this show.This is for people who have been unlucky in finding someone to complete their life. If you have no problem finding and dating people....Stay home and carry on.

  • @Skeptique
    @Skeptique 5 лет назад +6

    Totally agree with him about the Jed situation. I don't really care for Jed and don't think he's a particularly good match for Hannah, but that's a different story. Of course if you find out the guy you're dating kind of screwed over his last girlfriend it's a red flag. But it is not necessarily a dealbreaker. Every relationship is different as is patently obvious from watching this show.

  • @mailnatalie
    @mailnatalie 5 лет назад +17

    Hey, what about when Luke held up his phone with the definition of a psycho (or whatever it was) during the show. Was that Luke..well, someone help up their phone.

    • @Breezybitess
      @Breezybitess 5 лет назад +8

      Natalie DeSantis . it was Luke but a producer gave him their phone so he can show the definition to the cameras

  • @cooperhilinsky6361
    @cooperhilinsky6361 5 лет назад +1

    Unless I missed it, did you tell us how you got Dan to do the interview?
    And are Mikey and Natalie siblings? If so I’m surprised it wasn’t more publicized.
    As usual a great vid- bring us more juicy BTS chat. I live for this stuff.

    • @WhitandRy
      @WhitandRy  5 лет назад

      Thanks for watching, Cooper! Natalie and Mikey are not related at all. We got this interview b/c Whit and Natalie are friends, and Dan was kind enough to agree to speak with us. xxo!

  • @bedriddenbeauty6504
    @bedriddenbeauty6504 5 лет назад

    I would love to hear about inside info on Bachelor Pad!

  • @megwerner9022
    @megwerner9022 5 лет назад +9

    I agree with this guy’s perspective on Jed- it makes sense that he’d date before the show. To me, it also makes sense that he’d keep his relationship even during the show considering that he went on the show as a platform for his music. What doesn’t make sense is that he would go on the bachelorette to promote his music instead of a more music based show that doesn’t involve dating another person...
    but I still think Tyler should win lol

    • @angelaraber
      @angelaraber 5 лет назад

      On a music based show he’d have serious competition and probably lose pretty quick. The bachelorette has given him lots of exposure... for what it’s worth.

    • @megwerner9022
      @megwerner9022 5 лет назад +1

      Angela Raber oh yeah that makes a lot of sense.

  • @Nikki30288
    @Nikki30288 5 лет назад +15

    The bachelor/bachelorette sound a lot like Stockholm syndrome and some secret cult. 🙄 This opinion is not paid for but only my own.
    P.S. I love this content! These questions I have been so curious about...and it is refreshing to hear from someone who has experienced it first hand. I wonder if the men and women have different experiences. It seems obvious they would 🙄 but it would be interesting to hear from a girls perspective and experience.
    Thank you for doing this !

    • @angelaraber
      @angelaraber 5 лет назад +3

      It sounds an awful lot like brain washing. No wonder there’s so much drama!

    • @Nikki30288
      @Nikki30288 5 лет назад +2

      @@angelaraber they do this in the military too. They strip everything and rebuild their souls. It is crazy. Of course the bachelor is a whole other playing field... Seems too complicated lol

    • @angelaraber
      @angelaraber 5 лет назад +1

      Nikki D No tv, wifi, phone, not even a f’n book! Everyone focused on their feelings and competing for the same person. I’m amazed, especially with the men, that there isn’t more violence. I bet those producers have to do a lot of refereeing!

  • @MsRdrdrd
    @MsRdrdrd 5 лет назад +1

    This might be the best season of the bachelorette, not worst!!

  • @kmd21804
    @kmd21804 5 лет назад +2

    You guys are the best channel 🤩🤩

  • @sunshinegirl6854
    @sunshinegirl6854 5 лет назад +1

    thank you! this was awesome! oooo they should release a book from the psychiatrist perspective. He is right about the double standard of dating.

  • @shayswayze6344
    @shayswayze6344 5 лет назад +8

    Awe, our little Natalie looks beautiful and Dan is so intelligent not to mention hot! Sending them good wishes for their future.

  • @cheryllauve
    @cheryllauve 5 лет назад +9

    Great interview with one exception...the word "like". Seriously "bang your head against the wall" annoying.

    • @annafultz5626
      @annafultz5626 5 лет назад +2

      Yasss! I didnt realize how much Peter says that until the other night!

    • @projectkj7643
      @projectkj7643 5 лет назад

      Like...totally! For sure, for sure.

  • @sarahholmes3289
    @sarahholmes3289 5 лет назад +8

    He kind of looks like cam from Hannah’s season

  • @PuppyLovePetSpa
    @PuppyLovePetSpa 5 лет назад +3

    Wow I love love your hair and makeup ladies

    • @PuppyLovePetSpa
      @PuppyLovePetSpa 5 лет назад

      Ladies I have an idea I would like to send you. Do you have email i can use

  • @Call.Me.Brianna
    @Call.Me.Brianna 5 лет назад +1

    oooo this was so frickin interesting !!

  • @sarasorensen2650
    @sarasorensen2650 5 лет назад +2

    Awe, Dan! Des was my very favorite bachelorette!

  • @a_few_pointers
    @a_few_pointers 5 лет назад +1

    Finally he said what I was thinking about the Jed thing

  • @ssshampoo
    @ssshampoo 5 лет назад +13

    Kind of sounds like this show is emotionally manipulated and abusing people

    • @ariellove5295
      @ariellove5295 5 лет назад

      Which is why they have the therapist, to make sure everyone leaves the show... not crazy because of it.

    • @englishgoesnuts
      @englishgoesnuts 5 лет назад +2

      sshampoo you just realizing it? Sure enough shrink is there to help producers manipulate the contestants without them knowing

  • @Inzanti
    @Inzanti 5 лет назад +1

    As most of these comments have explained, Dan's take on Jed is dead wrong.

  • @deverxdeverx2501
    @deverxdeverx2501 5 лет назад +2

    I totally agree with Dan.

    • @sarahkelly3234
      @sarahkelly3234 5 лет назад

      I love you really is meanless on that show. The show is unreleastic.

  • @rachelgonzalez2968
    @rachelgonzalez2968 5 лет назад +1

    best insight ever

  • @shastafog2516
    @shastafog2516 5 лет назад +3

    Luke and his family watched and loved Hannah from the Colton Bachelor episode. He fell in love with her when she read her Bible on the show. He loved her then. ❤️🧡💛💚

  • @andrealauren4424
    @andrealauren4424 5 лет назад +1

    Dan's perspective is an interesting take. I can sorta understand it..maybe the lead will have to ask if they are dating anyone at home so that they know the whole story and not get blindsided.
    But this leads me to another question or thought; Everybody says that when you sign up for this show, you KNOW that the lead may have sex with the other contestants as well. Am I the only one that would have a problem with that? (Besides Luke),...b/c I'm not even religious and I would be hurt and maybe even a deal breaker if I found out my guy had sex with someone else 2 weeks before our engagement. I'm on the wrong side of 50, so maybe I'm old fashioned..?

  • @RLjuicygucci1
    @RLjuicygucci1 5 лет назад +1

    What season did he say this will be like? The audio on my phone is going crazy.

    • @MsBeautylover04
      @MsBeautylover04 5 лет назад +1

      Kate Farris arie’s meaning whoever “wins” on the final episode doesn’t actually end up with her, someone else does

  • @Krisarooooo
    @Krisarooooo 5 лет назад +5

    Awesome interview!! I really like his take on Jed...lightbulb head...🤣😂 I personally still don't like him...lol...but is he really that bad of a guy? I don't think so...

  • @mc10333
    @mc10333 5 лет назад

    This guy dated one of the most iconic people in bachelor nation, Ashley S, and you didn’t ask any questions about that??! Howww!

  • @courtneyrains3531
    @courtneyrains3531 5 лет назад +1

    Lol, I thought he was Cam when he first popped up!

  • @annamarie2849
    @annamarie2849 5 лет назад

    The difference is he was not honest and then later after being engaged he had 2 women in his apartment...and threw them in the pool. Okay , I can’t believe the hosts did not fry him that it was okay for what Jed did. The difference is that he went on the show for his career and promised to come back to her and had not intention to have a relationship with Hannah. This guy does not know all the facts and I am disappointed that the hosts did not inform him of this and just said, “interesting “....

    • @WhitandRy
      @WhitandRy  5 лет назад +1

      Anna Marie Thanks for the feedback! The interview was done three weeks before the information came out that Jed had women at his apartment. But still, we try to let the interviewee express his or her opinions without judgement from us. Thanks for your input, seriously!

    • @annamarie2849
      @annamarie2849 5 лет назад

      Whit & Ry Thank you for the response... I just found your channel and I will definitely be watching for bachelor! Y’all are hilarious and your Mom is super cute and I love her takes on situations!😊

  • @KyrasLife
    @KyrasLife 5 лет назад +2

    Okay the end of this video....wow. I feel like shes going to pick jed and switch to tyler which I hope is true! Like tyler has been defending her on Twitter all the time

    • @englishgoesnuts
      @englishgoesnuts 5 лет назад +1

      Rainy Sundays that’s what I’m praying for!

    • @KyrasLife
      @KyrasLife 5 лет назад

      @@englishgoesnuts same ! I really hope that's what will happen if she choses jed. I dont think peter has a chance with hannah so I feel like it's not him.

  • @lynnehenry
    @lynnehenry 5 лет назад +3

    Hey wasn't it one of you who said it takes 8 seconds for a guy to fall in love compared to a girl :) so why does it then seem odd to you according to that stat that Luke said he loved Hannah in 48 hours or less. Just asking 😋 Is it cuz he seems to be everyone's fav punching bag?!

    • @WhitandRy
      @WhitandRy  5 лет назад +3

      The stat is a silly one because it's a scientific study on how long a man's gaze needs to rest on a woman for him to "fall in love." But if we're really talking about Luke's likelihood of falling in love with Hannah within 48 hours, we don't buy it, not because he's everyone's punching bag, but because he hadn't spent nearly enough one-on-one time to get to know her. But in his (and scientists') defense, perhaps his 8 second gaze convinced him. 🤷‍♀️ Thanks for the comment!

    • @lynnehenry
      @lynnehenry 5 лет назад

      Whit & Ry he he 😂 I agree the stat seems silly surely.. and probably who knows if it was indeed one of those uncanny/ rare 'love at first sight' things that happened for Luke or from Hannah for Luke.. I mean doesn't Hannah also say at their dinner date that Luke was closest to her for a 'love at first sight' possibility. :) What Luke also says at some point..if I recall right ..is he came to this show after having been drawn to her while she was on the Bachelor ..and thought also that Hannah professing her Christian( ofcourse there can be multiple Christianities just like feminism can be of different kinds too :) ) faith.. meant something was common between them that they shared.. he seems to say that drew him to her or he was drawn to her hearing her profess her faith and came to the bachelorette. 🤔 In a real world sense perhaps yes I'd agree with you love may not happen in 48 hours, but ya who knows right. :) he he 🤷‍♀️☺️ if Cupid did something and 8 sec magic worked?!😋😋😋
      Thankyou too for commenting back and sharing your views. :)))
      I love how at some point one of you sang in that disgusting way Jed sings... sometime back..😂That was hilarious! & All the best to you both and hello to the baby that's on the way earth-side. :))🎈🦋

    • @englishgoesnuts
      @englishgoesnuts 5 лет назад +1

      Whit & Ry but he didn’t say he loved her tho! I’m not a fan of his and I’m not defending his behavior but it’s fair to point out that he said I’m STARTING to fall in love. I’m a girl and scientifically I need more time but it happened to me once when I fell for a guy in like 5 min😉🤷🏼‍♀️

  • @marindabekker8491
    @marindabekker8491 5 лет назад +1

    Next bachelor - Tylor - please

  • @snehasebastian9743
    @snehasebastian9743 5 лет назад +11

    Huh. They had to take a psychoanalysis test to qualify. So guess who’s not a psychopath?

    • @heidil851
      @heidil851 5 лет назад +4

      Psychopaths are good t.v.... they probably just want to make sure there's not too many of them XD

    • @jennifercooper5115
      @jennifercooper5115 5 лет назад +1

      There we go again. No differentiation between a sociopath and a psychopath. It's time the public stopped making this mistake.

  • @taurus1647
    @taurus1647 5 лет назад +2

    He looks like Cam and he kinda seems like Cam, too...eery

  • @truthseeker2139
    @truthseeker2139 5 лет назад +1

    This was interesting. I think they have made Jed out to be worse than he is, it's part of the cesspool, that's why there is drama, I watch the show simply for entertainment, coz it's loaded with so much bs that it's hilarious, in the end u hope they play the game with dignity but man the bachelorette or bachelor is given so much power and it can get abused, I couldn't think of anything worse than sleeping with someone knowing they just been dipping in someone else's pool the night b4, so ur soul is gana feel things u didnt think it wud because of that, its gotta mess with ya, and be very confusing to ur inner being. Best season ever was Sean's, picking Katherine, when people really are in it for the right reasons, Sean used his discernment throughout the process. Hannah is also only young and confessing to believe in God but her discerment was way off at times and part of being a christian u mature in that area through hardship, she is a bit naive and doesn't really live biblically because it's not about whether u do something and Jesus still loves you, he doesn't disown you or stop loving you because you had sex, you just arent living biblical guidelines, thats different than love. Jesus still loves u coz he loves his fathers creation bottom line, even the birds that declared the windmill scene twice Jesus loves them too 🦜😅 its His creation. Anyways as for Luke, he is a baby Christian still young, shouting and having outbursts, been built up in the surroundings of loved ones and friends & probably never been through hardship or corrected, he threw his weight around, felt entitled coz he was always told he is worth more than gold, which can be really enabling and cause delusion when you are placed in the real world in a situation like the bachelorette coz he literally believed what he said. And he lacked alot of things but wisdom was the main component, he thought his moral stance was hers also, he had expectations based on his own revelations of God that weren't hers that caused him to control the situation when he didnt see it unravelling the way he thought God had "told" him, what he didnt realise was that through his own humanistic immaturities he wasnt actually hearing correctly or "if" he was hearing he wasnt letting it unfold without him interfering out of fear, so Hannah was correct in stating it's a pride issue coz he couldn't see how what he was doing was thinking higher of himself than he ought. These are just human immaturities and lack of getting ur ass kicked by life really 😅 so all in all Luke will grow & mature just like Hannah will too. The criticism is good for Luke, he shud take it on the chim and stop defending himself or explain himself & just own his shizz and realise that the heart is deceitfully wicked who can know it and when u realise that humility comes. IMHO I think Luke wud make a great RL Woody out of Toy Story - Just saying 😂🤣😅🦜🤙🏼

  • @mirandasummerset
    @mirandasummerset 5 лет назад +1

    How do people not realize how fake reality TV is?! Lol

  • @imscanon
    @imscanon 5 лет назад +1

    Oh wow, I remember her from Survivor. Only season I watched. LOL I've never felt what Jed did was so tragic as portrayed. Dating is the time to change your mind and the end isn't always pretty. You really aren't committed until you're engaged and then you owe some serious conversation face to face to break up. You can also still love someone and not be IN love with them anymore. Granted, Jed's a douche and not a talented musician/singer so I don't see how this would help his career in any way but badly, but I wouldn't fault him for leaving a girl behind, who he told he was going on the show, so she should understand that there's a good risk he won't come back to her. That's on her if she didn't understand that. If he actually loved her, he wouldn't have gone. No one in the history of the show has gotten a music career from it, the opposite in fact has happened. So, anyone who thinks it will happen is an idiot. Try American Idol. The only career that has come from this show is Instagram Hawker of a huge variety of products and the occasional segment host or blogger. You ain't gonna become the next Garth Brooks on this show. LOL I like Nick Viall's RUclips show for the most part though, except it's a bit too long and lagging and obvs Jade and Tanner make a great living from social media, but still, social media is the option and that's now what Jed was shooting for. Man can barely string a thought together, so what is he thinking? I'm sure he regrets it all now.

  • @bedriddenbeauty6504
    @bedriddenbeauty6504 5 лет назад

    So basically they had to know Luke P has some kind of personality disorder, ie sociopathic narcissism...cause no untrained person, couldn't see he doesn't have actual empathy. He is so religious, because it gives him a moral guide, he doesn't have naturally. He wasn't fighting for love, he was fighting for control over every situation.
    *fun way to weed out a guy like Luke, play Cards Against Humanity with them. They can't answer with something funny, and will always pick the card that seems to fit as just a logical answer. Ps. They HATE it when you point it out, so be careful. 😘

  • @sisterkate10
    @sisterkate10 5 лет назад +3

    This guy looks like Cam with his beard.lol

  • @angelaharvey1167
    @angelaharvey1167 5 лет назад +1

    Very interesting!!

  • @ashleybarloweNC
    @ashleybarloweNC 5 лет назад +1

    Whit & Ry, how are y’all getting these awesome interviews? Are ppl just reaching out or do y’all have an “in”? 🤷🏻‍♀️
    Btw, loved this! Before long y’all are gonna blow up w/ subscribers. Please remember me when that time comes! 🤣

    • @WhitandRy
      @WhitandRy  5 лет назад +1

      Ashley Barlowe We’ll never quit you! 💞

    • @ashleybarloweNC
      @ashleybarloweNC 5 лет назад

      Whit & Ry 🤣👍🏼

  • @dinaboop
    @dinaboop 5 лет назад +1

    Did Kaitlyn and Shawn get sued that time they spoiled the ending of their season by posting a snapchat of them in bed together before their season was over?

  • @gulc04
    @gulc04 5 лет назад +1

    My issue is that Jed is a liar. He can date whoever he wants just like Hannah was. The difference is that he was not remotely honest with Hannah. She clearly had an issue with men having relationships back home while dating her as evidenced by how angry she was at Scott on night one. Jed did not give Hannah the choice to decide whether she was okay with the situation and to decide whether he was a person with integrity. How can she fairly evaluate his intentions and what kind of a guy he is without him at least being honest about what he had going on back home, especially without the benefit of talking to his and her friends, seeing him in real life, etc. He also should have been honest with Haley - "I'm going on the show for exposure. We should really take a break because I can't guarantee what my feelings will be about Hannah and I don't want to lie to her or leave with you expectations I may not be able to meet." Jed is a self-centered jerk.

  • @lemonvernon
    @lemonvernon 5 лет назад +2

    Dan kinda looks like Cam

  • @sogiki
    @sogiki 4 года назад

    He had me until he said “sawLL it”

  • @sarahkelly3234
    @sarahkelly3234 5 лет назад +1

    Is Dan and Nattlie together?

    • @WhitandRy
      @WhitandRy  5 лет назад

      sarah kelly Yes, they’re still together!

  • @tristarsayumwe7749
    @tristarsayumwe7749 5 лет назад

    runner up already means 2nd and than you say second runner up it makes people have to think about cuz your adding 2 things that mean 2nd together.

  • @tylersmith5333
    @tylersmith5333 5 лет назад +1

    it is jeds girlfriends fault aswell it her fault for letting him do this

  • @reneerunyan3583
    @reneerunyan3583 5 лет назад +2

    Unbelievable post, what about the baby?

    • @WhitandRy
      @WhitandRy  5 лет назад +4

      This baby is apparently very comfy. Hopefully he's not waiting so he can upstage finale night for Ry and me!