Seriously, all the fighting and general teen-drama-nonsense I was like "yeah this would be bad in real life but it's so clearly not real life." When he slams his hand on the car and she freezes, that was too close to real life.
If that was his motivation it would have saved this terrible movie, at least then the lovey dovey portrayal of their relationship would make sense since it’s seen through Elle’s rose colored glasses
Tbh majority of the unsubs in criminal minds are good looking men. It speaks volumes that we tend to disregard that good looking men can also be monsters and assaulters, and be abusive bastards.
I think lee wasn’t jealous of his brother. I think he was trying to protect her from his short tempered abusive older brother. The scene when she gets a bruised and lee thinks his brother did it kinda sums that up.
Arlene Paul I think he still could have been jealous and have that be a little bit of a plot point, but it would have to be because of a “I’m jealous because everyone pays attention to him and likes him, but he’s a terrible person, what the hell” kind of way. But nnnnnope! I feel like this over all could have been good, but they missed the glaring opportunity to make it a critique on stories with borderline abusive guys (which sucks, ‘cause I was really starting to think that that’s what it was, especially when her friend became worried about her)
if lee being so protective of elle was because you know... the brother is scarY then thats valid but it was become of some bullshit rules. Also the whole fact that when elle had a cut and lee accused his brother of hurting her shows alot
That would make a lot of sense and make him a fairly good character but let's remember that the people who wrote the movie surely never thought that far.
@Julie Kavanagh honestly I think it just comes from inexperience. You really cant blame fiction because when it comes down to it. Young teens just dont know any better. Whether a young teen reads this type of stuff or not they're still valuable to be taken advantage of. It's just plain ignorance.
@@prowlandsasuke I get what you mean, but I think in place of personal experience teenagers use media as kind of a window into what to expect. For example, I'm a teenager and I know this behaviour is toxic, and I think it's partially because I've always been taught to be fairly skeptical of other people and because (depending on where you look) the internet likes to talk about and call out toxic relationships/behaviour. I do however think you're right that a lot of teens or kids who romanticize unhealthy relationships probably do because they haven't been shown what healthy relationships look like.
@@prowlandsasuke Thing is, we do get influenced by the world around us, by friends, family and media as well. We internalized a lot from them and create beliefs that led us into making decisions.
That "get in the car" scene was a giant red flag. Like, out of context that scene could fit in a movie about a woman trying to escape her abusive hushand.
ikr, honestly tho, i dont understand how she was able to get in the car after that, i would have been so scared i would have tried to ran away or something.
yeah being in an abusive relationship, i literally got triggered the first time watching it and had to turn it off. like girl if you dont go and keep running home
OMG I remember getting mine. I developed early and grew boobs slowly to a B by 5th grade, had those until 8th grade when mid-year they blew up to a DD! It hurt SO bad! I had red stretch marks. I was embarrassed, boys bothered me, some people thought I stuffed my bra... ‘‘twas awkward times for me. Eventually they became DDD and I’m more than willing to hand out all of those D’s and settle into a C for those in need of a cup size lol 😂 I was hoping they would shrink after breastfeeding my babies, but nope. No luck. I have a rare Primary Immunodeficiency so I cannot have reduction surgery. I’m stuck with them.
i honestly think that's the most realistic teenage thing in the movie. a lot of girls aren't taught about these things and the moment a guy gives them attention, they disregard his disrespect because society Has Been promoting the boys will be boys mentality.
@@stefanaular3178 you are right but why does no one else in the movie find that concerning? Like her dad could have told her that no-personal-boundaries-ass-grab-guy is not really boyfriend material and that he's concerned about the whole thing. Again where are the adults in this movie? If someone had done that at my school there would have been a lot more reproductions by the way
Or even wrap a school approved sweater/sweatshirt around your waist to cover your butt??? I went to catholic school and we had both. Totally would’ve worked
8:50 and then you also realize that eventually he takes his anger out on furniture, then his parents, then getting into fights with strangers, then eventually taking his anger out on you
Honestly, adding to her point at the end of the video- not only should we get to 'boys try to fix their toxic behavior in films', we could do the baby step of getting filmmakers to *stop portraying that toxic behavior as sexy and romantic*? Like they're all here saying "oh, some people are just broken and messed up, I'm being realistic"- but for why are you trying to make that into #relationship goals for someone's Pinterest board? It just bugs me so much that they act as though they're being 'real' and 'serious' in dealing with the flaws of real humans, and yet they're just like "you don't understand, he screams at her and hits the car bc he loves her :)" like that isn't encouraging people to stay in abusive relationships.
Morley Agreed. The difference is in the tone and audience the movie is intended for. If the same kind of trope was in a drama intended for adult audiences and presented with nuance then it would be ok. But this is a romantic teen movie that is intended for teens and meant to be feel-good. I don’t buy the “ThAts ReAl LiFe” excuse. Save that for Oscar bait.
I always get so annoyed when people say "you were asking for it" when you wear something a little bit more sexy. It's like, excuse me, I like my little black dress and the one time in my life I do my make up makes me feel. a little bit more confident, but I did not consent or even remotely liked it when that boy in the club grabbed my ass and I don't feel bad for slapping his arm so bad that he got a bruise the next day
And their defense is “you shouldn’t wear stuff like that, guys have no self control” like I kid u not my brother said I couldn’t wear an off shoulder shirt (that wasn’t even revealing in the slightest except for my shoulders of course) because it tempts guys to kiss your neck. Like excuse me? It’s not my fault little boys who people consider men due to their age didn’t learn self control!
like I dunno about America, but where I live there wasn't really popular people but everyone was except for the few who didnt play sports or go out to parties etc but none of us were ever bullied for it?? we all got along and the most "popular" people were usually the ones everyone kind of hated since they bitched about everyone else and were not good friends to people? but it was easier to just ignore them etc?
ironically the guy who plays noah also plays nate in euphoria. the characters are pretty much the same ironically but at least on euphoria they don't portray it as cute or romantic.
not only are these movies bad for teen girls, they’re bad for teen boys! when you think about it, a lot of the bad stuff in these movies are exactly what teen boys are looking for, many times sexually. all the butt stuff, for example. then there’s the immediate forgiving of the guy who sexually harassed the girl just because he says sorry. there’s the girl “standing up for herself” by being sexual entertainment for all the boys in their bathroom. the whole dominating (often times abusive) thing that these movies make look attractive can be really harmful to teen boys who want to be in a relationship.
This is so true!! It's excusing violent and gross behavior. Plus that guy who kept taking pictures throughout the film never has to suffer consequences, which just teaches teen boys they can take creepy pics and get away with it
In one university in my country,there are a lot of cases of girls panties being stolen or someone took videos of them showering but usually the punishment for the criminal is a bit too casual to me,like doing volunteer work and a fine is not enough.There was a guy who also get away with molest despite doing it to more than 10 woman but he was let off the hook just because he do very well academically
Plot convenience, no sane girl would go to school dressed like that and no sane friend would let her go like that, they just wanted to show her butt on the screen.
With a change of director and music, that scene could have been a really cool Turning Point in a better movie. Almost could be a liar revealed feel to the scene where this is the moment when the main character realizes that the protective-but-sweet one is her best friend not the violent older brother. This could have gone into an interesting exploration of the intricate psychological and sociological forces placed on best friend as the brother of a formerly abusive person who is outwardly on the mend.
My least favorite thing about teen romances is sex. The idea that instead of "these ppl are a couple and they love each other and have build a bond, connection, and relationship. So now they will have sex." Its always "these ppl had sex. So therefore, they are a couple and you have to assume there's love and trust between then because sex obviously"
Right like it's bad enough that adult movie relationships are like this but I dont think teen relationships should be like this in movies unless it's a true story or related to the whole theme of the movie
"he might me lowkey abusive" more like he might be highkey abusive, when he slammed the car like that it terrified me wtf????? glad i didnt watch this movie myself omfg
also regarding the whole idea of "taming the beast" more often than not with these beasts they actually CANNOT be tamed, especially by a ~female love interest~, because these beasts aren't only abusive, but also prideful as hell with their ~masculinity~ and all their "WHAT!!! A WOMAN!!!! DARES!!!!!! TELL ME!!!!! WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!" real life really is nowhere near these horrible teen movies,,,,,,,,,,,,, this kind of behaviour becoming widespread through media normalises something that most definitely SHOULDN'T be normal,,,,, i sincerely wish people would stop funding these horrible plots and catering them to ANYBODY and instead fund and promote more empowering plots... you can be both romantic and realistic without sacrificing one or the other......
I know right! Like when he slammed the car I was immediately reminded of an ex I had who when I broke up with him (because he was emotionally abusive) he did exactly that, he slammed his fist into the hood of his car and I was like yEeT
The OMG girls weren’t even wearing uniforms. Elle could’ve just worn non-uniform pants and explained the situation or gotten a note from her parents. My car is barely on the road because of all these plot-holes 🥵
They were wearing uniforms. They added accessories and a jackets. I think that it was a choice between pants, skirts, and shorts. Plus, they could probably do whatever they want because maybe they were the richest students in the school.
I actually never done this, and I've been read "dark" stories on Wattpad since 2015. If anything similar to that, I would read "victim leaves abuser in one way or another only to find their true love however so long later." Idk if it's just me, but "abuser turned lover" stories are so damn... Ugh to me! Now, don't get me wrong, everyone can read whatever they want for whatever reason, but this is just my opinion, lol!
@@solarwings1132 m e t o o. i hate those stories so damn much. Like i really wanna read stories on wattpad but i can't will myself to read any abusive/toxic partner stories unless the girl can actually leave and find someone better (which never happens anyway because writers have the expectation that the girl is simply an object to be possessed over). Sorry im going off lol
It always pissed me off that instead of just wearing black jeans or something else she thought wearing the skirt from some pervs Catholic schoolgirl wet dream would be a logical choice.
Kendall said this movie was made by 55 year old men so they probably legit do have Catholic schoolgirl fantasizes. Only a pervy guy would write that in a movie 🤣🤣🤣
@@sbaxter3252 Yeah, this girl is supposed to be a rich teenage girl and of course a rich teenage girl like Blair Waldorf would totallyyy let this embarrassing situation happen to her in school. 😂😂😂
I know I'll sound bad for this but that was _actually_ asking for it or at very least horribly misinformed. No logical reason aside from ''''plot'''' would anyone with a head ever logically chose that stripper length skirt and think no one would notice! In a school FULL OF PEOPLE or public in general. And the fact that another student and not a teacher with back-up back-ups (since they liked that joke (?) or something) had to stop actual sexual harassment. These stupid movies!
I was so confused when she put her small skirt. Why didn’t she just not go to school if she didn’t have any decent pants at her house. Or at least saw how she looked in the skirt or wore a jacket around it.
Mack The Child and it wasn't just the skirt scene, there's also when she had paint on and took off her shirt and then when she woke up in the guy's house with no pants lol like it was really just so over the top smh
I've noticed actually a lot of Wattpad stories do that. they set up the main character as normal and plain but force "sexy incidents" to always happen around her and her crush to somehow show us that she's in fact super hot and the crush gets turned on or some shit. it disturbs me to be honest that so many authors (which are obviously young girls) think that a legit way to get ur crush to notice u is to take off ur clothes whenever he's around
crispy exactly like the main character always describes herself as plain girl, and then in the crush's pov he keeps gushing over how hot she is and how much she turns him on it also perpetuates the mentality that girls shouldn't think they're beautiful until a guy tells them, self confidence is not something for women 🙄
"if i cant have you, no one can" attitude is so disgusting wth. it isnt even fangirl or praise worthy. what do they see in these that make them think "yes thats cute"???
And maybe her best friend the entire time was just trying to protect her and when he said that the reason he didn't want her to date his brother was basically because he was a possessive little freak, he was lying having been threatened by his brother. And he has genuine fear of him as he had suffered years of abuse, physical and emotional. When he set his sights on his friend, he knew he couldn't stop him, so he had to stop *her* somehow. When she told him he had to accept her and his' relationship, the best friend knew it was too late and that she'd have to see for herself what he was like. Also, the best friend continues to ignore her in the second movie because actually, the whole time, he wasn't giving her the cold shoulder, his brother was threatening to hurt her. The movie ends with him going to jail and the main character remains single at the end, because she needs to take time after the relationship instead of rebounding and the best friend remains in a healthy relationship with that other girl, finding solace for his years of abuse in the support of those he cares about and in therapy.
It's really odd to me, because it looks like the movie legit has straight up red flags, no sugar coating them. That "get in the car" freaked me out, and I've never been in any kind of abusive relationship, so I can only imagine what it was like for others who have. What with the brother as well, it looks like there might be enough to full on have a secret story underneath, about what Elle's rose tinted glasses don't catch, and I find that absolutely fascinating in a movie like this. Like, it just seems so blatant, I can't imagine any sequel not drawing attention to this.
I petition for this playlist to be an educational series because IT IS. The amount of toxic and abusive romantic shit I've learnt to recognise over the entirety of this playlist is astounding and a little horrifying to be very honest. Cheers to Kennie helping us recognise all of this
also when noah said “wearing something like that, you’re asking for it” that reminded me of when my middle school had lessons on sexual assault, and this one kid said “it’s ok to catcall a girl, cuz if she’s wearing a short shirt or a crop top, she obviously wants that!” it was so icky
I mean, IMO, if you know of a chick who's actively "trying to get it", and she wears clothes like that, then it's understandable. But, if you see a random chick, someone that you don't even know, walking about with anything considered "sexual" and you say shit like that, you deserve a slap on the face. Because A) You don't know them, so shit like that ain't okay, and B) You're a weirdo. Plain and simple.
As someone who doesn’t have to go out half naked wearing clubbing attire aka insta boutiques and is 24 it can be done I mean come one onlyfans pages all the tiktok thots with the aheago faves it’s leading to other shot y’all will understand when your older I guess but yeah I’m plenty sexy haha 😂
I feel like maybe 5-10 years in the future, Noah might be abusive. He’s so violent towards everyone, especially the scene where he hit the car. Like sir, your violent and aggressive tendencies are a little sus 👀👀
Not even that. The guy is playing 18. The was already emotionally abusive. First live in girlfriend would probably be withing the 5 years after graduating. Once a girl lives with him it's only a matter of time.
Millieteez yeah if it was only him hitting the guy who smacked her ass then I wouldn’t be so put off by it... but acting like he owns her and hitting the car.. 😬😬😬 screams ‘ probably gonna be physically abusive to you in the futuuurre’
Liked he'd kill her and their kids if she threatens to leave because of the guys controlling and Abusive behavior has taken a toll on the poor girl.... Yeah I see it.
"You have zero experience with guys. Wearing a skirt like that is asking for it." What the actual HECK??? I had forgotten that comment was even in this! This movie has to have been written by 53 year old men who think a comment like that is okay for young women to hear. I am very concerned that movies like these are what young people are watching these days. Also, Noah ain't cute. Like at all 😂
@Candace Wingfield It wasn't a serious line . . . . It was played off as some kind of self-aware joke seeing as the guy immediately afterwards denigrates that kind of thinking as sexist.
@@courtney9865 Ah, I see what you are saying. I understand that he realized that what he had said was fudged up. I just don't like the fact that he made the "joke" in the first place.
"Is this what privilege looks like? Just wasting acrylic paint for whimsy?" Ahahahahaha girl I don't know why your video popped up in my feed but you are hilarious
I'm sorry but Robert Pattinson was amazing in twilight. He was really super creepy. He said he was channeling a creepy serial killer and I really got that vibe from him so he did it wonderfully. He actually did it so well that people assumed he was actually cringy like that IRL.
No- no, you’ve got a point. He does give me convincing serial killer vibes. But I don’t want to sit down and watch a full-length movie about some girl falling in love with that
When that guy screamed "get in the car Elle" I immediately got vibes of an abusive/toxic relationship and thought please get away from him as fast as possible
When the two brothers started fighting on the front lawn, in that rich ass neighborhood, I was straight up like "whew chile, the ghetto. These hoodlums!" lmfao
If I remembered correctly, Noah was like "Im going to take you to my secret spot" and it was the freakin Hollywood sign....shit pissed me off but so glad I wasn't the only one that questioned that.
I love how you talk about this problematic situations in movies and how they can affect younger audiences. I wish I had someone to point that out to me when I was 13 and dreaming of having a relationship like Edward's and Bella's
I'm sorry. That's honestly awful. I understand how a situation like that can be triggering and traumatic. I hope you're okay now and that you've built up the courage to be able to stand up to someone or at leat run away if they do that again.
Completely agree with you on the whole "love confessions in public places" thing, and I've experienced this and felt pressured into relationships because the dudes decided to confess in front of a bunch of close friends. Hard to reject someone when everyone is rooting for you to accept... 🤷🏻♀️🤔
Dude, I'd be the one to say no if I didn't like the guy. Hell, I've done it before! I don't care whose around, no one's gonna pressure me into anything. It's not right to agree to be in a relationship with someone if you don't feel the same way they do... It'll just hurt the both of you in the long run anyway. He might be upset and embarrassed but hey, it's for the best. Better to be in a little pain now than to suffer for an extended period of time, like ripping off a bandaid.
@@neonecko1876 I 100% agree if a guy I was not attracted to did a love confession to me in public then he's going to get *rejected* by me in public LOL 😂😂😂
Nah, you're definitely not jaded about the public confessions of love thing. I have threatened every boyfriend I've ever had that if he ever propose to me in public I would kill him. Because I feel like you can't say anything but yes if they're trying to ask you in public, where people can see. I don't appreciate the pressure or the manipulation...maybe we're both jaded lol.
If anyone would ever do that to me I would just say no and leave, no matter what. Same if anyone would ever ask my parents for my hand, like it's not cute to ask my parents if they will "let" me be married to someone, I don't get how that's supposed to be cute at all.
@@Tessa_Gr My dad straight-up said that if anyone asked for his permission to marry me he'd immediately say no. He raised me to be strong and independent, and anyone who thinks that my dad has a say in my love life doesn't deserve me. I love my dad.
dude like that guy who proposed during an ed sheeran live performance ( it's in the channel "heart") and ed went and stopped and made everyone shut up to see what she said , and everyone in the comments like " ow that so romantic" and i was horrified because i can think of anything that could add more pressure for her than that, my only hope is that it was planned , as in that the couple talked it and agreed on doing that so she was not ambushed by surprise with a proposal. but even so,look , ed is a great artist and he seems like very nice person...but to stop the performance for a moment and put focus on the couple...unless it was all staged to the point he was in it too, don't do that without knowing that couple or if the girl wants to say yes...i can't think of a worse pressure than the singer in a concert putting the spotlight on my answer to a surprise public proposal...
When I developed boobs I didn’t realize it, so I didn’t wear a bra, but I wore these (completely see-thru) plain white t-shirts everyday. It was apparently so bad that a bunch of concerned girls invited me over to a sleepover seemingly only to give me a “you need to start wearing a bra” intervention. 😭🤦🏻♀️
It's soooo much better. Like Peter isn't an asshole and Lara Jean is running naked. It's a " we will pretend to date but end up falling in love" cliche but it's good.
I absolutely hated this movie. The people who made this dumpster fire could have redeemed theirselves if they aknowledged how shitty Noah was as a character. Just because a guy is attractive doesn't mean that they should get a free pass for taking away a women's agency.
I’m 5’2” and my boyfriend is 6’2” and the height difference can be awkward sometimes, my neck usually hurts when I look up at him and when he wants to put his head on my shoulder he has to practically bend in half. Solution: We sit down and then it’s all good. 🤷🏻♀️
I'm under 5 feet, and when I was in high school my boyfriend at the time was like 6'4, so yeah, that was a thing. I tell people it's not hard to find someone taller than me. That aside, I do love tall guys. So, I'm guilty of that.
I felt I'm 4'11 and I've dated really tall guys and the thing I hate about it Is that people assume I'm their little sister or something before they think I'm his girlfriend 🤣🤣
@@stephaniebarehand1715 the ex I mentioned in high school that was over 6' also looked older than me, despite being younger. I have a baby face so it doesn't help. One time we were messing around outside and this guy thought my ex was an adult attempting to kidnap a child. So yeah...
I physically flinched and started tearing up when he slammed his fist on the car bonnet. What scared me even more was how complicit she was after he said please afterwards, as if we're supposed to forgive him for how easily he got angry and how often he is physically violent.
Are we gonna talk about the fact that she could've pulled that skirt way lower than what it was and solved the original problem? Because she totally could've pulled that skirt way lower than what it was and solved the original problem.
I agree with that "taming the beast" thing, it can be harmful for women who feel like its their responsibility. But it can ALSO be harmful to men! It enforces this idea that men need to have a women to be "fixed" and that if they aren't fixed by a women that they can't be fixed, and that can be very harmful for everyone involved :(
"what happened to broke teenagers!!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 the question Hollywood will never answer "nursing her back to health"... 😂😂😂😂😂😂 you're so dramatic girl, I love you! I'd hate "public" love confessions... OMG, like my guy!
this movie could've been so much greater if they had ended it with her breaking up with him, a discussion with lee, and realising she does not need any boy controlling her life.
That is why k-dramas are superior because they go through the entire show building their relationship and then there’s a good 50% chance of them doing the nastys. 😂
Neither do I have the need to "fix" someone, nurse them back to mental health and/or help them to become a well adjusted member of society but according to pop culture that actually means that I am abnormal and not at all a regular woman
That “get in the car Elle!!” was like, terrifying. I would’ve been so terrified if someone shouted that at me and slammed their hand on their car. I probs would’ve ran, like, that’s some red flags
When I was younger, I didn't realize how toxic wattpad was till recently. Like I've seen books that romanticize arranged marriage, rape. Wattpad needs to set some rules and limits.
@@r.a.oo.4039 For me, I always took them with a grain of salt. I never took them to heart. Even at a young age, I knew it was stereotypical. Somehow they entertained me. But I wouldn't apply it to real life
Even when i got boobs trust me no one noticed or cared and school shirts would never actually show off the shape and maybe its a canada things but guys were pretty respectful
Megan mainguy it’s a Canada thing 🙄 has hated and had to resort to violence to stop guys from touching me. Till I moved to the “low class” school then people were respectful. Those richer schools from my experience tend to be more sexist and sexual harassment is okay
A boy asked me if they were socks when I got them. He then asked me to prove they weren't socks. He was my crush but I still said no. We were like 13 or something so I guess it was innocent
I think you would love A Walk to Remember. I love how the protagonist is this classic Bad Boy™️ who meets the classic Good Christian Girl™️ works on himself because she inspires him. She doesn’t even get with him until he starts working himself. Not the best movie in the world, but still a lovely romance. 😊
That “get in the car Elle” was scary to me. Like the first time I watched the movie I was like “you better run”
that actually triggered me i almost cried and had to take a break from the movie
Seriously, all the fighting and general teen-drama-nonsense I was like "yeah this would be bad in real life but it's so clearly not real life."
When he slams his hand on the car and she freezes, that was too close to real life.
I would’ve ran. I probably wouldn’t have made it far (look at him) but i would’ve RAN
#youindangergirl
That shit scared me
I feel like Lees motivation being to protect her from abuse would be a much better motivation than insecurities
Moon Child I know this is unrelated but I rlly love your pfp🥰✨
@@marshmallow927 thank you!!
Agreed!
I love your pfp. That movie and Johnny Depp was my childhood.
If that was his motivation it would have saved this terrible movie, at least then the lovey dovey portrayal of their relationship would make sense since it’s seen through Elle’s rose colored glasses
Kennie, the woman who gets more and more angry at movies as days pass.
She gonna have anger issues
Right she gonna need somebody to talk to
@@Gnomereginam anger issues? Lol.
This is one of those 'if he were ugly this would be an episode of Criminal Minds' movies 🥴
This needs more likes. So true.
funny thing is in criminal minds Reid does talk about that
Yes, it would
love this comment! and yeah 100% agreed, the shallowness of some ppl i don't get it
Tbh majority of the unsubs in criminal minds are good looking men. It speaks volumes that we tend to disregard that good looking men can also be monsters and assaulters, and be abusive bastards.
I think lee wasn’t jealous of his brother. I think he was trying to protect her from his short tempered abusive older brother. The scene when she gets a bruised and lee thinks his brother did it kinda sums that up.
Arlene Paul
I think he still could have been jealous and have that be a little bit of a plot point, but it would have to be because of a “I’m jealous because everyone pays attention to him and likes him, but he’s a terrible person, what the hell” kind of way. But nnnnnope!
I feel like this over all could have been good, but they missed the glaring opportunity to make it a critique on stories with borderline abusive guys (which sucks, ‘cause I was really starting to think that that’s what it was, especially when her friend became worried about her)
I dont think there was any depth to the character since its wattpad fic
if lee being so protective of elle was because you know... the brother is scarY then thats valid but it was become of some bullshit rules. Also the whole fact that when elle had a cut and lee accused his brother of hurting her shows alot
We almost have the same name lol
That would make a lot of sense and make him a fairly good character but let's remember that the people who wrote the movie surely never thought that far.
Wow you could make a scarf from all the red flags he was giving her.
A scarf? More like a whole set of blanket and pillows.
You could make the nations flag of the U.R.A (United Republic of Abusers.)
A scarf? You could make bedsheets for every room in the house and still have cloth left over to make curtains and a couple of dresses.
You can make knitted sweaters for every homeless person in America with those red flags 😩
Girl you could make a sail for a ship with them
“I’m supposed to get scoliosis just cause I’m trying to smash” Kskshsdjsiakshyssusjsjsj KENNIE
A guy version of Kendall would be such a savage to short girls 🤣
The short skirt was such a fanfic cliche 🤮
@Hunter X You sweet summer child.
Frickin gacha life weirdos.....
There is a difference between being protective and being possessive. I feel like teenage girls seem to confuse the two lol.
not only teens tho
tru that teens get it mistaken but i think they get it mistaken because of movies like this glorifying abusive/toxic people and relationships
@Julie Kavanagh honestly I think it just comes from inexperience. You really cant blame fiction because when it comes down to it. Young teens just dont know any better. Whether a young teen reads this type of stuff or not they're still valuable to be taken advantage of. It's just plain ignorance.
@@prowlandsasuke I get what you mean, but I think in place of personal experience teenagers use media as kind of a window into what to expect. For example, I'm a teenager and I know this behaviour is toxic, and I think it's partially because I've always been taught to be fairly skeptical of other people and because (depending on where you look) the internet likes to talk about and call out toxic relationships/behaviour. I do however think you're right that a lot of teens or kids who romanticize unhealthy relationships probably do because they haven't been shown what healthy relationships look like.
@@prowlandsasuke Thing is, we do get influenced by the world around us, by friends, family and media as well. We internalized a lot from them and create beliefs that led us into making decisions.
That "get in the car" scene was a giant red flag.
Like, out of context that scene could fit in a movie about a woman trying to escape her abusive hushand.
It's terrifying either way.
that sounds SO abusive i would have kicked him in the balls-
ikr, honestly tho, i dont understand how she was able to get in the car after that, i would have been so scared i would have tried to ran away or something.
@joseph guillory What a BS. "wouldn't that make u the bad guy" - NO. Defending yourself from an abuser does not make you "the bad guy".
@@jasmink3841 bangchan!!!! :D
When he hit the car I physically flinched. That’s a major sign that he’s abusive
Not to mention that Elle did too.
yeah being in an abusive relationship, i literally got triggered the first time watching it and had to turn it off. like girl if you dont go and keep running home
Oh my gosh me too :(
@@josiealm i hope ur okay!
@@littlefreckles555 thank you! i am no longer with him so it is relieving but also just trying to unlearn this
I dont remember "getting" boobs because nature told me "you ain't gon have none" and that was the end of it 😭
Lmaooooooo, meeeee
OMG I remember getting mine. I developed early and grew boobs slowly to a B by 5th grade, had those until 8th grade when mid-year they blew up to a DD! It hurt SO bad! I had red stretch marks. I was embarrassed, boys bothered me, some people thought I stuffed my bra... ‘‘twas awkward times for me. Eventually they became DDD and I’m more than willing to hand out all of those D’s and settle into a C for those in need of a cup size lol 😂 I was hoping they would shrink after breastfeeding my babies, but nope. No luck. I have a rare Primary Immunodeficiency so I cannot have reduction surgery. I’m stuck with them.
Oh, I would trade for some butt though. It appears I missed that line and got in the boobs line 3 or more times.
@@maximumeffort78 some would say you are lucky. I'm still 15, and nature is still telling me I ain't gonna have nothing.
@@briannamarie134 im 17 almost 18 and nature told me none for you. i am sad leetle stick.
When Elle went on a date with the guy who sexually assaulted her I lost all respect for the movie 🤷🏻♀️
I lost all respect for this movie when I saw the trailer
Yeah and here I'm waiting patiently for the next episode of alluring 😭😭
i honestly think that's the most realistic teenage thing in the movie. a lot of girls aren't taught about these things and the moment a guy gives them attention, they disregard his disrespect because society Has Been promoting the boys will be boys mentality.
@@stefanaular3178 you are right but why does no one else in the movie find that concerning? Like her dad could have told her that no-personal-boundaries-ass-grab-guy is not really boyfriend material and that he's concerned about the whole thing. Again where are the adults in this movie? If someone had done that at my school there would have been a lot more reproductions by the way
@@stefanaular3178 well it's realistic because movies like this. therefor terrible and lost all respect for it. totally toxic
Seriously, that skirt... I would rather stay home than go to school wearing that. Like seriously... how ??? Why ???
yeah couldn't you just wear random pants then write a note from your parents or something
Or even wrap a school approved sweater/sweatshirt around your waist to cover your butt??? I went to catholic school and we had both. Totally would’ve worked
Japanna Agreed, her best friend was literally wearing a sweater that she could tie around her waist 😂
Ikr it’s so unrealistic my mom would have a episode if I was forced to go to school like that💀
Or even if desperate enough put like a huge school hoodie on or wrap one around your waist
8:50 and then you also realize that eventually he takes his anger out on furniture, then his parents, then getting into fights with strangers, then eventually taking his anger out on you
Honestly, adding to her point at the end of the video- not only should we get to 'boys try to fix their toxic behavior in films', we could do the baby step of getting filmmakers to *stop portraying that toxic behavior as sexy and romantic*? Like they're all here saying "oh, some people are just broken and messed up, I'm being realistic"- but for why are you trying to make that into #relationship goals for someone's Pinterest board? It just bugs me so much that they act as though they're being 'real' and 'serious' in dealing with the flaws of real humans, and yet they're just like "you don't understand, he screams at her and hits the car bc he loves her :)" like that isn't encouraging people to stay in abusive relationships.
Morley Agreed. The difference is in the tone and audience the movie is intended for. If the same kind of trope was in a drama intended for adult audiences and presented with nuance then it would be ok. But this is a romantic teen movie that is intended for teens and meant to be feel-good. I don’t buy the “ThAts ReAl LiFe” excuse. Save that for Oscar bait.
I always get so annoyed when people say "you were asking for it" when you wear something a little bit more sexy. It's like, excuse me, I like my little black dress and the one time in my life I do my make up makes me feel. a little bit more confident, but I did not consent or even remotely liked it when that boy in the club grabbed my ass and I don't feel bad for slapping his arm so bad that he got a bruise the next day
You go girl !
Preach!!
And their defense is “you shouldn’t wear stuff like that, guys have no self control” like I kid u not my brother said I couldn’t wear an off shoulder shirt (that wasn’t even revealing in the slightest except for my shoulders of course) because it tempts guys to kiss your neck. Like excuse me? It’s not my fault little boys who people consider men due to their age didn’t learn self control!
@@lullabyluna7170 💀💀 men finds women more interesting then women finds men them
Your lucky you could ever do that, I'm too shy, too insecure to go out in a dress like that. And I don't even wear make up. haha.
"a brooding hot 25 year old teenager" put this song on iTunes immediately 😂
I FUCKING UGLY LAUGHED WHEN I READ THIS TWICE. 25 year old teenage hahaha
the title track for Kennie's next EP 😂😂
“Get in the car, Elle!!!”
Girl should’ve been gone the SECOND he raised his voice at her
leiikos #girlgetgoing
Exactly no women should ever be treated like that 🤨
Isamar Haro nobody in general-
I would of kept walking if I were her
I would've ran. That shit was scary and unstable
"girlll?? babygirllll?? he might be abuseeeeevv"
me to all of my girlfriends
Whoa
911 likes
Yo what happened here lol
@@jasmink3841 911 yes hello
This would be funny if I didn't know couples like this.
I don't remember the existence of any group of mean girls in high school. Everyone was just weird and awkward.
Same
With my school, there were “mean popular girls” but not in groups because they are all only mean to each other, therefore never forming groups.
like I dunno about America, but where I live there wasn't really popular people but everyone was except for the few who didnt play sports or go out to parties etc but none of us were ever bullied for it?? we all got along and the most "popular" people were usually the ones everyone kind of hated since they bitched about everyone else and were not good friends to people? but it was easier to just ignore them etc?
I’m on online school learning and so far everyone is just weird and nice to one another in general
There was a popular group in my high school, but they were popular because they were smart, kind, good at sport and confident.
ironically the guy who plays noah also plays nate in euphoria. the characters are pretty much the same ironically but at least on euphoria they don't portray it as cute or romantic.
But sadly lots of teens who watch the show still find Nate's character attractive 😭
Wait THATS NATE ?!?! he looks so different
@@laurynstewart6221 Girl, no he don't. Lmao
And his acting in euphoria is waaaay better
Yes I prefer his acting in Euphoria :)
not only are these movies bad for teen girls, they’re bad for teen boys! when you think about it, a lot of the bad stuff in these movies are exactly what teen boys are looking for, many times sexually. all the butt stuff, for example. then there’s the immediate forgiving of the guy who sexually harassed the girl just because he says sorry. there’s the girl “standing up for herself” by being sexual entertainment for all the boys in their bathroom. the whole dominating (often times abusive) thing that these movies make look attractive can be really harmful to teen boys who want to be in a relationship.
This is so true!! It's excusing violent and gross behavior. Plus that guy who kept taking pictures throughout the film never has to suffer consequences, which just teaches teen boys they can take creepy pics and get away with it
Right?? I feel like we don’t talk enough about how young men should act and how to respect others. It goes both ways.
SARtistic96 well in my area we do
In one university in my country,there are a lot of cases of girls panties being stolen or someone took videos of them showering but usually the punishment for the criminal is a bit too casual to me,like doing volunteer work and a fine is not enough.There was a guy who also get away with molest despite doing it to more than 10 woman but he was let off the hook just because he do very well academically
Facts
WHY DIDNT HE JUST GIVE HER HIS SWEATER TO WEAR AROUND HER WAIST????😭😭😭
Cuz he's a bad friend
Why didn’t she have any other bottoms in her closet? Like seriously she only had that skirt and a pair of pants?
Plot convenience, no sane girl would go to school dressed like that and no sane friend would let her go like that, they just wanted to show her butt on the screen.
@@karisdietrich1964 exactly...school is 5 days of the week and its hard to believe her parents didn't do any back to school shopping.
Simone Maynard Yeah and we are talking about a growing teen soooooo
The fact that Lee thought Noah hit Elle when she got that wound really shows just how serious Noah’s anger issues are :/
With a change of director and music, that scene could have been a really cool Turning Point in a better movie. Almost could be a liar revealed feel to the scene where this is the moment when the main character realizes that the protective-but-sweet one is her best friend not the violent older brother. This could have gone into an interesting exploration of the intricate psychological and sociological forces placed on best friend as the brother of a formerly abusive person who is outwardly on the mend.
Good point
when he slammed his hand on the car and was like, "GET IN THE CAR, ELLE!" I honestly was scared for her safety.
I know like, i would run and call the teachers or something
@@gothkurata That's worrying
when i watched this it fucking scared me that i jumped
I was scared for myself and it's a movie lol
My least favorite thing about teen romances is sex. The idea that instead of
"these ppl are a couple and they love each other and have build a bond, connection, and relationship. So now they will have sex."
Its always
"these ppl had sex. So therefore, they are a couple and you have to assume there's love and trust between then because sex obviously"
I thought I was the only one who wasn't comfortable with that
This is why I stay away with these kind of roamnces.
Lol mood. If sex built trust automatically, college students would be TIGHT
@@juanpablorobayo3437 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 i love it
Right like it's bad enough that adult movie relationships are like this but I dont think teen relationships should be like this in movies unless it's a true story or related to the whole theme of the movie
"he might me lowkey abusive" more like he might be highkey abusive, when he slammed the car like that it terrified me wtf????? glad i didnt watch this movie myself omfg
also regarding the whole idea of "taming the beast" more often than not with these beasts they actually CANNOT be tamed, especially by a ~female love interest~, because these beasts aren't only abusive, but also prideful as hell with their ~masculinity~ and all their "WHAT!!! A WOMAN!!!! DARES!!!!!! TELL ME!!!!! WHAT TO DO!!!!!!!" real life really is nowhere near these horrible teen movies,,,,,,,,,,,,, this kind of behaviour becoming widespread through media normalises something that most definitely SHOULDN'T be normal,,,,, i sincerely wish people would stop funding these horrible plots and catering them to ANYBODY and instead fund and promote more empowering plots... you can be both romantic and realistic without sacrificing one or the other......
I know right! Like when he slammed the car I was immediately reminded of an ex I had who when I broke up with him (because he was emotionally abusive) he did exactly that, he slammed his fist into the hood of his car and I was like yEeT
@@cecilynewman8241 I'm sorry you had to go through that.... abusive men perish...
Also, she was visibly scared too. Like SHE didn’t even think that that was cute. but she got in the car anyway out of fear.
Same I literally jumped 💀
The OMG girls weren’t even wearing uniforms. Elle could’ve just worn non-uniform pants and explained the situation or gotten a note from her parents. My car is barely on the road because of all these plot-holes 🥵
😂😂
Exactly!
right the plot is so poorly thought out😤 😩 also just noticed im ur 1000th like ❤
You rule😂
They were wearing uniforms. They added accessories and a jackets.
I think that it was a choice between pants, skirts, and shorts.
Plus, they could probably do whatever they want because maybe they were the richest students in the school.
We have all read one of those “my abuser turned husband” stories on wattpad🤣🤣😭😭💀
I actually never done this, and I've been read "dark" stories on Wattpad since 2015. If anything similar to that, I would read "victim leaves abuser in one way or another only to find their true love however so long later."
Idk if it's just me, but "abuser turned lover" stories are so damn... Ugh to me! Now, don't get me wrong, everyone can read whatever they want for whatever reason, but this is just my opinion, lol!
Right 😭😭😭😭 but there's more stories that's better than this crap
@@solarwings1132 m e t o o. i hate those stories so damn much. Like i really wanna read stories on wattpad but i can't will myself to read any abusive/toxic partner stories unless the girl can actually leave and find someone better (which never happens anyway because writers have the expectation that the girl is simply an object to be possessed over). Sorry im going off lol
Don't let it be those werewolf books too 🤦🏿♀️ and authors gets so mad when you call them out for romanticizing abuse 🙄
I never watched onision fics before
It always pissed me off that instead of just wearing black jeans or something else she thought wearing the skirt from some pervs Catholic schoolgirl wet dream would be a logical choice.
Kendall said this movie was made by 55 year old men so they probably legit do have Catholic schoolgirl fantasizes.
Only a pervy guy would write that in a movie 🤣🤣🤣
Being a rich teenager obviously she doesn't own anything else. Or have access to a store. Or know any other students with backup pants
@@sbaxter3252 Yeah, this girl is supposed to be a rich teenage girl and of course a rich teenage girl like Blair Waldorf would totallyyy let this embarrassing situation happen to her in school. 😂😂😂
I know I'll sound bad for this but that was _actually_ asking for it or at very least horribly misinformed. No logical reason aside from ''''plot'''' would anyone with a head ever logically chose that stripper length skirt and think no one would notice! In a school FULL OF PEOPLE or public in general. And the fact that another student and not a teacher with back-up back-ups (since they liked that joke (?) or something) had to stop actual sexual harassment. These stupid movies!
I went to catholic school the proportions on that skirt literally would not occur she would have had to get the skirt altered to be that short
Joey King was way too sexualized for a dweeby teen character, I don’t get it.
I was so confused when she put her small skirt. Why didn’t she just not go to school if she didn’t have any decent pants at her house. Or at least saw how she looked in the skirt or wore a jacket around it.
@@mackthechild6877 right! Or like, I dont know, maybe gym clothes instead. Does this school not have a PE class?
Mack The Child and it wasn't just the skirt scene, there's also when she had paint on and took off her shirt and then when she woke up in the guy's house with no pants
lol like it was really just so over the top smh
I've noticed actually a lot of Wattpad stories do that. they set up the main character as normal and plain but force "sexy incidents" to always happen around her and her crush to somehow show us that she's in fact super hot and the crush gets turned on or some shit. it disturbs me to be honest that so many authors (which are obviously young girls) think that a legit way to get ur crush to notice u is to take off ur clothes whenever he's around
crispy exactly like the main character always describes herself as plain girl, and then in the crush's pov he keeps gushing over how hot she is and how much she turns him on
it also perpetuates the mentality that girls shouldn't think they're beautiful until a guy tells them, self confidence is not something for women 🙄
"why my dude look like a greek bust" *THIS SENTTTTT ME*
I literally saw this comment just as it came up in the vid
omg... I was watching the video and I read your comment like a minute before that was said in it lol
The compilation of dudes who look like other dudes still has me rolling 😭
@Professional_Idxot OMMG HII
I screeeeeeamed
“I can’t be with you then no one should be”
Me: *sniff* hmm I smell *controlling behavior*
Usually the last words you hear before he violently murders you
"if i cant have you, no one can" attitude is so disgusting wth. it isnt even fangirl or praise worthy. what do they see in these that make them think "yes thats cute"???
it's what sickos say but 👀💅
Joe Goldberg vibes🙈😳
And people think this is cute? Seriously?
I’d be totally down to see a sequel showing his toxic traits and her realizing it and breaking up with him.
yeah, but these are wattpad stories we are talking about here so it won't happen. the sequel will be just as problematic as the first i'm sure
And maybe her best friend the entire time was just trying to protect her and when he said that the reason he didn't want her to date his brother was basically because he was a possessive little freak, he was lying having been threatened by his brother. And he has genuine fear of him as he had suffered years of abuse, physical and emotional. When he set his sights on his friend, he knew he couldn't stop him, so he had to stop *her* somehow. When she told him he had to accept her and his' relationship, the best friend knew it was too late and that she'd have to see for herself what he was like. Also, the best friend continues to ignore her in the second movie because actually, the whole time, he wasn't giving her the cold shoulder, his brother was threatening to hurt her.
The movie ends with him going to jail and the main character remains single at the end, because she needs to take time after the relationship instead of rebounding and the best friend remains in a healthy relationship with that other girl, finding solace for his years of abuse in the support of those he cares about and in therapy.
Someone
Uh hey, contact the screenwriter and tell them you’ve got the script 😂I’d love to watch this instead
It's really odd to me, because it looks like the movie legit has straight up red flags, no sugar coating them. That "get in the car" freaked me out, and I've never been in any kind of abusive relationship, so I can only imagine what it was like for others who have. What with the brother as well, it looks like there might be enough to full on have a secret story underneath, about what Elle's rose tinted glasses don't catch, and I find that absolutely fascinating in a movie like this. Like, it just seems so blatant, I can't imagine any sequel not drawing attention to this.
Since this story is a movie now, we can make a fanfic about it and hope it becomes a movie
“Then you realize he has a violent temper always, not just when it’s attractive and heroic to you” PREACH SIS
I, as a broke teenager, can very much confirm that we still exist
Rightttt
I was once a broke teenager-caterpillar, but I have transformed....
into a broke adult butterfly.
@@adri9795 that can't fly? Lol it a joke of course since butterfly look better than a caterpillar no matter what
@@jiayi5829 yes. Of course. I am a older, better looking broke b 😉😋
Same. Broke teenager here.
Doritos with a spoon, sis just use chop sticks
the superior move
I eat popcorn with chopsticks 😂😂
Thats what I do with hot cheetos lol
* note to self, get some chop sticks
Is this a Last Dragon reference
I literally gasped when he yelled at her to get in the car. That is a huge red flag.
Fr his ass probably hit her after they graduated.
HSJWISNS LMAOO
"why my dude look like a greek bust" LMFAOOOOOO
That's an insult to the Greeks
@@alilordoftheskies5079 :'(
“The main characters are laughing a lot more than I am.”
Sums up this movie in one sentence... which is sad.
I petition for this playlist to be an educational series because IT IS. The amount of toxic and abusive romantic shit I've learnt to recognise over the entirety of this playlist is astounding and a little horrifying to be very honest. Cheers to Kennie helping us recognise all of this
The actors and actresses were wronged with this garbage.
They really were, didnt even realize that it was the same actor who plays nate in euphoria because the acting is so much better
@Penny for my thot They needed money
@Penny for my thot I agree with you. You signed up for it. Sometimes you have to do shit, like Pattinson with Twilight, to get to do the fun stuff.
Jennifer Brigitte not just that but exposure
also when noah said “wearing something like that, you’re asking for it” that reminded me of when my middle school had lessons on sexual assault, and this one kid said “it’s ok to catcall a girl, cuz if she’s wearing a short shirt or a crop top, she obviously wants that!” it was so icky
I mean, IMO, if you know of a chick who's actively "trying to get it", and she wears clothes like that, then it's understandable. But, if you see a random chick, someone that you don't even know, walking about with anything considered "sexual" and you say shit like that, you deserve a slap on the face.
Because A) You don't know them, so shit like that ain't okay, and B) You're a weirdo. Plain and simple.
Solar Wings PERIODT. couldn’t have explained it better.
As someone who doesn’t have to go out half naked wearing clubbing attire aka insta boutiques and is 24 it can be done I mean come one onlyfans pages all the tiktok thots with the aheago faves it’s leading to other shot y’all will understand when your older I guess but yeah I’m plenty sexy haha 😂
@@RogueJinxel jesus, write better, I think I had a stroke
@@RogueJinxel You're going to hate this comment in about three years.
Sincerely,
A 28 year old
do you ever think about the fact that if she had just tied a goddamn sweater around her waist none of this would have ever happened?
That's the ONLY thing I thought about for a while🤣🤣🤣 Tying a sweater around yourself in case of any skirt related emergency is a staple.
MY EXACT THOUGHTS
I feel like maybe 5-10 years in the future, Noah might be abusive. He’s so violent towards everyone, especially the scene where he hit the car. Like sir, your violent and aggressive tendencies are a little sus 👀👀
Not even that. The guy is playing 18. The was already emotionally abusive. First live in girlfriend would probably be withing the 5 years after graduating. Once a girl lives with him it's only a matter of time.
Millieteez yeah if it was only him hitting the guy who smacked her ass then I wouldn’t be so put off by it... but acting like he owns her and hitting the car.. 😬😬😬 screams ‘ probably gonna be physically abusive to you in the futuuurre’
wattpad girls be wildin out, show your true colors then sis show us how you like abusive relationships with possessive men 👀💅
It is a thing that if someone hits something that’s not you, they’re showing just how much they *actually* wanna hit you but they know they can’t.
I feel like Noah gives off this vibe of “if I can’t have you no one can” sorta thing...am I the only one?
Yep, Kenny said it too
Bimisola Babalola oh ok👌
Liked he'd kill her and their kids if she threatens to leave because of the guys controlling and Abusive behavior has taken a toll on the poor girl.... Yeah I see it.
You are not the only one, and it is HELLA scary!
You’re not the only one
"You have zero experience with guys. Wearing a skirt like that is asking for it." What the actual HECK??? I had forgotten that comment was even in this! This movie has to have been written by 53 year old men who think a comment like that is okay for young women to hear. I am very concerned that movies like these are what young people are watching these days.
Also, Noah ain't cute. Like at all 😂
. . . That wasn't a serious line in the movie though.
@@courtney9865 What do you mean?
@Candace Wingfield It wasn't a serious line . . . . It was played off as some kind of self-aware joke seeing as the guy immediately afterwards denigrates that kind of thinking as sexist.
@@courtney9865 Ah, I see what you are saying. I understand that he realized that what he had said was fudged up. I just don't like the fact that he made the "joke" in the first place.
Apparently, that justifies every sexual predators' reason for what they did. F-ing dipshit writers.
"Is this what privilege looks like? Just wasting acrylic paint for whimsy?" Ahahahahaha girl I don't know why your video popped up in my feed but you are hilarious
“Why my dude look like a Greek bust?”
STAHPPPP PLS that SENTTT me
you could TELL she surprised herself by saying that
On this episode of Kennie having to watch trash movies so we don't....
*”DINGADINGADING”* 🛎 🛎
“IS NO ONE PAYING ATTENTION TO HIS WORD CHOICE???”
🤣🤣🤣
I'm sorry but Robert Pattinson was amazing in twilight. He was really super creepy. He said he was channeling a creepy serial killer and I really got that vibe from him so he did it wonderfully. He actually did it so well that people assumed he was actually cringy like that IRL.
No- no, you’ve got a point. He does give me convincing serial killer vibes. But I don’t want to sit down and watch a full-length movie about some girl falling in love with that
@@gabriellelutz3195 I mean absolutely same. Just wanted to point out that his performance was pretty good.
@@ArturGlass.C fully agreed. he was playing an old asf vamp who was trying to blend as a teen. id say he killed it, pun unintended.
Nope, Robert Pattison isn't creepy, but he is unhinged and it is glorious. That strange GQ video about him wanting a NYC hot dog is a masterpiece
@@caithenry8429 dont know about that video but i would like to 👀👀👀
21:38 are we going to ignore how *smoothly* she got that on her top lip.
I saw Wattpad in the title and my face really said
*dis gunna be a good one*
Me too
Girl same 😂 this showed up on my dashboard and I had to see about it
When that guy screamed "get in the car Elle" I immediately got vibes of an abusive/toxic relationship and thought please get away from him as fast as possible
Him hitting the car was how he landed his audition for Euphoria
I can’t tell if this is a joke or not 😭
When the two brothers started fighting on the front lawn, in that rich ass neighborhood, I was straight up like "whew chile, the ghetto. These hoodlums!" lmfao
"YOU HEAR THAT FEI" made me choke on my noodles kennie omfg
😂😂😂😂
If I remembered correctly, Noah was like "Im going to take you to my secret spot" and it was the freakin Hollywood sign....shit pissed me off but so glad I wasn't the only one that questioned that.
And also, a few people have committed suicide by jumping off of the Hollywood sign, so not the most romantic place, just sayin
The irony of Kennie saying I hate the OMG girls while simultaneously wearing an OMG headband
I love how you talk about this problematic situations in movies and how they can affect younger audiences. I wish I had someone to point that out to me when I was 13 and dreaming of having a relationship like Edward's and Bella's
Um not a good idea
Kinda the same thing but I like messed, mentally ill people instead.
Yeah I had the, "Your messed up but I can fix you" mentality at the age of 16. I wish I had someone like Kennie being like nooooo girl
My friend had this boyfriend that stalked her, but I found out he was and told her. She broke up with him the next day.
Well it is based off Jane Eyre. Mr. Rochester was problematic as hell
noah: get in the car elle!
me who has been in the same situation: *don't cry dont cry dont cry dont cry dont cryyyyy*
Hey, are you okay now?
I'm sorry. That's honestly awful. I understand how a situation like that can be triggering and traumatic.
I hope you're okay now and that you've built up the courage to be able to stand up to someone or at leat run away if they do that again.
I like how concerned everyone here is ❤
Kiki_ Hinie we gotta watch out for our fellow home skillet biscuits 👉👉
I hope you’re doing better. That sounds like a terrible situation to be in
Completely agree with you on the whole "love confessions in public places" thing, and I've experienced this and felt pressured into relationships because the dudes decided to confess in front of a bunch of close friends. Hard to reject someone when everyone is rooting for you to accept... 🤷🏻♀️🤔
Yeah, that's why she said it's manipulative.
Dude, I'd be the one to say no if I didn't like the guy. Hell, I've done it before! I don't care whose around, no one's gonna pressure me into anything. It's not right to agree to be in a relationship with someone if you don't feel the same way they do... It'll just hurt the both of you in the long run anyway. He might be upset and embarrassed but hey, it's for the best. Better to be in a little pain now than to suffer for an extended period of time, like ripping off a bandaid.
@@neonecko1876 I 100% agree if a guy I was not attracted to did a love confession to me in public then he's going to get *rejected* by me in public LOL 😂😂😂
@@Firespawnable Amen! Preach lmfao 😂😂😂
That's basically harassment. 😕
As someone who is 5’5 with a boyfriend
who is 6’2, I can honestly say the height difference does get a little annoying sometimes.
Signs of a trashy Teen movie or YA 'romance' book: Girl thinks she can save the man with concerning anger issues with the power of 'True Love'.
Nah, you're definitely not jaded about the public confessions of love thing. I have threatened every boyfriend I've ever had that if he ever propose to me in public I would kill him. Because I feel like you can't say anything but yes if they're trying to ask you in public, where people can see. I don't appreciate the pressure or the manipulation...maybe we're both jaded lol.
Agreed but tone it down with the kill part.
If anyone would ever do that to me I would just say no and leave, no matter what. Same if anyone would ever ask my parents for my hand, like it's not cute to ask my parents if they will "let" me be married to someone, I don't get how that's supposed to be cute at all.
@@capricorn2723 Agreed lmfao
@@Tessa_Gr My dad straight-up said that if anyone asked for his permission to marry me he'd immediately say no. He raised me to be strong and independent, and anyone who thinks that my dad has a say in my love life doesn't deserve me. I love my dad.
dude like that guy who proposed during an ed sheeran live performance ( it's in the channel "heart") and ed went and stopped and made everyone shut up to see what she said , and everyone in the comments like " ow that so romantic" and i was horrified because i can think of anything that could add more pressure for her than that, my only hope is that it was planned , as in that the couple talked it and agreed on doing that so she was not ambushed by surprise with a proposal. but even so,look , ed is a great artist and he seems like very nice person...but to stop the performance for a moment and put focus on the couple...unless it was all staged to the point he was in it too, don't do that without knowing that couple or if the girl wants to say yes...i can't think of a worse pressure than the singer in a concert putting the spotlight on my answer to a surprise public proposal...
PSA: I'm only 5'3" so I took one of the short guys. You're welcome, gazelles.
thank you for doing us tall girls a favor
@@bellawella4557 Well turns out he was an unfaithful asshole so he's back on the market. But I'll try to stick to somebody whose face I can reach. 😂
Melissa Stephan wow, he ain’t shitttt, sorry that happened sis :(
Lol and here I am dating people as tall as Noah being shorter than Elle
Bro Elle (Joey King) is 5’4 while Noah (Jacob Elordi) is 6’4. These bros are a whole feet apart in heigh difference I swear 😭😭
When I developed boobs I didn’t realize it, so I didn’t wear a bra, but I wore these (completely see-thru) plain white t-shirts everyday. It was apparently so bad that a bunch of concerned girls invited me over to a sleepover seemingly only to give me a “you need to start wearing a bra” intervention. 😭🤦🏻♀️
Nice of them....but sad. ...
"so shut up, boyy" yesss we luv a Miss A reference!!!
when she said it in the video I LOST IT!!!!!!!
Yes!!! That song gave me flashbacks from when I was 8-9 years old 😭😭
“i’m supposed to get... like... _scoliosis_ ... just cause i’m tryna *SMASH* ?!”
LMFAOOOOOO MY LUNGS
GIRL YOU DID NOT COMPARE HERCULES TO LOGAN PAUL. YOU RIUNED HIMMMMMM
The most unrealistic thing about this movie is her being allowed to wear that skirt that definitely violates all the dress codes.
21:36 putting your lipstick on your top lip like that... That was smooth. Did u plan that?😂
Lol yeah, I rewatched that several times.
@@mr.icecream7880 same haha it's was so smooth😙👌
It was so satisfying
IVE BEEN WAITING AROUND AIMLESSLY FOR THIS TO DROP
sammeee, When I saw the bell notication I was like "that better be Kennie!!"
I've checked her channel like 3 times today.
Zele SAMEEE
SAME
The family guy reference 😂😂😂😂😂😂
Same!!!
You’re literally the prettiest person I have ever seen
Love your profile pic😏💜
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Hi there👋🏻💜
That's why " To all the boys that I have ever loved " will always be superior
It's soooo much better. Like Peter isn't an asshole and Lara Jean is running naked. It's a " we will pretend to date but end up falling in love" cliche but it's good.
It's cliche and boring but way better than whatever is this movie
@@arushis7144 the films were meh compared to the books but better than this dumpster fire
Both are crap and toxic
I absolutely hated this movie. The people who made this dumpster fire could have redeemed theirselves if they aknowledged how shitty Noah was as a character. Just because a guy is attractive doesn't mean that they should get a free pass for taking away a women's agency.
"I've read my fair share of garbage" girl I feel you...
I’m 5’2” and my boyfriend is 6’2” and the height difference can be awkward sometimes, my neck usually hurts when I look up at him and when he wants to put his head on my shoulder he has to practically bend in half.
Solution: We sit down and then it’s all good. 🤷🏻♀️
Lucky I'm 5"5 and my husband is 5"4 lol
I'm under 5 feet, and when I was in high school my boyfriend at the time was like 6'4, so yeah, that was a thing. I tell people it's not hard to find someone taller than me. That aside, I do love tall guys. So, I'm guilty of that.
Vladakuska I’m 5’0 and my boyfriend is 6’2 😂 I understand your struggle sis lmao
I felt I'm 4'11 and I've dated really tall guys and the thing I hate about it Is that people assume I'm their little sister or something before they think I'm his girlfriend 🤣🤣
@@stephaniebarehand1715 the ex I mentioned in high school that was over 6' also looked older than me, despite being younger. I have a baby face so it doesn't help. One time we were messing around outside and this guy thought my ex was an adult attempting to kidnap a child. So yeah...
I physically flinched and started tearing up when he slammed his fist on the car bonnet. What scared me even more was how complicit she was after he said please afterwards, as if we're supposed to forgive him for how easily he got angry and how often he is physically violent.
Are we gonna talk about the fact that she could've pulled that skirt way lower than what it was and solved the original problem? Because she totally could've pulled that skirt way lower than what it was and solved the original problem.
BARELY an inconvenience
Or just take a Lee pants
He's rich
Or just worn like athletic shorts or leggings underneath
or ....ORRRRRRRRR ...........wear some pants underneath........FOR GODS SAKE ...........
"I've actually been speared before, long story," GIRL WHAT
You need to do the notebook. That's low key messed up and everyone be acting like it's goals. The main girl is so toxic.
Both of the main chracters are toxic but moreso the male in this one.
Yees
the main guy is also psychotic af, like he touches obsession levels
yes i agree
Right the first time I saw I saw that movie and I've only seen it once I was literally yelling at the screen.
I agree with that "taming the beast" thing, it can be harmful for women who feel like its their responsibility. But it can ALSO be harmful to men! It enforces this idea that men need to have a women to be "fixed" and that if they aren't fixed by a women that they can't be fixed, and that can be very harmful for everyone involved :(
I agree
"He's very tall"
She's not wrong, Jacob Elordi is 6'4
As a short girl, seeing their height difference was also really weird. Like no, I'm not trying to climb a freakin tree to kiss you.
lmfaooooo same
I mean, it's on personal taste. I'm a short girl too but my ex was rly tall and I didn't mind
when you mentioned that the guy looked similar to logan paul, i felt my soul shrivel up. LMAO. i cannot unsee this now.
The OMG girls would definitely pronounce "chile" like "chili", change my mind
So tru
Isn’t Chile also pronounced as Chili?
Love your The Professor pic.
@@mansimararora5477 no its chil(d)
Noah is such a psycho lmao like why is he so territorial and *WEIRD* if he’s supposedly Elle’s “brother” ???
You mean Lee?
they not related the bff... Lee and Noah r Brothers n Lee didn't want Elle to be with Noah bc Issa friend code n bc Noah a lul fuckboy
I am all sorts of lost lmao but yeah oops
"what happened to broke teenagers!!" 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 the question Hollywood will never answer
"nursing her back to health"... 😂😂😂😂😂😂 you're so dramatic girl, I love you!
I'd hate "public" love confessions... OMG, like my guy!
I love how she is talking smack bout the OMG girls while the headband says differently
this movie could've been so much greater if they had ended it with her breaking up with him, a discussion with lee, and realising she does not need any boy controlling her life.
THIS omg
That is why k-dramas are superior because they go through the entire show building their relationship and then there’s a good 50% chance of them doing the nastys. 😂
Back in the day, it wasn't even 50%. But, now it is.
Sometimes we have to wait more than half of the drama to get a kiss scene
@@ishikag8427 bro and they JUST started kissing like normal people. We would wait 12 episodes for a lip press 💀
@@sunmoon539 I feel you. We would wait so much just for the male lead to give the female lead a surprise peck
@Penny for my thot Have you watched What's Wrong With Secretary Kim and My Secret Romance?😌
I have no desire to tame the beast, can I just date a well adjusted individual? Lmao
Girl same!
I’m putting this as my motto lol
Neither do I have the need to "fix" someone, nurse them back to mental health and/or help them to become a well adjusted member of society but according to pop culture that actually means that I am abnormal and not at all a regular woman
Same.
Same. It just SOUNDS exhausting
i can’t BELIEVE you didn’t mention the “grinding coochies with my brother” line, that’s the only thing i remember from the whole movie😂😂
Lol wtfff
steph hernandez exactly
reading that line just gave me an STD
Wait...when was that said 😅😂
Darrylyn quick it was like right after he found out about their relationship lol
That “get in the car Elle!!” was like, terrifying. I would’ve been so terrified if someone shouted that at me and slammed their hand on their car. I probs would’ve ran, like, that’s some red flags
The woman in the films are apart of the “I can fix him” club
When I was younger, I didn't realize how toxic wattpad was till recently. Like I've seen books that romanticize arranged marriage, rape. Wattpad needs to set some rules and limits.
@@r.a.oo.4039 For me, I always took them with a grain of salt. I never took them to heart. Even at a young age, I knew it was stereotypical. Somehow they entertained me. But I wouldn't apply it to real life
“On a scale of one to Christian Grey, I’d give it a six- I’ve seen worse” the most ICONIC line
Even when i got boobs trust me no one noticed or cared and school shirts would never actually show off the shape and maybe its a canada things but guys were pretty respectful
Megan mainguy Definitely Canada things..
Megan mainguy it’s a Canada thing 🙄 has hated and had to resort to violence to stop guys from touching me. Till I moved to the “low class” school then people were respectful. Those richer schools from my experience tend to be more sexist and sexual harassment is okay
A boy asked me if they were socks when I got them. He then asked me to prove they weren't socks. He was my crush but I still said no. We were like 13 or something so I guess it was innocent
Def a Canadian thing 😂 I was sexually harassed every day in 7th grade
Might be a Canadian thing. Even tho our uniform was a polo shirt and there was no way cleavage or gapage could've been possible i was bullied hard
I think you would love A Walk to Remember. I love how the protagonist is this classic Bad Boy™️ who meets the classic Good Christian Girl™️ works on himself because she inspires him. She doesn’t even get with him until he starts working himself. Not the best movie in the world, but still a lovely romance. 😊
Yes! It's so good!!
It's the only badboy-goodgirl book that should exist