1:38:09 I totally thought you were going to say, “I can’t even express how grateful I am to my husband” but you said “plants” and that honestly made me so happy lolololololol
Funny how a 'week of plant things' series was kinda intended to be a video put in the background cause this series is one of my favourite and super calming to watch ❤ I watch the whole video and agree that most of the tasks in the plant hobby doesn't feel like a chore to a plant hobbyist like myself and I prefer to call them "plant tasks" instead
Aw Charmaine, give yourself some grace. You're doing very well as a new mommy. I had my now almost 8 year old back when I was 21. I didn't notice back then, but now at 30 with my 2nd child, 1 year old, I realized with both of my children that I dealt with postpartum anxiety. It gets to your head a lot that things need to be in order in or you need to be in so many places at once. The only thing that made things feel easier for me was when my aunt told me, "Things would get done when I could make time for it, and a baby will get older eventually." It made me feel relief, realizing I can't do everything at once, but i can at my own pace. I restarted my plant collection after my daughter turned one, and honestly, it's really great having that as a me time. I can't say things get easier because being a mommy means dealing with anything thrown at you. But I could tell you that you CAN do just about anything because you are a mommy❤️
I love these videos and love to hear Archie and Pudge in the background. I’m sorry you are so sleep deprived. I always look so forward to your videos. Hi from Edmonton. ❤
Thank you this 3hr video helped me to do the most daunting work I hate, laundry and ironing. I am retreating to bed with nicely folded and packed clothes❤
A thousand Thank You's :). Your labor of love is always much appreciated. So much grace under fire. Keep the faith! What you do is more vital than you could imagine. Again, Thank You!
What you did for me….you’re real. The end. I was doing plant ish and listening. The vibe was new mom tired and every one of us that has kids gets it. You’re working with a newborn. Whether you skip a week or keep putting out tired mom plant videos, we will be here for you! Keep on keeping on. ❤
It's absolutely ridiculous how people fuss about Pudge and Archie. I personally adore Pudge and I love to hear Archie's squeals in the background. As a dog lover and mother of 6 and grandmother of 12 I have absolutely no problem hearing or seeing them in the videos. Real life people quit your fussing!! Love all your videos and appreciate everything you do for us ❤ Go Go Little Mama!! ❤
no worries 💚 I have a 3 yr old and a 5yr old it gets better 😊 believe it or not 😂😂 you have every right to feel everything you're feeling right now 🌿🌿 just take it day by day
Not that this should really matter because you should make content you want to make, but had you on while I watered all of my indoor plants and cleaned them up, and watered my balcony plants too!!! So thank you for that 🙏
So cute 😊 the little plant that Jin gave you. Her plant collection is huge i would love to get in there and see her Hoya’s. That Hoya that you sold i have one aswell is super cute and love the fuzziness. I would never be able to part with mine. I love seeing what others grow in their homes. The first year of motherhood is always hard the loss of sleep and the energy levels. Once you get the sleep patterns it gets easier. My boy is already 10 is nice to have back that independent and more time to yourself. But deal with other stress and worries. I cannot believe the colour grey makes you feel that way as is my favourite colour in anything.
Girl, I love every video you put out!!! I'd watch &/or listen to it all! You and Alice are some of my absolute faves!! Video everything, lol!!! Archie sounds so cute in the background, no real life background noise bothers me. Hopefully people understand real life! Thank you for taking the time to do videos!! I so appreciate it! Your schedule is crazy enough, I imagine. This is my 3rd time watching this, just have in background as I work from home 😊
Ahh, you’re a mummy now & I & probably lots others LOVE Archie’s input…I love hearing the new mum journey-my youngest is 16 and miss the baby days. Talk more about him!! If u never talked about him it would be odd. I understand you not show him but I would love him in your videos. Do what you want & if you want every other word to be ‘Archie’ then do it xxxx
I loved it Sherman! I was totally not inspired to do any plant tasks. But they were in desperate need of water. With my headphones and you talking to me I did it anyway and I loved every second of it. Thank you for making this kind of content. ❤
That’s so funny you said you like making the longer videos so we have something playing in the background while we’re doing our plant stuff because I’m doing my plant chores right now lol. 95% of the time I have planty videos playing in the background while I do my plant chores 🫶🏼😊
I am guessing your trip is ir almost over.. Sending you sooo much love and hugs. Give yourself some grace. You have been going through so much besides having a new baby and unexpected surgery. Thank you for this extra long video. ❤
❤ don’t stress mom hood is tough. Just gotta take a day by day and don’t let other people bother you complaining about Archie. I love hearing him in the background.
The scary things are the things that make your life interesting and worthwhile. Not because of the fear, but because of the thrill overcoming them. You will be surprised how much more you are capable of than you think. It is important to take the idea of opening your own shop as a challenge, as a dream come true. The only obstacle is your doubt. You gave birth and you are bringing to life a living being as a mother. After that, growing and selling plants seems like a picnic. Don't you think so? Don't be afraid when the time comes to "take the bull by the horns". Otherwise you will forever wonder what if..... You're not alone, you have great friends, a lot of knowledge, a huge following, a worthy family and a golden husband. And no more excuses.
It’s funny I can be watching tv in the living room then leave to go to the bathroom. When I come back I’m always amazed at how loud it is. I always turn it down. You just don’t know how loud it gets while you’re in there listening to it.
So many times during this video I wanted to comment but I literally couldn’t find my phone for three hours… because I am one of the intended audience, letting you play in the background while I do my plant stuff. It’s literally so easy to just stop watching a video if you don’t like it, people’s lives are just so uninteresting that the only thing keeping them going is being a hater smh. I can’t believe people have the audacity to complain about your literal CHILD. “I ask you respectfully to just go away” was such a polite response, I would have been a little more vulgar. Anyway, just keep being you ❤
Hi CharSasha🙂, I only know what you do on camera and upload to RUclips, but have you tried (or Dad) taking Archie out for some fresh air for like an hour before you plan to film? I don't know if it's the mental stimulation or the air itself or both but sometimes it makes children crash like they are coming down from a sugar high lol. Classical music (stimulates brain connections) or any music specially designated for filming time......hang in there Mom! You do deserve a treat ,lol, it doesn't have to be big.
I’m not a fan of gray but since I painted my living room turquoise it’s a hard color to match. So I have a gray leather recliner I like. Then I use a blanket that matches the wall color.
With slept training, do you get up when he wakes or let him tire himself out to fall back to sleep? I’ve never heard of sleep training or how it’s supposed to work
I had a puggle that had a cherry eye and I had it surgically fixed. Then his other eye developed a cherry I. She had to live with it because I had extra money by then.
Yes please ! 🙋🏾♀️ me too i looked at your links and couldn’t find it Would love to buy another shirt from your collection, the t-shirt with Gordy is so soft and great quality print
I also searched high and low and did a Google image/shopping search and can’t find anything like it and I am a professional online shopper… Well, not really but basically. Please share, I live in Texas and am into social media so we will never be twinning! 😂❤😊
For me and my ADHD I'd only have a problem understanding a conversation if the noise is in the same room. Like if Archie's in a different room I have no problem following! (Even in the same room, like last video with alice, as long as you don't try to speak through his noises so to say I can follow no problem ❤) I bet it's still more work for you and harder to film with distractions so even if we all have no problem with some noise it's still gonna be more distracting for you filming so give yourself grace! Edited for typos
Don’t apologize for too much anthurium. If your channel was up to me it would be ALL ANTHURIUM ALL THE TIME! I alter collecting for a while have decided to purge most of my Philos. They are a PITA compared to anthurium. Less huge philos mean more dark and broody anthurium
Hi Sasha😊 I'm so sorry you are having some mental health difficulties. Take a moment and breathe. Have you tried meditation. Not for long periods of time but just 5mins can make a difference. I do progressive muscle relaxation because my brain slows down and I concentrate on my muscles not about what I'm thinking. I also do binaural beats meditation too. I have an 18 yr old and 10 yr old. The meditation has saved my mental health. Thought you my try it and see if it works for you.
33:26 people will comment things like that all the time in video game streams too, i've never understood it bc obviously someone hosting a stream isn't going to be able to read every single comment in the chat.... (i really enjoyed watching those live streams after the fact even though i wasn't able to make it when they were live!)
Not sure why but it seems to me that people's comments and gripes about noises in the background have made you hyper aware of everything happening around you while you record, which makes sense... Personally I don't give a damn about background noises. I get not everyone is able to focus on what you are saying but stuff it, you can't help it! stop apologising, you're doing great and ignore the complainers!! Archie making noises is fine, he's a baby, pudge making noises is also fine!!! not everything can be mitigated and that's fine!
She held it up for the live sale and not for the video 😉👍 These are the same plants we saw in the repotting just now where she held them into the camera
Right now I’m neglecting my plants. Some have gone 12 days without watering except the eight new Hoyas in my bedroom. Tomorrow I’ll water the ones in my kitchen. Then Monday it’s the living room. They really need to do it.
1:38:09 I totally thought you were going to say, “I can’t even express how grateful I am to my husband” but you said “plants” and that honestly made me so happy lolololololol
Funny how a 'week of plant things' series was kinda intended to be a video put in the background cause this series is one of my favourite and super calming to watch ❤
I watch the whole video and agree that most of the tasks in the plant hobby doesn't feel like a chore to a plant hobbyist like myself and I prefer to call them "plant tasks" instead
I love th3se videos, your vibe is just everything, screaming child or not. Love your serenity… your plants are gorgeous, keep up the amazing work :)
Aw Charmaine, give yourself some grace. You're doing very well as a new mommy. I had my now almost 8 year old back when I was 21.
I didn't notice back then, but now at 30 with my 2nd child, 1 year old, I realized with both of my children that I dealt with postpartum anxiety. It gets to your head a lot that things need to be in order in or you need to be in so many places at once. The only thing that made things feel easier for me was when my aunt told me, "Things would get done when I could make time for it, and a baby will get older eventually." It made me feel relief, realizing I can't do everything at once, but i can at my own pace.
I restarted my plant collection after my daughter turned one, and honestly, it's really great having that as a me time.
I can't say things get easier because being a mommy means dealing with anything thrown at you. But I could tell you that you CAN do just about anything because you are a mommy❤️
I love these videos and love to hear Archie and Pudge in the background. I’m sorry you are so sleep deprived. I always look so forward to your videos. Hi from Edmonton. ❤
I appreciate how real you are on being a mom. It's tough. You're doing amazing.
Thank you this 3hr video helped me to do the most daunting work I hate, laundry and ironing. I am retreating to bed with nicely folded and packed clothes❤
A thousand Thank You's :). Your labor of love is always much appreciated. So much grace under fire. Keep the faith! What you do is more vital than you could imagine. Again, Thank You!
What you did for me….you’re real. The end. I was doing plant ish and listening. The vibe was new mom tired and every one of us that has kids gets it. You’re working with a newborn. Whether you skip a week or keep putting out tired mom plant videos, we will be here for you! Keep on keeping on. ❤
I sat through your last 3 hour one and I am doing it again. 😂 I enjoy it so much especially after doing my planty stuff already it’s relaxing.
It's absolutely ridiculous how people fuss about Pudge and Archie. I personally adore Pudge and I love to hear Archie's squeals in the background. As a dog lover and mother of 6 and grandmother of 12 I have absolutely no problem hearing or seeing them in the videos. Real life people quit your fussing!!
Love all your videos and appreciate everything you do for us ❤ Go Go Little Mama!! ❤
Ditto I agree about hearing Pudge and Archie.
no worries 💚 I have a 3 yr old and a 5yr old it gets better 😊 believe it or not 😂😂 you have every right to feel everything you're feeling right now 🌿🌿 just take it day by day
Not that this should really matter because you should make content you want to make, but had you on while I watered all of my indoor plants and cleaned them up, and watered my balcony plants too!!! So thank you for that 🙏
Keep going with the sleep training, it’ll be worth it in the long run!! You can do this! Having friends with small babies too helps wonders. Xxxxxx
So cute 😊 the little plant that Jin gave you. Her plant collection is huge i would love to get in there and see her Hoya’s. That Hoya that you sold i have one aswell is super cute and love the fuzziness. I would never be able to part with mine. I love seeing what others grow in their homes. The first year of motherhood is always hard the loss of sleep and the energy levels. Once you get the sleep patterns it gets easier. My boy is already 10 is nice to have back that independent and more time to yourself. But deal with other stress and worries. I cannot believe the colour grey makes you feel that way as is my favourite colour in anything.
you got thissssssss, loved the video! Have a hopefully resolving and relaxing time in California
Girl, I love every video you put out!!! I'd watch &/or listen to it all! You and Alice are some of my absolute faves!! Video everything, lol!!! Archie sounds so cute in the background, no real life background noise bothers me. Hopefully people understand real life! Thank you for taking the time to do videos!! I so appreciate it! Your schedule is crazy enough, I imagine. This is my 3rd time watching this, just have in background as I work from home 😊
You and Alice are just about the only two that I will watch despite the anthurium heavy footage. 😊. I just enjoy watching you two.
Your plants are proof that they are thriving!!😊
Kudos! I've learned valuable plant information from your videos. Be encouraged!
🙏🏿💙🙏🏿
Ahh, you’re a mummy now & I & probably lots others LOVE Archie’s input…I love hearing the new mum journey-my youngest is 16 and miss the baby days. Talk more about him!! If u never talked about him it would be odd. I understand you not show him but I would love him in your videos. Do what you want & if you want every other word to be ‘Archie’ then do it xxxx
Mine is 46 and my baby days are behind me. There is nothing like the sweet sound of listening to Archie talking.
I like the long videos and I do play videos when I am doing plant chores. Makes me feel like I'm not doing it by myself 😊
Very much relatable content even if it’s mom stuff 😅 you do MUCH more plant stuff than I did when my baby was born.
So many different “mites” to eat our plants. 😊
I loved it Sherman! I was totally not inspired to do any plant tasks. But they were in desperate need of water. With my headphones and you talking to me I did it anyway and I loved every second of it.
Thank you for making this kind of content. ❤
I’m so happy it helped you 🥹🥹
Have a nice trip to California and an even nicer visit with your family. Always a thumbs 👍🏻
Yessssss Queen!!!! Always looking forward to Saturdays upload 😊
Your little carrot 😂 is so adorable !
That’s so funny you said you like making the longer videos so we have something playing in the background while we’re doing our plant stuff because I’m doing my plant chores right now lol. 95% of the time I have planty videos playing in the background while I do my plant chores 🫶🏼😊
It’s funny how loud the leca in some pots is and in the other pots it’s quieter. Lol 😂
I am guessing your trip is ir almost over.. Sending you sooo much love and hugs. Give yourself some grace. You have been going through so much besides having a new baby and unexpected surgery. Thank you for this extra long video. ❤
I like the time lapse and watching someone else cleaning. Better you than me. Lol 😂
What a darling plant. Sooo cute!!😊
❤ don’t stress mom hood is tough. Just gotta take a day by day and don’t let other people bother you complaining about Archie. I love hearing him in the background.
Love your long videos Charmaine 😍🤍 I missed the live but I’ll be there for the next one 🥰🤗
Me, without RUclips premium and not getting an ad at 52:58 😎😎😎
The scary things are the things that make your life interesting and worthwhile. Not because of the fear, but because of the thrill overcoming them. You will be surprised how much more you are capable of than you think.
It is important to take the idea of opening your own shop as a challenge, as a dream come true. The only obstacle is your doubt.
You gave birth and you are bringing to life a living being as a mother. After that, growing and selling plants seems like a picnic. Don't you think so?
Don't be afraid when the time comes to "take the bull by the horns". Otherwise you will forever wonder what if.....
You're not alone, you have great friends, a lot of knowledge, a huge following, a worthy family and a golden husband. And no more excuses.
I’m so jealous of Jings Hoya cabinet
Those stickers are really cute.
Lol Pudge’s socks😆
LOL! 😆 Angry Alice 21:02 what does Alice think of that name? So funny.
That white gravel reminds me of seeds from a cucumber. Lol 😂
It’s funny I can be watching tv in the living room then leave to go to the bathroom. When I come back I’m always amazed at how loud it is. I always turn it down. You just don’t know how loud it gets while you’re in there listening to it.
I want one. The one with the whisk flowers
Holy crap 3 hours wowza
That is a beautiful clenensiorum 😊
I couldn’t sit on the floor like you do. I’d be stuck down there. Lol 😂
Bless you!
So many times during this video I wanted to comment but I literally couldn’t find my phone for three hours… because I am one of the intended audience, letting you play in the background while I do my plant stuff. It’s literally so easy to just stop watching a video if you don’t like it, people’s lives are just so uninteresting that the only thing keeping them going is being a hater smh. I can’t believe people have the audacity to complain about your literal CHILD. “I ask you respectfully to just go away” was such a polite response, I would have been a little more vulgar. Anyway, just keep being you ❤
Try the variegated black velvet alocasia. It’s stunning with the variegation being quite pink.
Hi CharSasha🙂, I only know what you do on camera and upload to RUclips, but have you tried (or Dad) taking Archie out for some fresh air for like an hour before you plan to film? I don't know if it's the mental stimulation or the air itself or both but sometimes it makes children crash like they are coming down from a sugar high lol. Classical music (stimulates brain connections) or any music specially designated for filming time......hang in there Mom! You do deserve a treat ,lol, it doesn't have to be big.
I hate mealy bugs. They are the gift that keeps on giving. 😂
Team embrace the Archie content!!!!
You have the baby blues.
HI PUDGGGEEEEEE
Does the port Sherman ever come with out the Ralph linem? I always hear them as one plant not ever as separate plants.
Honesty is important in business.
I’m not a fan of gray but since I painted my living room turquoise it’s a hard color to match. So I have a gray leather recliner I like. Then I use a blanket that matches the wall color.
Happy working day
With slept training, do you get up when he wakes or let him tire himself out to fall back to sleep? I’ve never heard of sleep training or how it’s supposed to work
Hiiii! I was wondering what camera you use to record your videos? ❤
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Home Depot carries the humongous grow it LECA bags $55 bucks for the huge bags. I use it for my aquaponics.
I keep things in both my Amazon and Etsy carts for a loonnngg time before I pull the trigger and buy.
Do you look only for cover pots or glass vessels when you’re thrifting
How do you keto track of the plants and how they go to?
I watch the whole video and report something, throw away a BIG bag of leaf 💚Thanks💚
I had a puggle that had a cherry eye and I had it surgically fixed. Then his other eye developed a cherry I. She had to live with it because I had extra money by then.
Did you sell all the plants you took with you?
I need the versicularus(?). It looks stringy. 😊
Hi there waiting for a day lol
Wonderful video!!!! Please share where to get that shirt!!!! Oh my gosh! I love the Rolling Stones and plants! Eek!!!!!
I love the chatty plant care videos. Love it!!!!
Yes please ! 🙋🏾♀️ me too i looked at your links and couldn’t find it
Would love to buy another shirt from your collection, the t-shirt with Gordy is so soft and great quality print
I also searched high and low and did a Google image/shopping search and can’t find anything like it and I am a professional online shopper… Well, not really but basically. Please share, I live in Texas and am into social media so we will never be twinning! 😂❤😊
It’s from tropics narcotics! 🖤
@@unplantparenthood thank you so much for the plug 😍
For me and my ADHD I'd only have a problem understanding a conversation if the noise is in the same room. Like if Archie's in a different room I have no problem following! (Even in the same room, like last video with alice, as long as you don't try to speak through his noises so to say I can follow no problem ❤)
I bet it's still more work for you and harder to film with distractions so even if we all have no problem with some noise it's still gonna be more distracting for you filming so give yourself grace!
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Oh I wish I’d seen the l deculpe . Or that I’d seen the live sale. I’d have jumped on that plant.
10.99 for label tape isn’t bad. I use the Brother p touch and it’s like 18$ for a roll at Wally
Omg that’s a lot of plants to sell.
Hey if you got something that works to help Archie to sleep during the day, go for it.
Don’t apologize for too much anthurium. If your channel was up to me it would be ALL ANTHURIUM ALL THE TIME! I alter collecting for a while have decided to purge most of my Philos. They are a PITA compared to anthurium. Less huge philos mean more dark and broody anthurium
What is sleep training?
Oxyclean is the bomb, Charmaine.
Hi Sasha😊 I'm so sorry you are having some mental health difficulties. Take a moment and breathe. Have you tried meditation. Not for long periods of time but just 5mins can make a difference. I do progressive muscle relaxation because my brain slows down and I concentrate on my muscles not about what I'm thinking. I also do binaural beats meditation too. I have an 18 yr old and 10 yr old. The meditation has saved my mental health. Thought you my try it and see if it works for you.
33:26 people will comment things like that all the time in video game streams too, i've never understood it bc obviously someone hosting a stream isn't going to be able to read every single comment in the chat....
(i really enjoyed watching those live streams after the fact even though i wasn't able to make it when they were live!)
Archie just sounds like he’s talking to himself.
Three hours of video, is how many hours of filming
Fight or flight
Not sure why but it seems to me that people's comments and gripes about noises in the background have made you hyper aware of everything happening around you while you record, which makes sense...
Personally I don't give a damn about background noises. I get not everyone is able to focus on what you are saying but stuff it, you can't help it! stop apologising, you're doing great and ignore the complainers!! Archie making noises is fine, he's a baby, pudge making noises is also fine!!! not everything can be mitigated and that's fine!
We can't see the plants when you hold them up. The camera is on the three of you. Could you just hold it up in front of Charmaine?
She held it up for the live sale and not for the video 😉👍
These are the same plants we saw in the repotting just now where she held them into the camera
Right now I’m neglecting my plants. Some have gone 12 days without watering except the eight new Hoyas in my bedroom. Tomorrow I’ll water the ones in my kitchen. Then Monday it’s the living room. They really need to do it.
You’re getting rid of your hoyas😢
Mics working well. I can hear Archie loud and clear.
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