"She believed I'd forgive her. She knew me as a forgiving person" I'll translate that from female language to what she actually meant " She believes you're a weak 'nice guy' that's easily manipulated by sob stories into doing 'the right thing'" this woman has no respect for you, to her you're just her backup plan, something to fall back on until she meets someone better. She'll do it again, it's a matter of time. She doesn't love you; never has and never will. To her you're just a resource, she'll throw you enough of a bone to keep you hooked into the relationship.
The people who commented that you're a push over and let your ex wife walk all over you is because you forgave her on her first cheating and allowed her to lied to your Children that you fell out of love that's why you're divorcing not because of her cheating. And they are calling you coward because you have no firm decisions and boundaries to tell your ex wife NO and told your Children that the ultimate decision is on them, and offer your ex wife money 🤣🤣.
He gave her money, despite her cheating on him and then losing the money she already got from the divorce settlement. That’s bad enough. But yeah, if he does take her back which it sounds like he’s contemplating it then he is a lost cause.
This is what you get when you still have a communication with your cheating ex, other than communication for the children only. This "old school" doormat loves the drama!!
He got cheated in twice and still offered her money for a condo. She literally abandoned her children for a deadbeat. She's absolute trash and OP is trying to be an empathetic doormat.
" she didn't try to paint me as the bad guy to our children or blame me for our divorce so I appreciated that"...um, she made sure to leave out the part where she cheated on you, and didn't tell her children that, but you appreciate that she didn't blame you for her cheating? Wow dude, grow a pair!
@@emperorconstantinexipalaio4121 Did YOU? He gave her money despite her cheating even after the divorce all because of some sob story, ya’ disappointment.
I'm not going to lie it's hard for me to have sympathy for anybody here on the first story because I don't understand why the OP would just jump into marriage with somebody the only good thing that came out of it was his kids understandably I get that but I think the worstest person here and the most stupid out of the two of them is the ex-wife who thought holding out for somebody who she thought was going to remotely care to be with her who just used her for their own amusement and entertainment for sex clearly shows that it's a good thing that the OP didn't take her back like a dumbass even though I don't understand why he felt so conflicted to come under Reddit because this shouldn't even be what do I do here situation
Just because you will forgive someone doesn't mean you'll take them back. She divorced her husband and thought she could live a fairy tale life with someone else's husband. The person can't just think that their mistake is easily forgotten like pressing the rewind button. And the usual excuse that she couldn't stop herself. Unless someone hypnotized her I'm pretty sure she was in full control of what decision she made.
Moonbeam, he offered her money and even wrote her a check, despite the fact she cheated on him, she had already gotten a substantial amount of money in the divorce settlement yet let her former partner run off with most of it. Says a lot about you to not even see anything wrong with that. 🤣
@@princessmarlena1359 That's not simping. It's simply him being compassionate and patient, if a bit gullible and naive. Simping is when he puts the woman on a pedestal and worships her as a goddess and sees no flaws in her. He's not simping, though I don't agree with his actions in helping her out because the cheater deserves being in her current state of poverty. Especially when she got jealous of seeing him being with another woman, which is hypocritical considering what she did to him.
"She believed I'd forgive her. She knew me as a forgiving person" I'll translate that from female language to what she actually meant " She believes you're a weak 'nice guy' that's easily manipulated by sob stories into doing 'the right thing'" this woman has no respect for you, to her you're just her backup plan, something to fall back on until she meets someone better. She'll do it again, it's a matter of time. She doesn't love you; never has and never will. To her you're just a resource, she'll throw you enough of a bone to keep you hooked into the relationship.
that isn’t female language. that’s cheater language
She said she can’t pass up this opportunity 😂 like she was getting some free ps5s or something
Are you male or female
She knew he was a doormat
The people who commented that you're a push over and let your ex wife walk all over you is because you forgave her on her first cheating and allowed her to lied to your Children that you fell out of love that's why you're divorcing not because of her cheating. And they are calling you coward because you have no firm decisions and boundaries to tell your ex wife NO and told your Children that the ultimate decision is on them, and offer your ex wife money 🤣🤣.
If this mf takes her back i swear to God...
Fr. Lmao. We must find him and slap some sense into the man
his ex-wife belongs to the streets
He gave her money, despite her cheating on him and then losing the money she already got from the divorce settlement. That’s bad enough. But yeah, if he does take her back which it sounds like he’s contemplating it then he is a lost cause.
This is what you get when you still have a communication with your cheating ex, other than communication for the children only.
This "old school" doormat loves the drama!!
Stop being the good guy to a Cheater.
Guys, OPs name was leaked: Door Matt
Bro children are smarter than him smh
This guy is a SIMP to the maximum
He got cheated in twice and still offered her money for a condo. She literally abandoned her children for a deadbeat. She's absolute trash and OP is trying to be an empathetic doormat.
" she didn't try to paint me as the bad guy to our children or blame me for our divorce so I appreciated that"...um, she made sure to leave out the part where she cheated on you, and didn't tell her children that, but you appreciate that she didn't blame you for her cheating? Wow dude, grow a pair!
I love it when cheaters get cheated on.
He's s simp even after divorce.
Did you even watch the video? Lol
@@emperorconstantinexipalaio4121 Did YOU? He gave her money despite her cheating even after the divorce all because of some sob story, ya’ disappointment.
OP is a 🤡 😂
The cheater is smarter than the op lmao 😂
Bro ate her lies like some big macs
This MF says "complex family dynamics" 1 more time i swear bruh.
I'm not going to lie it's hard for me to have sympathy for anybody here on the first story because I don't understand why the OP would just jump into marriage with somebody the only good thing that came out of it was his kids understandably I get that but I think the worstest person here and the most stupid out of the two of them is the ex-wife who thought holding out for somebody who she thought was going to remotely care to be with her who just used her for their own amusement and entertainment for sex clearly shows that it's a good thing that the OP didn't take her back like a dumbass even though I don't understand why he felt so conflicted to come under Reddit because this shouldn't even be what do I do here situation
Ops x didn't regret cheating, she regretted that her plans never had a chance.
If op takes her back, he will deserve everything coming to him.
I'd be surprised if Evelyn didn't have a drug problem of some sort
Yeeeah ill have to agree with everyone here...he's a big time simp.
So basically op refuse to let his children to move on from their deadbeat mother
If someone doesn't love you anymore LET THEM GO!!! Facts 💯💯💯
Milla and Evelyn 2 different girls
Just because you will forgive someone doesn't mean you'll take them back. She divorced her husband and thought she could live a fairy tale life with someone else's husband. The person can't just think that their mistake is easily forgotten like pressing the rewind button. And the usual excuse that she couldn't stop herself. Unless someone hypnotized her I'm pretty sure she was in full control of what decision she made.
she never loved him she was content with him, can tell this was not a romantic relationship, but a relationship of convenience.
She was in a *fwb sitcom* but with you marriage or else nothing!? 🚩🚩🚩
She went from Mila to Evelyn. Did anybody notice that?
I guarantee the guy is French because they have an f up concept of marriage
Hope mc and family is doing well ❤
Tf im wasting my time for a simp story
What doed op and ap mean
bros da grandpa of his kids
How tf is this guy a simp? Did y’all even watch the video the whole way through?
Moonbeam, he offered her money and even wrote her a check, despite the fact she cheated on him, she had already gotten a substantial amount of money in the divorce settlement yet let her former partner run off with most of it. Says a lot about you to not even see anything wrong with that. 🤣
@@princessmarlena1359 That's not simping. It's simply him being compassionate and patient, if a bit gullible and naive. Simping is when he puts the woman on a pedestal and worships her as a goddess and sees no flaws in her. He's not simping, though I don't agree with his actions in helping her out because the cheater deserves being in her current state of poverty. Especially when she got jealous of seeing him being with another woman, which is hypocritical considering what she did to him.
@@Torag55 Nice cope, but no. He did put her on a pedestal by rewarding her cheating with money. He owes her nothing.
@@Torag55I KNOW RIGHT??? He seems like a good dude