If you live in metro Vancouver, you better find love on the other side of the border, like Washington state. Vancouver sucks indeed. I've been there, I've done that.
Yeah, I graduated about 6 years ago and most of my girlfriends I had was through University mutual friends and then after university was again though a social group. My parents are chill. I live with them but still have to pay rent and groceries and contribute. They are teaching me to be responsible and there's nothing wrong with that. But, IMO if you tell girls in Vancouver that you were living with your parents, they make generalizations. Not sure why, but that immediately is a red flag to them.
Im in Manitoba and it's common here for women to live with roommates or parents etc too it does make dating very hard because you can't have private space to be together
the dating pool here is very medicore. im a succesful guy, make over six figures, have a good personality, nice condo, good looks, and struggle to find dates.
Lol... I haven't been to commercial in years, but I always remember it as a very hippy/trashy place. One guy wanted to fight me for NO reason and the women there expect you to go out of your way not to bump into them on the sidewalk. I bet if your friend said that to a girl in northvan/westvan her response would be different.
@@alannamueller7474 lol ya maybe. commercial is that area where everyone thinks they're badass but aren't. Fake punk rock fans and hipsters everywhere. We don't usually go into that area but sometimes we just pass through on a bus.
Complimenting a girl by her looks is shallow, repetitive, and borderline creepy. Such a male-gaze approach. Study them away from their looks, is there a recognizable logo on her bag/purse, does she have a unique voice/accent that you find attractive? those things with a confident approach get the job done. The last time I hit up a girl in public she had an Alice in Chains "Dirt" Album Vinyl, that was like a magnet for me to approach the girl and talk.
@franciscocolin2008 Men are visual creatures. It's not creepy to notice a good-looking woman or compliment her on her looks. Period. The truth is, if a girl finds you attractive as well, it doesn't matter what you do as a guy.
It's kinda hilarious this video popped up for me upon my return from a strange encounter with a local (I'm just visiting here for a month). This lovely young lady was suuuuper flirty with me and very eager to talk the first 2-3 times we happened to cross paths in the building where I'm staying at a friend's place. I mean she looked at me like I was lunch - free, yummy lunch. And she seems genuinely interesting and fun as a person, so yesterday when I see her I ask if she wants to hang out and become more acquainted, not necessarily trying to make it a romance type thing (not that I'd be against it if there's chemistry, but I was not asking her on a date, per se). So she says, oh I'm "kinda seeing someone" in a town that is like a couple hours away. So I say, well, I'm not intending this as a date, so is making a friend going to interfere with "kinda seeing someone" over in that town? And she says, wellll, it kinda would. O_O Umm okaaaay, no worries then, you have a good one. And best of luck being a uniquely stunning, really interesting young lady who chooses to "kinda see someone" hours away who apparently can't handle her having friends. Like... what are you doing, girl? The call is coming from inside the house. Of course, now that I've explained that I was not asking her on a romantic date, and responded to her "rejection" in a supportive, unbothered manner, she will probably jump me in the elevator unprovoked...
I have a question, I have never lived with a roommate in my life, but it's the only option I have at the moment. Is it possible to have that private space you don't have at your parent's place?
It’s awkward, Vancouver poly community is thriving. Many married couples in open relationship. It seems like monogamous guys moved to Victoria or other places because Van is no longer affordable, therefore it’s forcing people into a strange triangular relationship.
There’s no win win, good looking guys aren’t interested in anything serious or not serious with me specifically, and the guys not usually my type I just… am not attracted to. I can’t force anything. All the guys I dated more than a few months (minus first relationship) have all been from the US.
Dating is hard in Vancouver because people don’t have basic trust to each other. There are so many sick dating format here such as casual dating or hook up. Those are most sick things in this world. My opinion it doesn’t matter how ugly and fat you are, as long as you look for something not serious. Vancouver is easy to find this type of sick stuff. One of my friends are over 400 pounds and she can find lots of guys in this city, of course nothing is serious. I don’t judge, just say Beautiful looking and good background won’t land you a serious relationship here. Vancouver is hard for quality people to find a quality and serious relationship. It seems no dating culture at all here. People eventually have to give up.
I saw some people in casual dating for several months, but the girl has no title/name in this relationship, just she is just nobody. Haha. They call “ see each other”. If just see each other, just see in coffee shop and outside , don’t out of any boundaries. In this casual dating, The guy doesn’t consider her as gf and put zero effort. The girl was afraid to confirm this title with guy since guys may disappear 😆
This. People don't even date here. Just sleep with strangers. Polyamory and fwb is common. Vancouverites are often sociopaths or people with mental problems. No point at all when the quality of the people is so low.
could you make a vedio about how we can caption and how to be professional about the stuff , and how we can gain more money tho i think to get in the thing , you know , and I like the way you explain things , i knoow this out of the subject you're discussing .
Yes it is very hard in India to find a date. - You must be an adult and financially independent thus you must have a job. Mostly, parents here only support for studies. They will support you if you marry(no live-in) a girl of their choice. - When it comes to love, many (I) don't know what to say and how to approach. - Sometimes I feel the need to have a relationship and sometimes I don't. - Relationship is hard to maintain as it requires time, effort and commitment. Relationships without commitment or future are considered unethical in India. Above condition may vary from person to person. It's been more than 2 years for me since I had a talk with a girl (outside of family) which lasted more than 2 minutes. My last statement was "Yes, roll no. 25's has gone for viva you are up next" . You are way luckier than me when it comes to love. Thank your God and rejoice. Thank you
Here’s a harsh truth: Absolutely not. In Bangladesh, I’m considered handsome and rich and knowledgeable and this makes me attracted to a lot of girls. If you are financially independent with a good career, that’s a huge plus. In Canada on the other hand, I’m seen as another brown guy or another immigrant. People think of white privilege even if they don’t speak about it.
Los Angeles. Women have endless options. I feel like we have to stand on top of our occupations and be a leader in our hobbies. Which is good and want to do all that eventually, but time-consuming.
My friend lived in Vancouver incl nanaimo during 5 years before hitting back to Sweden (with his canadian girl), never had any problem dating, of course this was back in 2010 so i dont know if VAN has change during this 12 years. Im in Calgary now and flying to Vancouver next week and have to Discover it myself, altough i learned that more inside the country you get the more social and friendly folks are, same is here in Sweden, just look at our capital Stockholm, NY attitude all day long😂😅
Almost ALL of the ENTIRE asian demographic (which is HUUUGEEE) STILL wear masks and this city is still 1 foot in the "OMG COVID!?!" mentality which is the OPPOSITE back in the prairies where i moved from, literally THE DAY they removed mask mandates EVERY SINGLE PERSON stopped wearing them in the prairies... not here in Vancouver sadly..
@@hyp3r-systems838 Bummer. I was never onboard with the whole mask thing, and it gets more and more silly with each passing day. Some people like obedience more than the scientific method, I think.
@@mokumboi19 No disconnect here. Hurricane Katrina wouldn't have caused as many deaths, but for mismanagement by human beings. The same is true of "the pandemic," where draconian and downright silly policies caused more deaths than would have been caused if humanity had refrained from doing so many stupid things in reaction to a serious-but-not-cataclysmic, man-made contagion.
The apps work fine as long you're not using them in Canada.
Why is that
Canadian women have astronomically high expectations
If you live in metro Vancouver, you better find love on the other side of the border, like Washington state. Vancouver sucks indeed. I've been there, I've done that.
Yeah, I graduated about 6 years ago and most of my girlfriends I had was through University mutual friends and then after university was again though a social group. My parents are chill. I live with them but still have to pay rent and groceries and contribute. They are teaching me to be responsible and there's nothing wrong with that. But, IMO if you tell girls in Vancouver that you were living with your parents, they make generalizations. Not sure why, but that immediately is a red flag to them.
Im in Manitoba and it's common here for women to live with roommates or parents etc too it does make dating very hard because you can't have private space to be together
I'm not single but I love to get to know your thoughts on Vancouver issues in general haha
Hi
This city honestly makes me feel sick of being alive.
Such a toxic city and unwelcoming in all over the city.
the dating pool here is very medicore. im a succesful guy, make over six figures, have a good personality, nice condo, good looks, and struggle to find dates.
Are you sure you are good looking? I think it is hard because most people are ugly.
Maybe you are not a nice person and you don't notice because you are a Narcissist... But yes Vancouver is bad
mm my friend just said "hey, you look good" to a girl with her friend (we were near commercial & broadway area) Her response "fuck off"
Lol... I haven't been to commercial in years, but I always remember it as a very hippy/trashy place. One guy wanted to fight me for NO reason and the women there expect you to go out of your way not to bump into them on the sidewalk.
I bet if your friend said that to a girl in northvan/westvan her response would be different.
@@alannamueller7474 lol ya maybe. commercial is that area where everyone thinks they're badass but aren't. Fake punk rock fans and hipsters everywhere. We don't usually go into that area but sometimes we just pass through on a bus.
Complimenting a girl by her looks is shallow, repetitive, and borderline creepy. Such a male-gaze approach. Study them away from their looks, is there a recognizable logo on her bag/purse, does she have a unique voice/accent that you find attractive? those things with a confident approach get the job done. The last time I hit up a girl in public she had an Alice in Chains "Dirt" Album Vinyl, that was like a magnet for me to approach the girl and talk.
@franciscocolin2008 Men are visual creatures. It's not creepy to notice a good-looking woman or compliment her on her looks. Period. The truth is, if a girl finds you attractive as well, it doesn't matter what you do as a guy.
@@sages101 who told you this stuff 😂
It's kinda hilarious this video popped up for me upon my return from a strange encounter with a local (I'm just visiting here for a month). This lovely young lady was suuuuper flirty with me and very eager to talk the first 2-3 times we happened to cross paths in the building where I'm staying at a friend's place. I mean she looked at me like I was lunch - free, yummy lunch. And she seems genuinely interesting and fun as a person, so yesterday when I see her I ask if she wants to hang out and become more acquainted, not necessarily trying to make it a romance type thing (not that I'd be against it if there's chemistry, but I was not asking her on a date, per se). So she says, oh I'm "kinda seeing someone" in a town that is like a couple hours away. So I say, well, I'm not intending this as a date, so is making a friend going to interfere with "kinda seeing someone" over in that town? And she says, wellll, it kinda would.
O_O
Umm okaaaay, no worries then, you have a good one. And best of luck being a uniquely stunning, really interesting young lady who chooses to "kinda see someone" hours away who apparently can't handle her having friends. Like... what are you doing, girl? The call is coming from inside the house.
Of course, now that I've explained that I was not asking her on a romantic date, and responded to her "rejection" in a supportive, unbothered manner, she will probably jump me in the elevator unprovoked...
I have a question, I have never lived with a roommate in my life, but it's the only option I have at the moment. Is it possible to have that private space you don't have at your parent's place?
It’s awkward, Vancouver poly community is thriving. Many married couples in open relationship. It seems like monogamous guys moved to Victoria or other places because Van is no longer affordable, therefore it’s forcing people into a strange triangular relationship.
I have a question. If I have a mad preference for Asian women, does it make me a creep or a perv? I live in vancity too
Dating here in Bangkok is very simple but the ladies are not serious 😂
You seem to be pretty good in front of the camera. I am from Saskatchewan and old and married. I don't know how your your video came up.
How recent is this information?
Still fresh, G.
There’s no win win, good looking guys aren’t interested in anything serious or not serious with me specifically, and the guys not usually my type I just… am not attracted to. I can’t force anything. All the guys I dated more than a few months (minus first relationship) have all been from the US.
What were they like?
Lol you’re probably a 6 only dating 9&10s
Where I'm from it's easy to get in short term relationship, long term is harder but it depends on what kind of people you looking for
If you think dating is bad in Vancouver, visit Seattle and your eyes will open.
Oh man, is it that bad? 😳
Tell us more.
mam i have came here from rev caption video that u have posted. Mam can u pls post the present video on rev. btw love from India.
Dating is hard in Vancouver because people don’t have basic trust to each other. There are so many sick dating format here such as casual dating or hook up. Those are most sick things in this world. My opinion it doesn’t matter how ugly and fat you are, as long as you look for something not serious. Vancouver is easy to find this type of sick stuff. One of my friends are over 400 pounds and she can find lots of guys in this city, of course nothing is serious. I don’t judge, just say Beautiful looking and good background won’t land you a serious relationship here. Vancouver is hard for quality people to find a quality and serious relationship. It seems no dating culture at all here. People eventually have to give up.
I saw some people in casual dating for several months, but the girl has no title/name in this relationship, just she is just nobody. Haha. They call “ see each other”. If just see each other, just see in coffee shop and outside , don’t out of any boundaries. In this casual dating, The guy doesn’t consider her as gf and put zero effort. The girl was afraid to confirm this title with guy since guys may disappear 😆
Casual dating is the best kind of dating. As a successful good looking woman I'm not interested in tying myself up to one guy.
This. People don't even date here. Just sleep with strangers. Polyamory and fwb is common. Vancouverites are often sociopaths or people with mental problems. No point at all when the quality of the people is so low.
@@mayluz444 When you hit the wall, no one will care about you. Have fun with your cats and no future children.
This happens across Canada
could you make a vedio about how we can caption and how to be professional about the stuff , and how we can gain more money tho i think to get in the thing , you know , and I like the way you explain things , i knoow this out of the subject you're discussing .
Great video, thanks!
Dating is always easy... if youre hot and rich 😂😂😂🥳
or just be white and tall
Vancouver dating is so toxic and fake online apps. Dating here is awful . I hate Vancouver so much.
Guess I'll be going to Montreal to find my soulmate.😢😢😢
I want to date someone in Vancouver. I'm so lonely.
Is dating hard where you're from? 😳
Yes it is very hard in India to find a date.
- You must be an adult and financially independent thus you must have a job. Mostly, parents here only support for studies. They will support you if you marry(no live-in) a girl of their choice.
- When it comes to love, many (I) don't know what to say and how to approach.
- Sometimes I feel the need to have a relationship and sometimes I don't.
- Relationship is hard to maintain as it requires time, effort and commitment. Relationships without commitment or future are considered unethical in India.
Above condition may vary from person to person.
It's been more than 2 years for me since I had a talk with a girl (outside of family) which lasted more than 2 minutes. My last statement was "Yes, roll no. 25's has gone for viva you are up next" . You are way luckier than me when it comes to love. Thank your God and rejoice.
Thank you
@@adarsh-singh-bisen Interesting insights on dating life in India! Thanks for sharing :)
Here’s a harsh truth: Absolutely not. In Bangladesh, I’m considered handsome and rich and knowledgeable and this makes me attracted to a lot of girls. If you are financially independent with a good career, that’s a huge plus. In Canada on the other hand, I’m seen as another brown guy or another immigrant. People think of white privilege even if they don’t speak about it.
Los Angeles. Women have endless options. I feel like we have to stand on top of our occupations and be a leader in our hobbies. Which is good and want to do all that eventually, but time-consuming.
Hi Jess iam your new subscriber after watching your video on how much RUclips paid you, I do vlogs around Thailand and iam here to stay.
Hello! 😊👋
My friend lived in Vancouver incl nanaimo during 5 years before hitting back to Sweden (with his canadian girl), never had any problem dating, of course this was back in 2010 so i dont know if VAN has change during this 12 years. Im in Calgary now and flying to Vancouver next week and have to Discover it myself, altough i learned that more inside the country you get the more social and friendly folks are, same is here in Sweden, just look at our capital Stockholm, NY attitude all day long😂😅
Heh. Being an exotic foreigner is a cheat code. His data does not count. :D
COVID is still a thing in Vancouver in 2022?
That's just sad.
Almost ALL of the ENTIRE asian demographic (which is HUUUGEEE) STILL wear masks and this city is still 1 foot in the "OMG COVID!?!" mentality which is the OPPOSITE back in the prairies where i moved from, literally THE DAY they removed mask mandates EVERY SINGLE PERSON stopped wearing them in the prairies... not here in Vancouver sadly..
@@hyp3r-systems838 Bummer. I was never onboard with the whole mask thing, and it gets more and more silly with each passing day.
Some people like obedience more than the scientific method, I think.
Holy crap. Words fail at your abject disconnect.
@@mokumboi19 No disconnect here. Hurricane Katrina wouldn't have caused as many deaths, but for mismanagement by human beings. The same is true of "the pandemic," where draconian and downright silly policies caused more deaths than would have been caused if humanity had refrained from doing so many stupid things in reaction to a serious-but-not-cataclysmic, man-made contagion.
Vancouver people are so weird. Its the rain