Cut the strings and save yourself. Hope is a dangerous thing. Simply ask them to call you if they change their mind. You don’t need to stay in each other’s life by watching stories posts etc. No need for strategic moves and games.
Chris, the way you rolled your eyes at the unfriending on Facebook made me laugh, I had to rewind. I was tempted, but I resisted the urge to unfriend. Cutting a long story short, all your stuff helped me a lot and I realised I can do a lot better and I'm happier! Thanks so much!
I won't. My wife of 18 years just divorced me and I am devastated. I have been in love with her since she was 15. She's 37 now. I can't imagine ANYONE ever being able to replace what I have lost. I probably won't ever date again. I'd never want to risk feeling this pain and rejection again by anyone.
Great question. Most times guys enter into a rebound relationship to distract them from the pain of the breakup. Most times rebounds don't last anyway.
I have a question. My ex decided he did not want to be with me anymore. He moved out with in three weeks of telling me . Now 6 mths later he unfriends me on facebook. The kicker is, he was the one for 4 mths texting daily, he would drop by unannounced. I started about 3 mths in not responding immediately,. But I believe he left because their was someone else. To be brutally honest I am better off, no more lies or mess. I was angry when he left because he left a huge mess. So why unfriend me, I never initiated conversation? I am insulted
Hi Chris!We broke up 3wks ago and i didnt contacted Him and i dont even post in fb and suddenly this day he unfriend me in fb,He was dump me by text,We have been 2 1/2years and later this few months we have arguments and fights i was getting a timing to reach out him but he unfriend me ,What should i do?i still contacted him or move on?thank u
Hi Chris, I wasn't sure which video I should post this under, so I posted it twice. I hope you can help me here. Amor advised me to send you a voice mail, but my story is a bit too long to fit into a 60 second time frame and I know I'm going to forget something if I try telling you that way. So here's my story and it's kind of complicated... I have this guy friend (I'm 32 and he will be 43 in a couple months) and we met back in 2010 working together on a film for the summer. We live on opposite coasts and we barely talked on social media for all 6 years I've known him. Once in a while he will respond to me, but it would be a short reply (as are tweets normally). He was happily married back when we met, and he has 3 daughters. I guess I should add in here that he is an actor. Though I will make it clear I wasn't familiar with his work despite his celebrity status. I liked him for his personality and I think he appreciated how honest I was with him about that. We met again at the premiere of the film we made. He hugged me as soon as our eyes met. He said he was so happy to see me again. He seemed just as excited to see me as I was to see him. But something seemed to be off about him that night and I couldn't figure it out. I asked him why his wife and daughters didn't come and he said his girls were back in school. 2 weeks later, I find out in the tabloids that he and his wife divorced and started to date his costar in the movie we worked on. To make things more complecated, we met again in late 2013, at a book signing he was having. At that time I was so confused of what we were since he never followed me on social media after he promised me that he would. His eyes sparkled when he laid eyes on me. He called out my name and said "hey buddy, it's good to see you here! I've missed you so much!" I knew then that he saw me as his friend and I figured I could trust his word. I think he noticed some changes I had made since the last time he saw me, including the fact that I lost 30 pounds, but he would never say anything about it. He just said that I look really good. I blushed, we both admitted that we missed each other and in the midst of teasing me about missing him, he found a note in my hand telling him my feelings for him. He asked me if I love him and I had to fight the tears telling him yes and that I'm sorry I ruined our friendship while being honest about my feelings. He hugged me close to his body, and assured me that I didn't do anything wrong and that we are still friends. He told me to never apologize for my feelings if they are real, because why apologize for something you can't change. I asked him if things didn't work out with his girlfriend, would it be possible he could give me a chance. He said that anything is possible and that maybe we will see someday. I told him that I would rather us be friends than make things awkward between us just because of my feelings. He smiled and said not to worry, that everything is good between us. He never once brought up his girlfriend in our conversation. He remembers details about me that my average friends wouldn't remember, he looked at me longingly and he held my hands when we talked. He asked me details about my plans for the day and if I wanted to work with him again in the future. He was planning to produce a few TV shows and movies in Boston and wanted me to help him once they got the projects in order. He also told me that he enjoys receiving messages on Twitter from me and that I make him smile, and that he promises to try to remember to follow me on Twitter. At that time, I decided I would continue to send him messages just as I always had. Also, he introduced me to his parents, his brothers-in-laws and sisters. We talked and I still keep in touch with his sisters (but I haven't talked to them since I have given him his space).I felt fantastic and beautiful that day, and I'm sure he felt the self-confidence radiate from me. But he still had his girlfriend and he never told me how he felt about me. He was happy he had me smiling again before I left the party (I had work the next morning). Then the trouble started last year, when I had this continuous argument with one of his fans on Twitter. It was ridiculous and I kept defending him for a month or so until I blocked her around September. Nothing happened after that. I stayed silent on social media as I just got a new job and stayed busy. In fact I noticed he seemed to be acting more distant on Twitter, so I decided to give him the no contact treatment hoping that maybe he was just having a bad week. I continued not contacting for 30 days or so up until his birthday when I sent him a message before I went off to work that morning. I kept contact at a minimum just to give us distance. Next thing I know, 3 weeks later I wake up Christmas morning and he blocked me. I don't know if he did this because of that fan said something to him, or if his girlfriend made him do that because she never liked me and felt jealous that he would even look at me. All I know is that I felt so lonely and afraid that I lost him forever. I opened a separate Twitter account and he opened a separate account also (at least I believe it is him) and we talk maybe once a month. To make that clear, we both have 2 accounts. I'm afraid though that I have lost him as a friend and that he will never talk to me again. My self-confidence went from high to low the day he blocked me last Christmas and it's been a struggle since then. He is no longer with his girlfriend after dating her for these years, and officially called it quits as of the beginning of this year. I have tried to talk to him during these past few months since they broke up, hoping that maybe he will talk to me now that he was single. 6 months later, now he is dating another girl. But I think it's a rebound since she is 20 years younger than him (and when I talked to his sister the week before, she told me he was still upset over the breakup and to give him time). I decided to make myself have a "no contact" time for about 3 to 6 months or so until I get myself back to being the self-confident woman that he saw he last time we met 2 years ago. I figured that if he sees me missing from social media after I tried to get his attention and apologize for making him uncomfortable, maybe he will miss me and want to talk about this. I still talk to him through this other account about once a month. He says that he misses me and asks how I am doing. But he acts like he never blocked me on his main account, and when I mention him blocking me he ignores the question and asks me another question. So I don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt his feelings because I know he is a sensitive person just as much as I am. I wouldn't necessarily call him my ex since we never had a real romantic relationship. But I'm hoping you can give me some advice here anyways. He knows I love him, and I have a feeling that he had more-than-friendly feelings for me. Would 3 months of silence work for me, or would I be risking him forgetting about me altogether? Does being long distance make the chances of reconciliation of our friendship almost impossible? I'm sorry that my message is so long, but I would appreciate your help! Thank you! Donna
Good evening sir. My ex keep texting after the break up two years after, saying nothing important than greetings. So I decided to ask him to stop communicating with me and i unfriend him on Facebook. Please am feeling bad about it. What can I do? Thanks
hey Chris and to your wife,yeah your coaching such a very helpful for me when I am right now at the stage of recovery with my ex..but yeah,for me I just decided by my own to unfriend my ex...so how should I handle this now?thanks
Chris Seiter ...yeah it's really great coaching message for.me..well,I did a lot of wrong actions during break up with my ex and all I have been taken from you coaching should be the best I had from the very start,but finally atm...I am at no contact stage,but one thing I did again was that I have sent him a message him a message one of our media accounts,and there was changing of messages,for the reason that I need a very important information from him for there is something I have to settle for him and the complete valid information of him I badly needed..then I got it..so then after that and some few negative words has been delivered from me to him and on his h.it's just nothing related about the past break up...so then I finally stopped again contacting him..and that was happened after a week of no.contact with him and yeahi really did unfriend him on facebook but it's just my own decision just to mke myself like free if thingking of what he is up.to on social media😊...so yeah ur coaching I can say is one ofthe best among all the ex bf recovery coaching i`ve followed,via you tube,yeah..well I highly recommend this page or to linkto anyone who needs it too..thanks much.. #it's jessa from hongkong😊
I need help on my breakup with my ex boyfriend..I want him back but he didn't wanna take me back and it's been a month already. he says he still loves me and misses everything we do but he doesn't want me back. I don't know what to do.
My ex broke up with me because he wanted to focus on his studies. I didnt unfriend him on facebook and did no contact. But he unfriended me this week. I remained calm, but it bothered me why he unfriended me NOW, 3 months after our breakup. He even used to watch my messenger stories almost everyday. What do I do? Do I still have a chance of getting him back?
@@chrisseitercoaching I did no contact for almost 45 days, asking him if he's interested in coming to catch up with some old friends and he said no. I tried making small talk but he seemed unresponsive, so I took a step back and decided to try again next time. And I feel that that next time isn't going to come since my only tool in contacting him is through messenger (we dont really text a lot and I dont have his number), and I feel that it would be weird if I sent him a message through messenger even when he unfriended me.
Hey there.....yeah, it can get really confusing out there for women and men. We sometimes don't know how we will feel about something until long after it happens. We are not always so good at figuring out our own needs.
Chris Seiter i unfriended my ex cause he didn't do anything he promised me .. he began no contact but when i called him to tell him i want to see him for the last time he was sad and asured he doesn't want break up and he will arrange the meeting but after 2 dayes he didn't arrange the meeting or apologized . so i unfriend him. Am i was wrong? what shall i do if i want to get him back? somtimes i feel angry on him for not doing any thing he promised me .. somtimes i fell he is't important one for me cause he is too weak to do any step . but many times i feel i want to get him back as a friend on fb only cause i used to have him as a fb friend i really miss that .
Me and my ex boyfriend was friends on Facebook for a year and then this year on our friends Anniversary day he unfriended me on Facebook I saw a picture of his new girlfriend I think that's why he might of unfriended me
Hey Drewski! So think little steps. Things like that will come in time. The bigger issue is rebuilding communications and one needs a plan for that. Your tactics depend on where you are in the post breakup.
He always sees my snapchat and facebook stories until he unfriended me one day. He's in a rebound rel'p right now. He was the one who first said we should stay friends and he's not the deleting type. I said I can only be friends with him after I heal (which I put him on NC. Day 26 of NC, he unfriended and unfollowed me both on facebook and twitter). When I asked him if I did something wrong, he said "Oh I dont know I deleted you. I was deletinf people I dont interact with me. Maybe I accidentally deleted you too." Then eventually he said "because i thought we dont talk anymore". Now he wont add me back. But we still talk, hot and cold.
It sounds like the other woman is controlling his acts if that is unusual for him to do. The being there method will work wonders for you! She's already insecure about you and deleting you from social media wasn't an accident. www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/what-to-do-if-your-ex-boyfriend-moves-on-to-a-new-girl-video/
For a short time I felt like I wanted to let go & move on. My ex started using her fb again & I got tired of seeing it. I deactivated my Facebook account to keep myself from stalking and wasting time. I then seen a video which said do not block your ex if you want them back. So I reactivated my account & then the next day she unfriended me on fb & Snapchat . Why not block me ? I figured she had been stalking me as well. Is it safe to ask why she unfriended me ?
Hi Drewski! Sometimes it's best to keep those communication channels open in order to leverage them as a means to enhance your value. So unfriending a person can mean different things. Sometimes is a call out to you. Sometimes its an impulsive thing, etc.
Chris Seiter after I contacted her on a business matter, I asked her why.... and in a respectful way she said that she didn’t want to see my posts (my posts are old, some relationship like , some funny) but I’ve been in complete silence. I then said I haven’t posted anything and she said “oh” .... should I delete the relationship posts ? And doesn’t this mean that she still has feelings ? She could have just blocked me but then she would have no way to contact me then.... (ps she has been stalking my page) I’m wondering how close she is to opening up (3 months 1 week no contact )
Chris Seiter she has been viewing my stories. But we’re no longer friends so idk how she will keep up with me . She’s very very stubborn & doesn’t like accepting being wrong or having feelings , or is this just temporary until she refriends me ?
Possibly. Its hard for many exes not to social media stalk their former partner. Curiosity along with many other emotions can trigger this kind of behavior.
I unfriended him because I was hurt that he dumped me than a while after he blocked me but its funny because he was the one who messed up than he realized it than block me I don't think he will ever unblocked me but it doesn't really bother me no more I got use to it I guess been months already
It can take a while to get unblocked. Have you tried different strategies to get him to unblock you. Also when your blocked it means he still has feelings for you or he's trying to hide something from you. Most likely it's because he still has feelings.
@@chrisseitercoaching He sent me a friend request not long ago but before that he text my daughter on messenger that he needed to talk to me that if he can have my number than he reached out I was in no contact 15 months I was shocked that he said he had all my pics because no lie I thought he deleted all that when he left me n blocked me and no I didn't do nothing to get unblocked I just left him alone completely I gave him what he wanted me out of his life I guess he felt my absence to reach out.
Christ my ex boyfriend broke up with me 4weeks ago,i never contact him after that,but i keep posting in my facebook stories that im happy then he view it. Then suddenly he unfriend me. Im so confused and still im hurt💔💔
Hi Cherry B! So you are doing the right thing. He probably was tracking with your stories and just couldn't handle it. Don't take it personal. This ex recovery stuff is a process.
@@chrisseitercoaching After I did 15 months no contact n he blocked me n all when I finally gave up in knowing about him he sent me a fb request n also texted me n called me I was shocked but I don't reach out first at all I just reply.
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Cut the strings and save yourself. Hope is a dangerous thing. Simply ask them to call you if they change their mind. You don’t need to stay in each other’s life by watching stories posts etc. No need for strategic moves and games.
Chris, the way you rolled your eyes at the unfriending on Facebook made me laugh, I had to rewind. I was tempted, but I resisted the urge to unfriend. Cutting a long story short, all your stuff helped me a lot and I realised I can do a lot better and I'm happier! Thanks so much!
Chris Seiter hi Chris, how to do the no contact best if you work with yor ex?? I dont see him everyday but at least 3-4days per week.
I'm wondering why guys move on so fast and get in another relationship straight away ?
Chris Seiter Hi Chris, what should I do if my ex blocked me on Facebook :-(
I won't. My wife of 18 years just divorced me and I am devastated. I have been in love with her since she was 15. She's 37 now. I can't imagine ANYONE ever being able to replace what I have lost. I probably won't ever date again. I'd never want to risk feeling this pain and rejection again by anyone.
Great question. Most times guys enter into a rebound relationship to distract them from the pain of the breakup. Most times rebounds don't last anyway.
I'm so sorry to hear your in pain Steven! That is a very difficult situation to be in. Why did she want to divorce you?
@@chrisseitercoaching Thanks for answering that question I was wondering the same thing also
I have a question. My ex decided he did not want to be with me anymore. He moved out with in three weeks of telling me . Now 6 mths later he unfriends me on facebook. The kicker is, he was the one for 4 mths texting daily, he would drop by unannounced. I started about 3 mths in not responding immediately,. But I believe he left because their was someone else. To be brutally honest I am better off, no more lies or mess. I was angry when he left because he left a huge mess. So why unfriend me, I never initiated conversation? I am insulted
What if the guy who broke up with me unfriended and deleted my pics?
Hi Chris!We broke up 3wks ago and i didnt contacted Him and i dont even post in fb and suddenly this day he unfriend me in fb,He was dump me by text,We have been 2 1/2years and later this few months we have arguments and fights i was getting a timing to reach out him but he unfriend me ,What should i do?i still contacted him or move on?thank u
He unfriended me because I didn’t wish him happy birthday
That's okay it shows emotion towards you and thats a good sign.
you wanted your ex to suffer? That's known as schadenfreude
Hi Chris,
I wasn't sure which video I should post this under, so I posted it twice. I hope you can help me here.
Amor advised me to send you a voice mail, but my story is a bit too long to fit into a 60 second time frame and I know I'm going to forget something if I try telling you that way.
So here's my story and it's kind of complicated... I have this guy friend (I'm 32 and he will be 43 in a couple months) and we met back in 2010 working together on a film for the summer. We live on opposite coasts and we barely talked on social media for all 6 years I've known him. Once in a while he will respond to me, but it would be a short reply (as are tweets normally). He was happily married back when we met, and he has 3 daughters. I guess I should add in here that he is an actor. Though I will make it clear I wasn't familiar with his work despite his celebrity status. I liked him for his personality and I think he appreciated how honest I was with him about that.
We met again at the premiere of the film we made. He hugged me as soon as our eyes met. He said he was so happy to see me again. He seemed just as excited to see me as I was to see him. But something seemed to be off about him that night and I couldn't figure it out. I asked him why his wife and daughters didn't come and he said his girls were back in school. 2 weeks later, I find out in the tabloids that he and his wife divorced and started to date his costar in the movie we worked on.
To make things more complecated, we met again in late 2013, at a book signing he was having. At that time I was so confused of what we were since he never followed me on social media after he promised me that he would. His eyes sparkled when he laid eyes on me. He called out my name and said "hey buddy, it's good to see you here! I've missed you so much!" I knew then that he saw me as his friend and I figured I could trust his word. I think he noticed some changes I had made since the last time he saw me, including the fact that I lost 30 pounds, but he would never say anything about it. He just said that I look really good. I blushed, we both admitted that we missed each other and in the midst of teasing me about missing him, he found a note in my hand telling him my feelings for him. He asked me if I love him and I had to fight the tears telling him yes and that I'm sorry I ruined our friendship while being honest about my feelings. He hugged me close to his body, and assured me that I didn't do anything wrong and that we are still friends. He told me to never apologize for my feelings if they are real, because why apologize for something you can't change. I asked him if things didn't work out with his girlfriend, would it be possible he could give me a chance. He said that anything is possible and that maybe we will see someday. I told him that I would rather us be friends than make things awkward between us just because of my feelings. He smiled and said not to worry, that everything is good between us. He never once brought up his girlfriend in our conversation.
He remembers details about me that my average friends wouldn't remember, he looked at me longingly and he held my hands when we talked. He asked me details about my plans for the day and if I wanted to work with him again in the future. He was planning to produce a few TV shows and movies in Boston and wanted me to help him once they got the projects in order. He also told me that he enjoys receiving messages on Twitter from me and that I make him smile, and that he promises to try to remember to follow me on Twitter. At that time, I decided I would continue to send him messages just as I always had. Also, he introduced me to his parents, his brothers-in-laws and sisters. We talked and I still keep in touch with his sisters (but I haven't talked to them since I have given him his space).I felt fantastic and beautiful that day, and I'm sure he felt the self-confidence radiate from me. But he still had his girlfriend and he never told me how he felt about me. He was happy he had me smiling again before I left the party (I had work the next morning).
Then the trouble started last year, when I had this continuous argument with one of his fans on Twitter. It was ridiculous and I kept defending him for a month or so until I blocked her around September. Nothing happened after that. I stayed silent on social media as I just got a new job and stayed busy. In fact I noticed he seemed to be acting more distant on Twitter, so I decided to give him the no contact treatment hoping that maybe he was just having a bad week. I continued not contacting for 30 days or so up until his birthday when I sent him a message before I went off to work that morning. I kept contact at a minimum just to give us distance. Next thing I know, 3 weeks later I wake up Christmas morning and he blocked me. I don't know if he did this because of that fan said something to him, or if his girlfriend made him do that because she never liked me and felt jealous that he would even look at me. All I know is that I felt so lonely and afraid that I lost him forever. I opened a separate Twitter account and he opened a separate account also (at least I believe it is him) and we talk maybe once a month. To make that clear, we both have 2 accounts. I'm afraid though that I have lost him as a friend and that he will never talk to me again. My self-confidence went from high to low the day he blocked me last Christmas and it's been a struggle since then.
He is no longer with his girlfriend after dating her for these years, and officially called it quits as of the beginning of this year. I have tried to talk to him during these past few months since they broke up, hoping that maybe he will talk to me now that he was single. 6 months later, now he is dating another girl. But I think it's a rebound since she is 20 years younger than him (and when I talked to his sister the week before, she told me he was still upset over the breakup and to give him time). I decided to make myself have a "no contact" time for about 3 to 6 months or so until I get myself back to being the self-confident woman that he saw he last time we met 2 years ago. I figured that if he sees me missing from social media after I tried to get his attention and apologize for making him uncomfortable, maybe he will miss me and want to talk about this.
I still talk to him through this other account about once a month. He says that he misses me and asks how I am doing. But he acts like he never blocked me on his main account, and when I mention him blocking me he ignores the question and asks me another question. So I don't know what to do. I don't want to hurt his feelings because I know he is a sensitive person just as much as I am.
I wouldn't necessarily call him my ex since we never had a real romantic relationship. But I'm hoping you can give me some advice here anyways. He knows I love him, and I have a feeling that he had more-than-friendly feelings for me. Would 3 months of silence work for me, or would I be risking him forgetting about me altogether? Does being long distance make the chances of reconciliation of our friendship almost impossible?
I'm sorry that my message is so long, but I would appreciate your help!
Thank you! Donna
Good evening sir. My ex keep texting after the break up two years after, saying nothing important than greetings.
So I decided to ask him to stop communicating with me and i unfriend him on Facebook. Please am feeling bad about it. What can I do?
Thanks
How should I handle the fact of my ex adding me back on Facebook, she broke up with me then blocked me then unblocked and added me again?
hey Chris and to your wife,yeah your coaching such a very helpful for me when I am right now at the stage of recovery with my ex..but yeah,for me I just decided by my own to unfriend my ex...so how should I handle this now?thanks
I'm so glad we were able to help you! What part of the process are you at? That makes a difference in the advice I give.
Chris Seiter ...yeah it's really great coaching message for.me..well,I did a lot of wrong actions during break up with my ex and all I have been taken from you coaching should be the best I had from the very start,but finally atm...I am at no contact stage,but one thing I did again was that I have sent him a message him a message one of our media accounts,and there was changing of messages,for the reason that I need a very important information from him for there is something I have to settle for him and the complete valid information of him I badly needed..then I got it..so then after that and some few negative words has been delivered from me to him and on his h.it's just nothing related about the past break up...so then I finally stopped again contacting him..and that was happened after a week of no.contact with him
and yeahi really did unfriend him on facebook but it's just my own decision just to mke myself like free if thingking of what he is up.to on social media😊...so yeah ur coaching I can say is one ofthe best among all the ex bf recovery coaching i`ve followed,via you tube,yeah..well I highly recommend this page or to linkto anyone who needs it too..thanks much..
#it's jessa from hongkong😊
I need help on my breakup with my ex boyfriend..I want him back but he didn't wanna take me back and it's been a month already. he says he still loves me and misses everything we do but he doesn't want me back. I don't know what to do.
My ex broke up with me because he wanted to focus on his studies. I didnt unfriend him on facebook and did no contact. But he unfriended me this week. I remained calm, but it bothered me why he unfriended me NOW, 3 months after our breakup. He even used to watch my messenger stories almost everyday. What do I do? Do I still have a chance of getting him back?
Hi Molly....Sometimes guys do things for senseless reasons. Did you advance to the next stage after No Contact by trying to connect via texting?
@@chrisseitercoaching I did no contact for almost 45 days, asking him if he's interested in coming to catch up with some old friends and he said no. I tried making small talk but he seemed unresponsive, so I took a step back and decided to try again next time. And I feel that that next time isn't going to come since my only tool in contacting him is through messenger (we dont really text a lot and I dont have his number), and I feel that it would be weird if I sent him a message through messenger even when he unfriended me.
I understand Molly. Thank you for the update. Proceed in way that makes sense for your situation.
Must of the times woman dumps us guys but they are the ones who get butt hurt.
Hey there.....yeah, it can get really confusing out there for women and men. We sometimes don't know how we will feel about something until long after it happens. We are not always so good at figuring out our own needs.
Chris Seiter
i unfriended my ex cause he didn't do anything he promised me .. he began no contact but when i called him to tell him i want to see him for the last time he was sad and asured he doesn't want break up and he will arrange the meeting but after 2 dayes he didn't arrange the meeting or apologized . so i unfriend him. Am i was wrong? what shall i do if i want to get him back? somtimes i feel angry on him for not doing any thing he promised me .. somtimes i fell he is't important one for me cause he is too weak to do any step . but many times i feel i want to get him back as a friend on fb only cause i used to have him as a fb friend i really miss that .
i did that also to prevent myself looking for him
Me and my ex boyfriend was friends on Facebook for a year and then this year on our friends Anniversary day he unfriended me on Facebook I saw a picture of his new girlfriend I think that's why he might of unfriended me
I agree that is why he unfriended you
but how did you get her back as a friend on fb ? what happened with her after you unfriended her?
Hey Drewski! So think little steps. Things like that will come in time. The bigger issue is rebuilding communications and one needs a plan for that. Your tactics depend on where you are in the post breakup.
He always sees my snapchat and facebook stories until he unfriended me one day. He's in a rebound rel'p right now. He was the one who first said we should stay friends and he's not the deleting type. I said I can only be friends with him after I heal (which I put him on NC. Day 26 of NC, he unfriended and unfollowed me both on facebook and twitter). When I asked him if I did something wrong, he said "Oh I dont know I deleted you. I was deletinf people I dont interact with me. Maybe I accidentally deleted you too." Then eventually he said "because i thought we dont talk anymore". Now he wont add me back. But we still talk, hot and cold.
I mean snapchat and facebook. Not twitter. He was viewing all my stories. Til one day he deleted me.
It sounds like the other woman is controlling his acts if that is unusual for him to do. The being there method will work wonders for you! She's already insecure about you and deleting you from social media wasn't an accident. www.exboyfriendrecovery.com/what-to-do-if-your-ex-boyfriend-moves-on-to-a-new-girl-video/
For a short time I felt like I wanted to let go & move on. My ex started using her fb again & I got tired of seeing it. I deactivated my Facebook account to keep myself from stalking and wasting time. I then seen a video which said do not block your ex if you want them back. So I reactivated my account & then the next day she unfriended me on fb & Snapchat . Why not block me ? I figured she had been stalking me as well. Is it safe to ask why she unfriended me ?
Hi Drewski! Sometimes it's best to keep those communication channels open in order to leverage them as a means to enhance your value. So unfriending a person can mean different things. Sometimes is a call out to you. Sometimes its an impulsive thing, etc.
Chris Seiter after I contacted her on a business matter, I asked her why.... and in a respectful way she said that she didn’t want to see my posts (my posts are old, some relationship like , some funny) but I’ve been in complete silence. I then said I haven’t posted anything and she said “oh” .... should I delete the relationship posts ? And doesn’t this mean that she still has feelings ? She could have just blocked me but then she would have no way to contact me then.... (ps she has been stalking my page) I’m wondering how close she is to opening up (3 months 1 week no contact )
Chris Seiter she has been viewing my stories. But we’re no longer friends so idk how she will keep up with me . She’s very very stubborn & doesn’t like accepting being wrong or having feelings , or is this just temporary until she refriends me ?
Chris Seiter could she have unfriended me to get me to acknowledge it ? as I said the posts are old, why is she just NOW saying something about them
Possibly. Its hard for many exes not to social media stalk their former partner. Curiosity along with many other emotions can trigger this kind of behavior.
I unfriended him because I was hurt that he dumped me than a while after he blocked me but its funny because he was the one who messed up than he realized it than block me I don't think he will ever unblocked me but it doesn't really bother me no more I got use to it I guess been months already
It can take a while to get unblocked. Have you tried different strategies to get him to unblock you. Also when your blocked it means he still has feelings for you or he's trying to hide something from you. Most likely it's because he still has feelings.
@@chrisseitercoaching He sent me a friend request not long ago but before that he text my daughter on messenger that he needed to talk to me that if he can have my number than he reached out I was in no contact 15 months I was shocked that he said he had all my pics because no lie I thought he deleted all that when he left me n blocked me and no I didn't do nothing to get unblocked I just left him alone completely I gave him what he wanted me out of his life I guess he felt my absence to reach out.
Christ my ex boyfriend broke up with me 4weeks ago,i never contact him after that,but i keep posting in my facebook stories that im happy then he view it. Then suddenly he unfriend me. Im so confused and still im hurt💔💔
Hi Cherry B! So you are doing the right thing. He probably was tracking with your stories and just couldn't handle it. Don't take it personal. This ex recovery stuff is a process.
Thank you christ😊😊
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I blocked and deleted unfriendef him what should I do
What if he unfriended me and said he’d add me back on when he was ready???
Don't focus on that so much. Focus on re-attracting him after no contact.
Will he still snoop on my fb even though he blocked me n we not fb friends?
Yes most likely or he'll have someone do it for him.
@@chrisseitercoaching After I did 15 months no contact n he blocked me n all when I finally gave up in knowing about him he sent me a fb request n also texted me n called me I was shocked but I don't reach out first at all I just reply.